I never spend money on hair coloring in the salon. I have been coloring my hair myself at home. I have saved a LOT of money over the past 30 years and I receive compliments on how nice my hair looks.
Hi dedrie love your video I am only 5 ft in height I only wear heels when going out I am more comfortable in a bit flatter shoe luv watching as always ❤❤❤😅
I agree. I sometimes see women with the full set, fake lashes, fake HEAVY tan, over-highlighted hair, brown toned lipstick, & I think, I wonder what she ACTUALLY looks like?
I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks acrylic nails look cheap, older ladies with pink, purple etc hair , fake eyelashes and caterpillar brows, not nice at all 🤭
Please don’t tell us what we shouldn’t wear. Some people can make a dustbin bag look stylish and wonderful. Others with the most beautiful clothing still look terrible. We should wear what we want and feel good in. I had my work clothes that boosted my confidence. It was also like wearing body armour. I have received compliments when wearing something I didn’t like that much. But to be told you shouldn’t wear it after a certain age what! At 72 maybe l should dress in a shroud at least I’m ready.
Yes. Very funny claws. But I wonder how effective personal hygiene is with those talons ? How does one prepare food? I think regular bacteria cultures should be taken under those long nails. 🙄🦅
It depends on your skin how a product reveals itself, not the brand or price… I have a total mix of range and no one is interested in the brand, but complements me on the color fit… to my skin AND outfit. That’s style
Those big sales like the Nordstrom Anniversary one have mostly inferior merchandise made specifically for the sale. Instead of discounting quality items like silk, cashmere and leather, for example, there will be lots of “designer-like looks” in polyester, acrylic and polyurethane. I rarely look at those sales anymore, there isn’t much to my liking. A lot of my decluttered items came from such sales in the past, often because of a comfort problem with the inferior fabrics and materials.
Definitely! I like them short, well-manicured, polish-free and beautifully clean! Those really long, painted and pointed nails gross me out, they are always filthy underneath, the wearer can’t see it🙂
This was fun. Long nails with designs and embellishments just scream "cheap" to me. It would work well, however, with the new "Mob Wife" look that's trending now. Not my vibe though. I do have, however, a vintage LV duffle bag that belonged to my grandmother. I use it for weekend trips by car only though.
I agree with #2 "Anything you will only wear once". We had 2 son's get married within a short time and I had to buy 2 gowns and everything that goes along with them. What a waste as I will never wear either of them again. Also, the shoes weren't very comfortable so I donated those immediately afterwards.
I agree that nothing looks worse on hands over 60 than long fingernails, painted or unpainted. Short and painted red looks more tasteful and stylish. Queen Elizabeth's Ballet Slippers by Essie was a perfect color.
@@gillmiller3702 I have really strong nails and I wear them fairly long. I love gardening, so polish doesn’t work well except for special occasions. At least a couple of times a week, someone tells me they wish they could grow their nails like mine.
I’m a bit bohemian at heart and a few of these were hard to swallow. 😂 I’m always fighting to lean into a more conservative look. I was a Flight Attendant and I know how to tone things down and dress in a daily uniform, but it doesn’t come natural to my Gypsy spirit. ❤
I've moved from vintage dressing to conservative to boho. I'll wear what I love and that makes me feel good. I had an overseas artist tell me she loves my style. That was confirmation that I need to keep being me. You do you girlfriend!
Deirdre you’ve put together a very useful list. I’ve learned the hard way lol!! The only sale i attack now is M&S and get those super soft crew necks, as many colours as I can. They are fab, so easy to wear. But they don’t last for years. They pill and only last a season of washing before they look pretty poorly. But at £17.50 I’m willing to replace regularly. Your description of a stylish woman is an exact depiction of my mother. Now 97, demented and bedridden, she still compliments my clothes during her lucid moments. We had soooo much fun over the years, clothes shopping in London. I miss those days.
Deirdre - I totally agree - and btw - I absolutely adore your sense of humor - you cracked me up several times during this video. Thanks for great tips and a good laugh 😄😄🤭👍👍
I do have acrylic nails. I get an almond shape and get lots of compliments. Normally a shade of pink. I don’t get red as it does not suit my older hands (66). My natural nails just don’t grow and are very brittle.
I had impossible nails too but I started taking collagen supplements every day and now they grow well. I'm going on 78 but I allergic to acrylic anything so I can't even polish them.
