Guys are told not to cry so we as men say fuk it not just our job and it's our way to tell the women to man up call it a taste of their own medicine if you will.
@@cookieervin3028 okay?? Just ignore the probably one person who told you not to cry. It’s not their choice what you do with your emotions. Just because someone was rude to you, doesn’t mean you have to be rude to other people in return. If you can’t grow from the experience and become a better person, then start thinking internally. Try to work on yourself and talk to yourself, if you feel the need to cry do it. Don’t push your trauma on others because you couldn’t handle it, try to grow from it💗
@@Stols._Ream it can be really tough, but the reward after is everything. I’m personally still working on myself and my mental health, I just don’t get why everyone is so against crying when it’s in our nature. It’s like being embarrassed over a fart, everyone does it but we still get embarrassed about it lol
@VanajhaCansler of course you’re strong, beautiful, and smart. But crying doesn’t make you weak at all! Like I said it’s completely natural to happen and it’s better to let it out than hold it. Sometimes all I need is a good cry to just feel better! I’m glad your father reminds you of your positives though!!
I always think that mothers are the one who comfort us and fathers make us strong from stop crying , like being serious so we dont really cry much when we are getting bullied
My dad always says “toughen up,don’t be such a baby” or “stop crying,it’s not ladylike” but I still love him,even though he has anger issues,he is working on them❤
“Stop crying.” my dad used to say that to make me stronger. he recently told me from experience that just because someone cry’s doesn’t mean they are weak, but they just have been stronger than you ever will be but they bottled it up to help others.
''I'm going to give you a real reason to cry'' that's what my father told me when I was little. Or there was also when I was crying in the street he told me not to approach him, because he was ashamed of me. My father scared me, I still remember it, I took him for a “monster” and I had nightmares about him.
They say, “Strong people don’t cry” but others fight back and say “When a person cries, it doesn’t mean they’re weak, they just been strong for too long”
"Stop crying or I'll give you a reason to cry. "... that phrase gave me a reason to cry... Edit 1: Over 700 likes?? Tysm guyssss Edit 2: 1k likes??? Tysm for the support
when my father, i really wanna cry but ik that the only way to stop him from doing it is to stop crying because i know he gonna tell me to stop crying and hit me harder...
My mother does that to me she be like "Shut your ass up before i give you a reason to cry, you shouldn't be crying infront of those who put you down it makes you look weaker than you already are." Very wise woman ✋
“If you don’t stop crying I’ll give you a reason to cry..” That hits hard to a person who stopped showing emotions. (edit: Don’t wanna be this person so I won’t.)
“Sometimes emotions speak louder than words" This is what I always told to my younger sister, when you cry it's not a sign of weakness, but of strength.
Sometimes. My dads a narcissist, so sometimes its,,, eh. Hard. For all of us. And of course he doesn't know it. Rarely when I cry he comforts me a bit. But most the time leaves it for my mom
Crying is important for the mental health. Crying is a reaction. Crying is controlled sadness which is controlled by your hormones. When parents say “stop crying” that scares the body into releasing more of the hormone that makes you sad enough to cry. And the more we hold that hormone in, the more your body loses the to need to cry. This adaptation can cause another reaction to certain situations to replace crying. Nervous Laughter, Panic Attacks, Freezing Up, and etc… it also causes* anxiety to form.
My mom recently told me that women used to try to manipulate men with tears, so most people perceive tears as fake or in order to supposedly be helpless. I have the same stepfather, and my mother understands this perfectly well.
Olha cara, eu não tenho os dois por que minha mãe grita muito e ela é a mais calma da minha casa já o meu pai briga comigo por nada, ele me bate e ainda diz que foi por amor. Eu acredito que foi mesmo po amor ele só quer o meu bem e minha mãe também, embora ela ter me batido até fazer um arranhão no meu pescoço, foi sem querer❤
same here..my dad gets mad at me easily when i cry and all he says 'stop crying and act older, learn and use self control or you will look weak' i got bullied a lot and gossiped about that time, that's why i cry in private..
Ur dad doesn't love u then but my cousin hates me ima tell u why so I don't need likes My cousin wears a mask to school everyday for some reason I had a picture of him without his mask and my friend (let's call him j) j wanted the photo so I sended it to him and when my cousin found out he got really angry and sended me this "why did u send a photo to j..... WHY..... I WEAR A MASK SO I CAN HIDE MY FACE BUT U SENDED A PHOTO TO J I WISH U WERE NEVER BORN I HATE U I HATE U I HATE U I HATE U I WILL NEVER TALK U AGAIN IF U COME TO MY BIRTHDAY I WON'T TALK TO U I WOULD RATHER KILL MYSELF THAN BEING COUSINS WITH U I HATE U I HATE U" and I still cry in the bathroom and my friend j and the others don't know that and the reason I didn't tell j because he is way over protective for me and might fight my cousin but theres much more if u want another one just give me 2 likes
I comfort myself 99% of the time, and I'm used to it by now Edit: tysm for the likes!! Edit 2: Its been a while since i cried in class but i did it in this grade Im in, honestly I was trying my best not to cry but i couldnt hold it back, I comforted myself as much as I can trying to stop crying, my friends and best friends helped me for a while too, also if I get 300-500 likes I will tell you what happened to me in third grade. Honestly whenever I think about it I feel like i was a fool.
Same here but it was only cause my mum taught me to just brush everything off so it was pretty much pointless telling her anything cause it would just be pushed to one side
@@Burnttoast_101 yeah, i forgot to add that. and i agree, if it’s like a family member dies (my grandpa died) then you should cry. that’s okay. but crying because someone is picking on you when that can / most likely can be fixed, then why cry?
