Trans TikToker Regrets Transitioning??
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Well here's the crazy thing this community LGBTQ+ they don't want to tell the negative effects of what this can do to somebody or the negativity that comes with it like as the person sees in the video or as we see in the video and then anytime someone wants to detransition The community all of a sudden becomes Judas and turns their back on the individual that is trying to reclaim themselves and yes you are correct Matt Walsh does explain these things in his video and shows both sides to this but those in that community are so close minded that they refuse to even consider looking at others experience that have gone through this kind of thing or look at anything that opposes them if you want to have an objective opinion on something you should look at it from all sides and then make a decision well this is what we're at in the world so it is what it is.
"we"?
@@Slippzy The way it's been recently it is a lot of young people because they're young I don't know what they want today or tomorrow things can change at any time. The older people they've had time to think about things understand the decision they're going to make is something that Will impact them for the rest of their life and they've accepted it and they know that that is who they are and most of the time they're fine. But it just seems nowadays everyone wants to be some type of identity and they'll go to the extremes to achieve it everyone just wants to be special at least that's how I think they see it but once you realize if everyone's special then nobody is. I don't know it's sad to say it is what it is but this is where we're at right now and human history
Nope! Just like I fully thought out my transition and am so much happier years later, I’m fully evaluating the options and choosing to not subscribe to this closed-minded channel.
@@Echo024 ooh quick question if you don't mind why is it that there are videos out there that are put on TH-cam or TikTok of a person that was or had transitioned and they supported by the community but then chooses to detransition cuz maybe they regretted their decision or just input as much thought as you did into it and chose to go back the community turns their back on them. Like another example there was a comedian a trans woman that shouted out support for another comedian a black American comedian Dave Chappelle and now of course this wasn't proven but it's just the course of events because the support this person shot it out prior to this person committing suicide this person was bullied by said community for supporting Mr chappell now Mr Chappelle himself talked about this on one of his comedy specials and you know he said he can't say what actually happened cuz he doesn't know but all he knows is she gave him support the community responded negatively to it and a week later said person took her life sorry for just ranting on honestly the second one you may have not known about but the first question would be interesting to know if you have an answer for it or if you're offended by any of this line of questioning then my apologies I was really just trying to get more informed stay blessed have a great day. Sorry for the run-on sentence
If body parts don't define gender, what, exactly is being transitioned?
Hmmm it’s probably to feel more comfortable with own body not all trans people get any surgeries
The person? I don't get it.
Exactly! It's like when they wanted to combine all the toys and not have a boys section and a girls toys section because toys don't determine your gender. Like why mix them then if they are all neutral anyways, it's just easier to find stuff if they are organized in boy vs girl
@@egemendenizcilnah y’all are just feeding your delusions
@@fromleahs no you cannot. You’re terribly misguided
"They don't warn you"
Bruh, we do. You just ignore it and call it hate
@D12 Raging
Them doing it anyways doesn't mean there wasn't any warnings. It's like every medical procedure, they tell you the risks. But since these people only value what their activist friends say of course they'll say nobody warned them.
@D12 Raging We warn people, but we get demonized as evil bigots and booted off social media. Hard to hear a warning when that warning is censored and deemed hate speech
Oh my so true, they call it hate but were warning you. get rid of these non existent struggles. for some they actually feel like there a different gender but far to many were just brought up like that. a kid becomes he is he from his environment. if the parents taught him to be a girl then he will, a lot of the times it's not even the kids, the kids are just curious about dresses and girl toys doesn't mean they wanna be a female there KIDS there curious. if a kid was curious about that white stuff those homeless men were sniffing do you go and buy tons of cocaine and tell them hey you can be a cocaine additced be who you are NO, you tell the kid that's bad drugs don't do that you don't indulge in it. people these days.
Two things can be true at once. Many ppl who've ended up detransitioning probably have seen these videos talking about detransitioning and wrote it off as hate. But there also can be ppl that don't come across the warnings at all.
I have experienced something similar, for me, it was a self confidence issue, as a child I've always felt bad about being a girl, always felt a little less than. So when I came across the term 'non-binary' on the internet I thought that label would fit me and started getting my own ideas for transitioning in the future. I experienced NO opposition or encouragement from my real life nor the internet. I eventually gained more self-esteem and I didn't feel that way anymore, I'm extremely glad that I did not have to go through transitioning and detransitioning. For young people, it's very easy to mix up emotions, they're just getting no confidence and gender dysphoria mixed up.
@@marcel7734 take the advice of someone who is probably older than you. Dont ever label yourself that way....just had a conversation with someone about this. Were discussing one having anxiety or depression. This person said they realized after awhile they had labeled themselves as " somebody with anxiety." Therefore they had given themselves an excuse for not doing certain things. They had anxiety for real, but using the label had given them sort of an out. They could use said label every time an uncomfortable situation arose. If they had an uncomfortable social situation, and didnt wanna face it, they just excused themselves saying " well i am a person with anxiety, so its ok." Instead of attempting to face the situation. We, as a society, have greatly increased the use of labels and convinced many that they need a label for whatever is uncomfortable to them. You wont always be comfortable in life, but facing these situations makes you stronger and makes you who you are in the longer run. It creates your character and builds your confidence. So dont always try to label yourself. You dont need one. You are who you are and you are most likely still learning and growing. Its natural to be uncomfortable sometimes. It just doesn't always need a name or label. And if youre not a younger person, and im speaking out of turn, i do apologize. Just a bit of advice from what ive learned in my own life.
When the person says, “They don’t warn you,” they aren’t talking about Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro, {any conservative with a microphone}. They are talking about their “allies,” their doctor, their counselor, all these people who were supportive of transitioning.
THIS IS SO TRUE
Because money, it's all it is. Golden pig for life.
Yeah. Doctors should give warnings like bruh
Ie groomers
Doctors do warn about this and the risks as it's illegal to withhold this information from a patient
I think you misunderstood the video.. some trans people even after the transition they might still feel gender dysphoria like they are not trying enough or they still don't fit with their gender identity.. she is not regretting her transition she just share her fears and feelings with her followers anyone might feel like that not just trans people.. like you are not girly enough as woman or not manly as a man
As trump once said...
"Wrong!"
@@psychoticpebble yeah coming from a cishet
I'm late but something that stood out to me was the fact that he said "what if I'm an ugly girl"..."ugly girl" as if it's it all about appearances
That's probably just a fear they had, for example, everyone thinks before a major haircut 'what if it makes me ugly?'
@@pandagrace9856 Well hair grows back,but dicks don't.
For some, its about being trendy, about looking pretty, about being the most oppressed or being the most unique & unfortunately, for a few, its about being excused for your crimes with children & getting off to a fetish. (Source, Jessica Yavin & a "trans woman" who invaded spaces for woman who had miscarriages & claimed to have had one)
That is ultimately what it's about for them. This is why male to female trans people in particular end up looking like caricatures of women. They're playing a part... putting on a costume.
@@equiyazahhak2704 wow, a few people in a community act terrible and you think it applies to everyone in the community - don't comment assuming you understand when you don't...
Can't fool me Ben, your transition is going great.
She does look like Bens sister.
I love this comment
Lol
@marcos sanchez or ben himself in a wig and makeup
@@frenchfriedbagel7035 HE!
Stop saying “they don’t warn you”
Accept that you didn’t listen
You're warning us about a 3% regret rate that's not a very big chance
@@socializewithme.1828 3 out of 100 people. That's actually a decent amount
@@air9710 3 out of 100 people is 3%? Yeah no that's not true
@@air9710 they don't listen but they blame people for their own decision despite being unsure of their own gender. FEELINGS ARE UNRELIABLE MOST OF THE TIME.
Honestly, for those who regret it, it’s not that they didn’t listen but that people told them not to listen. If they don’t regret it there’s no problem but if they do, you can tell someone should’ve stopped them. You can’t tell me all the problems they have after transitioning, every single one of them are caused by hate, really? I doubt that, of course I’m not saying there isn’t any caused by hate, I know there’s a lot, but all of them? No. I think the problem is letting young people make these big decisions because people want to be supportive and I understand that, (If I was in the situation of a parent whose kid wants to transition I would support my kid through and through, so maybe I’m hypocritical) but people have to understand that kids are stupid. Okay now this off topic but In the end the ones who profit are those supplying these surgeries, it costs money to be transgender, how does that make sense? Question for someone who’s more informed than me, is someone not truly transgender if they don’t spend lots of money on all those surgeries? How’s that fair for those who can’t pay for all that? Okay rant over.
Does regret happen? Yes
Should we ban anyone else from making a decision of themselves? No
Is detransitioning often found to be connected to the victim being outcasted by those around them, leading them to detransition? Yes
False
@@mr.mclibtard5015 Evidence?
@@RS-xb9lo don't be a sheep
@@mr.mclibtard5015 I am not a sheep, I just know that de-transitions are the exception, not the norm, and are often caused by external rather than internal factors.
@@RS-xb9lo where's your proof?
