This is my story. I met my now husband 17 years ago. Very wrong time. I knew back then we were meant to be but we both had to grow and heal. We broke up and spent many years apart. We got back together 6 years ago and the issues we had were no longer issues. Such a blessing! ❤️
Your testimony gives me hope because it’s my situation as well God is leading me through. She and I met when we were 18 in college and wanted to be together but it just wasn’t the right time yet soon to 9 years since we last spoke with such deep sorrow in our heart splitting up and 10 years this October since we first met.
@@christinalewis2354We lost all contact as both of us don’t believe in or use social media. Recently I reached out to her with a hand written letter telling her how I remember the day we first met, some of the good times and memories we enjoyed the most, and how she shouldn’t blame herself or regret what happened that led us to split apart. I also apologized to her for not making things more clear because I had no experience at the time and not being more expressive of my feelings for her. She wrote back to me to apprehensive expressing concern over our different situations right now and distance not expecting it, but agreed to rekindle things where we left off and work things out so we end up together for good this time. She did tell me she tried to move on but couldn’t find anyone else similar to me with the character qualities and values she wanted.
It’s so confusing because this happened to me when there was a connection between me and this guy and everytime I would kind of swear off on him, he would pop up in front of me. And idk it’s just ridiculous. Many signs point to him. I have faith in God and I know he’s working.
This happened to me.. and now we’ve grown and matured. We went through stuff individually that made us wiser and now we are together after three years of no contact. We also were not waiting for each other it just happened.
If he is not ready, that means there's still work on your end to be done...I've being longing for a relationship with this guy and everytime i thought we are there, things take a different turn. Few days back i makeup my mind to take a step back and work on me....seeing this video and all you've said, its clear that God is tell me to LET GO AND LET HIM. Thank you GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 🙏
@@poojamenon1815 Two ways I know...1, things fall apart with every single guy that's tried to talk to me & 2, yes, I've prayed about it alot & every time I wanna walk away bcuz I'm tired of waiting, I get a strong "NO, don't give up him" from God...and I mean every👏🏾single👏🏾time👏🏾
@@ladydriskhow do I hear God? I pray a lot and I still don’t hear him, I’ve been praying if this boy is right person wrong time but I’m still unsure or what God wants for me
Same here. I am still in the waiting season and it's been 2 years, am 44. Never felt with anyone before that they were the one for me, but this one is a total different feeling and comfortability, respect, faith in God, morals, etc. I prayed and fasted and seen a vision of us getting married.
I just met the man of my dreams, but he was divorced in October and he’s on an emotional rollercoaster dealing with custody and drama issues from his ex. He really likes me but it’s just all too much for him. It’s a nightmare for me because he’s literally perfect 💞🙏🏽
Confirmation!!! My current situation past couple years. I knew it was wrong time but didn’t want to accept it. Finally have, and if he’s meant for me Divine timing will be in our favor…. Til then I’ll continue healing.❤
Stephan! Yes, yes and yes. Connection is so real that it is almost unbelievable, felt like I must be trippin. But to go from talking/praying to God to watching the blessing unfold before my eyes is amazing BUT the kicker is God said WAIT....
You are right’ God sent my husband six months before my mother had found she had cancer. He was there with me going through my mother sickness. We had already planned our wedding in October of that same year. My mother passed in that August. He was still there for me. When my siblings wasn’t there for me. We did get married anyway. Now it been 37 years still together.
No offense but THIS is your BEST video I’ve ever heard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Woooowww!!!!!! Soo timely and accurate!!!!!!! Every point was delivered with such wisdom and insight and revelation and confirmation I’m just in awe!!! You did this Stephan!!!! Bless you!!!
This analogy and process is soo true. I met the one and decided to drive the car. I crashed it, long story short we broke up and we are going through the aftermath which God wants to avoid to be begin with. Now I pray to God to correct the damage and to bring healing. We both needed work and healing before we crossed paths. Now we must part now and both need to do the work. Word of the wise God knows best do it his way ❤
As it pertains to my single self, something that I have internalized is a “ you want this, but are you THAT” mentality. As a woman who is GENUINELY doing the self work, I appreciate your content.
*Long story* In 2018 I crossed paths with a man in a gym parking lot. We both felt an intense connection; our eyes were glued to each other’s and we almost couldn’t look away. As he started to approach me I panicked and sped walked to my car, started the ignition and was about to pull out. Little did I know he was following me. He stood at my windshield basically begging me not to go with his eyes. I don’t even know how long we looked at each other. I ended up backing out with a sorrowful expression. While I drove away i saw him perfectly in my rear view. He looked so destroyed like he just lost the love of his life. (I’ve never had anyone, let alone a stranger be that vulnerable with me; especially in public for everyone to see) I’ve always known men to struggle showing their emotions towards me. I went on with the rest of my day not really thinking much of it. The next day I went back to the gym at the same exact time thinking “maybe I’ll run into him” but honestly I wasn’t really hopeful or serious. I was completely oblivious to the connection we had. It’s like I had blinders on. Looking back I know he felt so much. I could literally see the revelation on his face when he realized I was the one. Fast forward to 2020. I had not thought about him AT ALL since that day in 2018. The pandemic just started and I was home a lot more than usual. I was just sitting on the couch watching tv when all of a sudden, like a ton of bricks, I started thinking of that day I left him in the parking lot. It’s almost like someone smacked me in the face with the thought. I just kept saying what have I done? I was so distraught. EVERYDAY since then I have replayed the encounter in my mind. Remembering every detail; mind you my memory is garbage. I’ve always wondered if I am just obsessive or if that was my revelation from God that he is my husband. I still pray that I can find that connection again, and that he is praying just as hard for me. I know now that I was so young and immature back then, and I definitely wasn’t ready for such a serious and intense connection. I just hope I can be ready next time, and open to accepting him. I really think God showed me the right person at the wrong time to show me that he exists. Honestly, if he didn’t show me what he has for me I would still be with the man who treated me bad, and didn’t reciprocate my feelings. I was frustrated at first but now I am thankful that I didn’t settle, bc my dream man is out there waiting for me. Until then, I am enjoying my single season and preparing myself to be a wife. I don’t even date anymore and even when I did I knew immediately they were not the one for me. I just pray he is also tying up loose ends, ending meaningless relationships and working on himself. I have faith that we will meet again❤️
Everything you said was on point! I was not motivated to improve myself until after the relationship didn't work out. From the very beginning, I knew that I had that guy at the wrong time. It wasn't until I stopped praying for God to make it work, and started asking Him to show me how to make it work, that I finally started to grow. Through the disappointment that came with my mistake of jumping in too fast, God grew and humbled me. I am a better woman who is more prepared for the relationship God has for me. God Bless you, Stephan!