I absolutely agree with spending money on expensive (to some), makeup. I have used Elizabeth Arden, Lancôme, and some Clinique products since 29 years old. My skin is still radiant, is always clear, and as healthy as I can take care of. 💕
I am almost 59, and I shop at thrift stores. I am super aware of my proportions and know what works. I adore dupes. I am glad that I "stumbled " upon your channel. Love from Marquette MI ❤ Short lady, short hair, short nails. 😅
I’m picky about what I buy, it must be well made, it must be good quality fibres, and it must be able to last a long time because of simpler lines or details. 95% of my closet is secondhand, anything retail must be special. We can sometimes find those better quality pieces at fast fashion retailers, I found a pair of metallic denim at Zara in January, they were on my wish list and will be worn for a very long time. I shop with a wish/want/need list to keep myself focused. No sale or bargain piece that you never wear or wear once is worth purchasing; it’s a waste of funds, your precious closet space, and not sustainable. Better to wait find the right piece that you love, fits your style aesthetic, and can be worn over and over.
Happy Easter Deirdre! Over the years I've bought a few items that I wore once - the most recent being a dress I bought for my sons wedding. I'm sure I could have found something that I could have reworn. Definitely agree with you about the acrylic nails!! Have a super week!! xx
I think acrylic nails are disgusting, and very low-class, the wearers can’t see how filthy the undersides always are. Some of them look like, and can probably function as, weapons! Not my idea of femininity. I like natural, clean, short well-manicured nails with no polish, or maybe clear only. That’s the classiest of all.
I always wear light nude or French on my nails. I don't know how some women do anything with those long nails. I have a shirt just like the one you have on. It is the best wearing shirt and feels so good. It washes up so well. Thank you for another video full of tips.
Same here. I have also bought expensive lipsticks, Dior, Mac, Chanel, Clinique, Rubinstein, Arden, Lancome, you name it....... for me it's not worth the money. Same with very expensive cosmetic, and I tried nearly all in the course of my life. I personally love Revlon and L'oreal lipsticks, great colours, good texture and great price. Expensive cosmetic is so expensive because of the marketing. Test reports are showing often bad ingredients and in particular most of the face creams and serums are totally over-perfumed. But everyone has to make it's own choice.....so you have to ask yourself, whether it's really worth your hard earned money.
I’ve been watching your videos and love the clothes and jewellery you wear but I’m 71 and I live on £172 a week so have to wear more inexpensive clothes and jewellery. I’ve recently bought quite a few clothes from M&S but can’t find a nice blue and white striped shirt or white jeans/trousers that I like and which fit nicely. I did however buy a Karen Millen necklace that you wear and that was reasonably priced. 😊
I buy most of my expensive clothes off season, and at least 50 percent off regular price. This way I can buy quality, classic key pieces of clothing that lasts for years. You really don’t need a lot of pieces to look fantastic. 🌹
Try charity shops... they have changed so much. Vrand new shoes are always in there and new clothes with tags. Its a throw away society. Plus all those ' worn once special occasion ' pieces. Happy shopping.
@@annmcevoy5686 Thank you. I do look in my local charity shops but have never found anything really nice, the best I ever found was a jacket which was an Autograph. I will keep looking. It’s very true about people giving their clothes which have only been worn once, many years ago I gave the outfit I wore to my son’s wedding.
Since moving back to my home state, I have really had to downsize my wardrobe. My closet space is 1/4 of what it was in Maine. Purchases I make now are made with longevity and purpose in mind. Totally agree about lipstick. Lancôme is my all time favorite. Thanks for a great video!
Thank you. I get a lot of criticism for spending more on the more expensive pieces that you mentioned. It's quite hurtful, but I will never let my standards drop. To me, it's a matter of style, good taste and always feeling and looking fab. ❤ I have been following your wise words for a while now, and I always find your input informative and wize.
As far as cosmetics go, it is more important to find tones that look good on your skin and wears well than it is to use an "expensive" brand. I have high end and drugstore and sometimes the drugstore looks better than the expensive.
I go to a huge number of "black tie" ..... And no, women don't wear the dresses on a second occasion. However, some rent or have the item tweeted by a tailor. I have sometimes bought in a pale colour and then had it dyed black or navy. I also have an elegant black silk skirt and have the tailor make different tops which totally rings the changes. And when it has done its service, I always try and get shortened for a cocktail dress. When the time has come to pass it on, I donate to a particular charity who have a number of ladies who enjoy cruising and need evening dresses.
Regarding lipstick shades, I'm not sure whether mine look "expensive" or not, given that I always layer at least two, to give myself a custom shade that suits me or what I'm wearing. I do this with both cheaper and more expensive lip products, so I'd be curious to know if anyone could tell how much I spent on my lip "look"! 😅 Happy Easter, Deirdre! ❤
Agree on the lipstick 💄. Prefer the composition and color of the higher ends. Currently have settled on Hermes lipstick. Not only do they tick off the boxes but after the initial investment you can refill the container rather than landfill it. Brilliant IMO.
