I am at a loss, which child is he talking about? Is it the child that he killed 4 years ago or the child that he rejected 4 years ago? Or is it the child he has never seen, never spent a dime on, never lavished any affection or time on? He is nothing but a sperm donor. He is not a father and being a sperm donor or a biological father does not immediately entitle him to wanting to take the child away from the mother or the father or a loving stable environment they had managed to create for the kid. Yes, he is entitled to a visiting right nothing more. He is not a responsible human being. Talking about leaving the child with his girlfriend or his mom, that is so pathetic.
This man has to be a out of his mind. He wants to take the child from its mother so that a girlfriend can take care of it when he is not around. Is this man for real? If the girl had done what he asked and abort the child, the girl would never hear from him again.
In the process if this woman died , would you have come for your child. You ran away for 4 years , because a good man was taking care of your child, it is now your blood.
She is not dead, one parent doesn't have the legal right to disenfranchise one parent from seeing his child whether man or woman. No woman has that right, no this and no peace.
Please in igbo land, once you did not pay bride price on a woman's head, you don't have any right on that child. You were not ready, you asked her to abort the baby, because she decided to keep the baby, you are now here to ask for your child after abandoning them for 4yrs.
@@IdameOnenext time you stand with what u needed ND wanted, u don't run away leaving d woman alone, 2day bcs u donated a sperm to a lady you now claiming fatherhood without fatherly care, who does that?!
Nigeria law has to change and be effective, you can ordinarily donate a sperm, purposely run away without responsibly communication btw u ND woman, after months ND years u come to claim a yeye child, for whr?
Ben, I am not happy with your question, that why should the child be bearing another man's name. Why not? When the biological father wanted him aborted and another responsible man took care of mother and child.
He said he was not mentally ready for a child, yet he expect the mother to be mentally ready, she was the one carrying the pregnancy, does he knows what a pregnant woman go through during pregnancy, he's dam lucky the lady even tell him about the child, legally the child belongs to the husband, farther more he has never given the child a cent, now the child is 4 years, that what all of them believe. Leave their partners and expected them to wait on them fi come back, him a fussy him self about the man who get the child yet him have the mind to do the same think, lady if you no want him to see the child no make him see him. He has no right to the child at all
The man isn't a responsible person. He is extremely arrogant and definitely not a husband material.The child should be under his mother's care but should be allowed to be seeing his father whenever he comes.
The guy is not remourseful. He is not serious, he is just jealous that the woman is married to another man. People wait for the person they are married to. If its the other way round, will he not marry by now? DO NOT RELEASE YOUR CHILD BUKOLA MY SISTER.
This man is chatting rubbish from his mouth. He’s lost the right he needs to wait 14 years more Give the child to his mother? He’s not serious. Smart woman
This fool has a lot of nerves.what if she had aborted the fetus, what would he be fighting over. Some women would not let him lay eyes on their baby. He had an adopted dad that loves him.
While the guy didn't do well when the lady was pregnant, the life of that child shouldn't be taken used to settle score. The guy should apologise to the lady for being irresponsible. Finally, the lady should see reason to at least let the man see the child until the child is old enough go see the father.
The man was very wrong, but that can not deny him paternity. He is the father of the child. The earlier the child is shown the biological father the better. Not one single reasoning can deny him paternity.
This boy is mad if she had aborted this child will he come back to claim the same child?? Legally the man that married the woman is the child father period.
Truth be told, the fact that the the man has been spending on the child does not make him the biological father. In like manner, that does not make her or the other man change the child's surname.
Can you imagine this mumu what if she kpai doing what you want her to do cos, now you're coming back shouting we're is my child. Am sure he wants the child back for a reason
This is the reason why I will never marry single mum or date. Look at what is going on ! After the man as show the child love an care.for the last 4 year's ..now you're coming to take him as what ? Dad 🤔who never want the child 💔. What is she going to tell her husband now ? I know what she told him 5 year's ! 🤔 Now the spirit is here to take his child,💔
Which child is this man talking about.This girl told him she was pregnant and he said he was not ready.If she has removed the pregnancy he come and said he want the child.This guy is so inresponsible.With his utterances it shows he is not responsible same are his family.My lady don’t release that child to this man. He can come and see him and leave.You are mother you know the pain of been a mother
Message for men.If you’re not ready to care for any children,use protection with anytime you are intimate..Every time you engage in sexual inter course without protection can result in pregnancy.