It's wierd that she looks like a female Ben.
Edit: Femme Shapiro she is.
I KNOW! I was just thinking, how do we know this isn't Ben in makeup? 🤣
@@moderatesoprano9562 Yep - this is Ben on his days off... like, this is what he does in his own time. Wears makup and talks in a high voice. 😜
And you are the 4th person to observe this in this comment thread. She has read/heard this many times each and every day.
@@moderatesoprano9562 it isn’t. And you are the 5th person in this comment thread to make this observation.
To these people counting how many people make this comment: whats your point? is Ryans comment any less valid because many people agree? or is he supposed to read all the comments first before he comments, so that he doesnt repeat something someone already said? or is there some other significance to this that i am missing? surely the normal response is just "i know right? " or if you get tired of replying then stop replying. its almost as if youre trying to shame or belittle people for saying this.
“They don’t tell us” noooo you chose not to listen
they were talking about being non binary not detransitioning
Are we supposed to listen every time someone tells us not to do something because we might regret it?
@@denverlilly3669 yes, you are supposed to think about it. not doing so is called lack of impulse control. you are supposed to think before you act, especially before life changing major decisions.
@@denverlilly3669 uh yeah when it's something this drastic this isn't just smoking weed or doing some dumb innocent thing literally playing with your entire future and it's exactly why a lot of these people who transition with no thought about it end up committing suicide. these kids need help not encouragement it's so tragic
@@LK-dn2ms So how bout we help and guide them rather than just dismissing them as liberal abominations? If they're committing suicide over transitioning to the opposite gender, there's some underlying issues there. I'm not going to dismiss something out of hand simply because it's abnormal or unconventional.
I grew up on a toxic household and I was gaslit into thinking I was a boy.
After moving out, my boyfriend did this amazing thing where he told me "You know, you can be a girl and still like boyish things."
I was confused and didn't buy it at first because of how I was raised, but after hearing other people's stories I realized I was wrong. I realized I felt so much discomfort in my body because I wasn't a boy, I was a woman the whole time who'd been lied to.
If it took you that long then you have very low intelligence. I am nothing like my parents and think not like them. I was born with my own brain capable of thinking for myself.
I don't think that's an uncommon experience, sadly. I've seen similar things happen to my family members, but thankfully in our case, it at least wasn't our family doing it to each other. I just really hope she sees some day she isn't a man. There was a lot of beauty and meaning in her that she rejected when she transitioned, and I can still see the remnants of it in her, but it's clouded over by her desire for masculinity. It's heartbreaking.
@@liamcroatt171
It's so difficult to see things like that happen. I witnessed the same thing happen to my brother, being pressured into identifying as non binary.
I have nothing against trans people and their wish to transition, that's fine, but there's such a huge difference between forcing someone to transition and truly knowing your identity
@@ArtHeartAlex Yeah, our culture angers me in that way. I understand that transitioning is often seen as a solution to intense pain and suffering on the part of the person who is transitioning, but our culture is so fixated on this solution. Whenever I see it, I can't help but think that, surely, there is a better way to help them than this. This solution seems to say, "No, there is something wrong with you right now, but if you fundamentally change who you are, you'll be better." People have protested me when I express that with the belief that they are transitioning *into* who they fundamentally are, but the body you're born with is part of that: it's not right to tell someone that their body is a defect, even if they already believe it. I just don't understand why we aren't communicating to them that they're already a masterpiece, that they don't have to radically change their bodies into something else. That's the approach we take with every other kind of insecurity with one's body, but for some reason that's not what we do here and it angers me.
@@liamcroatt171
I understand why people would rather change their body at the same time though. Something as simple as breast reduction surgery because they hurt or the person just genuinely doesn't like them. Or vice versa with someone getting implants.
My thing is that it should always be up to the person. If our bodies are a masterpiece, and the person doesn't see their body as that, I 100% believe they have the right to create their own masterpiece if they're truly certain that's what they want. If I had done that I'd have hated myself forever.
My solution is educate people to the fullest extent and then let them decide. Don't push it
People regret some medical procedures? What! That's crazy
According to the National Library of Medicine, the regret rate for gender affirming care is around 1% (for reference the average regret rate for most surgeries is 14.4%, also according to the National Library of Medicine) While we should listen and support people who regret, we should also pay attention to the vast majority of people who don't regret. We wouldn't ban heart surgeries because their regret rate is around 25% (according to the Canadian Frailty Network).
So yeah, people regret medical procedures, big suprise
Dont try and use logic with sources, conservatives dont really understand those concepts…
You can’t compare heart surgery to gender transitioning. People who need heart surgery are critically affected as they can die from not having the surgery and the heart is a very important organ that everyone living animal needs to survive. Not to mention heart surgery can correct life threatening conditions. Gender transitioning is more of a mental issue, granted some may choose to harm themselves tragically because they don’t have access to it. But let’s not compare apples to oranges.
@@thisismyyoutubeaccount3322
Also gender affirming surgery is only done on adults so you also outed yourself as someone who doesn't know what the fuck theyre talking about
this! and also the fact that to actually get these surgeries or any kind of medical gender affirming care it takes a LONG time. it takes a very long time because doctors want to make sure you wont regret it. they dont ask if ur trans and then cut ur dick off.
@@shirley444 the statistic of regret also goes for plastic surgeries and non-emergency surgeries..?
It’s like reverse bullying where the trans community will make you feel bad about going back
Sure..
@@capeto08they legit do this. Your callous remark is just looking down on all detransistioners who have went through that. The community rips them apart.
@@epic7224 sure the do.
Nobody except some aholes are gonna bully you for detransitioning, it's your body and I'm sure nobody in the trans or outside the trans community is going to bully you for making a mistake
@@capeto08It’s been proven time and time again that this happens. A multitude of ex-trans influencers have been harassed for detransitioning.
i thought Ben Shapiro transitioned for a moment-
Hahaha that would be so ironic
Why does she look so much like him, right. I am glad so far, She seems Smart girl.
Hahah best comment i’ve seen all day thanks 😂
Lmao this the one
@@freaxfilm facial structure and eyebrows, i think
That’s their life. If they regret it. That person doesn’t speak for all trans people.
Yes! Transitioning is helpful for some people to help know that they are what they transitioned to be, others it helps them realise that’s not actually who they are, either way people who transition learn something from it
But their story is just as important.
Just how people who don't regret it, don't speak for all trans people. What's your point?
yES!!
@@dumb8530 well actually taking hormones or having surgery can be harmful if you're not actually Trans. That's why it's important to have therapy qnd work it out and not to just do it willy nilly.
I was forced to be feminine when I was little, and I hated it when I got older. I thought I was a guy, but I wasn't. I wasn't a girl either. Finding gender doesn't come with tikTok, it comes with trauma.
Here's advice to people (gay, queer, trans or not) who seriously need it. You can be who you seriously want to be and I couldn't care! Everyone's human, no matter opinion or political ideology.
What do you mean by ‘I wasn’t a girl either’? What are you then? Genuinely curious x
@@Snoopuchino Non-binary
@@xadia_sxnnsflxwer What does that mean? Sorry, I don't really have this in my culture!
@@Snoopuchino You identify as neither male or female.
@@Snoopuchinoyou have no gender I’m nonbinary
I like how her voice is exactly female Ben Shapiro, on the dot
If she somehow imitates shapiro for attention then she got a nice understandi g on how things work on yt. I cant even be mad if she intentionally imitates him cause its funny
I just commented this. And I'm now seeing all these comments haha
I thought it was Ben Shapiro in a wig
I think it might be his niece or his cousin or somethiny
based voice then
I honest to god thought this was Ben Shapiro with the gender swap filter trying to prove some kind of point.
Same though 😭
same
Ben would never, you know how he is with people gender swaping 🤣
@@chloebradlington1965 Good point 😂
God*
My lesbian best friend in highschool was super masculine, and hated her name, so we’d call her KP instead of Katie. She was always in men’s hoodies, baggy camo pants, chain wallets, and beanies. She cut her hair boy short, and wore tight sports bras to hide her chest. She hid her natural anatomy in her clothes much like I did. It was like a save bubble of hoodie between our female anatomy and the hostile world.
The last time I saw her, she was so feminine, and her girlfriend was calling her by Katie, I almost cried. I was confused at first, “Who???” She said, “Yeah, I guess I finally did the work, and I’m learning to be comfortable with who I really am.”, and she said it with a smile 💔
She was definitely the type of person that was at risk for the transgender brainwash. Even I was against femininity in high school, because it was confused with weakness & vulnerability. We both grew up in areas where life was hostile, and being a female made you a target, unless you became masculine enough to prevent it. We didn’t find familiarity in a princess mentality because nobody provided for us. We were just surviving in a horrible situation. We were taught by our fathers that females were not valuable. I’m so glad that we both found strength in our femininity in healthier environments.
I too liked chain wallets and flannel shirts. I’m glad that was the 90s cause I could just go through my phases and like what I liked. I don’t understand what’s so wrong with being a lesbian or gay man these days. If you like what you like you don’t have to transition to what you’re not to get what you like. I don’t know what is going on. So glad you and your friend are just living your best lives as who you are.