"Tears are a special thing and they come very seldom in this world. Whoever is willing to make you cry doesn't deserve your tears. Tears of another should be earned, not given."- Roblox friend from 2017
It’s okay to cry over some stupid things bc some ppl are sensitive but some are not and that’s not weak if you it just means you’ve been strong for too long 😊
This always makes me feel like its the girls fault for crying but when its his fault if they say that. If you want to comfort, abusing wont let them stop. Edit: Tysm for the likes!!❤❤
If I ever needed to stop feeling Sad, stressed, overwhelmed, scared, worried, angry, and embarrassed, I would bite down on the inside of my mouth. I don't think it's good, but I've done that for years and when I do that it kinda feels like im shutting down the emotion I feel at that moment and then I just sit there for a second with a blank face and fo back to normal
This is exactly why I never cried around my dad when I was a kid, he was always tough on us, maybe because he's been in the marine, but still, whenever I cried around him, he'd always say " you know crying means you're weak, when you cry people take advantage of you" I grew up with him being tough on me every time I wanted to cry would hold it, the only time I realized that crying doesn't mean you are weak, was when my friend was chatting about her comforting father and how she understands her, all that time where I could cry and I didn't I cried right there. Crying doesn't make you weak, it just means you've been strong for too long ❤❤
yh, mine just hit me whenever i was crying or smth like that or just like the video looking at me dead in the eye wich made me stronger im reqlly gratefull..
yeah cuz my (ex) step father squeezing me till i couldnt breath judt because i forgot to ask my mom to add someones phone number even though i knew them irl isnt mean, its just making me stronger
My dad always saying "Stop crying you don't have an option to cry " Life is difficult, but if you want to overcome difficulties, you will learn to stay on your feet. Life will deal you a big blow and life will not help you, life will tell you to get up yourself. Learn to stand on your own feet. I won't always be there for you. "So stand up for yourself.."
That one time i tried to vent to my mom and she said "You jyst want atention stop that" after that even when i freaking fall of a tall cliff i didnt cry but i laugh it off
Its the opposite for me, because ever time i cry, my mom would be like ''suck it up and dont be a sore loser'', but my dad, he would comfort me always.
I know my mom always says “ stop crying what happened? Don’t worry.” I mean, she kinda goes weird. And my dad is like “i’m sorry it won’t happen again” and he gives me hugs
Same but my mom didn't care when i was having a headaches it was so bad like it hurts so much she didn't care but my dad did he gave me some water and a blanket to stop the headache and it didn't but the pain got a little weak so it didn't hut that much any more but it came back worst than the first because i was so mad at my mom and my dad tried to comfort me but i was screaming at my mom and tears flooded out my eyes and i couldn't see all i saw was blurry and i wiped my tears but i was still crying then my mom wanted to apologise and came a little closer to hug me but i went to my dad and screamed at my mom again and i calmed down a bit and the headache got worst i was screaming in pain finally i calmed down and the headache was finally gone but i was still crying and mom said sorry and hugged me i didn't hugged back but i forgived her but still mad at her i hated her for not caring you would propobly say its just beacause she did not care about you? But u guys did not understand
I live in two houses, one with my mother and the other with my grandmother. When I feel pain, my mother comforts me and gives me medicine. However, one day, I had a bizarre pain in my legs, we were outside the house and we were already leaving. When I got into the car and laid down to stretch my legs, I was crying a lot, until my grandmother looked at my face and said 'STOP CRYING GIRL, FOR GOODNESS' SAKE' my grandfather tried to defend me, but it didn't work. I endured unbearable pain for more than 10 minutes without being able to shed a tear...
Most of the time, lots of kids experience this but that's mainly because either the father doesn't care or the father never received any of the proper care or comfort he was supposed to get when he was younger which probably caused him to grow cold. Which is also the reason why my dad never comforts me, he just give me the death stare and now every time i cry and i see my dad i instantly wipe my tears and glare at him then he just smirks.
I think my dad just never got the proper comfort. I know it because he told my siblings and me “I would kill for you guys. Do you know how important you guys are to me? I would go to jail for you kids.”
Same thing with me. My dad sees me crying because of him he yells at me saying”STOP CRYING! YOU AND YOUR SISTER DO NOTHING AROUND THIS HOUSE” When I do everything to make him happy. I make drawings for him, I clean the house for him because he complains that is always messy, I do everything. To him, is not enough.
This is so true, I had an emotional breakdown because I stopped a friendship and he caught me, he just left. Like walked out of my room and back to his without a single word. Why.
For me it's the opposite! When I'm crying my mother says "swallow that crying or I'll give you a reason to cry" But my dad makes me feel so much better, he plays with me, caresses me and lots of other things❤️
Me too.... I always get compared by my mom...yesterday she told me that... Our aunt may has the smartest child BC they don't play Roblox... I play Roblox and always get compared sometimes I sit in a corner and call myself stupid..... Sometimes I rage so much that in my mind i don't care...
my parents and ppl around me made me stop crying or even having emotions like HAPPINESS maybe thats why i dont have any memories from my childhood. its THEIR FAULT.