Ben cash thanks for your good job. The real judgement that you jump one out of the judgement you give the woman should not deprive the man of seeing the SON the woman should allow the son to bear his real father name hooooo.
Where dem carri this man brain go🤔. His people have been telling him about the progress of the child, he now came bom to carry the child. The man I am seeing is still not ready for the child. He wants to answer daddy with an empty pocket. So his girlfriend or mother will take care of the child better than the child's mother. Let him continue his free life. Maybe his responsible young ones are married with children, he also wants to be counted among.
The woman is right, you told her to abort, she did not, she born her child, she's free to do whatever she wants, you did not want the child, the other man have a right to the child,too bad for you.
You didn't pay bride price In my tradition in Imo state you are not the owner of the child . Go to court and yu will be asked to wait till the child is 18 Lady let your hubby adopt the child legally. He wanted him aborted 😢
OMG this guy is NOT serious. If you don't have money doesn't mean, you cannot even call to check on her health? You couldn't send your family (who knew that the girl had the baby) 'to check on her? Please don't disrupt the child's life because of an immature and unserious boy man. The girl dodged a bullet by not ending up with this guy.
No matter what ,she should let him have his child. She may asked him to pay her for the upkeep of the child for 4yrs. If she keeps the child away from the his biological father, it might affect the child destiny. Plz don't destroy the little child's destiny.
Hell no, he did not MARRY HE so the child is not his. He told the girl to abort the belle but came back after abandoning this mother and child for 4 months. Your judgment is odd. This man is irresponsible to care for this child. This man is very arrogant and has no brain 🧠. He wants the child but will have his girlfriend take care of the son while he is out hustling. YeYe man.
Bros talk responsibly, respectfully and be appreciative. This is not how to behave especially when you have not be taken ANY responsibility on him. Please do normal.
The child belongs to her husband, he was not ready then and he is not ready now he’s just ranting. How responsible are you?This man should stay on the run let a real man continue to take care of your responsibility.He is Mumu who is sperm donor.
It's paining him 😂that the lady is married 😂😂
I swear he's not happy she has someone big foo*
Exactly!
Exactly!
So true, if you lesson to him good is like he's saying that the woman have no right to marry
The audacity of this guy. He abandon that lady and now acts like he has right?
Exactly
This man has already qualified as the first mumu recorded in 2024.
And you are the second mu.mu.
It's easy to use derogatory language on others but will not use it on yourself continue.
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This girl parents owned the boy this guy is irresponsible.
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I am at a loss, which child is he talking about? Is it the child that he killed 4 years ago or the child that he rejected 4 years ago? Or is it the child he has never seen, never spent a dime on, never lavished any affection or time on? He is nothing but a sperm donor. He is not a father and being a sperm donor or a biological father does not immediately entitle him to wanting to take the child away from the mother or the father or a loving stable environment they had managed to create for the kid. Yes, he is entitled to a visiting right nothing more. He is not a responsible human being. Talking about leaving the child with his girlfriend or his mom, that is so pathetic.
Exactly, is even shameless man.
U are very intelligent bro.
This guy has no right to that child at all as he did not pay her bride prize.
This man have no shame
This man has to be a out of his mind. He wants to take the child from its mother so that a girlfriend can take care of it when he is not around. Is this man for real? If the girl had done what he asked and abort the child, the girl would never hear from him again.
The child belongs to the husband because the boy friend wanted to terminate the pregnancy.
Exactly
Guyman I laugh U. My lady U do well God bless u.
This guy has ZERO rights to that baby. He is dreaming.
No court will give him that child following his statement.
You have no claim to that child.
Even in the next 20 years this guy will never be responsible.
This man is not responsible
Coming from nowhere to claim his blood is so shameless
In the process if this woman died , would you have come for your child. You ran away for 4 years , because a good man was taking care of your child, it is now your blood.
She is not dead, one parent doesn't have the legal right to disenfranchise one parent from seeing his child whether man or woman. No woman has that right, no this and no peace.
Please in igbo land, once you did not pay bride price on a woman's head, you don't have any right on that child.
You were not ready, you asked her to abort the baby, because she decided to keep the baby, you are now here to ask for your child after abandoning them for 4yrs.
@@IdameOnenext time you stand with what u needed ND wanted, u don't run away leaving d woman alone, 2day bcs u donated a sperm to a lady you now claiming fatherhood without fatherly care, who does that?!
Nigeria law has to change and be effective, you can ordinarily donate a sperm, purposely run away without responsibly communication btw u ND woman, after months ND years u come to claim a yeye child, for whr?
