The Ugly Truth Of Being A True INFJ

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  • @OnTrack101
    @OnTrack101  3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

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    • @jeannemariewinter9987
      @jeannemariewinter9987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you ❤ 🙏 ❤

    • @bethp3468
      @bethp3468 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      do you think stoicism and infj go together?

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We all Love your videos so much,.you are giving great help and hope to all of us INfjs,thank you so Very much,and all your old videos are terrific I watched them all they are wonderful,can we see some old ones.👍👍👍👍👍👍🙏💗💗

    • @designmarcial
      @designmarcial 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You nail it everytime. I'm always sending you topic suggestions, here goes one more. Talk about INFJ lineage. I dont know if my grandfather was, but I'm sure my father was, I am and I have no doubt my 9 year old son is an INFJ, he displays almost all characteristics. Please do a video telling what you know about it. Thank you so much.

    • @iammoderndaysampson900
      @iammoderndaysampson900 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A false friend betrays me = GOODBYE/A spouse or future spouse is unfaithful = GOODBYE....I will never believe in enduring hate, betrayal or unfaithfulness in my OERSONAL LIFE!

  • @br4in512
    @br4in512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    😳hang in there fellow infjs

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Like Wale said "I'm still here cuz somebody probably prayed for me." 💯. Keep ya head up bro

    • @livewire2457
      @livewire2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haha 😆 we take as it comes

  • @sashi_youtuber
    @sashi_youtuber 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    Omg I so needed to hear this, I was pretty bummed this morning.. even shed a tear. It’s so hard for me. I just can’t give in, with relationships & friendships. I’m everyone’s best friend/angel but I avoid letting people in then is saddened when no one goes out their way to check in on me. Others love being around me but I don’t love being around others. I love making people happy but I don’t trust people.

    • @snoozebutton23
      @snoozebutton23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ty for summing up the feelings i've been having for my whole life.

    • @cosmic2096
      @cosmic2096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are not alone , gang . We are our support system 😇🙏🏽💚😑 that's how I have been living

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yea I'm getting my head around trust issues,.but I have eliminated toxic people, 🤔 it's a start..yes I feel the same no one seems to say hi how are you, think people don't take time for people these days, I make the best of every day and keep busy🏃💗💗🏃🙏🙏

    • @harryboyes2812
      @harryboyes2812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Welcome to the club, fellow INFJ.

    • @huskyclan345
      @huskyclan345 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow thank you💙

  • @melonpan88
    @melonpan88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    #2 So true! Sometimes during a chat or a situation with someone, I get a 'feeling' telling me: 'Something's not right here .' or ' Why does that person lie to me (about small things). There's no reason to lie to me.' Can't put my finger on it, but that feeling makes me uneasy. At that point, I can't really say if that person was actually lying to me. I try to act normally and usually, shrug it off (because I got no evidence). With time, more encounters happen which make me feel odd again. 'That can't be.' , I keep on thinking, shrug it off. Then certain things happen which I had predicted to happen based on me judging the past situation (i.e. impression I got from past encounters/situations). And I think to myself, 'Nope, that can't be coincidence.' But yeah, usually I keep quiet about my 'gut' feeling and observe the situation.

    • @Ram-1231
      @Ram-1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great insight. Sometimes PEOPLE lie without actually knowing it. Lying is either on purpose and also by unknowing. Sometimes even a combination of both knowing and unknowing.

    • @venelprince6889
      @venelprince6889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m a 26 yr old Infj that doesn’t even pretend not too see any more. When somebody shows me a red flag I immediately give them the stern look of “I’m onto you”. Doing this usually forces them to reveal their true nature as they know I’m not the one to be fooled, either that or they avoid me all together. lol

    • @hugmc
      @hugmc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do we tell lies , NO. If someone tell lies red flag don’t waste time when you need the truth, it won’t be there.

    • @sojourneroftheland
      @sojourneroftheland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hugmc great point love what you said here :)

    • @nicky9148
      @nicky9148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG..I go through this on a daily!

  • @chriswilton9976
    @chriswilton9976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    People tend to get an inferiority complex about us because our presence pops their inflated egos. People either love us, or lash-out. Might be why we get accused of bad things that we didn't do.

    • @TheDarkness1
      @TheDarkness1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh yeah. The stronger your personality, the more insecure people will villify you due to their own jealousy or envy. I laugh every time a story comes back about me. I've been called pretty much every name in the book, 😂.