I also feel the same way. The guy I'm with is everything I've asked for since my early 20s. I think I'd rather not know he exists then find him but can't keep him due to circumstances. This man bout to have me laid out on my face before the lord. Bc I need specific answers.
I promise he’s right above! I had to heal from being broken. I got to spend 7 years completely alone growing spiritually again with God as a believer of Jesus. In church was this guy and he is younger than me. God kept leaning on my heart to ask him over as a friend. We developed a friendship and in that time God really worked on me! I learned to love again and believe in marriage and that there were really good guys still out there. He is military and left and met a girl in Christian mingle and they are dating! However, I’m not sad. The growth and peace I experienced and learning to love again was super worth it! If it turns out later that this guy is supposed to be in my life still then God will make it happen. We were still talking and his new GF was still okay with that since it was just friends. However something has happened and he just cut me off but again; I still have peace! Maybe God is over there working on him now?!?! It’s best to WAIT on God! Just have faith and patience! ❤
This really spoke to me what I experienced and where I am in life right now. I met a really good man but he got away because I rushed things and I didn’t take the proper steps. I was initially upset and sad but God helped me realize that there are things I need to do on my part and make corrections. I really was thinking there was nothing more I need to work on. I was in denial. I wanted to prove that I can make it work. It taught me that there are so many past hurting im still holding onto that I need to work through. But God did show me a blessing and I want to pray for the guy that ended terribly with me.
Often thought that, but now I think it was the right time. God is always on time for His own purposes that might not make sense at the time, maybe just trust God and let it unfold as it is intended by Him following His directions as best understood thru prayer that helps calm the confusion. Thank you, Stephan for your valuable opinions that improving oneself is valuable regardless of the time spent waiting without knowing when or if or why.
Growth will continue throughout your life, something I've learned in my 68 years young. So glad your speaking to young women and men to hopefully help them navigate their journey thru life.
This comes just in time. My fiancé and I just parted ways and i kept asking myself what have I done and why it didn’t work, what more can I ask for from this man ? The last point hits me hard. We had a very bad break up and I want him back so bad, but now I know there’s something I need to work on. So does he. Maybe we will be together again if that’s gods plan. Still feeling sad and vulnerable but I will pray.
This was so for me. Like so timely.. bc ive been asking and asking. Im definitely going to pray even harder now. When i tell you this is what *I* needed to hear. I needed this. Im gonna let God guide me. I feel ive met thr love of my life but we have obstacles like distance thats hard but im going to pray.
Eh things didn't age well.. I told him happy vday. He didn't say it back and didn't really speak throughout the day :/ went the day without talking to me.. so I feel I have my answer. I'm definitely heart broken. Idk why God allowed this tihs
God doesn't consider us as stray dogs, when God sends us a blessing he does it with care, consideration, and love. Growth happens with age and experiences and not all at once. One can't learn without experience. God cleans one for the endurance of his purpose not for the perfection of man or woman. If one doesn't accept the value that God has placed into one yet always complain about the flaws that they see as compromising the true walk then their faith is just for their desire and not for the work because faith without work is dead. A stray dog is one who will eat its own vomit because of the lack of understanding, experience and faith in God. God doesn't stop moving because one wants perfection. One man's trash is another man's treasure. Instead of trying to fix someone's flaws embrace your own. Even great marriages have flaws but the covenant God placed them under stands stronger than the selfishness for pleasures. Understanding that grief comes in all different states. One has to know that God makes no mistakes. Don't judge a drunk man because he's drunk because he could be your blessing. God states I come to my children in the form of spirit and not flesh so be careful who you judge and discredit. The idea of choosing who we love is overrated it's an illusion, because the spirit of God chooses those for you to be loved by and for you to love. Some love from the temptation of flesh but true love is bound by the spirit and soul.If you are really guided by God.
Damn, this video resonates with me and strikes me in my core, I know its geared towards women but I found a lot of useful information. I wasn't done learning and healing from my traumas that were preventing me from opening up and being emotionally naked as you said and she took off after coming back together just a few months of getting back together. I have been struggling these last couple of days, ups and downs that come with healing but I no longer run from my emotions so that I can fully heal and get my one true person back, but until then, my healing and spending time with her kids that I've grown to love so much from the beginning. Thank you for helping calm my mind in this moment of struggle
I completely agree! And, believe it or not, I was thinking just today on how much I am grateful to have been through some "painful" circumstances that helped me starting my spiritual growth and led me to where I am now. 🙏 Thank you for sharing
This message is amazing and I agree 💯 despite it’s a lot to swallow. God has been speaking these things to me for some time now and I am thankful for this confirmation. I know that my future marriage is for God’s purpose. That my husband and I will be used by God in a powerful way and with that we must both be ready! Not just for the assignment but for the attack of the enemy. My biggest issue right now is discerning is this the right man at the wrong time or is he the wrong man? Everything in my spirit feels he is the right man but there are unseen barriers between that frankly don’t even make sense from our worldly understanding that are keeping us far enough apart to not be in a committed relationship. It’s confusing and I know God is not the author or confusion and that is why I am unsure if he is the right man and it’s just the wrong time. And just as you were mentioning this your video cut off😢
This is so true I met my soulmate back in February 2020 we hit if off but he was to inconsistent so we disconnected. Now granted he texted from time to time long story short a year later his then fiancé texted me I don’t know why because I hadn’t talked to him in over a year. Anywho they didn’t work out she threw Urine on him now her azz was crazy but maybe he needed to go through that because when we reconnected 2 years later he was a changed man. He said he was and he also showed me we have been back together since September 2023 officially because initially he contacted me in July 2023 but I ignored him then.
