r/NotLikeOtherGirls - ”My Body, His Choice”

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  • @cattheace17
    @cattheace17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2521

    so sick of the whole “your body my choice” thing, someone tell these people to let women live ffs 🤦‍♀️

    • @rebeccamount50
      @rebeccamount50 วันที่ผ่านมา +204

      It's gonna get worse over he next four years.

    • @Alphaismyname
      @Alphaismyname วันที่ผ่านมา +92

      @@rebeccamount50fr, sadly :/

    • @LittleMaitea
      @LittleMaitea วันที่ผ่านมา +111

      @@rebeccamount50… or more if the orange gets his dictator fantasies thru …
      I hope not
      But i fear it

    • @griffitsbatmansuit
      @griffitsbatmansuit วันที่ผ่านมา +51

      I can just pray for America at this point

    • @Eric-md3mp
      @Eric-md3mp วันที่ผ่านมา +157

      Anybody saying it is a wannabe rapist and should be treated accordingly

  • @Ecofriendlyant
    @Ecofriendlyant วันที่ผ่านมา +3037

    I can't imagine the amount of trans guys that have gone through the not like other girls phase just to realize that they were men....

    • @ankebosing1968
      @ankebosing1968 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Or butch lesbians

    • @ten6446
      @ten6446 วันที่ผ่านมา +498

      I was one of them lol it took me so long to grow out of it. I realised I didn’t hate feminine coded things I just hated that those things made people think I was a girl

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick วันที่ผ่านมา +347

      My pipeline went "I;m not like other girls ... I'm a tom-... oh... I'm agender."

    • @DinosaurNick
      @DinosaurNick วันที่ผ่านมา +111

      @@ten6446 That is exactly how I feel as an agender person!

    • @TheDopekitty
      @TheDopekitty วันที่ผ่านมา +85

      For real! My not like other girls phase lasted for 30+ years!

  • @Jonilo123
    @Jonilo123 วันที่ผ่านมา +1571

    I saw this exihibition with the clothes from SA-Victims. Most of them were everyday clothes. What left me in tears was a wedding gown and a floral dress of a 4 year old girl.
    I read your answers. So many victims! I am deeply sorry, what happend to you. Schools have to stopp teaching girls to cover up. Instead they have to teach to respect bounderies. That goes both ways. Do not forget: Boys and men also can be victims!!
    VICTIM.SHAMING.IS.THE.WORST.

    • @R-PGamerKing
      @R-PGamerKing วันที่ผ่านมา +150

      what the actual flip is wrong with people

    • @nola281
      @nola281 วันที่ผ่านมา +257

      It doesn't matter what you wear, creeps are everywhere. It's not about what you wear, it's all power and control.

    • @minestar2247
      @minestar2247 วันที่ผ่านมา +97

      Yeah, truly unhinged and sadly normalized
      Changing that would require a social change though

    • @minestar2247
      @minestar2247 วันที่ผ่านมา +63

      ​@@R-PGamerKingsome people are just like that, they are not fit for society and aren't taught or punished accordingly

    • @JustAPasserby-e6z
      @JustAPasserby-e6z วันที่ผ่านมา +57

      I've heard of it. It brings me to tears knowing that you could drag someone who uses the opportunity to stomp down on those who have been victimized by going on entirely preformative "moral" crusades and condemnations about manner of dress, or "provocative" conversation, or any number of convoluted arcane "signals" that have to be interpreted in very specific logic defying ways where doing the opposite also signals the same thing premeditated predators take as an "invitation" mid-self-serving-sermon and force them to explain what was wrong with each one and they'd be back to their preaching as soon as they felt properly avenged against how their rights were violated by being forced to be in an uncomfortable situation they were prevented from escaping.

  • @julietterousselet7164
    @julietterousselet7164 วันที่ผ่านมา +818

    "she was dresssing up for tips so she probably wanted to be SA'ed" is probably one of he most stupid thing one could say as the actual reason she is dressing up IS LITERALLY IN THE BEGGINING OF THE SENTENCE

    • @tripolarmdisorder7696
      @tripolarmdisorder7696 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

      I agree with you. That commenter was sick, like torturing puppies with acid, sick.

    • @seigeengine
      @seigeengine วันที่ผ่านมา +49

      It's also absurd. She's a gd child.
      If you try to blame a child for being SA'd by a 50 year old, you need percussive maintenance.

    • @badcaseofstripes
      @badcaseofstripes วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Yeah that's crazy. She thinks she was secretly lying about doing it for tips, but like why would anyone ever lie about that? Yeah I wear this tight shirt because I make 50% more in tips a night if I do. Not that I secretly want to get assaulted WTF??

    • @Gormathius
      @Gormathius วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I saw some old guy trying to get rich off a fruit machine. He probably wanted to be in debt.

    • @TheRedPharmacist
      @TheRedPharmacist วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Yea, and ppl in suits wanna get robbed because they dressed fancy/rich for work.

  • @GretlUnicorn
    @GretlUnicorn วันที่ผ่านมา +1215

    To spread some good vibes, here's a fun fact: Otters often hold paws when they sleep on the river so they don't lose each other!

    • @ThingInTheHall
      @ThingInTheHall วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      :D

    • @R-PGamerKing
      @R-PGamerKing วันที่ผ่านมา +17

      Thanks homie

    • @minestar2247
      @minestar2247 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      So cute, spread the good vibes

    • @CoilCannon
      @CoilCannon วันที่ผ่านมา +27

      I’m pretty sure they have favorite rocks too, and I think they gift each other rocks as well if I remember correctly.

    • @Antifearn
      @Antifearn วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      @@CoilCannonJust like how penguins use shiny pebbles to find mates?

  • @AnnoyingSquib
    @AnnoyingSquib วันที่ผ่านมา +261

    I think these "Pick me" girls don't realize that men aren't the only ones that are capable of being misogynistic.

    • @YourWaywardDestiny
      @YourWaywardDestiny วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      No, they're aware. What they're not aware of is it isn't a rule of living, anyone can opt out of misogynistic behavior at any time and for any reason.

