For the cars, assuming you haven’t gotten them yet, get EVs! No gasoline or oil changes needed! We have two of them (not Teslas) and we love them very much! The electricity cost to charge them is not a lot. We don’t have to charge them every day, more like twice a week. Just a thought.
Hi 👋 Marissa I m happy u r in Chicago I live in 963 square food apartment but it’s kind of big, we r downsizing to a 1 bed 1 bat It’s just my husband n me ❤ Love all ur videos and admire you so much Big hug 🤗 4 u
I feel that minimalist kids often need bigger spaces because they will play more imaginative games and need more space to be active with less. Personally the temptation to fill empty space is big but it also gives u room to put stuff when you are decluttering... I have 1425sq but honestly most of it is because we got it unrenovated so we got a deal but it's super expensive where we live. I'm glad I have space and time to declutter
@@Ripplesinthewaters We've got an EV and a hybrid, right now. The hybrid is more expensive to maintain, but uses so much less gasoline than a typical gas car, and that lets us do much longer trips (where I live does not have a great charging infrastructure).
After living in Germany for 2 yrs, we came to the US for a visit and when we went into Walmart, we had to leave, it was overwhelming how many choices we had in front of us. You definitely get used to a new way of life. After our time abroad, I prefer online and smaller store shopping.
I’m your new Filipino subscriber, we’re renting a 500 sq ft apartment for 5 years now, so your decluttering tips are very helpful with the clutter we accumulated for that 5 years ❤ I’m not sure if we will be minimalists, maybe not, but decluttering as your teaching will be my foundation to consistently doing it ❤
I never in a million years thought we would ever move out of our home. We have a 2,200 sqft home on a 1/2 acre lot and we are moving completely across the country to a 1,600 sqft home on a small lot. We are moving close to my brother, The schools are amazing and with our equity, we won't have a mortgage where we are going. So I keep reminding/reassuring myself that it's going to be good for our family. Cheers to new and unexpected journeys. ❤
3 comments: 1) I love your channel! 2) The person who asked if you uprooted your family back to the U.S. for CONTENT (!?) obviously didn't watch your previous video. 3) We have a 2,400 sq. ft. house (includes the garage). We don't use the den, the formal dining room, or the "office". The guest room is basically a storage room. We are just a few years away from retirement and are looking forward to downsizing ALOT!
1300sq ft, 4bed 2 bath, family of 6, beginning to shrink with the kids growing up and leaving. Always a lot of peer pressure to go bigger, and we could afford it, but we have everything we need in our basic home, in neighborhood where we know our neighbors, and we don't want to move again unless we have to. Appreciate your content, keep it coming!
As a German, I think it's hard to decide who is more friendly. I used to move around Germany from Northwest to East Germany and South Germany. The people are so different in every area. I had the hardest time in Berlin, when I went to Aldi and witnessed one man threatening another man to give him a liver punch if he would say just another word. I was so shocked!!!
As a Chicagoan who moved to the UK almost nine years ago I couldn’t agree more about the differences you mention. Both good and bed… Hope the transition back is as expected for you and the family.
I live in a 20 sqm (215 sqft) apartment in Taipei with my husband. We are not Taiwanese and came here to study in graduate school. We both like living as minimalists, and we could say that our apartment is quite small, but it is the best apartment for both of us because it is close to MRT. Renting in Taipei is quite expensive, but I love small apartments because it is easier to clean, and it even makes us more intimate 😁
For me it’s not always about the sqf. But the layout . I’ve been in 1200sqf apartments and felt I had more space than being in 1400sft. The other thing is lack of outdoor storage etc garage or outdoor shed ! That helps a lot
Totally agree! Layout is everything, and storage for things like tools and recreational items (or in our case, by husband's winter tires 🙃😭) can be pretty tough in an apartment.
I live in a 300 sq foot apartment w my partner. It is small, but we are both minimalists, great communicators, and are able to save money. We are young adults in an expensive city doing our best and it feels good! 😊
Our family of 4 live in 1500 square foot 3 BR/2 BR in CA. We have a 5k lot and love our outdoor space. We have enough space and feel grateful for it. I use reusable bags and have to work hard to avoid pre-bagged produce. It is heartbreaking truth. We strategically purchased near bus station, park, bike path and near shopping but still feel dependent on a car. Welcome to the USA!
It's definitely lay-out over square footage, I have lived in a 1200 square foot space that was comfortable but had a tiny kitchen, and I cook and bake all the time so didn't love that. We have spent most of our years, and raised 3 kids, in our 1800 square foot home. 3 bedroom, open living room and kitchen, and a den, 2 bathrooms. It is perfect. Now that we are empty nesters it doesn't feel too big and we have room for guests.
I grew up in relatively large apartments and there always was this idea that for one person you should have two bedrooms (one to sleep, one as office/guest room), and then add one bedroom for each additional person. I live in an area that works great for me but is not the most popular, so was able to find an apartment that fit with this guideline. But even though it was great to have that space during the pandemic, and I very often have house guests, I also feel a bit guilty taking up so much space. Having moved from Germany to the US, I totally agree with those culture shocks!
after living in France for years and going back for a visit the states a lady at a store asked me how I was doing and if I needed any help I stood there for a second in shock !then I remembered how friendly people are in the states and that It is normal to be asked that !! LOL
I admire your dedication as a wife and mother to have made this compromise to better your family. Your genuine soul and dedication shines through our screens and it is a pleasure viewing your life in every aspect. Thank you. xo
We live in a 4400 sqft Victorian home in rural Minnesota. We have four adult children, three are married, three grandchildren. We are the home base for our family and need all that room for when we gather for holidays or family reunions. I love my home! I call it The Stairmaster because it is four stories and I keep fit going up and down the stairs (very handy in the depths of winter for exercise). There are five bedrooms, 2.5 baths, a large kitchen, dining room, living room, a room for my sewing, and a full finished attic with a pool table, treadmill, storage, and guest room. Plenty of storage in the basement too. It all sits on just over an acre of land. Best part of the whole deal was that it cost $123.5K (in 2017). There are plenty of advantages to living in tiny town or rural America.
2 years ago we sold our 3200 sq ft house and moved to our country place that has a 670 sq ft living quarters within our 40' X 60' barn. It has been wonderful downsizing and getting rid of all the stuff we realized we never used and was able to give it to others that need it. Best move of our life!
I don't think that I've posted much on your channel. But I had to post. I'm sorry that you and your family were put into the position of moving back when you wanted to live the rest of your lives where you were in Germany. Sometimes things happen. However you seem to have made the best of things and moved forward positively, I know it's not always easy to do but you're doing it. I'm also one of the ones who are hoping to watch and learn more tips that you pass on from this latest move. Good luck. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Love your videos!!!!
We live in the UK in a 900 square feet home with two rooms downstairs (kitchen and lounge/diner), & four upstairs (bathroom, 2 small double bed rooms + a box room). Our home is the perfect size for me, my husband, son & our pets & we have zero interest in upsizing. It felt too big before we had our son, but it’s a good size now we have him. The only thing I’m jealous of that people have in other countries are pools! Only very rich people have pools here. Your new place looks amazing ❤️
The Americans I met in person were very friendly. I think it depends whereabouts you live. The British get a bad rep yet my grandad - from Derbyshire - is very forward, friendly, unreserved.
My family lives in a small home of under 1000sft. We love it! We can talk to each other across the house. Each person is able to have their own room with enough space for what we need. We are a close family and this home just fosters it further. We have talked about building an even smaller home too, but we are probably just going to turn the garage into an apartment for our oldest.
Thank you for the answers to these question. I like having you close-ish by. My nephew is lives in Chicago and is getting married in Dec. I do want to say that I liked your German family/program. I liked getting insights into daily living and I will miss that aspect of your show. Life is full of changes. And that's a good thing - almost always.