If this isn’t a word FOR ME directly from GOD… I don’t know what is😱 This spoke to me in ways beyond my imagination! Just when I needed it. Thanks for sharing this It really blessed me today.👏🏾
This video couldn't come at an even better time!! Like it sounds so good to hear my words come out of somebody else's mouth. I hope my future person sees this video and understands this video before coming to me.
Interesting interesting video! May we all embrace and understand the power of a true connection with the person God has for us…. there’s no deeper and scarier feeling than that.🙏🏾
I agree 💯 Gods timing is best! Thank you for taking the time to help us with genuine advice & counsel. Your words are appreciated 🙏🏼 I have all your books. You should have a meet & greet/book session one day (West Palm Beach/Fort Lauderdale) Pray about it 😉
Really good. I lived through this. In fact, I absolutely went against God's word. It was a disaster. I can honestly say I have had to take a deep look at myself, where faith no longer existed. I lost trust & hope. Crazy part Papa brought me right back to where ai was and deepened my faith. Taught me the importance of submission.
Its so confusing!!!! Seeing all these doves cardinals blue jays... Peace when im around him. Nothing else evsn exists!!! ❤ Emotions all over the place....
Absolute confirmation. I know I met who God has for me but I am still working on me. I’m healed but still working on whole. I have to put the love in me so I can give it to him the way that he needs
This is what I'm going through. It's a beautiful experience though, with God by our sides. what's for us will always be. Even if that's a different Man for me and a different Woman for him. ♥️
Thankyou so much Stephen 🙏💗 this video is so timely for me. I’ve been saying to myself I know it’s me that still has work to do it’s not just him (my person) I prayed whilst listening. I appreciate you 🙏
@@sixteen.candles.4644 it could mean “wait”. Ask critical questions check yourself. Never enter a marriage without knowing yourself as a person and having where you are heading to. And have a purpose as a couple together. Don’t just marry because it’s the next thing to do.
@@sixteen.candles.4644 It may mean "Wait". Clarify why He is silent. What could you not be paying attention to? Ask critical questions. Is this person relevant to your purpose in life? Do not go into marriage because it is the next "right thing" to do. Go into it purposefully and with God's leading. Also, know who you are as a person first. Be happy with you. It is NOT your spouse's responsibility to make you happy, it is yours! Know what your purpose in life is. Best wishes!
Fantastic Sunday sermon Stephan thank you Presently am obliged to let go and let God Right man Wrong time let me hope its a dream This is to braintaxing for me I,ll be patient 😂
I'm so in love with a man, the extent to which he understands me is crazy. Definitely not a good time to have met him, but I'm so much older than him, so I guess this is the only time I can meet him. But I'm giving up now since I really don't have the courage to continue. Although he's only 27, he is very disciplined, career oriented, humble, knowledgeable, quirky but intelligent and polite. I sometimes don't get why this happens, I mean if someone is not gonna be my husband, but can know me so well. It's kind of sad though. I'm 43 and I think being single is ok. But he really just completely turned my life around for the better. I was always kind of a bit flirty but he truly toned me down. I never know I could be so patient, and I never yelled at him once. Maybe that's all there is to it, to serve God's purpose.
This makes good sense. GOD is good,I am learning to become whole once again with my blessing passed 3.5 yrs ago ot,hurt,grief, loss,finding me and who I am without him,been a rough road,but I live my life with all the love he left behind with me.one day at a time. I love you GOD...
I am going through this now. I am only 19. I have a lot insecurities that I brought into our relationship and I let that get in between us. I self sabotaged it because I rushed something I knew I was not ready for. Now we are taking this time be apart so we can correct the things that hurt us, so if there a chance of us getting back together we can do it right the next go round.
I surrendered to God after she told me, she wasnt ready. Even tho we had such a strong connection. Unfortunately, she sabotaged it, me being the first one that has ever tried her right..
My own situation might be wrong guy at the right time lol. He’s actually a pretty great guy but there are a few things we’re just not compatible on. But I think God sent him to me to indeed let me know that it is possible for someone to love me the way I want to be loved, to see me and understand me the way I want to be seen and understood.
While I was with my ex somehow every guy I was interested in prior was pursuing me including 1 guy that I noticed professionally but never considered. After we broke up, only this 1 guy persisted. He seems to be a great guy however we keep missing connection mostly due to me not being ready in terms of having healed or even having faith in taking another risk… I can only hope that when I’m ready he or the guy I’m meant for if not him… keeps checking in and following through…
I enjoy your videos and I started listening to you during my wilderness season and I can say that I feel like I am making less mistakes in this love thing. Also I think I may have met the right man at the wrong time and I advised him to seek God after spending some time together with him and realising that there's work to do before anything goes further.
God does what He does for His purposes and Glory; it's our own filter that gives the differences of perspective, unless we are fully aligned and submitted to His Word and Will. A person can wait so long, that when that significant other finally shows up, you forget why you wanted them😂 There is 100% truth S in you saying the moment we think we have it all together we lose that relational growth in Christ, because no one will be perfected until we reach Heaven. Besides that, the "wait" is different when you know Who is in control of it all 😉💘 I can tell you really liked this topic S; It shows when you make yourself laugh~ "iron sharpens iron". We should always be open to encouraging and challenging one another to become better (more like Christ)❤ This was a very interesting segment.