You did not want the pregnancy, you went away and leave her, now you want the child that you did not want earlier on.
Ben, I am not happy with your question, that why should the child be bearing another man's name. Why not? When the biological father wanted him aborted and another responsible man took care of mother and child.
This guy na fool
The boy speaks like a child.
The man is a donor. With the irresponsible, he is not serious.
You said you're not ready to father a child, but you could come back after 4 years to claim the same child you're not ready for.
Iresponsibility personified! No child for this clown!! He should be charged for negligence and mase to pay huge restitution!!!
He doesn't deserve this child. Useless man no court will give him this child.
She doesn't owe him
you can't have the child, but you can see the child.
This guy is too arrogant. He should be allowed to see his child but NEVER to keep him because no structure in place to care for the child.
What a joker. He wants to take a child from the mother who was the only one there to go live with him and his girlfriend.
Assuming she abort the child, he won't be talking about the child by now.
This guy should be educated. Whoever signs that birth certificate owns the child.
Lady, do not allow this guy come anywhere close to your baby.
He said he was not mentally ready for a child, yet he expect the mother to be mentally ready, she was the one carrying the pregnancy, does he knows what a pregnant woman go through during pregnancy, he's dam lucky the lady even tell him about the child, legally the child belongs to the husband, farther more he has never given the child a cent, now the child is 4 years, that what all of them believe. Leave their partners and expected them to wait on them fi come back, him a fussy him self about the man who get the child yet him have the mind to do the same think, lady if you no want him to see the child no make him see him. He has no right to the child at all
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Please, this guy is insane , don't release the child to him, that child belongs to another man,
My sister don’t you ever release your child to any irresponsible unremorseful man
The child has a right to know who is real father is. For the child's sake
The man is a jocker 😮
The man isn't a responsible person. He is extremely arrogant and definitely not a husband material.The child should be under his mother's care but should be allowed to be seeing his father whenever he comes.
This Ben guy to Ana mumu guy. No court will even let this guy see this baby even now
The guy is not remourseful. He is not serious, he is just jealous that the woman is married to another man. People wait for the person they are married to. If its the other way round, will he not marry by now? DO NOT RELEASE YOUR CHILD BUKOLA MY SISTER.
Exactly, he said the lady should aborted the pregancy.
This guy does not deserve to see that child
Ben tell this man to leave he is good for nothing
Madam do not give him that child, this man is not a good person
If she has removed the baby as you told her which child will you be looking for now.Brother just tell this lady sorry.
The man is not responsible now.
He can't have the baby until the child is 6 years old.
Oga you ask the girl to remove child now you are asking
The nerves of this guy.
This man no just get sense😂😂
This guy have to go to court and collect the child He can only be asked to pay certain amount of money to the woman
This guy no get sense 😂 mumu man
Only husband can take over a child and not a boy friend
Cash ,this guy has no case
He is the father, but he was wrong not taking care of your child . court case
Don't give the child to him. He is in responsible
Woman don't release the child but make him see the child simple, guy u need serious help
The child could visit and spend time with him from time to time.
This man is chatting rubbish from his mouth. He’s lost the right he needs to wait 14 years more
Give the child to his mother? He’s not serious. Smart woman
Ben cash how do you want the child to bear the name of this man pursuing career.
This fool has a lot of nerves.what if she had aborted the fetus, what would he be fighting over. Some women would not let him lay eyes on their baby. He had an adopted dad that loves him.
But wait a moment....Ghana Ghana Ghana please what is in that Ghana that almost all Nigerian youths are tropping in.
Girl you will be a fool to give him the child.
This guy was irresponsible and still irresponsible!!!!
The man has no claims on the child. Did he marry the womanl?
He cant see him,he want that to be aborted from day 1.
The guy didn't do right but now he is back. He has the right to see the child and eventually the child should take the name of his father
Guy at first you ask your girlfriend to remove the pregnancy just assumed that she abort the child and forget about the child inquisition
This man wants to eat where he didn't sow. Because you know that she has the bay you want to come and collect. Selfish
While the guy didn't do well when the lady was pregnant, the life of that child shouldn't be taken used to settle score.
The guy should apologise to the lady for being irresponsible. Finally, the lady should see reason to at least let the man see the child until the child is old enough go see the father.
He said he was not ready for the child, tha means disowning the child and never cared now what doe's he want.
This man is joking.Fisrtly,you need to pay her 15mil,b4 ever seeing the child
The man was very wrong, but that can not deny him paternity. He is the father of the child. The earlier the child is shown the biological father the better. Not one single reasoning can deny him paternity.
