Explanation: The lady’s Dad has Alzheimer’s disease making him slowly forget things, memory loss and confusion are the main symptoms. No cure exists. So he probably forgot that was his daughter and got confused. Hope that helped if u didn’t understand :)
It made me sad 😔 because it's hard for her to take care of dad and take care of her self she thinks when the baby is born she won't be able to do it all but her dad said whatever happens at the end your going to be fine it's like her dad said don't give up you'll make it . Not knowing it was her daughter
I had three members of my family with the disease, this brought back some bad fu¢king memories and now I'm balling. Always stay in touch with your loved ones.
Then quit eating sugar. Alzheimer’s often occurs from: Over consumption of sugars. Oxidating your LDL. Stripping hemoglobin from your red blood cells. Sticking to Arterie walls. Hiding place for bacteria. Makes a calcium home for itself. OxLDL rams into the calcified walls. Breaks off in chunks. Enters the Ganglial space. Mini aneurisms in the brain. Forgetfulness. Then real forgetfulness. Then loss of self. The process is known as Arterial sclerosis, and it’s the later stages of sugar poisoning. Don’t start buying sugar free stuff either. They pump that stuff full of cornmeal, Sucralose, dextrose, rice starches, soybean oil, and all sorts of other nasty stuff. Eat more things you cook yourself. Look up oxidization rates of oils. Stop it with the pile of rice Stop it with the 4 dinner rolls. Stop juicing fruits, turning them into liquid Fructose to DESTROY your red blood cells at 10x the rate.
As someone with bad memory who is incapable of remembering most things but not in a way that it terribly affects my life, I have no attachments to the past. As long as you can do everything you can for the present moment, it means the world and it teaches you to appreciate the present and what it has to offer even during the harder times. Sometimes it can bring the most precious moments that can mean so much more than they do for the average person. This is for everyone involved. It's just having to rewire your brain to make the best of the situation. It can hurt, but great things can come from it.
It's not a Burden, I took care of my mother when she sometimes forgets everything, yeah I left my job for her waking up late nights ... Now when she's gone, my heart feels good that yeah I had done something good which I expect from my kids and I have a strong belief that yes they will take care of me
@@barbarashaw5604 the burden also has good. My dear husband doesn't really know who I am, just that I belong here. When we sit on the couch, watching t.v., I experience genuine joy, just looking at him. I can still hug him. I know it's going to get harder. Much harder. But today, I can still see & touch my highschool sweetheart, & lifelong love. I work hard at staying in today. Projecting will ruin what I have today, & it won't stop the bad things to come. I'm prudent, & take necessary steps, but try to turn off maudlin when it starts.
This is why most clock out early after finding out they have it I know I would may seem selfish but I can't allow my loved ones suffer as they watch me slowly forget them and wither away😢
There is one more thing that the story shows. Although he had forgotten everything, this old man had not forgotten to show kindness and encouragement. He still carries in his heart how to talk to a pregnant woman, how to comfort her.
And an accompanying diagnosis of Primary Progressive Aphasia (loss of language, both receptive & expressive, & the ability to identify items) takes that to a new level. Even 1 sentence conversations are difficult to impossible.
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine but my dad is gone and I wish I'd still have him even if he forgot who I was but I say that not knowing if that would destroy me in different ways 😢😢😢🫂🫂🫂 I'm so sorry
This is making me ugly cry at 2:03 at night, alone. This must be so painful to have happened to you. I am sorry to anyone whose friends, family or lovers are going through dementia
@@Noodlespug Dementia robs the identity and memories from the patient while it helps to kill the family within because of the loneliness without the physical absence of the loving family member who is the patient. However, you make the best with what you have!
@@robertdalemccollom6250 Here we are again. You criticize others for something you do yourself. Like a little child. And these exclamation marks all the time. Do you also stomp your foot in outrage? Why do many religious people spread so much anger and hatred? If there were a God, he would certainly not like to see this. God does not exist. Believe what you want. You definitely won't convince me otherwise with your aggressiveness.
I have seen this in real life and its horrible and sad . Makes me cry when this happens to people. Not recognizing their own children and family and friends. Its hard to watch this as well this is the reality of dementia
@@JaideCamille-mf1pe actually yes it does cause if that was actually real and I witnessed that I'd probably shed some tears. Since I know it's fake I have no reason to feel sad about it. I'd rather laugh then feel sad about something fictional
I’m in tears, it’s upsetting enough that the dad can’t remember that the lady is his daughter but the thing that got me was how kind he is and how pure his heart is ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I've had a few family members get dementia and they sometimes get bitter and angry(understandably), and sometimes they stay really sweet and kind, and to be honest, the latter is the hardest.
@@sanjivkhare4139 shame 8s a painful feeling of distress. Do you not think that definition fits for the way his daughter might feel? I understand if you need to make yourself feel superior by picking apart vernacular, yet you could have made yourself likeable by understanding the content.
@@emmaelhaag8184 you obviously failed the comprehension portion of your S. A. T. , also. Not having a cure for the disease IS the shame. It causes emotional distress to anyone that has to see a loved one go through this.
