I don't understand y we let people linger in hosp, nursing homes, and assisted living, when their brain capacity is completely gone. It's big business, run by greedy corporations
DWD needs to be expanded to chronic illnesses as well. Some conditions will cause a miserable QOL and last for decades not end within 6 months (the current law requirement). This needs to be made available to those who want it. For me personally I will not allow my own ME/CFS to go on another 10+ years. There ethically should be a legal way to end it for the sake of loved ones too.
Her boyfriend is a strong man, if you are reading this sir I respect and my heart goes out to you because I see you. She went knowing she was loved and you did great. Take care of yourself.
@@MarleyJ //// The makers of Seconol did a price gouge ($5000 a dose) so a new formula was developed using phenobarbital, chloral hydrate, and morphine.
No. Since 2013, doctors no longer prescribe it. Not even for terminally ill people. Not even for people with cancer. Its horrible. I took care of two terminally ill family members. These doctors cover their own @$$ and just refuse everyone pain medication.
@@joecheffo5942 we’re talking about folks on hospice… no reason to suffer in agony… if you want to remain alert, then you find that balance of meds,between acceptable pain mgmt and being able to engage with others.
As a Christian, I honestly struggle with Dr assisted suicide, even though I know most people that seek help in dying with dignity are terminally ill. From a biblical stand point, its still ending your life on YOUR own terms and not Gods, and that is part that would prevent me of ending my life prematurely, even if I was terminally ill.
Did you know the Bible never lists suicide as a sin, not one single time in the OT or NT. Not once. In fact of the seven suicides committed not one is condemned by God, not one. And God even helps one, Samson.
@@joecheffo5942 Did you know that Trump claims to have never done anything wrong to have needed to ask God for forgiveness?! Did you know that Trump Breaks the majority of the 10 commandments with the exception a few on an every day basis?! Did you know that in our Constitution it says that church and state are completely separate?! Did you know that Donald Trump can’t quote one Bible verse in fact, says he wouldn’t either way because his relationship with God is “private “?! Do you realize that Trump is an adjudicated rapist?! Did you know that Trump and his corporations was found guilty of mass fraud (which is stealing) where he now owes 400 million dollars to the state of NY?! Did you know that he was found guilty on 34 felony charges and is a convicted felon?! You Have absolutely no right to even speak to me if you support Donald Trump, especially from some “moral high ground”!!
@@joecheffo5942 He probably cares more about the reasons for it right? Is this really true though? Seems like a very petty or narcissistic god to send someone to Hell for not suffering through life on Earth long enough, but that doesn't seem to be your belief thankfully.
@@Anubis424242 People are confused. Many people think we suffered more long ago but with today’s chronic illnesses many are suffering 10 times the amount as a crucifixion. People generally died in a week or less in Jesus time. If you broke your neck you died you were not put on a feeding tube or an oxygen tank for months or years. They didn’t have the chronic illnesses we have today for example Parkinson’s disease is mostly caused by pesticides. Jesus died after six hours on the cross, but people are supposed to hang on for years. It’s ridiculous. Ironically, even many theologians think Jesus‘s death was tantamount to a suicide. Sure the reasons might’ve been different, assuming one accepts the story, but he did not want life imprisonment, blinding, hard labor, etc. he went purposefully. So did King Saul and Samson. King soul feared being tortured and Samson was in fact being tortured. Samson was blinded and hung by his arms to pillars. People say Samson did it just for the war, but that’s not what he said. He said to God that these people blinded him and he wanted revenge and he wanted God to give him strength for that. It was personal revenge. It wasn’t even patriotic from what he said. If suicide was so bad, why would God arrange it so that Samson would do it? If God was against suicide, One would think that he would not have granted Samson permission. I am not saying I believe these stories happened, but if one does believe the Bible, I don’t think it’s fair to make up one’s own morals and replace the Bible or to take a church teaching over the Bible. Even Catholics have removed suicide from the mortal sin list in 1983. They have also added some more language to mitigate it. So things are shifting even there. I think there is room for compassionate and dignified, dying in all religions or in secularism . It’s about love people. Live, love, leave. Peace
@PsiPhy why do u pity me ? Lol I didn't pass judgment on her I simply said foe ME this isn't right. If that's what makes that person happy, ending their life and everyone is applauding her. Why is it not ok for me to say I'd ride it out ? Kinda hypocritical don't u think ??? Why is it that everyone is allowed to believe what they want but believers of Christ get mocked. Also I never referred to the bible..
