Very interesting points about the affection from her mother ruling out narcissism and the possibility of Gypsy being jealous of her Mom being nice to Nick.
@@heathernicholson4160 one thing about Gypsy is she is a pathological liar. But she likes to spin the truth mixed with the lies she tells and usually when she address things like this it’s usually her jealousy she’s talking about yet trying to blame on the other person. Behavior pattern recognition is important when dealing with people like this
Thank you for covering this. I’m the daughter of a narc mother. Now as an adult I’m meeting so many others and we have so much in common. I feel that excessive physical affection and lack of physical boundaries can also be a thing for some narc moms though. Co-sleeping into teenage years, making you into her proxy partner/ best friend, getting jealous of any friends you may have, etc.
@@KristinaJade This is why I post content because you guys helped me so much remembering things that you went through that I may not have even mentioned. I clearly remember my mother now that you mentioned it getting jealous of the friends that I had.
I have learned so much about narcissism through you more than I have a psychologist you have a way to explain it where it's very understandable❤ been a subscriber of years for a while love your Channel❤
That girl still has no concept of money. She's never had to earn anything in her life. She has very high expectations of society, lol. If she thinks people are going to take care of her for the rest of her life, she is sadly mistaken.
@@the_end_of_ct you’re right! She still has no concept of money because her mental illness prevents her from truly understanding what real life is. Her illness keeps her in a fantasy life that she feels like she is OWED or deserved without putting it any work. It’s gonna all come crashing down soon
Trying to pay 12k for Taylor swift tickets is INSANE when you take into account, she's welcoming a baby in less than 4 months. The handouts will only go so far now that she can't pull the "i have cancer" card again
@@donnadeniseeverhart so you had a narcissistic mother and a narcissistic father? I am so sorry to hear that I can imagine that was incredibly tough to grow up in a home like that. Are your needs being met now? Are you taking care of yourself now because I asked someone who grew up in an narcissistic home. Sometimes our needs were not getting met and later in life. We have to basically parents ourselves so that we can get what we need.
Yes I started taking care of myself once I turned 60. I also grew up in physical abuse so it was hard. I have a homeless sister who didn't survive it, and my other two sisters and I don't speak. So broken family
Hello dear! How you doing today? You don't have to apologize to us ♥️ we are human and adults. Things happen. Hope you're feeling better. Don't forget that you're not alone .. we are here for you ❤️
@@whatmyohmy borderline and narcissistic behavior are very similar and when someone has antisocial personality it can be hard to distinguish between it all
OMG! Girl! When you just said that you "grew up with a narcissistic mother and affection wasn't shown", I damn near choked on my cigarette! Because you are spot on! My Ma and myself actually took a Narcissism test and I still remember my score (it was a 4) and my Ma's score (which was an 18) and the test was asking or based on psychological testing outcomes type of thing. It stated that movie stars and celebrities in Hollywood typical rank between 18 - 22, which 22 was the highest. My Ma actually told me that the test DOESN'T prove that she's a narcissist but DOES prove that I'm weaker than her and let people walk all over me which "is probably why you find yourself in the types of situations and with the types of losers you choose to go with as opposed to the types that have $$$ and not getting attached to them like I used to at your age!" I was 22 years old and I still remember her saying that. Back to affection, I rarely remember either one of my parents hugging or kissing or even saying "I love you" to each other. Let alone to my younger brother or myself. Well, my Ma was affectionate towards my brother more than ever being towards me. Idk if it's a cultural thing, because we're Sicilian and my grandparents are from Palermo, Sicily. Idk if it's because I was born 1st or if it's because my dad used to triangulate my Ma and I against each other when the 2 of them were fighting. He'd become all buddy buddy with me and I just can't right now, if you know you know. As a mother myself to our precious 6 years old daughter, my husband and I say "I love you" in our home, Adrianna visually sees her parents hugging and appropriately giving the other a kiss. We show respect towards each other even if we're in an argument. I started what I dubbed, "Family Hug" in our home and when someone calls out that we need a "Family Hug", we drop what we're doing and all 3 of us hug because nothing else is more important in that moment than our little family. I'm so afraid of screwing up our daughter, not saying that my poor decision-making/life choices are my parents/Ma's fault (I did them, I'm ashamed of them, I own them and I've grown from the person I once was and continue to grow every day still) but I'm petrified that I'm going to make Adrianna feel like my Ma has made me feel. My Ma even expressed jealousy and anger towards me a few years ago because I "was making her feel like a bad mother when watching the type of relationship Na-Na and I have and how I am always putting Adrianna's needs and wants before my own". That was an actual fight she started with me and then left my home and wouldn't talk to me for a couple of months, told my brother (who lives completely free still at home and he's 4 years younger than I am) that it's my fault for making her feel like she's a "bad mother" and I ended up apologizing for my relationship with my daughter. Told her that she may want to reconsider future visits because I in no way whatsoever will change my way of parenting to fit her emotional well-being because she's AN ADULT and our daughter's MY CHILD. My husband and I even discussed how uncomfortable my Ma looks and acts as a grandmother to her only grandchild, our daughter, especially when she likes to use Adrianna's name as a means to weasel her way into our home or for a picture then show her friends and our family what a great grandma she is. I've already told my husband that the song "Dollhouse", that song and those lyrics are way to close to the truth of what my family is really like. I refuse to allow my Ma to use daughter in the same manner that I was used as a pawn to show off to other people, like purse strings, with no independent thought or voice of my own!