They don't want you to cry to make you stronger especially strict parents when they hurt u they do it to make you come back stronger. Y'all I'm saying something referred to what people say leave me alone ik my dad did it to me too 😭
Mine were the opposite growing up. My mother was a narcissist, manipulative woman who would find any reason to take my happiness away from me. She was annoyed by the sound of my sobs and never consoled me, not even once unless it was in front of another adult to make it seem like she was a good parent. My dad, on the other hand, is a great man. He always makes it known that feelings are normal and should not be ignored. He would often make me feel better when I was overwhelmed and stressed out as a teenager and help me with whatever I needed. Growing up with a bad parental figure raising you is hard, but know that you are loved ❤
Same But my Mom doesn't do that tho because at my Mothers i cry in bed alone at my fathers i cry in my bedroom alone but sometimes i can't hold tears and my Dad comforts me alot because tbh the one giving me the sadness is my Mom
Moms are the ones who comfort and help. Dads are the ones who don’t allow you to cry and make you strong so you don’t cry. But dads just usually make it worse..
@@fxiry_sofia11lucky I get none of that instead my step mom never comes to see me (my biological left me when I was only 6 months old and she did not die btw she took away my 15yr old sister :( ) and my dad either tells me to die or suicide or even more mean stuff.
“Crying wont make things better” Im so happy my dad told me that. I used to cry over lil things and when he said that i did start crying as usual, but after i put it in my head i realized he was not kidding
I hate people like this... Mostly because I grew up around them... They barely try to comfort me and only ever say "dry it up or I'll give you a reason to cry" I barely show my emotions around them anymore because of it
My mum would literally say “ I am your mother so tell me what’s wrong now!” Or “Stop crying it’s making your AUTISTIC BROTHER throw things!” Yes she emphasises on the ‘autistic brother’ part
guys there’s nothing wrong with crying, if u hold in ur tears you won’t feel any better, your not weak because ur crying, just let it out, just cry it out. it’ll be okay, you’ll be okay. remember when u cry it out you’ll feel better, grab a drink, wash ur face, talk about ur situation (if comfortable) don’t worry a loved one will always be there for u
@@astrxo2 well, everyone in my school hates me and they always said things about me that were mean, and it always makes me cry since I'm a sensitive person and people went a little to far by saying shit about my dog and my dog is dead plus, they wouldn't stop making fun of me for 4 years, since it was to much the next year I will have to change schools because they harassed me for 4 years and it made me depressed
This is exactly what my mom and my dad does he can get so angry even with "il give u a reason to cry" hits hard... I wish parents could be more comfortable some times):
nahh my mom just conforst me like"its alrigth come i will make you a hot coco your fav" but my dad is like"NO BODY WILL HURT MY FUCKING DAGTHER" he is like that
“Stop crying or I’ll give you a reason to cry”
That hit different,. 😕
Relatable after the age of 5 I never cried again 😀✨💖
HELP THAT'S WHAT MY MOTHER SAYS SKEKEEJEIEB UHM
When my mom is mad at me and she sees my crying bc she said something hurtful, she says that 😍
Real.
Those are my parents fr
They always say "crying doesn't solve anything", but it's still hurts
thats true
Like some guys that don't understand that that is how we try to fix our selfs by having in emotional brake out. 😔
Yeah. I relate to this so much…
Same, my dad keep saying that whatever im crying over a reason?!
Like they just DO NOT UNDERSTAND THAT WE CRY CUZ WE WANT TO RELEASE OUR STRESS-
My father is just like that... When I get into fights with him sometimes his anger is so high
Oh my god i feel bad
*i have the same as you..*
Oh my dad isn’t he would mostly take me to my favorite store
Me too buddy!!
Me too honestly..
Me too-
If i wasnt in school in next day he yelled on whole neighbour..
I’ve never understood why people are against crying.. it’s a natural thing and people NEED it sometimes.
Guys are told not to cry so we as men say fuk it not just our job and it's our way to tell the women to man up call it a taste of their own medicine if you will.
@@cookieervin3028 okay?? Just ignore the probably one person who told you not to cry. It’s not their choice what you do with your emotions. Just because someone was rude to you, doesn’t mean you have to be rude to other people in return. If you can’t grow from the experience and become a better person, then start thinking internally. Try to work on yourself and talk to yourself, if you feel the need to cry do it. Don’t push your trauma on others because you couldn’t handle it, try to grow from it💗
@@SaagggeeeeeI was always a very sensitive and stubborn person myself.. it was tough
@@Stols._Ream it can be really tough, but the reward after is everything. I’m personally still working on myself and my mental health, I just don’t get why everyone is so against crying when it’s in our nature. It’s like being embarrassed over a fart, everyone does it but we still get embarrassed about it lol
@VanajhaCansler of course you’re strong, beautiful, and smart. But crying doesn’t make you weak at all! Like I said it’s completely natural to happen and it’s better to let it out than hold it. Sometimes all I need is a good cry to just feel better! I’m glad your father reminds you of your positives though!!
This is true and he said:”stop crying or I’ll give you a reason to cry”
Scared the hell outta me when i was little..
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Geometry dash reference
relatable
I always think that mothers are the one who comfort us and fathers make us strong from stop crying , like being serious so we dont really cry much when we are getting bullied
👍 yup
Its the opposite for me
same
In my case it was quite the opposite. My father was the one who comforted me and my mother was the one who hit me. 😕
My dad always says “toughen up,don’t be such a baby” or “stop crying,it’s not ladylike” but I still love him,even though he has anger issues,he is working on them❤
My dad always used to tell me „crying doesn’t change anything, it’s a waste of time“. He is the reason I don’t cry anymore
“Stop crying.”
my dad used to say that to make me stronger. he recently told me from experience that just because someone cry’s doesn’t mean they are weak, but they just have been stronger than you ever will be but they bottled it up to help others.
