DOWNSIZING to a Smaller Home...What's Next!? | minimalism + decluttering

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  • @AtoZenLife
    @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Don't forget to like 👍 this video + sign up to join the course waitlist here: landing.mailerlite.com/webforms/landing/u0i2s3

    • @Ripplesinthewaters
      @Ripplesinthewaters 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      For the cars, assuming you haven’t gotten them yet, get EVs! No gasoline or oil changes needed! We have two of them (not Teslas) and we love them very much! The electricity cost to charge them is not a lot. We don’t have to charge them every day, more like twice a week. Just a thought.

    • @yolandagonzalez3659
      @yolandagonzalez3659 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi 👋 Marissa I m happy u r in Chicago
      I live in 963 square food apartment but it’s kind of big, we r downsizing to a
      1 bed
      1 bat
      It’s just my husband n me ❤
      Love all ur videos and admire you so much
      Big hug 🤗 4 u

    • @ArtingFromScratch
      @ArtingFromScratch 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel that minimalist kids often need bigger spaces because they will play more imaginative games and need more space to be active with less. Personally the temptation to fill empty space is big but it also gives u room to put stuff when you are decluttering... I have 1425sq but honestly most of it is because we got it unrenovated so we got a deal but it's super expensive where we live. I'm glad I have space and time to declutter

    • @stephaniewillborn9701
      @stephaniewillborn9701 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Ripplesinthewaters😊😊😊

    • @KeziahMeg
      @KeziahMeg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Ripplesinthewaters We've got an EV and a hybrid, right now. The hybrid is more expensive to maintain, but uses so much less gasoline than a typical gas car, and that lets us do much longer trips (where I live does not have a great charging infrastructure).

  • @manasseh7
    @manasseh7 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +211

    I love languages..the fact that your boys will speak 3 languages is amazing..knowledge is power

    • @bhsprinkle
      @bhsprinkle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes, knowledge is truly power.
      I think it's amazing too.

  • @dianatraykov
    @dianatraykov 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    It’s not that Europeans aren’t friendly, we’re just blunt and real, we don’t act friendly on purpose.

  • @michelesusanne1
    @michelesusanne1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    After living in Germany for 2 yrs, we came to the US for a visit and when we went into Walmart, we had to leave, it was overwhelming how many choices we had in front of us. You definitely get used to a new way of life. After our time abroad, I prefer online and smaller store shopping.

  • @mrsayres11
    @mrsayres11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    I never in a million years thought we would ever move out of our home. We have a 2,200 sqft home on a 1/2 acre lot and we are moving completely across the country to a 1,600 sqft home on a small lot. We are moving close to my brother, The schools are amazing and with our equity, we won't have a mortgage where we are going. So I keep reminding/reassuring myself that it's going to be good for our family. Cheers to new and unexpected journeys. ❤

  • @FatemahIsOkay
    @FatemahIsOkay 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    after living in France for years and going back for a visit the states a lady at a store asked me how I was doing and if I needed any help I stood there for a second in shock !then I remembered how friendly people are in the states and that It is normal to be asked that !! LOL

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      🤣

    • @majussel
      @majussel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      As a German Myself, I was shocked how friendly people in France were when I went to the grocery store 😂

    • @tinylama
      @tinylama 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@majussel as an austrian, i was shocked how friendly people in germany are

    • @anniek2409
      @anniek2409 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      @@tinylama as a Brit, I go to self-check out so I don't have to speak to anyone

    • @claudialegnani9130
      @claudialegnani9130 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@AtoZenLife😂😂

  • @jannekh2
    @jannekh2 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

    You are so generous with your audience. I really appreciate your candor.

  • @suzi437
    @suzi437 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    As a German, I think it's hard to decide who is more friendly. I used to move around Germany from Northwest to East Germany and South Germany. The people are so different in every area. I had the hardest time in Berlin, when I went to Aldi and witnessed one man threatening another man to give him a liver punch if he would say just another word. I was so shocked!!!

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I saw an old woman RAM someone else’s shopping cart 🛒 at top speed because they took too long in the aisle. 😅 I was shocked too!!! (It was at Lidl.)

  • @DinosaurDylan8
    @DinosaurDylan8 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’m your new Filipino subscriber, we’re renting a 500 sq ft apartment for 5 years now, so your decluttering tips are very helpful with the clutter we accumulated for that 5 years ❤ I’m not sure if we will be minimalists, maybe not, but decluttering as your teaching will be my foundation to consistently doing it ❤

  • @sonjacruz54
    @sonjacruz54 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    1300sq ft, 4bed 2 bath, family of 6, beginning to shrink with the kids growing up and leaving. Always a lot of peer pressure to go bigger, and we could afford it, but we have everything we need in our basic home, in neighborhood where we know our neighbors, and we don't want to move again unless we have to. Appreciate your content, keep it coming!