Wow, that's a really profound insight -that it can be too dangerous to be perceived as feminine. Never thought about that. I'm genuinely sorry you and your friend were trapped on that as kids. Hope you are doing well now ❤
if people stereotyped less, there would be less transgenders. Just saying.
This was my story. I dodged a bullet I always say. Would’ve been at huge risk for brainwashing. That’s why I’m so against this movement- I’m very much a woman and although I don’t wear makeup really or do my nails that’s NOT the kind of thing that makes a woman a woman
That's absolutely key. I too have taken on a more masculine persona because I wasn't allowed to be feminine during childhood and struggle even now as someone who provides for herself and doesn't have many people to have my back. Being tough is a defense mechanism.
There is no shame in detransitioning. It happens VERY rarely, and nearly EVERYONE who transitions DOES NOT regret it one bit. Also was it explicitly said that "not sure if I'm a girl" refers specifically to reverting back to "boy"?
Nah, i think the original tiktoker goes by they/them now, I can’t find their account but i do remember following them
@@Kass_onhisXbox_account My point exactly.
Exactly. Many transphobes falsely believe that the regret rate for gender-affirming procedures is around 50%, when in reality it's only about 1-2%. Additionally, they often argue that trans people are pushing a 'trans agenda' on children. In truth, no one is imposing this on children. Instead, the goal is to educate them that gender dysphoria is a real condition and to promote understanding and acceptance. Also haii fellow MLM ;3.
Yes because theres only 2 options. Woman or man
@@mani2faded So if you look to your right you'll see this thing called Science, which does not support you at all
There should be more conversation normalizing being confused and less conversation about figuring everything out and putting 50 thousand labels on yourself for the sake of “being woke”
LITERALLY
Absolutely!
You guys...do NOT get it.
part of the process of “figuring things out” is experimenting. Dysphoria doesn’t have a cure as we know it so people turn to the treatment that they think will give them some sense of relief. Sometimes they are wrong, but most times they are right. But neither should be held as taboo or anything, some people get even more dysphoria form transitioning, some get the relief they were looking for. both outcomes should be accepted and unstigmatized
@@midnight.tantrum727 THANK YOU!! If I could shake your hand I would. You are incredibly educated and know what you're talking about!
-Sincerely, a trans man
She literally talks and looks exactly like Ben Shapiro. Even the mindset is the same.
EACTLY, like the way her mouth stays slightly open when watching videos, its insane
Ok I'm scared now. If her mbti is same like Ben i will be more scared
Maybe because HE IS NOT AND CAN NEVER BE A SHE !!!!!!!!!
The way she pauses and is passive aggressively insulting trans ppl too lol
The based mindset
These clowns
"YOU'RE *TRANSPHOBIC* "
Also these clowns
"WHY DIDN'T YOU *WARN* US"
That’s why I don’t deal with clowns or partake in the circus, let them do their clown shit I can give a fuck but if these clowns try to recruit my children into their circus I have a big problem with that
Oh we did warn them. The problem is, they failed to heed our warnings.
There's nothing wrong with transitioning or detransitioning. Some people might be forced to transition, some might later realise they are gender fluid and then figure they preferred their previous body.
And other people actually feel comfortable with transitioning.
Let people live their own life and make their own mistakes. Why do you care so much about peoples that shouldn't be the part of your concern?
Besides, why people are trying to pick a fight between trans people and people who detransitioned? Both sides have individuals there who needs support and understandment equally.
Just let people choose. Regardless of your opinion or aftermath
I am from EU. My friend had trouble to finish UNI few years ago so was offered 5x free sitting at psychologist or psychiatrist (I do not know which) by UNI - dep. of International relations.
After this sittings friend dropped from school started to proclaim they are opposite gender, and became protester of everything w.h.o, w.e.f and alike orgs, despite knowing each other from kindergarden and never really showing any sight of being atracted to same gend. or showing other gend. behavior or being so pro/against some issues to protest.
Yet, when we were teens, I found book from Mr. Moody. The back papers of the book, there was way to hypnotise so of course I tried this with my friend.
It did not work for me, but for said friend….ugh it got ugly, friend started trashing, rolling eyes backwards and …it looked like seizure, because in hypnosys friend was in scene where said friend died in ….“previous” life?!
Back to present:
After psych. sitting friend started to sprout about some childhood memory which apparently let them realise they are in a wrong body…..
…and every other discusion on rationality of friend s newfound identity led to agitation and even anger….like there was block put in friend psyche.
But if you read some hypno-books, or even only watched shows like Inception or The Mentalist….that is exactly what hypnotiser needs, A. root memory (real/fake, older better), B. new twist in memorty/new ideology and C. blockage against erasing of new tweaked settings.
The thing is, friend now NOT only prefer to pronounce themself wrongly, now dislikes 95 or more% of movies, books, other media or hobbies my friend prefered for decades, change started rapidly just days after last sitting, their writting style changed and even drawing signature is slightly different.
Started with propagating euthan…, abort…., eco…., vega…. , abolish farm….and other matters while some of stances on things are against even friends own livestyle.
Any reasoning led to unnatural anger.
I am just sad and do not know what to do, because I am afraid friend will self - harm due to block, because that is how this blockage agitation apparently works.
I am so sad and I worry I will lose my friend, but the situation is so bonkers I do not wish to be silent because my friend is not only one.
I know personally teens from 13-16 yrs old from club I lead, and 3 of teens from perhaps 20 members group went trought same process of extreme change persistently proclaimed by said individuals but not supported by facts and ….surprise I know at least 2 of mentioned teens go to….psych. “Help.”
Do not get me wrong, throught years and years I knew about at least 2 people, who were apparently either in wrong body or had from nappies problems with hormonal system and they always behaved like other gender, even their muscle movemements, reactions or hand genders were reall of opposite gender…but that is so different from this psych. help transitioners... and population percentage is skewed also.
friendly reminder that the detransition rates are 0.6% for women (mtf) and 0.3% for trans men (ftm)
I won't be nice to someone that says "nobody warned me" you will get the truth plain and simple wether it hurts or not
"Oh, I'm sorry, you feel anxious and uncomfortable?"
"BRING OUT THE SURGIOCAL SCISSORS!"
That's not what happens. You act like doctors just chop their balls off straight away, but that's not what happens. First of all, because not all tans people want to get bottom surgery, and secondly, it takes months to years to even get the surgery
seriously 😂
FR like what point are they even trying to make here
"Let me sell you the DREAM!"
-Dr. Rick Trager (Outlast)
Bruh, fuck the Xanax and lavender tea! Bring out the surgical scissors.
Was fully convinced in my own mind I was trans for 6 years, turns out it was because of childhood bullying trauma, not trans anymore, got my real self back. I am myself again. Archie.
Super happy for you. We're definitely going to see tons of more detransitioners in the future. This generation was lied to, and was shoved gender ideology into their brains while they were still developing.
Hot
based w
It’s not like that for most people tho
W, glad you didnt go down that route
I swear the saying “ do your research “ is so useless nowadays
you can find people who agree with you on the internet no matter your opinion
I feel like its impossible to "do your own reasearch"
bruv that just means google.
XD
@@MasalaMan also why do your own research if you'll find what you want to hear?
why are you so focused on their life, like why are you caring about them if you don’t support them like brett cooper just be quiet
i know that there’s gonna be hating towards me so go ahead
👇🏽
womp womp 😂
Huh
And why are you so oppressed towards this video? Like why are you caring so much to boost this video like girl just be quiet 🥱🥱
You CANNOT be talking right now! Girl your built like a demeted chick who just sits in her room and poses to a cringe ass filter that has been dead since the year 2018, also your cat died for too long just by having a glance of your face 💀☠️
We really need to destigmatize de-transitioners. Some people aren’t what they thought they were at first. But since we do not define marriage by divorces, let’s not let this define the trans experience
If it turns out to not be your thing then im ok with it. People make the wrong choice sometimes and thats ok. The issue is transphobes grip hold of detransitioners who make up under 1% of trans people and use it as a reason to justify their shitty hate. And trans people hate that.
Divorce is vastly different to taking drugs and having surgery to transition and then de-transition
Doesn’t matter what they think they are they are not that. If I think I’m black am I actually black?? If I think I’m 16 when I’m a grown ass man does that make me 16? Absolutely not this is ridiculous that this is even a thing and all we are doing is validating peoples mental health and indoctrinating children and abusing them by transitioning kids that are as young as 2 years old
this!!!
a lot of people who detransition are sadly gaslighted into thinking they truly are trans- and in this society sometimes its hard to tell. i have no issue with trans people and lgbtq is totally okay but i think it confuses people. if youre going to do something as big as transitioning you should wait until youre at least 25 to fully decide but at that point its your choice.