@@mamabear-9.18.18 I am so sorry that you were having to go through this with your mom and your daughter. Remember you’re home is your home? You do not have to change anything that you do inside of your home to make your mother feel better or to cuddle her emotional needs. She is a grown ass woman, and if something is making her uncomfortable, she can remove her herself from the situation. She is not entitled to spending time with you and your daughter. Her having a relationship with you and your family is a privilege and if her behaviors are disruptive to you, your home, your child your husband, you can revoke those privileges at any time. No one is allowed to disrespect you and your own homeand you have every right to stand up for yourself and and the disrespect.
Very interesting points about the affection from her mother ruling out narcissism and the possibility of Gypsy being jealous of her Mom being nice to Nick.
@@heathernicholson4160 one thing about Gypsy is she is a pathological liar. But she likes to spin the truth mixed with the lies she tells and usually when she address things like this it’s usually her jealousy she’s talking about yet trying to blame on the other person. Behavior pattern recognition is important when dealing with people like this
Another insightful video ❤
@@missmusiq6150 Thank you! I try :)
Thank you for covering this. I’m the daughter of a narc mother. Now as an adult I’m meeting so many others and we have so much in common. I feel that excessive physical affection and lack of physical boundaries can also be a thing for some narc moms though. Co-sleeping into teenage years, making you into her proxy partner/ best friend, getting jealous of any friends you may have, etc.
@@KristinaJade
This is why I post content because you guys helped me so much remembering things that you went through that I may not have even mentioned. I clearly remember my mother now that you mentioned it getting jealous of the friends that I had.
I have learned so much about narcissism through you more than I have a psychologist you have a way to explain it where it's very understandable❤ been a subscriber of years for a while love your Channel❤
@@susieq1969 I’m so happy to hear that! Lots more videos coming
Good to see you back!! Another excellent video!
@@ShannonLennan so glad to be back! Thank you for being here
Hi Viv good to see you back, I love you content ❤❤❤
@@mariamccauley2922 thank you for being here. I’m so glad to be back. It’s been a rough couple of weeks for sure.
That girl still has no concept of money. She's never had to earn anything in her life. She has very high expectations of society, lol. If she thinks people are going to take care of her for the rest of her life, she is sadly mistaken.
@@the_end_of_ct you’re right! She still has no concept of money because her mental illness prevents her from truly understanding what real life is. Her illness keeps her in a fantasy life that she feels like she is OWED or deserved without putting it any work. It’s gonna all come crashing down soon
Trying to pay 12k for Taylor swift tickets is INSANE when you take into account, she's welcoming a baby in less than 4 months.
The handouts will only go so far now that she can't pull the "i have cancer" card again
@ the free ride us ending soon
You have such good insight into human behavior. I love your videos ❤
@@michellecrowe6142 thank you! I’ve spent a lot of time watching and analyzing people who have treated me poorly
I grew up with narc mother and father so i get it
@@donnadeniseeverhart so you had a narcissistic mother and a narcissistic father? I am so sorry to hear that I can imagine that was incredibly tough to grow up in a home like that. Are your needs being met now? Are you taking care of yourself now because I asked someone who grew up in an narcissistic home. Sometimes our needs were not getting met and later in life. We have to basically parents ourselves so that we can get what we need.
Yes I started taking care of myself once I turned 60. I also grew up in physical abuse so it was hard. I have a homeless sister who didn't survive it, and my other two sisters and I don't speak. So broken family
Hey Viv 👋
I'm here. 0:52
I appreciate the insight... I was raised by narcissist also.