  • @Blake-ij4kw
    @Blake-ij4kw วันที่ผ่านมา +582

    A lot of these girls really confuse me especially those who dislike feminism.
    'I want to be a stay at home mum'
    BRILLIANT! I love that for you.!!
    'I'm not a feminist'
    Feminism just means that you have the opportunity to make that choice and have support in whatever you decide. So I just don't understand why women dislike or even hate feminism.

    • @Blake-ij4kw
      @Blake-ij4kw วันที่ผ่านมา +116

      It's a SUPER weird misconception.
      Feminism isn't telling you that you HAVE to be something. It says that you have the OPTION and can decide for yourself what you want to be/do.

    • @ThingInTheHall
      @ThingInTheHall วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Conspiracy theory: Those are created by angry men to make sure feminism is painted as evil so they can still date

    • @dabbacchio9787
      @dabbacchio9787 วันที่ผ่านมา +79

      The conversation ends fast when I'm told this
      "-I'm anti feminist and I think (...)
      -fine who allowed you to have an opinion and to share it tho"

    • @skeletonwarlock5741
      @skeletonwarlock5741 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Misunderstanding what feminism is?

    • @teritt
      @teritt วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because they don’t understand that feminism was literally a fight against commercialized sex slavery for women.
      People don’t realize that women back then were literally a _type_ of slave. Their labor was that of a nanny, a maid, and a sex slave, their owners their fathers and husbands.
      Do you know why feminism finally picked up in America after segregation?
      It’s because black men gained voting rights before white women did.
      Slavery was obviously much worse for black people in America (because America was the first to treat black slaves as non-human) but if you look at how women and slightly more favored slaves were treated, it’s not at all that different.

  • @grimdarkmalarkey5402
    @grimdarkmalarkey5402 วันที่ผ่านมา +170

    I'm not like other girls because all humans are unique individuals, and there's no monolith of girlhood for me to quirkily defy.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Amen!

    • @KacperSobierajVargskeletor5421
      @KacperSobierajVargskeletor5421 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      “Agreed, this is 100% true, I’m not like other living entities because the human beings in this world are such interesting creatures, they all are wacky and crazy and funny in their own original ways, and we cartoons, a specific demographic in their species are practically the same and equally as cool! We’re wacky, we’re toony, we’re just a little loony, and here in this cartoony, we’re invading’ your TV! There is no monolith for life on earth to follow, that goes against all science and biology, right, Wakko Warner? See, they all agree! Life can be so much fun when you don’t give a damn what other people think. Take it from me, your favorite light blue rabbit, Buster Bunny from Tiny Toon Adventures! See ya around when the next episode is released! And remember, be yourself unapologetically! Right, see ya!”
      - Buster Bunny quoting the speech of Hoops And Yoyo from Nintendo SpaceWorld 2004’s stage performance as a way of agreeing with you, 2024.

  • @artheenbyrogue804
    @artheenbyrogue804 วันที่ผ่านมา +369

    5:40 I thought it was gonna be a trans guy thing 😭 like "my mom thought she was raising a princess, turns out she's raising a prince". So much for wholesome vibes.

    • @Kenghym
      @Kenghym วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      @@artheenbyrogue804 might still get there. You never know. Lots of transmasc folks edge their way forward over the gender spectrum and go through that phase along the way.

    • @artheenbyrogue804
      @artheenbyrogue804 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @Kenghym very true, I was like that too lmao. Maybe this person will come to a realization, we'll never know.

    • @myheartismadeofstars
      @myheartismadeofstars วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      ​@@Kenghymme as a child: "I'm not like other girls"
      Me as an adult: +frilly dresses, pink, toys, etc+
      My fiance as a child: "I'm not like other girls!"
      Fiance as a teen: +chill but getting into makeup and enjoys dresses+
      Fiance as an adult: "I am not a girl"
      Lmao I always laugh when I remember that we went from a sorta butch/femme couple to a feminine woman/masculine man relationship

    • @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer
      @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      ​@@myheartismadeofstars cuuuuuuuuuute ❤

    • @myheartismadeofstars
      @myheartismadeofstars วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@CasualVFlowerEnjoyer I'm glad you think our relationship is so cute!! Maybe you'd like to know that we met when we were 11/12 and started dating when we were in highschool. Been together ever since (14 years come April)

  • @williamepler2901
    @williamepler2901 วันที่ผ่านมา +401

    the first time i heard "pick me girls", i heard it as "pygmy girls", and thought they were just small women. it confused me greatly

    • @henrikemangelsdorf2868
      @henrikemangelsdorf2868 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      The best category of pick me girls😂

    • @f1mbultyr
      @f1mbultyr วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      Ah, the English language an its homophones… But remember, it always "could of been worst" or something

    • @HazooToo
      @HazooToo วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wish I had a pygmy girl. I would buy her a tiny saddle, so she could ride my cats.

    • @pageclayton6850
      @pageclayton6850 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Little Women moment

    • @Lunexxtastisch
      @Lunexxtastisch 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      Happens to me everytime it gets first mentioned in a video. 😂

  • @Random_panda12
    @Random_panda12 วันที่ผ่านมา +772

    3:33 click in full on knight cosplay and an unkempt blond wig saying “Yass queen you tell them basic birches” is something I never knew I needed 💀
    Edit: 3:55 and a beanie apparently 💀💀💀
    Edit 2: 4:31 we Stan the pixel shades

    • @stephanybrown3226
      @stephanybrown3226 วันที่ผ่านมา +36

      It kept getting more unhinged and we are here for itb😂

    • @Streetcleanergaming
      @Streetcleanergaming วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Pixel shades my beloved
      Preventing death by living on 0HP is just too good

    • @contra1124
      @contra1124 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      He probably can't see with those shades and that's why he hit his mic with the sword 😂

    • @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose
      @Bethsabee_Sheba_Newrose วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      He nearly unalived Mic-hael 🎤

    • @rebny7801
      @rebny7801 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I took a screenshot!

  • @Arct1c.x.F0x
    @Arct1c.x.F0x วันที่ผ่านมา +744

    Political “Not like other girls” is the worst subcategory of “not like other girls” in my opinion

    • @shinymainespoon
      @shinymainespoon วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      It's truly the Women Voting For Leopards Eating Women's Faces club. And the fact that it's ALWAYS religion-motivated makes me very upset

    • @SomeF3lla
      @SomeF3lla วันที่ผ่านมา +82

      Honestly, the political subcategory is always the worst subcategory in everything.