I said I Do 3 times knowing that I didn’t. I grew up in the middle of a family of 14, where I was indoctrinated to believe getting married meant forever. At 18 it seemed plausible. At 27 with 4 kids it felt more like Hell than Heaven. All 3 marriages ended, but the lessons and experiences were priceless. I’ve learned that I can do anything temporarily but nothing forever because that’s a fairy tale or settling. Something good came from all of my relationships but I find that I feel less lonely alone.
I was ready, she was not. She then rearranged her circumstances (but still didn't know what love was) and tried to connect, but I realized that even though I loved her, it wasn't in her to love me.
it was deep inner thoughts. he kept sending me pple and that perhaps i already knew but i wasnt moving forward with what i actually wanted in life and it kept happening until one day i totally got the msg now i am perplexed on how to actally tackle this cos its not gonna be easy. i tried making it work but it was not soulfully serving me as a person but we have a child
This goes back to dream where my mom told me that me and husband had to separate in order to heal then after healing we will get back together it’s been a year, I’ve been into an extreme transformation and I feel it now in my heart that now it’s time for me and him to rekindled
When you first started, I thought I would unsubscribe and turn off my notifications for the second time! But I listened to you but I think my narc was still the wrong one for way too many reasons and as dangerous as I thought. I know God had nothing to do with it bc he sent 3 people to warn me! God can turn any situation to good I did learn a lot & I’m making my relationship with God a lot better and focusing the things God wants me to do. I don’t have to worry about that huge distraction and sadness! Ok 👌 I made it through the whole clip 😢👊🏽
Maybe some of us don't realize God is trying to teach us patience for the right one after pain. Keeping God priority gives me peace for whenever he will send me. (MY Future Husband). ❤❤Ty Ss Love this podcast.
This video is interesting. This week I had a dream about my current ex. I wasn't sure what to make of it; if it is was a message from the Lord or the inner workings of my subconscious. In the dream, my ex said something akin to let's try again but lets take it slow. And now this video comes along and I'm wondering if this is a confirmation of the dream I had. There are no such things as coincidence so I will proceed with optimism and hope while working on me.
I am the one in the it takes the keys too soon and crashes the car every time. I’m also the one that begs God make that relationship work and it’s always superficial as you said. I’m attempting to manipulate I heavenly.
This has just happened to me. I have liked this guy since I was 13. He has liked me for many years too. Due to different paths we took we never got together. Universities, jobs, relationships etc - timing never right. I am going through a divorce and one afternoon when out I bumped him to him after 6 years. The attraction was still there. Both now single. He asked me out for a drink. In hindsight it still wasn’t the right time for me as my I’m going through toxic divorce but I couldn’t say no to this guy. How could I. I’ve fancied him forever! So i took the car out for a test drive (love the analogy!) and yep - we’ve crashed 😂😢. A few teething hiccups and misunderstandings. Now he’s gone. Dated for 7 months. I’m gutted. So yep the right guy for me but I’ve learnt the hard way - the wrong time. I can’t see him getting in contact now ..
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This is my story. I met my now husband 17 years ago. Very wrong time. I knew back then we were meant to be but we both had to grow and heal. We broke up and spent many years apart. We got back together 6 years ago and the issues we had were no longer issues. Such a blessing! ❤️
That's beautiful.
Your testimony gives me hope because it’s my situation as well God is leading me through. She and I met when we were 18 in college and wanted to be together but it just wasn’t the right time yet soon to 9 years since we last spoke with such deep sorrow in our heart splitting up and 10 years this October since we first met.
@@Justyouraverageguy172no contact at all? Not even social media?
@@christinalewis2354We lost all contact as both of us don’t believe in or use social media. Recently I reached out to her with a hand written letter telling her how I remember the day we first met, some of the good times and memories we enjoyed the most, and how she shouldn’t blame herself or regret what happened that led us to split apart. I also apologized to her for not making things more clear because I had no experience at the time and not being more expressive of my feelings for her.
She wrote back to me to apprehensive expressing concern over our different situations right now and distance not expecting it, but agreed to rekindle things where we left off and work things out so we end up together for good this time. She did tell me she tried to move on but couldn’t find anyone else similar to me with the character qualities and values she wanted.
Awesome ❤
😭🥺 that first reason really hit me . “He saw you getting discouraged and wanted to show you that it does exist”
It’s so confusing because this happened to me when there was a connection between me and this guy and everytime I would kind of swear off on him, he would pop up in front of me. And idk it’s just ridiculous. Many signs point to him. I have faith in God and I know he’s working.
Me too! I balled up 😢
Right!!!! Crazy n confusing!!!! U see all the signs but yet it's so surreal!!!
This came exactly when I needed this
This happened to me.. and now we’ve grown and matured. We went through stuff individually that made us wiser and now we are together after three years of no contact. We also were not waiting for each other it just happened.
Love this. Congratulations ❤
Beautiful. I hope this happens for me.
That’s beautiful!
Beautiful 💖
I only saw my parents argue twice in my life. They had a very supportive and loving relationship. Good for them.
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
❤❤ A beautiful love story ❤❤
If he is not ready, that means there's still work on your end to be done...I've being longing for a relationship with this guy and everytime i thought we are there, things take a different turn. Few days back i makeup my mind to take a step back and work on me....seeing this video and all you've said, its clear that God is tell me to LET GO AND LET HIM.
Thank you GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 🙏
This is exactly my story! I just had to let go and let God!
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through ❤🙏🏼
I have a similar story; I know he's the One, but it's not the right time & it's frustrating.
@@ladydriskOut of curiosity, how do you know he is the one? Did you hear that from God? I am struggling with this a bit.
@@poojamenon1815 Two ways I know...1, things fall apart with every single guy that's tried to talk to me & 2, yes, I've prayed about it alot & every time I wanna walk away bcuz I'm tired of waiting, I get a strong "NO, don't give up him" from God...and I mean every👏🏾single👏🏾time👏🏾
@@ladydriskhow do I hear God? I pray a lot and I still don’t hear him, I’ve been praying if this boy is right person wrong time but I’m still unsure or what God wants for me
GOD told me to wait and I am still waiting.
