You made the wrong decision when you decided to be a niam yau and married an old guy. What did you expect? I bet all his kids are your age. No matter how good of a person you are, you did wrong by marrying someone's husband already.
Yes, plus marriage is a 2 way street. Not sure why she didn't negotiate for her own happiness. I guess these young girls thinks that coming to America automatically means freedom to do anything they want. They forget that freedom is not free....Sadly
First into the story: “kuv yuav nws vim nws tus pojniam mob2” that is what’s wrong with people with no 🧠 Real man don’t go look for another when his wife is ill. Smart woman yeej tsis yuav luag tus txiv.
If you wanted more kids you should’ve married those young boys in Laos not this old man. He literally told you he married you to take care of his wife. He didn’t want anymore kids, what part of that did you not get? And it was your choice to be a niam yau in the first place, he didn’t force you. Oh well, you made your bed so you might as well lay in it.
Nco ntsoov tias nej cov hmoob nplog yog cov xav tuaj meskas teb ces nej lam yuav neeg ua dog ua dig tsuav tau tuaj xwb. Tuaj txog lub neej yuav iab thiab qab los nqos kom tas....peb yeej tsis nrog koj tu siab dabtsi vim koj xaiv txoj kev no lawm.
Tus me ntxhais aw koj tus txiv cov me nyuam tsis muaj hnub yuav hlub tau koj os nawb cia li muab koj tus Txiv tso mus os koj tau tsev neeg siab phem dhau lawm kav tsij mus thaum hluas os nawb
You have to understand the first wife's kids too. Do not expect the first wife's kids to love you. I feel bad that the kids mistreat your daughter. Your daughter is innocent, she shouldn't be treated like trash by her older siblings.
I'm confused. At the very beginning she said the guy wanted to marry her to take care of his sick wife. And she agreed. At the end she's saying he never said that 🙄 No matter what, I don't feel bad!! she chose this life of being 2nd best forever.
Gosh, why do I not have any pity for this lady. She forgot that actions and decisions have consequences. I guess this is what happens when you don't know your worth. Plus I guess there's no more young men over in Laos good enough to be husbands so these young girls trade their happiness and future for an old dude. She knew all of these were going to happen but still took this road anyways. I hope she will make better decisions and take actions going forward that will lead her to a better future and happiness.
Same here, no sympathy for her. She came at the expense of someone's else's happiness, and took someone else's place. She can't expect the older kids to love and care for her.
@@ThePrincessWorrior you are absolutely right on this one. But i bet she'll be a lot happier. After the old dude dies, she'll probably end up with another old dude, sadly. Choose a life partner and happiness is and should always be a careful and wise one.
@@houavue7711 yes indeed because she is not their mom. She can't replace her regardless. Plus she should've negotiated for all the things that will make her happy and what she want from this marriage. After all, it's a 2 way street. She can't be blaming others for her lack of desperation for wanting to come to America at any costs.
@@maipha8560 I think it's pretty selfish of her to want a part of her husbands things he built with his first one, and his kids. It's fine for her to work hard and get things from her marriage with her husband. But she shouldn't be competing for things from the kids, when she didn't work for those things.
My message to cov me nkauj hmong lostsuas .menyuam hmong meskas thaum lawv g agree 1 yam dab tsi ces lawv yeej coj tus cwj pwm g forget leej twg li nawb .nej cov tseem niaj hnub tuaj tshwb tshaws los yeej yuav nkag tib lub pob tawb vim nej xum xaiv 1 tug thaub laus muaj 1 pab menyuam Es muab nej tus me hluas nraug phim2 nej tso cia quaj ntsuag 6 lostsuas teb
All the parents who thinks their children are going to take care of them in the future need to get a grip. More and more Hmong Americans are sending their parents straight to nursing home. If you want more children, have them because you want more, not for them to take care of you. It’s not happening. A lot seniors today are living on their own today.
No sympathy, she needs to know her dues have been paid, she should leave now and not wait until later. Leave him to his kids. See how they can take care of them.
Hlub koj tu kheej pab koj tu kheej ua ntej to lawv ua li rau koj lo vim koj tsi hlub koj tu kheej koj thiaj raug txom nyem tsi yog lawv tsi hlub koj vim koj twb tsi hlub koj tu kheej ua btej ne
Tus me viv ncaus aw.. koj yuav tsum ntse thiab sab laj rau tej phooj ywg ua ntej thaum koj tus txiv tsis tau tuag mas muaj cov neeg siab zoo2 yuav qhia rau koj nawj
Txhua yam yog tim koj tus txiv xwb vim nws tsis hlub koj tiag thiab nws ua tsis taus txiv koj thiaj tau tuaj ua lub neej txom nyem yog muaj npaum li koj hais ces peb los yeej pab hlub koj kawg li os
Yus nrog yus ntshaws ntshaws txiv dev laus as! Tsis nyob twb ywm Tim nplog no? Niag poj hmoob nplog ruam Taub haus loj!!! Tsis txhob npav npav los txeeb tej mivnyuam lub neej os!!! Koj twb khwv tsis tau ib yam uas yog koj li li ne! Npav los txeeb luag li xwb es!!!