Bravo, one of your best videos. Everything just so right on point. I fully agree on the garish neon colours no chic ladyshould ever purchase. The only piece of "one occasion" clothing one should have, and pray won't have to be used too often, is an outfit for funerals. As for me, since a black coat doesn't suit me at all, the only one I've been compelled to get was for those occasions. Same for a two-piece black suit for summer funerals. As re. bag dupes, why not turn to less expensive but so talented designers, such as Liu Jo, Blumarine, Torrente, Georges Rech, and above all Ted Baker. His flower-printed bags and designs in general are so stylish that I've had people stop me in the street and asking about them. Same goes for Olivia Burton's delightfully feminine watches.
Just thought I'd mention that it's perfectly acceptable to wear navy blue to a funeral also. Even my clothes appropriate for a funeral (cold weather and warm weather) can be worn at other times. I have no "one occasion" clothing in my wardrobe.
How funny! I've just started to follow your channel and I was thinking about investing more on my lipstick, because I notice on my friends when they use high quality products. I wanted to go there and... Well, you are the confirmation I needed. I've been loving your content. Greetings from Belgium
I am on a fixed income and only wear lipstick when I go out but I have a light but totally Mediterranean complexion so to get something close to my natural color without going too dark just doesn't exist in the cheaper brands. I am going to have to invest in one of the better brands that caters to my skin color. I'm the exact opposite of Dierdre so the color that looks so great on her would be horrible on me.
I totally agree on these points you’ve made. I don’t like the long gaudy acrylic nails and I love the neutral French nails you were wearing. I’m an artist so I use my hands a lot so I like practical nails. I make hand made jewelry, so I believe in balance with that also. I believe more expensive lipstick is better it’s less likely to fade and for us older ladies it’s less like to bleed as well. Very much enjoyed listening to this episode. ❤
Hi Deirdre, great video once again and thank you ❤️I would urge you to try ELF lipsticks….high street brand that are really great quality….£8 ❤️Revolution are another great high street brand that are taking on ‘ the big guns’ I could go on all day long about makeup…where it’s made ….and how the designer brands are ripping us off…..❤️👍🥰
I like your ideas. Long acrylic nails and logo filled clothing and accessories have become almost a cultural thing. Cotton is the most pleasant thing to wear in Houston, Texas when it gets really hot. So many people wear black clothing here, it’s incredible. Like they don’t understand hot black makes you hotter. Also the over wearing of hoodies when it’s not even cold.
I’m sick today so no Easter Festivities, but I found you! Your ideas are perfect! I must say over the years I have noticed that many teachers don’t know how to dress. Maybe that could be a topic- dress well when working with little ones!
I totally agree with you, except for the nails. I do agree with the long and talen-like nails. I love my nails, as my original nails are very thin and brittle. Have gotten lots of compliments on my wardrobe for many years. I'm plus-size, but am tall, so it "wears well"! LOL! So enjoy your stylish videos!!!
I have a funny, sort of, lipstick story. I don't know if they do this in the UK or Continental Europe but in the US, they will put makeup on a corpse for the viewing. My Mom had my olive complexion but darker. People sometimes thought she was a light skinned Indian (Eastern). So when she died, they took her to prepare her and I walked in and I could see her lips glowing from across the room! They had used a bright coral, I think irridescent lipstick. I was furious. This was a woman of mature years, dressed elegantly. I told them to take it off. They didn't want to but I said "if you don't, I will close the coffin and there will be no wake," meaning I wasn't going to pay for a circus. They fixed it.
This video was dynamite! I especially loved the topic of high end lip color. My clothing is neutral, so I love to play with color on my lips. My favorite brand is YSL. It’s so creamy and has gorgeous colors. I also use a liner and a gloss. Love a pretty lip color packaged elegantly. 🎉❤
Hi from America! I brought a wonderful full skirt made of brocade for a wedding in France, my 35 yo daughter doesn’t like it but it makes me feel like a million bucks
The only thing I disagree on is more expensive lipstick. I buy lipsticks that are inexpensive and they look just as good on me as the expensive brands.
Skechers, wellies,elasticated waistbands and leather handbags! Yea! By the time you have had the hair sorted,the eyelashes and eyebrows and manicure there's no cash left for clothes 😊
Loved seeing some of your environment, the trees are so beautiful! Everything you have said here is spot on. I love the artistic side of nail art, to look at for creative but no one should wear them. Long nails have been out for a long time, some just don't want to let go. England has amazing, well tailored clothes. Try shopping in the US! Even designer clothing is polyester. I went to Brahmin hand bags because not a lot of people know about them and they are classic or high color and there is something for everyone.
I was influenced by a fiction novel where the rich female characters bought only Chantecaille makeup…so I ordered a tiny lipstick , blurring powder and concealer. Way overpriced and very average, quality-wise.