❤ 🙂 thank you for sharing. I appreciate that🙏🏼
Just keep waiting, especially if God said to wait.
I’m in the same boat!
Same here. I am still in the waiting season and it's been 2 years, am 44. Never felt with anyone before that they were the one for me, but this one is a total different feeling and comfortability, respect, faith in God, morals, etc. I prayed and fasted and seen a vision of us getting married.
@@crystaldawn6963 amen
Wait on the Lord
Be Strong and Have Heart
Wait on the Lord
Psalm 27:14
I understand the assignment Stephan 👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I just met the man of my dreams, but he was divorced in October and he’s on an emotional rollercoaster dealing with custody and drama issues from his ex. He really likes me but it’s just all too much for him. It’s a nightmare for me because he’s literally perfect 💞🙏🏽
Confirmation!!! My current situation past couple years. I knew it was wrong time but didn’t want to accept it. Finally have, and if he’s meant for me Divine timing will be in our favor…. Til then I’ll continue healing.❤
Keep praying, and God will guide us. ❤
Most definitely!
Stephan! Yes, yes and yes. Connection is so real that it is almost unbelievable, felt like I must be trippin. But to go from talking/praying to God to watching the blessing unfold before my eyes is amazing BUT the kicker is God said WAIT....
Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼
YES. Why God lol
IM ON THIS BOAT
Please wait are it will wait
Atleast he told you to wait.. I'm getting nothing.
You are right’ God sent my husband six months before my mother had found she had cancer. He was there with me going through my mother sickness. We had already planned our wedding in October of that same year. My mother passed in that August. He was still there for me. When my siblings wasn’t there for me. We did get married anyway. Now it been 37 years still together.
Beautiful.
❤❤ Beautiful ❤❤
No offense but THIS is your BEST video I’ve ever heard!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Woooowww!!!!!! Soo timely and accurate!!!!!!! Every point was delivered with such wisdom and insight and revelation and confirmation I’m just in awe!!! You did this Stephan!!!! Bless you!!!
❤ 🙏🏼 thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
I agree it’s top notch for me as well!
God did this
This analogy and process is soo true. I met the one and decided to drive the car. I crashed it, long story short we broke up and we are going through the aftermath which God wants to avoid to be begin with. Now I pray to God to correct the damage and to bring healing. We both needed work and healing before we crossed paths. Now we must part now and both need to do the work. Word of the wise God knows best do it his way ❤
As it pertains to my single self, something that I have internalized is a “ you want this, but are you THAT” mentality. As a woman who is GENUINELY doing the self work, I appreciate your content.
The fact that you reposted this today…I hear You, Lord, thank you 🙏🏽
My pleasure ❤️
This is really an eye-opener. ❤
*Long story* In 2018 I crossed paths with a man in a gym parking lot. We both felt an intense connection; our eyes were glued to each other’s and we almost couldn’t look away. As he started to approach me I panicked and sped walked to my car, started the ignition and was about to pull out. Little did I know he was following me. He stood at my windshield basically begging me not to go with his eyes. I don’t even know how long we looked at each other. I ended up backing out with a sorrowful expression. While I drove away i saw him perfectly in my rear view. He looked so destroyed like he just lost the love of his life. (I’ve never had anyone, let alone a stranger be that vulnerable with me; especially in public for everyone to see) I’ve always known men to struggle showing their emotions towards me. I went on with the rest of my day not really thinking much of it. The next day I went back to the gym at the same exact time thinking “maybe I’ll run into him” but honestly I wasn’t really hopeful or serious. I was completely oblivious to the connection we had. It’s like I had blinders on. Looking back I know he felt so much. I could literally see the revelation on his face when he realized I was the one. Fast forward to 2020. I had not thought about him AT ALL since that day in 2018. The pandemic just started and I was home a lot more than usual. I was just sitting on the couch watching tv when all of a sudden, like a ton of bricks, I started thinking of that day I left him in the parking lot. It’s almost like someone smacked me in the face with the thought. I just kept saying what have I done? I was so distraught. EVERYDAY since then I have replayed the encounter in my mind. Remembering every detail; mind you my memory is garbage. I’ve always wondered if I am just obsessive or if that was my revelation from God that he is my husband. I still pray that I can find that connection again, and that he is praying just as hard for me. I know now that I was so young and immature back then, and I definitely wasn’t ready for such a serious and intense connection. I just hope I can be ready next time, and open to accepting him. I really think God showed me the right person at the wrong time to show me that he exists. Honestly, if he didn’t show me what he has for me I would still be with the man who treated me bad, and didn’t reciprocate my feelings. I was frustrated at first but now I am thankful that I didn’t settle, bc my dream man is out there waiting for me. Until then, I am enjoying my single season and preparing myself to be a wife. I don’t even date anymore and even when I did I knew immediately they were not the one for me. I just pray he is also tying up loose ends, ending meaningless relationships and working on himself. I have faith that we will meet again❤️
any luck?
Everything you said was on point! I was not motivated to improve myself until after the relationship didn't work out. From the very beginning, I knew that I had that guy at the wrong time. It wasn't until I stopped praying for God to make it work, and started asking Him to show me how to make it work, that I finally started to grow. Through the disappointment that came with my mistake of jumping in too fast, God grew and humbled me. I am a better woman who is more prepared for the relationship God has for me. God Bless you, Stephan!
Sending me the right guy at the wrong time would be even more cruel than making me wait 21 years and counting to remarry and find love agsin.😔
Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏🏼
I also feel the same way. The guy I'm with is everything I've asked for since my early 20s. I think I'd rather not know he exists then find him but can't keep him due to circumstances. This man bout to have me laid out on my face before the lord. Bc I need specific answers.