Let's be real here, so let's say this is 2023/2024, the story would then be she probably cheated on the father and that's why he's gone and now it's poor her. The truth can hurt for those of you who are going to be offended by a fairy tale
I hope more young men would use protection like birth control pills, Plan B pill the day of sexual activity and require the man to wear a condom everytime. Unless they are married successfully for 7 years with no big fights then only should they try for pregnancy.
I was almost fired because two ladies both claimed I was their husband and had a massive fight , then another lady told matron that I was having an affair with her daughter . Funny how they believe the person with dementia but not her daughter or me. Her daughter always came at afternoon tea and I was the person who delivered the tea.
My great grandfather suffered from vascular dementia for more than 11 years before he eventually passed last year. It was probably one of the most difficult things my family had ever had to go through, and it caused my nan and great nan a great deal of pain.
A beautiful short film explaining the pains of dementia. My Mom has it, too. These patients may seem to have no clue, but inside, they still feel and love. They are still living humans who need LOVE.
I used to work with Alzheimer's and dementia patients. Every day was heartbreaking but it was also so rewarding, knowing I could bring joy and comfort to people who could become scared and confused so easily. I could bring them a few hours of feeling reassured, and that was worth it.
@@heresyisecstasyMy Nana had Alzheimer's and died when I was four so I don't really remember much except that she was beautiful and lived till 82 and my dad started a fundraiser to help people with Alzheimer's
This pops up for me at least a few times a year. I cry every time. It makes me think about my GG. The last time I saw her, she looked at me and asked, "Jeremy?" He's my dad who passed away when I was 4mo. They were extremely close. I do look like the female version of him, though. I couldn't stop thinking that might be the last time I got to see her, and it was. Prayers of strength, healing, and peace for everyone with a loved one suffering from progressive illnesses and diseases. ❤❤❤
Breaks my heart. It so cruel that this man’s mind was stolen from him by dementia while he still has compassion, and love. She has to endure her father not knowing who she is in what should be a very happy time in her life. SO SAD
@Furbix_Sanchez it should still mean just as much the 20th time as it did the first. They don't remember they've told you before so they are just as sincere the 20th time as they were the first. Hopefully you would take it as such. Its not their fault they dont remember. We though are cognitively capable of understanding that and loving them for meaning it still.
Just be thankful you can hear his voice, it may not be how you want him to be. At least he is alive, some don’t have that. They can’t help it, I know it hurts
I remember when I had just had my daughter and my grandma, who was suffering from Alzheimers was visiting. I walked into my daughter's nursery and my grandma was trying to pack her in her suitcase and had tears running down her face. She thought she had found her baby who had died shortly after birth 4o+ years earlier. She had not a clue who I was in the moment. I sat her down gently, removed my 2 week old baby from the suitcase, and put her in grandma's arms ❤ She held her and sang to her for hours ❤
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on which parts of the brain are affected. They are not responsible, though, for forgetting you entirely--no matter how long & loving your relationship was. Even though you know it's coming, it's a terribly difficult day, the first time your loving spouse asks you who you are. And forgets your entire 50 year history. Having to introduce your children to their dad takes some getting used to. 😢
when she said it was just her and her dad the way she did I thought it was a case of either abuse or abandonment. then she says, come on, Dad. " THAT WAS IT! I broke down in front of my dogs . I haven't had that kind of emotional release in27years! 😢
Bro this made me cry it must feel so heart breaking when someone you love someone who raised you someone who means the world to just… forgets about you it’s heartbreaking 💔
This is a cut off so I just do not understand right all. Because I also think he is the baby 's dad, which is awful. If the lady talked more about her husband/partner, there would be no misunderstanding about this short video.
My eyes fill with tears instantly whenever I watch this... I come across this once, whenever I forget about this. But now that I have gained my conscience. I feel like I will never forget this now... This time I forgot about this video. And my eyes started weeping for no reason at all... Even if I rewatch this it gets worse... I'm actually crying while typing this... Why is my feed like this😭 First it shows some useful stuff then entertaining stuff then THIS😭😭😭
Wonderful acting, beautiful job of showing the true emotions of the one who sees it and suffers because OF it and the one who suffers FROM it! What an amazing portrayal of the true face of such a debilitating illness. Her pain and his true kind and gentle spirit still apparent thru everything. Thank you for this.
My wonderful mother-in-law thought my wife who is her oldest daughter was her mother. I believe she looked at me as that friendly guy that wears a hat. The only good thing about her particular situation as she did not become mean and combative. She was considered a level three in a memory care facility. She passed away unexpectedly after being there for less than a year. I miss her terribly.
Wow didn't expect that. That knocked the wind right out of me. My own Dad died recently he had mixed dementia. Broke my heart seeing him drift further away each week. 😪
My grandfather had suffered some really bad dementia before his passing. However when one of my female cousins had a kid, that kid became my grandfather's pride and joy. He forgot literally everyone else, but always remembered the baby, and he held on for nearly a decade more.
I see this every day when I'm at work. I've been working at a Nursing Home for 21 years. It's sad, one day they know you and the next they don't. At least she's taking care of her Dad. Many of these residents get dropped off and you never see the family again.
