Sacrifices mothers make. It's not easy raising a child while both parents are separated. Her primary focus is her child. She wants the boy to easily have access to her and his father. But on the flip side, Jide had better be wise and use this opportunity to make constructive moves towards reconciliation. It's a golden opportunity she has served him
But it’s a toxic situation. It’s not healthy for the child. It’s selfish to put your children in a toxic environment for the so called sake of raising them in the same house.
@@kalimbaayinde25 yes, you have spoken well. But consider the fact that she has laid down the rules and I want to believe that Jide will be honourable enough to live by them. As she said, they are no longer married. Also consider this, will it be better for the boy to grow in the arms of a Nanny and his father (who will not always be around) when his mother is still alive? Or shd the boy stay with Chinaza without his father being there? None is good becos the child always the greatest loser when a home is broken (speaking from experience). I just pray God will help Chinaza go thru all this. Yet again I say, this is a massive sacrifice she is making
@@Godwin7521she laid down her boundaries in the marriage, yet he didn’t abide by them. He abuse her and cheated on her! What makes you think he will do what she requested in a living arrangement. This man is who he is, it is now up to her to make a decision for her and her child.
@@Godwin7521l raised my children after their father left. My mom assisted me while I worked. I waited until they were able to attend school before working. She has family, why can’t they assist with the child. He should make sure he is free to be around before making plans to see the son. He should NEVER leave his son unattended with another woman. If he can’t be available then he needs to leave the child with the mom.
@@kalimbaayinde25 though the marriage senerio is different from this awkward situation, sincerely, I am not fully trusting that he will abide by the rules that Chinaza had paid down. I just praise the fact that she decided to take this step all becos of their child. If he changes, good for him. Nevertheless, the fact remains that she has made it clear to him that without him, see can not only survive but also thrive. Jide is just being childish in his behaviour and he must not transfer such trait to his son
She IS making excellent SENSE. Solely for the BENEFIT of the CHILD. No relationship but solely for the WELFARE of the child - CO-PARENTING only! GET IT Mr. JIDE. She said she DOES NOT love you ANYMORE
She has a point, it's called Co parenting here in the western world, but if you guys are able to find a common ground in the future things can be sorted out just because of the child
A very matured woman. She is on top of the game it's now left for the guy to clean up his mess and be the best husband she desire. She is a loving soul that needs pure love 💗
Good thinking hun! The best interest of the child is her priority. A child needs a consistent and stable environment to grow. The last time the guy was saying, bringing in maid or whoever. It can only be a mother's love.❤❤
@@nurudeenjamiu9598 what I am saying is that what the lady is saying is not possible in Africa. Both still love each other and with time everything will be settled. Can you be in the same compound with your ex and expect nothing to happen... now we're talking about husband and wife. Before two weeks everything will be settled and both will enjoy the marriage again.
This your arrangement is perfect and it is way of resolving the matter. It reminded me of a couple which divorce was still in process in court but a miracle happened, the woman became pregnant before the process is completed. That ended the divorce. My fear is that you won't accuse Jide of raping you. Chinaza, please let the peace reign. The devil you know is better than angel you don't know. Jide should also know that he needs wisdom to win her back. With wisdom and patience,the marriage wound will heal. May the peace of God reign in your home.
I think she is indirectly see if the man can make amend. But Ben the only thing you need to do is check on them always and continue to work on them, since you initiated the reconciliation.Be a good mediator.
@@nkolika271he will still beat her. I see danger for the child and her. She is being selfish in her thinking. You can coparent without staying together.
Jide play along her card,use this opportunity to be a responsible man,bear it with all your heart, provide all her needs whether she collect it or not and u will win her heart
That sounds really good, in the US were I live people do that, they can be divorced but live together but doing their thing separately, sometimes by God's willing they can come back together if only there's changes from the man, she herself will really see is he has changed. Ben her idea isn't a big deal, it happens, I've seen it a lot here in the US even in Africa too
I have seen it happen a lot but it depends on couples agreeing to try it and on same page. In this case, the man can’t see it happening. He needs to educate himself. If someone said, they are tired of marriage, then let go!!!