    • @jaejohnson6112
      @jaejohnson6112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly. well, my best friend at age.. lets say 8, tried to murder me in the swimming pool during school swimming lessons, in the deep end.. held me under for a time, then let me up just enough for me to take a deep breathe of... water... then held me under for a time.. i saw flashes and climbed the ladder, walked it off and nobody knew, not the teachers or other kids, I never told anybody either. only later in life I realised he must have wanted me dead. jealousy is very very dangerous indeed, and yes we INFJs deal with others jealousy ALL the time. imagine the level of jealousy an INFJ autodidactic polymath must conjure in almost everybody, unintentionally.

  • @educationalbrowsing8913
    @educationalbrowsing8913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    "But please do remember that people dragging you down is a mere indication that you are above everyone else" Thank you for this, On Track. The tendency to critique ourselves when engulfed by the words and doings of the small-minded around us can cause us to forget this maxim.

  • @carlaherrera681
    @carlaherrera681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    1:24 “being an INFJ means knowing your partner’s unfaithful acts without seeing the actual act itself.”
    Man, soooo accurate to me and it hit hard. Also, having to shut down our intuition for even a while is hard! Because it’s our dominant function and it’s like my inner best friend that always tells me things before they happen; it’s my protector among my personality.

    • @whoblitzell
      @whoblitzell 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I knew my wife also an infj had cheated before the door opened. How? She was 37 seconds late getting home. Her perfume smelled different from the door and the force she opened the door with seemed more swift than usual. She seemed on edge and I knew something was wrong before I turned around. I took her back because I loved her and I still do. She passed shortly after that in a car accident. I would trade anything.. everything for just one more day with her to say goodbye. That i meant what I said that id love her no matter what. If we as infjs cannot escape our own limited perspective and pain then nobody can and the world will never get better.
      I didn't cry the entire funeral. Joked even with the guy she cheated with. When everyone left I stood by the grave and just whispered goodbye. Her mother bitingly said she had passed angry at me. I broke down once she left. Knowing I had made her upset before her passing probably did it. I wish things had been different.
      I realized that I hadn't been there for a long time. She had beaten me and screamed at me to emote for years. I just couldn't do it when the trust wasn't there even when I tried. When I broke down at the grave something snapped in my mind. I shattered and started to hate God the father and the son. Haven't been in a church since and cut literally every one out. I sit there looking at her picture so I won't ever hold it on the inside again. Male infjs have many layers of bullshit between them and their true feelings.
      Maybe it's true what they say that men that cry are weakling and trash. But people that fail their soul mate by not emoting properly are even worse than that.
      I don't care that she cheated or that she's gone. She was my soul mate and I try to live happy becuase I hope it as some sort or memorial to her. I can't even look at other women with a sensual or romantic capacity. Maybe that's broken but I don't want to let go of her even if the pains all that is left

    • @carlaherrera681
      @carlaherrera681 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whoblitzell wow, that made me teary-eyed. Thank you for sharing that! I feel deeply for you and her and everything that you have gone through. Even if you might not go to church, hold onto God, He is always there and will always be there. Things happen for a reason and He has you here for a reason. Let’s be grateful for all He has given us💛☺️

  • @highplainsdrifter699
    @highplainsdrifter699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    As an infj t , most people hate us, but at the same time are deeply envious of our authentic nature . We are probably born to spend our lives alone. Dogs and animals in general seem to love us . We are spiritual warriers born to walk the road less travelled

    • @annmowatt7547
      @annmowatt7547 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This really resonates with me and probably, very sadly, with most of us. I think we shame others, not even intentionally, and this is why we are ignored, put down, lied about and ridiculed because of our high ideals. The good thing is that, despite all this, WE know we are right!!!!! That helps me to continue.

  • @pratimakhadka23
    @pratimakhadka23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Yes, no holding grudges never!