That is a very bitter way to die in my opinion. You really don't want to leave, so you drink that awful bitter poison without the presence of any image of Jesuschrist, or an angel, or at list a priest for a last confession. Everybody holding the tears and pain around you; everything looks in sad harmony, but after the death, who knows what or who is waiting for you!!! Not for me!!!
She said God wants her to do it...I’m speechless. Repent of that. Suicide is a grave sin. “Thou shalt not kill..” I will pray for you and your family. Pain and suffering can be redemptive if we allow it.
You wouldn't say something like that if you had any idea. You're not God, so please don't pass judgement. I've seen people wither away into nothing in immense pain with Cancer. It's not Suicide if you have to get approval and meet certain qualifications. No I don't know them, but I understand.
@@mommyonamission7084 God does not want us to Judge!! How do you know her chosing to end her life is a sin?? Yes God says it's a sin to take your life but do you really believe in your heart that he wants his children to die tormenting deaths? I chose not to believe that he wants anyone to suffer in horrific pain or to suffocate. And if it is a sin in God's eyes then that's for her to deal with when she faces our Lord and Savior k but you should not JUDGE HER. Maybe in her heart she truly felt that God wanted her to do it. I mean you just don't know . I know if I have to be in horrific pain or if I knew I was going to suffocate I would certainly make that same decision. Why die in horrible pain or suffocate if you know you have a more pleasant and peaceful option. No one can really judge until they are face with her sam circumstances because you really couldn't know if you would or wouldn't want that option until your faced with having to make that decision. I personally think she was very brave and very selfless by making that choice. She didn't want her family to have to watch her suffer any longer . I fully support her decision as I would anyone who chose not to do that. It's all in your own feelings and your own choice. I'm so happy she had that choice to make so she no longer has to suffer in pain. God Bless her family and may she rest in peace now with no more pain to bare.🙏🙏❤️❤️
@@choctawwoman140 I can't read all of this right now because I have some health issues but I don't think that you read my comment at all. Read it again then remove the reply to me because my point was I UNDERSTAND
death with dignity is not the end of suffering if you do not have Jesus in your life. You do not get to heaven being a good person, or doing good deeds. The bible says, unless you are born again, you cannot seen the kingdom of god. We are all sinners upon birth, and if we dont repent and trust in Jesus, we will go to hell. Research for yourself. it sounds harsh, but there is no other way than through Jesus. You are to put it in Gods hands, because you are not the owner of yourself, God is. And if you trust in Him, he will give you what it takes to get through. Its in his hands, not yours. But you must ask him into your life first, and he will give you eternal life. I only tell you this cuz I care, and so does Jesus.
She’s so brave to not only make this decision but to carry it through despite her family’s feelings. RIP-😞
Brave brave Lady I am so proud of you Tempra you are an inspiration to so many I am so glad I found you 🙏🏻💟🇦🇺 Love to your beautiful family ❤️🤍💙
Brave under heart breaking circumstances ❤️
Thank you , Tempra . 😘 Brave , beautiful , human ...
Thank you to family who shared this
Death is the ultimate healer.
I don't understand y we let people linger in hosp, nursing homes, and assisted living, when their brain capacity is completely gone. It's big business, run by greedy corporations
This is tough having a terminal illness is brutal the pain takes everything from you .one should decide to exit life there own way one without pain
God bless this family
Everyone should have the right to choose our death! ❤
R.I.P Tempra
God has you sister, no worries. I had to watch my mom suffer and pass from the same cancer. No one should ever have to die like that
DWD needs to be expanded to chronic illnesses as well.
Some conditions will cause a miserable QOL and last for decades not end within 6 months (the current law requirement). This needs to be made available to those who want it.
For me personally I will not allow my own ME/CFS to go on another 10+ years. There ethically should be a legal way to end it for the sake of loved ones too.
No more pain for her ❤
Kent Dana thank you
It's been 4 yrs for her family❤ how is everyone doing? Also my condolences 🌹
Is this listed a suicide on her death certificate? Does this affect any life insurance policy she may have had?
Jef///// Most policies have a two year waiting period. Some do not cover it at all.
I wonder how life insurance works in these cases.