Nursing homes, for the bedridden or memory impaired, are very sad places. But do remember that many (certainly not all) of the patients who don't get visitors were horrible to th😢eir families. Caregivers often see a gentle side of elders & those who have dementia, that spouses & children never saw. Families of abusive elders don't deserve to have to visit their abuser.
Just because you know them at the end of their lives when they are nice to you doesn't mean you know how they treated other people before that and especially their family behind closed doors. It's rare for children who were loved by their parents to leave them to die alone. Sometimes people go no contact for a reason. I learned this as a fresh nursing graduate moonlighting nights at a nursing home. This old lady was on her way out, she was sweet and kind to me, so when she asked me to do her an important favour I said of course. She got me to contact her daughter and ask for her to please come see her. Just one time. Daughter said no and don't call again unless it was to let her know the old woman was dead. I got a upset at this and called her cruel. Then she let me know how her mom allowed her husband to do things to her in the middle of the night from the age of 6. I got a rightful and deserved tongue lashing. I never went back to that nursing home again.
@@Freya1412people used to say that the people you can trust is mother and father. There is someone at our right side a good angel. And at the left, a wicked angel who provokes us all our lives. Prayer. Make a fist. Close your eyes. And pray our father hallowed be thy name... God will bless you. I am sure. Always remember one thing. People who have endured the worst, the bitter pill to swallow are the ones who will nearest to God. All what God is asking us is trust. I am not perfect as I say. God will protect you. Trust God.
Please stay strong brother, my grandmother and my grandfather die from Alzheimer’s and they were like a parents to me, it’s hard but that how life is and everyone it’s meant to accomplish their destiny, it was weird because when I was starting to get a good profit of money and things like that they got sick and die it’s like they prepared me, watch me doing good and they left me in this world, I fucking miss them so much, i take care of them and it was a honor to me, I definitely would trow away all what I have just to hug them both one more time, I truly hope you find peace and remember the little details of the beautiful moments they give to you and what they sacrifice so you can become the person that you are today, stay safe brother. I don’t know why I’m writing this but sometimes i write in comment sections what I don’t talk in person. I’m sorry if I’m being pity.
@@pedroskivaldesoski389 I totally get you bro Even I don't talk about it in public My father passed away of Parkinson's. It was bad. I hope you feel better after sharing. Stay strong.
The love he carries inside is the reason she will be there for him regardless. That is the love he raised her with. Loving people raise great loving children. How proud he would be of her if he knew.
This makes me tear up everytime. I have taken care of many Alzheimers ppl. The saddness in the children is heart breaking. Especially when they would call me by their kids names .
Dementia/altzheimers is one of the worst disease known to mankind, no pain except for hell is greater than slowly seeing a family member forget everything about you, I love you Oma. ❤️❤️
My grandmother had Alzheimer's. It crushed me when she forgot me. But every once in a while she would look at me and say where's ur sorry Daddy at. Id jump up and say granny u know who I am and she would giggle yes baby. One day she never asked me about my dad I knew it was all gone. I was blessed with her for many yrs she lived to b 94 and my kids got to grow up seeing her loving her. My baby was 9 that was a blessing.
I wish that big pharma allowed people to get better, to be healthy, to cure themselves.. 🤔 but it is all about money and squeezing as much as possible.. patient cured -> customer lost... alzheimer's, dementia, ms, hashimoto and many other so called "modern diseases" can be made better or sometimes even reversed, but then the patient wouldn't be anymore and could become independent - which cannot be allowed.. 🤔🤷♂️☹️
My grandmother also have this and she couldn't even walk now. Soooo😔😔😔😔It's very hard because I know how it is to look after a person like this. Just be healthy and safe everyone. Hope you have a good life time❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
I am literally crying The way she told him dad and he was so confused that just broke my heart i hope in thw future we can discover a cure for Alzheimer's disease ❤
I took care of Seniors who had Alzheimer's and Dementia. They had so much love to give and no one else wanted to take care of them! I miss ALL of them. When they asked about Family who didn't want to care for them; would say, I am your Family now! It rips your heart to watch them deteriorate.
I used to take care of them too, many, many years ago. Yes, most were very sweet or so far into the disease they were nonverbal and did not walk, feed themselves, etc...Then there were the mean ones! Yes, they can get very mean and combative, but it is understandable given their confusion, which must be very frightening.
Explanation:
The lady’s Dad has Alzheimer’s disease making him slowly forget things, memory loss and confusion are the main symptoms.
No cure exists. So he probably forgot that was his daughter and got confused. Hope that helped if u didn’t understand :)
Oh thank you I did not understand🤣
I just realised after watching it 15 times in 2 months 😅 lol 😂
Omg tysm I didn't know what was going on 😂
What the Name I See IT so oft but i don't No what the Name
Ty I didn’t know
Proves he still has a good heart besides forgetting things ❤
The dad has dementia
@@Oeurn_panhavornno dip sherlock
@@hritvikdas2040 ok
@@hritvikdas2040what ur mom doesnt allow u 2 swear online or smth?
@@hritvikdas2040000😅😅I 9😅
If an actor changes your emotion, they did a great job.
@@andrejhudcovsky8670?