  • @bethanyj.5049
    @bethanyj.5049 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I swear who ever makes these has my back they’re right on time

  • @collectsbones8020
    @collectsbones8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Am i the only one who has just completley given up? On people, on relationships..? I am alot to deal with, even for myself at times..so how can i possibly believe there is Anyone out there that can Truly love me for me and all that i am..?? No one seems to have the ability to just be their true authentic selves, embracing their flaws and understanding that we ALL have them..instead they try to decieve you, not knowing that we can see right thru them..time and time again ive told people 'Just be real" ..because that is certainly all i ever am...i do not have the time, the energy or the know how, to be anyone other than ME... And it has proven to me over and over again, that this is a concept others dont seem to have the ability to grasp..ugh..Life is hard enuff anyway..but life without meaningful friendships/relationships, is often more than i care to endure much longer....i find myself wishing i would just not wake up anymore..and NO! i am Not suicidal...im just sick and tired of trying, only to end up all alone again..thank god for my fur babies..they are literally all that i have..and they are never anything but themselves..something so simple, apparently is absolutley impossible to most others....i just dont get it .

    • @jeannemariewinter9987
      @jeannemariewinter9987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤ 🙏 👼

    • @hugmc
      @hugmc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We hear you. Don’t give up just learn too let the fools go, sooner better than later, so you have more time too meet the good ones. 🙏

    • @Phil_Scott
      @Phil_Scott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wanting to be loved has a lot of holes in it....it is better to want to love others, and there are many, old people and kids for instance, and some beautiful people you see. You can love them... that pulls you out into the infinite. Wanting to be loved is a contraction into wanting to be at effect .... choose to be cause in regards to love, you can love some others... causative love. No wish to be at the effect of any other energy. You can generate your own... it is the final perfection.... and infinite.

    • @collectsbones8020
      @collectsbones8020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Phil_Scott ..i hear and agree with what your saying..and i do have some special bonds with a few people but its not on the intimate level im seeking..and i dont even necessarily mean physical either...a best friend that would never betray me and love me for who i am would be a dream come true...all i meant was it shouldnt be so damn hard to find people that have the ability to be genuine...Real...Authentic... and not be trying to use or abuse my kind heart...ive had no choice but to build a wall to protect myself from those that just want to feed on me in some way or another...depleting me of the desire to meet new people...thats a task hard enuff in itself for us INFJs ....im jus tired of Always being disappointed and hurt by those i gnievly believe are being real w me..

    • @Phil_Scott
      @Phil_Scott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@collectsbones8020 It is hard to find another INFJ...its a once in a lifetime shot...but we just have to call it an accident I guess. I would not go looking for it. That said I had a bike accident a few months ago... and one just showed up...hips damaged but not broken fortunately...in a coma etc.
      .
      I was in the hospital with my head opened up. her boyfriend had died a few months earlier, a nurse friend of hers called her (this is in south america among the volcanos and ancient ruins)... I was a mess, I am 80yo. half paralyzed... her 91yo grandmother prayed for me, the next morning I could move my arms and fingers normally again.
      .
      I will not say much but she went out to her car for a bit to think then came back and signed the needed documents at great risk to herself, to take me to her place where she kept me alive ...while there I had a stroke, back to the hospital..etc... now back at her place again for 5 more months and figuring on a mutual future. ..I am healing well, able to speak well again, and walking about 75% normally, and with the my own long term funds and still working online... she has instructions on letting me go when the time comes... she is now an INJF who does not have to worry about her own old age at all... or actually losing anyone. We all it seems manage to stay in touch across the veil.

  • @Ram-1231
    @Ram-1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is, to me, one of your best videos. I want to personally thank you for your time, effort, and insight on your INFJ videos. You have most certainly helped me in such profound ways I can't even begin to express. And at the same time I also know you've helped others in the same way!

  • @snoozebutton23
    @snoozebutton23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It's probably why i don't bother explaining my feelings or what I see that bothers me. I did that and was told I was being judgemental. I work retail and I see things all the time and I can't seem to wrap my head around why ppl suck so much or demanding. It's just stuff and it's not a necessity to have. Someone said you don't know what they are going through and thing is I kinda do internally. It's like talking to brick walls and i'm pretty much at done. Depression at an all time high, i quit caring, and i'm in shutdown or 'spacing out' to get away, rly don't care about my job anymore. I've been used to the point that I do feel i'm becoming the villian or evil and i believe i'm at completely done with everything. One day i'll be out of it...i think...or hope as I do not like what i've become. I've gotten snippy or been defiant and at the point of i just start callin ppl out, do not trust either as i've heard a plethloria of lies over time. My boss won't speak to me and i can tell he avoids me (think I just intimidate cuz i can feel something sly and he knows don't try it.) I'm mostly quiet and just observing wallflower and sometimes a volcano ready to erupt at any moment.