Thank you... it's almost like someone giving you a backhanded compliment. Come God, do that to us..lol
I promise he’s right above! I had to heal from being broken. I got to spend 7 years completely alone growing spiritually again with God as a believer of Jesus. In church was this guy and he is younger than me. God kept leaning on my heart to ask him over as a friend. We developed a friendship and in that time God really worked on me! I learned to love again and believe in marriage and that there were really good guys still out there. He is military and left and met a girl in Christian mingle and they are dating! However, I’m not sad. The growth and peace I experienced and learning to love again was super worth it! If it turns out later that this guy is supposed to be in my life still then God will make it happen. We were still talking and his new GF was still okay with that since it was just friends. However something has happened and he just cut me off but again; I still have peace! Maybe God is over there working on him now?!?! It’s best to WAIT on God! Just have faith and patience! ❤
Same place....hold on . I am trying to hold on my self, extremely cruel though...
This really spoke to me what I experienced and where I am in life right now. I met a really good man but he got away because I rushed things and I didn’t take the proper steps. I was initially upset and sad but God helped me realize that there are things I need to do on my part and make corrections. I really was thinking there was nothing more I need to work on. I was in denial. I wanted to prove that I can make it work. It taught me that there are so many past hurting im still holding onto that I need to work through. But God did show me a blessing and I want to pray for the guy that ended terribly with me.
Often thought that, but now I think it was the right time. God is always on time for His own purposes that might not make sense at the time, maybe just trust God and let it unfold as it is intended by Him following His directions as best understood thru prayer that helps calm the confusion. Thank you, Stephan for your valuable opinions that improving oneself is valuable regardless of the time spent waiting without knowing when or if or why.
Btw - shopping for THE dress is fun.
Growth will continue throughout your life, something I've learned in my 68 years young. So glad your speaking to young women and men to hopefully help them navigate their journey thru life.
This comes just in time. My fiancé and I just parted ways and i kept asking myself what have I done and why it didn’t work, what more can I ask for from this man ? The last point hits me hard. We had a very bad break up and I want him back so bad, but now I know there’s something I need to work on. So does he. Maybe we will be together again if that’s gods plan. Still feeling sad and vulnerable but I will pray.
This was so for me. Like so timely.. bc ive been asking and asking. Im definitely going to pray even harder now. When i tell you this is what *I* needed to hear. I needed this. Im gonna let God guide me. I feel ive met thr love of my life but we have obstacles like distance thats hard but im going to pray.
Eh things didn't age well.. I told him happy vday. He didn't say it back and didn't really speak throughout the day :/ went the day without talking to me.. so I feel I have my answer. I'm definitely heart broken. Idk why God allowed this tihs
Love the "Ask" how to make this work/Happen!! The piece of the puzzle of Prayer & Manifestation I've been missing...❣️👍
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏🏼
Omg! I really love how this man explains things! ❤ He is so right about things!
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
God doesn't consider us as stray dogs, when God sends us a blessing he does it with care, consideration, and love. Growth happens with age and experiences and not all at once. One can't learn without experience. God cleans one for the endurance of his purpose not for the perfection of man or woman. If one doesn't accept the value that God has placed into one yet always complain about the flaws that they see as compromising the true walk then their faith is just for their desire and not for the work because faith without work is dead. A stray dog is one who will eat its own vomit because of the lack of understanding, experience and faith in God. God doesn't stop moving because one wants perfection. One man's trash is another man's treasure. Instead of trying to fix someone's flaws embrace your own. Even great marriages have flaws but the covenant God placed them under stands stronger than the selfishness for pleasures. Understanding that grief comes in all different states. One has to know that God makes no mistakes. Don't judge a drunk man because he's drunk because he could be your blessing. God states I come to my children in the form of spirit and not flesh so be careful who you judge and discredit. The idea of choosing who we love is overrated it's an illusion, because the spirit of God chooses those for you to be loved by and for you to love. Some love from the temptation of flesh but true love is bound by the spirit and soul.If you are really guided by God.
Damn, this video resonates with me and strikes me in my core, I know its geared towards women but I found a lot of useful information. I wasn't done learning and healing from my traumas that were preventing me from opening up and being emotionally naked as you said and she took off after coming back together just a few months of getting back together. I have been struggling these last couple of days, ups and downs that come with healing but I no longer run from my emotions so that I can fully heal and get my one true person back, but until then, my healing and spending time with her kids that I've grown to love so much from the beginning. Thank you for helping calm my mind in this moment of struggle
Amen🙏 I believe this is my story the Lord is working on my husband.
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I completely agree! And, believe it or not, I was thinking just today on how much I am grateful to have been through some "painful" circumstances that helped me starting my spiritual growth and led me to where I am now. 🙏 Thank you for sharing
This message is amazing and I agree 💯 despite it’s a lot to swallow. God has been speaking these things to me for some time now and I am thankful for this confirmation. I know that my future marriage is for God’s purpose. That my husband and I will be used by God in a powerful way and with that we must both be ready! Not just for the assignment but for the attack of the enemy. My biggest issue right now is discerning is this the right man at the wrong time or is he the wrong man? Everything in my spirit feels he is the right man but there are unseen barriers between that frankly don’t even make sense from our worldly understanding that are keeping us far enough apart to not be in a committed relationship. It’s confusing and I know God is not the author or confusion and that is why I am unsure if he is the right man and it’s just the wrong time. And just as you were mentioning this your video cut off😢
This is so true I met my soulmate back in February 2020 we hit if off but he was to inconsistent so we disconnected. Now granted he texted from time to time long story short a year later his then fiancé texted me I don’t know why because I hadn’t talked to him in over a year. Anywho they didn’t work out she threw Urine on him now her azz was crazy but maybe he needed to go through that because when we reconnected 2 years later he was a changed man. He said he was and he also showed me we have been back together since September 2023 officially because initially he contacted me in July 2023 but I ignored him then.
Lol I'm hollering.
I receive this message as confirmation of my current situation 🙏🏾
Wow God is so powerful I needed to hear this TODAY I just prayed and tried to understand Genesis 2 and 3
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
This is real. It happens. Thank you Stephan for your wisdom and encouragement for those of us who are still waiting…still hoping…still believing ❤🙏🏾
If this isn’t a word FOR ME directly from GOD… I don’t know what is😱
This spoke to me in ways beyond my imagination! Just when I needed it.