    • @porkiipahfahh
      @porkiipahfahh วันที่ผ่านมา +71

      no britney ur not quirky for stripping your rights and every other girl's rights away

    • @MirandaPantel
      @MirandaPantel วันที่ผ่านมา +26

      "Not like other categories"

    • @baraness24
      @baraness24 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

      "I'm not like other girls, I LIKE being property of the state! 🤪"

  • @courtneybermack
    @courtneybermack วันที่ผ่านมา +200

    "being a stray at home Mom isn't so hard!" Life is relative. SAHP is a dream for some people and a miserable hellscape for others, but it's never easy. Spend three hours with a five year old who keeps changing the rules to go fish because they don't want to lose and see if you maintain your sense of child-like wonder. Spend five hours in meetings where you're constantly talked over and every idea you have is ignored until a man repeats it and see if you dream of sitting on the couch with a baby spitting up on you. At least that can't be done over email, amirite?

    • @eaweareeacosa1878
      @eaweareeacosa1878 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      I would love to be a sahm but I also like having money so… off to work I go 😢
      If only we could all just be independently wealthy 😂

    • @claida339
      @claida339 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      I just love how you said "stray" at home mom because it implies that you are going feral and frankly I would to if I had kids 😂

    • @danieltilson4053
      @danieltilson4053 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

      @@claida339 The domestic housewife implies the existence of the feral housewife.

    • @xejelah
      @xejelah วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@claida339 I just assumed she meant homeless - when you don't have a home, your home can be anywhere.

    • @ArchmageIlmryn
      @ArchmageIlmryn 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@eaweareeacosa1878 TBH I think that is a substantial portion of why people romanticize the "tradwife" life. (At least the ones that genuinely do and aren't just making fetish content pandering to weird dudes.) They see it as an escape from capitalism, as though going back in time on women's rights would somehow magically give men enough money that the majority could support a housewife.

  • @OneToxicPixel
    @OneToxicPixel วันที่ผ่านมา +147

    Wearing crocs around a horse is insanely stupid. I used to do some horseback riding myself as a kid. As part of that I also had to take proper care of the horse. I was wearing proper boots. Got a bit to close to the horse. Dude stepped on my foot. Not even like fully stepped on it, he gently put his hoof on my foot but when he realized he wasn't standing on the ground, he was standing on me, he immediately stepped back. He only put half his weight on it I guess because otherwise, my foot would have been broken for sure. Only hurt for a few days tho. Lucky me. Wear proper shoes around animals that potentially can crush your bones to a fine dust by stepping on your foot accidentally.

    • @wartgin
      @wartgin วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      I didn't have boots but was fortunately wearing hard leather shoes when a horse shifted slightly when I was standing beside him grooming him while visiting friends. The soft ground also helped so I didn't have any injury but it is exciting trying to get a big animal to shift over a bit when they don't even realize they are stepping on you.

    • @SamanthaManning-xy8fu
      @SamanthaManning-xy8fu 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      If you’re around horses enough it will happen. 🙂‍↕️ I know that from experience 😂

  • @JennyEverywhere
    @JennyEverywhere วันที่ผ่านมา +247

    My partner and I had made friends with a married couple (man & woman) who are heavily into the tattoo scene. They were both tattooed all over, and most of the work was beautifully done. They asked us if we wanted to meet them at a local convention they were attending. I was fine until we realized it was a tattoo convention. I had horrible needle phobia then, too, and was a bit stressed out, but it was okay. Much of it was fascinating, the art was beautiful, and the technology of tattoo equipment was very engaging.
    Until I walked past a man tattooing another man's shoulder as I went by, I was looking right at them when the artist put down his tattoo gun and wiped the man's shoulder with a clean, white cloth.
    It came away red.
    My vision turned gray, then black, as I fainted on the spot.
    I have no aversion to blood. I thought I was handling the tattooing, but I was wrong. The stress from the needle phobia was just hiding, waiting for the stimulus that would break it free. The wiping blood off the shoulder was the proverbial straw breaking the camel's back, and it all cascaded down.
    I was fine a few minutes later. It turned out the convention had staff medics, who wandered the show floor, armed with first-aid kits, water, and ice packs. Sometimes they helped people getting tattoos, but the much larger number were attendees who didn't realize they were getting squicked out until they fainted.
    I wasn't the only one. I wasn't the only one _that hour._

    • @Lionhart-fw5nq
      @Lionhart-fw5nq วันที่ผ่านมา +19

      that was a random unrelated story... but an interesting one? so you get a comment instead of a like from me

    • @rebny7801
      @rebny7801 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Thank you for sharing. Nice story!

    • @desperadox7565
      @desperadox7565 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

      @@Lionhart-fw5nq Random unrelated story? It's related to Click's comment about his needle phobia.

    • @toxiczombiewolf5692
      @toxiczombiewolf5692 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Funny I hate medical needles but fine with tattoo ms or sewing needles.

    • @Lionhart-fw5nq
      @Lionhart-fw5nq วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@desperadox7565 ah ok. i missed that info

  • @imjustroleplaying
    @imjustroleplaying วันที่ผ่านมา +260

    3:41
    I'd freak out over both
    1. Breaking a nail hurts, and if it's a glue on, now you have to find the nail and then find glue to put it back on
    2. If that wasn't a cheap knife... WHAT DID I DO THAT MANAGED TO BREAK IT?!
    I also just got a pink knife a few days ago, and it's really, really neat :3
    It's my second one, and it has a spring mechanism.

    • @ThingInTheHall
      @ThingInTheHall วันที่ผ่านมา +31

      *stabs you with ✨glitter✨*

    • @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake
      @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      I want a pink knife (i am terrified of knives bc one time i almost cut my fingers off trying to close my pocket knife)

    • @seigeengine
      @seigeengine วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      @@The-one-and-only-Fruitcake I still vividly remember holding a bagel while cutting it and sawing directly into my hand.
      Sometimes my stupidity astounds me.

    • @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake
      @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @ i did that with a baguette

    • @catandrobbyflores
      @catandrobbyflores วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I break at least one nail every other day at my job. And it's because of a freaking door handle! It hurts like a b*tch!