So glad I found your channel. I love it! As for the lipstick, an expensive lipstick is a big lift to one's morale for not much outlay. Having said that, some of the heavy matte Revlon lipsticks in traditional colours, eg Revlon Red, Fire and Ice and Cherries in the Snow, are spot on, though inexpensive.
Great video! I agree that long nails, whether real or acrylic, and embellished nails, are so unattractive, no matter one’s age. I disagree a bit regarding color. I feel that pale colored nails wash me out. These days, I prefer a more saturated color on my very short nails, my favorite being a deep blue. It is very denim friendly and I always get compliments on it. The one thing I would never spend money on, in addition to those you mentioned, is “whimsical “ clothing or jewelry. Items like heavily embellished sweaters, those with cutesy designs, etc. I particularly dislike holiday themed earrings (Christmas trees, snowflakes, etc.). I just don’t think it’s a stylish look. Of course, as you say, people should wear what they want. It’s just fashion after all.
Happy Easter Deirdre, I completely agree with everything you have said in this video, particularly the horrible acrylic nails. Also I have made mistakes by wearing shoes which have been too high/uncomfortable and having blisters which wasn’t very pleasant.
Hi ladies and Happy Easter! I hope you're having a lovely day. What do YOU never spend your money on?! Lots of love to you all. Deirdre. XX
High heels!!
Animal prints!
I never spend money on hair coloring in the salon. I have been coloring my hair myself at home. I have saved a LOT of money over the past 30 years and I receive compliments on how nice my hair looks.
Hi dedrie love your video I am only 5 ft in height I only wear heels when going out I am more comfortable in a bit flatter shoe luv watching as always ❤❤❤😅
In addition to the long fingernails, I also struggle with the over the top long fake eyelashes. It detracts from the whole face.
I agree. I sometimes see women with the full set, fake lashes, fake HEAVY tan, over-highlighted hair, brown toned lipstick, & I think, I wonder what she ACTUALLY looks like?
I agree. Too much lip filler, too much makeup, hair dyed too blonde .... None of those things talk classy
Long fake nails and bushy fake eyelashes and lips that are too plumped up all look cheap! Natural defiantly defines class.
I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks acrylic nails look cheap, older ladies with pink, purple etc hair , fake eyelashes and caterpillar brows, not nice at all 🤭
Please don’t tell us what we shouldn’t wear. Some people can make a dustbin bag look stylish and wonderful. Others with the most beautiful clothing still look terrible. We should wear what we want and feel good in. I had my work clothes that boosted my confidence. It was also like wearing body armour.
I have received compliments when wearing something I didn’t like that much. But to be told you shouldn’t wear it after a certain age what!
At 72 maybe l should dress in a shroud at least I’m ready.
😂😂. When speaking of garishly long fingernails and showing pictures of birds claws I was cracking up😂😂.
Yes. Very funny claws. But I wonder how effective personal hygiene is with those talons ? How does one prepare food? I think regular bacteria cultures should be taken under those long nails. 🙄🦅
@@betagirlearth I do (too)! LoL!
Thank you.
there's nothing wrong with buying a makeup "dupe" nobody is looking at my lipstick brand to make sure it's "high end"
Totally agree. Makeup or perfume that is a dupe doesn't bring down your style.
It depends on your skin how a product reveals itself, not the brand or price… I have a total mix of range and no one is interested in the brand, but complements me on the color fit… to my skin AND outfit. That’s style
I have had my nails done since I WAS 22 I AM 72 AND USE VERY LIGHT COLORS,THEY LOOK CLEAN AND WELL KEEP,I WOULD NEVER GET RID OF THEM.
I love how you emphasize that one should wear what they feel confident in.
Absolutely 💯 ! Classy & fashionable women are never garnish or overly trendy. I loved all your tips!
Those big sales like the Nordstrom Anniversary one have mostly inferior merchandise made specifically for the sale. Instead of discounting quality items like silk, cashmere and leather, for example, there will be lots of “designer-like looks” in polyester, acrylic and polyurethane. I rarely look at those sales anymore, there isn’t much to my liking. A lot of my decluttered items came from such sales in the past, often because of a comfort problem with the inferior fabrics and materials.
So true!
I notice many designer items are now polyester. :((
Hi Deidre, i agree on the nail topic, for me shorter nails look more classy and neat
Definitely! I like them short, well-manicured, polish-free and beautifully clean! Those really long, painted and pointed nails gross me out, they are always filthy underneath, the wearer can’t see it🙂
@@kimberlyperrotis8962 no they are not filthy!
Yes, I personally agree about the lipstick. If you choose wisely, quality lipstick will look better and last longer without having to keep reapplying.