@@andrejhudcovsky8670it was also a clip but this is a different verision of this one
Johnny………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………….English.😂😂😂😂
All of the Hp actors made me cry lmno
@@andrejhudcovsky8670its not wtf, its a filter, search de original video
Y'all are making me cry 😭😭😭😭😊
The song made me cry faster 😭
Yeah same 😭😭😭
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Why the 😊
It made me sad 😔 because it's hard for her to take care of dad and take care of her self she thinks when the baby is born she won't be able to do it all but her dad said whatever happens at the end your going to be fine it's like her dad said don't give up you'll make it . Not knowing it was her daughter
As someone whose family member has dementia, this short fcking broke me.
I had three members of my family with the disease, this brought back some bad fu¢king memories and now I'm balling. Always stay in touch with your loved ones.
Me too bruv😢
My grandmother had its the worst thing to happen to a person
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My mom has dementia But we have a very loving family that helps us I'm very appreciative that we have them.
The fact he forgot she was his daughter but still cared that much proves he loves her
No, it proves he's a good person.
Yes so true end is shocking 😢😮
@@akingboluhammedwell, it means he cares about her
The reason why the end is heartbreaking is that maybe he will forget her forever and it would hurt her
That doesn't make sense.
This makes me Cry so hard 💔
He kino sounds like Winnie the Pooh a little bit
I know, me too!😢😢😢😢
This frightens me. I don't want to be lost to my family and still be there...what a burden that is.
Then quit eating sugar.
Alzheimer’s often occurs from:
Over consumption of sugars.
Oxidating your LDL.
Stripping hemoglobin from your red blood cells.
Sticking to Arterie walls.
Hiding place for bacteria.
Makes a calcium home for itself.
OxLDL rams into the calcified walls.
Breaks off in chunks.
Enters the Ganglial space.
Mini aneurisms in the brain.
Forgetfulness.
Then real forgetfulness.
Then loss of self.
The process is known as Arterial sclerosis, and it’s the later stages of sugar poisoning.
Don’t start buying sugar free stuff either. They pump that stuff full of cornmeal, Sucralose, dextrose, rice starches, soybean oil, and all sorts of other nasty stuff.
Eat more things you cook yourself.
Look up oxidization rates of oils.
Stop it with the pile of rice
Stop it with the 4 dinner rolls.
Stop juicing fruits, turning them into liquid Fructose to DESTROY your red blood cells at 10x the rate.
As someone with bad memory who is incapable of remembering most things but not in a way that it terribly affects my life, I have no attachments to the past. As long as you can do everything you can for the present moment, it means the world and it teaches you to appreciate the present and what it has to offer even during the harder times. Sometimes it can bring the most precious moments that can mean so much more than they do for the average person. This is for everyone involved. It's just having to rewire your brain to make the best of the situation. It can hurt, but great things can come from it.
It's not a Burden, I took care of my mother when she sometimes forgets everything, yeah I left my job for her waking up late nights ... Now when she's gone, my heart feels good that yeah I had done something good which I expect from my kids and I have a strong belief that yes they will take care of me
@@barbarashaw5604 the burden also has good. My dear husband doesn't really know who I am, just that I belong here. When we sit on the couch, watching t.v., I experience genuine joy, just looking at him. I can still hug him.
I know it's going to get harder. Much harder. But today, I can still see & touch my highschool sweetheart, & lifelong love. I work hard at staying in today. Projecting will ruin what I have today, & it won't stop the bad things to come. I'm prudent, & take necessary steps, but try to turn off maudlin when it starts.
This is why most clock out early after finding out they have it I know I would may seem selfish but I can't allow my loved ones suffer as they watch me slowly forget them and wither away😢
There is one more thing that the story shows.
Although he had forgotten everything, this old man had not forgotten to show kindness and encouragement.
He still carries in his heart how to talk to a pregnant woman, how to comfort her.
True ❤
No disease can take off your pure soul n warm heart
Well Alzheimer can. Some persons turn aggressive. So this guy is lucky.
That's sweet of him. He is kind even in sickness.
Your absolutely right. I didn't think of it this way. He's been a good man. Freaking sad man.
I lost both parents when I was 27. They were 57 and 61. I wish they had lived long enough to get Alzheimers! This year I will turn 74.
The ending made me cry when she said "Dad come on"
The "stranger talk" when they don't recognize you anymore is hell.
And an accompanying diagnosis of Primary Progressive Aphasia (loss of language, both receptive & expressive, & the ability to identify items) takes that to a new level. Even 1 sentence conversations are difficult to impossible.
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine but my dad is gone and I wish I'd still have him even if he forgot who I was but I say that not knowing if that would destroy me in different ways 😢😢😢🫂🫂🫂 I'm so sorry
This is making me ugly cry at 2:03 at night, alone. This must be so painful to have happened to you. I am sorry to anyone whose friends, family or lovers are going through dementia
@@Noodlespug Dementia robs the identity and memories from the patient while it helps to kill the family within because of the loneliness without the physical absence of the loving family member who is the patient. However, you make the best with what you have!
please don't say bad words
The "youll manage- everybody does". This has changed my life. This one quote that was said that came up on a random video on a random day.