  • @RulerOfArniskad
    @RulerOfArniskad วันที่ผ่านมา +946

    I'm not like other girls. I am a collective hivemind of exactly 55 worms. We are each ordering 55 of each and every one of Click's plushies.
    Also, we eat pick me girls.

    • @Blake-ij4kw
      @Blake-ij4kw วันที่ผ่านมา +39

      Jane Prentiss vibes in the first half
      /pos

    • @Nameless-nine
      @Nameless-nine วันที่ผ่านมา +42

      Is there - by any chance- a wasp's nest? In your attic...?

    • @RulerOfArniskad
      @RulerOfArniskad วันที่ผ่านมา +32

      @@Nameless-nine no, only a few vulture bees. They help us with rent.

    • @RulerOfArniskad
      @RulerOfArniskad วันที่ผ่านมา +22

      @@Blake-ij4kw I've asked around, none of us know who Jane Prentiss is, but we appreciate the compliment :D

    • @PocketTheHamster
      @PocketTheHamster วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      ​@@Blake-ij4kwI WAS LITERALLY GONNA SAY THAT

  • @basicallyarock
    @basicallyarock วันที่ผ่านมา +241

    I love how both emotional support demons have long blonde hair but one has quirky hair

  • @Koy_txt
    @Koy_txt วันที่ผ่านมา +118

    26:58 ah yes, just friends, definitely not adorable sapphics who are so madly in love with eachother

    • @LoremIpsum-dp1li
      @LoremIpsum-dp1li วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      Good ol' r/GatekeepingYuri.

    • @13Eggies
      @13Eggies 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactlyy!! I had to react verbally to that! Just friends he said

    • @tra12048
      @tra12048 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      They were such great friends! Some could even say they were... roommates?

  • @numberfour1234
    @numberfour1234 วันที่ผ่านมา +100

    In my experience, unconditional love can exist only for pets. My cat could be an absolute asshole, a bully or a murderer and I'd still die for it.
    Hell, my cat could be the boss of the street cats mafia and I'd still love it.

    • @js66613
      @js66613 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      If your cat would be the boss of a street cat mafia, they'd be the coolest cat on the planet. (Who knows, maybe it secretly is...)

    • @numberfour1234
      @numberfour1234 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      ​@@js66613 I wouldn't even be surprised

    • @Bry-Guy909
      @Bry-Guy909 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I mean most animals are all of the first 3 you mentioned, and I still love them.

    • @tealkerberus748
      @tealkerberus748 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      I have two cats. They can and do create absolute mayhem around the house and we just accept it. But if one of them started abusing the other, that would be a boundary - not to stop loving them, but to separate them. Fortunately as a bonded pair, they adore each other.
      I reckon the same applies to my children. If one of my kids ever brings home a dead body, I'll help them dispose of it, and if they want to tell me what happened, they'll do that when they're ready. But if one of my kids was abusing me or anyone else under my protection - which includes our cats and other non-human dependents - then yeah, that's a boundary. I'd still love them, but that behaviour would have to stop.

    • @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer
      @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer วันที่ผ่านมา +8

      My cat abuses and gaslights me (sneakily hits me as I walk by, then acts like he didn't do anything), interrupts me trying to do anything productive, bites me for petting him TOO GOOD and constantly victimizes himself by standing right behind my legs any time he knows I'll have to back up/ turn around (like standing at a counter, looking in a closet, making my bed) so he has an excuse to hit me. I can't leave though. My CDs are still in his car.

  • @Kirsui
    @Kirsui วันที่ผ่านมา +169

    The dress-up bit with the beanie on top of the nazgul helmet was peak comedy 😆

  • @bradiedean7466
    @bradiedean7466 วันที่ผ่านมา +39

    For the construction supervisor post: isn't wearing tight clothes on construction sites or around heavy machinery safer than wearing baggy clothing bc it's one less thing to get caught up in gears or on materials? That's why I'm supposed to do it when i work in a chemical lab, same with putting up my hair

    • @LemonLehon
      @LemonLehon วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Yes! Very accurate in many places with moving machinery or delicate/dangerous surroundings.

  • @iurlure
    @iurlure วันที่ผ่านมา +55

    30:53 "...accuse the guys of harassment..."
    So... did she fire women who were complaining about workplace harassment? Hope they press charges.

  • @-MarbleHornetsFan-
    @-MarbleHornetsFan- วันที่ผ่านมา +69

    4:50
    The best part is that if I remember correctly, the “You’ve met with a terrible fate, haven’t you?” Isn’t even an originally BEN DROWNED line, it was said by the Happy Mask Salesmen from Majora’s Mask. However, I don’t have the game, or even the right console, I’ve just seen play throughs, so that may be wrong.
    37:43 I thought it said 39 cats instead of 390 calories. Honestly, if I had the money, the time, and the means to, I’d happily own 39 cats, but it would be impossible to please them all.

    • @gavinmichels8827
      @gavinmichels8827 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      It is, it's literally the first things the Happy Mask Salesmen says to you in Majoras Mask. (Probably why the creepypasta used it, it was a very ominous greeting)

    • @-MarbleHornetsFan-
      @-MarbleHornetsFan- วันที่ผ่านมา

      @ okay, I thought so, I even looked it up, I just didn’t want to embarrass myself because you know how certain people on the internet get

  • @sircrumbfan
    @sircrumbfan วันที่ผ่านมา +301

    I'm not like other girls, I'm a guy 💅✨

    • @Sior-person
      @Sior-person วันที่ผ่านมา +37

      Yaaasss king slayy

    • @timothyisstupid
      @timothyisstupid วันที่ผ่านมา

      Real

    • @yourbirthgiver69
      @yourbirthgiver69 วันที่ผ่านมา

      periodt 😍

    • @Dutch_Man68
      @Dutch_Man68 วันที่ผ่านมา +35

      I'm not like other girls, I used to be man💅✨

    • @yellowbutterfly6796
      @yellowbutterfly6796 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

      laughs maniacally in trans masc 🏳️‍⚧️

  • @LeeLuvid
    @LeeLuvid วันที่ผ่านมา +112

    These videos always hit me man. I used to be of the "not like other girls crowd!!" And looking back i do cringe at it, but also, that poor girl was hurting because she didnt understand why she felt wrong. Im glad to say now I'm doing better, I've realized things about myself that explain my feelings, and i hope these girls who say stuff like this find solidarity and solace in other things rather then bringing others down
    //Edit: spelling!