Madam forgive this man. We know you have already reconsidered. I am happy for your stands but he has realised his mistakes and ready to correct it. The good thing is he now has limit to his anger. So please forgive him now for the sake of the child.
This is a golden opportunity my guy. When you read in between the lines, you can easily patch up where it went wrong. Look sharp and go for what you want. The choice is yours.
Ben the girl know what she's saying, she's a smart soul listen and learn, her concern is for her child, and that will give the guy time to get is act together.
What she’s requesting is not possible, it’s going to be a disaster, it’s will not work. She asking for more beating. It’s probably be best for her to hand over the child to the father so that she can be free to move around until she’s stable. It’s obvious The reason she’s doing this is because she’s not comfortable with her living situation at her mother’s place.
No she can't leave her child to any maid that Jide wants to bring in. It is better they go to court in case any beating occurs but if court is involved Jide will calm down and if she goes to his place of work to report he will be cautioned n want not to loose his job.may his colleagues too re birds of same feather.
Her idea is very logical. I like it for the child. I don’t know about Nigerian men but in US men act like you’re their wife until you die or remarry. 🤣
U are so right. If they go to court she have the custody of the child but co-parenting is stressful Jide is trying to put in a tight corner so that she would not leave him. Her idea is for the welfare of the child emotionally, good performance in school etc u know the negative effect of broken home on the child. If they proceeded to the court the child's welfare will be a priority to the judge to take a decision which will favor chinasa and in disfavor to Jide.
My guy let her come if you truely love her change your character and make the marriage work. Whatever she said is an inderectly way to see if you will change and let her find you attracted. She will fall in love with you. Use your head for wisdom. This is the time to get her love again
I pray it all ends well, but the question is will this highly tempered man endure at least for only two weeks cos any little spark of argument will re engulf everywhere
What don't you understand guy? She is not the problem. She wants to be flat mates with the father of her child... Loud and Clear. At least the child can see Mother and Father in the same house. Period! People do that and it works for the benefit of the child. Good move girl.
In the UK, divorced couple shares a house whereby they both have their partners and live happily. What Chinaza is doing is good for her son's sake, Jide just needs more understanding regarding this.
The child is suffering. Jide, please be patient. Work on your temper. When a woman experiences physical and verbal abuse, they become afraid and wary of any relationship
She is first a mother. No mother would not leave their little child with a man, even if he is the father. It is risky. The child's welfare and safety is very important
What kind of crude and untidy arrangement is that. The lady should wise up by agreeing to raise the child outside Jide's house. The lady should consult a lawyer for a legal opinion. Jide can now see the results of his crudity,harshness and untamed madness but prayers can still change the hardened heart of his ex-wife. Good luck.
Jide, ode. She just gave you the chance to redeem yourself... Another chance to make her feel loved. Oga, get to work and beg this woman. Everything she is saying is opposite of what she is saying.
Jide.......allow her to be back, don't allow her to pay any bill,give her free space to operate like before in the house, with her human conscience everything will fall together
The thing is that here in London they leave together even if they are divorce but in her own case the man hit her is domestic abuse, is better for her to get her own place cos it won't work cos they will be damaging the child that she claims to be protecting, if you want him go back but don't use the child
The man is giving a chance but the woman is hard hearted. I don't understand the comments? She can't bear the shame of separating from the husband but want to Live a single life.
If this man is wise he should use this opportunity to prove he's a better man, raising a child single-handedly is not easy, both of you should sit down and sort yourself out, i know domestic violence is involved, but with prayers, proper counseling things can go back to normal.
If I was Jide,dis is the very moment to mek tins right without arguments, he shul jus quietly accept her terms for now,den since de will be living together, he shul jus pet her and win her over and dis time he shul pls be matured and grow up.