    • @venelprince6889
      @venelprince6889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, this is why a lot of us Infj’s do end up walking away from the world the older we get, in order to preserve our mental health. As we soon realize that not everyone around us is interested in self growth, some will remain ignorant till the day they die, heck some are bent on destroying everything including themselves. So it’s best to find your tribe of other people that wish to grow with you, and ignore the rest.

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Isn't it awful how one friend can destroy your trust compared to the damage your enemies hurl at you? But, life will never be smooth...these rough roads where we fall and be shaken to our core will be our greatest wake up that sometimes trusting 100% isn't good at all...but we learn from our greatest hurt and even though many people look at you as being overreacting, jealous and insecure, and whatever, WE the INFJs know how we genuinely treat those we love...i don't care anymore what they say or think about me...i treat people accordingly because I'm tired of being taken for granted...

    • @cosmic2096
      @cosmic2096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😑💚😇🙏🏽 You are not alone , mate . It's painful yet it takes alot shed emotions and tears around people.
      Come near to suicide but never do that 🌌❤️. One real INFJ against the whole world. We don't feel adult having all these thoughts in our mind . The contradiction , paradox and conflicting .

    • @flowerpower4944
      @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are so right I don't worry about anyone.that hurt me when we get treated badly for years, move on and we learn we are too compassionate.at times,and some people do not deserve us or Our time, I learned things the hard way, bless you all out there long suffering INFj tribe, it's always a new day tomorrow, we have inner strength, look how far we have All come and WE are Not Defeated 👍👍👍❤️👍❤️👍❤️❤️🙏❤️🙏🙏🎉😊

    • @sabrinawanderer7560
      @sabrinawanderer7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@flowerpower4944 i love you all my fellow INFJs! Thank goodness for TH-cam, it connects us together...i can't imagine life being alone as INFJ and no one to pent my emotions/feelings...no one understand us better than us INFJs...thank you all for being here..praying for all suffering INFJs..

  • @tyyneviljakainen5108
    @tyyneviljakainen5108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    All what you said is very correct!!!

  • @mlbullbooks
    @mlbullbooks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Definitely Relatable!

  • @cosmic2096
    @cosmic2096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Just wanted to say :
    While some of us feel like an alien on earth. Consider there might be some truth in that.
    "As a child, I felt myself to be alone, and I am still, because I know things and must hint at things which others apparently know nothing of, and for the most part do not want to know."
    Being around and spending large amount of time with someone literally causes you to pick up their habits. ~
    I just accepted I can't stay happy all the time . I was meant to be alone.
    It hurts so much, but you have to walk away. It hurts so much, but you have to protect yourself. It hurts so much, but you have to do what's right for you in this moment. Not every connection is meant to last forever.... but I want to have with my alien gangs... Where will I find you people 😑 . Very Remorseful

    • @sojourneroftheland
      @sojourneroftheland 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What's funny is: I don't believe in aliens. I believe in maybe subterranean creatures and definitely demonic entities, and in contrast heavenly angels. Yet I understand what you say because even bringing it down to earth an alien is an outsider/foreigner. No matter where I've lived or how many people I am surrounded by, I don't feel like I fit in(even in those few moments that it might look like it on the outside). The proverbial square peg in a round hole is what I am. Some days it makes me sad...and some days I just figure it is what it is and it's a beautiful world anyway. What you said brought a tear because in real time I can really relate to what you said about letting people go. I think one hard truth about being an INFJ and dealing with people that don't turn out to be what you'd hoped they would or could be (namely narcissists) is that the pain is pretty intense maybe because these ridiculous people suck you in under false pretenses. They have you to believe you have like "everything" in common. It's really damaging for the INFJ because it plays with our deepest hope: finding our soul mate (by that I mean friend or lover). Finally fitting with someone. It's the meanest joke of all when you finally acknowledge what you really knew all along, but hoped for once you were wrong about...that they are just an imposter and a counterfeit. It's a let down for anyone really. But to us who never feel like we fit in and then for a flicker of time think maybe I was wrong, only to have the rug pulled out from under you has got to be the most unkindest cut of all. Meh. Life goes on lol

    • @lrwiersum
      @lrwiersum 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have come to terms with my “otherness.” Being alone beats being hurt, people are by and large so toxic. I’m happy and peaceful now.