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Hats off to the writer who conceived this scene
he looks like the sweetest man to exist
edit: omg I didn't even know how many likes there were. thank you lol :)
It's fake.
ik but still
@@Savannah10990 Did you taste him?
@@Alejuandro.6500.🤨
@@Alejuandro.6500.Ayooo
Watching it for the second time hits different.
Indeed.
I watched it twice to..so sad..
@Aesthetic_SlayMochi Cause he watched it twice💀💀
Omg I watch some of ur yt vids ❤❤
Yes
قال تعالى (ومنكم من يرد الى ارذل العمر لكي لا يعلم بعد علم شيئًا)
For those who wondering it's a short film called "the wait".
How can u watch it??
I mistakenly responded to you instead of the person who wrote that it was an advertisement, sorry. (he deleted his comment)@@taycharb6856
Thanks.
Yeah I was looking for this comment. This looks like a shit AI rendering of it.
@@fishyfishyyi thought i had suddenly taken shrooms loll
Even though he can’t remember things, his heart is still pure! Wow!😢
Yes & I really like his wisdom that he still has. God bless her shattered heart ❤️ God bless everyone how has this Alzhimers & their families 🙏🤲🕊✝️😇
@tascha9884 stop telling people what they can believe in or not believe in! And mind you're own business!
@tascha9884 Well that's what you are doing, trying to tell people what to believe or believe. You don't like it when someone does that to you do ya!
@@robertdalemccollom6250 Here we are again. You criticize others for something you do yourself. Like a little child. And these exclamation marks all the time. Do you also stomp your foot in outrage? Why do many religious people spread so much anger and hatred? If there were a God, he would certainly not like to see this. God does not exist. Believe what you want. You definitely won't convince me otherwise with your aggressiveness.
@@robertdalemccollom6250 buhu, Sir. Please tell me what I have to do🤣🤣🤣
Excellent writing. Didn't see the plot twist coming. Shows that only a few words are necessary to produce a moving short story.
I have seen this in real life and its horrible and sad . Makes me cry when this happens to people. Not recognizing their own children and family and friends. Its hard to watch this as well this is the reality of dementia
It was also encouraging that even in his illness he is a supportive person showing compassion, and that is something for a daughter to be proud of 😊
You know this isn't actually real right.
Unknown compassion.
@@duarteduarte3649no shit Sherlock doesn’t make it any less heartwarming.
@@JaideCamille-mf1pe actually yes it does cause if that was actually real and I witnessed that I'd probably shed some tears. Since I know it's fake I have no reason to feel sad about it. I'd rather laugh then feel sad about something fictional
@@duarteduarte3649yk similar things to these happen right?
I’m in tears, it’s upsetting enough that the dad can’t remember that the lady is his daughter but the thing that got me was how kind he is and how pure his heart is ❤❤❤❤❤❤
How sad but lovely❤😅
If there was a funny music instead of a sad music, people would comment, 'I am dying 💀'
And all that
I've had a few family members get dementia and they sometimes get bitter and angry(understandably), and sometimes they stay really sweet and kind, and to be honest, the latter is the hardest.
@@ProDuo9000no....you are INSENSITIVE...YOU ARE SO WRONG.
Very sad, Granddad. Heal him, Jesus! Amen!
She's such a caring daughter the dad is lucky to have her😊
She's lucky to have him too.
This is so sad🥺❤
His brain might forget that she is his daughter, but the way he was giving her advice shows his heart is still her dad
Beautiful!!!! Yr words say that u have a beautiful heart too!!!
It takes one to know one..god bless u.
It's a shame that that man can't remember how great he is. It's comforting to know that she will never forget.
She might
why is it shame? it could be sad..why shame?
@@sanjivkhare4139 shame 8s a painful feeling of distress. Do you not think that definition fits for the way his daughter might feel? I understand if you need to make yourself feel superior by picking apart vernacular, yet you could have made yourself likeable by understanding the content.
It's a disease, not a shame.
@@emmaelhaag8184 you obviously failed the comprehension portion of your S. A. T. , also.
Not having a cure for the disease IS the shame. It causes emotional distress to anyone that has to see a loved one go through this.
Dementia really hits hard when you know that your love ones don’t remember you anymore 😢
It's actually Alzheimer's. But yeah, it does hit hard. I know by experience from my great grandfather 😔
@@SlowDreams1 It is SUNDOWNING!!!! Both correct!
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my father 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
It’s Alzheimer’s. That’s when you forget things. Dementia is living in your own world in your head.
I’m literally crying and I can’t stop rewatching this 😢😢😭😭😭
He is so nice even though he doesn’t remember god bless people like him and him❤
The moment your realize he's her father 😢😢
Yeah 😢😢😢
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No tf she is not read the explanation it’s top comment
This one always gets me. I am just beyond understanding of how she feels. So exhausted, sad, lonely! 😢 I hope she can find joy and help!
He & She are actors ... and apparently good ones. G O D BLESS YOU !!!
