My Boyfriend's Moving In With His Female Best Friend
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My Boyfriend's Moving In With His Female Best Friend
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Read the updates on story 1 and the bf and faith did hook up in the past and even cheated on OP after the fight so
Calllllllllledddddd it.
I knew it!!!!!
Story 1:
I think the "friends" will get together at some point.
Am I the only one?
I agree!
I'm pretty sure they're already fucking.
According to the update they did after the fight.
@@lindsey513 😂
I am sure they already did😂
Story #1 - You're missing an update. The boyfriend was being intimate with the friend the entire time
I had a feeling.....they are trash to do that to the gf😮
Gags gross
of course they did
With the first story i think they should all move in together and share rent itll be beneficial for everyone
Read the updates on story 1 and the bf and faith did hook up in the past and even cheated on OP after the fight so
Story 1: no, OP is not in the wrong for not wanting her boyfriend to live with his female friend. It'd be different if they were already living together, but the fact that they had discussed living together without involving the girlfriend in the discussion is bullshit.
i couldn't agree more, they are together a full year and if your partner is not a priority and don't care you're crossing a boundary, they have every right to walk out
Yeah, I agree with the other comments here about story #1, it's a bad situation. I get your point, it's no big deal how she dresses, but the boyfriend is pretty dismissive about his girlfriend's concerns and doesn't seem to care. She's right to be upset by this and it's a situation I'd bail on.
Read the updates on story 1 and the bf and faith did hook up in the past and even cheated on OP after the fight so
GF's "concerns" are petty jealousy.
She was right and they hooked up so..@@wmdkitty
@@wmdkitty took me a second to realize you were sarcastic lol
Here is the update to story #1:
"So first of all I wanted to say thank you to everyone who commented and gave me advice and support, I didn't expect this to blow up the way it did.
As for an update... I texted him Thursday sometime after I made the post that I wanted to come pick up the things I have at his place Friday after work. All he replied with was "sure".
Last night after work I went to his place and when I got there I texted him that I was in the parking lot and told him to bring my stuff down. I really didn't want to deal with Faith, like at all. He eventually came downstairs with a box of my stuff.
I went there with every intention of just getting my things and walking away, not saying anything but I dunno, it was like word vomit, I couldn't stop myself and I asked him how long they've been sleeping together. He kinda laughed and said "it really doesn't matter now does it?" and I said it kinda does if he's been sleeping with both of us at the same time.
He said the night I stormed out of his place when he was sick was the first time they slept together since we've been together. I didn't ask if they've slept together before me, I feel like the way he worded his answer confirmed they have a history of hooking up, but maybe I'm reading into it.
The last thing I said to him was that he needs to figure his stuff out because no woman is going to play second to her forever. I got in my car and left without letting him respond or looking for a reaction.
It didn't feel great to know that he cheated on me, even though I kinda expected it to be honest. I think I'm somewhere between anger and indifference right now. I've deleted and blocked both of them on literally everything. I just want to move on from all this.
I know some of you are gonna say it's a lesson to be learned but all I learned from this is to make sure the next guy has no sexual history with any female friends before it becomes a relationship."
Thanks for sharing!
Everyone in this comment section has shared their disagreements with the response of story 1 so I don’t feel a need to that. What I noticed in the first story is the part about “you are giving me an ultimatum” because so many ppl have used bad ultimatums like “it’s me or the video games” ppl not consider giving ultimatum’s a bad thing and a lot of times they are not. For example saying “you need to start making an attempt to stop taking drugs or I will break up with you” is a valid ultimatum
True.
And everyone has boundaries that are vital to them. That they want to protect.
Story 1: as the r/bestofredditorupdates post clarifies, the boyfriend and best friend were sleeping together and the boyfriend had zero guilt or empathy when she found out.
Story 2:
I'm sorry. I feel really bad.
I cracked up at "say it to the face not my boobs" line.
But the situation is seriously messed up. It's people closest to us that can hurt us the most.
I would've told her to just come out as a lesbian already and stop using me as a beard.