    • @cosmic2096
      @cosmic2096 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sojournerofthelandI agree with you . But most of us feels alienated in turbulent type♾️🌌🌎
      Its not about being an alien but we often feel outsider right like dropped on wrong planet waiting to for return? The world around makes us. We see the different universe and think about the things that others are afraid of . It's not about believing in alien ,either. We love mother nature, our beautiful planet ' Mother Earth' .
      But that's how we coat ourselves in the awakening journey due to our diligence of turbulent and being assertive.
      The reality is just Darkness and Deception to Light and Truth .
      We hate society , people try making us doubt and misunderstood of our insights which mistrack us... meanwhile ,we also care for them , we feel their emotions . Our soul vision is of making this world a better place before we die.
      I call it alien because being one and taking a burden of the world often not understanding ourselves is rare. Once you go alien you did not come back. When you want to help Humanity but there are time you really hate human nature and mankind.
      The Sufferings is same . Feels good when I talk to you people. 😑🌎
      Our self esteem goes : ' I'm a failure and won't do anything substantial in life' to ' ' I have a glorious purpose'.
      I don't know what I'm supposed to do. Lol
      💚👽Take care , mate

  • @predamarius7514
    @predamarius7514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This episode make me emotional, it was like a retrospective of my life in seconds... I have discovered I am an INFJ a few weeks ago, I didn't know I belong to a group, until I have discovered a video about, thank you for doing a great job, God bless you all guys

  • @sundial6919
    @sundial6919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When young the narcs had their way w me so disloyalty and betrayal is simply intolerable no matter who they once were to me

  • @deplorabletrish885
    @deplorabletrish885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I was called a witch for knowing, for being in touch with my intuition 🙄🤣😇

  • @marizabarnes
    @marizabarnes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    On track, on spot.
    Even though intuition is something I can’t turn “off” even if I wanted to.

  • @hugmc
    @hugmc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Still waiting on the right one at 61 year’s old. LOL but you know something when I look at the user’s and abusers. I am glad i am who I am INFJ.

  • @jaejohnson6112
    @jaejohnson6112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    doorslam? nah I just leave it open to swing in the breeze. So the person can still see me skip down the road, sure I'm hurt, but I know this hurts them more.. and when I need something from that person later, usually the door is still swinging and the person is still the same, sitting in the same chair. I then take what I want and leave again, this time the person shuts the door sadly as I leave. this is the INFJ, Empath, Sigma/Alpha Polymath way.

    • @sojourneroftheland
      @sojourneroftheland 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That skipping down the road part had me laughing LIKE CRAZY...and BELIEVE me I needed that laugh lol. Thank you🌹

  • @melonpan88
    @melonpan88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Life is not unfair, but some people are.

    • @Ram-1231
      @Ram-1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great insight.

  • @JokerCrowe
    @JokerCrowe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:27
    "The way they understand themselves"
    Bold of you to assume I understand myself 🤣😅😭

  • @xiuyichen8187
    @xiuyichen8187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, I have heard so many times that INFJs are vindictive but I could not agree! You are right in saying that we don’t bear a grudge but we won’t forget either as we have learnt our lesson and would want to protect ourselves. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹

  • @kymelatejasi
    @kymelatejasi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I definitely feel the invalidation of feelings right now. Mainly because I have been ignored by my best friend for years now, but if I try to make any argument, try to defend myself, I am always wrong and too emotional. Also, they fail to remember that I was terribly sick for years, but completely ignore the fact that I healed myself. I was told to find a doctor after running from a job I wanted in order to prevent the chance of returning to suicidal thoughts. But apparently my health doesn't matter, I just need a job.

  • @predamarius7514
    @predamarius7514 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I broke in tears... Our type of personality is such a burden, but it's a blessing as well... Who knows many things have many pain's... But Our Creator never leaves us,.. Wish you all the best in your life here

  • @bobbyhamiltoniii4578
    @bobbyhamiltoniii4578 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Never thought about how much door slams actually hurt

  • @tytemind7850
    @tytemind7850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So well done 👍🏻

  • @delaqueenpinkel5229
    @delaqueenpinkel5229 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    number 5 makes me cry 😭

  • @Phil_Scott
    @Phil_Scott 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I forgive even before I meet a person, then just keep on, keeping on .... buggering off into the sunset. That is peaceful.