No court would accept that this woman suffered domestic violence. Why woukd she even want to stay under the same roof with her abuser. Bringing this matter to social media and not willing to give the man a chance doesn’t speak well about the woman. The man has done everything human possible to make things work. But the woman is adamant and is opting to voluntarily put herself into danger.
This relationship of Mr Jide and Mr Chinaza have suffered from fatigue that the conditions thought about by Chinaza is challenging yet it can be done. I understand it’s not been tried consistently in a traditional society such as ours. If Jide conducts himself in the most disciplined manner, he will be able to identify the problems by looking at himself. Moreover, whoever that gave Chinaza the advice is using the procedure of extreme pressure to see how Jide will respond. Therefore, If he’s wise he should keep going and calling on Chinaza’s mother to influence her heart and if his offer is weighed and he passes the wife will forgive to return. I feel for both young couples. JIDE DON’T GO NEAR TO HER ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE’S MAD AT YOU. BE A COMPLETE GENTLEMAN AND CHANGE BY BUYING HER GIFTS 🎁 WEATHER SHE ACCEPTS OR NOT AND NO STRESSING HER. IF SHE TAKES IT IR NIT KEEP DOING IT. Happy New Year from New York.
Chinaza can just give him this last chance. Chinaza is also not completely innocent. She doesn't respect Jide. If she treats Jide as a king, Jide will treat her as a Queen. Jide the handsome man but with anger issues. Chinaza the pretty lady, but her uncontrolled mouth is her problem.
True they can stay as house mates and raise their child. Bencash you can Google it so you understand. It's doable a lot of couples are doing it. But they must not be jealous of each other. Jide you said you want to be near your child. This is the opportunity you never know if Jide has really changed he can embrace this.
This is a perfect solution and Chide must agree and use this as an opportunity to be with mother and child. Chide must go for anger management, she is a good and calm girl
See forget this people they still love each other. But the man should stop beating his wife it is not good. No woman outside there will be better than your own. Just respect her and one day she will forgive you. Don't force her to take you, just give her time to see that you not evil.
Bros Jide she has given u a chance to improve on your behavior. Please do not mess this opportunity. Take care of her and your kid. Because she still love you very much but as a lady she is accepting you indirectly.
This woman doesn't knw wot she want. She's confused, no wonder why Jide is treating her like a piece of trash. If she's truly can stand on her own, she should be able to get an apartment of her own.
THE CASE LIKE THIS BEN NEEDS TO ACT WITH A PASTOR TO DELIVERED THEM PLEASE. I WANT TO SEE YOU WITH A PASTOR FOR THIS CASE THANKS. DON'T DIVORCE BEYOND REPAIR.
For me it makes sense what she is talking about Alot of women their in marriage because of children while there divorced long time ago without talking anything
This is the best opportunity for you as the husband, this is the time to act nice, sweet and try to win her heart.
Exactly 💯. Jide, please grow up and be wise, and also, it's an opportunity to prove yourself.
QED
That's a sucker mentality. W0m3n despise suckers.
She playing games . Chase her .
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Not just act sweet and nice but to seek counselling to tackle his narcissistic behaviour and temper
She wants to give him a second chance and I think that is wise. If Jide can work on himself, he can win her heart again.
Sacrifices mothers make. It's not easy raising a child while both parents are separated. Her primary focus is her child. She wants the boy to easily have access to her and his father. But on the flip side, Jide had better be wise and use this opportunity to make constructive moves towards reconciliation. It's a golden opportunity she has served him
But it’s a toxic situation. It’s not healthy for the child. It’s selfish to put your children in a toxic environment for the so called sake of raising them in the same house.