Welcome home! I’m a northwest Chicago suburbanite! I moved back after eight years away, and I also have that place-based memory experience. I just moved from a 5 bedroom home in Vermont to a few 1000-square-foot 2-bedroom apartments to a 648 square foot apartment. I felt very minimal in my last 1000-foot space, and now? I’m feeling uncomfortably maximal. I like having a smaller space, because I’m single and this reduces my carbon footprint. It helps me make better decision about what I need. Does a single person need NINE bath sheets? Even with company, am I ever going to have THAT MANY people needing bath sheets in my apartment? Um. No. I am asking myself, “What do I NOT need?” and dropping things off at the thrift store accordingly. And NOT repurchasing! It feels so good!
We live in South Wales UK, our home is less than 800sqft and we're a family of 10 (with only one bathroom, one toilet) 😅 It makes for an interesting life! So glad you made the move and you found your happy place 💜
Don't stress the whole decoration thing. It takes time to figure out how to adjust to a new life, and we all make mistakes while trying things out. It would be a treat to be on this journey with you. :D
As far as groceries- I love doing grocery pick up. I am also an HSP and this helps me reduce overwhelm. I also like going to places like Aldi and Trader Joe’s as there’s less choices.
I’ll second the pickup tip! Also helps eliminate a lot of impulse buying. Be aware they give you plastic bags tho. That’s why I cut it out post pandemic.
Welcome back to the States! I know what you mean about the people, in Germany, not being friendly! I lived in Germany for three years. I loved it and miss it, but the people were not friendly. My landlord was very friendly and helpful teaching me German of kitchen items . She would take me shopping with her. She loved my son, at the time he was 15 months old, she would babysit and just take him down to her apartment. We lived above her.. Her husband wall papered our whole apartment. I just bought the wall paper. Anyway what I was getting at, is in my case, the people didn’t like us Americans. Also we we’re Military, they did not like the military! Thought it was cute that you told us about your husband dancing in front of the mirror! I’ve followed you for a long time. Looking forward to your videos with your family living in the States! Take care! 💜🌻💜🌻💜🌻
I think we're (my wife and I) in about 900 sqft. In the UK, it is a fairly standard 3 bed terraced house. We use the third bedroom for my office. We wanted this place because it had a downstairs loo, my disability makes stairs hard work and I love not having to use the stairs as much. I wanted to be able to entertain and this has a great kitchen/dinner that opens into the garden so I can easily host 20 people. I grew up Idaho, US and our house was 3,270 sqft. It was definitely more space than our family of five needed, but I didn't notice when I lived there. When I'd visit my parents before they moved, it was a big shock. I used to joke that I needed to pack a bag for the long journey from my bedroom to the main living space of the house. 😃 I wish you and your family every happiness while you settle in your new (old) city.
My family of 4 lives in a 3,000 sq ft home. It's a very open floor plan and I love all the space we have. I have learned that as I declutter, I really value wide, open space so 3,000 ft doesn't seem too big.
I found your channel yesterday, already listened to the entire book - the life changing magic of tidying up- and now bing watching your content and decluttering the last two days while I have the time to myself!😂 thank you so much for the inspiration! ❤🙏
I live in a 700 sq ft condo with a cat and a dog. For the most part, I could probably downsize a bit as long as I still had storage like an attic or something for the bulky seasonal items, like shovels and winter gear. For me, square footage isn't as big of a concern as natural light and layout.
I live in a 1.270 square feet house, three bedrooms and two bathrooms. Currently my adult sons live here with me and my husband, but they have just finished their studies and are about to move. I look forward to turn one of their rooms into my creative space and the other one to a guest/exercise room. I think the size is perfect for our needs.
Our family of five is living in a 680sqft 1.5 bedroom house, and we finally outgrew it with our third child. Up until now it’s been perfect and cozy, but despite a somewhat minimalist approach to stuff it’s cramped 😅 We are sad to leave but we’ll be moving next year, looking to double the square footage for breathing room as our kids grow!
My husband and I are currently living in a two story 2200sf home with 3 bedrooms and 2.5 baths. For years we entertained a lot, hosted family Christmases and even had our niece live with us for about 5 years. We stopped entertaining right before Covid, family Christmases moved to my mom’s house and my niece has been moved out for 6 months. We have about 18 acres total (across 3 contiguous properties) and care take about 5 of it mowing, gardening, etc…the rest is woods). We have been renovating my husband’s childhood home which is now 1420sf, one story 3bd/2ba on 2 acres about 5 miles away with the intent to sell it. After much thought and many conversations, we have decided to move there in a quest to downsize our home, our stuff and the work of upkeep. We are so excited for this new chapter in our lives. Good luck with your new chapter.
We have just under 2000sqft. 4 bed 2.5 bath. We just bought this house and are expecting a second baby. We love this space right now. I think as our kids gets older we’d like a little bit of more room for like a bonus room or game/play room. But for having little kids and having family come stay with us often along with sometimes working from home I think it’s great.
We recently upgraded from 1400 sq ft to 2400 sq ft, but with less space for storage so we were forced to declutter 20 years worth of stuff! We got rid of A LOT! And although, some areas of our house still feel way too cluttered, overall, I love all the open space we have now. I'm sure at some point we may downsize again, but for now, I'm truly enjoying the space we have.
Mine is 300 sq feet. Bachelor suite. It was very difficult when I had to move all my stuff in here and I had storage downstairs. And I could hardly walk around and I realized that I tried selling things and I didn't make any money. It was a waste of my time in this last year. You put something on Facebook marketplace, and you wait. And you wait and then people don't show up. Or they want to get you to drop your price drastically. And I don't have time for that so I just gave it all to the thrift store. And I'm still giving stuff to the thrift store. Let somebody else benefit from it. I am used to moving ever since I was a child. My father was a carpenter and he would build another home and move into it every year. So I must stuff without exaggeration probably moves. Since I was a kid about 60 times and now I'm a senior. The reason I moved is For several reasons. The rent went up so high. The other Tenants were noisy. One place a landlord threatened to kill his wife. And we had cops and helicopters above the How's that I was renting with him and other tenants. Or the house would be sold after three months and nobody told me. There is a long list that I could even write a book about the perils of renting. By getting back to what I was originally trying to say is you get to a point in life. You don't want anything anymore, That is going to burden you in any way mentally physically emotionally you name it. All you basically need is a roof over your head. A bed to sleep in and food on the table. Anything else is extra. All you have to do is look at the homeless. What do they have? My dad used to say be grateful because half of the world don't have anything like we have. And with the wars and the earthquakes and all the things that are going on. In this world, we should not focus so much on what we have. So I decided start saying no to the things. I knew that were not going to help me in any way. And my goal was to remove something every day. And take it to the thrift store or put it in boxes, put it Outside. Out of sight out of mind. So for the last six months i've been doing this maybe eight months. And the more I removed, the more I could see. I needed to let go of. And the nice thing about this I never missed anything. And I started asking myself. Why did I bring it in the house in the first place? Because I became a horder and it was because of trauma that happened to me. I always say don't look back cause we're not going that direction. Focus on the outcome and enjoy the journey.
Family of four living in a single level 696 square foot house. We have 15 acres of land, and spend plenty of time outdoors. It’s enough for us! Low bills and a very small mortgage make it worth it.