Thanks for sharing this
It really blessed me today.👏🏾
Thank you, I experienced this but still waiting to let God complete it.
Yes, I believe a lot of works I have to do.
Thank you brother!
This video couldn't come at an even better time!! Like it sounds so good to hear my words come out of somebody else's mouth. I hope my future person sees this video and understands this video before coming to me.
I really needed these words, thank you so much. I hope you know how much important your videos are ❤
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
If he is scared, that means I have work too 🙏
Interesting interesting video! May we all embrace and understand the power of a true connection with the person God has for us…. there’s no deeper and scarier feeling than that.🙏🏾
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing I appreciate that!
Yes. I really do understand this. God knows our triggers and the right seasons. So much truth. Amen.🙏🏽💗
Great car analogy! It aint over till God says its over 🙏🏻
Absolutely!
I agree 💯 Gods timing is best! Thank you for taking the time to help us with genuine advice & counsel. Your words are appreciated 🙏🏼 I have all your books. You should have a meet & greet/book session one day (West Palm Beach/Fort Lauderdale) Pray about it 😉
I honestly needed to hear this, I'm going through the same thing. Thanks for reposting.
Really good. I lived through this. In fact, I absolutely went against God's word. It was a disaster. I can honestly say I have had to take a deep look at myself, where faith no longer existed. I lost trust & hope. Crazy part Papa brought me right back to where ai was and deepened my faith. Taught me the importance of submission.
Stephan is ON FIRE in this video and it's one of his best yet...
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
You're speaking truth Stephan...we MUST do OUR part and wait on God give His stamp of approval. WORD!!!🙏🏽
Its so confusing!!!! Seeing all these doves cardinals blue jays... Peace when im around him. Nothing else evsn exists!!! ❤ Emotions all over the place....
This was a great way to understand this 😅😂. I still have faith so thank you for your extraordinary advice. Love this 🫶🏾👏🏾🙏🏾💯
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Thank you for sharing different perspectives 💚
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Absolute confirmation. I know I met who God has for me but I am still working on me. I’m healed but still working on whole. I have to put the love in me so I can give it to him the way that he needs
This is what I'm going through. It's a beautiful experience though, with God by our sides. what's for us will always be. Even if that's a different Man for me and a different Woman for him. ♥️
Thankyou so much Stephen 🙏💗 this video is so timely for me. I’ve been saying to myself I know it’s me that still has work to do it’s not just him (my person) I prayed whilst listening. I appreciate you 🙏
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
God sent me directly to this video right after I asked why he put us in each other’s lives. 😮💨🙏🏾
Video HIT like a BAG OF BRICKS! lol I prepared myself with that post disclaimer 😆🙏 thanks Stephan
Thank you for this perception.. Definitely need to do more praying.
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that ❤ 🙏🏼
In my case I asked God, but He was silent. I learnt the hard way (17 years) that Gods silence is not (necessarily) consent 🤦🏽♀️
So that means no. Hmmm maybe my answer is no as well.
@@sixteen.candles.4644 it could mean “wait”. Ask critical questions check yourself. Never enter a marriage without knowing yourself as a person and having where you are heading to. And have a purpose as a couple together. Don’t just marry because it’s the next thing to do.
@@sixteen.candles.4644 It may mean "Wait". Clarify why He is silent. What could you not be paying attention to? Ask critical questions. Is this person relevant to your purpose in life?
Do not go into marriage because it is the next "right thing" to do. Go into it purposefully and with God's leading. Also, know who you are as a person first. Be happy with you. It is NOT your spouse's responsibility to make you happy, it is yours! Know what your purpose in life is. Best wishes!
Fantastic Sunday sermon Stephan thank you
Presently am obliged to let go and let God
Right man
Wrong time let me hope its a dream
This is to braintaxing for me
I,ll be patient 😂
Yes, Many years ago I married the wrong person. God said no. It still ended in divorce.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Hopefully, it will help others learn from it 🙏🏼
Praise God, this is the closure I needed! It makes a lot more sense, and I am so embarrassed I have been impatient with God's decree. 😅😊❤
I'm so in love with a man, the extent to which he understands me is crazy. Definitely not a good time to have met him, but I'm so much older than him, so I guess this is the only time I can meet him. But I'm giving up now since I really don't have the courage to continue. Although he's only 27, he is very disciplined, career oriented, humble, knowledgeable, quirky but intelligent and polite. I sometimes don't get why this happens, I mean if someone is not gonna be my husband, but can know me so well. It's kind of sad though. I'm 43 and I think being single is ok. But he really just completely turned my life around for the better. I was always kind of a bit flirty but he truly toned me down. I never know I could be so patient, and I never yelled at him once. Maybe that's all there is to it, to serve God's purpose.
This makes good sense. GOD is good,I am learning to become whole once again with my blessing passed 3.5 yrs ago ot,hurt,grief, loss,finding me and who I am without him,been a rough road,but I live my life with all the love he left behind with me.one day at a time.
I love you GOD...
This resonated so very much. Immediately made me think exactly why and how. Thank you❤️❤️
I am going through this now. I am only 19. I have a lot insecurities that I brought into our relationship and I let that get in between us. I self sabotaged it because I rushed something I knew I was not ready for. Now we are taking this time be apart so we can correct the things that hurt us, so if there a chance of us getting back together we can do it right the next go round.
Perfect Analogy ‼️Thanks for this Video it DEFINITELY is for ME❤😂😂😂
Glad to hear that. Thank you for your feedback ❤ 🙏🏼
I surrendered to God after she told me, she wasnt ready. Even tho we had such a strong connection. Unfortunately, she sabotaged it, me being the first one that has ever tried her right..
I feel like you're talking to me directly 🙈 so thank you for creating this video for me 😊
My pleasure ❤️ 🙏🏼
My own situation might be wrong guy at the right time lol. He’s actually a pretty great guy but there are a few things we’re just not compatible on. But I think God sent him to me to indeed let me know that it is possible for someone to love me the way I want to be loved, to see me and understand me the way I want to be seen and understood.