@@Peachtreedishes it sucks for everyone
9:48 that's what she always did. She used my IQ against me because with my iq, I should have been able to do anything. She was ridiculous. I hated it
Hello dear! How you doing today? You don't have to apologize to us ♥️ we are human and adults. Things happen. Hope you're feeling better. Don't forget that you're not alone .. we are here for you ❤️
@@NatashaTapps I appreciate the love and support so much
Your talking about mental illness. Borderline personality disorder!!!
@@whatmyohmy borderline and narcissistic behavior are very similar and when someone has antisocial personality it can be hard to distinguish between it all
@Bnvivthepetstylist and you can have both.
OMG! Girl! When you just said that you "grew up with a narcissistic mother and affection wasn't shown", I damn near choked on my cigarette! Because you are spot on! My Ma and myself actually took a Narcissism test and I still remember my score (it was a 4) and my Ma's score (which was an 18) and the test was asking or based on psychological testing outcomes type of thing. It stated that movie stars and celebrities in Hollywood typical rank between 18 - 22, which 22 was the highest. My Ma actually told me that the test DOESN'T prove that she's a narcissist but DOES prove that I'm weaker than her and let people walk all over me which "is probably why you find yourself in the types of situations and with the types of losers you choose to go with as opposed to the types that have $$$ and not getting attached to them like I used to at your age!" I was 22 years old and I still remember her saying that.
Back to affection, I rarely remember either one of my parents hugging or kissing or even saying "I love you" to each other. Let alone to my younger brother or myself. Well, my Ma was affectionate towards my brother more than ever being towards me. Idk if it's a cultural thing, because we're Sicilian and my grandparents are from Palermo, Sicily. Idk if it's because I was born 1st or if it's because my dad used to triangulate my Ma and I against each other when the 2 of them were fighting. He'd become all buddy buddy with me and I just can't right now, if you know you know.
As a mother myself to our precious 6 years old daughter, my husband and I say "I love you" in our home, Adrianna visually sees her parents hugging and appropriately giving the other a kiss. We show respect towards each other even if we're in an argument. I started what I dubbed, "Family Hug" in our home and when someone calls out that we need a "Family Hug", we drop what we're doing and all 3 of us hug because nothing else is more important in that moment than our little family. I'm so afraid of screwing up our daughter, not saying that my poor decision-making/life choices are my parents/Ma's fault (I did them, I'm ashamed of them, I own them and I've grown from the person I once was and continue to grow every day still) but I'm petrified that I'm going to make Adrianna feel like my Ma has made me feel. My Ma even expressed jealousy and anger towards me a few years ago because I "was making her feel like a bad mother when watching the type of relationship Na-Na and I have and how I am always putting Adrianna's needs and wants before my own". That was an actual fight she started with me and then left my home and wouldn't talk to me for a couple of months, told my brother (who lives completely free still at home and he's 4 years younger than I am) that it's my fault for making her feel like she's a "bad mother" and I ended up apologizing for my relationship with my daughter. Told her that she may want to reconsider future visits because I in no way whatsoever will change my way of parenting to fit her emotional well-being because she's AN ADULT and our daughter's MY CHILD.
My husband and I even discussed how uncomfortable my Ma looks and acts as a grandmother to her only grandchild, our daughter, especially when she likes to use Adrianna's name as a means to weasel her way into our home or for a picture then show her friends and our family what a great grandma she is. I've already told my husband that the song "Dollhouse", that song and those lyrics are way to close to the truth of what my family is really like. I refuse to allow my Ma to use daughter in the same manner that I was used as a pawn to show off to other people, like purse strings, with no independent thought or voice of my own!
@@mamabear-9.18.18 I am so sorry that you were having to go through this with your mom and your daughter. Remember you’re home is your home? You do not have to change anything that you do inside of your home to make your mother feel better or to cuddle her emotional needs. She is a grown ass woman, and if something is making her uncomfortable, she can remove her herself from the situation. She is not entitled to spending time with you and your daughter. Her having a relationship with you and your family is a privilege and if her behaviors are disruptive to you, your home, your child your husband, you can revoke those privileges at any time. No one is allowed to disrespect you and your own homeand you have every right to stand up for yourself and and the disrespect.
Your opinion? Do you think the baby should be taken from Gypsy and placed with her dad?
@@reneemansini7687 I’ll make another video about this