And I hope you know that it's just acting i.e A film ⁉️‼️🤔🤔
Omg I know the feeling. 😢😢😢
Last time I talked to my mom (she has dementia) I told her "I love u " she said "ok". 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Let's be real here, so let's say this is 2023/2024, the story would then be she probably cheated on the father and that's why he's gone and now it's poor her. The truth can hurt for those of you who are going to be offended by a fairy tale
I hope more young men would use protection like birth control pills, Plan B pill the day of sexual activity and require the man to wear a condom everytime. Unless they are married successfully for 7 years with no big fights then only should they try for pregnancy.
I always cry at these 😢
Dementia is a cold mf I’ve had residents do this same thing❤ all love for the families with parents that have to endure this🙌
I was almost fired because two ladies both claimed I was their husband and had a massive fight , then another lady told matron that I was having an affair with her daughter . Funny how they believe the person with dementia but not her daughter or me. Her daughter always came at afternoon tea and I was the person who delivered the tea.
My great grandfather suffered from vascular dementia for more than 11 years before he eventually passed last year. It was probably one of the most difficult things my family had ever had to go through, and it caused my nan and great nan a great deal of pain.
It's good to see that he still comforts his daughter even if he doesn't know it's his daughter
Even if he has memory lose he still have a golden heart💛💛💛😭
As a Caregiver myself i can tell his a good dad ❤
But you couldn't tell he's an actor?😂
Increasing number of TH-cam viewers fail to recognise the absence of reality in so many videos. Scary.
A beautiful short film explaining the pains of dementia. My Mom has it, too. These patients may seem to have no clue, but inside, they still feel and love. They are still living humans who need LOVE.
I used to work with Alzheimer's and dementia patients. Every day was heartbreaking but it was also so rewarding, knowing I could bring joy and comfort to people who could become scared and confused so easily. I could bring them a few hours of feeling reassured, and that was worth it.
My grandad has it he forgets nearly everything and it’s really said he is also got epilepsy
@@heresyisecstasyMy Nana had Alzheimer's and died when I was four so I don't really remember much except that she was beautiful and lived till 82 and my dad started a fundraiser to help people with Alzheimer's
For people who dont understand
Her dad is sick which makes him forget stuff so he forgot about his daughter
It's called dementia blud
Alzheimer’s*
@@kevr8889its called alzheimer’s blud
poor guy
No one misunderstood bro
This pops up for me at least a few times a year. I cry every time.
It makes me think about my GG. The last time I saw her, she looked at me and asked, "Jeremy?" He's my dad who passed away when I was 4mo. They were extremely close. I do look like the female version of him, though.
I couldn't stop thinking that might be the last time I got to see her, and it was.
Prayers of strength, healing, and peace for everyone with a loved one suffering from progressive illnesses and diseases. ❤❤❤
When she says “dad ,come on” I felt that💔
Breaks my heart. It so cruel that this man’s mind was stolen from him by dementia while he still has compassion, and love. She has to endure her father not knowing who she is in what should be a very happy time in her life. SO SAD
This is so sad 😞 the fathers face at the end was so sad
I felt that so much because my father passed away last year of stage 4 lung cancer and I couldn't forgive myself for that
A father of yours forgets who u are... It hurts badly
Oh goodness... he has such a kind heart, I know he doesnt remember who she is but shes lucky to have him
The fact that he was still being a father to her even after forgetting her
I understand how she feels. My grandma has dementia too, and it's so heartbreaking😭
Even though he didn't recognize her, I'm sure it was good hearing that from her dad😢❤.
@Furbix_Sanchez it should still mean just as much the 20th time as it did the first. They don't remember they've told you before so they are just as sincere the 20th time as they were the first. Hopefully you would take it as such. Its not their fault they dont remember. We though are cognitively capable of understanding that and loving them for meaning it still.
Just be thankful you can hear his voice, it may not be how you want him to be. At least he is alive, some don’t have that. They can’t help it, I know it hurts
He may be not remember you, but he never forget his resposibility... Calming his daughter... Amazing scene...
I remember when I had just had my daughter and my grandma, who was suffering from Alzheimers was visiting. I walked into my daughter's nursery and my grandma was trying to pack her in her suitcase and had tears running down her face. She thought she had found her baby who had died shortly after birth 4o+ years earlier. She had not a clue who I was in the moment. I sat her down gently, removed my 2 week old baby from the suitcase, and put her in grandma's arms ❤ She held her and sang to her for hours ❤
Wow, that's big. People carry so much emotion. I've seen incredible 3D printed dolls in nursing homes for the same reason.
What a beautiful story.
How hard that had to be for you. Bless your heart.
God, I feel like crying. This is so sad. 😢😢😢
They might not remember who you are but there beautiful soul is still inside and they still know how to show love kindness and compassion.
Sometimes yes, sometimes no. It depends on which parts of the brain are affected. They are not responsible, though, for forgetting you entirely--no matter how long & loving your relationship was. Even though you know it's coming, it's a terribly difficult day, the first time your loving spouse asks you who you are. And forgets your entire 50 year history. Having to introduce your children to their dad takes some getting used to. 😢
I did not expect that ending. It knocked me out! So tragic what this disease does to people.
when she said it was just her and her dad the way she did I thought it was a case of either abuse or abandonment. then she says, come on, Dad. " THAT WAS IT! I broke down in front of my dogs . I haven't had that kind of emotional release in27years! 😢
I lived it. My mom forgot who I was aswel. This disease sucks. She passed away 3weeks before her 65th birthday 😢😢
Well done! Well written!