  • @cossackgirl_ZP
    @cossackgirl_ZP 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yesssss! I love Chicago. My favorite place in US

  • @19hen70
    @19hen70 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    we live in a 656 sqft app. and love it... enough space for 2 persons. less cleaning less clutter PERFECT

  • @faithbell6147
    @faithbell6147 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    For me it’s not always about the sqf. But the layout . I’ve been in 1200sqf apartments and felt I had more space than being in 1400sft. The other thing is lack of outdoor storage etc garage or outdoor shed ! That helps a lot

    • @Jessica_Jones
      @Jessica_Jones 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally agree! Layout is everything, and storage for things like tools and recreational items (or in our case, by husband's winter tires 🙃😭) can be pretty tough in an apartment.

  • @kimb1452
    @kimb1452 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    We downsized from 2000 to 1600 to 500 and I think 800-1000 would be perfect….basically what used to be the average size of a home in the U.S.

  • @g.m.4877
    @g.m.4877 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    You're such a softy - but that's why we love you! ❤

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you 🥹🙏

  • @trumax33
    @trumax33 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3 comments:
    1) I love your channel!
    2) The person who asked if you uprooted your family back to the U.S. for CONTENT (!?) obviously didn't watch your previous video.
    3) We have a 2,400 sq. ft. house (includes the garage). We don't use the den, the formal dining room, or the "office". The guest room is basically a storage room. We are just a few years away from retirement and are looking forward to downsizing ALOT!

  • @francoiselafferty-hancock5112
    @francoiselafferty-hancock5112 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    OMG he was dancing! I got tears in my eyes about that. So happy for him!

  • @laurenriley23
    @laurenriley23 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +70

    As far as groceries- I love doing grocery pick up. I am also an HSP and this helps me reduce overwhelm. I also like going to places like Aldi and Trader Joe’s as there’s less choices.

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Oooh, great tip!

    • @ozywomandius2290
      @ozywomandius2290 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I’ll second the pickup tip! Also helps eliminate a lot of impulse buying. Be aware they give you plastic bags tho. That’s why I cut it out post pandemic.

    • @MyFocusVaries
      @MyFocusVaries 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I love Trader Joe's!

    • @MyFocusVaries
      @MyFocusVaries 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      We started doing grocery pickup during COVID. Now I'd never go back. It's SUCH a time saver.

    • @jbridges9574
      @jbridges9574 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I spend way less with grocery delivery- even with fees and tips. Also, it saves decision fatigue and time.

  • @vintageaddict4552
    @vintageaddict4552 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Awww, welcome back to chicago!!! I am here also so excited 😊 🤗!!!

  • @kylie1345
    @kylie1345 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I live in a 300 sq foot apartment w my partner. It is small, but we are both minimalists, great communicators, and are able to save money. We are young adults in an expensive city doing our best and it feels good! 😊

  • @lamerlelee8139
    @lamerlelee8139 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    2 years ago we sold our 3200 sq ft house and moved to our country place that has a 670 sq ft living quarters within our 40' X 60' barn. It has been wonderful downsizing and getting rid of all the stuff we realized we never used and was able to give it to others that need it. Best move of our life!

    • @abigailwilkerson5284
      @abigailwilkerson5284 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow, that's a huge change! Just curious how many people do you have living in the space?

    • @lamerlelee8139
      @lamerlelee8139 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Luckily it’s just my husband and I with our dog.

  • @ZennoreC
    @ZennoreC 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Don't stress the whole decoration thing. It takes time to figure out how to adjust to a new life, and we all make mistakes while trying things out. It would be a treat to be on this journey with you. :D

  • @LifeofWildRoots
    @LifeofWildRoots 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    We live in South Wales UK, our home is less than 800sqft and we're a family of 10 (with only one bathroom, one toilet) 😅 It makes for an interesting life!
    So glad you made the move and you found your happy place 💜

  • @raquel5401
    @raquel5401 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's definitely lay-out over square footage, I have lived in a 1200 square foot space that was comfortable but had a tiny kitchen, and I cook and bake all the time so didn't love that. We have spent most of our years, and raised 3 kids, in our 1800 square foot home. 3 bedroom, open living room and kitchen, and a den, 2 bathrooms. It is perfect. Now that we are empty nesters it doesn't feel too big and we have room for guests.

  • @Gabrielle.Steele
    @Gabrielle.Steele 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We have just under 2000sqft. 4 bed 2.5 bath. We just bought this house and are expecting a second baby. We love this space right now. I think as our kids gets older we’d like a little bit of more room for like a bonus room or game/play room. But for having little kids and having family come stay with us often along with sometimes working from home I think it’s great.

  • @ScottAndersonUK
    @ScottAndersonUK 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    As a Chicagoan who moved to the UK almost nine years ago I couldn’t agree more about the differences you mention. Both good and bed… Hope the transition back is as expected for you and the family.