@@thanaily agree ! Im 15 mtf and have medically been transitioning and now I’m de transitioning because of how horrible the medication has been making me feel Ik I’m not the only one that feels this way but you don’t feel alive like you can’t process stuff around you it’s like if your brain dead and another reason is cuz I could feel my bottom at all theirs multiple reasons but it’s not worth it tbh it has ruined me mentally sm and now I’m recovering from it slowly
Anyone else remember whenbthe cool thing was not to label yourself??? I miss thise days...
Yeah before the internet 😂
@@JYYBPshh. If you had a piczo website, it would be filled with labels and asians. You know it
You didnt have that “cool thing” back then ig bigot
Bring back the EMO
"whenbthe", "thise"
Its definitely important to acknowledge detransitioners and give credence to thr immense undertaking that is transitioning. It isn't for everyone, and it is unfortunate how many people regret it. It is equally important to NOT use detransitioners as fodder for developing a transphobic narrative. For every to detransitioner there are dozens of trans people who's lives are dramatically improved by transitioning. The reason y'all get labeled "transphobe" is because you refuse to address this issue without plugging in your obviously transphobic rhetoric.
I couldn’t agree more
Exactly
LOUDER FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK
join the 50%, please!
@@haha-lj5sq nice lets advocate for suicide AND rely on bullshit meme data. Truly an absolutely braindead take
We do warn you, you just call us bigots
because you are.
@@LiterallyAllNamesAreTaken def a thing an "oppressed" person would say 💀
@@jinxxwhisker I’m actually not oppressed, well..not _too_ much. I’m cis and in a straight relationship. there’s actually this thing called being an ally. most people are allies these days, only the uneducated like yourself choose not to be one.
@@jinxxwhisker You have just proven that you don't know what "oppressed" actually means. Tell me why exactly someone oppressed can not call a bigot a bigot.. You are so vague in your saying, because you just don't know what you're talking about!
@@koitka2037 an oppressed person is someone who experiences unjust and harsh treatment, often due to unfair systems or societal issues, if you think youre oppressed and that we are bigots just because we try to warn you how bad transitioning can do for you, than YOU dont know the meaning of oppressed. before you try to doubt my vocabulary, check your own
Something that just isn't talked about is the number of "De-Transitioners" who regret transitioning in the first place and then try going back to their original gender. Or the suicide rate among trans people.
The sucides are caused by terfs & transphobes bullying trans people and calling them disgusting.
Oh do you REALLY think the suicide rate is bcause they regret transitioning?
Transphobes be like “the trans suicide rate is so high!!!!” As if it isn’t their fucking fault it’s so high LMAO
@@danielelias1865most of the time yes because after transitioning it is not fully de- transitional and I stead of going through pain for the rest of their lives they end it... it's sad but very true
@@danielelias1865yup. Permanent changes to your body and mental state can really mess with someone. Gender affirming care is abuse.
There was no caption saying she regrets it, this is a symptom of body/gender dysmorphia. It has to do with body image, it’s clear she wanted to transition but feels she looks like a man. I had a trans roommate who would get severely depressed because people would touch his “breasts” and constantly misgender him. Therefore, questioning body image and feeling disgusting in your own skin. It’s good to talk about the gender debate, I just urge you to look deeper into what it means to be a trans person and not as a means of fulfilling a single agenda of “dismantling” the trans community
No. We gotta call it for what it is and STOP! people and help them before they take pills. I do not care what anyone says when it comes to helping those that volunteer to be a guinea pig to the government. It's already too late for them
@God,sssSAVE THE KING. Why are you laughing? he’s correct..
I think for many it isn’t about dismantling the trans community. Just the influences in place that are pushing transgenderism on a large audience of young, often emotionally vulnerable people. Mainly I worry about population. Many are against the idea of having kids, many are transitioning and losing reproductive abilities, many are getting vasectomies. Not to mention the growing risk of governments controlling fertility as technology advances.
😂😂
@@JFrench98 Mate, transgenderism is the last reason why people are not having children. Mainly, it's because this world cares about profit, not families. Having a family puts you at a financian disadvantage, sometimes even at risk. And many don't want to bring a child into a world that's as fucked up as this because they fear they can't protect them and that they'll have to suffer the consequences for the last generation's decisions (like the impact of climate change). Additionally, the world's mental health has dropped in the past decades, especially in the young generations. Many don't feel capable of raising a child properly or know that they aren't able to do so.
You can actually still have children when you transition, through adoption or through freezing your eggs or sperm. If not, sperm donors are a thing and they are currently trying to transfer wombs from cis women into trans women (from women who gave up their wombs willingly).
The main problem really is that it's bloody expensive to have children. And the world's only getting more expensive.
All I got to say is 10 to 20 years down the road expect a lot of lawsuits from people who regret transitioning and we’re forced to do so
@@imjustbarelygettingstarted7352 I am talking about what I consider medical malpractice the people who usually regret transitioning in the first place not everyone regrets it
@@imjustbarelygettingstarted7352when the mentslly ill patient comes in and says im having a delusion im the other gender and the doctor recommends sex change hormones and surgery. That is 100% malpratice.
It already happened in the UK. I'm surprised America didn't see that as a warning.
I know someone that’s taking testosterone and wants to be a man but doesn’t want a penis. I’m so done with this world. If you want to be a man so badly wouldn’t you want to have what makes you a man? It’s definetly not a real penis even if the surgery is done of course.
I know someone that’s taking testosterone and wants to be a man but doesn’t want a penis. I’m so done with this world. If you want to be a man so badly wouldn’t you want to have what makes you a man? It’s definetly not a real penis even if the surgery is done of course.
it was literally a joke abt how most trans people question their gender lol. even if people de transition thats fine and im glad for them but its still important to he respectful to the person in the video especially if u dont know the full context ♡♡♡
"What if I'm an ugly girl" - that was the moment he realized he just traded his manhood in for actual girl problems. 🤷🏽♀️ Wait till he realizes he still won't attract the man of his dreams cuz the anxiety only shifted and insecurity is gonna haunt him indefinitely. I can't stand the devil for this deception that is crippling these young lives and requires they maim what the Most High so delicately created.
It’s a her
There is no devil, you share as many delusions as the person in the wrong body
Changing their gender doesn’t change their sexuality or sex.
@@Gemini4400 According to them it does if you just wish hard enough upon a Disney star
Btw, he’s still a “HeeHee”
Clearly this woman has experience with this kind of stuff, knowing that this beautiful woman was once stuck in the wrong body, and that body was named Ben Shapiro 😻 congrats on ur transition boo
This is the best comment I have seen in my life
You mean dude
Lmfao i love u
ISTG STOP
i thought she reminded me of ben shapiro! i cant stand that guy
What's scary is that he said "was unsure if I would be a pretty girl" so basically the only reason they are doing this is to become better looking....
No I don't think so. I think it was a hope the he would be pretty, but it seems to me that he had much more serious issues he was trying to solve that were a lot less shallow, and unfortunately he chose a way that ended up really harming him.
@@liamcroatt171 she never said she regretted it they were simply second guessing their decision
@@liamparkos7830 I never said he regretted it, but what I said still stands. There were serious issues at play here that were not shallow, and he chose a way to resolve those issues that ended up harming him, which was transitioning; and it really isn't his fault that such a route was taken. I still stand by all of that. I've seen the same thing happen with multiple people in my personal life and they don't regret it either. I'm not just saying it without any foreknowledge.
@@liamcroatt171 first of all you’re using incorrect pronouns biological sex doesn’t determine them also the treatment for gender dysphoria which has been statistically proven to be effective at reducing suicide rates
@@liamparkos7830 I acknowledge the benefits of this method of treatment. My frustrations come from the lack of acknowledgement of the harmful nature it otherwise bears. That said, you and I are at a stark disagreement about what determines man from woman. Anything other than the body of the individual is a recent development in some people's understanding, and it's one I find erroneous. It seems to me that there would be much fewer people needing treatment at all if we had a more realistic understanding of the nature of men and women. The body may be what makes you one or the other, but there is a deeper nature there and if it were recognized, this in my opinion would be a more manageable issue. The view that there is a distinction between sex and gender and the consequences of that view, from my perspective, have stripped away the inherent dignity of manhood and of womanhood and made them less beautiful. People seem to have reduced them down to the superficial, and with the introduction of concepts like gender identity, it has been detrimental.
I will never regret my transition ❤🏳️⚧️
May God forgive your sins then..
@@LovesRolopigeo the soul has no gender)
@@LovesRolopigeowe don’t gaf abt god or whatever 😭
When she said “glad they figured it out” I think she meant she’s glad they’ve realized who they are and are coming to terms with it. I don’t think she meant that part offensively
no she probably did. she is transphobic just is scared to say it and we all know it
Exactly
That's exactly what she meant.
yeah
Who thought it was offensive?
I remember reading somewhere that transitioning used to take years. Why did that change? Why the rush?
First, the patient had to be examined by 3 psychiatrists. That took about 3 years. Then, s/he had to live as the opposite sex for 3 years. Then, the hormone treatment started. Then, surgery a few years later and it took several surgeries over several years to get to the finished product.