Bro this made me cry it must feel so heart breaking when someone you love someone who raised you someone who means the world to just… forgets about you it’s heartbreaking 💔
It proves that her dad is a good person even when he forgets her he still has a good heart ❤️ 😊❤
That emotion kills me whenever I saw it. Sad but full hearted kindness😢❤❤❤.
I've seen this video many a times and everytime it brings out loads of emotions. Love the way they've made this video.💖💖💖
Yeah 😢💗
This is a cut off so I just do not understand right all. Because I also think he is the baby 's dad, which is awful. If the lady talked more about her husband/partner, there would be no misunderstanding about this short video.
@@maiho9112 How did you come to conclusions that the old man is the baby's dad??? That's messed up thinking. The lady clearly calls him "Dad".
Omg I’m crying so hard 😢😭😭😭😭 that is so sad 😞
What an amazing story. The love he has for her, even when he doesn’t remember who she is, the care in his voice, I’m sure he is a great father ♥️
It's not real. They are just acting. 😂
THIS EXACT SAME THING HAPPENS IN REAL LIFE ASWELL ! ..
This is soooo good omggg!! Your so underrated!
Awww Tysm ❤️❤️❤️
Yw! Can I be pinned? 💞
@@AudIsOdd1 ofc! ❤️
Thank you!
@@AudIsOdd1 algd :)
Hang on to your loved ones even when they start to disappear. This disease is really hard on everyone involved.
My eyes fill with tears instantly whenever I watch this...
I come across this once, whenever I forget about this. But now that I have gained my conscience. I feel like I will never forget this now...
This time I forgot about this video. And my eyes started weeping for no reason at all...
Even if I rewatch this it gets worse...
I'm actually crying while typing this...
Why is my feed like this😭
First it shows some useful stuff then entertaining stuff then THIS😭😭😭
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I did not expect that
Same lol it’s kinda sad
Me neither
I seen this before and still forgot 😭
Is this a series or movie ??
@@tanishkakalgutkarit’s a short film called The Wait 2018
Wonderful acting, beautiful job of showing the true emotions of the one who sees it and suffers because OF it and the one who suffers FROM it! What an amazing portrayal of the true face of such a debilitating illness. Her pain and his true kind and gentle spirit still apparent thru everything. Thank you for this.
It's AI.
My wonderful mother-in-law thought my wife who is her oldest daughter was her mother. I believe she looked at me as that friendly guy that wears a hat. The only good thing about her particular situation as she did not become mean and combative. She was considered a level three in a memory care facility. She passed away unexpectedly after being there for less than a year. I miss her terribly.
Oh my goodness I don’t know what to say I’m so sorry 😞 you are so brave for going through that ❤ may God be with you ❤️😢
I just looked in the comments and we got week long sentences
@@staceyroberts5863 You’re a strange one Mr. Grinch. Most people who know you wish they didn’t.
What movie is it?
@@staceyroberts5863bro it takes less then a minute to read
Omg that made me so sad bro 😭
This made me cry so hard
Cap and wtf how the fuck made u cry
@HELLO_BYE734 kiddo go fix your grammar I already lost 5 brain cells
@HELLO_BYE734 do you have a heart?
@@Vamp1rizm yes
@@Doggystyle747 no you don't
this just proves that his a great person
Be sure and tell your baby while growing up many sweet
memories of this sweet grandfather.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Wow didn't expect that. That knocked the wind right out of me. My own Dad died recently he had mixed dementia. Broke my heart seeing him drift further away each week. 😪
My grandfather had suffered some really bad dementia before his passing. However when one of my female cousins had a kid, that kid became my grandfather's pride and joy.
He forgot literally everyone else, but always remembered the baby, and he held on for nearly a decade more.
His face mad me cry ❤
I see this every day when I'm at work. I've been working at a Nursing Home for 21 years. It's sad, one day they know you and the next they don't. At least she's taking care of her Dad. Many of these residents get dropped off and you never see the family again.
Nursing homes, for the bedridden or memory impaired, are very sad places. But do remember that many (certainly not all) of the patients who don't get visitors were horrible to th😢eir families. Caregivers often see a gentle side of elders & those who have dementia, that spouses & children never saw. Families of abusive elders don't deserve to have to visit their abuser.
Just because you know them at the end of their lives when they are nice to you doesn't mean you know how they treated other people before that and especially their family behind closed doors. It's rare for children who were loved by their parents to leave them to die alone. Sometimes people go no contact for a reason. I learned this as a fresh nursing graduate moonlighting nights at a nursing home. This old lady was on her way out, she was sweet and kind to me, so when she asked me to do her an important favour I said of course. She got me to contact her daughter and ask for her to please come see her. Just one time. Daughter said no and don't call again unless it was to let her know the old woman was dead. I got a upset at this and called her cruel. Then she let me know how her mom allowed her husband to do things to her in the middle of the night from the age of 6. I got a rightful and deserved tongue lashing. I never went back to that nursing home again.