  • @heather9390
    @heather9390 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Outside of Chicago as well. Welcome back to the area!

    • @ozywomandius2290
      @ozywomandius2290 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Chicago’s such a great city. 👍🏼

    • @jmsl_910
      @jmsl_910 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      what part?

  • @abbie.ireland
    @abbie.ireland 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The Americans I met in person were very friendly. I think it depends whereabouts you live. The British get a bad rep yet my grandad - from Derbyshire - is very forward, friendly, unreserved.

  • @bodytomindtospirit9630
    @bodytomindtospirit9630 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I admire your dedication as a wife and mother to have made this compromise to better your family. Your genuine soul and dedication shines through our screens and it is a pleasure viewing your life in every aspect. Thank you. xo

  • @karrieworkman3828
    @karrieworkman3828 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don't think that I've posted much on your channel. But I had to post. I'm sorry that you and your family were put into the position of moving back when you wanted to live the rest of your lives where you were in Germany. Sometimes things happen. However you seem to have made the best of things and moved forward positively, I know it's not always easy to do but you're doing it.
    I'm also one of the ones who are hoping to watch and learn more tips that you pass on from this latest move.
    Good luck. You're in my thoughts and prayers. Love your videos!!!!

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks so much for your comment and support. Love the positivity! 🙏

  • @eiyiyiyi
    @eiyiyiyi 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Hi Marissa, so glad to see you this morning. My husband and I are in 2600 sq ft, downsized from 4000 sq ft 5 years ago. We are now 77 and 83 and this house is good for us since we have family that comes to visit Florida. we lived in Tokyo for 4 years and I was in total culture shock when we got back home.

    • @whatruthreads
      @whatruthreads 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I moved from Hong Kong back to the U.K. after 7 years and the reverse culture shock has been insane. I’m a year in and still struggling!!

  • @meghan623
    @meghan623 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome back to the States! We are a family of 3 (husband and baby) in a 1250 sq. ft. apartment (3 beds, 2 baths), and it is perfect for our needs.

  • @Saaaa2324
    @Saaaa2324 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Family of four living in a single level 696 square foot house. We have 15 acres of land, and spend plenty of time outdoors. It’s enough for us! Low bills and a very small mortgage make it worth it.

  • @RockSeaPhoto
    @RockSeaPhoto 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

    My family lives in a small home of under 1000sft. We love it! We can talk to each other across the house. Each person is able to have their own room with enough space for what we need. We are a close family and this home just fosters it further. We have talked about building an even smaller home too, but we are probably just going to turn the garage into an apartment for our oldest.

  • @TheRozylass
    @TheRozylass 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We live in a 4400 sqft Victorian home in rural Minnesota. We have four adult children, three are married, three grandchildren. We are the home base for our family and need all that room for when we gather for holidays or family reunions. I love my home! I call it The Stairmaster because it is four stories and I keep fit going up and down the stairs (very handy in the depths of winter for exercise). There are five bedrooms, 2.5 baths, a large kitchen, dining room, living room, a room for my sewing, and a full finished attic with a pool table, treadmill, storage, and guest room. Plenty of storage in the basement too. It all sits on just over an acre of land. Best part of the whole deal was that it cost $123.5K (in 2017). There are plenty of advantages to living in tiny town or rural America.

  • @fiddlejillm
    @fiddlejillm 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My family of 4 lives in a 3,000 sq ft home. It's a very open floor plan and I love all the space we have. I have learned that as I declutter, I really value wide, open space so 3,000 ft doesn't seem too big.

  • @gracepatterson5904
    @gracepatterson5904 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Our family of five is living in a 680sqft 1.5 bedroom house, and we finally outgrew it with our third child. Up until now it’s been perfect and cozy, but despite a somewhat minimalist approach to stuff it’s cramped 😅 We are sad to leave but we’ll be moving next year, looking to double the square footage for breathing room as our kids grow!

  • @Willipik
    @Willipik 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome back to the Midwest!!!! I’m so glad you get come home during fall, so you can see all the beautiful colors! Sending you good vibes 😊

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My favorite season! 🍂

  • @Darkbillhook
    @Darkbillhook 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    We live in the UK in a 900 square feet home with two rooms downstairs (kitchen and lounge/diner), & four upstairs (bathroom, 2 small double bed rooms + a box room).
    Our home is the perfect size for me, my husband, son & our pets & we have zero interest in upsizing. It felt too big before we had our son, but it’s a good size now we have him.
    The only thing I’m jealous of that people have in other countries are pools! Only very rich people have pools here.
    Your new place looks amazing ❤️