This remind me of Nelly and Ashanti❤💯👌🏾
So true...so he's trying to say in other words it's always someone you know or meet already most times
@@lifewithbrandyshantae9733 wow.
While I was with my ex somehow every guy I was interested in prior was pursuing me including 1 guy that I noticed professionally but never considered. After we broke up, only this 1 guy persisted. He seems to be a great guy however we keep missing connection mostly due to me not being ready in terms of having healed or even having faith in taking another risk… I can only hope that when I’m ready he or the guy I’m meant for if not him… keeps checking in and following through…
Showing It Exist-Whoa😮.
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Thank you Stephan for your efforts on discussing these issues. Whenever I need answers my spirit leads me to your videos.
I enjoy your videos and I started listening to you during my wilderness season and I can say that I feel like I am making less mistakes in this love thing. Also I think I may have met the right man at the wrong time and I advised him to seek God after spending some time together with him and realising that there's work to do before anything goes further.
This was a WORD!! 👏🏾
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
God does what He does for His purposes and Glory; it's our own filter that gives the differences of perspective, unless we are fully aligned and submitted to His Word and Will.
A person can wait so long, that when that significant other finally shows up, you forget why you wanted them😂
There is 100% truth S in you saying the moment we think we have it all together we lose that relational growth in Christ, because no one will be perfected until we reach Heaven.
Besides that, the "wait" is different when you know Who is in control of it all 😉💘
I can tell you really liked this topic S; It shows when you make yourself laugh~ "iron sharpens iron".
We should always be open to encouraging and challenging one another to become better (more like Christ)❤ This was a very interesting segment.
Thank you for this valuable information.I really love the way you put things in perspective.❤
Glad to hear that. Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼
When you know you know. I knew and now I have to go to work. 🏃🏽♀️
Damn this message is for me thanks a lot !!
I said I Do 3 times knowing that I didn’t.
I grew up in the middle of a family of 14, where I was indoctrinated to believe getting married meant forever. At 18 it seemed plausible. At 27 with 4 kids it felt more like Hell than Heaven. All 3 marriages ended, but the lessons and experiences were priceless. I’ve learned that I can do anything temporarily but nothing forever because that’s a fairy tale or settling. Something good came from all of my relationships but I find that I feel less lonely alone.
I was ready, she was not.
She then rearranged her circumstances (but still didn't know what love was) and tried to connect, but I realized that even though I loved her, it wasn't in her to love me.
it was deep inner thoughts. he kept sending me pple and that perhaps i already knew but i wasnt moving forward with what i actually wanted in life and it kept happening until one day i totally got the msg now i am perplexed on how to actally tackle this cos its not gonna be easy. i tried making it work but it was not soulfully serving me as a person but we have a child
Thank You i definitely needed this....this just gave me information and insight but ima still keep praying more about it 🙏🏾
This goes back to dream where my mom told me that me and husband had to separate in order to heal then after healing we will get back together it’s been a year, I’ve been into an extreme transformation and I feel it now in my heart that now it’s time for me and him to rekindled
Very true. Beautiful reminder. May God bless you
❤ 😊 thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
"okay this one a little more hard headed" 😂
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This guy is anointed.........listen to him
When you first started, I thought I would unsubscribe and turn off my notifications for the second time! But I listened to you but I think my narc was still the wrong one for way too many reasons and as dangerous as I thought. I know God had nothing to do with it bc he sent 3 people to warn me! God can turn any situation to good I did learn a lot & I’m making my relationship with God a lot better and focusing the things God wants me to do. I don’t have to worry about that huge distraction and sadness! Ok 👌 I made it through the whole clip 😢👊🏽
Maybe some of us don't realize God is trying to teach us patience for the right one after pain. Keeping God priority gives me peace for whenever he will send me. (MY Future Husband). ❤❤Ty Ss Love this podcast.
Great analogy!
❤ 😊 thank you!
As I was praying to God for that person, I feel like my prayer or God also lead me to pray how to be a good wife/ partner/ life partner/ friend…
Amen ❤ yes the blessings do exist 🙏🏽 Love is patient, so it's definitely important to heal in the meantime ❤ confirmation
Waiting for God and Jesus 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽 Thank you for this video ❤ Another great one....
Thank you for your feedback I appreciate hearing from you ❤️ 🙏🏼
❤❤❤❤❤All true..this is my story EXACTLY
Thank you for sharing your experience hopefully it will help others learn from it ❤ 🙏🏼
Do you mind sharing some of your testimony here?
I'm Listening to Understand. Thank-you!
This video is interesting. This week I had a dream about my current ex. I wasn't sure what to make of it; if it is was a message from the Lord or the inner workings of my subconscious. In the dream, my ex said something akin to let's try again but lets take it slow. And now this video comes along and I'm wondering if this is a confirmation of the dream I had. There are no such things as coincidence so I will proceed with optimism and hope while working on me.
I am the one in the it takes the keys too soon and crashes the car every time. I’m also the one that begs God make that relationship work and it’s always superficial as you said. I’m attempting to manipulate I heavenly.
This has just happened to me. I have liked this guy since I was 13. He has liked me for many years too. Due to different paths we took we never got together. Universities, jobs, relationships etc - timing never right. I am going through a divorce and one afternoon when out I bumped him to him after 6 years. The attraction was still there. Both now single. He asked me out for a drink. In hindsight it still wasn’t the right time for me as my I’m going through toxic divorce but I couldn’t say no to this guy. How could I. I’ve fancied him forever! So i took the car out for a test drive (love the analogy!) and yep - we’ve crashed 😂😢. A few teething hiccups and misunderstandings. Now he’s gone. Dated for 7 months. I’m gutted. So yep the right guy for me but I’ve learnt the hard way - the wrong time. I can’t see him getting in contact now ..
Did God just speak to me?
Oh Father, thank you.