That seems reasonable to avoid a tragic mistake.
stealing s/he I can’t be asked to type out she/he anymore
@@joshmoxey. Just say they??? Lmao??
@@lesbianshrimp_ nah s/he is god tier
Money probably...
@@joshmoxey. I didn’t come up with it, but I’m happy share with you all the rights I have in it.
"They don't tell you" I think this person by "they" means other queer people because you're not gonna talk to a conservative when you're thinking about transitioning
And of course, they fully encourage it and accept that you are who you think you are. It’s not healthy.
Yeah because conservatives tell the truth they would rather someone who enables their fantasy at the moment
I’m a trans man and when I see people like this who arent 100% sure or dont give off real trans vibes I try to warn them but then Im called a bigot and all this other shit lmfao
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Conservative here. First one of my good friends Clark he use to be Caitlin. So can we stop with assuming that conservatives are all the same. We are not. Just as I understand everyone is different. Second I wouldn't talk to a conservative either about this because they're not qualified to help someone with this type of decision. Like I wouldn't go to a Democrat for a breast exam I would go to a doctor in that medical field. Please just stop saying nonsense bc this is the very reason why people on the right call yall idiots. Critical thinking is what most of them are asking that yall do. All I'm saying is yes talking to people that have done this is a good thing but people are different and will have different experiences so don't use their experience as a test of what another's will be like. You should always go to a few medical professionals for information never just one. I would even go to one who doesn't believe in this bc they are more likely to tell you all the cons of it all. I would also speak with a therapist about this so if you unsure they can help sort out all your thoughts about it and give you a good foundation of everything that comes with it mentally. Just be smart and don't dismiss what you don't want to hear bc of who is saying it.
I think that what you don’t bother to look up is that the de-transition rate is BELLOW ONE PERCENT and at least half of that percentage re-transition because they moved to a safer environment and de-transitioned because they weren’t safe or in an excepting environment. Do your research before being transphobic and yes I am trans
Just because some people will regret their decision, doesn't mean we have to take away the opportunity for other people.
Plus, this is also why most transpeople recommend talking to a professional/therapist about your dysphoria before making huge decisions.
@@thebarbershop8073 Thank you for putting into words what i have been thinking but unable to express, until now
Faux-Genders are real, but no one can prove that you can transition. which means you are robbing people of the opportunity to know the truth.
you cannot change your Gender.
@@meg2g114 i call it manipulitive grape ill put it this way if you found a women in a bar got her to tell you that yall was smashing. And you then d rugged her and then had sexual relations its grape manipulitive grape you altered that drink no matter she agreed to sex or not she wasnt aware of the full truth. No trans women looks like a women naturally they have to pysically alter themselves to trick men into sex and that should be illegal and called manipulitive grape plain and simple
@@thebarbershop8073 completely agree ‼️
I know a girl who was transitioning, who lost her girlfriend to drugs; which was also transitioning. But after the one girl passed, it’s like the other one completely went back to ‘normal’ she stopped dating women & stop transitioning, it’s almost like she was being influenced by a certain someone the whole time 👀
It’s almost like the trauma of loosing their partner couldn’t created an emotional resentment to how their life was causing them to want to be nothing like how there where previously
Sounds more like trauma and self hatred, hope they are fine now.
@@cupcake9690 cupcakKe is that you?
@@ashthefemboy7990 losing*
The trauma probably effected them. Maybe they didn't want to remember their loved one so they stopped dating girls and didn't want to transition becouse it reminded them of their girlfriend? Maybe something like that. Could be that they havent finished grieving yet
i don’t understand why you have to speak on someone else’s journey with gender identity
Agreed this is such a dumb take
because they get to infect children in the classroom with their crazy talk. only fair we put the sanity back on youtube!!!!
When you make a tik tok video and put it out there for all to see, don't be surprised if it gets commented on. But go ahead and message Brett an approved list of topics she's allowed to talk about.
I think that she’s trying to stop people from saying “you didn’t warn us” because in truth she is essentially warning us right now. She has many episodes about this sorta thing
Omg?? Ben shapiro your transition is flawless! Why didn’t you tell us you got surgeries?? So happy for you!
😭🤚
@@kkumaryx 🎀
REAL 😭
😂😂😂😂 GAGGED AND GOOPED
She looks like the female version of him. 😂 No hate guys.
“I’m scared to transition…”
No one is making you!!!
But that’s the person mind set… yes no one is making them do it but it’s the fear of changing of what people will say, people will do and what any place that doesn’t support transgender people. Its the fear of people hating them.
They never said they were? I'm scared of heights doesnt mean someone is forcing me to stand on the top of the Eiffel Tower lmao
Most people have some fear involving transitioning because it is hard it suks it hurts theres alot of people who will treat u like shit and there's always the chance it won't turn out how u want maybe u won't get the body u want from just transitioning cuz u have to put in work and alot of people don't get that
@@will.0w that's the literal point of the persons comment. Thanks for reiterating
@@kokolatte825 my point is that my fear isn't invalid just because its not currently happening. im not scared of heights BECAUSE im being forced, i just am. op's point however is invalid by making it sound like being trans automatically means you have to transition, or that transitioning is something that is forced upon you. you see what i mean?
As a detrans person, I think the issue is the dismissal of issues which affect us from both camps. You say people like Walsh and co speak out about these issues, I cant speak for other detrans people but I will say that I wouldnt want my struggles to be used to tear down trans people, (which, I would argue, is what conservatives tend to do) I simply want to uplift other detrans people and their voices. Right wingers co-opt detrans stories to use against trans people, whereas left wing people tend to just dismiss us altogether. No one really cares about our issues simply because it affects us and that's just how it is.
thank you for not trying to humiliate others, but just strive to help
❤
Except they’re not tearing down trans people, they’re tearing down rabid activists who are pushing their twisted ideology on society
I’m a conservative and wouldn’t think of stripping the humanity from someone with gender dysphoria. The point of amplifying the voices of those who have detransitioned is to show the urgent need to end the chemical castration of children, teens, and young adults. To end the requirement for medical doctors and psychologists to immediately approve and go along with the transition process. Within 5 years or so, women who transition and use testosterone treatments have to get hysterectomies because of the atrophy and deterioration of the ovaries and uterus, effectively castrating them. There isn’t a lot of information about the long term physical and mental effects of transitioning, but there aren’t many positives.
People with gender dysphoria, and are thinking of using surgery for transitioning need psychiatric therapy to bring their self image into alignment with their biological sex. Doctors that make irreversible negative changes to your physiology literally violates the essence of the Hippocratic oath to “first, do no harm.”
Does anyone know the name of this tik toker?
I'm sure the majority of the trans community tries to keep the information about regret from getting out to those they're influencing...
no one is being influenced to transition. y’all act like becoming trans is like taking a morning walk. insane.
This is just not true. It happens to only 1-3% of people who transition, and as a part of the trans community, we DEFINITELY warn our youth about it.
dude, I’m so excited to transition. idgaf. I’m young, 5 years to go actually, but transition is my dream. i want to have a flat chest and deep voice and facial hair. i swear every video i see of a guy like me transitioning makes me cry. i wish i could transition sooner.
5 years isn’t that long, be patient.
@@b4astgn675 im trying my hardest, actually turning 14 tomorrow. im getting closer and closer :)
me tooo
You got this, dude🫶
@@yourlocalmoron4832 thanks
... what bothers me... is that they were worried about appearance, when that shouldn't matter-
Be honest now, appearance matters a lot unless you're blind...
Bet you dress a certain way, take care of hygiene etc...
I'd be happy to just be a guy-
I'm trans and appearance is really important to me wym?
@@blbrryy I mean, I'm not fully denying that. But if I had the choice to transition I'd just be grateful I could. Not all biological men are pretty not all trans men are. It's a fact of life.
@@King_of_the_Fallen wait if ur comfortable saying, what country are you from? planned parenthood has informed consent so they can just prescribe hrt.
I've suffered body and gender dysphoria pretty much all my life. It can be really confusing and even truamatic. And I can promise you that transitioning will not make it any better, its like putting a bandaid on the issue, however i don't blame people for transitioning because the feelings can grow overwhelming if not properly address. It won't go away until you start incorporating acceptance of your given body and seek out a therapist why your feeling that way and how to cope with it.
Nah man, get your shit out of here, I’m never going to de-transition, do you know why? Because even though I was afab doesn’t mean I am not a man, because I am, and you telling me to accept the body I was born in, isn’t cute at all, I’m not self conscious like other people, I have gender dysphoria those are two completely different things, and while you can have both, I don’t, that being said, if I get called a girl or look to feminine I get really bad panic attacks, because I am not a girl, it invalidates me every time. Do better and maybe do your research, or you know help us out? Like there is a trans genocide going on at the moment, and y’all saying this is making it worse.