Ua cas tsev neeg twb tsis hlub yus li koj hais no koj tseem yuav ntsaw yug nws tej me nyuam los khuam koj Txoj hau kev thiab yus lub siab naw. Kuv mas nws muab los kuv tsis yug kuv mam mus yug rau tus tshiab os tus me ntxhais aw.
Kuv yeej pom tias poj niam tsis sawm zoo tiag2. Yog tau tus txiv phem ces poj niam thiaj li nyob taus2 hos tau tus txiv zoo ces poj niam yeej tias kuv tus txiv ces zoo li niag me nyuam aub xwb. Yus kom ua li cas ces ua li xwb .
Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas ua caskoj yuav mloog lus ua luaj nas av tsij nrhiav me nyuam yug los mas koj twb yog nyob Tim nplog lawm nas no yog mekas teb thiab koj muaj 18 xyoo lawm nas tus niam tsev
Khaws luag qub teb ua CES yeej yuav Tau khaws luag qub teb ua xwb, nej Cov nkauj hmoob nplog txhob xav tias nej yuav tuaj khaws luag lub neej ua no nawb,ua neej nyob CES yuav kom koj nyob ua lub neej kaj Siab CES txhob mus yuav Tus muaj tej pab mi nyuam, txawm koj yuav yawg nrauj yawg ntsuag los yog yuav txawv li nej yuav tus nraug Laus xwb 🙅🙅
Niam hluas tus txiv zoo li ko ntsaws khib nyiam kiag xwb txiv neej muaj coob tos kj mog cov me nyuam ko yeej g hlub koj nawb nws dag kj xwb txhob nkim.koj lub sij hawm rau ib tug txiv twb g hlub koj os mog
Rau peb ib tsoom Hmoob, tus phem ces cia nws phem xwb. Leej twg tsis zoo ces cia nws yog tus tsis zoo xwb. Cov me nyuam phem nyob rau hauv tsev neeg ntawm no kuj yog ib co phem kawg. Tus txiv ua tsis tau txiv ces muab nws los hais xwb. Txhob muab tas nrho lub zej zog los sis tas nrho ib sab ntuj los ev lub txim.
Yeej yog los mas vim nej yeej txaus siab ne nej tsis paub xwb cov ntxhais hmoob mekas twb tsis yuav lawv na tsuas yog nej thiaj tseem khaws cov yawg zoo li no xwb vim dab tsi es nej cov me ntxhais pheej ntshaw tuaj mekas tuaj yuav cov niag yawg Laus yeej pab tsis tau nej es kav tsij yuav Tus kom phim nej tseem txom nyem me ntsis los tsuav tau Tus hlub yus xwb ,
Es koj puas hlub lawv li koj hlub koj tus koj yug thiab mas los koj muab 100 rau koj tus koj tsuas muab 100 los faib tag nrho rau lawv xwb na los cas muaj ntsej muag luaj tu siab npaum li ko cas tuaj ua tag lawv pab niam tub hkib thiab mob siab rau koj tus ntsej muag ko na
Tus ntxhais aw yus tseem hluas hluas thiab muaj plab yus kav tsij yug nawb mog do not listen to anyone else lawm os.. Kuv agree nrog koj muab nws lawb dab mus yus tseem hluas mog es mam mus yug rau lwm xeem xwb os. Tsi yog yus roj yus ntshav lawv tsi hlub koj nawb me ntxhais aw.
Tsis tas yuav tuaj piav koj lub qe tsis muaj meeg qhuas nej cov me niam mos ab li os. Nej cov qhov muag rua pliav pom ib tug txiv neej laus npaum nej yawg xwb es tsis paub xu siab los tseem kam yuav thiab. Nej tsis tas tuaj tuaj piav nej tus txij nkawm tsis yog nej tus os luag twb muaj luag txiv nkawm os. Nej tsuas yog ib tug qev tuaj ua hauj lwm meskas teb xwb os. Nej rua nej qhov muag tuaj xwb ces nyuam qhuav phim xwb nawb. Thov txhob hais tias me koj txiv xu siab nrau heev li os
The only person that made a promise to you is your husband. So only he is obligated to keep that promise. The first wife and the older kids are not obligated to yield to you. They made no promises to you prior to you marrying your husband. Therefore, don't expect that they are going to welcome you with open arms. Be smart, take care of yourself and your daughter, It's not a guarantee that the older kids will love you and your daughter after your husband dies.