I am amazed at the people who think you would uproot your entire family and life just to 'create content'. I'm so sorry you have to deal with these kinds of comments on top of everything else! Hope you have an easy transition through the reverse culture shock x
My and my husband lived in 700 sq ft apt for 17 years as about family was growing. Now we are family of four. We recently moved to a townhouse- 1500 sq ft with additional 600 sq ft based and I love it. We have a good memories from our apartment and I always kept it nice and tidy but I feel so much better in our bigger home. I’m an highly sensitive person and I need some space. I love spending time with my family but now I feel like we all have our own space as our girls have separate rooms now. It’s also easier for me to keep clean- who would think! Everything has its own space and I have huge basement that I’m planing to leave as empty as it can be. Marisa I wish you and your family all the best- you are kind person and I always enjoy watching your content. Sending love to this community 🥰
We have 3 children and movies into our home right when got married 8 years ago. It's a 2 bed 2 bath fenced in 1250sqft. We just refinished the kitchen and baths. We love it We joke all the time we wish we could just fit an extra bedroom in our house I think 1500sq ft is perfect for our family of 5 and we have a dog! ❤❤❤ happy for you! We are minimalist as well
Our house is 2 stories and a basement, about 2400 sf in total, and I think my family of 4 could live happily in half the space! We got such a good deal on it in 2012 and I can't imagine moving in today's market. The neighborhood works really well for the 4 of us. I thought I would have more kids, but in the end only 2 of 4 babies resulted in live births, so this is what we have. That said, in the past 11 years, we've had my brother, sister, college age foster daughter and my parents living with us. This channel helps me consistently declutter, even in the rooms we don't use all that often, to keep them from becoming store rooms.
Hi Marissa, so glad to see you this morning. My husband and I are in 2600 sq ft, downsized from 4000 sq ft 5 years ago. We are now 77 and 83 and this house is good for us since we have family that comes to visit Florida. we lived in Tokyo for 4 years and I was in total culture shock when we got back home.
I live in Berlin with my husband and our dog on 45sq ft with a small kitchen, a tiny bath, a bedroom, a living room and a little balcony with a view on water (plus a small room in the basement for some storage). We're looking for a bigger flat every now and then, but so far we found nothing with more space and a price we're willing to pay, just way too expensive. So I regularly declutter to keep the small flat nice and neat. We also have a garden with a cute cabin (25sq ft), that helps us a lot when feeling in need of a change of scenery, because being surrounded by nature is a very beautiful compensation. Also, coming back from there, the flat feels sooo big and the city so lively. Having these two places keeps us in balance and though it's not much space, I really like both. Everyone who comes to us, can't believe it's just 45sq ft and says the furniture is just so pleasantly arranged that it feels much bigger - that always makes me happy, because it's the result of years of optimization 😅😂
❤️🇨🇦. Being your in law’s age and having all our grands closeby I have so much respect for your decision and how hard leaving them would have been for you. The image of him dancing in his work shirt is so lovely. Sending you strength for the journey!
I brought my house for my garden rather than the house, my gardens just under 1 acre and I’m slowly learning how to grow all my own fruit and veg to give my family healthier food that I know has no chemicals on it. That was so much more important to me than the size of the house. To me the house is to big but my husband thinks it’s the perfect size. But long as I have my garden then I’m happy ❤
Happy for you. We moved from Alaska and live in FL in a 1800 sq ft house with a pool and fenced yard. Its comparable to our home in Alaska - except for the pool. Seems we traded the vistas of Alaska for the pool and beaches here. It’s a great launching off place for our maturing family of 5.
Fam of 7 with 4 dogs and living on 4 acres with 3500sq ft house and separate shop/office. We have chickens and honestly even when the kids are out the house is so well laid out it won't be too big for just the two of us. Love the new adventure!
My husband and I lived in a 991 sf apartment up until March. We felt the need for a bedroom for our newborn in the last month we were there, but otherwise it was perfect for us. When he was one month old, we moved into a 2700 sf Victorian house in the county. I find it hard to keep clean, especially with 3 kittens. It’s dust and flies constantly. But we’re so grateful for the space and ability to spread out. We have a huge laundry room/place for my husband’s server rack, butlers pantry for coffee and food storage. It will work out really well for our family in the future ❤
Welcome back to the North Shore. Our home is a 1064 sq ft ranch with a full basement. We have a large yard to enjoy. We're very happy with a smaller space. The basement is useful during the colder months for indoor activities.
I had no idea you are a speech and language pathologist. I respect your profession so much. My son had a processing disorder, and his therapist just opened up his world. I will never forget her. I hope one day you can go back to your profession. You are very important and wonderful people.
My son is on the spectrum as you possibly guessed. He was able to graduate with an associate’s degree and is gainfully employed and lives independently.
My home is probably only 1500 sq ft but since we gave up the lower level so my mother could move in, it feels we are overloaded with possessions, I am working on decluttering to feel more peace and calm in the area we have left.
1000 sqft for 3 adults. I have too much space!!! I don't think I would have the "junk accumulation room" if there wasn't an extra room in the first place! I also have a basement, which should be included in sqft, but it usually isn't counted.
We are living in 1175sqft flat which is devided to 2 floors. Me, my boyfriend and 2 kids (3 and 1,5yo). Right now it feels perfect for us. We struggeled with storage spaces but thanks to your videos we decluttered that much that it is not our problem anymore ❤️
I love your videos and so appreciate you taking us along for the ride! My husband and I have 4 kids and live in a two bedroom house. Our house is 1,090 square feet. Sometimes, it feels a little small, but in the long run, I think smaller is better. We have 2 acres, so the kids are able to run around and play outside, which makes a huge difference! The boys don't have a "bedroom". They sleep on a bunk bed in the "back room". Our back room is connected to the living room and kitchen. There isn't a door, but we put up a curtain to section it off. We have lived here for 12 years next month. We live in Washington. I went on my first plane ride a few months ago. In a week, my husband and I are flying to Chicago for the FabTech expo! 😄😄😄
We LOVE our current home. Didn’t plan on moving again. But…my son and his wife wanted to buy a larger home for their family that was newer. However, it came with 2 homes. One is 100 years old. There’s was built in 2016. It’s her family’s home place. Banks wouldn’t let anyone buy both so the kids asked us to buy the other one. We down sized with this current house. 1.) New house 925 sq ft. 2.) Current house 1579 sq ft We are empty nesters. My youngest daughter just moved out a month ago. This house house has 3 bedrooms, 3 bathroom and a large walk out unfinished basement. The one we are buying has 2 small rooms, a small livingroom 1 bathroom and a kitchen. Hallway for laundry. Thank goodness I’m okay with getting rid of stuff. But I made sure to tell my husband we HAVE to get rid of more because I will feel smothered and anxious if this old/new house has to much stuff In it. But it does have some kind and neighbors are farther away. Just have to watch for horse poop 💩 from the Amish horses. Lol 😂.
Just had to work the sq ft thing out as we're selling our home - 2200sq ft/204sqm!! And that's not including our outdoor deck area or backyard. We're moving to a slightly smaller place with a smaller yard (189sqm or 2030sqft so not that much smaller lol) because tbh the living spaces in this house are ridiculously large and it's wasted (or taken over with kids stuff which just seems to multiply when I'm not looking!) I'm looking forward to having a bigger ensuite, a bigger walk in robe, and having all the kids stuff in one single space instead of spread across 4 living areas as well as in their rooms. As another commenter said, it's less about space than about space usage and floor plan!
We live in 4500 sq ft - 4 bed, 4.5 bath for 2 adults and 2 kids. We are 5 min from downtown of a big city and have a paid off mortgage, so we won’t downsize until our kids are in college.
1160 square foot 3 bedroom 1 bathroom ranch for two adults, two teens, 2 dogs and 1 cat. We’ve lived in two previous homes that were 2000 square foot two stories with more bathrooms. We honestly prefer our small home! We moved here as a temporary rental and ended up buying it from family. We were so surprised at how much we fell in love with it when renting. It’s the simplicity of it all that we fell in love with. It’s so cozy, much easier to keep clean, we spend more time together and it has required us to simplify our belongings even more than we already had. 🏡 I love you that chose to move back to the Midwest. It’s a great place to live.
We raised two now-grown sons in a 1100 square foot, two bedroom, one bath home. The boys would have preferred to have their own rooms when they were older, but it forced them to get along, and they're still good friends in their 30s. Any number of times, I would have preferred a newer, nicer, bigger home, but now that it's just the two of us, having low house payments has showed us to be more open-handed with others.