  • @jubingkem
    @jubingkem 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I live in a 20 sqm (215 sqft) apartment in Taipei with my husband. We are not Taiwanese and came here to study in graduate school.
    We both like living as minimalists, and we could say that our apartment is quite small, but it is the best apartment for both of us because it is close to MRT.
    Renting in Taipei is quite expensive, but I love small apartments because it is easier to clean, and it even makes us more intimate 😁

  • @kjmav10135
    @kjmav10135 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Welcome home! I’m a northwest Chicago suburbanite! I moved back after eight years away, and I also have that place-based memory experience. I just moved from a 5 bedroom home in Vermont to a few 1000-square-foot 2-bedroom apartments to a 648 square foot apartment. I felt very minimal in my last 1000-foot space, and now? I’m feeling uncomfortably maximal. I like having a smaller space, because I’m single and this reduces my carbon footprint. It helps me make better decision about what I need. Does a single person need NINE bath sheets? Even with company, am I ever going to have THAT MANY people needing bath sheets in my apartment? Um. No. I am asking myself, “What do I NOT need?” and dropping things off at the thrift store accordingly. And NOT repurchasing! It feels so good!

  • @Erin-rg3dw
    @Erin-rg3dw 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I live in a 700 sq ft condo with a cat and a dog. For the most part, I could probably downsize a bit as long as I still had storage like an attic or something for the bulky seasonal items, like shovels and winter gear. For me, square footage isn't as big of a concern as natural light and layout.

  • @DuryeaAndWild
    @DuryeaAndWild 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I found your channel yesterday, already listened to the entire book - the life changing magic of tidying up- and now bing watching your content and decluttering the last two days while I have the time to myself!😂 thank you so much for the inspiration! ❤🙏

  • @RhondaTowanda
    @RhondaTowanda 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Welcome back to the States!
    I know what you mean about the people, in Germany, not being friendly!
    I lived in Germany for three years. I loved it and miss it, but the people were not friendly. My landlord was very friendly and helpful teaching me German of kitchen items . She would take me shopping with her. She loved my son, at the time he was 15 months old, she would babysit and just take him down to her apartment. We lived above her.. Her husband wall papered our whole apartment. I just bought the wall paper.
    Anyway what I was getting at, is in my case, the people didn’t like us Americans. Also we we’re Military, they did not like the military!
    Thought it was cute that you told us about your husband dancing in front of the mirror!
    I’ve followed you for a long time. Looking forward to your videos with your family living in the States!
    Take care!
    💜🌻💜🌻💜🌻

  • @liu.u
    @liu.u 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Here in California, we use reusable bags for the groceries, stores do not provide plastic bags anymore.

  • @AStrangeLine
    @AStrangeLine 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Me and my boyfriend just moved from a 85 m2 apartment to 62 m2. And we moved across the country. It might be smaller, but we have everything we need and it is SO much cheaper for us. We might have downsized in m2 but not in happiness. I had to declutter a lot when we moved and your videos helped me with that. So thank you 😊

  • @annamariabo8963
    @annamariabo8963 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I grew up in relatively large apartments and there always was this idea that for one person you should have two bedrooms (one to sleep, one as office/guest room), and then add one bedroom for each additional person. I live in an area that works great for me but is not the most popular, so was able to find an apartment that fit with this guideline. But even though it was great to have that space during the pandemic, and I very often have house guests, I also feel a bit guilty taking up so much space.
    Having moved from Germany to the US, I totally agree with those culture shocks!

  • @lindacgrace2973
    @lindacgrace2973 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am a widow, living alone, so I need very little space. I have a studio apartment that is slightly less than 400 square feet. It has an L-shaped kitchen with good prep space, enough room for a comfy bed, a couch a couple of guest chairs (one of which doubles as my desk chair) a spacious desk and about 8 linear feet of built in closets with mixed hanging and shelving storage. It suits me to a "T" and I spend many hours Googling to try and find a building authority that will let me fulfil my bucket list and build a 500 square foot tiny house. No luck so far, they all want more square footage than that. But I'm in a rental now and I really want to own so that I can have a dog and a garden.

  • @AmyEzekiel
    @AmyEzekiel 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think we're (my wife and I) in about 900 sqft. In the UK, it is a fairly standard 3 bed terraced house. We use the third bedroom for my office. We wanted this place because it had a downstairs loo, my disability makes stairs hard work and I love not having to use the stairs as much. I wanted to be able to entertain and this has a great kitchen/dinner that opens into the garden so I can easily host 20 people.
    I grew up Idaho, US and our house was 3,270 sqft. It was definitely more space than our family of five needed, but I didn't notice when I lived there. When I'd visit my parents before they moved, it was a big shock. I used to joke that I needed to pack a bag for the long journey from my bedroom to the main living space of the house. 😃
    I wish you and your family every happiness while you settle in your new (old) city.