niam hluas aw....nej cov me niam tuaj tshiiab nas ua cas tus phem los tos tsis hnyoo ib qho nyuag xwb ya plho mus yuav tus tshiab cas koj ho yuav ruam npaum ko thiab mas yus mus nrwb yus mo tos tus j muag kav ywm hlab ko ua dab tsi mas kav ywm hlab ko ces kab me nyuam tuag tag lawm los mas tsis txhob khi nyuj tos zaub hlob os txhob tos thaub laus tuag koj mam yuav txiv os kav tsij mus ua ntej nws nkaw hniav los mas
Tus mi niam tsev aws vim txoj kev txomnyem es nej cov ntxhais hmoob nplog xav xav tuaj rau tebchaws mekas es nim txaus txaus siab tuaj yuav cov niag thaub laus thibj tuaj nrog luag tu luag tus pojniam tibsi ces kawg lub neej zoo li no xwb os. Cov niag minyuam no los txhob cia siab mog kavtsij hlub koj tus kheej thiab koj tus mi ntxhais xwb
Txhob ntseeg2 cov niag thaub laus 65-75 xyoo os yu kav tsij yuav tu hluas2 25-30 xyoo tim nplog no phim2 tu xwb txom nyem lo mam 2 leeg khwv os zoo qhov kuv ho yug tau 4 tug me nyuam yog kuv li yog kuv roj yog kuv li ntshav zoo kawg
koj mas tseem yog txua muag pliav los yuav luag tus txiv . yus nqa tsawv ib sab pob ntseg nloog ntxoov luag muaj lub neej muaj poj niam ..yus ntshiav yus kev txom nyim nyias nqa nyias ob sab tes mus khwv tsi tau lov npav yuav lawv tus txiv xwb kuv mas tsi paub hais cov hmoob nplog li tiag 😂😂😂😂txiv neej tuag tag lawm sub as😂😂😂😂
Koj ua rau koj xwb koj tus txiv cov me nyuam lawv tub mus nyob lawv lawm tseem tshuav dab tsi rau koj ntxub lawv tseem muaj dab tsi rau lawv ntxub koj. Tiam tshiab no menyuam yeej tsi nyiam niam tshiab txiv tshiab li lub neej qub yog koj yuav muab tej ko los ua teeb meem mas tsi yog lawm
Mi viv ncaus aw…txhob tos koj niag pub thaub laus mus es mam mus nrhiav tshiab os. Cheem tseem hluas..yuav mus ces mus ziag no ntag. Xyov tsis paub thaum twg tiag thaub laus mam mus…tsam lig koj lub neej os mog. Nyob los lawv tsis hlub lawm ces kav tsij ntxov mus ntxov zoo xwb mas. Tsam lwm hnub koj khub xim os
Tus niam hluas tu siab ua dab tsi na. Koj yeej paub tseeb2 thaum hauv paus lawm los sas. Koj lub hom phiaj mus tsis raws koj xa vim koj xav tias koj yuav yuam tau tus txiv ua li koj xav. Nws muaj nws ib lub neej lawm na. Lub neej yeej pom tseeb2 puag thaum nws los yuav koj.
Peb cov ntxhais Hmoob Nplog, yog nej tuaj txeeb luag tus muaj txij nkawm lub neej ua, luag tej me tub me ntxhais yuav tsum ntxub nej txog hnub tuag. Yog koj tsis paub kuj tsis luaj twg, yog koj paub es koj tab meeg ua, ces koj yuav txom nyem li tus niam tsev no. Koj xav tias luag tej me tub me nyuam yuav lam muab luag niam luag txiv tej qub txeeg qub tej rau koj no. Txhob mus npau suav kiag...
Sister Yus txhob kev ruam xwb os. Txhob mus ua niam yau. Lawv cov txiv tsis txim txiaj, tsis sib hlub, txhawj txhawj dag, lawv muaj muaj teebmeem hauv lawv lub neej. Txhob mus cuam tshuam, yus tabtom mus kis lawm tus mob xwb. Ua lub neej niam yau ces yeej zoo li ko. Koj yeem ua niam yau mus tu lawv tus niam loj ua dabtsi!? Not every niam yau will be lucky, dont risk it. Tsev neej muaj niam loj niam yau ces tus twg los tus muaj kev tu siab kev chim. Cov txhawj xav ces thiaj li lam nyob lam uv. Qhov twg los lam xwb yeej tsis muaj qhov kaj siab li os. Tsis yog poj niam hmoob mekas xwb thiaj txhawj phem. Ua hmoob niam yau ces nyob tebchaws twg los yeej zoo ibyam xwb os.
Every person has a choice to stay or go. If you’re not happy, only you can do something about it. Do not self-inflict misery onto yourself. You do not have to put up with anyone’s BS.