He is Risen! Happy resurrection Sunday.
❤ He is indeed
Amen
❤️Chanel lipstick. There is something so magical about this lipstick, the colors, just everything.
This was fun. Long nails with designs and embellishments just scream "cheap" to me. It would work well, however, with the new "Mob Wife" look that's trending now. Not my vibe though. I do have, however, a vintage LV duffle bag that belonged to my grandmother. I use it for weekend trips by car only though.
I know! @@laura24590
I never wear or wore uncomfortable items, because my lifetime is too precious for that. And I agree with everything, dear Deirdre. Happy Easter, dear.
I agree with #2 "Anything you will only wear once". We had 2 son's get married within a short time and I had to buy 2 gowns and everything that goes along with them. What a waste as I will never wear either of them again. Also, the shoes weren't very comfortable so I donated those immediately afterwards.
I agree that nothing looks worse on hands over 60 than long fingernails, painted or unpainted. Short and painted red looks more tasteful and stylish. Queen Elizabeth's Ballet Slippers by Essie was a perfect color.
Yes, Ballet Slippers was classy and subtle.XX
Helen Mirren wears that one, too.
I have long nails. i am 70 . They look good and everyone says they look good.
@@gillmiller3702
I have really strong nails and I wear them fairly long. I love gardening, so polish doesn’t work well except for special occasions. At least a couple of times a week, someone tells me they wish they could grow their nails like mine.
I know anything that hurts - don’t buy or wear! Wise words! Thank you for the reminder!
I’m a bit bohemian at heart and a few of these were hard to swallow. 😂 I’m always fighting to lean into a more conservative look. I was a Flight Attendant and I know how to tone things down and dress in a daily uniform, but it doesn’t come natural to my Gypsy spirit. ❤
Don’t do it. Bohemian is much more interesting.
I've moved from vintage dressing to conservative to boho. I'll wear what I love and that makes me feel good. I had an overseas artist tell me she loves my style. That was confirmation that I need to keep being me. You do you girlfriend!
Deirdre you’ve put together a very useful list. I’ve learned the hard way lol!! The only sale i attack now is M&S and get those super soft crew necks, as many colours as I can. They are fab, so easy to wear. But they don’t last for years. They pill and only last a season of washing before they look pretty poorly. But at £17.50 I’m willing to replace regularly.
Your description of a stylish woman is an exact depiction of my mother. Now 97, demented and bedridden, she still compliments my clothes during her lucid moments. We had soooo much fun over the years, clothes shopping in London. I miss those days.
I completely agree with you re makeup, and definitely agree about the yucky acrylic nails 🌼
Happy Easter everyone! He is RISEN!
XX
AMEN!!!❤❤❤❤❤
He is risen indeed!!
Indeed he has Risen. Amen 🙏
Amen. Just as he said. Blessings to you all at this wonderful time
Deirdre - I totally agree - and btw - I absolutely adore your sense of humor - you cracked me up several times during this video. Thanks for great tips and a good laugh 😄😄🤭👍👍
I do have acrylic nails. I get an almond shape and get lots of compliments. Normally a shade of pink. I don’t get red as it does not suit my older hands (66). My natural nails just don’t grow and are very brittle.
Me too
@@gillmiller3702 thats the purpose they are best used for. I'm glad they work for you
I had impossible nails too but I started taking collagen supplements every day and now they grow well. I'm going on 78 but I allergic to acrylic anything so I can't even polish them.
I absolutely agree with spending money on expensive (to some), makeup. I have used Elizabeth Arden, Lancôme, and some Clinique products since 29 years old. My skin is still radiant, is always clear, and as healthy as I can take care of. 💕
I am almost 59, and I shop at thrift stores. I am super aware of my proportions and know what works. I adore dupes. I am glad that I "stumbled " upon your channel. Love from Marquette MI ❤ Short lady, short hair, short nails. 😅
Luv your comments I bought a lovely dress for my sons wedding and it is good because I can wear it again at a special event luv watching ❤❤❤❤❤ 😊
I’m picky about what I buy, it must be well made, it must be good quality fibres, and it must be able to last a long time because of simpler lines or details. 95% of my closet is secondhand, anything retail must be special. We can sometimes find those better quality pieces at fast fashion retailers, I found a pair of metallic denim at Zara in January, they were on my wish list and will be worn for a very long time.
I shop with a wish/want/need list to keep myself focused.
No sale or bargain piece that you never wear or wear once is worth purchasing; it’s a waste of funds, your precious closet space, and not sustainable. Better to wait find the right piece that you love, fits your style aesthetic, and can be worn over and over.
You are right about the lipstick. I won't wear cheap listick.