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Same with my dad
Same
They say crying is another way to express how you feel when your words can't explain how painful it is ❤
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Yeah😢
Yes.....crying doesn't make one weak
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😢😢😢yeah
''I'm going to give you a real reason to cry'' that's what my father told me when I was little. Or there was also when I was crying in the street he told me not to approach him, because he was ashamed of me.
My father scared me, I still remember it, I took him for a “monster” and I had nightmares about him.
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my dad said “you look ugly when you cry”😭
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Same
He gave me motivation all the time (still crying lol)
They say, “Strong people don’t cry” but others fight back and say “When a person cries, it doesn’t mean they’re weak, they just been strong for too long”
True😊😇 🥰 😍 🤩 😘 😗 ☺️ 😚 😙 🥲 😢😢 😭 😱 😖 😣 😞 😓 😩 😫 🥱 😤 😡 😠 🤬 😈 💀 👿 ☠️
No.
@@hoedigazaly3423shut up
Nah he got it off a poem from jonnie dep ( I hope I said that right)
That’s true…
When I was little, my dad would come up to me whenever I'm crying. He'd tell me to stop crying and ask what or who made me cry.
Exactly
Fr bro same
Same
I wish bro
same💜
"Stop crying or I'll give you a reason to cry. "... that phrase gave me a reason to cry...
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@@Tete_is_coolno it not
My grandma when i cry for nothing:"Stop crying or ill give you a reason to cry"
when my father, i really wanna cry but ik that the only way to stop him from doing it is to stop crying because i know he gonna tell me to stop crying and hit me harder...
Nah fr though
Am I the only one whose dad comforts them???
It seems to me that my dad is ready to buy me the whole world. 💞
My dad dose too
Yep
Nope
Me too
"IF YOU DON'T STOP CRYING I'LL GIVE YOU A REASONS TO CRY"
was told to me so many times in my life
(Edit) OMG OMG that's a lot of likes ty so much
same
Deffintly same 😢
My father never do this he only hugs me tight because I get good grades
@@Anabia_officialchannel you don't understand
Only by my mom
My mother does that to me she be like "Shut your ass up before i give you a reason to cry, you shouldn't be crying infront of those who put you down it makes you look weaker than you already are." Very wise woman ✋
Frfr
They are gonna use it to take advantage of you.
Sounds cruel ngl
Crying is healthy… it’s an emotion…
"Crying doesn't make you feel weak.."
-Wise person.
“If you don’t stop crying I’ll give you a reason to cry..”
That hits hard to a person who stopped showing emotions.
(edit: Don’t wanna be this person so I won’t.)
WAIT WHAT
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Its so true when i cry my dad says what r u crying for?! Sometimes he is smiling sometimes hes angry
You know someone always says this " Crying does not make you weak...it just means that you have been strong for too long"❤
“Sometimes emotions speak louder than words" This is what I always told to my younger sister, when you cry it's not a sign of weakness, but of strength.
But some times action are louder🤫🙂
Oh god Kanae you are still alive ..???
That is the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard💀
I will..screenshot that to get reminded of that
@@Aaliyah_bigbackno its not. as a person who has trouble with talking to others this is a great way for my friend to understand what happened
They act so cold but yet in reality they can't stand to see you like that
True I broke my finger today
I mean.. It's normal getting yelled at for crying for me, my situation is like in the video except i cry on nights, so i don't get caught
Sometimes. My dads a narcissist, so sometimes its,,, eh. Hard. For all of us. And of course he doesn't know it. Rarely when I cry he comforts me a bit. But most the time leaves it for my mom
Thats true
Same,I cry at only nights becuz i don't want my parents to know
This is so relatable. My dad barely cares about some of my emotions, I feel like he mostly cares for my sister.
"Whats wrong sweetie?"
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Crying is important for the mental health. Crying is a reaction. Crying is controlled sadness which is controlled by your hormones. When parents say “stop crying” that scares the body into releasing more of the hormone that makes you sad enough to cry. And the more we hold that hormone in, the more your body loses the to need to cry. This adaptation can cause another reaction to certain situations to replace crying. Nervous Laughter, Panic Attacks, Freezing Up, and etc… it also causes* anxiety to form.
tysm for telling me this ❤️
@@andrayagooday6222 anytime!
Me that can cry easily………..
i hold in my crying all the time no wonder i laugh nervously
Then I've mean neglecting my mental health because I don't cry
"Stop crying, or I'll give you a reason to cry." Always scares me so badly.
Exactly bro one time I got hit with a metal spatula and sent to the basement until I stopped crying😭😭
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@@skephalo5940that’s abuse you should tell a adult about that
@@Itz_dino692 it is??? Wth-
The way he said 'Stop crying'...
I love my dad
My mom recently told me that women used to try to manipulate men with tears, so most people perceive tears as fake or in order to supposedly be helpless.
I have the same stepfather, and my mother understands this perfectly well.
W- what!?
Yeah good on her not trying to be rude btw but if it happened to him he must have trust issues from that...
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@X3IR0 it’s just to bring more reality to what tone they are conveying in the comment they made.
No one comfort me also my family but My friend.. such a real friend.
Friends suck. 🥳👍
Friends suck. 🥳👍
@@ZZZ_LocoWoman hell no
"Stop crying or Ill get my belt ready"
No way@user-md4yc4fp7j
Thats my dad edit:I mean the words
WHY DO I KEEP SEEING YOUR ACCOUNT EVERYWHERE I GO?