@@kalimbaayinde25 yes, you have spoken well. But consider the fact that she has laid down the rules and I want to believe that Jide will be honourable enough to live by them. As she said, they are no longer married. Also consider this, will it be better for the boy to grow in the arms of a Nanny and his father (who will not always be around) when his mother is still alive? Or shd the boy stay with Chinaza without his father being there? None is good becos the child always the greatest loser when a home is broken (speaking from experience). I just pray God will help Chinaza go thru all this. Yet again I say, this is a massive sacrifice she is making
@@Godwin7521she laid down her boundaries in the marriage, yet he didn’t abide by them. He abuse her and cheated on her! What makes you think he will do what she requested in a living arrangement. This man is who he is, it is now up to her to make a decision for her and her child.
@@Godwin7521l raised my children after their father left. My mom assisted me while I worked. I waited until they were able to attend school before working. She has family, why can’t they assist with the child. He should make sure he is free to be around before making plans to see the son. He should NEVER leave his son unattended with another woman. If he can’t be available then he needs to leave the child with the mom.
@@kalimbaayinde25 though the marriage senerio is different from this awkward situation, sincerely, I am not fully trusting that he will abide by the rules that Chinaza had paid down. I just praise the fact that she decided to take this step all becos of their child. If he changes, good for him. Nevertheless, the fact remains that she has made it clear to him that without him, see can not only survive but also thrive. Jide is just being childish in his behaviour and he must not transfer such trait to his son
She is not crazy. She has a point.
She’s very clever. When she begin wear bum shorts the marriage go reconcile.
I guess she wants to indirectly see if the husband is really ready to make the marriage work
Exactly
She wants Jude or texting him.
Exactly for sure
So true
True
She IS making excellent SENSE. Solely for the BENEFIT of the CHILD. No relationship but solely for the WELFARE of the child - CO-PARENTING only! GET IT Mr. JIDE. She said she DOES NOT love you ANYMORE
Lmao 😂😂😂😂 naso e dey start before you know belle done enter.
She has a point, it's called Co parenting here in the western world, but if you guys are able to find a common ground in the future things can be sorted out just because of the child
It happens here
And this is toxic. The child will grow up and resent them both.
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It took Jide divorce to value what he had!
Yeye man!
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Jide is too proud to beg his wife. He should embrace and beg her.
A very matured woman. She is on top of the game it's now left for the guy to clean up his mess and be the best husband she desire. She is a loving soul that needs pure love 💗
😂 Na correct igbo women brain 😅 e dey use on dis guy
This lady is confused seriously and at the same time arrogant
She's in a big confused
She's smart. Her staying around him will provide opportunity for reconciliation. Jide is already seeing the greenlight.
Chinasa God bless you to accept your husband back, he is your husband no separate room my dear, go their and have another baby.
People do separate and still leave in the same house as house mates , it's not strange.
Really!
That situation can only work for white people not for Nigerian people abeg
If they go to court she will have custody of the child but co parenting is stressful and affects the child. Jide is foolish no foresight at all
This girl is very smart and if Jide is smart too, he should use the opportunity, that can still bring them together if he plays his card well.
Women and pride eeehh.
Na pride dey worry this girl
Good thinking hun! The best interest of the child is her priority. A child needs a consistent and stable environment to grow. The last time the guy was saying, bringing in maid or whoever. It can only be a mother's love.❤❤
This lady is very funny.... how possible is that. You guys still love each other.
Haha more than funny I swear.. she's a joker 🃏
yes its done abroad.. either as a house mate or flat mate
@@abinmisolayinusa1067 Not in Nigeria and it will never be possible. We are Africans, so this is not abroad.
In Islamic injunction before you can divorce your wife the wife most live with you for at least three months before you allow the woman to go,.
@@nurudeenjamiu9598 what I am saying is that what the lady is saying is not possible in Africa. Both still love each other and with time everything will be settled. Can you be in the same compound with your ex and expect nothing to happen... now we're talking about husband and wife. Before two weeks everything will be settled and both will enjoy the marriage again.
This your arrangement is perfect and it is way of resolving the matter. It reminded me of a couple which divorce was still in process in court but a miracle happened, the woman became pregnant before the process is completed. That ended the divorce. My fear is that you won't accuse Jide of raping you. Chinaza, please let the peace reign. The devil you know is better than angel you don't know. Jide should also know that he needs wisdom to win her back. With wisdom and patience,the marriage wound will heal. May the peace of God reign in your home.