  • @racheljank1163
    @racheljank1163 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Our house is 2 stories and a basement, about 2400 sf in total, and I think my family of 4 could live happily in half the space! We got such a good deal on it in 2012 and I can't imagine moving in today's market. The neighborhood works really well for the 4 of us. I thought I would have more kids, but in the end only 2 of 4 babies resulted in live births, so this is what we have. That said, in the past 11 years, we've had my brother, sister, college age foster daughter and my parents living with us. This channel helps me consistently declutter, even in the rooms we don't use all that often, to keep them from becoming store rooms.

  • @amma7244
    @amma7244 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    ❤️🇨🇦. Being your in law’s age and having all our grands closeby I have so much respect for your decision and how hard leaving them would have been for you. The image of him dancing in his work shirt is so lovely. Sending you strength for the journey!

  • @raynebair
    @raynebair 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We recently upgraded from 1400 sq ft to 2400 sq ft, but with less space for storage so we were forced to declutter 20 years worth of stuff! We got rid of A LOT! And although, some areas of our house still feel way too cluttered, overall, I love all the open space we have now. I'm sure at some point we may downsize again, but for now, I'm truly enjoying the space we have.

  • @pippas5808
    @pippas5808 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am amazed at the people who think you would uproot your entire family and life just to 'create content'. I'm so sorry you have to deal with these kinds of comments on top of everything else! Hope you have an easy transition through the reverse culture shock x

  • @kimhuitt5341
    @kimhuitt5341 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy for you. We moved from Alaska and live in FL in a 1800 sq ft house with a pool and fenced yard. Its comparable to our home in Alaska - except for the pool. Seems we traded the vistas of Alaska for the pool and beaches here. It’s a great launching off place for our maturing family of 5.

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m grateful for the missed connections and the rerouted paths. it made sense over time.

  • @adrianabernatikova7492
    @adrianabernatikova7492 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    We are living in 1175sqft flat which is devided to 2 floors. Me, my boyfriend and 2 kids (3 and 1,5yo). Right now it feels perfect for us. We struggeled with storage spaces but thanks to your videos we decluttered that much that it is not our problem anymore ❤️

  • @jeanarino732
    @jeanarino732 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My home is probably only 1500 sq ft but since we gave up the lower level so my mother could move in, it feels we are overloaded with possessions, I am working on decluttering to feel more peace and calm in the area we have left.

  • @jenprice861
    @jenprice861 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We have 2200 square feet, and it’s too big for me! But it’s necessary for this season, so here we are.

  • @creationslandscapedesigns
    @creationslandscapedesigns 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    8 years ago I downsized from an 850 square-foot condo to a 424. I absolutely love small space living.

  • @arlenekeith5452
    @arlenekeith5452 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I get overwhelmed shopping at big grocery stores. So much to choose from ! And I've never left the US. 😊

  • @julielee4331
    @julielee4331 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Our family of 4 live in a 2300 sq ft home and it's perfect.

  • @myname7303
    @myname7303 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My and my husband lived in 700 sq ft apt for 17 years as about family was growing. Now we are family of four. We recently moved to a townhouse- 1500 sq ft with additional 600 sq ft based and I love it. We have a good memories from our apartment and I always kept it nice and tidy but I feel so much better in our bigger home. I’m an highly sensitive person and I need some space. I love spending time with my family but now I feel like we all have our own space as our girls have separate rooms now. It’s also easier for me to keep clean- who would think! Everything has its own space and I have huge basement that I’m planing to leave as empty as it can be. Marisa I wish you and your family all the best- you are kind person and I always enjoy watching your content. Sending love to this community 🥰

  • @KioraNyx
    @KioraNyx 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Our family (of five) moved from an almost 2500 sq. ft., 4 bedroom house in the suburbs of the Twin Cities to buy a family member's older 1750 sq. ft., 4 bedroom lake home in rural MN. Downsizing has been challenging and is still a process (there is a reason I sought out videos about decluttering 😊), but we love the slower pace, less traffic, and don't miss having the big house to care for.
    Though we are very car dependent where we live, we find we tend to drive less than when things were closer to us in the suburbs. Before, we were more likely to run out again if we forgot something or try more stores if we couldn't find it closer to home. We now are more likely to make due and remember to get it on the next shopping list or accept that we can't get it locally and either need to order online or find a way to do without. We've also decreased our car expenses by shifting to electric cars (currently a Mitsubishi plug-in hybrid and a Tesla model Y). I was skeptical at first that it would work, being rural, but it's worked out great (even took a road trip to visit family in TN this summer with no charging/range issues in the Tesla).
    I second shopping smaller stores like ALDI to help with choice fatigue. That has helped me out a lot.
    Best wishes as you guys settle in and as always, thank you for the things you share!