We are a family of 6 living in a New York City 3BR, 1bath, 790 sq foot apartment. That's right! 😎 Oldest is away in college now, so really it's "just" the 5 of us. In terms of size, we would definitely welcome additional at least toilet, if not a full bathroom, a slightly larger kitchen and one room a bit bigger so that 2 teenagers can stay there together comfortably. As an Eastern European, I'm an "automatic" minimalist, so we don't have a clutter problem at all and the smallness of the place creates an automatic closeness as well, the positive kind. 🤗 I do like to say (as I am noticing in the comments here as well talking about "downsizing" from 4000 to 2000 sq feet) that everyone should try living in a small NYC apartment for at least a year, then they would be satisfied with much less footage for their house and happy there. 😌 (Thank you for not being judgmental about the American consumerism, but just simply stating the facts of how we can easily fall into it because of what we have access to).
So we actually moved out of an apartment that was around 100 sqm (1075 sq ft) because it just felt too big to me. We're a family of 3, and we moved to a smaller place that is 55 sqm (600 sq ft) with a balcony/porch area that adds another 12 m (130 ft) which we use like an extension of our apartment. I'm much happier in this size space for the three of us. My daughter has her own room, but we spend most of our time together as a family in the living/dining room area with a clear view to the kitchen. It just feels cozier and homier to me. I think it's the perfect size for a minimalist family of 3 (for us).
My husband, our two children, and I live in a 800 square foot home..its a little cozy but we make it work. I actually found your channel a couple years ago when I was searching for minimalism inspiration because we realized having 4 people and a ton of stuff in a tiny house was not gonna work 😂. Congratulations on the move and this next chapter in life!
My family of 4 lived in a 2-story house with a finished basement in the Midwest until last year. 2400 square feet. Now, my family of 3 moved across the country to the SE US into a 1400 square foot house - no basement or attic. We lost a lot of storage space - but 1400 sf - 3 beds/2 1/2 bathrooms gives us just the right amount of space & privacy for everyone as needed. Enjoy your homecoming to Chicago! Welcome back to the USA!
Just to say don’t take any notice of rude comments!!! I think it is the Germans’ loss that they didn’t have a decent job for your husband and the Americans’ gain! I am also really glad to hear your boys live their new school!😊😊😊😊. I know it’s hard for you to tear yourself away from your family in Berlin, but I wish you, your husband and your boys every possible success in Chicago. 😊😊😊🌸🌸🌸🌸🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀. Looking forward to hearing updates on how you are getting on!😊😊😊😊
For the square footage question, I think our house is about 2k, which is plenty! But the big thing I've noticed with square footage is that how it's organized makes as much or more difference than how much you have. For example, our kitchen (square footage wise) is pretty big but in a very narrow L shape, making it awkward to use, especially if more than one person is cooking at a time. I'd love to redesign it to make it a better flow when cooking, but I'm not sure how to do it without completely changing walls or doing other large expensive renovations.
Oh nice! Chicago! The city where you began together!! Welcome back to the states. On the subject of square footage, we are a family of five in a 2000 square foot double-wide modular rental (aka trailer, but modlular sounds nicer). It's really is the furthest thing from the house that my husband and I dream of, like old homes with good bones and character, even squeaky floors 😉, but it is spacious and bright and we've made it look nice. We really don't need more space. I can't imagine taking care of more house than this. We'd just fill it with stuff if we did! We have two living rooms - one doubles as our school room and we can pack a whole crowd of people in for a dinner. A bonus is that it is situated 18 acres of wooded land as well. You don't really need tons of room to have a beautiful, peaceful home.
Hello, Marissa. I'm certain you will be able to replicate the success you had decorating your flat in Germany (which was so perfect). I used it as a model to decorate my home, since we moved too. Best of luck on this new stage of your life❤ Can't wait for the following videos about it🎉
Our rental home just north of Austin is a two story 1,794 sqft home. It feels perfect for us right now with our two kids. They share the second largest room upstairs and the smaller room is a guest room/play room.
I love this video! (sorry for those rude people) You are so down to earth that its like listening to a close friend or neighbor. Glad you are back in the USA!! Of all the podcasts, you are the most inspirational, thought-provoking and so well-spoken!
We're family of 4 living in a 1000 sq ft 3 bedroom appartment with 60 sq ft balcony (In Europe). It's absolutely fine for us, I do not dream about upsizing. I love our appartment, especially its location as we have literally everything in a 10 minutes walking distance (preschools, schools, grocery stores, many playgrounds, forest, lakes, shopping center, hospital...). I wish you luck with finding your new dream home 🍀
We live in Cambodia (expat family), we are renting and just moved from 120sqm two bedrooms to 80sqm one bedroom. We found we weren't using the 2nd bedroom as our daughter sleeps in our room and just collected stuff in the spare room 🙄. We also have two dogs!! But 120 was too much house surprisingly for what we actually used. We now feel comfortable, with just enough space for 5 of us and surprise another baby is on the way 😂 so we are adapting but saving money and prioritizing what we keep in our space with us 🙏🏼 your videos help me to remember what is important and what is just filling space, thank you
Great video - love the idea of answering our questions! As for my home, it is a 648 Sq ft manufactured home. 2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom and combined kitchen-living room. Decided to downsize when I moved 5 years ago. Current home 1/3 the size of previous house. I LOVE the small space! Less to furnish, easier to clean, lower utilities- the list goes on and on! Sort of forced in to minimalist living with the downsizing, but so grateful for it now. You are so right - the marketing and consumerism push is so strong. Takes a conscious effort to resist. Looking forward to more videos as you settle in!
We recently purchased a smaller home, it is 864 square feet on the main level and an additional 864 square feet in the finished basement. Our last home was approximately 4300 square feet. I have a strong preference for a smaller home; less to manage, less to clean. Our youngest child is finishing college and will be moving out in a year or two. When she moves out, our basement will be largely unused. I think 800 to 1000 square feet is perfect for my husband and I. We’ve been slowly working on downsizing our possessions and furniture. I like to live in the space for a bit. It helps me decide which items are most useful in the new home.
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For the cars, assuming you haven’t gotten them yet, get EVs! No gasoline or oil changes needed! We have two of them (not Teslas) and we love them very much! The electricity cost to charge them is not a lot. We don’t have to charge them every day, more like twice a week. Just a thought.
Hi 👋 Marissa I m happy u r in Chicago
I live in 963 square food apartment but it’s kind of big, we r downsizing to a
1 bed
1 bat
It’s just my husband n me ❤
Love all ur videos and admire you so much
Big hug 🤗 4 u
I feel that minimalist kids often need bigger spaces because they will play more imaginative games and need more space to be active with less. Personally the temptation to fill empty space is big but it also gives u room to put stuff when you are decluttering... I have 1425sq but honestly most of it is because we got it unrenovated so we got a deal but it's super expensive where we live. I'm glad I have space and time to declutter
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@@Ripplesinthewaters We've got an EV and a hybrid, right now. The hybrid is more expensive to maintain, but uses so much less gasoline than a typical gas car, and that lets us do much longer trips (where I live does not have a great charging infrastructure).
I love languages..the fact that your boys will speak 3 languages is amazing..knowledge is power
Yes, knowledge is truly power.
I think it's amazing too.
After living in Germany for 2 yrs, we came to the US for a visit and when we went into Walmart, we had to leave, it was overwhelming how many choices we had in front of us. You definitely get used to a new way of life. After our time abroad, I prefer online and smaller store shopping.