P.s totally agree about the lipstick 💄 🌸
Great reminders and suggestions! Why buy when you can rent an expensive dress and avoid buyer's remorse for the next 10 yrs.
Girl , your eye makeup is the bomb. I love it
I agree 💯 percent!
Happy Easter Deirdre! Over the years I've bought a few items that I wore once - the most recent being a dress I bought for my sons wedding. I'm sure I could have found something that I could have reworn. Definitely agree with you about the acrylic nails!! Have a super week!! xx
Well if there is ever an excuse to buy a special dress, it would be for a beloved child's wedding.
I think acrylic nails are disgusting, and very low-class, the wearers can’t see how filthy the undersides always are. Some of them look like, and can probably function as, weapons! Not my idea of femininity. I like natural, clean, short well-manicured nails with no polish, or maybe clear only. That’s the classiest of all.
I didn’t know you were going to say they look like weapons, too🙂
I always wear light nude or French on my nails. I don't know how some women do anything with those long nails. I have a shirt just like the one you have on. It is the best wearing shirt and feels so good. It washes up so well. Thank you for another video full of tips.
I will alter my clothes to get the look I want. And occasionally sew an item to be worn only for a season
I bought a expensive lipstick and it is nice but Revlon was just as good..,
Same here. I have also bought expensive lipsticks, Dior, Mac, Chanel, Clinique, Rubinstein, Arden, Lancome, you name it....... for me it's not worth the money. Same with very expensive cosmetic, and I tried nearly all in the course of my life. I personally love Revlon and L'oreal lipsticks, great colours, good texture and great price.
Expensive cosmetic is so expensive because of the marketing. Test reports are showing often bad ingredients and in particular most of the face creams and serums are totally over-perfumed.
But everyone has to make it's own choice.....so you have to ask yourself, whether it's really worth your hard earned money.
Same with mascara. Many professional makeup artists use Great Lash by Mabeline. I use this and it's inexpensive but looks good.
I’ve been watching your videos and love the clothes and jewellery you wear but I’m 71 and I live on £172 a week so have to wear more inexpensive clothes and jewellery. I’ve recently bought quite a few clothes from M&S but can’t find a nice blue and white striped shirt or white jeans/trousers that I like and which fit nicely. I did however buy a Karen Millen necklace that you wear and that was reasonably priced. 😊
I buy most of my expensive clothes off season, and at least 50 percent off regular price. This way I can buy quality, classic key pieces of clothing that lasts for years. You really don’t need a lot of pieces to look fantastic. 🌹
Try charity shops... they have changed so much. Vrand new shoes are always in there and new clothes with tags. Its a throw away society. Plus all those ' worn once special occasion ' pieces. Happy shopping.
@@annmcevoy5686 I give to those shops all the time 🤗
@@annmcevoy5686 Thank you. I do look in my local charity shops but have never found anything really nice, the best I ever found was a jacket which was an Autograph. I will keep looking. It’s very true about people giving their clothes which have only been worn once, many years ago I gave the outfit I wore to my son’s wedding.
Happy birthday from New Jersey, USA
You are 100% spot on some people just cannot grasp the concept of less is more, I love your videos
Lots of great information. I really agree about the nails
Since moving back to my home state, I have really had to downsize my wardrobe. My closet space is 1/4 of what it was in Maine. Purchases I make now are made with longevity and purpose in mind. Totally agree about lipstick. Lancôme is my all time favorite. Thanks for a great video!
Happy Easter! He is RISEN!
Loved this video and I totally agree!
Happy Resurrection Sunday ❤
@@kaycee625 and to you the same! He is RISEN!!! 🙏🏻✝️
Amen
Thank you Deirdre ❤ you are right about everything😅
Thank you. I get a lot of criticism for spending more on the more expensive pieces that you mentioned. It's quite hurtful, but I will never let my standards drop. To me, it's a matter of style, good taste and always feeling and looking fab. ❤ I have been following your wise words for a while now, and I always find your input informative and wize.
Lots of love to you. XX
I live in New York and just recently had several days of wet and windy conditions 🇺🇸 🗽 You might just be right! 😉
Happy Easter everyone!
And thank you for this great video, Deirdre...!
Happy Easter to you too! XX
@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre thanks!
As far as cosmetics go, it is more important to find tones that look good on your skin and wears well than it is to use an "expensive" brand. I have high end and drugstore and sometimes the drugstore looks better than the expensive.
I go to a huge number of "black tie" ..... And no, women don't wear the dresses on a second occasion. However, some rent or have the item tweeted by a tailor. I have sometimes bought in a pale colour and then had it dyed black or navy. I also have an elegant black silk skirt and have the tailor make different tops which totally rings the changes. And when it has done its service, I always try and get shortened for a cocktail dress. When the time has come to pass it on, I donate to a particular charity who have a number of ladies who enjoy cruising and need evening dresses.