  • @kaceykelly7222
    @kaceykelly7222 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I love this video!
    (sorry for those rude people)
    You are so down to earth that its like listening to a close friend or neighbor. Glad you are back in the USA!!
    Of all the podcasts, you are the most inspirational, thought-provoking and so well-spoken!

  • @WitchyD_LifeIsGood
    @WitchyD_LifeIsGood 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My husband and I are currently living in a two story 2200sf home with 3 bedrooms and 2.5 baths. For years we entertained a lot, hosted family Christmases and even had our niece live with us for about 5 years. We stopped entertaining right before Covid, family Christmases moved to my mom’s house and my niece has been moved out for 6 months. We have about 18 acres total (across 3 contiguous properties) and care take about 5 of it mowing, gardening, etc…the rest is woods). We have been renovating my husband’s childhood home which is now 1420sf, one story 3bd/2ba on 2 acres about 5 miles away with the intent to sell it. After much thought and many conversations, we have decided to move there in a quest to downsize our home, our stuff and the work of upkeep. We are so excited for this new chapter in our lives. Good luck with your new chapter.

  • @marcemiss
    @marcemiss 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Hello, Marissa. I'm certain you will be able to replicate the success you had decorating your flat in Germany (which was so perfect). I used it as a model to decorate my home, since we moved too. Best of luck on this new stage of your life❤ Can't wait for the following videos about it🎉

  • @francoiselafferty-hancock5112
    @francoiselafferty-hancock5112 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Moving for content?!?! WTF?! Who would move continents for content! Re your question our home is 1292 square feet. We have one child. I think we don't need that much space but we've acculated a lot of things in the almost 20 years we've lived here. We lived in Tanzania for a year before we had a child and we took five plastic crates of things with us, we used 80 percent of those things. Our home was tiny and we loved it. One bedroom small kitchen, living room and bathroom where the shower used to hit the toilet. It was perfect and so cosy 😍

  • @aokiQ
    @aokiQ 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Clearly ppl who think you are moving for content didn’t watch your last video! I’m just so happy to see you on YT every Sunday😊

  • @darlenebergantzel1534
    @darlenebergantzel1534 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I lived in a 1400 sq ft, 3-bed, 2-bath home and raised my 2 kids in that house. About 3 years ago, I sold that home (empty nester and widowed) and bought a 1700 sq ft, 3-bed, 2-bath home in another state. Even though I upsized in living space, I significantly downsized in things, eliminating about 75% of my possessions before the move. I’m still not a minimalist, but heading that way.

  • @bowkowsky9708
    @bowkowsky9708 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I live in Berlin with my husband and our dog on 45sq ft with a small kitchen, a tiny bath, a bedroom, a living room and a little balcony with a view on water (plus a small room in the basement for some storage). We're looking for a bigger flat every now and then, but so far we found nothing with more space and a price we're willing to pay, just way too expensive. So I regularly declutter to keep the small flat nice and neat. We also have a garden with a cute cabin (25sq ft), that helps us a lot when feeling in need of a change of scenery, because being surrounded by nature is a very beautiful compensation. Also, coming back from there, the flat feels sooo big and the city so lively. Having these two places keeps us in balance and though it's not much space, I really like both. Everyone who comes to us, can't believe it's just 45sq ft and says the furniture is just so pleasantly arranged that it feels much bigger - that always makes me happy, because it's the result of years of optimization 😅😂

  • @laurasell2353
    @laurasell2353 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Welcome back to the North Shore. Our home is a 1064 sq ft ranch with a full basement. We have a large yard to enjoy. We're very happy with a smaller space. The basement is useful during the colder months for indoor activities.

  • @Winter_user-qb6jx1rg1n
    @Winter_user-qb6jx1rg1n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We recently purchased a smaller home, it is 864 square feet on the main level and an additional 864 square feet in the finished basement. Our last home was approximately 4300 square feet. I have a strong preference for a smaller home; less to manage, less to clean. Our youngest child is finishing college and will be moving out in a year or two. When she moves out, our basement will be largely unused. I think 800 to 1000 square feet is perfect for my husband and I. We’ve been slowly working on downsizing our possessions and furniture. I like to live in the space for a bit. It helps me decide which items are most useful in the new home.

  • @olivemaycards
    @olivemaycards 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We live in a classic 1920 bungalow, 800sq ft with a smaller unfinished basement for laundry/storage/workshop. The space is laid out very well so we have lots of living space and smaller bedrooms (good!) but very little storage. It encourages us to live more like people lived 100 years ago, before the consumer economy took hold. I hope you find somewhere to live with some kind of walkable community. I would find it very hard to give that up.

  • @mariayanakakisweeks8697
    @mariayanakakisweeks8697 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Glad your move went well (at least this first transition)! About the plastic bags, some states or cities have banned them in the US depends on geography unfortunately. I’m with you on that, shouldn’t be allowed anywhere anymore. As for house size, I’m actually in the middle of a downsize to an apartment from a condo for that reason (my kids are older & flown so it’s easier to downsize from that perspective). So sweet about your husband - glad he’s found work he’s excited about. And glad for your boys and you as well in this new chapter. Wishing you all the best!