I’m your new Filipino subscriber, we’re renting a 500 sq ft apartment for 5 years now, so your decluttering tips are very helpful with the clutter we accumulated for that 5 years ❤ I’m not sure if we will be minimalists, maybe not, but decluttering as your teaching will be my foundation to consistently doing it ❤
I never in a million years thought we would ever move out of our home. We have a 2,200 sqft home on a 1/2 acre lot and we are moving completely across the country to a 1,600 sqft home on a small lot. We are moving close to my brother, The schools are amazing and with our equity, we won't have a mortgage where we are going. So I keep reminding/reassuring myself that it's going to be good for our family. Cheers to new and unexpected journeys. ❤
3 comments:
1) I love your channel!
2) The person who asked if you uprooted your family back to the U.S. for CONTENT (!?) obviously didn't watch your previous video.
3) We have a 2,400 sq. ft. house (includes the garage). We don't use the den, the formal dining room, or the "office". The guest room is basically a storage room. We are just a few years away from retirement and are looking forward to downsizing ALOT!
I live on a 34 ft sailboat. Cozy and comfortable.
OMG he was dancing! I got tears in my eyes about that. So happy for him!
You are so generous with your audience. I really appreciate your candor.
1300sq ft, 4bed 2 bath, family of 6, beginning to shrink with the kids growing up and leaving. Always a lot of peer pressure to go bigger, and we could afford it, but we have everything we need in our basic home, in neighborhood where we know our neighbors, and we don't want to move again unless we have to. Appreciate your content, keep it coming!
As a German, I think it's hard to decide who is more friendly. I used to move around Germany from Northwest to East Germany and South Germany. The people are so different in every area. I had the hardest time in Berlin, when I went to Aldi and witnessed one man threatening another man to give him a liver punch if he would say just another word. I was so shocked!!!
I saw an old woman RAM someone else’s shopping cart 🛒 at top speed because they took too long in the aisle. 😅 I was shocked too!!! (It was at Lidl.)
Yesssss! I love Chicago. My favorite place in US
As a Chicagoan who moved to the UK almost nine years ago I couldn’t agree more about the differences you mention. Both good and bed… Hope the transition back is as expected for you and the family.
I live in a 20 sqm (215 sqft) apartment in Taipei with my husband. We are not Taiwanese and came here to study in graduate school.
We both like living as minimalists, and we could say that our apartment is quite small, but it is the best apartment for both of us because it is close to MRT.
Renting in Taipei is quite expensive, but I love small apartments because it is easier to clean, and it even makes us more intimate 😁
we live in a 656 sqft app. and love it... enough space for 2 persons. less cleaning less clutter PERFECT
Awww, welcome back to chicago!!! I am here also so excited 😊 🤗!!!
For me it’s not always about the sqf. But the layout . I’ve been in 1200sqf apartments and felt I had more space than being in 1400sft. The other thing is lack of outdoor storage etc garage or outdoor shed ! That helps a lot
Totally agree! Layout is everything, and storage for things like tools and recreational items (or in our case, by husband's winter tires 🙃😭) can be pretty tough in an apartment.
My home is 531 square feet and I love it
Our family of 4 live in a 2300 sq ft home and it's perfect.
I live in a 300 sq foot apartment w my partner. It is small, but we are both minimalists, great communicators, and are able to save money. We are young adults in an expensive city doing our best and it feels good! 😊
You're such a softy - but that's why we love you! ❤
Thank you 🥹🙏
Our family of 4 live in 1500 square foot 3 BR/2 BR in CA. We have a 5k lot and love our outdoor space. We have enough space and feel grateful for it. I use reusable bags and have to work hard to avoid pre-bagged produce. It is heartbreaking truth. We strategically purchased near bus station, park, bike path and near shopping but still feel dependent on a car. Welcome to the USA!
It's definitely lay-out over square footage, I have lived in a 1200 square foot space that was comfortable but had a tiny kitchen, and I cook and bake all the time so didn't love that. We have spent most of our years, and raised 3 kids, in our 1800 square foot home. 3 bedroom, open living room and kitchen, and a den, 2 bathrooms. It is perfect. Now that we are empty nesters it doesn't feel too big and we have room for guests.
I grew up in relatively large apartments and there always was this idea that for one person you should have two bedrooms (one to sleep, one as office/guest room), and then add one bedroom for each additional person. I live in an area that works great for me but is not the most popular, so was able to find an apartment that fit with this guideline. But even though it was great to have that space during the pandemic, and I very often have house guests, I also feel a bit guilty taking up so much space.
Having moved from Germany to the US, I totally agree with those culture shocks!
Welcome back to the States! We are a family of 3 (husband and baby) in a 1250 sq. ft. apartment (3 beds, 2 baths), and it is perfect for our needs.
after living in France for years and going back for a visit the states a lady at a store asked me how I was doing and if I needed any help I stood there for a second in shock !then I remembered how friendly people are in the states and that It is normal to be asked that !! LOL
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As a German Myself, I was shocked how friendly people in France were when I went to the grocery store 😂
@@majussel as an austrian, i was shocked how friendly people in germany are
@@tinylama as a Brit, I go to self-check out so I don't have to speak to anyone
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I admire your dedication as a wife and mother to have made this compromise to better your family. Your genuine soul and dedication shines through our screens and it is a pleasure viewing your life in every aspect. Thank you. xo
Awesome i live in melrose park near chicago.
Wow! I'm so surprised you didn't say Portillos hot dogs or Lou Milnati's pizza as your first food! ❤️
We live in a 4400 sqft Victorian home in rural Minnesota. We have four adult children, three are married, three grandchildren. We are the home base for our family and need all that room for when we gather for holidays or family reunions. I love my home! I call it The Stairmaster because it is four stories and I keep fit going up and down the stairs (very handy in the depths of winter for exercise). There are five bedrooms, 2.5 baths, a large kitchen, dining room, living room, a room for my sewing, and a full finished attic with a pool table, treadmill, storage, and guest room. Plenty of storage in the basement too. It all sits on just over an acre of land. Best part of the whole deal was that it cost $123.5K (in 2017). There are plenty of advantages to living in tiny town or rural America.
2 years ago we sold our 3200 sq ft house and moved to our country place that has a 670 sq ft living quarters within our 40' X 60' barn. It has been wonderful downsizing and getting rid of all the stuff we realized we never used and was able to give it to others that need it. Best move of our life!
Wow, that's a huge change! Just curious how many people do you have living in the space?
Luckily it’s just my husband and I with our dog.
I don't think that I've posted much on your channel. But I had to post. I'm sorry that you and your family were put into the position of moving back when you wanted to live the rest of your lives where you were in Germany. Sometimes things happen. However you seem to have made the best of things and moved forward positively, I know it's not always easy to do but you're doing it.
I'm also one of the ones who are hoping to watch and learn more tips that you pass on from this latest move.
Good luck. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Love your videos!!!!
Thanks so much for your comment and support. Love the positivity! 🙏
We live in the UK in a 900 square feet home with two rooms downstairs (kitchen and lounge/diner), & four upstairs (bathroom, 2 small double bed rooms + a box room).
Our home is the perfect size for me, my husband, son & our pets & we have zero interest in upsizing. It felt too big before we had our son, but it’s a good size now we have him.
The only thing I’m jealous of that people have in other countries are pools! Only very rich people have pools here.
Your new place looks amazing ❤️
The Americans I met in person were very friendly. I think it depends whereabouts you live. The British get a bad rep yet my grandad - from Derbyshire - is very forward, friendly, unreserved.
We downsized from 2000 to 1600 to 500 and I think 800-1000 would be perfect….basically what used to be the average size of a home in the U.S.
My family lives in a small home of under 1000sft. We love it! We can talk to each other across the house. Each person is able to have their own room with enough space for what we need. We are a close family and this home just fosters it further. We have talked about building an even smaller home too, but we are probably just going to turn the garage into an apartment for our oldest.
Thank you for the answers to these question. I like having you close-ish by. My nephew is lives in Chicago and is getting married in Dec. I do want to say that I liked your German family/program. I liked getting insights into daily living and I will miss that aspect of your show. Life is full of changes. And that's a good thing - almost always.