You made the wrong decision when you decided to be a niam yau and married an old guy. What did you expect? I bet all his kids are your age. No matter how good of a person you are, you did wrong by marrying someone's husband already.
Yes, plus marriage is a 2 way street. Not sure why she didn't negotiate for her own happiness. I guess these young girls thinks that coming to America automatically means freedom to do anything they want. They forget that freedom is not free....Sadly
Yog kawg!
Yuav luag qub txiv ces tau luag qub mob los mas
First into the story: “kuv yuav nws vim nws tus pojniam mob2” that is what’s wrong with people with no 🧠
Real man don’t go look for another when his wife is ill. Smart woman yeej tsis yuav luag tus txiv.
Agree 💯
If you wanted more kids you should’ve married those young boys in Laos not this old man. He literally told you he married you to take care of his wife. He didn’t want anymore kids, what part of that did you not get? And it was your choice to be a niam yau in the first place, he didn’t force you. Oh well, you made your bed so you might as well lay in it.
Twg kom koj zoo koj siab tuaj ua niam yau youv lawv tus txiv
Nco ntsoov tias nej cov hmoob nplog yog cov xav tuaj meskas teb ces nej lam yuav neeg ua dog ua dig tsuav tau tuaj xwb. Tuaj txog lub neej yuav iab thiab qab los nqos kom tas....peb yeej tsis nrog koj tu siab dabtsi vim koj xaiv txoj kev no lawm.
Hlub koj tu kheej txhob to lawv txoj kev hlub
Tus me ntxhais aw koj tus txiv cov me nyuam tsis muaj hnub yuav hlub tau koj os nawb cia li muab koj tus Txiv tso mus os koj tau tsev neeg siab phem dhau lawm kav tsij mus thaum hluas os nawb
Tus me viv ncaus aw cas kj txoj dab neeg es yuav zoo li kv thiab os tu tu siab kawg li o yom!
You have to understand the first wife's kids too. Do not expect the first wife's kids to love you. I feel bad that the kids mistreat your daughter. Your daughter is innocent, she shouldn't be treated like trash by her older siblings.
Kav tsij khaws nyiaj kom ntau ntau xwb. Txhob tos lawv cov menyuam hlub koj os koj tus hlub rau li cas yuav li ntawv xwb mog.
I'm confused. At the very beginning she said the guy wanted to marry her to take care of his sick wife. And she agreed.
At the end she's saying he never said that 🙄
No matter what, I don't feel bad!! she chose this life of being 2nd best forever.
Nej cov ntxhais hmoob nplog pheej xav yuav cov thaub laus ces yog li mo ntag mas
Gosh, why do I not have any pity for this lady. She forgot that actions and decisions have consequences. I guess this is what happens when you don't know your worth. Plus I guess there's no more young men over in Laos good enough to be husbands so these young girls trade their happiness and future for an old dude. She knew all of these were going to happen but still took this road anyways. I hope she will make better decisions and take actions going forward that will lead her to a better future and happiness.
Guys for husband in Laos? there are, but no dollar. They like dollar over kip, ya’ll
Same here, no sympathy for her. She came at the expense of someone's else's happiness, and took someone else's place. She can't expect the older kids to love and care for her.
@@ThePrincessWorrior you are absolutely right on this one. But i bet she'll be a lot happier. After the old dude dies, she'll probably end up with another old dude, sadly. Choose a life partner and happiness is and should always be a careful and wise one.
@@houavue7711 yes indeed because she is not their mom. She can't replace her regardless. Plus she should've negotiated for all the things that will make her happy and what she want from this marriage. After all, it's a 2 way street. She can't be blaming others for her lack of desperation for wanting to come to America at any costs.
@@maipha8560 I think it's pretty selfish of her to want a part of her husbands things he built with his first one, and his kids. It's fine for her to work hard and get things from her marriage with her husband. But she shouldn't be competing for things from the kids, when she didn't work for those things.
Hoyo koj txaus koj siab tuaj yuav thaub laus ces pab tsi tau! Koj twb tsis hlub lawm thiab es lawm yuav ua ca hlub koj thiab nawb.
Koj xav yuam kev lamw qhov koj xav tau kev hlub ntawm koj tus txiv cov me nyuam. Koj yuav tau to taub tias lawv tsis yog koj yug lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li nawb. Txhob vam kiag, yus kav tsij hlub yus tus kheej xwb.
Es..koj puas nco qab tus txiv twb xub qhia rau koj tias nws tus niam tseem nyob no nes!!! Koj yeej txaus siab thaum koj tsis tau yuav niag txiv lawm laiv!!