  • @tokyo7012
    @tokyo7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    but an infj can tell another infj that they understand the infj so not all infjs feel misunderstood

  • @ayyyblinkin343
    @ayyyblinkin343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think about that scene from artificial intelligence where gigolo joe tells David that his mother doesn't love him she only loves what he can do for her

  • @RC-ey4gm
    @RC-ey4gm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It is painful. After decades of my life, I’m finally speaking up. And the result is more pain.

    • @SnookyDre
      @SnookyDre 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep speaking nyour truth tho, even if it's painful. It's not inside you anymore eating you alive because you don't express. 💯

  • @jonathanbaker7854
    @jonathanbaker7854 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your right. Painful truth.ℹ️💯✅✝️🙏🏿📖🗡👊🏿👌🏿👍🏿🥷☯️😎

  • @tammysutton9805
    @tammysutton9805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Completely agree.

  • @drearypoet5603
    @drearypoet5603 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow..
    Straight out of my head..
    Spot on

  • @johnjohnson794
    @johnjohnson794 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dad asked me once, "Who said life is fair?". J.Vernon McGee once said "If you run with the pigs you get dirty", it doesn't go the other way.
    INFJ are bold enough and strong enough to be very careful when it comes to selecting our friends. I have one very good friend who has taken the time to understand me... we are brutally truthful at times BUT we are also quick to forgive and ask forgiveness. I will never give up such a wonderful and true friend.
    Saying INFJ is not worldly, is such a compliment in today's world.
    Yes, I have given my resources to others while I go without... for INFJ are givers and not takers.
    Every single day I pray for God to meet my needs and not my wants. When I share, as a giver, I immediately thank God for blessing me with more than I need... which answers my prayers WITH EXTRA.
    I have no regrets being INFJ. Yes, I isolate as I reassess everything... for I never stop thinking about all possible outcomes. And yes, I know future outcomes and I am never surprised by what occurs. Yes, this MIGHT depress me... NOT for me BUT for others who are misguided and delusional, because they trust the wrong entity.
    I love and trust my wonderful friend. Do I need more? Actually, I only need one good friend AND Jesus. I am kindred spirit connected well, and I thank God for that.
    My INFJ family: I love all of you, we are here together. Know this: We are blessed to be INFJ. To give is to love, which we do knowing that love has no color. We sleep well at night.

  • @irinacosta2281
    @irinacosta2281 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur videos are so accurate and on point, it seems that you trully understand us the best, but telling myself I’m above or special it never helps because despite the fact that we know it we don’t really acknowledge it. Honestly I think my life would of been much easier if I were like everyone else. And as to answer your questions yeah I did all that. But it hurts when you give everything to help others and they don’t give a damn … that’s why we tend to isolate ourselves and stay away from ppl, l realize that I do that a lot for years now , ppl always disappoint and hurt my feelings and my honest desire to help ,they use us and throws us like garbage afterwards. Thats the reality of being an infj , on videos here seems like ppl loves and appreciates us but in real life nobody does, I think in real life we are considerate fools easy to use, and we even know when we are used and still can’t help but let them do it, it is hard to say “no”, hard not to care ,hard not to help. So the only way I can protect myself is staining as far away from ppl as possible. Not brave I know but I can’t handle stress at all this days , my health is even affected. I keep watching videos trying to find a way to believe in ppl once again but I can’t seem to be able to find this kind of ppl in real life, honestly I am disgusted by so many , that I really don’t wanna be part of this world.

  • @seekerofknowledge8961
    @seekerofknowledge8961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, extremely! No one gets it. Like now everyone is dumping on me due to tragic death in the family. I suffer having to do notifications always. Everyone dumps their grief on me then hangs up. Even when I say how hard it is to do that job. No one ever listens to me. I'm just gonna take my pain, sit in the corner and pray from now on! Sometimes I am just too tired emotionally being as Advocate INFJ full empath!!!! People have no concept of taking too much! As a child I used to have this reoccurring nightmare of a woman standing all dressed to the nines, then a crowd of people rush past her, leaving her in a rumpled mess on the floor. I thought it was my mother of 7. Now I realize it was me, seeing my future of my reality!! Always mowed down by thoughtless others! I will be very discerning with who I spend any energy on in the future!!