What about pain in the heart? What about mental pain?? 1:38
Beautiful choice good memo to leave not painful to stay
Her boyfriend is a strong man, if you are reading this sir I respect and my heart goes out to you because I see you. She went knowing she was loved and you did great. Take care of yourself.
some people give up while others keep fighting regardless of how long or how much. cmaron rice 17yrs on a stage 4 brain tumor never gave up
She is NOT giving up; she's choosing not to suffer. If this other person chose to continue to suffer, then that was HER choice. Period.
Right ear enjoyed this one
What is/are the drug(s) used?
You good bruh
It couldn’t have been Nembutal as it took too long for her to go, having said that she was very peaceful 🙏🏻
@@MarleyJ //// Could have been other barbiturates, sleeping pills, blood pressure meds, narcotics, helium inhalation, who knows?
@@MarleyJ //// The makers of Seconol did a price gouge ($5000 a dose) so a new formula was developed using phenobarbital, chloral hydrate, and morphine.
I type like this.. thought that I was the only one. Lol.
Do these poor people not get pain medication? So sad
No. Since 2013, doctors no longer prescribe it. Not even for terminally ill people. Not even for people with cancer. Its horrible. I took care of two terminally ill family members. These doctors cover their own @$$ and just refuse everyone pain medication.
If they are on hospice, they will receive excellent pain management. Not all drs are even equipped to handle aggressive pain… most use hospice.🙏
@@luminurse Not everyone wants to be doped up tied to a bed peeing in a container. That's not living for some of us.
@@joecheffo5942 we’re talking about folks on hospice… no reason to suffer in agony… if you want to remain alert, then you find that balance of meds,between acceptable pain mgmt and being able to engage with others.
Yes, but sometimes the pain medication cannot control the terminal cancers pain
This is good population control is ppl want to go let them go. We are all gonna die so don’t judge.
Did you know every second a person dies another person is born. That’s population control.
As a Christian, I honestly struggle with Dr assisted suicide, even though I know most people that seek help in dying with dignity are terminally ill. From a biblical stand point, its still ending your life on YOUR own terms and not Gods, and that is part that would prevent me of ending my life prematurely, even if I was terminally ill.
So your god is against someone making the choice for themselves? Why? He must be sadistic.
Did you know the Bible never lists suicide as a sin, not one single time in the OT or NT. Not once. In fact of the seven suicides committed not one is condemned by God, not one. And God even helps one, Samson.
@@joecheffo5942 Did you know that Trump claims to have never done anything wrong to have needed to ask God for forgiveness?! Did you know that Trump Breaks the majority of the 10 commandments with the exception a few on an every day basis?! Did you know that in our Constitution it says that church and state are completely separate?! Did you know that Donald Trump can’t quote one Bible verse in fact, says he wouldn’t either way because his relationship with God is “private “?! Do you realize that Trump is an adjudicated rapist?! Did you know that Trump and his corporations was found guilty of mass fraud (which is stealing) where he now owes 400 million dollars to the state of NY?! Did you know that he was found guilty on 34 felony charges and is a convicted felon?! You Have absolutely no right to even speak to me if you support Donald Trump, especially from some “moral high ground”!!
@@joecheffo5942 He probably cares more about the reasons for it right? Is this really true though? Seems like a very petty or narcissistic god to send someone to Hell for not suffering through life on Earth long enough, but that doesn't seem to be your belief thankfully.
@@Anubis424242 People are confused. Many people think we suffered more long ago but with today’s chronic illnesses many are suffering 10 times the amount as a crucifixion.
People generally died in a week or less in Jesus time. If you broke your neck you died you were not put on a feeding tube or an oxygen tank for months or years. They didn’t have the chronic illnesses we have today for example Parkinson’s disease is mostly caused by pesticides.
Jesus died after six hours on the cross, but people are supposed to hang on for years. It’s ridiculous. Ironically, even many theologians think Jesus‘s death was tantamount to a suicide. Sure the reasons might’ve been different, assuming one accepts the story, but he did not want life imprisonment, blinding, hard labor, etc. he went purposefully. So did King Saul and Samson. King soul feared being tortured and Samson was in fact being tortured. Samson was blinded and hung by his arms to pillars.
People say Samson did it just for the war, but that’s not what he said. He said to God that these people blinded him and he wanted revenge and he wanted God to give him strength for that. It was personal revenge. It wasn’t even patriotic from what he said.