Plenty of warnings out there. The trans movement is like the cigarette movement a long time ago they hyped it up knowing damn well It was bad for you.
cigarettes give u lung cancer. being trans is meant to make u feel more comfortable with yourself. what is the correlation?? 💀💀
There is no trans movement it’s not a big fucking thing or a trend it’s a medical a few people out of billions feel like they are the wrong gender and they transition and they are much much happier because they feel like they are finally who they are supposed to be only a tiny percentage of trans people regret transitioning
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there is no “movement” stop listening to extremists. it takes seconds to find out the trans population is still a small minority and the number of people who regret is even smaller.
there is no “movement” stop listening to extremists. it takes seconds to find out the trans population is still a small minority and the number of people who regret is even smaller.
Why should the government have a say in weather you wanna be called a man or woman it’s called freedom
“That hat makes you look like a girl!”
“Am I a pretty girl?”
-SpongeBob SquarePants
What so sad is that the number one thing I see in common with the detransition stories is the immense social pressure involved in the choice and how all their trans buddies turn in them.
the solution to gender dysphoria differs for each person, transitioning or taking hormones is not always the solution for everyone
@@anaunaga5471 Some people have gender dysphoria worse than others, and for those people transitioning helps
but of course before reaching that stage, therapy / counseling comes first, so we can determine just how bad your gender dysphoria is
@@gilangzaidan8454 Yet they want to skip counseling and therapy so they can just transition without any professional help.
@@samuelhowie4543 Not all trans people are like that, but yeah I don't agree with people rushing transition because this CAN leave permanent changes to your physical body
@@gilangzaidan8454 the problem is the "doctors" who help them aren't looking to help them end the ideation, they actively affirm the "trans" ideation. Meaning they have way less of a chance to reject altering their bodies as a maladaptive coping mechanism to "solve" underlying deep seated psychological issues. They'll never find out why they wanted to transition in the first place...spoiler alert: it's not because they are truly "trans" as that isn't something real on a genetic level
These babies are so confused 💔💔
no we are not.
They really are. This just goes to show that changing the outside won’t “fix” whatever is going on on the inside. People who get excessive cosmetic procedures done are never satisfied with themselves so they keep doing more and more in hopes that one day they’ll be perfect and _feel_ perfect. Transitioning is a more extreme version of that. But the sad part is that unlike body dysmorphia, gender dysphoria isn’t being treated as a mental illness even though it is and the decision to transition can have devastating, irreversible consequences. How anyone can support this, especially for younger people whose brains are still developing, is beyond me.
@@vinny- You are. You're delusional if you think a surgery/transitioning or going on pills for some time will change anything about yourself. The problem's in your head, not in your body.
@@vinny- 2 percent, that is the regret rate which is about 750.000 people. Still a quiet big number but when you compare it to 7 billion people, well... These transphobic “people” ım ashamed of calling them one, are trying to give people an image like they are that helpful aunt to trans people all this time and warned them about everything like theyre the perfect polyanna or something,(specifically on this videos comment section cuz content changes their behavior apperantly) clearly a disorder if you ask me.
A transgender child is like a vegan cat- we all know who’s making the lifestyle choices.
Respectfully, most warnings are threats. You do not warn anyone, you yell at them that theyll regret it, making them (especially if young) want to rebel or feel the urge to prove themselves and their worth. It is the warnings that cloud their judgmenet MOST of the time and make them strive the path without second thought. To add onto this theorie, say they weren't warned. They would go on to feel much more liberty with their choices, not feeling pressure to prove themselves or represent a community if there was no one pressuring them. Additionally, please stop allowing two detransitioners to speak for the whole community. Same with saying one black person allowed a white person to say the n word so now we all permit it. One guy is not all of us, we all have different experiences. (Sorry for bad grammar)
It really annoys me when people take the sad stories of detransitioners and make it out like that's all trans people. The percentage of trans people who have regretted it is 1%, and that's not even related to NOT being trans, ~half of those people detransition because of backlash and then retransitioned later on
the sad thing is that when these people try speaking out about their regrets and hardships..they are shouted down, silenced, and ridiculed for dare defying the "status quo"
You mean the status quo that creates such a hard gender-binary that people feel pressured into conforming to only two major groups instead of encouraging the individual to find their personal comforts?
Pretty sure that problem isn't caused by trans people. As far as I've seen, the 'status quo' for LGBT+ folk in general is very Enby-friendly.
Or people interpret it as "oh this person regrets transitioning that means every trans person in the entire world will too."
I Knew a guy years ago who was slowly going through the change, back then it took years, not minutes. I didn't see him for a few years, then one day I saw him and he was dressed back as a man. We had a good chat and he said that he'd spent a lot of time talking to someone and they came to realise that he didn't actually want to be a woman, it was something that had happened to him that made him think that he wanted to be female. I'm just happy that he's happy now and that he hadn't got too far along.
"Back then it took years not minutes"
Bruh why would you out yourself as someone who doesn't know what the fuck they're talking about like this
I've always wondered, how does anyone know what it feels like to be the opposite gender?
you know you could always...look up videos or articles from people who are trans....its not that hard..
People confusing gender with masculinity & femininity. Assuming that if they're overtly feminine they must be a woman
Just depends on the mood by the looks of it nowadays
@@joerancid1981 How do those people know what it feels like to be the opposite gender lol? Does being a woman have a specific feeling
@@leenolan1469 yes so does been a man.
The commenter who posted, follow your gut, did not follow their own advice. They transitioned because they follow their gut and then they detransitioned because they followed their gut.
when did she say she regretted it tho? i just checked her tiktok and there’s no implication that she regrets transitioning…
Exactly.
The video says it all, they literally said they don't feel like a girl after transitioning. What else could that mean???
@@3l4in3 perhaps she feels a lack of gender. Some people realize they are nonbinary after transitioning.
what’s her tiktok? she seems rly cool :D
@@3l4in3 I think she meant that she was second-guessing if she made the right choice, not necessarily regretting it.
“No we do warn you” this part hit so hard lol, professionals and ordinary people alike have been talking about the possibility of regret for at least a decade and that’s the whole reason the process takes so long so that they know someone’s ready- they literally have to go through therapy for months before being able to transition yet somehow never made themselves actually consider that they’d still have gender identity struggles regardless which gender they were able to present as
Leuprorelin, given to 12yr olds and violent sex offenders or for torture and women who feel pain each waking second and can die due to sleep loss
The fact that the people promoting this to children and young people NEVER mention they may regret their choice just proves its a sick ideology promoted by sick people.
No, u don’t warn anyone. You just police us and criticise, and limit the access to healthcare.
If we’re not warning anybody then what is this video a trans person or soon to be trans? Person comes across this and it pops in their mind. Maybe I shouldn’t transition or maybe I’m not actually a girl. Maybe I’m not actually a boy. I don’t agree with any of that because I believe DNA is DNA
THANK YOU
YES OMFG
Limit the access to healthcare?????
Limit access to healthcare??? What does that even mean ?
It's not about gender,it's contentment that's the issue,and no matter how much surgery they have when they look in the mirror they'll never see what they want to see because that only ever existed in their head, they'll never be content,they can't be.
i got one trans surgery and now i’m fine.
@@babs_babsI feel bad for you.
@@babs_babsno you are not you will most likely be apart of the 41% who ends themselves
@@babs_babsso you have never been insecure about your body? Or your gender?
@@cierrahubers pretransition i had a lot of problems. post transition i have neutral to positive feelings about my body. whatever insecurities i have are easy to shrug off now
They are children. Children in their teens till mid twenties claim they know more than adults and refuse to listen. They think you’re making choices to make them mad and that’s it.
They need help!!! Not hormones
20 years ago when I was a psychiatric nurse it WAS treated as a mental health condition. Now it's encouraged to be accepted the same as sexuality by sticking it on the end of lqb. It's not a sexuality it's a deep self loathing and closer to a personality disorder in my opinion because of the identity disturbance, and now we have men in our toilets and a chunk of them are transvestites who get a sexual kick out of it.
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the percentage of people who regret gender affirming care is less than people who get knee surgery. but we don’t tell people they shouldn’t get knee surgery or share propaganda against knee surgery? why do u think that is?..
Says the non medical random person
If genitals don't define gender, how does removing them, affirm it?
i really hope this doesn’t happen to my friends who are trans bc it genuinely breaks my heart. i am a 27 year old man and for as long as i remember people have referred to me in female pronouns. like my whole life everyone has said “yes ma’am” or “sweet girl” or some stuff like that. i questioned
so much about myself because of that but i still know i am a guy. i support anyone as long as it makes them truly the happiest, however i just know how easy it is to think “well if everyone thinks you’re a girl anyways…why not be a girl?” social aspects play a major part in it in my opinion. sorry if this was not necessary.
i have feminine features bc i look like my mom but if the whole world immediately identifies me as a girl, why not just be one then? idk i feel like society in a whole makes everything so confusing for some people but who knows. i’m not a wizard, just speaking from personal experience
Ok hear me out: don’t switch your body parts because replacement parts DO NOT WORK THE SAME WAY
THIS
you clearly dont know much about the actual surgeries huh
@@bexisdying229 bro you can’t just switch body parts, it doesn’t work that way
@@Finally_Christmas with surgery you can
@@bexisdying229 no it’s physically impossible to change a penis to a vagina
nah but why is Brett literaly ben sapphiro if ben sapphiro transitioned?