Story 1: Regarding the hard boundaries, it feels a bit like she OP is starting to put up those hard boundaries because the boyfriend has been trampling all over the soft ones. The boyfriend admitted that he himself would be uncomfortable if the situation were reversed, but would trust her. However that was in regards to a temporary arrangement. Making it a more permanent arrangement is a whole other level, especially since he didn't talk about it beforehand with his GF.
This whole thing feels a bit like he might want to start something with the friend, but tries to get the GF to break up instead of doing so himself, so that he can do so with a clear conscience, though I admit I might be reading a bit too much into the situation.
Seeing the mainly facts guy in tiny shorts is gonna give me nightmares tonight 😂
Ya no, i disagree with you. If you have a girlfriend who had her own apartment, if her male friend she was close with moved in with her i highly doubt it would be as okay as you imagine. Were human beings, and instead of having to be stressed at even a miniscule chance that theyre not faithful, they could just be considerate and realize that most people in relationships would find that uncomfortable and bad mannered. So if you actually want to be in a relationship with someone you actually love, it would be pretty easy to consider this while also finding alternative ways to still be supportive and there for his friend, in a way that isnt at the expense of giving someone else stress and anxiousness. Of course its completely dependant on the values and boundaries of each individual and dynamic, but I would personally never do this to my boyfriend. If i care about someone the last thing i want to do is introduce more stress and uncertainty in their life
The dude is so clearly cucking her. And the worst part is how disrespectful the other woman is being towards her, the only solution here is a breakup
Ye I think it’s just too much
I think the same.
I’m pretty secure but it would make me uncomfortable and I’m betting that within a year boyfriend will become his roommate’s boyfriend.
Well mainly has a partner and they are a very open couple so he saying in his case it wouldn't be a big deal but most couples wouldn't survive a situation like this it's common courtesy to cover up a bit more when you're in a co'ed living situation especially if the gf has expressed discomfort but the bf is right it isn't up to her who he let's sleep on his couch she contributes to no bills or expenses so she has no say buuuut he was entirely wrong for making the decision to find a place with the friend without talking to his gf first that's a big thing to do that's hard to back out of once it's done so if he's serious about her then he should've at least spoke to her
story 1: How long have they been dating?
Under a year
Story 1; According to the updates, the bf cheated.
Look, i get your take on the story but when someone is so damn disrespectful to you about your boundaries, that's just... ugh. In my opinion, its fine to say no when you don't want your boyfriend or girlfriend to move in with a friend of the gender they're attracted to. If my partner told me that, i'd respect the boundary
Story 2:
Your comment is on point here Mr. Facts 😊
When a man and woman are in a relationship, a man can not be friends with women and a woman can not be friends with men. Cheating will always occur. I've experienced this multiple times.
Story 1: He's the asshole for not talking about moving in with his gf first why would you try to move in with a friend before your partner? He was definently very weird the entire time. But thats when he fucked up. Not the friend being on his couch. I heard he did infact cheat that he is the asshole for. Still not the asshole for letting her stay at his place.
Story 1: That’s a bad take and you know it
It's interesting, because I wonder if the take is due to him defending poly so much? So I wonder how that colours his opinion and how this is highly unusual behaviour in most relationships
@@Icalasari Like I understand people can have close opposite gender friendships but the main problem for me is the blatant disrespect of the OP and how highly unusual it is for them to live in together for no reason. But Mainly Facts, with all due respect, somehow glossed over that.
I disagree on the first one AGAIN bc youve defo had some bad takes. If they’ve been dating for awhile then thats a huge issue. and theres MANY red flags in this situation so…
Read the updates on story 1 and the bf and faith did hook up in the past and even cheated on OP after the fight so
story 1: my opinion is, you cant tell someone what boundaries they put in a relationship, and i note: its not a boundary on his friendships and she made that clear, when he's living together with another girl friends or not it's a boundary for their relationship, being close friends is one thing, living together while you're in a relationship is too much for a lot of people and again in my opinion they have every right to have this boundary, you can still trust your partner not to do anything, can you trust the other girl tho?