Nrauj nws los muaj yawg nrauj ntau tseem tos hlub koj
Tus ntxhais aws txhob tu siab os tus yuav hlub koj ces yog tus koj yug xwb mog, ua siab ntev thiaj taus lub neej zoo tom ntej mog.
My message to cov me nkauj hmong lostsuas .menyuam hmong meskas thaum lawv g agree 1 yam dab tsi ces lawv yeej coj tus cwj pwm g forget leej twg li nawb .nej cov tseem niaj hnub tuaj tshwb tshaws los yeej yuav nkag tib lub pob tawb vim nej xum xaiv 1 tug thaub laus muaj 1 pab menyuam Es muab nej tus me hluas nraug phim2 nej tso cia quaj ntsuag 6 lostsuas teb
All the parents who thinks their children are going to take care of them in the future need to get a grip. More and more Hmong Americans are sending their parents straight to nursing home. If you want more children, have them because you want more, not for them to take care of you. It’s not happening. A lot seniors today are living on their own today.
Thiab lwm tus txiv
No sympathy, she needs to know her dues have been paid, she should leave now and not wait until later. Leave him to his kids. See how they can take care of them.
Dag tiag2 niam mos ab yeej tsis tu tus niam loj 1zaug li
Kuv muaj cov muam kwv muam tij tuaj yuav cov txiv laus laus tim no kuv yeej pab hlub lawv pab saib xyuas lawv mus rau qhov zoo qhov yog kom lawv tsis txhob raug lwm tus tsim txom
Cov hmoob nplog ntawm neb tus poj niam twb tsis tau tuag los twb tuag yuv luag tus txiv lawm
Hais zoo heev tsis ta li tseem ntxim hlub ntshaj li
Hlub koj tu kheej pab koj tu kheej ua ntej to lawv ua li rau koj lo vim koj tsi hlub koj tu kheej koj thiaj raug txom nyem tsi yog lawv tsi hlub koj vim koj twb tsi hlub koj tu kheej ua btej ne
txhob tus siab os mog yu tu yu yug thiaj hlub yu os vim yu twb tsis tau yug lawv
Niag txiv laus es youv ua cas thiaj qaub koj thaj
Ua cas es nej cov niag poj naim moob nplog mas yeej tsis muaj pheev xwm mus khw noj khw haus es cas yeej khw nyob noj luag tug xwb os lawv aw
Tus me viv ncaus aw.. koj yuav tsum ntse thiab sab laj rau tej phooj ywg ua ntej thaum koj tus txiv tsis tau tuag mas muaj cov neeg siab zoo2 yuav qhia rau koj nawj
koj tseem xav zov niag dev laus thiab lov txiv neej muaj coob os
Tsis txhob ntshaw2 nyiaj, tsis yog yus nab thib tu.
Yog zoo lis ntawm koj hais no cas tsis mus na lo nyob zoo dab tsis más lo .
Lub neej tseem tsuab ntej na .
Nco ntsoov tias cov me nyuam tsis yog koj yug lawv yeej tsis hlub koj, hos ntawm koj los koj yeej tsis hlub lawv ib yam. Koj xav ntawm koj tus kheej tias koj hlub koj tus tshaj cov tsis yog koj yug. Es txhob tu siab rau lawv.
Txhua yam yog tim koj tus txiv xwb vim nws tsis hlub koj tiag thiab nws ua tsis taus txiv koj thiaj tau tuaj ua lub neej txom nyem yog muaj npaum li koj hais ces peb los yeej pab hlub koj kawg li os
Koj thiaj tseem yuav nws os yog kuv ces nroj kiag lawm os
Yus nrog yus ntshaws ntshaws txiv dev laus as! Tsis nyob twb ywm Tim nplog no? Niag poj hmoob nplog ruam Taub haus loj!!! Tsis txhob npav npav los txeeb tej mivnyuam lub neej os!!! Koj twb khwv tsis tau ib yam uas yog koj li li ne! Npav los txeeb luag li xwb es!!!
Tu poj.niam no Liam dhau.lawm.os
Why are you complaining? You agreed to this arrangement.
Kj tu txiv ua yog lawm
Txhob nyob lawm cheem thaum nws tseem nyob koj mus zoo dua txhob tos thaum nws mus lawm koj yuav raug tsim
Tu siab kawg os, but all hmong girls oversea have plan to come to this country
Ua cas tsev neeg twb tsis hlub yus li koj hais no koj tseem yuav ntsaw yug nws tej me nyuam los khuam koj Txoj hau kev thiab yus lub siab naw. Kuv mas nws muab los kuv tsis yug kuv mam mus yug rau tus tshiab os tus me ntxhais aw.