This is not obtainable. This lady doesn't even understand what she is saying.
Exactly ❤
Summary is that they’re still in love. It’s a 2nd chance for Jide pls don’t mess it up
Side! You are lucky that your wife has decided to come back to you. But do not rush it. Gradually take one step at a time to win her back.
I think she is indirectly see if the man can make amend. But Ben the only thing you need to do is check on them always and continue to work on them, since you initiated the reconciliation.Be a good mediator.
she makes a lot of sense...for the sake of the child. It's not new at all. Separation doesn't make them enemies. She's a very civilized woman. 🇬🇭
She still loves him. This gives the man an opportunity to make amends over time.
Jide, pls allow her to move in and change ur ways. The marriage will eventually work out by God’s grace. Jide, ur wife still loves u.
Bencash, this couple still love each other, stop disturbing yourself😂 after this now, they will still have another child. Dey play😂
Madam stop beating about the bush
Oga, kneel down and beg your woman... She is rare gem
If he has changed, then I see no reason for them not to stay together again, if that's her choice, no problem, I just hope he has changed for good.
Are you sure this girl is okay
She's not that financial buoyantly, two she stylishly gvn him a second chance
That guy is going to kill you if you get a boy friend😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That’s my worry but as long as she doesn’t bring the boyfriend to her and Jides house, she will be fine.
Exactly. This situation will end horribly for her.
@@nkolika271he will still beat her. I see danger for the child and her. She is being selfish in her thinking. You can coparent without staying together.
If this man really wants peace and want to change. He should accept what she's saying. From there they'll connect again
I raised my two children as a single parent and they always had a relationship with their mother, never no animosity Guyana 🇬🇾
Lady bad idea
Jide play along her card,use this opportunity to be a responsible man,bear it with all your heart, provide all her needs whether she collect it or not and u will win her heart
That sounds really good, in the US were I live people do that, they can be divorced but live together but doing their thing separately, sometimes by God's willing they can come back together if only there's changes from the man, she herself will really see is he has changed. Ben her idea isn't a big deal, it happens, I've seen it a lot here in the US even in Africa too
Until th3 w0man find a new man n break the deal again.
I have seen it happen a lot but it depends on couples agreeing to try it and on same page. In this case, the man can’t see it happening. He needs to educate himself. If someone said, they are tired of marriage, then let go!!!
Jide, allow her to do as she has said. If you work on your self I am pretty sure that she will reconsider
The minute you start seeing some one else ,that will be your end 😢
You don't need to argue, jide. Just be happy she is offering you dz chance. This woman need a better man.
Ben, let them be, I believe things will work out between them.
Madam forgive this man. We know you have already reconsidered. I am happy for your stands but he has realised his mistakes and ready to correct it. The good thing is he now has limit to his anger. So please forgive him now for the sake of the child.
This is a golden opportunity my guy. When you read in between the lines, you can easily patch up where it went wrong. Look sharp and go for what you want. The choice is yours.
She is indirectly asking if there is a chance to patch up. Ladies say one thing and mean another unlike men.
Ben the girl know what she's saying, she's a smart soul listen and learn, her concern is for her child, and that will give the guy time to get is act together.
What she’s requesting is not possible, it’s going to be a disaster, it’s will not work. She asking for more beating. It’s probably be best for her to hand over the child to the father so that she can be free to move around until she’s stable. It’s obvious The reason she’s doing this is because she’s not comfortable with her living situation at her mother’s place.
No she can't leave her child to any maid that Jide wants to bring in. It is better they go to court in case any beating occurs but if court is involved Jide will calm down and if she goes to his place of work to report he will be cautioned n want not to loose his job.may his colleagues too re birds of same feather.