    • @grrahstacky
      @grrahstacky วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think the difference was that, some of these girls are agreeing with political figures that wants to restrict a woman's body. They should be hated for it and shamed because they're supporting horrible men. But like if we're talking about the "I'm so better than her" type of pick me? I guess they're harmless, but at the end of the day, it's still wrong to create a stereotype of other women just so you can feel different from them. But the political type of pick me is much worse than the normal pick me in my opinion.

  • @RenegadeDesigns
    @RenegadeDesigns วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    37:40 That looks like a girl who's been yelled at one too many times for her life choices and started lashing out at anyone she perceives as judging her. Its awful when people get to that point of "Must protect self. Everyone threat. ATTACK ATTACK ATTACK." After being attacked by too many people.

  • @scriptorpaulina
    @scriptorpaulina วันที่ผ่านมา +276

    DO NOT WEAR STEEL-TOED BOOTS AROUND HORSES!!! They can stomp the toe around your foot and amputate your toes. Just wear normal riding boots, which have a space in the front so your feet can slide backwards.
    Src: taught horseback riding for 5 years

    • @Romanticoutlaw
      @Romanticoutlaw วันที่ผ่านมา +36

      I'm imagining it like one of those hydraulic press videos 😭

    • @Antifearn
      @Antifearn วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      My film professor always wore steel-toed boots in both the classroom and on film sets, so they got really smelly. I can’t imagine how fetid they would get being worn in a barn!

    • @AshasArts
      @AshasArts วันที่ผ่านมา +29

      There's actually a myths busters episode on the whole losing your toes in steel toe capped boots thing and the conclusion was if it was bad enough for you to lose your toes with them on your whole foot would probably be left the consistency of toothpaste without them. Good quality steel toes consistently protected from all tested methods of damage. Can't say exactly for horses but they did put the boots in a hydraulic press and drop significant weights on them and compared it with regular boots. The regular boots were mush, the steel toes, while you'd probably have some bad broosing would otherwise be fine.

    • @toxiczombiewolf5692
      @toxiczombiewolf5692 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I dud this for years no problem now I'm scared lol. Tho I had a horse stand on my foot while wearing flip-flops that was fun

    • @nowitchisanisland
      @nowitchisanisland วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      A friend of mine had their toe crushed in this exact scenario. I saw the boot... they were very lucky to even have their toe still attached.

  • @osheridan
    @osheridan วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    13:08 I once read a fanfiction where unconditional love was used as a form of horror. It was very good.

    • @AroAce_Psychopath
      @AroAce_Psychopath 21 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Would be lovely to read. Psyhorror is perhaps one of my fave genres I'm just lazy and don't know where to start stuff lmfao

  • @zacharysieg2305
    @zacharysieg2305 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    38:16 Somehow I’m even more creeped out when women refer to other women as “females” than I am when men do it.

  • @arceusinsanity301
    @arceusinsanity301 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    5:10 hun you don't need to be a pick me to enjoy creepypastas, it doesn't make you special, but this behaviour makes you a jerk

    • @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake
      @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake วันที่ผ่านมา +16

      I like creepypastas as much as the next person but ain’t nobody referencing a character when they’re trying to mention cannibalism lmao

    • @poke-talia268
      @poke-talia268 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Lol. That post went around a lot in 2010-2014 with a bunch of preteens on fanfic websites and tumblr. It was a bunch of people who could not spell for their life and would go in group chars to just make the characters smooch.
      It definitely wasn't a good post to share, but it was mostly kids with lacking social lives irl. 🤷

    • @blueberrorthebean2108
      @blueberrorthebean2108 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +3

      As someone who still likes older creepypasta to this day, literally this. You're not special for liking internet horror, boo.

    • @lydiaalexian1435
      @lydiaalexian1435 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Also, owning up to your hobbies WITHOUT putting others down makes you seem cooler and less insecure so why do it? It ruins the whole vibe...

    • @yeeyeeyeeye
      @yeeyeeyeeye 28 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      As someone who liked creepypastas and internet horror as a kid and still does, that was a blast from the past in the worst way.

  • @lemcy1256
    @lemcy1256 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    12:55 Unconditional love is A THING! But only for your kitties, puppies and other animals under your care... because humans are mostly trash. But most animals are the the kindest creatures you'll ever encounter.

  • @SpookySal13
    @SpookySal13 วันที่ผ่านมา +41

    I think I know exactly what exhibit you're talking about and I'm pretty sure one of the displays is just a diaper. It breaks my heart and makes me so upset when people blame the victims for how they were dressed

  • @Forestnymph205
    @Forestnymph205 วันที่ผ่านมา +61

    24:28 - 24:38 The irony in this
    For the ones that don't know. Making all those side braids and with bows and everything take considerably more time each morning than a messybun which is the last picture. That means that people use FAR more messybuns than any of the previous hairstyles

    • @lemonadewithstrawberries
      @lemonadewithstrawberries วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      that's what i was thinking. not that it even matters, but a clawclip hairstyle is wayyyyy more common

    • @seigeengine
      @seigeengine วันที่ผ่านมา

      You do know you don't need to redo braids daily, right?

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@seigeengine it depends on the texture of the hair. Those pictures (unless I missed something) featured hair that seems similar to mine, which would not look nice the next day. My daughter, however, has the kind of hair that could hold it.

    • @Forestnymph205
      @Forestnymph205 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@seigeengine the ones showed in the video do. I am as white as they come and my hair is while curly not afro. I do need to redo braids daily. I know that afro braids can sit in for ages but those kinds of braids would make my hair fall out

    • @seigeengine
      @seigeengine 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Forestnymph205 Nah, these braids too. The difference in hair texture has effects of course, but it's not to that point.