Nco ntsoov nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no yeej tsis muaj Leej twg uas yuav hlub yus yog yus mus nyob deb yus niam yus txiv lawm ces yus yuav tau hlub yus tiag tiag xwb koj twb tuaj tau ntev lawm koj twb paub khwv noj khwv haus rau koj lawm ces tsis nyuaj siab lwm tus hlub yus tus kheej xwb mog
Kuv yeej pom tias poj niam tsis sawm zoo tiag2. Yog tau tus txiv phem ces poj niam thiaj li nyob taus2 hos tau tus txiv zoo ces poj niam yeej tias kuv tus txiv ces zoo li niag me nyuam aub xwb. Yus kom ua li cas ces ua li xwb .
Tus niam tsev ntawm zaj neej neeg no nas ua caskoj yuav mloog lus ua luaj nas av tsij nrhiav me nyuam yug los mas koj twb yog nyob Tim nplog lawm nas no yog mekas teb thiab koj muaj 18 xyoo lawm nas tus niam tsev
Khaws luag qub teb ua CES yeej yuav Tau khaws luag qub teb ua xwb, nej Cov nkauj hmoob nplog txhob xav tias nej yuav tuaj khaws luag lub neej ua no nawb,ua neej nyob CES yuav kom koj nyob ua lub neej kaj Siab CES txhob mus yuav Tus muaj tej pab mi nyuam, txawm koj yuav yawg nrauj yawg ntsuag los yog yuav txawv li nej yuav tus nraug Laus xwb 🙅🙅
You married a married man. What did you expect? You don’t see your wrong? These people are delusional.
Nrauj kiag mam mus yus rau yus o me nian hluas aw.
Koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj muaj nws tso mus
Niam hluas tus txiv zoo li ko ntsaws khib nyiam kiag xwb txiv neej muaj coob tos kj mog cov me nyuam ko yeej g hlub koj nawb nws dag kj xwb txhob nkim.koj lub sij hawm rau ib tug txiv twb g hlub koj os mog
Txhob qi qhovmuag uaneej mas tus me muam
Rau peb ib tsoom Hmoob, tus phem ces cia nws phem xwb. Leej twg tsis zoo ces cia nws yog tus tsis zoo xwb. Cov me nyuam phem nyob rau hauv tsev neeg ntawm no kuj yog ib co phem kawg. Tus txiv ua tsis tau txiv ces muab nws los hais xwb. Txhob muab tas nrho lub zej zog los sis tas nrho ib sab ntuj los ev lub txim.
WOW…bad family tree…Hmong people are always live in backwards. Love the living not the dead…😩!!!
Hau yau hais pojhmoob nplog xwb. Tsis mloog os
Kam tsij mu nawb txhob nkim kj lub neej ib sim rau tu neeg tsi hlub kj ko li os
Yeej yog los mas vim nej yeej txaus siab ne nej tsis paub xwb cov ntxhais hmoob mekas twb tsis yuav lawv na tsuas yog nej thiaj tseem khaws cov yawg zoo li no xwb vim dab tsi es nej cov me ntxhais pheej ntshaw tuaj mekas tuaj yuav cov niag yawg Laus yeej pab tsis tau nej es kav tsij yuav Tus kom phim nej tseem txom nyem me ntsis los tsuav tau Tus hlub yus xwb ,
I'm sorry for your daughter. I don't understand why everybody hates her. She's innocent kid. It's not fair for her to get treated this way.
So sorry and so sad for you sister 😞
Tus d viv ncaus cas yus tsis mus yus nawb. Tso nyob zov niag tsis laus ntawm ko li os.
Tus mi niam tsev koj txhob vam yuav tau cov Vaj tsev yog tsis nyob koj npe, yog muaj npaum koj hais, muab thaub laus dho toj es kaj tsij mus nrhiav lib neej tshiab thaum tsis tau lig.
New cov ntxhais hmoob nplog yuav tau tseg kiag txoj kev yuav cov yawg nrauj nyob mekas nawb vim cov me nyuam yug nyob mekas lawv coj li mekas lawm lawv tsis hlub nej tej zaum lawv niam txw lawv ces nej yuav nyob nyuaj siab xwb tej zaum nej ua yuam kev ces lawv yuav foob raug txim qhov zoo nej txhob ntshaw cov yawg nrauj txhob ntshaw hmoob mekas xum yuav yawg ntsuag yawg ntsuag los yeej muaj ib co cov me nyuam yeej phem ib yam thiab ,
Ntuj aw!!! Yus txaus yus siab vim koj yeej paub ntsoov tias tus txiv laus no muaj pojniam. Txhob cia siab tus niam loj cov menyuam yuav hlub hlub koj. Koj tseem khib txog pw hmo ntuj thiab??? Koj yeej tsis tsimnyog tu siab pojniam hmoob nplog yeej phem yeej xav tuaj nrhuav luag lub neej.......kuv tsis qhuas koj kiag, twb tsis yog koj qimuag yuav niag thaub laus ntawm ko
Es koj puas hlub lawv li koj hlub koj tus koj yug thiab mas los koj muab 100 rau koj tus koj tsuas muab 100 los faib tag nrho rau lawv xwb na los cas muaj ntsej muag luaj tu siab npaum li ko cas tuaj ua tag lawv pab niam tub hkib thiab mob siab rau koj tus ntsej muag ko na
Tus ntxhais aw yus tseem hluas hluas thiab muaj plab yus kav tsij yug nawb mog do not listen to anyone else lawm os.. Kuv agree nrog koj muab nws lawb dab mus yus tseem hluas mog es mam mus yug rau lwm xeem xwb os. Tsi yog yus roj yus ntshav lawv tsi hlub koj nawb me ntxhais aw.