Pfp everywhere just stop its annoying at the end
my first time seeing him comment a short 🎉🎉
Thats real for my mom, my dad is caring like my mom and he comforts me❤
It's true... I'm always afraid to cry in front of dad...
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Fr me too😭😭😭
If he says that to me I’m hitting him 🙄
Yeah same
Me to he well tell me to stop crying or else he will hit me
Same 😭🙏🏻
this is so real, one time he told me “i dont like daughters who cry”
True, then they I don't like crybabies
I got so lucky! I don't have a dad! 😁😁
And I don’t like dads who hate daughters who can feel
I only have a step dad but he is great! ☺
@@Me0w_trix good to know😁
"You're not going anywhere until you say why you're crying."
That hits different
My dad used to say this when he was mad,but he just conforts me like my mom,love ya dad
Omg finally someone has experienced that too! It feels odd how I can't shed a tear in my own house..
Ik
Yeah that's why I cry silent
Same
@@luzplays123 SAMEEE
I saw you too times in a comment
I'm lucky that my dad is super gentle and supportive, comforting me every time my mom gets mad at me and yells
Mines 2
Same
Dang, you'll be Lucky
Olha cara, eu não tenho os dois por que minha mãe grita muito e ela é a mais calma da minha casa já o meu pai briga comigo por nada, ele me bate e ainda diz que foi por amor. Eu acredito que foi mesmo po amor ele só quer o meu bem e minha mãe também, embora ela ter me batido até fazer um arranhão no meu pescoço, foi sem querer❤
Lucky...Both of mine doesn't even act like your dad
same here..my dad gets mad at me easily when i cry and all he says 'stop crying and act older, learn and use self control or you will look weak' i got bullied a lot and gossiped about that time, that's why i cry in private..
Are you ok tho?...
@@durgadevisaren8387 not really 🥲
Ur dad doesn't love u then but my cousin hates me ima tell u why so I don't need likes
My cousin wears a mask to school everyday for some reason I had a picture of him without his mask and my friend (let's call him j) j wanted the photo so I sended it to him and when my cousin found out he got really angry and sended me this "why did u send a photo to j..... WHY..... I WEAR A MASK SO I CAN HIDE MY FACE BUT U SENDED A PHOTO TO J I WISH U WERE NEVER BORN I HATE U I HATE U I HATE U I HATE U I WILL NEVER TALK U AGAIN IF U COME TO MY BIRTHDAY I WON'T TALK TO U I WOULD RATHER KILL MYSELF THAN BEING COUSINS WITH U I HATE U I HATE U" and I still cry in the bathroom and my friend j and the others don't know that and the reason I didn't tell j because he is way over protective for me and might fight my cousin but theres much more if u want another one just give me 2 likes
Same-
@@Slazeredits oh my goodness I’m so sorry that happened, I really hope that they will forgive you and I’ll especially pray for your cousin and you💜
my dad is the type of man to comfort me or say “go cry to your mother.” 😭💗 (it’s ok dad I’m not the best at comforting aswell)
I usually get comforted by words, rather than physical touch because I really dont like being touched.
Same mostly by men it makes me feel really uncomfortable 😣
@@SushinBoBayea same
Ngl but hugs by people iam comfortable with makes me feel alot better :)
@@SushinBoBaincluding your dad?
Tbh, same but I don't get comforted by words most of the time- Yk what a cold-hearted person is, right? Yeah just like it (Ignore my pfp)
I comfort myself 99% of the time, and I'm used to it by now
Edit: tysm for the likes!!
Edit 2: Its been a while since i cried in class but i did it in this grade Im in, honestly I was trying my best not to cry but i couldnt hold it back, I comforted myself as much as I can trying to stop crying, my friends and best friends helped me for a while too, also if I get 300-500 likes I will tell you what happened to me in third grade. Honestly whenever I think about it I feel like i was a fool.
Ur not alone
I’m here with you and I do the same my parents scare me
same gurl. we can comfort eachother😢
Same here but it was only cause my mum taught me to just brush everything off so it was pretty much pointless telling her anything cause it would just be pushed to one side
Just asking but are you ok mentally 😢
It hits really different when they say they'll give you a reason to cry and just disappear leaving you to grow stronger
Literally after my mom or dad says that feel so bad in the inside now😭
My dad is actually really comforting lol
That Dad is both my parents ❤💔....
Lol
@@user-dr7jo5no7kthat isn’t funny?
@@user-dr7jo5no7kthat isn’t funny how are you laughing
Oh want a hug??
If I could give u a hug I would
@@user-dr7jo5no7k their mom died or left them how the fuck is that funny?
my dad told me “don’t cry. it shows others what triggers you and your weak points. crying doesn’t resolve the problem.” i genuinely agree with this.
Sometimes the problem can't be resolved, then it should be okay to cry.
@@Burnttoast_101 yeah, i forgot to add that. and i agree, if it’s like a family member dies (my grandpa died) then you should cry. that’s okay. but crying because someone is picking on you when that can / most likely can be fixed, then why cry?
"Tears are a special thing and they come very seldom in this world. Whoever is willing to make you cry doesn't deserve your tears. Tears of another should be earned, not given."- Roblox friend from 2017
@@BiancaCoppedge dang that’s good.
@@chaoticgamesxo Roblox friends be knowing some things bro. I didn't even realize how to spell half of it when I was first told that 🤣
I love the way my father raised me.
"Stop crying over stupid things, Don't cry, it's ridiculous."