  • @precioussamson2264
    @precioussamson2264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much Sir for sharing stay blessed

  • @yonyspena7913
    @yonyspena7913 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    One track you are my hero!🔉🥂👏👏👏We are INFJ!🙏.

  • @nensijurkovic3173
    @nensijurkovic3173 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man, I feel so understood

  • @yohannesenkossa1149
    @yohannesenkossa1149 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It has always been hard for me to hold grudges. I've wondered about it for so long and now I know.

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good people see the outward person.smiling and helping others I think it gets me away from my inner sad troubled things but I work through it

  • @educationalbrowsing8913
    @educationalbrowsing8913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    (00:21 10 Detachment) Persons who are targeted can never detach in a healthy way. A sad reality when your personal space is invaded through technology. You can't suffer in silence, nor heal in private and these two make your radar defective so that you lose some capability to detect toxic people so decide to keep all at bay out of an abundance of caution.

  • @StarMisfit827
    @StarMisfit827 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is so on point

  • @osmanozturk6273
    @osmanozturk6273 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    There is nothing that can take the pain away. But eventually you will find a way to live with it. There will be nightmares. And every day when you wake up, it will be the first thing you think about. Until one day, it will be the second thing.

  • @krishazydellesinodlay1948
    @krishazydellesinodlay1948 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 5 friends and met them on my high school days and the 6 friend is met on my college days and only her I felt like comfortable with. She understands me and I understand her and even though we already graduated and not see eachother, we still communicate we share problems and we also comfort eachother. And she just also found out she is also an Infj like me. And I was so happy!!! 😊😊

  • @handssolo7980
    @handssolo7980 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's Saturday night
    and I don't want nobody,
    I got no money,
    but I don't want pay.
    Oh how I wish I had no one to talk to - I'm in an awesome place.

  • @sabrinawanderer7560
    @sabrinawanderer7560 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's better to slam assholes than to be always reminded of how they treated you...I'm glad my old Facebook account can no longer be accessed😅....now, I can gradually go back to normal again....

  • @elizeburgers5804
    @elizeburgers5804 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Writing my 3 page morning papers every morning (or most mornings) is very beneficial to me. Keeps me sane

  • @TheBoardOfAlphas
    @TheBoardOfAlphas 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I found 3 people who understands me totally. My best friend (might not understand, but I feel understood with his acts), my crush (Yes, she's actually making me feel understood with that she tells me and everything.) And a fellow INFJ I have in class.

  • @huskyclan345
    @huskyclan345 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s really tough sometimes 💔

  • @thedopeone96
    @thedopeone96 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    With all the bullshit that I feel and see I constantly go through it and stay strong cause no matter how many times I see somebodies end point about me I literally go through it and watch somebody feel awed how I steadily hung in there and fought people really think with us INFJ we some soft mfs but they end up looking and feeling dumb afterwards please I repeat PLEASE do not underestimate us

  • @zainatulrosli2032
    @zainatulrosli2032 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True 👍🏻

  • @robertgotschall1246
    @robertgotschall1246 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I actually decided to become a hermit. Not literally, but I did get pretty detached. All I found was alcohol. Now I live with a variety of nut cases and have never been better.

  • @ljane3440
    @ljane3440 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true!

  • @lrwiersum
    @lrwiersum 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am definitely overwhelming to others

  • @Gordys_Garden
    @Gordys_Garden 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coping with bitter reality,
    I raised both it by planning ahead. I must have started thinking back when I was 7 years old how to survive cuz I grew up in a poor family.

  • @CappvirlightMagical72
    @CappvirlightMagical72 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All was True specially #9 😁👍🏻

  • @amitadash4555
    @amitadash4555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    100percent agreed

  • @persk2166
    @persk2166 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I cried watching this vid because this is just me, I don't like to hate it but I hate it when people can't even understand me when I'm down and just wanted to be alone. Most of the time I'm always free for them, but when I'm down they see a snobby and evil me when all I wanted is a me-time to free up my mind. It's frustrating sometimes. Why I am like this?