Kuv tsis txaus siab rau nej cov uas twb paub tias tus txiv neej ntawv tseem muaj poj niam es cia li rua muag tsuas los yuav…. Tim nej xwb
Tsis tas yuav tuaj piav koj lub qe tsis muaj meeg qhuas nej cov me niam mos ab li os. Nej cov qhov muag rua pliav pom ib tug txiv neej laus npaum nej yawg xwb es tsis paub xu siab los tseem kam yuav thiab. Nej tsis tas tuaj tuaj piav nej tus txij nkawm tsis yog nej tus os luag twb muaj luag txiv nkawm os. Nej tsuas yog ib tug qev tuaj ua hauj lwm meskas teb xwb os. Nej rua nej qhov muag tuaj xwb ces nyuam qhuav phim xwb nawb. Thov txhob hais tias me koj txiv xu siab nrau heev li os
The only person that made a promise to you is your husband. So only he is obligated to keep that promise. The first wife and the older kids are not obligated to yield to you. They made no promises to you prior to you marrying your husband. Therefore, don't expect that they are going to welcome you with open arms. Be smart, take care of yourself and your daughter, It's not a guarantee that the older kids will love you and your daughter after your husband dies.
Peb cov hmoob lam tuaj nyob rau teb chaws vam meej los muaj ib co yeej tseem tsis tau vam meej li tseem coj li nyob puag tim teb chaws nplog
Koj tos nws tuag ces,koj yug tsis tau me nyuam lawm os tus me ntxhais aw. Koj xav tau me nyuam ces mus khwv tam sim no xwb mog.
oyo yog lawv tsis hlub koj es pheej yuav nrog lawv nyob tiv kev lwj siab os.. Tej tug niag thaub laus ko pheej yuav uv nrauj hlo mus ua dua neej tshiab kiag xwb os..
Wow wow cas yuav hus kwj tse ua luaj os poj hmoob aw.
Nw lam dag koj muab koj laug kom nkim kj lubneej xwb kav tsij rau siab khaw nyiaj mu pib koj lub neej xwb
niam hluas aw....nej cov me niam tuaj tshiiab nas ua cas tus phem los tos tsis hnyoo ib qho nyuag xwb ya plho mus yuav tus tshiab cas koj ho yuav ruam npaum ko thiab mas yus mus nrwb yus mo tos tus j muag kav ywm hlab ko ua dab tsi mas kav ywm hlab ko ces kab me nyuam tuag tag lawm los mas tsis txhob khi nyuj tos zaub hlob os txhob tos thaub laus tuag koj mam yuav txiv os kav tsij mus ua ntej nws nkaw hniav los mas
Koj paub tsawg. Kev ua niam yau- yog kev ev, uv, thiab tiv tauv luag tus mob nrog yus tus mob. Qhov no yog kev ua niam yau.
Tus mi niam tsev aws vim txoj kev txomnyem es nej cov ntxhais hmoob nplog xav xav tuaj rau tebchaws mekas es nim txaus txaus siab tuaj yuav cov niag thaub laus thibj tuaj nrog luag tu luag tus pojniam tibsi ces kawg lub neej zoo li no xwb os. Cov niag minyuam no los txhob cia siab mog kavtsij hlub koj tus kheej thiab koj tus mi ntxhais xwb
Mus aim ib tug thaub sab nrauv kom muaj menyuam kiag xwb mas.
Menyuam ntsuag tebchaws no lawv siab phem heev. Kavtsij ua raws li koj siab ntshaw.
Ua cas nej cov nkauj hmoob nplog yuav txau siab tuaj yuav cov txiv thaub laus xyov nej xav lis cas.