Totally agree about cheap lipstick, and everything else you mentioned as well.
Great video, one thing I’d add is that stylish women also keep personal beliefs personal.
and other women are so joyful in their beliefs they can't help wanting to share their joy with others.😉
And dont shove religion down anyone's throat
I have a short neutral or french manicure or red during Christmas. No fashion colors or talons with designs . Thats fine for young people.
I agree with your comment about expensive lipsticks and cheap ones.
Absolutely spot on . Thank you ❤
Regarding lipstick shades, I'm not sure whether mine look "expensive" or not, given that I always layer at least two, to give myself a custom shade that suits me or what I'm wearing. I do this with both cheaper and more expensive lip products, so I'd be curious to know if anyone could tell how much I spent on my lip "look"! 😅 Happy Easter, Deirdre! ❤
I agree, spend money lipstick 💄 ❤
Agree on the lipstick 💄. Prefer the composition and color of the higher ends. Currently have settled on Hermes lipstick. Not only do they tick off the boxes but after the initial investment you can refill the container rather than landfill it. Brilliant IMO.
Bravo, one of your best videos. Everything just so right on point. I fully agree on the garish neon colours no chic ladyshould ever purchase. The only piece of "one occasion" clothing one should have, and pray won't have to be used too often, is an outfit for funerals. As for me, since a black coat doesn't suit me at all, the only one I've been compelled to get was for those occasions. Same for a two-piece black suit for summer funerals. As re. bag dupes, why not turn to less expensive but so talented designers, such as Liu Jo, Blumarine, Torrente, Georges Rech, and above all Ted Baker. His flower-printed bags and designs in general are so stylish that I've had people stop me in the street and asking about them. Same goes for Olivia Burton's delightfully feminine watches.
Just thought I'd mention that it's perfectly acceptable to wear navy blue to a funeral also. Even my clothes appropriate for a funeral (cold weather and warm weather) can be worn at other times. I have no "one occasion" clothing in my wardrobe.
Thanks, I hadn't thought about that clever solution. Super idea. Isn't it lovely to exchange goood hacks.
I just bought the silk blouse you’re wearing from Lilysilk. I hope I love it on me the way I love it on you!
How funny! I've just started to follow your channel and I was thinking about investing more on my lipstick, because I notice on my friends when they use high quality products. I wanted to go there and... Well, you are the confirmation I needed. I've been loving your content. Greetings from Belgium
I am on a fixed income and only wear lipstick when I go out but I have a light but totally Mediterranean complexion so to get something close to my natural color without going too dark just doesn't exist in the cheaper brands. I am going to have to invest in one of the better brands that caters to my skin color. I'm the exact opposite of Dierdre so the color that looks so great on her would be horrible on me.
I totally agree on these points you’ve made. I don’t like the long gaudy acrylic nails and I love the neutral French nails you were wearing. I’m an artist so I use my hands a lot so I like practical nails. I make hand made jewelry, so I believe in balance with that also. I believe more expensive lipstick is better it’s less likely to fade and for us older ladies it’s less like to bleed as well. Very much enjoyed listening to this episode. ❤
Happy Easter to you and your family. Thanks for the video Deirdre ❤
A very good video, thank you! Lots of good tips to follow.
Hi Deirdre, great video once again and thank you ❤️I would urge you to try ELF lipsticks….high street brand that are really great quality….£8 ❤️Revolution are another great high street brand that are taking on ‘ the big guns’ I could go on all day long about makeup…where it’s made ….and how the designer brands are ripping us off…..❤️👍🥰
Happy Easter! Thank you for your perspective on style for our age group and the fun way you give it.
You're a sartorial sage Deirdre. Thank you.
Yes, we've been having that wind and storms
I love your floral arrangements.
I like your ideas. Long acrylic nails and logo filled clothing and accessories have become almost a cultural thing.
Cotton is the most pleasant thing to wear in Houston, Texas when it gets really hot. So many people wear black clothing here, it’s incredible. Like they don’t understand hot black makes you hotter. Also the over wearing of hoodies when it’s not even cold.
Correction that black makes you hotter.
I’m sick today so no Easter Festivities, but I found you! Your ideas are perfect! I must say over the years I have noticed that many teachers don’t know how to dress. Maybe that could be a topic- dress well when working with little ones!
Thank you so much for finding me, Susan. Much love and get better soon.XX
Deirdre, have you heard of designer Joseph Ribkoff? Very nice styles. My go to.
I totally agree with you, except for the nails. I do agree with the long and talen-like nails. I love my nails, as my original nails are very thin and brittle. Have gotten lots of compliments on my wardrobe for many years. I'm plus-size, but am tall, so it "wears well"! LOL! So enjoy your stylish videos!!!