My God, can u hear this guy. My sister think we'll ooo😮😮
If you are not ready leave the man who take carry of the child my man leave the lady alone
Let the courts deal with it
This boy is mad if she had aborted this child will he come back to claim the same child?? Legally the man that married the woman is the child father period.
Who dey raise this kind guy sef......senseless generation!!!
Truth be told, the fact that the the man has been spending on the child does not make him the biological father. In like manner, that does not make her or the other man change the child's surname.
You wanted the lady to terminate the pregnancy. You don't have any child.
Thank you for your sence of judgment, you are one in a million for your fearless judgment, keep it up. Mr's Igberaese from Austria
He said the lady should aborted the pregancy, but she keep it,and God send her good man,as husband, take him to court,he cant take the child.
This guy is arrogant,annoying and irresponsible,he doesn't talk like a sensible man
If this boy said he lost contact with the lady did he lost contact with his own mother bc he always makes contact with his own mother
Do not allow him set eyes on that baby, until she is 16 or 18. Yeye they smell.
Which blood? The child will come when the time comes, so leave her alone.
Don't allow him to take the child but allow him to see the child I don't trust this Ghana guys oo
Women don suffer for men hand😮
Can you imagine this mumu what if she kpai doing what you want her to do cos, now you're coming back shouting we're is my child. Am sure he wants the child back for a reason
guy u no get mouth, leave that lady and the son alone
This is the reason why I will never marry single mum or date. Look at what is going on ! After the man as show the child love an care.for the last 4 year's ..now you're coming to take him as what ? Dad 🤔who never want the child 💔. What is she going to tell her husband now ? I know what she told him 5 year's ! 🤔 Now the spirit is here to take his child,💔
Which child is this man talking about.This girl told him she was pregnant and he said he was not ready.If she has removed the pregnancy he come and said he want the child.This guy is so inresponsible.With his utterances it shows he is not responsible same are his family.My lady don’t release that child to this man. He can come and see him and leave.You are mother you know the pain of been a mother
Message for men.If you’re not ready to care for any children,use protection with anytime you are intimate..Every time you engage in sexual inter course without protection can result in pregnancy.
Ben cash thanks for your good job. The real judgement that you jump one out of the judgement you give the woman should not deprive the man of seeing the SON the woman should allow the son to bear his real father name hooooo.
Where dem carri this man brain go🤔.
His people have been telling him about the progress of the child, he now came bom to carry the child. The man I am seeing is still not ready for the child. He wants to answer daddy with an empty pocket. So his girlfriend or mother will take care of the child better than the child's mother. Let him continue his free life. Maybe his responsible young ones are married with children, he also wants to be counted among.
My brother you don't have a child forget is the woman you want but she is married
I don't understand this guy. You don't have a child. You told her to have an abortion.
The woman is right, you told her to abort, she did not, she born her child, she's free to do whatever she wants, you did not want the child, the other man have a right to the child,too bad for you.
My pikin pikin you are not responsible.
You didn't pay bride price In my tradition in Imo state you are not the owner of the child . Go to court and yu will be asked to wait till the child is 18 Lady let your hubby adopt the child legally. He wanted him aborted 😢
He wants to get back at her his not ready he wants to spoil her marriage hahah his using e child as a support system
OMG this guy is NOT serious. If you don't have money doesn't mean, you cannot even call to check on her health? You couldn't send your family (who knew that the girl had the baby) 'to check on her? Please don't disrupt the child's life because of an immature and unserious boy man. The girl dodged a bullet by not ending up with this guy.
Ds guy is so annoying 😡
The guy never there
No matter what ,she should let him have his child. She may asked him to pay her for the upkeep of the child for 4yrs. If she keeps the child away from the his biological father, it might affect the child destiny. Plz don't destroy the little child's destiny.
Hell no, he did not MARRY HE so the child is not his. He told the girl to abort the belle but came back after abandoning this mother and child for 4 months. Your judgment is odd. This man is irresponsible to care for this child. This man is very arrogant and has no brain 🧠. He wants the child but will have his girlfriend take care of the son while he is out hustling. YeYe man.
Bros talk responsibly, respectfully and be appreciative. This is not how to behave especially when you have not be taken ANY responsibility on him. Please do normal.
The child belongs to her husband, he was not ready then and he is not ready now he’s just ranting. How responsible are you?This man should stay on the run let a real man continue to take care of your responsibility.He is Mumu who is sperm donor.