  • @m310grass
    @m310grass วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    I would love to see a not like other girls post saying that “men make better friends then women because they don’t steal your man” get immediately clapped back by some girl saying “I stopped hanging out with my male best friend after he stole my boyfriend”

    • @Ottermamapoeia
      @Ottermamapoeia 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Right? I was thinking the same thing the whole time 🤣

  • @chrissystrawberrylimetea9728
    @chrissystrawberrylimetea9728 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    24:08 I shut down a pick me in a similar situation once lol She was talking smack about my tequila rose drink because she was 'so used to drinking beer with the guys that fruity drinks seem silly' and the guys all agreed with her until i said "I think beer tastes like p!ss. If you guys wanna drink p!ss, all the power to ya. I don't k!nk shame." and every guy sitting at the table looked grossed out, she was ANNOYED at me the rest of the night. The next day she accused me of stopping her from getting laid because one of the guys didn't want to kiss her with 'beer breath' lmao

  • @Ares_V
    @Ares_V วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    37:33 I used to judge the hell out of people who liked $8 coffee that's mostly milk and flavored syrup I assumed they didn't like the taste of coffee and were trying to mask it which seemed stupid while I love black coffee no sugar...
    Until I discovered Turkish coffee. The process of brewing it followed by that delicious cup of hot goodness is therapeutic for me...
    Then I found a different brand that sold some of its coffee with cardamom.. Then I tried adding sugar... Then cinnamon and you know where I'm going with this
    I didn't gatekeep coffee but I was sure some people had no taste buds even while aware everyone being different but I guess we aren't really all that different
    Thank you for coming to my Tedtalk

    • @SpaceBearEngineer
      @SpaceBearEngineer วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I'm glad you got over that. Btw, whenever someone says something along the lines of "people don't like something unless they eat it straight!" It makes me imagine them sitting on the couch with a spoon and a bowl of salt.

    • @Ares_V
      @Ares_V วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @SpaceBearEngineer I'm not proud of it but as a kid I used to get in trouble for stealing the salt to eat it straight like not a bowl but yes in spoonfuls.... I'm also over that I swear.. but maybe your "theory" is not that far off

    • @carniethedat7071
      @carniethedat7071 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      So far as I can tell, the whole "black coffee" thing pretty much boils down to how much people can tolerate bitter flavors. Even the best brewed black coffees have vastly more bitter notes than coffee with cream or sugar, and for those who are extremely sensitive to that kind of thing, masking it can do absolute wonders. The same thing goes for chocolate/cocoa, especially at 70% or higher, and some people who like high-cocoa bars don't like black coffee.
      That's what makes it so funny (in a dark way) whenever I think about this internet argument...

    • @kokoduspcy
      @kokoduspcy ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      i still judge those people if they go to places like starbucks but it's cuz i dislike the place, not people's taste 😭

  • @curiousnerdkitteh
    @curiousnerdkitteh วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    13:49 "But I'm one of the good ones! I can be kept as a pet!" That's such a good reversal honestly and a great example of how being a pickme doesn't grant as much privilege as pickmes think, cause they're encouraging and reinforcing exactly the system that oppresses them _in their own circle_ and won't really be treated as equals for being "different" (even if some of the people they're trying to appeal to may encourage them that they are different and special, the scapegoating of people like them and them by extension will affect them.

  • @Alphaismyname
    @Alphaismyname วันที่ผ่านมา +287

    HELP- THE GACHA IN THE THUMBNAIL- LMAO

  • @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake
    @The-one-and-only-Fruitcake วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I’m not like the other girls. I’m very neurodivergent, don’t have good social skills, and i’m still trying to figure out who i am. But i wouldn’t change the other girls for the world, because they still make an effort to include me and make me feel wanted

  • @Yellowjacket-z3h
    @Yellowjacket-z3h วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    This reminded me of this little joke my friend group has;
    We have this small group of people where most of us are gender queer. A lot of times if one of us starts explaining about some weird situation we were in or if one of us does something differently than others etc, they'll imidietly go:
    "I am not like OTHER GIRLS, I am not even a girl!"
    It's great fun, can recomend 😁

  • @karabearcomics
    @karabearcomics วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Towards the end was one that made me think some people need a refresher: "a part" and "apart" aren't synonyms. In fact, they're antonyms. To be a part of something, you are with it, part of the whole. If you are apart from something, you are separated from it, not with it at all. I know this stems from the same place that causes people to spell "a lot" as "alot" (or "allot" if they go by their spellcheck, even though it's doesn't mean the same thing), so it's not likely to go away anytime soon, especially since so many people don't know if it's "your" or "you're", or the like. Just wanted to get this off my chest though, as sometimes I feel I've done my English degree a disservice by not mentioning such things, despite it being nowhere near the most egregious thing people featured in this video have done.

  • @stonesbonesangroans
    @stonesbonesangroans วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I had to laugh, because in my family, we say, "If you're always smelling shit, maybe that dark ring above your upper lip isn't a mustache."

  • @ChaosTheoriesLuxe
    @ChaosTheoriesLuxe วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    20:12 the friend was jealous that OP looked hot and was trying to embarrass her on purpose. I would bet she was waiting for a chance to wipe the sauce off the friend's face. Which is only something that someone does if they're super close to someone. It was weird.

  • @phantomswagger9363
    @phantomswagger9363 วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    16:43 - Everybody gangsta until the cockroach starts flying.

    • @SpringStarFangirl
      @SpringStarFangirl วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Everybody gangsta until the roach climbs up their leg in the shower.

    • @Ottermamapoeia
      @Ottermamapoeia 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +4

      Everybody gangsta until the cockroach scampers over your fingers in the middle of the night

  • @ShanRenxin
    @ShanRenxin วันที่ผ่านมา +35

    I dread how that pick me mom at the beginning is going to raise that boy. Her daughters seem to have turned out okay, and I hope they'll be a bigger and better influence on him than the mom is.

    • @miranda1292
      @miranda1292 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I know! Right? The post where the girl mentioned her mom was a pick me was eye opening-- my mom was a pick me and said all of these toxic things. My sister and I absolutely do not get along with our mom (I went no contact) and our brother ended up becoming an absolute garbage human being. He's lazy and always looking for a girl friend to mooch off of and doesn't bother working himself.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@miranda1292 I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. I hope you know you deserve better. (And I'm a mom!)