High five Tee😂😂❤
Jide please take this as baby step. Use this opportunity wisely to repair your relationship. Don't argue
She's looking for accomodations 😂
Her idea is very logical. I like it for the child. I don’t know about Nigerian men but in US men act like you’re their wife until you die or remarry. 🤣
And her suggestion is the best thing for the child. She is right
Ben you never tire for this your acting ☠️
She wants to see if the husband has truely changed for good.
It happens in the western world , it’s not strange .
U are so right. If they go to court she have the custody of the child but co-parenting is stressful Jide is trying to put in a tight corner so that she would not leave him. Her idea is for the welfare of the child emotionally, good performance in school etc u know the negative effect of broken home on the child. If they proceeded to the court the child's welfare will be a priority to the judge to take a decision which will favor chinasa and in disfavor to Jide.
My guy let her come if you truely love her change your character and make the marriage work. Whatever she said is an inderectly way to see if you will change and let her find you attracted. She will fall in love with you. Use your head for wisdom. This is the time to get her love again
This woman still loves him.
No she doesn't, she wants her son to see his dad, Jide did to much to her, remember her whole body.
This lady will continue to get abused by him. She needs to stay away from him point blank
This girl will soon regret it
I pray it all ends well, but the question is will this highly tempered man endure at least for only two weeks cos any little spark of argument will re engulf everywhere
My thoughts exactly. This man has not changed, he might even be planning a revenge.
What don't you understand guy? She is not the problem. She wants to be flat mates with the father of her child... Loud and Clear. At least the child can see Mother and Father in the same house. Period! People do that and it works for the benefit of the child. Good move girl.
Jide is the only one who is holding the marriage. It would have been easier if Jide had worked on his anger issue. the marriage would have worked.
In the UK, divorced couple shares a house whereby they both have their partners and live happily. What Chinaza is doing is good for her son's sake, Jide just needs more understanding regarding this.
She still love her husband i pray for the reconciliation ❤❤❤❤i hope the husband to get his head straight
This lady needs prayers
Guy be smart let her come in first, rainy season is coming & the body will need to stay warm. 😂😂😂❤
If they're both paying rent then she's under THEIR roof..Mr Ben cash.
She is coming back because she has nowhere better to stay, not because of the kiddo.. Let her live with her mother.
The child is suffering.
Jide, please be patient. Work on your temper.
When a woman experiences physical and verbal abuse, they become afraid and wary of any relationship
She is first a mother.
No mother would not leave their little child with a man, even if he is the father. It is risky. The child's welfare and safety is very important
What kind of crude and untidy arrangement is that. The lady should wise up by agreeing to raise the child outside Jide's house. The lady should consult a lawyer for a legal opinion.
Jide can now see the results of his crudity,harshness and untamed madness but prayers can still change the hardened heart of his ex-wife. Good luck.
Jide, ode. She just gave you the chance to redeem yourself... Another chance to make her feel loved. Oga, get to work and beg this woman. Everything she is saying is opposite of what she is saying.
Jide.......allow her to be back, don't allow her to pay any bill,give her free space to operate like before in the house, with her human conscience everything will fall together
The thing is that here in London they leave together even if they are divorce but in her own case the man hit her is domestic abuse, is better for her to get her own place cos it won't work cos they will be damaging the child that she claims to be protecting, if you want him go back but don't use the child
Pride and arrogant will destroy this Jide
The man is giving a chance but the woman is hard hearted. I don't understand the comments? She can't bear the shame of separating from the husband but want to Live a single life.
If this man is wise he should use this opportunity to prove he's a better man, raising a child single-handedly is not easy, both of you should sit down and sort yourself out, i know domestic violence is involved, but with prayers, proper counseling things can go back to normal.
If I was Jide,dis is the very moment to mek tins right without arguments, he shul jus quietly accept her terms for now,den since de will be living together, he shul jus pet her and win her over and dis time he shul pls be matured and grow up.