-Dad
It’s okay to cry over some stupid things bc some ppl are sensitive but some are not and that’s not weak if you it just means you’ve been strong for too long 😊
My dad is like this too
@@RAULMARTINEZ-dy6zx same
My dad always told me crying is rude- 💀✋️
@@Lucky_step my dad told me to not cry about dumb stuff
My father is like that too... After that, I can never stop crying when I'm emotional... I am a sensitive person...
This always makes me feel like its the girls fault for crying but when its his fault if they say that. If you want to comfort, abusing wont let them stop.
Edit: Tysm for the likes!!❤❤
I feel like this is me being left out because it's the other way for me.
Like when I’m crying hitting me isn’t gonna make me stop crying it will make me think negative of you (him) and since ever I tbh starting to hate him
For me my dad wants me to stop crying so he can hear me explain why im crying better. Ur dad ❤'s u ya just dont know it.
my father is exactly like that. this is why I barely cry anymore.
Same issue here.
Same..
Same but it's for both my parents
@@Drunk_rat_123same
If I ever needed to stop feeling
Sad, stressed, overwhelmed, scared, worried, angry, and embarrassed, I would bite down on the inside of my mouth.
I don't think it's good, but I've done that for years and when I do that it kinda feels like im shutting down the emotion I feel at that moment and then I just sit there for a second with a blank face and fo back to normal
“Dry it up.”
This made me cry more 😢
IKR
Fr
4 me it was “suck it up”
This is exactly why I never cried around my dad when I was a kid, he was always tough on us, maybe because he's been in the marine, but still, whenever I cried around him, he'd always say " you know crying means you're weak, when you cry people take advantage of you" I grew up with him being tough on me every time I wanted to cry would hold it, the only time I realized that crying doesn't mean you are weak, was when my friend was chatting about her comforting father and how she understands her, all that time where I could cry and I didn't I cried right there. Crying doesn't make you weak, it just means you've been strong for too long ❤❤
“Fathers aren’t mean. They just wanna make you stronger.”
yh, mine just hit me whenever i was crying or smth like that or just like the video looking at me dead in the eye wich made me stronger im reqlly gratefull..
I'm father I do not want to ever say he is my dad
yeah cuz my (ex) step father squeezing me till i couldnt breath judt because i forgot to ask my mom to add someones phone number even though i knew them irl isnt mean, its just making me stronger
Make me strong??? He make me think like a fool
They do a amazing job at.. making us cry more
This triggered my ptsd and trauma and I had a 10 min panic attack
@@Austria-hungary-21I hope ur ok :(
@@KLK_PAWZ I am but it scares me
My dad always saying "Stop crying you don't have an option to cry " Life is difficult, but if you want to overcome difficulties, you will learn to stay on your feet. Life will deal you a big blow and life will not help you, life will tell you to get up yourself. Learn to stand on your own feet. I won't always be there for you. "So stand up for yourself.."
Yea he is right
@@ItsSnowAngel actually it depends how old he (sorry if i misgender you) is. if hes still age 0-14 you should not be saying things like that..
My dad laughs at me when i cry that’s why i try to not cry to not make him laugh
@@S1GN4LMCI’m sorry 😢 for you ❤
Well I wish my dad could say that to me when I cry but he’s not around anymore and that’s the reason I cry in the first place
My father doesn't do that but he comforts me and i share things with him and he made me strong 😌
My father was abused as a kid. So thankfully he’s very sweet and wants the best for me and my other siblings. Thank god he would never do this.
You're lucky......
I am abused by my mom and dad all the time
@@FatimaAlaradi-gj1moare you okay?...
@@FatimaAlaradi-gj1mowhoa uhm.. sorry..
@@FatimaAlaradi-gj1moAre you okay now?
it hits hard when you talk to them about it and they scold you for it.
or they start about the things i did. like stfu....
"well you did this too" LIKE RAHHHHH
That one time i tried to vent to my mom and she said "You jyst want atention stop that" after that even when i freaking fall of a tall cliff i didnt cry but i laugh it off
Its the opposite for me, because ever time i cry, my mom would be like ''suck it up and dont be a sore loser'', but my dad, he would comfort me always.
That so sad
Bro my mom does the exact sam thing except she says “ you can cry but I’m not gonna care “
Same
I know my mom always says “ stop crying what happened? Don’t worry.” I mean, she kinda goes weird.
And my dad is like “i’m sorry it won’t happen again” and he gives me hugs
Same but my mom didn't care when i was having a headaches it was so bad like it hurts so much she didn't care but my dad did he gave me some water and a blanket to stop the headache and it didn't but the pain got a little weak so it didn't hut that much any more but it came back worst than the first because i was so mad at my mom and my dad tried to comfort me but i was screaming at my mom and tears flooded out my eyes and i couldn't see all i saw was blurry and i wiped my tears but i was still crying then my mom wanted to apologise and came a little closer to hug me but i went to my dad and screamed at my mom again and i calmed down a bit and the headache got worst i was screaming in pain finally i calmed down and the headache was finally gone but i was still crying and mom said sorry and hugged me i didn't hugged back but i forgived her but still mad at her i hated her for not caring you would propobly say its just beacause she did not care about you? But u guys did not understand
It's honestly scary when dad says stop crying because he'll do the worst damage 😞
This is true
I live in two houses, one with my mother and the other with my grandmother. When I feel pain, my mother comforts me and gives me medicine. However, one day, I had a bizarre pain in my legs, we were outside the house and we were already leaving. When I got into the car and laid down to stretch my legs, I was crying a lot, until my grandmother looked at my face and said 'STOP CRYING GIRL, FOR GOODNESS' SAKE' my grandfather tried to defend me, but it didn't work. I endured unbearable pain for more than 10 minutes without being able to shed a tear...