@@Freya1412people used to say that the people you can trust is mother and father. There is someone at our right side a good angel. And at the left, a wicked angel who provokes us all our lives. Prayer. Make a fist. Close your eyes. And pray our father hallowed be thy name... God will bless you. I am sure. Always remember one thing. People who have endured the worst, the bitter pill to swallow are the ones who will nearest to God. All what God is asking us is trust. I am not perfect as I say. God will protect you. Trust God.
@@georgeray649Trust the one who knowingly put you here specifically to put you through that.
That's a poor way to develop trust.
I watched this more than 5 times , everytime I cries 🥺😭 He is a pure soul❤️🩹
I'm going through those moments with my Dad.
It's sad what happens.....but I'm grateful he's not in pain.
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I so relate with you bro
A better place they're in ❤
Please stay strong brother, my grandmother and my grandfather die from Alzheimer’s and they were like a parents to me, it’s hard but that how life is and everyone it’s meant to accomplish their destiny, it was weird because when I was starting to get a good profit of money and things like that they got sick and die it’s like they prepared me, watch me doing good and they left me in this world, I fucking miss them so much, i take care of them and it was a honor to me, I definitely would trow away all what I have just to hug them both one more time, I truly hope you find peace and remember the little details of the beautiful moments they give to you and what they sacrifice so you can become the person that you are today, stay safe brother. I don’t know why I’m writing this but sometimes i write in comment sections what I don’t talk in person. I’m sorry if I’m being pity.
@@pedroskivaldesoski389 I totally get you bro
Even I don't talk about it in public
My father passed away of Parkinson's. It was bad. I hope you feel better after sharing. Stay strong.
Lots of love & prayers from me to all of you in this conversation thread.
A good man no matter how lost he is will always see the light in his own breath
This made me cry. I lost my dad to cancer and he lost his memories and didn't know me sometimes but I wouldn't give up. I took care of him with 5 kids
Great 👏👏👏👏 may God bless You🤲.
He seems so niceeee❤❤❤❤
The love he carries inside is the reason she will be there for him regardless.
That is the love he raised her with.
Loving people raise great loving children.
How proud he would be of her if he knew.
This makes me tear up everytime. I have taken care of many Alzheimers ppl. The saddness in the children is heart breaking. Especially when they would call me by their kids names .
Dementia/altzheimers is one of the worst disease known to mankind, no pain except for hell is greater than slowly seeing a family member forget everything about you, I love you Oma. ❤️❤️
My grandmother had Alzheimer's. It crushed me when she forgot me. But every once in a while she would look at me and say where's ur sorry Daddy at. Id jump up and say granny u know who I am and she would giggle yes baby. One day she never asked me about my dad I knew it was all gone. I was blessed with her for many yrs she lived to b 94 and my kids got to grow up seeing her loving her. My baby was 9 that was a blessing.
My great uncle got dementia after world War 2 and its getting really bad
I wish that big pharma allowed people to get better, to be healthy, to cure themselves.. 🤔
but it is all about money and squeezing as much as possible..
patient cured -> customer lost...
alzheimer's, dementia, ms, hashimoto and many other so called "modern diseases" can be made better or sometimes even reversed, but then the patient wouldn't be anymore and could become independent - which cannot be allowed.. 🤔🤷♂️☹️
I’m gonna cry bro this is so heartbreaking 💔
Long as you take care of your Dad, God will take care of you two
Her being kind and taking is everything
Maybe His Memories Died
But the Humanity in his Soul is still Alive Everybody Does...😔
He had a memory loss disease like my grandad he can’t remember how to speak or even walk
Wow... 😢❤
My grandmother also have this and she couldn't even walk now. Soooo😔😔😔😔It's very hard because I know how it is to look after a person like this. Just be healthy and safe everyone. Hope you have a good life time❤❤❤❤😊😊😊
Bless the people out there going through anything like this ❤
He still has a good heart
The end hited me hard
my father has this, he’s not this far along yet but he will be, it sucks being only 18 and that happened.
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Listen bro God said he hasn't created any disease without a cure! except death.
So, if he isnt dead then FIND THE CURE!
@Fawad06❤
This made me cry like full 5 minutes...
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Don’t cry
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@@InnoMaxDynamics ty😊
@@InnoMaxDynamics ty😊
Thank you for this video!! Brings memories. No pun intended just true
Wow
How beautiful
The man is sick but offers so much courage to his daughter. ❤❤❤❤
Beautifully done. Very poignant. I feel like tearing up.
I am literally crying
The way she told him dad and he was so confused that just broke my heart i hope in thw future we can discover a cure for Alzheimer's disease ❤
That was Beautiful ❤😢
Oh my goodness, that took my breath. Painful, sad yet beautiful
I took care of Seniors who had Alzheimer's and Dementia. They had so much love to give and no one else wanted to take care of them! I miss ALL of them. When they asked about Family who didn't want to care for them; would say, I am your Family now! It rips your heart to watch them deteriorate.
God bless U sir 🙌for what you do for them ❤️
I used to take care of them too, many, many years ago. Yes, most were very sweet or so far into the disease they were nonverbal and did not walk, feed themselves, etc...Then there were the mean ones! Yes, they can get very mean and combative, but it is understandable given their confusion, which must be very frightening.