  • @Moon_x_sun
    @Moon_x_sun วันที่ผ่านมา +36

    8:18 alot of girls have a “not like other girls” phase but its sad when it doesnt end :/

    • @claida339
      @claida339 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Yeah, I think it comes from the fact that we are given the image in media etc that girls like pink and want babies and only think/talk of boys/clothes/make-up, but this trope isn't that frequent in real life. Most of us talk to other people and realize they're also 3 dimensional. The people who carry it longer in life just probs never make friends.
      And I would venture that there's an overlap with the political aspect because both growing out of that phase and accepting others imply empathizing with people they've decided are not like them.

    • @Moon_x_sun
      @Moon_x_sun วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @ that’s true :) I also think some of the media of the 2000s and 2010s did a push to showcase those girls that aren’t like other girls and kinda pin them against each other like sharpay vs Gabriella where yes sharpay had dimension she was also very much a stereotype - where you get to see Gabriella from way more dimension. (Ofc they touch many subjects but that’s one I remember seeing in many movies growing up) the brunette loser vs blond popular girl yk.
      But I do think it’s a part of growing up going through that phase of realising others aren’t npcs in your life they’re just as fully ‘fleshed’ out as you
      And I think you’re right with those who might not grow out of it

  • @EddilyKitty
    @EddilyKitty วันที่ผ่านมา +42

    It astounds me that in 2024 there are so many people that still just focus on looks and literally nothing else.

  • @notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil
    @notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil วันที่ผ่านมา +30

    Here to spread some positivity!
    It’s the last day of the show I’m in and it was a super fun show to do :D
    Anyway, how are all of you doing? Feel free to rant, talk about hyperfixations, anything! Remember to take your meds, drink water, and eat something if you haven’t already!! This is a safe place, and I love you ❤

    • @einindividuum5428
      @einindividuum5428 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Aw, that’s so sweet of you 😊
      My current hyperfixation is Baldur‘s Gate 3 again after a bit of a break and I absolutely love this game!
      May I ask in what show you were? I am curious :)

    • @katherinepatchett7975
      @katherinepatchett7975 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

      Thank you, you wonderful beautiful bean - I needed this today 🥹

  • @Toni-lo9ms
    @Toni-lo9ms วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    6:18 That mom's mysogyny isn't just internalized, it's spewing out of every orifice.

  • @jax_403
    @jax_403 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Click videos used to be the best way to end the evening, now it's the best way to start the day (I moved from Sweden to America)

  • @sheilajensen4263
    @sheilajensen4263 วันที่ผ่านมา +19

    With the “Being a SAHM isn’t that hard!” person, soooo much of it depends on the individual kids and parents and how the strengths and weaknesses line up. An extroverted parent with a chill kid who doesn’t have sleep issues is going to have a wildly different experience than an introvert with a baby who has colic, for example.

    • @missnaomi613
      @missnaomi613 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Exactly! I was a stay-at-home mama. I wouldn't say it's the hardest thing in the world, but it certainly wasn't easy! *My only regret is that their dad is not a good coparent.

    • @fssstyuniaf
      @fssstyuniaf วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I was a single dad for 3 years. Half of it was SAH, and the other half I worked construction. Worst 3 years of my life. I didn't have any support, and there weren't any services I could turn to for help.
      As you said, it's very much just based on the parent, the child, and the circumstances as to how difficult it is.

    • @waffles3629
      @waffles3629 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yep, like way too many parents seem to think "my kid is good at/can do X" means "any parent whose kid isn't good at/can't do X is a failure of a parent". Like no, just no.

  • @thegreenbeandoesstuff
    @thegreenbeandoesstuff 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +5

    30:38 I am a woman that has also worked in construction as an electrical apprentice. Yes, I was the only woman in the group, but that had an entirely different outcome…coworkers were rude and spiteful towards women and, even if they did not attempt to harass me specifically, they talked horribly about modern women (“they don’t know how to serve their husbands”) IN FRONT OF ME. My father worked with me. He fed into their discussion. I haven’t looked at him the same way since.
    Stop pitting women against women. Stop pitting HUMANS AGAINST HUMANS. This behavior disgusts me to a degree that makes me glad I left the full time apprenticeship.

  • @KwehShiro
    @KwehShiro วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    ''you've met with a terrible fate[,haven't you?]'' is from zelda majora's mask and is the most popular quote from it, small bit of trivia. That said, that person was cringe, dont take the name of my favorite game in vain, 'quirky girl' .

  • @elyzabeth5671
    @elyzabeth5671 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    I really like what Jamie Dodger said about this whole trend. Yes, some of it is just internalised misogyny, and it deserves to be called out. But what if some people relate to this sentiment of distancing themselves from “other girls”, because… they aren’t really girls?
    Kinda realised that this is what’s been to teenage me (uncomfortable nb laugh)

    • @tealkerberus748
      @tealkerberus748 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And if society stopped pushing adolescent girls to all conform to a stereotype, the ones that actually aren't girls would be free to realise that without having to fight for their individuality too.

    • @kokoduspcy
      @kokoduspcy ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      i felt this on a spiritual level lol
      my whole life i was kind of a forced "not like other girls", not because i acted like the girls in this video but because other kids (girls a bit more often than boys) always pushed me away cuz i was "different"
      turns out I'm enby and autistic 😭

  • @jynxcloudy6969
    @jynxcloudy6969 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    I'm watching this while walking home in the rain. The moment Slenderman is mentioned, the street lamp I'm passing flickers and shuts off. What spooky timing

    • @rebny7801
      @rebny7801 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Did you get home safely?

    • @jynxcloudy6969
      @jynxcloudy6969 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @rebny7801 I did, yes
      Though there was some tall skinny guy in the corner of my vision the entire walk... I think they were following me

  • @Silliest-guy-the-ever
    @Silliest-guy-the-ever วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    I had a not like other girls phase, turns out I’m just trans.

    • @cheddarcheezit2647
      @cheddarcheezit2647 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Mood 🤝

    • @user-dw4uj1cw4l
      @user-dw4uj1cw4l วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      "I'm not like other girls, I'm a boy" (welcome to the boys club, there's cheese in the fridge if you'd like)

    • @maxdaae
      @maxdaae วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      So it technically wasn't a phase lol

    • @Bry-Guy909
      @Bry-Guy909 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I mean you weren't wrong.