No court would accept that this woman suffered domestic violence. Why woukd she even want to stay under the same roof with her abuser. Bringing this matter to social media and not willing to give the man a chance doesn’t speak well about the woman. The man has done everything human possible to make things work. But the woman is adamant and is opting to voluntarily put herself into danger.
This guy is very crazy! This is the best chance for you to prove to her you are now a changed man and a good husband to her.
This relationship of Mr Jide and Mr Chinaza have suffered from fatigue that the conditions thought about by Chinaza is challenging yet it can be done. I understand it’s not been tried consistently in a traditional society such as ours. If Jide conducts himself in the most disciplined manner, he will be able to identify the problems by looking at himself. Moreover, whoever that gave Chinaza the advice is using the procedure of extreme pressure to see how Jide will respond. Therefore, If he’s wise he should keep going and calling on Chinaza’s mother to influence her heart and if his offer is weighed and he passes the wife will forgive to return. I feel for both young couples. JIDE DON’T GO NEAR TO HER ESPECIALLY WHEN SHE’S MAD AT YOU. BE A COMPLETE GENTLEMAN AND CHANGE BY BUYING HER GIFTS 🎁 WEATHER SHE ACCEPTS OR NOT AND NO STRESSING HER. IF SHE TAKES IT IR NIT KEEP DOING IT. Happy New Year from New York.
Are these two legally divorced?
Oga ur wife want you back in her life ❤❤❤
Chinaza can just give him this last chance. Chinaza is also not completely innocent. She doesn't respect Jide. If she treats Jide as a king, Jide will treat her as a Queen.
Jide the handsome man but with anger issues. Chinaza the pretty lady, but her uncontrolled mouth is her problem.
True they can stay as house mates and raise their child. Bencash you can Google it so you understand. It's doable a lot of couples are doing it. But they must not be jealous of each other. Jide you said you want to be near your child. This is the opportunity you never know if Jide has really changed he can embrace this.
This is a perfect solution and Chide must agree and use this as an opportunity to be with mother and child. Chide must go for anger management, she is a good and calm girl
She is indirectly begging to come back
See forget this people they still love each other. But the man should stop beating his wife it is not good. No woman outside there will be better than your own. Just respect her and one day she will forgive you. Don't force her to take you, just give her time to see that you not evil.
Jide the ball is in your court, how well you play it is up to you. Score this game. One love✌️✌️✌️
The woman is indirectly saying she does not want to leave the house. The Man should just try to be himself and stop beating the woman.
She doesn’t have a place to stay,husband let her go.Your son will look for you .
Nawaooo cat and mouse leaving together so wat if the man want another lady since you not interested in him wahala😂😂😂😂😂
Don’t go back he will never ever change safe your life and your child life very dangerous man 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Love works differently with women than it does with men. Women fall out of love easily, but men hardly fall out of love.
Bros Jide she has given u a chance to improve on your behavior. Please do not mess this opportunity. Take care of her and your kid. Because she still love you very much but as a lady she is accepting you indirectly.
This woman doesn't knw wot she want. She's confused, no wonder why Jide is treating her like a piece of trash. If she's truly can stand on her own, she should be able to get an apartment of her own.
Jide, accept it and gradually, she will change her mind towards you, when you begin to do things differently from what she dislikes about you.
This is normal. The girl is right, if not the guy should leave the house 🏠
Jideeee! Relax you are winning you don’t need to work yourself out. She still loves you somehow but she’s trying to test the waters. 😢😢😢
This guy have a problem.!Accept anything she is saying to you now and prove to her you are now a change man and a good husband
It is possible & who knows chemistry can build up again.
THE CASE LIKE THIS BEN NEEDS TO ACT WITH A PASTOR TO DELIVERED THEM PLEASE. I WANT TO SEE YOU WITH A PASTOR FOR THIS CASE THANKS. DON'T DIVORCE BEYOND REPAIR.
For me it makes sense what she is talking about
Alot of women their in marriage because of children while there divorced long time ago without talking anything