Is the person in the video not trans?
no XD@@chrisrob4588 in the tiktok video the girl is trans but The girl commentating is not trans lol.
@@s0rasohighh The brunette with the headphones is not trans??? Damn, thats crazy.
omg wtf 😂
@@chrisrob4588but you're trans.
It's sad because once its gone its gone aint no going back, you want your own kids you cant
Heard multiple people say that as you grow older, especially when you get to the age where your brain is fully developed, you get less insecure and learn to accept yourself. This isn’t the case for everyone, but I do think it’s important to note that in the first 30 years of someone’s life they go through so many different types of “lifestyles”. It’s just them figuring out who they are, give it time. Don’t force a lifestyle that they may not want for the rest of their life. That’s why it’s called a LIFESTYLE.
You want people to wait 30 years before transitioning?
You're right they get less insecure and stop caring about weirdos like you judging them for being trans
@@Volume.3 Frankly I'd rather choose 30 than 13. But in my country it's 21 for HRT and 25 for SRS
@@ixlnxs K.
They censor the warnings and write them off as just bigotry.
Was about to say this… she found this a way to make it about right wingers..
When he said “they didn’t warn us about this” he’s talking about the people promoting it..
This chicks a tad bit ignorant and is definitely pushing an agenda.
I’m a centrist, I’m unbiased when it comes to the whole left and right “battle” going on right now it’s very obvious to me when someone’s pushing something.
No they dont, the trans influencers ive seen talk about it and say that those concerns are legitimate. How many trans influencers did you actually see?
The problem is, usually it IS bigotry. Not the saying itself, ofc, but the context and the purpose, its done to delegitimize trans peoples gender and transition in general. And the warnins usually dont mention that detransition is happening in like 1% of the cases.
Its like going forever about the harm of chemotherapy and showing people suffering from it, campaigning against it, but never talking about chemotherapy actually curing and helping people. While chemotherapy is harmful you can see how in this hypothetical its nevertheless bigotry against chemotherapy
No ? Do you even know how hard it is to transition in the first place ? accept that humans change. What you just saw were most likely changes made innert YEARS, not weeks nor months. And for some it works out. But as you saw for others it doesn’t, because they change again while transitioning. Of course there is at least one person out there that never was the gender they tried transitioning to too, but it’s not that common. As stated before, it’s mostly just people aging and changing. That doesn’t mean that they weren’t mature before, rather that the nature of their very being changed a bit. Which honestly all of us have experienced. Though since this topic is treated the way it is, you take those people, doing what’s best for them. And use them for your advantage. As if it justifies your hate for other people. As if it justifies you hating them. Them detransitioning isn’t maturing in the sense of „coming to senses“ just a life lesson that things change and in the end you can’t do anything about that, but accept it. But you using this is an example for you being right on your hatred, means that you need to mature. And not in the detransitioning way.
@@blue-guymaster5121 man that’s some hella mental gymnastics you just jumped through to prove you were right.
@@justsomerandomname2067 where the fuck are you getting your numbers. Please cite your references or don’t speak.
It’s definitely wise to take your time and know that medically transitioning is not a requirement
It’s definitely easier to transition sooner in life but it’s also better to be sure of yourself, puberty blockers can buy you time while you figure out what to do next.
Edit: I haven't done my research on puberty blockers because frankly I don't care, obviously if you are going to go that route then do your research.
Finally a nice comment that isn’t saying how sad this or anything and finally someone who actually knows what puberty blockers actually are.
Are you serious ?!
Puberty blockers will Mess you up for life! Wtf!
Just grow you bloody hair long, wear some make up and a skirt. Then when you come to your sense .. no Physical harm done💁🏾
What's even wiser is to live as GOD intended, you know the way he made us !!!!!
@@habibi5683 puberty blockers have been proven to have no long term effects.
Ooohh you'll be a super late bloomer.
Eventually you break through em even.
Puberty blockers just delay. That delay is needed for a bunch of other medical problems too, and there they don't do any harm as well. They have been used for quite a long time
@@jeffbearden9382 and what about the people who don’t believe in God?
at the age of 5, while i was in Kindergarten, I told my parents: "I want to be a boy, i pee like a boy!" My father and mother looked at me horrified.
Of course my dad always wanted a son, since he already had 2 daughters, but hearing his own kid saying that, he got terrified. And until this day, i'm grateful that i'm still a biological woman, and i hate when my parents bring it up, while laughing and wheezing at me.
I think what you are implying is that trans people will be forcefully put through procedures like surgeries at very young ages. I regret to break your world view but this doesn't happen, at least not through any legal hospital system. The only thing that would happen to these kids is that they get consultations about it do that the doctor can decide if the patient is actually in need of something like puberty blockers, which need I remind anyone do not have conclusive enough evidence, in my research, to actually say they cause harm.
There are no children going through sex change operations. But you know who is? Intersex people, who are forced most often into being biologically female simply because its easier to construct a vulva.
This isn't a problem, if your parents were more accepting of any deviation to the norm, id be willing to put money on the fact that they would have waited to see if you continually brought it up, or if there were a full array of signs before then taking you to a medical professional/psychologist or expert on this stuff...
This is a long and arduous process, not just a "I wanna be a boy" -> *begins sugery*
That isn’t funny
@@MarshMellow12 Thanks :)
@@Mistiumand what about puberty blockers? It's no surgery but it's disastrous to a kid's health.
@@helenn7738 puberty blockers are a tough one but I don't think that they are a bad thing. Mostly because it's not about how much harm they cause, it's about how much harm they cause in comparison to how much harm they prevent. Since the number of detransitioners is less that (high estimate) 5%, that leaves 95% of trans people that puberty blockers would help.
You either argue to remove puberty blockers from the equation and increase suicides by s lot, or keep them there and have a barely noticeable increase. It's not a good choice to make since people will still die but surely you see it couldn't possibly be morally correct to force the larger number of people to experience something that will drastically effect them, over forcing the smaller number of people to experience something that will affect them drastically.
It's not a good problem, but I also don't think that many trans people actually get puberty blockers. Sure they can be damaging to those who don't continue to transition afterward, however, the a mount of harm they cause to the people who etransition after being on puberty blockers is miniscule because the number of people who etransition after being on puberty blockers is miniscule.
If puberty blockers caused half the amount of damage to people as you say they do, hospitals WOULD NOT still be using them. I garruntee somewhere a hospital has but the very fact that almost every single massive health organisation says that puberty blockers use creates more good than bad does say something.
We need more research to be done
can i just say, coming from a trans dude (ftm) , body parts dont define gender, but they do define sex. if you want to change your sex, thats absolutely fine, but for those of you in the comments saying “you cant change your gender!!” yes you can, whereas you cant change your sex, unless you medically transition
Yeah because gender is something made up and sex isnt
Just don't mess with your body prior to completing your puberty. Hormones mess with your brain structure. When my body starts changing due to puberty, I tried clinging to my prepubescent physical form. I wear binders because I don't care for boobs. Not to mention, pretending to be a boy so I can play rougher games are harder with curvier shape. A few time growing up I wanted to be a boy because I saw that boys had it easier. But by the time I'm in my late teen, I had learned to embrace my feminine body, boobs and all. I remember these phases because it is important to remember instead of ignoring it because one day, a teenager will become confuse because change is scary and changing your shape is scarier. Someone needs to be there to explain that it is alright to be confused but don't settle because no matter how smart teens are, they don't know better. Not until they enter the workforce and figure out who and what they really in the bigger world outside school because the school isn't the world.
Every desire not conducive to your survival is a desire you are sold. Transgenderism falls under said umbrella. Do not become a “transgender”. You don’t even know what desires live in you as a full grown adult. You can’t even identify a clear cause as to why you want to be transgender except for an emotion. And as we know, feelings come and go. Feelings are subjective. You were simply castrated with your own consent because the elites need some form of a population control method. Have faith in god and this will not happen.
Instead of trying to become the person we fantasize, people need to learn how to love the body they were actually born in.
No that’s literally not how it works you can’t repress trans people and tell them to try harder to accept that they where born the wrong gender and can’t do anything about it
I know right. These clowns talk about acceptance but cannot accept their own bodies.
Why? we only live once, why waste time feeling miserable your whole life if living as a girl makes you happy?
@@mookchiethis.
@@mookchie learning to love yourself will take away the said misery.
A transphobic conservative saying “I’m so glad that THEY figured it out” is so ironic and so funny I never thought I’d see the day
Leuprorelin given to children is great
Imma a proud transphobe lmao
@@tomyshaw174 weird but ok
Imagine thinking transphobe is an insult lmao
@@Arxhangxl so acting like a girl while being a man isnt weird but being transphobe is weird.lol ok
Bro. This is not how shit works. I’m a young trans guy and got my first binder two months ago. I still suffer from heavy dysphoria daily but yk what? I push through it because generally trans people are way more respectful and kind since we were all really vulnerable at the start.