  • @claremiller9979
    @claremiller9979 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just had to work the sq ft thing out as we're selling our home - 2200sq ft/204sqm!! And that's not including our outdoor deck area or backyard.
    We're moving to a slightly smaller place with a smaller yard (189sqm or 2030sqft so not that much smaller lol) because tbh the living spaces in this house are ridiculously large and it's wasted (or taken over with kids stuff which just seems to multiply when I'm not looking!) I'm looking forward to having a bigger ensuite, a bigger walk in robe, and having all the kids stuff in one single space instead of spread across 4 living areas as well as in their rooms.
    As another commenter said, it's less about space than about space usage and floor plan!

  • @fluffytalguw5883
    @fluffytalguw5883 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your commentators get really rude; you’re very nice to them and yes, I’m excited to see how you guys adjust and what I can learn!

  • @alonnaaltman8794
    @alonnaaltman8794 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We have 3 children and movies into our home right when got married 8 years ago. It's a 2 bed 2 bath fenced in 1250sqft. We just refinished the kitchen and baths. We love it We joke all the time we wish we could just fit an extra bedroom in our house I think 1500sq ft is perfect for our family of 5 and we have a dog! ❤❤❤ happy for you! We are minimalist as well

  • @acrobaticanna
    @acrobaticanna 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations. I am excited for you!! I am glad you kept your German home. I really liked it.

  • @auliic7738
    @auliic7738 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    My husband, our two children, and I live in a 800 square foot home..its a little cozy but we make it work. I actually found your channel a couple years ago when I was searching for minimalism inspiration because we realized having 4 people and a ton of stuff in a tiny house was not gonna work 😂.
    Congratulations on the move and this next chapter in life!

  • @cynthiacrumlish4683
    @cynthiacrumlish4683 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Wow! I was just in Chicago on a long layover from AMTRAK ..had a blast! Walked nearly 14 miles according to the app on the phone. People were sweet and helpful. Who knew there were so manyleafy neighborhoods right down town? Cannot wait to go back!

  • @mouna5431
    @mouna5431 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Liked even before watching. I wish you the best luck in whatever adventure you embark ok with your lovely family. Your story reminds me so much of mine and your chanel has helped me through some really dark times. Much love ❤️

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for your kind words and support - I’m glad to hear that I’ve helped you in some way! 🙏

  • @KristinAnne327
    @KristinAnne327 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chicago is the best!!! I e been there so many times being a Minneapolis girl. How awesome ❤

  • @sashawilkinson6978
    @sashawilkinson6978 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I brought my house for my garden rather than the house, my gardens just under 1 acre and I’m slowly learning how to grow all my own fruit and veg to give my family healthier food that I know has no chemicals on it. That was so much more important to me than the size of the house. To me the house is to big but my husband thinks it’s the perfect size. But long as I have my garden then I’m happy ❤

    • @AtoZenLife
      @AtoZenLife  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That sounds incredible!

  • @bhsprinkle
    @bhsprinkle 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Welcome back to the Chicago area.
    I think it's great to be able to afford a temporary apartment as a launch pad before a more permanent place.
    I do love your previous home and realize that it was a difficult but well thought decision.
    I agree the consumerism in the USA is astonishing and debilitating at times.

  • @Kringeladida
    @Kringeladida 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Our flat has 75 square meters (=807 square feet), 2 balconies and 2 bedrooms for two. It is perfect for us and it still feels like a lot of space. :)
    I was always interested in tiny homes but I am happy with the size of our flat. I think its more practical because here you have space to have guests.

  • @kristiLB93
    @kristiLB93 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh nice! Chicago! The city where you began together!! Welcome back to the states. On the subject of square footage, we are a family of five in a 2000 square foot double-wide modular rental (aka trailer, but modlular sounds nicer). It's really is the furthest thing from the house that my husband and I dream of, like old homes with good bones and character, even squeaky floors 😉, but it is spacious and bright and we've made it look nice. We really don't need more space. I can't imagine taking care of more house than this. We'd just fill it with stuff if we did! We have two living rooms - one doubles as our school room and we can pack a whole crowd of people in for a dinner. A bonus is that it is situated 18 acres of wooded land as well. You don't really need tons of room to have a beautiful, peaceful home.

  • @AMB765
    @AMB765 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Great video - love the idea of answering our questions! As for my home, it is a 648 Sq ft manufactured home. 2 bedrooms, 1 bathroom and combined kitchen-living room. Decided to downsize when I moved 5 years ago. Current home 1/3 the size of previous house. I LOVE the small space! Less to furnish, easier to clean, lower utilities- the list goes on and on! Sort of forced in to minimalist living with the downsizing, but so grateful for it now. You are so right - the marketing and consumerism push is so strong. Takes a conscious effort to resist. Looking forward to more videos as you settle in!

