Just what the doctor ordered! I wish I had heard this on coming out of a domestic, abusive, controlling and coercive marriage. Today I choose to be me! Waving from Devon👋🏻
So true. That's why I'm always alone now. I realize people never loved me for me, but only for the benefits they could get from me, period. Now after spending my life there for everyone, so generously and whole-heartedly, I realize that I'm all alone. Even from my own siblings and kin. But somehow, I knew it. I knew when they'd say to me: "I love you, I care..", it was just hot air, period. At least in my second 1/2 adult life part, I know. Young, we're so naive.. and don't know enough from lack of experience.People have grown so self-centred over the last decades. Different era and day I guess.
Definitely. When you are your authentic self, just being the latter, is helping others. There are many, who do not know themselves or can even sit with themselves & be alone, it’s these people, who try to change others.
If a Person wants to change you it means they don't really want you. Moulding someone to just suit them selves is wrong.They should find someone who they really want.Another thing never Buy people it doesn't work. Yes be kind but never buy people if you do you will attract the wrong types.I was once Big hearted gave money i Gave my heart to people and it wasn't enough.So now i Look after ME ! and people that deserve to be loved NOT any old TOM.
Hi Chris it depends what kind of change you are talking about I have changed in some ways but for the good because I never used to like who I was because I was angry and wanted to see. A way out and people and my husband have helped me to do that it’s good to sometimes listen to others and make a change if it’s for the good ❤ and finding Jesus in my life has helped so much also 🙏
changing in life for the better is something that we should all strive for, we need to be better than we were yesterday and look forward to a better tomorrow so I’m pleased to receive your message today so thank you for that. I am wishing you all the very best for the future to! Kind regards, Chris
Absolutely spot on. I lost my DH of nearly 40 years 4 weeks ago and already 2 Sil's are trying to make me feel I need them to fill the void, they used emotional blackmail when he was alive and now they are trying to use the situation to get me to do what they want. The more I say no, the more they try, it's just horrid and the family connection makes it harder as I try not to hurt others, but I feel the day is coming. Stay strong everyone.
Why be the réflection...of others when I was young l was the black sheep in the family never this or that never good enough but after l have reach some milestone 🤔 I start to believe in myself it is ok to be different l am good enough we are all unique .. so l understand your tought thank you for sharing video 😁 you are a proof of who you are don t change ! See you tomorrow Sir
I dont know how but you popped up in my feed. I enjoyed your ideas on not letting old friends back into your life,as i did just that this year and what a bad mistake. But now they have gone. Its nice to hear a males perspective on life and you seem to have your head screwed on. Im looking forward to hearing your thoughts each day
I found your channel about a week ago and have subscribed. Since then I have been binge watching your vlogs as I can relate to so many things you talk about. I look forward to seeing you on here every day and listening to your wise words 🙂 Jackie, from 'not so sunny at the moment' Weymouth lol
Jackie that means so much I really appreciate it. You’re not far away but TH-cam connects all of and that the miracle of this platform. So thank you and see you tomorrow! 🎉
You're wisdom is so helpful. I appreciate your compassion for the human condition.
I appreciate that! Thank you 🙏🏻 Chris
Just what the doctor ordered! I wish I had heard this on coming out of a domestic, abusive, controlling and coercive marriage. Today I choose to be me! Waving from Devon👋🏻
I’m so glad that you’ve come through this, it’s never easy is it and hello from Plymouth 👋
So true. That's why I'm always alone now. I realize people never loved me for me, but only for the benefits they could get from me, period. Now after spending my life there for everyone, so generously and whole-heartedly, I realize that I'm all alone. Even from my own siblings and kin. But somehow, I knew it. I knew when they'd say to me: "I love you, I care..", it was just hot air, period. At least in my second 1/2 adult life part, I know. Young, we're so naive.. and don't know enough from lack of experience.People have grown so self-centred over the last decades. Different era and day I guess.
I totally agree you know the Truth that one day people will abandon you no matter how kind you are. well said
Exactly./Good advice/ Thank you so much ❤
You are so welcome 🙏🏻 ❤️
Definitely. When you are your authentic self, just being the latter, is helping others.
There are many, who do not know themselves or can even sit with themselves & be alone, it’s these people, who try to change others.
I think 🤔 you’re right.
If a Person wants to change you it means they don't really want you. Moulding someone to just suit them selves is wrong.They should find someone who they really want.Another thing never Buy people it doesn't work. Yes be kind but never buy people if you do you will attract the wrong types.I was once Big hearted gave money i Gave my heart to people and it wasn't enough.So now i Look after ME ! and people that deserve to be loved NOT any old TOM.
Hi Chris it depends what kind of change you are talking about I have changed in some ways but for the good because I never used to like who I was because I was angry and wanted to see. A way out and people and my husband have helped me to do that it’s good to sometimes listen to others and make a change if it’s for the good ❤ and finding Jesus in my life has helped so much also 🙏
changing in life for the better is something that we should all strive for, we need to be better than we were yesterday and look forward to a better tomorrow so I’m pleased to receive your message today so thank you for that. I am wishing you all the very best for the future to! Kind regards, Chris
Absolutely spot on. I lost my DH of nearly 40 years 4 weeks ago and already 2 Sil's are trying to make me feel I need them to fill the void, they used emotional blackmail when he was alive and now they are trying to use the situation to get me to do what they want. The more I say no, the
more they try, it's just horrid and the family connection makes it harder as I try not to hurt others,
but I feel the day is coming. Stay strong everyone.
So true !!!! 👍👍👍💚🍃
Good afternoon my dear friend , watching here now , liked and shared
Good morning and thank you being my friend here it’s so much appreciated! ❤
Wonderful insight.
Thank you 🙏🏻 kindly
So true
Why be the réflection...of others when I was young l was the black sheep in the family never this or that never good enough but after l have reach some milestone 🤔
I start to believe in myself it is ok to be different l am good enough we are all unique .. so l understand your tought
thank you for sharing video 😁 you are a proof of who you are don t change ! See you tomorrow Sir
I’m glad you got something from this and I love your message too. Thank you and see you tomorrow. Kind regards Chris
People dislike me because they cannot change my path in life.
Very true, I have been on my own since 1993 as my last relationship was very difficult as it was with an alcoholic. Much happier on my own.
Good for you. Sometimes the peace we need is the gift we give ourselves. Wishing you all the best moving forward in life!
The daily cost/benefit analysis: How much self must be spent to achieve desire?
The ratio to life value is as much as we can afford for maximal experience which is the desired outcome.
I dont know how but you popped up in my feed. I enjoyed your ideas on not letting old friends back into your life,as i did just that this year and what a bad mistake. But now they have gone. Its nice to hear a males perspective on life and you seem to have your head screwed on.
Im looking forward to hearing your thoughts each day
Thank you and I’m so glad you have your peace back moving forward. Sending best wishes and see you tomorrow! Have a great day!
I found your channel about a week ago and have subscribed. Since then I have been binge watching your vlogs as I can relate to so many things you talk about. I look forward to seeing you on here every day and listening to your wise words 🙂 Jackie, from
'not so sunny at the moment' Weymouth lol
Jackie that means so much I really appreciate it. You’re not far away but TH-cam connects all of and that the miracle of this platform. So thank you and see you tomorrow! 🎉
Excellent mate . These vllog are great. Well done on the mission of 1000 days . Keep it up
Thanks a ton! I appreciate it. Kind regards, Chris