Looking at this kinda shit gets u depressed so I recommend not looking at it, trust. Whatever’s going on for u doesn’t need to be anybody’s else’s business unless u consent and dont mind it. U do what feels right, u feel how u feel don’t let ppl define how u feel for u in technical and unethical terms. U got this dude❤
Why? Why push through it? Why not seek the source of the pain?
Trans people are way more respectful and kind? Don't speak for all trans people.
@@rebn8346that’s the problem with most people. They don’t go to the source or the cause and deal with it that way 🔥💯
@@itsnottoolatetostarttrans people are typically kind
who gave Ben sheperio a wig
LMAFO
I can't imagine how horrific this must be, and I'm SO sorry for anyone going through Any of these issues.
Making a TikTok? Or having doubts about something?
I can hardly decide which project car I’m getting next at 24 and y’all out here at 18 deciding to permanently alter your body chemistry at the drop of a hat. At least they’re dedicated
and then argue semantically over the most inane gray areas of humanities grasp over things that we dont understand because seemingly we cant even get on the same page over simple definitions and the lack there of.
😤
hang it up on the project cars. Unless you are reselling them.
This country keeps digging its grave. Buy guns and ammo.
We are headed to a civil war. The banksters have it locked in for a second try to break America. Go watch 2000 mules documentary. Modern day conservatives are not ready.
@@c-w-h didn’t ask
@@dukstedi What are you even talking about? Pure Gibberish.
Phew....
I’m trans and I never once for one second have regretted transitioning
Question, why be something you aren't?
It’s so nice to see Ben transitioned and is apart of the trans community lol
ikr now ben can finally speak on matters he knows something about, since he transitioned!!
It's terribly sad to see an entire generation being told they can switch their natural body like a costume. And seeing so many fall for the bait in their most vulnerable times only to gain maturity and insight and realize that they've made a huge mistake. The damage being done is so real.
So would you rather they kill themselves or suffer from severe depression throughout the rest of their lives instead? Just because a minority of people regret transitioning, often because of societal pressure and marginilization, it doesnt devalue the many who experience gender euphoria through transitioning.
@@jtu8550 it's not a minority, that's the issue. And in 20 years, when these kids that do transition have adult minds and regret what they, many of those will become a statistic.
@@laughingbuddha5427 no it is a minority, on average only 3% of trans people choose to detransition and of them 26% choose to detransition because of family pressure. Also the idea that people will grow up to regret the decision is unfounded as the percentage of people detransitioning is so small and largely attributed to social pressures, it's purely based on your own heteronormative beliefs
@@jtu8550 life is hard, deal with it! They can do what they want it’s their body and choice but spreading it and trying to normalize it on others through brainwashing propaganda is NOT okay! Especially children. That’s when a line is drawn, but yeah life is hard and then you die. Most people learn to accept that. Life isn’t supposed to be easy and never will or should be. Life has actually become too easy for so many people they have forgotten what true hardship is in 1st world countries.
@@jtu8550 why do you think people in 3rd world countries don’t do this shit? Literally not a single human in those countries. Life is too difficult to worry about such idiotic shit, their lives revolve around survival and reproduction. Our lives in our privileged 1st world country for majority revolve around mindlessly consuming TikTok and ordering DoorDash 3 times a day… or worrying about Snapchat streaks, what to wear, what Starbucks drink you should get, what’s the current trends. Stupid shit that is 100% irrelevant to your actual life. Yet we consume this stuff because our brains become bored and lazy from lack of motivation and work. And this is the outcome you get. If more of the younger generation like myself would actually challenge themselves in life, separate from social media constructs, create a hard work ethic and strive to learn new things daily. Our country could maybe be great again, but consuming 12 hours of screen time per day watching stuff that isn’t educating or rewarding is just killing peoples brains and draining them of everything. I fear for the future of our country if we continue on such a path, and for the future of other developed countries
"I'm so confused. I hate myself."
The Left: It's working!
I think the reason people hate themselves is often societal and other factors. The left just takes advantage of these types of vulnerable people and uses them as political cannon fodder. Of course, we see the results.
You’re marginalized 🤩✨
they never said they hated themselves. they were simply stating a confusion they had. as if republicans arent confused ever, most of yall cant name 10 countries in europe
@@sillywetmeow They didn't say that the person in the video said it. They were making a generalization with a joke 0>0
Also that does Republicans and Conservatives have to do with this?
This isn’t them regretting their choice of transitioning, it’s them being ashamed of their bodily image in terms of stereotypical beauty standards people like you uphold.
He didn’t say “oh I am an ugly girl” he said maybe I’m not a girl.
And he isn’t he never was a girl. He cannot be a girl it’s physically impossible.
He was a beautiful boy, and the trans-groomers damaged him.
He will have medical problems for the rest of his life thanks to the people who screamed bigot and transphobia at us.
At those who would’ve warned him.
You angry he’s detransitioning, and are blaming us for his confused body image?
Honey, that’s your fault.
i disagree i think it clearly says that the man is “mabye im not a girl”
Lmao the cover for this is Brett smiling 😂
Who is this Brett? Link?
@@ixlnxs the one reacting to the tiktok
@@thecamillarose9806 Ah ok. I thought you meant the boy in the litle screen at the beginning. I wonder who he is and what became of him.
Aww huge congrats to you Ben!! Seeing your older vids like this one and how you used to present femme is so inspirational. So happy for you Shapiro and never stop loving yourself and spreading love to all the other trans people! Go trans rights! 💙💖🤍💖🤍💙
But, on a more serious note, screw you and your transphobic bs. All my love goes out to actually detransitioners and I am so sorry people are using you as a pawn to take away the human right to not be miserable and trapped in a prison of your own body.
This is the most horrific part of this. It happens way too often, and a known suicide just happened with a sixteen-year-old girl after transitioning. It's what they don't want you to consider, they believe your first thoughts will carry you throughout your whole life, but the truth is that life is made for people to adapt. Their minds change and they get through life by following the uncertainty. You don't act so drastically on the uncertainty; you need to embrace it but move on from it.
Is she biologically a girl or boy?
@@Heatwave9000 Girl I believe.
If you're trans you know, if not you will struggle and make mistakes
@@alexh6767 What?
I think this is an interesting point but I must counter. Trans individuals and specifically trans youth are at a much higher risk for suicide than the general population. But why? The answer (or at least a large part of the answer) lies in the treatment of these youths. Studies show (easily googled) that those trans individuals who are affirmed in their gender and have access to treatment which alleviates their gender dysphoria (i.e. medical transition) have a much lower risk of suicide than those who are not. So really, while some do regret transitioning, it is a very very small percentage of trans individuals and should not invalidate transitioning as a whole.
Sex is assigned at birth, while gender identity is way different from sex. Sex means basically your body parts and how doctors assign you, gender identity is what you identify as. My sex is female, but my gender identity is non binary (questioning trans)
Let’s not forget that the Trans community is a small minority.
And detransitioners are 0.4-2% of the community.
They are usually in the earlier stages of transition and haven’t had any surgeries.
on top of that, a lot of detransitioners retransition- the reason a lot of them detransition in the first place is because of transphobia that they had to go through
THANK YOU FOR THIS
Been looking for facts ffs
I think it’s important to listen to people who have detransisoned since it shows you what could possibly happen however I’m a trans guy I started social transitioning at 11 and I have no regrets I am now living much happier as a man so it’s important not to assume everyone will detransition or that everyone will regret it since a lot/most people do not regret it so we shouldn’t stop others transitioning when it can save their life because a few people find they weren’t trans
Does anyone know the name of this tik toker?
What is social transitioning, is that without a surgery? Cuz I think people are more talking about those who have undergone medical changes and how much harder it is to de-transition after going through medical procedures underage
Social transitioning is basically like changing your hair,name,clothes,pronouns etc but no surgery is involved :)
literally no evidence it helps at all lmao, 40% man 40%
I'm curious. What do you think about the possibility of suffering from Gender Dysphoria? Did you ever consider the possibility? Or you think. I'm trans! I'm most definitely not sick! By NO means I have the intention to insult u in any way. But like I said, I am curious if you ever considered Gender Dysphoria as a possibility? Or maybe, it crossed your mind for a millisecond. Or not? ☺️ And a second question if you don't mind? What is the exact difference, you called it social transcioning. But... Long hair and all. You take your clothes off and without hormones and no surgery. You still look like a male. So, excuse my ignorance. But wouldn't that be a gay male who perfects Drag? In a way? Or prefers to wear women clothing etc? And a last question. I said gay- I made an assumption. What do prefer when it comes to dating? I never had the opportunity to ask a transgender person these things and I very respectfully want to try learn more. 👋🏻😉
The problem is that they jump in feet first because they think they have it all planned out instead of taking the time to think about how it can affect them