  • @vivsworldtrip
    @vivsworldtrip 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There are 3 of us - 2 adults, 1 child - In Europe we used to live in 800sq ft for 10 yrs, we currently living in USA in 1300 sq ft for past 10 yrs and its perfectly suits our minimal lifestyle. We dont need for more to be honest!

  • @KeziahMeg
    @KeziahMeg 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For the square footage question, I think our house is about 2k, which is plenty! But the big thing I've noticed with square footage is that how it's organized makes as much or more difference than how much you have. For example, our kitchen (square footage wise) is pretty big but in a very narrow L shape, making it awkward to use, especially if more than one person is cooking at a time. I'd love to redesign it to make it a better flow when cooking, but I'm not sure how to do it without completely changing walls or doing other large expensive renovations.

  • @kimberlywilles8343
    @kimberlywilles8343 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    My family of 5 + 2 dogs live in a 1400 sq foot house, 3bed, 2bath. We’ve lived here for 8 years and have loved it. Before we decluttered a lot we always wanted to add a room, after decluttering we don’t talk about adding a room.

  • @reneemarie1395
    @reneemarie1395 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hi Marissa. We live in a 2450sq ft house. There are 5 of us. All our children are young adults. I think it's perfect amount of space, but really, it's about how the space it carved up. I think bedrooms don't need to be huge, but having spaces for quiet, work, etc is important. Especially if you work from home. I really appreciate your honesty about the challenges you face in such a big move. Best wishes on your future dwelling search. ❤

  • @paulwade4322
    @paulwade4322 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Shop for groceries online and then just pick them up at the store. Many stores offer this. You then avoid the temptation to look at all the 'shiny objects' that catch your attention. You can usually check out your produce while they are loading your groceries to see if they are satisfactory and the store associates will get you a different one if you want.

  • @denisesnider9676
    @denisesnider9676 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I moved from a 1000 square foot two-story house with basement to a 400 square ft second floor apartment. I am perfectly comfortable and content in this space. It helps that I have ample closets, ample kitchen counters and cupboards, and plenty of natural light. My only regret is that the living room doesn't have any wall long enough to put a couch on, but it's a small sacrifice that is balanced by the fact that there's a sizable backyard that I can use and enjoy as I wish. Naturally I had to pare down my belongings tremendously when I moved in here, and 4-1/2 years later I am in the process of another major declutter. I have no goal to become a minimalist, but I might wind up there anyway.

  • @KlaskeBuwalda
    @KlaskeBuwalda 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    We have a 2000 sq ft home in the Netherlands for a family of 4. I love for us to have the space to grow our family, but for now we have too much unused space I think. The house was mostly a very smart financial step in a prime location.

  • @cynthiacrumlish4683
    @cynthiacrumlish4683 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    People in Chicago, in the Midwest in general, are very friendly indeed!

  • @andrealenz8134
    @andrealenz8134 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes! Decision fatigue here in the USA 😅 I find it really helps me to shop online. It also keeps me intentional.
    My house is 1234 sq ft. 3 bed 2 bath. 1 adult 3 kids. It's good for us but sometimes I dream of less space. As my kids get older I really appreciate the space though. We also have a nice yard and I chose a house 2 blocks from grocery stores, 1 block from church and a park. I live in rural Midwest so cars are a must. Yes, there are huge spaces between everywhere. I do
    I think that was probably the best way to do it with keeping your home and deciding to rent to family. Welcome back to the states!

  • @dianasamour
    @dianasamour 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Our family of 4 live in 1500 square foot 3 BR/2 BR in CA. We have a 5k lot and love our outdoor space. We have enough space and feel grateful for it. I use reusable bags and have to work hard to avoid pre-bagged produce. It is heartbreaking truth. We strategically purchased near bus station, park, bike path and near shopping but still feel dependent on a car. Welcome to the USA!

  • @sunflowersadie543
    @sunflowersadie543 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm so happy to hear you didn't sell your house in Germany.

  • @my_world_by_Lu
    @my_world_by_Lu 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love to hear you speak 🥰 I relate so much with your experience because I was an emigrant myself since I was 3 years old... I move 7 times in 4 diferent countries (France Portugal Angola and Macao) so I know how difficult it is to move, leave people behind, restart every time.... my daughter was 4 months when we move to Asia.. boa sorte😍🍀❤️🇵🇹

  • @laurawarburton
    @laurawarburton 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Our rental home just north of Austin is a two story 1,794 sqft home. It feels perfect for us right now with our two kids. They share the second largest room upstairs and the smaller room is a guest room/play room.