Damn... Are you okay?
I hope u are ok :(
You okay..?
Happends to me every week (my dad yells at me)
Same. Like bro how do you expect me to stop crying!? It’s a natural thing I cannot control.
Omg I feel the same way!
Like your the reason I’m crying
@@MISOSOUPYO 💀
@@P1x1e_St1ckzhe meant the mf who said to stop crying
@@zapzap1405 oh lol
"Stop being a cry baby, you're 13 years old, act like it"
I want to cry just thinking about that phrase
Fr except I’m 10
I dont know but i heard people saying this to me so many times i actually don't care about it anymore
same.
oh my god I cry harder everytime they say that, can u not be so harsh on me????? like I'm literally breaking down and u make it harsher
@@iwillstealyourbread frrr
Damm my dad is like this too. He never comfort me in any way and Sometimes it feels lime ,,why are you crying again "
Thats why i always stay calm ,towards my dad , and listening carefully , through,his bullshitting.
:333
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We know
I mean it says it at the bottom so..
Exactly the same for me the more i cry,the more he gets mad
@EdwardFpe-c4w thats kind of abusive
... :(
@EdwardFpe-c4ware you ok with that?..... because that is abuse to people..
@EdwardFpe-c4w wow...I hope your fine my dad sometimes let me watch shows I like or when he's mad he will just scream and break my ears
fr tho
Y’all have strict parents
BRO WHY IS THIS ACTUALLY TRUE. IF MY DAD WALKS IN ON ME CRYING HE GETS MAD AND SAYS “why are you crying.” “Stop crying.” LIKE..
Most of the time, lots of kids experience this but that's mainly because either the father doesn't care or the father never received any of the proper care or comfort he was supposed to get when he was younger which probably caused him to grow cold. Which is also the reason why my dad never comforts me, he just give me the death stare and now every time i cry and i see my dad i instantly wipe my tears and glare at him then he just smirks.
My dad never comforts me either he only would rather slap me in face to stop crying
I think my dad just never got the proper comfort. I know it because he told my siblings and me “I would kill for you guys. Do you know how important you guys are to me? I would go to jail for you kids.”
My dad is the complete opposite. He’s actually pretty kind. Everytime I cry or something he just comforts me, I’m lucky to have a dad like him 💕
Mine too
Same😊
Same
Same!
Mine too 😀
They like " im making you stronger " but they never did..
OH SH!T IM FAMOUS MOMMMMM
literally.. i guess most people think bottling emotions around your parents is the right way to get stronger apparently 😕
I love this comment😢
@@Thepretty_music_deer ty :D
@@sqtur oh yeah no wonder they call me fat and they say it's a joke..
@@horns522 real
True.. He doesnt let me cry.. he makes me inside tho..
Same thing with me. My dad sees me crying because of him he yells at me saying”STOP CRYING! YOU AND YOUR SISTER DO NOTHING AROUND THIS HOUSE”
When I do everything to make him happy. I make drawings for him, I clean the house for him because he complains that is always messy, I do everything. To him, is not enough.
oh my... Is that really true......?
@@Chloro_oxelletedoes it actually look like she's being satire??
Idk :D...
My dad is the opposite, he loved me through every struggle in my life. If I cried. He would hug me! He's kinder than abusive parents
Ru lucky
@@Viyorri I guess so..but he's sleeping rn, (he always loves to sleep but he barely gets some so I will let him sleep) :)
Same
If I was crying my dad would asked who did it who made u cry
И мой
This is so true, I had an emotional breakdown because I stopped a friendship and he caught me, he just left. Like walked out of my room and back to his without a single word. Why.
Did he feel bad? Usually people don't want to talk about it so he probably thought u also didn't want to talk about it
It’s usually because it’s often times is better to just leave someone alone if they’re upset
To me its the complete opposite my mom will ignore me crying but my dad will literally comfort me
That’s also true to mine
Whenever I cry, he says stop crying louder
For me it's the opposite!
When I'm crying my mother says "swallow that crying or I'll give you a reason to cry"
But my dad makes me feel so much better, he plays with me, caresses me and lots of other things❤️
Me too....
I always get compared by my mom...yesterday she told me that...
Our aunt may has the smartest child BC they don't play Roblox...
I play Roblox and always get compared sometimes I sit in a corner and call myself stupid.....
Sometimes I rage so much that in my mind i don't care...
@@IlonahjeanEvallaI hate that game so much,but my obsession made me look different. It's like when you get drunk.
Lucky my dad always tells me to STOP and my mom constantly helps me
For me it hits different when u say it’s natural but they talk abt how they don’t want u to get “smooshed” by other people when u cry
my parents and ppl around me made me stop crying or even having emotions like HAPPINESS
maybe thats why i dont have any memories from my childhood.
its THEIR FAULT.
They don't want you to cry to make you stronger especially strict parents when they hurt u they do it to make you come back stronger.
Y'all I'm saying something referred to what people say leave me alone ik my dad did it to me too 😭
I have strict parents. Even if they yell at me they still love me even if I cry they say crying don’t solve anything but I love my mom. ❤
Boy shut up, do you even know how it feels to have your parents strict in one point of your life because they're your first ever daughter?!
i understand, but my parents don't do it to make me stronger. they do it out of anger.
Ah yes, yelling at you and making you learn to bottle up your emotions is making you come back stronger, totally.
@@KimYoung-c6t right!