  • @nicky9148
    @nicky9148 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nobody truly understands..including & especially family. It saddens my heart beyond belief...if anyone knew the payments made to get to this point in life...but it is what it is. I have come to terms with it all as best I can..
    ..but I also have a glimmer of something in me that maybe 1 day I meet someone that really & truly gets me for me without any kind of BS..or ulterior motives..a real true blue..transparent..more than just a blink of an eye..
    ...if I find him..so be it..if I don't...so be it!
    Life is beautiful either way
    I know my worth
    I'm at that place
    of a blessing & not a curse

  • @flowerpower4944
    @flowerpower4944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I try and distract myself.its hard to have time alone I have my responsibilities 2 son's I'd love.a little time to myself but I feel I have.to be on call for them and others I'm still content and Blessed, 🙏🙏💗💗💗

  • @everiest0958
    @everiest0958 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I really like your video. 😌💖 somehow I wanted to change myself. I remember there was a time when I told myself alone "Why can't I .. Be like everybody else?" to God. 🙁 but later that I know, God also too being misunderstood by many people.. No wonder why He's INFJ 😔

  • @martcichocki5571
    @martcichocki5571 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The true angst endured by the INFJ types is quite accurately detailed here by: " ON TRACK."

  • @amitadash4555
    @amitadash4555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bring silent I cope with all these

  • @vidalskyociosen3326
    @vidalskyociosen3326 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alpha = ESTJ , EN TJ , ESTP
    Beta = ESFJ , ENFJ , ENTP, ESFP
    Delta = ISTJ , ISFJ
    Gamma = INFP , ENFP
    Omega = ISFP , INFJ
    Sigma = INTJ , INTP , ISTP

  • @normanschmidt8389
    @normanschmidt8389 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you.
    I guess people need to hear this. I will not comment here, they need to work it out on their own. But I try to get back to anyone with questions that they think I may have an answer for.
    Edit: All our choices are ours alone. We make them then we live with them. Wrong choices can be forgiven. God is the only one that we must be accountable to. God holds life and death in His hands. Even if your life is taken, God can give it back. It makes perfect sense to me that I should give my life to God. He made me all I am and He loves me. I came into this world with a baby's body, a blank mind and a perfect soul. I'm just trying to do my best at living of life of meaning. I just know because I know that God is the way to have any real meaning.

  • @ChuckBrowntheClown
    @ChuckBrowntheClown 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I would rather be detached from this world for Jesus says we are not of this world.

    • @br4in512
      @br4in512 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😃here u are again.God bless you.❤❤

    • @Massbusinessman
      @Massbusinessman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Har har mahadev
      Hindu infj🤣(sanatans sanatana dharma{ eternal truth}follower)
      I'm existed in whole existence in the form of both scientific and spiritual way

    • @ChuckBrowntheClown
      @ChuckBrowntheClown 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Massbusinessman no habla Hindu. No tiendes.

  • @wandalynnellis7814
    @wandalynnellis7814 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I only detach from bad or ugly situations. I love people and why detach?

  • @anthonydied8697
    @anthonydied8697 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being an assassin will work just fine. I must sacrifice my life inorder for something like me to happen this is what it will take too fix the real problem. Because I HAVE CLEARLY HAD ENOUGH ALREADY...

  • @Ram-1231
    @Ram-1231 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    @Yougotnoswag. I can't reply to your post. Your the only one, I checked, that I can't reply to. The algorithm is blocking because of your Frank James ad comment. That's crazy! And YES I got the same ads. Lol.
    And after I wrote the above, I can't even find your comment anymore. There's only 11 at the time of this writing so.....?

  • @tetemay8840
    @tetemay8840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolute

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes true🤗😇

  • @educationalbrowsing8913
    @educationalbrowsing8913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👏👏👏

  • @luv04angels
    @luv04angels 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Eh. Agree to disagree.

  • @henryhernandez556
    @henryhernandez556 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Gosh I so hate titles but if you're a true infj you literally feel like the narrator is stalking you lol

  • @harryboyes2812
    @harryboyes2812 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Turn off our intuition? Easier said than done.

  • @knitwits1903
    @knitwits1903 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    As an infj how are you coping with your bitter realities, not well.🤨

  • @hazelhilado5424
    @hazelhilado5424 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    😢😢😢

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shama🤗😇

  • @itz_nathael3977
    @itz_nathael3977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤗😇 yesssssssssss😁😂😄😆😉😊🤗😇

  • @hafijulshaikh9976
    @hafijulshaikh9976 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    first

  • @precioussamson2264
    @precioussamson2264 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks so much Sir for sharing stay blessed