Ab npaum ko ces muab lawv cov txiv tub lawb xwb mas cas yuav ntev ua luaj na kuv ces khiav ntev lawm
Txhob ntseeg2 cov niag thaub laus 65-75 xyoo os yu kav tsij yuav tu hluas2 25-30 xyoo tim nplog no phim2 tu xwb txom nyem lo mam 2 leeg khwv os zoo qhov kuv ho yug tau 4 tug me nyuam yog kuv li yog kuv roj yog kuv li ntshav zoo kawg
koj mas tseem yog txua muag pliav los yuav luag tus txiv . yus nqa tsawv ib sab pob ntseg nloog ntxoov luag muaj lub neej muaj poj niam ..yus ntshiav yus kev txom nyim nyias nqa nyias ob sab tes mus khwv tsi tau lov npav yuav lawv tus txiv xwb kuv mas tsi paub hais cov hmoob nplog li tiag 😂😂😂😂txiv neej tuag tag lawm sub as😂😂😂😂
Kuv nyuam qhuav pib mloog xwb. Yog hmoob nplog lub neej xwb ces tsis mloog lawm. Hmoob nplog qias dhau lawm os shitt tiagtiag
Koj ua rau koj xwb koj tus txiv cov me nyuam lawv tub mus nyob lawv lawm tseem tshuav dab tsi rau koj ntxub lawv tseem muaj dab tsi rau lawv ntxub koj. Tiam tshiab no menyuam yeej tsi nyiam niam tshiab txiv tshiab li lub neej qub yog koj yuav muab tej ko los ua teeb meem mas tsi yog lawm
Mi viv ncaus aw…txhob tos koj niag pub thaub laus mus es mam mus nrhiav tshiab os.
Cheem tseem hluas..yuav mus ces mus ziag no ntag.
Xyov tsis paub thaum twg tiag thaub laus mam mus…tsam lig koj lub neej os mog.
Nyob los lawv tsis hlub lawm ces kav tsij ntxov mus ntxov zoo xwb mas. Tsam lwm hnub koj khub xim os
Tus niam hluas tu siab ua dab tsi na. Koj yeej paub tseeb2 thaum hauv paus lawm los sas. Koj lub hom phiaj mus tsis raws koj xa vim koj xav tias koj yuav yuam tau tus txiv ua li koj xav. Nws muaj nws ib lub neej lawm na. Lub neej yeej pom tseeb2 puag thaum nws los yuav koj.
Cov txiv phem li no ces muab nrauj xb os
Peb tsis qhuas koj vim koj tuaj txeeb lawv tus txiv thaum lawv muaj mob xwb. Mob niam loj siab tshaj. Koj los piav rau peb mloog peb tseem pab hlub nws cov menyuam. Koj yeej liam. Koj thiaj li qhuas koj tus kheej xwb. Koj hais yog tshaj peb yeej tsis qhuas koj os.
Peb cov ntxhais Hmoob Nplog, yog nej tuaj txeeb luag tus muaj txij nkawm lub neej ua, luag tej me tub me ntxhais yuav tsum ntxub nej txog hnub tuag. Yog koj tsis paub kuj tsis luaj twg, yog koj paub es koj tab meeg ua, ces koj yuav txom nyem li tus niam tsev no. Koj xav tias luag tej me tub me nyuam yuav lam muab luag niam luag txiv tej qub txeeg qub tej rau koj no. Txhob mus npau suav kiag...
Sister Yus txhob kev ruam xwb os. Txhob mus ua niam yau. Lawv cov txiv tsis txim txiaj, tsis sib hlub, txhawj txhawj dag, lawv muaj muaj teebmeem hauv lawv lub neej. Txhob mus cuam tshuam, yus tabtom mus kis lawm tus mob xwb. Ua lub neej niam yau ces yeej zoo li ko. Koj yeem ua niam yau mus tu lawv tus niam loj ua dabtsi!? Not every niam yau will be lucky, dont risk it. Tsev neej muaj niam loj niam yau ces tus twg los tus muaj kev tu siab kev chim. Cov txhawj xav ces thiaj li lam nyob lam uv. Qhov twg los lam xwb yeej tsis muaj qhov kaj siab li os. Tsis yog poj niam hmoob mekas xwb thiaj txhawj phem. Ua hmoob niam yau ces nyob tebchaws twg los yeej zoo ibyam xwb os.
If I were you I leave him, and let him suffer since he can't even get his kids to love you.
Mus yuav Dia txiv tshiab xwb
Cas koj tsis muab tso tseg thaum koj tseem hluas na lawv yeej tsis hlub koj li os
Kj mu yuav lawv tu txiv ne lawv thiaj li chim2 rau kj ne piv tia yog kj ne kj xav li ca
Tab sis koj tawm tsis taus ne
If you want kids, you don't have to wait for him. Wink wink.
Tus viv ncaus nco ntsoov tias koj tsis yog lawv niam yug lawv no los?
Every person has a choice to stay or go. If you’re not happy, only you can do something about it. Do not self-inflict misery onto yourself. You do not have to put up with anyone’s BS.