Mine were the opposite growing up. My mother was a narcissist, manipulative woman who would find any reason to take my happiness away from me. She was annoyed by the sound of my sobs and never consoled me, not even once unless it was in front of another adult to make it seem like she was a good parent. My dad, on the other hand, is a great man. He always makes it known that feelings are normal and should not be ignored. He would often make me feel better when I was overwhelmed and stressed out as a teenager and help me with whatever I needed. Growing up with a bad parental figure raising you is hard, but know that you are loved ❤
Same But my Mom doesn't do that tho because at my Mothers i cry in bed alone at my fathers i cry in my bedroom alone but sometimes i can't hold tears and my Dad comforts me alot because tbh the one giving me the sadness is my Mom
I know how it feels the same thing happened to me then my mum left with a lot of money and I barely see her
same here and she blames my dad for thing she made me do
Same but my mom used to mock me every time I had a problem.
Okk
My dad say stop crying it’s ridiculous,bc my mum always makes me cry and he’s helping me stand my ground
Moms are the ones who comfort and help.
Dads are the ones who don’t allow you to cry and make you strong so you don’t cry.
But dads just usually make it worse..
Opposet for me my dad lets my cry my mom don’t
My parents comfort me❤
My mum: okay! Your okay sweetie! Stop crying love *huggies*
My dad:why you crying?! Are you okay?! Cone here *huggies*
@@deltarunefan96 me too.
@@fxiry_sofia11lucky I get none of that instead my step mom never comes to see me (my biological left me when I was only 6 months old and she did not die btw she took away my 15yr old sister :( ) and my dad either tells me to die or suicide or even more mean stuff.
My dad was always so sweet when he comforted me. I was happy to have a dad like that, but the best always leave first…
Oh no.. That's sad..
I'm sorry! 💜
That's really sad,same thing happened with me
same.....
I'm so sorry :(....
“Crying wont make things better”
Im so happy my dad told me that. I used to cry over lil things and when he said that i did start crying as usual, but after i put it in my head i realized he was not kidding
That's the point ppl should see what their father is trying to say, he just wants to help us...but still it hurts....
Yeah ik but ik i:'ll one day realize and mature
@@Bildunz.Lantai im sorry but i had a stroke reading that
I hate people like this... Mostly because I grew up around them... They barely try to comfort me and only ever say "dry it up or I'll give you a reason to cry" I barely show my emotions around them anymore because of it
For me, my dad comforts me the most then my mom.
Same
Fr
Same whenever I fell down he comforts me
Same
Same
Whenever i cry my mom is like "stop crying or ill give you a reason too cry" and my dad if he sees me crying he hugs me and comforts me
EXACTLY THATS MY DAD HE COMFORTS ME
Opposite…my dad plays games 24/7 and is loud when I'm in the way he slapped me😬 but I told my mom…
@@janetteflores956 oof...
SAME I don't have a mom tho idk where that girl went
@@Stitchlover_53 oh
Youre loved! Telling people theyre loved 11/100
You too :3
No one comforts me at all when I cry I have to comfort myself when I’m crying I don’t wanna share my emotions to anyone else
“stop crying.”
my dad always told me that to get me to calm down. I always knew that he meant that whatever I was crying about wasn’t worth it.
For some people they need the mom's comfort...
But for me whose whole life depended on the mom...
I need that dad
for me the opposite my mom is horrible but my dad is awesome
My mum would literally say
“ I am your mother so tell me what’s wrong now!” Or “Stop crying it’s making your AUTISTIC BROTHER throw things!” Yes she emphasises on the ‘autistic brother’ part
thats messed up.. and why does she have to include your brother?
@@tzuyu_simp no idea
That’s so messed up your brothers autism doesn’t give your mom a valid excuse not to parent you wtf I hope your ok
@@HaiMeowBurger Dw i just sit in my room all day so she can’t get to me
for me it’s my mom she absolutely hates it when I cry and thinks it’s annoying and that I’ve got nothing to cry about
My dads like that.....he wants me to cry never its like he has no emotions hes the one making me cry...
So true
Some Dad’s need hearts
And some dads never have hearts@@Miller-Mill
My dad stares at me for a good minute before asking me if I want McDonald's cus he knows he sucks at comforting ppl... 😐
guys there’s nothing wrong with crying, if u hold in ur tears you won’t feel any better, your not weak because ur crying, just let it out, just cry it out. it’ll be okay, you’ll be okay. remember when u cry it out you’ll feel better, grab a drink, wash ur face, talk about ur situation (if comfortable) don’t worry a loved one will always be there for u
Hey, maybe we can talk?
@@YuniGuni_0_0 of course!! (sry i commented so late, diff time zones)
@@astrxo2 well, everyone in my school hates me and they always said things about me that were mean, and it always makes me cry since I'm a sensitive person and people went a little to far by saying shit about my dog and my dog is dead plus, they wouldn't stop making fun of me for 4 years, since it was to much the next year I will have to change schools because they harassed me for 4 years and it made me depressed
@@YuniGuni_0_0 i’m so sorry you had to go through that, I can help you get through it, this is a safe place :DD
@@astrxo2 can you :(
It does hit different. It makes you tough.
This is exactly what my mom and my dad does he can get so angry even with "il give u a reason to cry" hits hard... I wish parents could be more comfortable some times):
My dad comforts me and my mom is just ignoring and thinking in mind of worries
nahh my mom just conforst me like"its alrigth come i will make you a hot coco your fav" but my dad is like"NO BODY WILL HURT MY FUCKING DAGTHER" he is like that
Fr tho asirimanzade
@@asirimanzadeNah those are my parents give em’ back