Welcome back to the Midwest!!!! I’m so glad you get come home during fall, so you can see all the beautiful colors! Sending you good vibes 😊
My favorite season! 🍂
Welcome home! I’m a northwest Chicago suburbanite! I moved back after eight years away, and I also have that place-based memory experience. I just moved from a 5 bedroom home in Vermont to a few 1000-square-foot 2-bedroom apartments to a 648 square foot apartment. I felt very minimal in my last 1000-foot space, and now? I’m feeling uncomfortably maximal. I like having a smaller space, because I’m single and this reduces my carbon footprint. It helps me make better decision about what I need. Does a single person need NINE bath sheets? Even with company, am I ever going to have THAT MANY people needing bath sheets in my apartment? Um. No. I am asking myself, “What do I NOT need?” and dropping things off at the thrift store accordingly. And NOT repurchasing! It feels so good!
We live in South Wales UK, our home is less than 800sqft and we're a family of 10 (with only one bathroom, one toilet) 😅 It makes for an interesting life!
So glad you made the move and you found your happy place 💜
Don't stress the whole decoration thing. It takes time to figure out how to adjust to a new life, and we all make mistakes while trying things out. It would be a treat to be on this journey with you. :D
As far as groceries- I love doing grocery pick up. I am also an HSP and this helps me reduce overwhelm. I also like going to places like Aldi and Trader Joe’s as there’s less choices.
Oooh, great tip!
I’ll second the pickup tip! Also helps eliminate a lot of impulse buying. Be aware they give you plastic bags tho. That’s why I cut it out post pandemic.
I love Trader Joe's!
We started doing grocery pickup during COVID. Now I'd never go back. It's SUCH a time saver.
I spend way less with grocery delivery- even with fees and tips. Also, it saves decision fatigue and time.
Welcome back to the States!
I know what you mean about the people, in Germany, not being friendly!
I lived in Germany for three years. I loved it and miss it, but the people were not friendly. My landlord was very friendly and helpful teaching me German of kitchen items . She would take me shopping with her. She loved my son, at the time he was 15 months old, she would babysit and just take him down to her apartment. We lived above her.. Her husband wall papered our whole apartment. I just bought the wall paper.
Anyway what I was getting at, is in my case, the people didn’t like us Americans. Also we we’re Military, they did not like the military!
Thought it was cute that you told us about your husband dancing in front of the mirror!
I’ve followed you for a long time. Looking forward to your videos with your family living in the States!
Take care!
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Outside of Chicago as well. Welcome back to the area!
Chicago’s such a great city. 👍🏼
what part?
Here in California, we use reusable bags for the groceries, stores do not provide plastic bags anymore.
I think we're (my wife and I) in about 900 sqft. In the UK, it is a fairly standard 3 bed terraced house. We use the third bedroom for my office. We wanted this place because it had a downstairs loo, my disability makes stairs hard work and I love not having to use the stairs as much. I wanted to be able to entertain and this has a great kitchen/dinner that opens into the garden so I can easily host 20 people.
I grew up Idaho, US and our house was 3,270 sqft. It was definitely more space than our family of five needed, but I didn't notice when I lived there. When I'd visit my parents before they moved, it was a big shock. I used to joke that I needed to pack a bag for the long journey from my bedroom to the main living space of the house. 😃
I wish you and your family every happiness while you settle in your new (old) city.
My family of 4 lives in a 3,000 sq ft home. It's a very open floor plan and I love all the space we have. I have learned that as I declutter, I really value wide, open space so 3,000 ft doesn't seem too big.
I found your channel yesterday, already listened to the entire book - the life changing magic of tidying up- and now bing watching your content and decluttering the last two days while I have the time to myself!😂 thank you so much for the inspiration! ❤🙏
I live in a 700 sq ft condo with a cat and a dog. For the most part, I could probably downsize a bit as long as I still had storage like an attic or something for the bulky seasonal items, like shovels and winter gear. For me, square footage isn't as big of a concern as natural light and layout.
I live in a 1.270 square feet house, three bedrooms and two bathrooms. Currently my adult sons live here with me and my husband, but they have just finished their studies and are about to move. I look forward to turn one of their rooms into my creative space and the other one to a guest/exercise room. I think the size is perfect for our needs.
Our family of five is living in a 680sqft 1.5 bedroom house, and we finally outgrew it with our third child. Up until now it’s been perfect and cozy, but despite a somewhat minimalist approach to stuff it’s cramped 😅 We are sad to leave but we’ll be moving next year, looking to double the square footage for breathing room as our kids grow!
My husband and I are currently living in a two story 2200sf home with 3 bedrooms and 2.5 baths. For years we entertained a lot, hosted family Christmases and even had our niece live with us for about 5 years. We stopped entertaining right before Covid, family Christmases moved to my mom’s house and my niece has been moved out for 6 months. We have about 18 acres total (across 3 contiguous properties) and care take about 5 of it mowing, gardening, etc…the rest is woods). We have been renovating my husband’s childhood home which is now 1420sf, one story 3bd/2ba on 2 acres about 5 miles away with the intent to sell it. After much thought and many conversations, we have decided to move there in a quest to downsize our home, our stuff and the work of upkeep. We are so excited for this new chapter in our lives. Good luck with your new chapter.
We have just under 2000sqft. 4 bed 2.5 bath. We just bought this house and are expecting a second baby. We love this space right now. I think as our kids gets older we’d like a little bit of more room for like a bonus room or game/play room. But for having little kids and having family come stay with us often along with sometimes working from home I think it’s great.
We recently upgraded from 1400 sq ft to 2400 sq ft, but with less space for storage so we were forced to declutter 20 years worth of stuff! We got rid of A LOT! And although, some areas of our house still feel way too cluttered, overall, I love all the open space we have now. I'm sure at some point we may downsize again, but for now, I'm truly enjoying the space we have.
Mine is 300 sq feet. Bachelor suite. It was very difficult when I had to move all my stuff in here and I had storage downstairs. And I could hardly walk around and I realized that I tried selling things and I didn't make any money. It was a waste of my time in this last year.
You put something on Facebook marketplace, and you wait. And you wait and then people don't show up. Or they want to get you to drop your price drastically. And I don't have time for that so I just gave it all to the thrift store. And I'm still giving stuff to the thrift store. Let somebody else benefit from it.
I am used to moving ever since I was a child. My father was a carpenter and he would build another home and move into it every year. So I must stuff without exaggeration probably moves. Since I was a kid about 60 times and now I'm a senior.
The reason I moved is For several reasons.
The rent went up so high. The other Tenants were noisy.
One place a landlord threatened to kill his wife. And we had cops and helicopters above the How's that I was renting with him and other tenants.
Or the house would be sold after three months and nobody told me.
There is a long list that I could even write a book about the perils of renting.
By getting back to what I was originally trying to say is you get to a point in life. You don't want anything anymore, That is going to burden you in any way mentally physically emotionally you name it.
All you basically need is a roof over your head. A bed to sleep in and food on the table.
Anything else is extra.
All you have to do is look at the homeless. What do they have?
My dad used to say be grateful because half of the world don't have anything like we have.
And with the wars and the earthquakes and all the things that are going on. In this world, we should not focus so much on what we have.
So I decided start saying no to the things. I knew that were not going to help me in any way.
And my goal was to remove something every day. And take it to the thrift store or put it in boxes, put it Outside. Out of sight out of mind.
So for the last six months i've been doing this maybe eight months.
And the more I removed, the more I could see. I needed to let go of.
And the nice thing about this I never missed anything.
And I started asking myself. Why did I bring it in the house in the first place? Because I became a horder and it was because of trauma that happened to me.
I always say don't look back cause we're not going that direction. Focus on the outcome and enjoy the journey.
Your commentators get really rude; you’re very nice to them and yes, I’m excited to see how you guys adjust and what I can learn!