If suicide was so bad, why would God arrange it so that Samson would do it? If God was against suicide, One would think that he would not have granted Samson permission.
I am not saying I believe these stories happened, but if one does believe the Bible, I don’t think it’s fair to make up one’s own morals and replace the Bible or to take a church teaching over the Bible.
Even Catholics have removed suicide from the mortal sin list in 1983. They have also added some more language to mitigate it. So things are shifting even there.
I think there is room for compassionate and dignified, dying in all religions or in secularism .
It’s about love people. Live, love, leave.
Peace
Im sorry but i do not believe this is right. I believe in Christ and he suffered n died for me if i have to suffer also so be it...
That pathetic opinion coined by kingJames from stone ages. I pity you
@PsiPhy why do u pity me ? Lol I didn't pass judgment on her I simply said foe ME this isn't right. If that's what makes that person happy, ending their life and everyone is applauding her. Why is it not ok for me to say I'd ride it out ? Kinda hypocritical don't u think ??? Why is it that everyone is allowed to believe what they want but believers of Christ get mocked.
Also I never referred to the bible..
That is a very bitter way to die in my opinion. You really don't want to leave, so you drink that awful bitter poison without the presence of any image of Jesuschrist, or an angel, or at list a priest for a last confession. Everybody holding the tears and pain around you; everything looks in sad harmony, but after the death, who knows what or who is waiting for you!!! Not for me!!!
She said God wants her to do it...I’m speechless. Repent of that. Suicide is a grave sin. “Thou shalt not kill..” I will pray for you and your family. Pain and suffering can be redemptive if we allow it.
You wouldn't say something like that if you had any idea. You're not God, so please don't pass judgement. I've seen people wither away into nothing in immense pain with Cancer. It's not Suicide if you have to get approval and meet certain qualifications. No I don't know them, but I understand.
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She was already given a death sentence,she just took control of when. Its not up to you to judge. You choose what you do with your life.
@@mommyonamission7084 God does not want us to Judge!! How do you know her chosing to end her life is a sin?? Yes God says it's a sin to take your life but do you really believe in your heart that he wants his children to die tormenting deaths? I chose not to believe that he wants anyone to suffer in horrific pain or to suffocate. And if it is a sin in God's eyes then that's for her to deal with when she faces our Lord and Savior k but you should not JUDGE HER. Maybe in her heart she truly felt that God wanted her to do it. I mean you just don't know . I know if I have to be in horrific pain or if I knew I was going to suffocate I would certainly make that same decision. Why die in horrible pain or suffocate if you know you have a more pleasant and peaceful option. No one can really judge until they are face with her sam circumstances because you really couldn't know if you would or wouldn't want that option until your faced with having to make that decision. I personally think she was very brave and very selfless by making that choice. She didn't want her family to have to watch her suffer any longer . I fully support her decision as I would anyone who chose not to do that. It's all in your own feelings and your own choice. I'm so happy she had that choice to make so she no longer has to suffer in pain. God Bless her family and may she rest in peace now with no more pain to bare.🙏🙏❤️❤️
@@choctawwoman140 I can't read all of this right now because I have some health issues but I don't think that you read my comment at all. Read it again then remove the reply to me because my point was I UNDERSTAND
death with dignity is not the end of suffering if you do not have Jesus in your life. You do not get to heaven being a good person, or doing good deeds. The bible says, unless you are born again, you cannot seen the kingdom of god. We are all sinners upon birth, and if we dont repent and trust in Jesus, we will go to hell. Research for yourself. it sounds harsh, but there is no other way than through Jesus. You are to put it in Gods hands, because you are not the owner of yourself, God is. And if you trust in Him, he will give you what it takes to get through. Its in his hands, not yours. But you must ask him into your life first, and he will give you eternal life. I only tell you this cuz I care, and so does Jesus.
_"Thou shalt keep thy religion to thyself"_ -George Carlin
STFU and have respect. You want some asshat of a different religion preaching on your video of you dying of a terminal illness? No? Then don't do it.
@@Bubba__Sawyer Amen to that!
She isn't the only one whose suffering. How dare you use God as your motive. You will sadly rot in hell.
What is wrong with you?
Omg
You are a terrible person Sharon.
Look in the bible, see if you find the word suicide anywhere, It's not there. If God was against it wouldn't he have mentioned it?