Oh damn you've caught up with other channels!
You really need some new gaming footage..
Story 1: If OP wants a monogamous relationship, she should dump the bf. Even if he weren't sleeping with the roommate, it is disrespectful to the OP to search for a new place with the roommate. If the boyfriend cared, he wouldn't put OP in that situation. Ultimatum? She has every right to protect her feelings, since it's apparent he doesn’t.
Story 1: Dump him! He's not worth the trouble! They hooked up! OP wasn't included in the conversations, and that's what annoyed her! Mr Facts, I think, not to be judgmental or accusing this, I feel like you're missing the point of the reaction! OP is super uncomfortable about her boyfriend letting his FEMALE BEST FRIEND in his own place without letting OP know!
Story 2: That is pretty bad! The best OP can do is do everything she can to turn things around and maybe explain the situation and concerns! But it's something that's hard to turn back on since it stings him so badly in school!
Story 3: Has Chris never heard of the phrase 'opposites attract'?! I really hope Eddie and OP leaves Chris, so he has no support when he does get dumped!
Story 4: If what Todd said is true, THEN WHY WAS MESSAGES DELETED?! He still has feelings for her! I'd suggest OP to take a couple days off from Todd, and then communicate what comes next!
Theres a few hundred miles between London and Manchester. And a few more hundred miles away from Manchester to Newcastle (The true capital of the north)
Story 1 even if the bf is innocent (doubtful) the friend is being mad disrespectful, and the bf is sus for not backing his gf. "Im sorry but you have to get used to it" Btch what? Get used to always being second in his life. Nah.
Hi ;3!
Story 1: yeah, no I was on the BF's side until he announced to the GF he was going to be moving out with his "friend" when his lease is up. They're already bangin'. Otherwise he'd be moving in with the GF instead of moving with the friend.
the last story, yeah, no, there's more going on there. he's clearly stepping out with her. Granted the trust is clearly already gone since you dug through his DMs. I'm betting the reason those images were deleted is they were probably nudes. It's over, move on.
Edit: after scrolling down, I see I was right about story 1. that's unfortunate for the OP.
Don’t be foolish. Even I knew that I knew that I knew that I would never cheat on my boyfriend, especially with a friend that I’ve known since middle school, and yet it happened one drunken night because of a similar situation. We’re human. We make mistakes. And I’ve seen the same thing happen to other couples plenty of times too. That’s why boundaries are important. (In response to story1)
Uhhhhh absolutely not story 1 the bf is out of line……
I agree with you on story 1 overall, as someone who is bi myself I genuinely find it absolutely bizarre how a lot of heterosexual people can't seem to tolerate opposite gender friendships. It's seriously not that difficult to be platonic with a gender you're attracted to. The problem in the story is how dismissive the boyfriend is and how hostile the female friend was to the OP, THAT'S the red flag and why it's not okay. That said OP herself has issues if just the presence of a woman crashing on her boyfriend's couch is enough for her to feel threatened.
Except they weren't platonic. They were having intimate relations the whole time. The BF owned up to that in the update but wasn't apologetic at all.
I doubt the OP doesn't tolerate their friendship, but its the whole 'moving out together" part that she doesn't tolerate, which i find more reasonable.
I get what you're saying, but clearly they were attracted to each other and I think the gf could sense that something was going on between em
@@TheColombianSpartan I didn't say that OP was wrong for being suspicious, I was trying to relate to Mr. Facts that while I agreed with a lot of his points, the behavior between them was inappropriate and why I thought so. I guess that got lost in what I wrote, which is on me, and I doubt he'd read it anyway. 😂 Your comment is appreciated, I am disappointed to find out they were cheating but not surprised.
S2 OP said nothing wrong and did not "height shame" anyone. BF should know better than to talk to the boobs instead of the face. If HE feels shame, that's a HIM problem.
S1 OP is overly controlling, jealous, and immature. She needs to grow up before she gets into another relationship.