Family of four living in a single level 696 square foot house. We have 15 acres of land, and spend plenty of time outdoors. It’s enough for us! Low bills and a very small mortgage make it worth it.
Hey! I live in Chicago! The city has changed a lot since you left. 😅
I am amazed at the people who think you would uproot your entire family and life just to 'create content'. I'm so sorry you have to deal with these kinds of comments on top of everything else! Hope you have an easy transition through the reverse culture shock x
My and my husband lived in 700 sq ft apt for 17 years as about family was growing. Now we are family of four. We recently moved to a townhouse- 1500 sq ft with additional 600 sq ft based and I love it. We have a good memories from our apartment and I always kept it nice and tidy but I feel so much better in our bigger home. I’m an highly sensitive person and I need some space. I love spending time with my family but now I feel like we all have our own space as our girls have separate rooms now. It’s also easier for me to keep clean- who would think! Everything has its own space and I have huge basement that I’m planing to leave as empty as it can be. Marisa I wish you and your family all the best- you are kind person and I always enjoy watching your content. Sending love to this community 🥰
We have 3 children and movies into our home right when got married 8 years ago. It's a 2 bed 2 bath fenced in 1250sqft. We just refinished the kitchen and baths. We love it We joke all the time we wish we could just fit an extra bedroom in our house I think 1500sq ft is perfect for our family of 5 and we have a dog! ❤❤❤ happy for you! We are minimalist as well
I’m grateful for the missed connections and the rerouted paths. it made sense over time.
8 years ago I downsized from an 850 square-foot condo to a 424. I absolutely love small space living.
Our house is 2 stories and a basement, about 2400 sf in total, and I think my family of 4 could live happily in half the space! We got such a good deal on it in 2012 and I can't imagine moving in today's market. The neighborhood works really well for the 4 of us. I thought I would have more kids, but in the end only 2 of 4 babies resulted in live births, so this is what we have. That said, in the past 11 years, we've had my brother, sister, college age foster daughter and my parents living with us. This channel helps me consistently declutter, even in the rooms we don't use all that often, to keep them from becoming store rooms.
Clearly ppl who think you are moving for content didn’t watch your last video! I’m just so happy to see you on YT every Sunday😊
Hi Marissa, so glad to see you this morning. My husband and I are in 2600 sq ft, downsized from 4000 sq ft 5 years ago. We are now 77 and 83 and this house is good for us since we have family that comes to visit Florida. we lived in Tokyo for 4 years and I was in total culture shock when we got back home.
I moved from Hong Kong back to the U.K. after 7 years and the reverse culture shock has been insane. I’m a year in and still struggling!!
I live in Berlin with my husband and our dog on 45sq ft with a small kitchen, a tiny bath, a bedroom, a living room and a little balcony with a view on water (plus a small room in the basement for some storage). We're looking for a bigger flat every now and then, but so far we found nothing with more space and a price we're willing to pay, just way too expensive. So I regularly declutter to keep the small flat nice and neat. We also have a garden with a cute cabin (25sq ft), that helps us a lot when feeling in need of a change of scenery, because being surrounded by nature is a very beautiful compensation. Also, coming back from there, the flat feels sooo big and the city so lively. Having these two places keeps us in balance and though it's not much space, I really like both. Everyone who comes to us, can't believe it's just 45sq ft and says the furniture is just so pleasantly arranged that it feels much bigger - that always makes me happy, because it's the result of years of optimization 😅😂
❤️🇨🇦. Being your in law’s age and having all our grands closeby I have so much respect for your decision and how hard leaving them would have been for you. The image of him dancing in his work shirt is so lovely. Sending you strength for the journey!
I brought my house for my garden rather than the house, my gardens just under 1 acre and I’m slowly learning how to grow all my own fruit and veg to give my family healthier food that I know has no chemicals on it. That was so much more important to me than the size of the house. To me the house is to big but my husband thinks it’s the perfect size. But long as I have my garden then I’m happy ❤
That sounds incredible!
Happy for you. We moved from Alaska and live in FL in a 1800 sq ft house with a pool and fenced yard. Its comparable to our home in Alaska - except for the pool. Seems we traded the vistas of Alaska for the pool and beaches here. It’s a great launching off place for our maturing family of 5.
Fam of 7 with 4 dogs and living on 4 acres with 3500sq ft house and separate shop/office. We have chickens and honestly even when the kids are out the house is so well laid out it won't be too big for just the two of us.
Love the new adventure!
My husband and I lived in a 991 sf apartment up until March. We felt the need for a bedroom for our newborn in the last month we were there, but otherwise it was perfect for us. When he was one month old, we moved into a 2700 sf Victorian house in the county. I find it hard to keep clean, especially with 3 kittens. It’s dust and flies constantly. But we’re so grateful for the space and ability to spread out. We have a huge laundry room/place for my husband’s server rack, butlers pantry for coffee and food storage. It will work out really well for our family in the future ❤
Welcome back to the North Shore. Our home is a 1064 sq ft ranch with a full basement. We have a large yard to enjoy. We're very happy with a smaller space. The basement is useful during the colder months for indoor activities.
I had no idea you are a speech and language pathologist. I respect your profession so much. My son had a processing disorder, and his therapist just opened up his world. I will never forget her. I hope one day you can go back to your profession. You are very important and wonderful people.
I’m so glad to hear that your son had success with his SLP! All the best and take care. ❤️
My son is on the spectrum as you possibly guessed. He was able to graduate with an associate’s degree and is gainfully employed and lives independently.
My home is probably only 1500 sq ft but since we gave up the lower level so my mother could move in, it feels we are overloaded with possessions, I am working on decluttering to feel more peace and calm in the area we have left.
1000 sqft for 3 adults. I have too much space!!! I don't think I would have the "junk accumulation room" if there wasn't an extra room in the first place!
I also have a basement, which should be included in sqft, but it usually isn't counted.
We are living in 1175sqft flat which is devided to 2 floors. Me, my boyfriend and 2 kids (3 and 1,5yo). Right now it feels perfect for us. We struggeled with storage spaces but thanks to your videos we decluttered that much that it is not our problem anymore ❤️
I love your videos and so appreciate you taking us along for the ride! My husband and I have 4 kids and live in a two bedroom house. Our house is 1,090 square feet. Sometimes, it feels a little small, but in the long run, I think smaller is better. We have 2 acres, so the kids are able to run around and play outside, which makes a huge difference! The boys don't have a "bedroom". They sleep on a bunk bed in the "back room". Our back room is connected to the living room and kitchen. There isn't a door, but we put up a curtain to section it off. We have lived here for 12 years next month.
We live in Washington. I went on my first plane ride a few months ago. In a week, my husband and I are flying to Chicago for the FabTech expo! 😄😄😄
Having that outdoor space makes a huge difference, I grew up on 4 acres and it was amazing 👏 Thanks for sharing!
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We LOVE our current home. Didn’t plan on moving again. But…my son and his wife wanted to buy a larger home for their family that was newer. However, it came with 2 homes. One is 100 years old. There’s was built in 2016. It’s her family’s home place. Banks wouldn’t let anyone buy both so the kids asked us to buy the other one. We down sized with this current house.
1.) New house 925 sq ft.
2.) Current house 1579 sq ft
We are empty nesters. My youngest daughter just moved out a month ago. This house house has 3 bedrooms, 3 bathroom and a large walk out unfinished basement. The one we are buying has 2 small rooms, a small livingroom 1 bathroom and a kitchen. Hallway for laundry. Thank goodness I’m okay with getting rid of stuff. But I made sure to tell my husband we HAVE to get rid of more because I will feel smothered and anxious if this old/new house has to much stuff In it. But it does have some kind and neighbors are farther away. Just have to watch for horse poop 💩 from the Amish horses. Lol 😂.
Just had to work the sq ft thing out as we're selling our home - 2200sq ft/204sqm!! And that's not including our outdoor deck area or backyard.