Love what you suggest. Really understated and stylish.
I have a funny, sort of, lipstick story. I don't know if they do this in the UK or Continental Europe but in the US, they will put makeup on a corpse for the viewing. My Mom had my olive complexion but darker. People sometimes thought she was a light skinned Indian (Eastern). So when she died, they took her to prepare her and I walked in and I could see her lips glowing from across the room! They had used a bright coral, I think irridescent lipstick. I was furious. This was a woman of mature years, dressed elegantly. I told them to take it off. They didn't want to but I said "if you don't, I will close the coffin and there will be no wake," meaning I wasn't going to pay for a circus. They fixed it.
I agree with avoiding dupes. Someone spent the time, money and intellectual capital to create something new and that should be respected.
Gel nail polish.
This video was dynamite! I especially loved the topic of high end lip color. My clothing is neutral, so I love to play with color on my lips. My favorite brand is YSL. It’s so creamy and has gorgeous colors. I also use a liner and a gloss. Love a pretty lip color packaged elegantly. 🎉❤
I love watching your videos - can you do one on eyelashashes and make up-
Loved every one of your tips!! Nice job!
Why would anybody spend hundreds of pounds on a pair of red soled shoes (mentioning no names!) that look so cheap and nasty?!!
I just discovered the surprising combination of red with light purple, lila ❤️💜😅
I totally agree with each item mentioned. Thank you for the great work!❤
Hi from America! I brought a wonderful full skirt made of brocade for a wedding in France, my 35 yo daughter doesn’t like it but it makes me feel like a million bucks
I have to agree with you concerning expensive lipstick it is well worth the extra money.
The only thing I disagree on is more expensive lipstick. I buy lipsticks that are inexpensive and they look just as good on me as the expensive brands.
This is so true! If some take offence then maybe those are the ones that need to take your advice instead 😊
I buy some things on sale like white wide leg denim jeans and handbags like coach or tory burch 😊
Happy Easter! Enjoyed the video!❤
Skechers, wellies,elasticated waistbands and leather handbags! Yea! By the time you have had the hair sorted,the eyelashes and eyebrows and manicure there's no cash left for clothes 😊
Exactly how I feel too. Bravo Diedre
I learn english with you too!!!!!
Thank you!!!
From Belgrade,Serbia.
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Oh wow! You’ve found my other channel too! Los of love xx
@@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre No.I listen you here! 😂❤️
Loved seeing some of your environment, the trees are so beautiful! Everything you have said here is spot on. I love the artistic side of nail art, to look at for creative but no one should wear them. Long nails have been out for a long time, some just don't want to let go. England has amazing, well tailored clothes. Try shopping in the US! Even designer clothing is polyester. I went to Brahmin hand bags because not a lot of people know about them and they are classic or high color and there is something for everyone.
What quality materials do you suggest? Especially for traveling.
Thank u Deidre happy easter
Brava, and nothing you said should be up for debate. Sensible real advice.
I was influenced by a fiction novel where the rich female characters bought only Chantecaille makeup…so I ordered a tiny lipstick , blurring powder and concealer. Way overpriced and very average, quality-wise.
Interesting. Who knew?
I've only just discovered your channel.... You're lovely!.... I have subscribed 🇬🇧♥️🇬🇧
A big welcome. xx
So glad I found your channel. I love it! As for the lipstick, an expensive lipstick is a big lift to one's morale for not much outlay. Having said that, some of the heavy matte Revlon lipsticks in traditional colours, eg Revlon Red, Fire and Ice and Cherries in the Snow, are spot on, though inexpensive.
I so agree! I wear Revlon's Fire and Ice quite often. XX
Great video! I agree that long nails, whether real or acrylic, and embellished nails, are so unattractive, no matter one’s age. I disagree a bit regarding color. I feel that pale colored nails wash me out. These days, I prefer a more saturated color on my very short nails, my favorite being a deep blue. It is very denim friendly and I always get compliments on it. The one thing I would never spend money on, in addition to those you mentioned, is “whimsical “ clothing or jewelry. Items like heavily embellished sweaters, those with cutesy designs, etc. I particularly dislike holiday themed earrings (Christmas trees, snowflakes, etc.). I just don’t think it’s a stylish look. Of course, as you say, people should wear what they want. It’s just fashion after all.
Happy Easter Deirdre, I completely agree with everything you have said in this video, particularly the horrible acrylic nails. Also I have made mistakes by wearing shoes which have been too high/uncomfortable and having blisters which wasn’t very pleasant.
I would add no patterns, stripes. I like a softer look, without distractions. Prefer to accessorize with nice jewelry.