We're moving to a slightly smaller place with a smaller yard (189sqm or 2030sqft so not that much smaller lol) because tbh the living spaces in this house are ridiculously large and it's wasted (or taken over with kids stuff which just seems to multiply when I'm not looking!) I'm looking forward to having a bigger ensuite, a bigger walk in robe, and having all the kids stuff in one single space instead of spread across 4 living areas as well as in their rooms.
As another commenter said, it's less about space than about space usage and floor plan!
We live in 4500 sq ft - 4 bed, 4.5 bath for 2 adults and 2 kids. We are 5 min from downtown of a big city and have a paid off mortgage, so we won’t downsize until our kids are in college.
1160 square foot 3 bedroom 1 bathroom ranch for two adults, two teens, 2 dogs and 1 cat. We’ve lived in two previous homes that were 2000 square foot two stories with more bathrooms. We honestly prefer our small home! We moved here as a temporary rental and ended up buying it from family. We were so surprised at how much we fell in love with it when renting. It’s the simplicity of it all that we fell in love with. It’s so cozy, much easier to keep clean, we spend more time together and it has required us to simplify our belongings even more than we already had. 🏡 I love you that chose to move back to the Midwest. It’s a great place to live.
We raised two now-grown sons in a 1100 square foot, two bedroom, one bath home. The boys would have preferred to have their own rooms when they were older, but it forced them to get along, and they're still good friends in their 30s.
Any number of times, I would have preferred a newer, nicer, bigger home, but now that it's just the two of us, having low house payments has showed us to be more open-handed with others.
Chicago is the best!!! I e been there so many times being a Minneapolis girl. How awesome ❤
We are a family of 6 living in a New York City 3BR, 1bath, 790 sq foot apartment. That's right! 😎 Oldest is away in college now, so really it's "just" the 5 of us. In terms of size, we would definitely welcome additional at least toilet, if not a full bathroom, a slightly larger kitchen and one room a bit bigger so that 2 teenagers can stay there together comfortably. As an Eastern European, I'm an "automatic" minimalist, so we don't have a clutter problem at all and the smallness of the place creates an automatic closeness as well, the positive kind. 🤗 I do like to say (as I am noticing in the comments here as well talking about "downsizing" from 4000 to 2000 sq feet) that everyone should try living in a small NYC apartment for at least a year, then they would be satisfied with much less footage for their house and happy there. 😌 (Thank you for not being judgmental about the American consumerism, but just simply stating the facts of how we can easily fall into it because of what we have access to).
We have 2200 square feet, and it’s too big for me! But it’s necessary for this season, so here we are.
So we actually moved out of an apartment that was around 100 sqm (1075 sq ft) because it just felt too big to me. We're a family of 3, and we moved to a smaller place that is 55 sqm (600 sq ft) with a balcony/porch area that adds another 12 m (130 ft) which we use like an extension of our apartment. I'm much happier in this size space for the three of us. My daughter has her own room, but we spend most of our time together as a family in the living/dining room area with a clear view to the kitchen. It just feels cozier and homier to me. I think it's the perfect size for a minimalist family of 3 (for us).
My husband, our two children, and I live in a 800 square foot home..its a little cozy but we make it work. I actually found your channel a couple years ago when I was searching for minimalism inspiration because we realized having 4 people and a ton of stuff in a tiny house was not gonna work 😂.
Congratulations on the move and this next chapter in life!
My family of 4 lived in a 2-story house with a finished basement in the Midwest until last year. 2400 square feet.
Now, my family of 3 moved across the country to the SE US into a 1400 square foot house - no basement or attic. We lost a lot of storage space - but 1400 sf - 3 beds/2 1/2 bathrooms gives us just the right amount of space & privacy for everyone as needed.
Enjoy your homecoming to Chicago! Welcome back to the USA!
Just to say don’t take any notice of rude comments!!! I think it is the Germans’ loss that they didn’t have a decent job for your husband and the Americans’ gain! I am also really glad to hear your boys live their new school!😊😊😊😊. I know it’s hard for you to tear yourself away from your family in Berlin, but I wish you, your husband and your boys every possible success in Chicago. 😊😊😊🌸🌸🌸🌸🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀. Looking forward to hearing updates on how you are getting on!😊😊😊😊
For the square footage question, I think our house is about 2k, which is plenty! But the big thing I've noticed with square footage is that how it's organized makes as much or more difference than how much you have. For example, our kitchen (square footage wise) is pretty big but in a very narrow L shape, making it awkward to use, especially if more than one person is cooking at a time. I'd love to redesign it to make it a better flow when cooking, but I'm not sure how to do it without completely changing walls or doing other large expensive renovations.
Oh nice! Chicago! The city where you began together!! Welcome back to the states. On the subject of square footage, we are a family of five in a 2000 square foot double-wide modular rental (aka trailer, but modlular sounds nicer). It's really is the furthest thing from the house that my husband and I dream of, like old homes with good bones and character, even squeaky floors 😉, but it is spacious and bright and we've made it look nice. We really don't need more space. I can't imagine taking care of more house than this. We'd just fill it with stuff if we did! We have two living rooms - one doubles as our school room and we can pack a whole crowd of people in for a dinner. A bonus is that it is situated 18 acres of wooded land as well. You don't really need tons of room to have a beautiful, peaceful home.
Hello, Marissa. I'm certain you will be able to replicate the success you had decorating your flat in Germany (which was so perfect). I used it as a model to decorate my home, since we moved too. Best of luck on this new stage of your life❤ Can't wait for the following videos about it🎉
Our rental home just north of Austin is a two story 1,794 sqft home. It feels perfect for us right now with our two kids. They share the second largest room upstairs and the smaller room is a guest room/play room.
I love this video!
(sorry for those rude people)
You are so down to earth that its like listening to a close friend or neighbor. Glad you are back in the USA!!
Of all the podcasts, you are the most inspirational, thought-provoking and so well-spoken!
We're family of 4 living in a 1000 sq ft 3 bedroom appartment with 60 sq ft balcony (In Europe). It's absolutely fine for us, I do not dream about upsizing. I love our appartment, especially its location as we have literally everything in a 10 minutes walking distance (preschools, schools, grocery stores, many playgrounds, forest, lakes, shopping center, hospital...).
I wish you luck with finding your new dream home 🍀
We live in Cambodia (expat family), we are renting and just moved from 120sqm two bedrooms to 80sqm one bedroom. We found we weren't using the 2nd bedroom as our daughter sleeps in our room and just collected stuff in the spare room 🙄. We also have two dogs!! But 120 was too much house surprisingly for what we actually used. We now feel comfortable, with just enough space for 5 of us and surprise another baby is on the way 😂 so we are adapting but saving money and prioritizing what we keep in our space with us 🙏🏼 your videos help me to remember what is important and what is just filling space, thank you
Great video - love the idea of answering our questions! As for my home, it is a 648 Sq ft manufactured home. 2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom and combined kitchen-living room. Decided to downsize when I moved 5 years ago. Current home 1/3 the size of previous house. I LOVE the small space! Less to furnish, easier to clean, lower utilities- the list goes on and on! Sort of forced in to minimalist living with the downsizing, but so grateful for it now. You are so right - the marketing and consumerism push is so strong. Takes a conscious effort to resist. Looking forward to more videos as you settle in!
I am so happy for you and your family! Welcome back to America!
We recently purchased a smaller home, it is 864 square feet on the main level and an additional 864 square feet in the finished basement. Our last home was approximately 4300 square feet. I have a strong preference for a smaller home; less to manage, less to clean. Our youngest child is finishing college and will be moving out in a year or two. When she moves out, our basement will be largely unused. I think 800 to 1000 square feet is perfect for my husband and I. We’ve been slowly working on downsizing our possessions and furniture. I like to live in the space for a bit. It helps me decide which items are most useful in the new home.