  • @justalyssa5871
    @justalyssa5871 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Dude, I feel like you have legit helped me become more emotionally aware and not be an a-hole. Thank you

  • @Killerbuneh
    @Killerbuneh วันที่ผ่านมา +37

    I lost it laughing when you put on the glasses with the helmet.
    Thankyou click I needed that today.

  • @moth_pawss
    @moth_pawss วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    4:34 normal girls say cannibal, hazbin hotel fans say rosie or alastor

    • @alexiosgacha1015
      @alexiosgacha1015 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      And Hannibal fans say **Hannibal.**

  • @Tachii31
    @Tachii31 วันที่ผ่านมา +48

    4:25 This just reminds me of that whole era of fanfics with "quirky" girls shipping themselves with Jeff, which was concerning enough that I read the story to see why it was so popular with these people and learned that the character is like 14 years old or something...

    • @snowkr3580
      @snowkr3580 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

      I mean personally 14 was the age when i liked creepypasta the most. And I feel like that's the age people usually get into it. I still like the characters, they're fun and cringey in a nostalgic way. I feel like writing a self insert fic is not that bad honestly, as long as you don't simp for real life killers. I've never personally been interested in that, but I am demiroace, so that's probbaly why.

    • @BiDisaster327
      @BiDisaster327 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I had a creepypasta phase when I was like 12 or 13, most kids of that age are super cringy I'll be honest. Personally i hated jeff but I've always knew that other fangirls weren't attracted to the actual image and story itself, but the art people made of an attractive alt guy, which wasn't a mainstream thing. I think it's important to understand that! young teens on the internet will always be into fanon-ized version of horror media, like how kids also like fnaf animatronics (even though theyre pieces of metal and corpses or something) but you can always draw them to be appealing, because it's fun.
      Then years later you'll grow up and realize a lot of the insane things like murder and serial killers are an actual thing, you become more critical of it, because you have a developed brain
      There's also creeps who are adults and like children though, yeah, but usually it's kids that like kids.

  • @doclewis8927
    @doclewis8927 วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    I'm a 50+ year old woman and I've NEVER thought about looking up any of the exes of any of the men I dated nor my husband. Why would I compare myself to someone he ISN'T in a relationship with anymore, especially if he DUMPED them? There's zero confidence in your own personality and looks if you're "stalking" their exes. They're the exes for a reason. I think the reason they're the exes is MORE important. I have an older sister who was always "looking for mr. right" with a whole laundry list of things she wanted him to be and to be for her. While I looked at each relationship, even a single date, as a learning experience of what I didn't want in a partner. I didn't think about how I'd "fix" him to fit my list. I wanted someone who made me happy just the way he was and who wanted me just the way I was (am). It's okay to change over time but you shouldn't expect people to change for you nor should you change everything about yourself to "please" others. You have to live with yourself and you shouldn't pretend to be something you're not. There's nothing wrong with changing IF you want to change but you shouldn't do it just because someone pressures you to do so. Be you and you'll find whomever you're meant to find. Or...worse come to worst...you end up alone but happy with who you are.
    My older sister always asked me if I was "lonely" before I had ever started datting as if the only thing in life was being in a relationship with a man. Again...her "knight in shining armor coming to save her". I told her that I couldn't "miss" something that I'd never experienced (I was 19) and she was surprised about how "profound" my statement was. There's a huge difference between being alone and being lonely.
    My sister often talked about a guy she went on one date with as "he's the one", especially if that guy had money. I often thought that she wasn't as "worldly" as she thought she was. It was annoying to hear about how great some guy was because he took her to a fancy restaurant and they had the s*x but then the same guy wouldn't call after even though she thought they'd really hit it off. I didn't know how to explain to my OLDER sister that he'd already gotten what he wanted from her. My sister's a beautiful woman and very extroverted but she was blind when it came to what men wanted from her. She had guys tripping over themselves to go out with her and sleep with her but she didn't have them tripping over her to be in their lives. She's a wonderful person but I have no idea how she acted on their dates to cause them not to ever call her again. When she saw my first boyfriend, she couldn't understand why someone as good looking as he was (he was a model) was with me. Yep...she literally said that. "Why's someone like him with you?" Ouch. She seemed shallow in that moment and I understood WHY none of the guys she dated wanted to stick around.
    In our old age...we've both settled down but she's been married and divorced and married again while I just went through my relationships learning from my experiences what I DIDN'T want in a relationship and what I didn't want my partner to be like (which is easier than..."he must fit this mold"). We've both been in these last relationships for a long time. Me over 22 years and hers right around 20 years. It's nice to know that she finally found her "knight" even though he didn't fit the mold that she'd made in her head of that "knight". Funny how life and love works itself out. If I hadn't have found my husband, I'd be just as happy by myself. Never forget that YOU need to feel happy with yourself first before you can feel happy with another.
    Sorry for the rambling. Love y'all. Blessed be from me and my witchy, Wiccan ways!
    Note: Sorry for the typos but I'm not going to reread and make corrections for my grammar and spelling! Thanks for reading and understanding.

    • @skeletonwarlock5741
      @skeletonwarlock5741 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I didn't know people over the age of 50 watched the click have a nice day

    • @Silkendrum
      @Silkendrum วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      ​@@skeletonwarlock5741 i turned 80 three weeks ago.

    • @HH-975
      @HH-975 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for sharing your story, I'm still waiting until I meet the right person and observe other relationships to determine what I don't want. Your advice have been uplifting to read :)

    • @wartgin
      @wartgin วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@skeletonwarlock5741 62

    • @skeletonwarlock5741
      @skeletonwarlock5741 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @Silkendrum congrats I guess

  • @Zer0Z0id
    @Zer0Z0id วันที่ผ่านมา +63

    right as my pizza finished cooking and I sit down... perfect

    • @yellowbutterfly6796
      @yellowbutterfly6796 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      nice! 🍕 bon appetit

    • @worm2976
      @worm2976 วันที่ผ่านมา

      hope the pizza was nice!

  • @ArcanineEspeon
    @ArcanineEspeon วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    24:54 Garfield: "why are you changing the subject to human women or whatever? I was talking about MONDAYS. Get me some phucking lasagna, lady"

  • @alexagray6307
    @alexagray6307 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Sometimes I feel upset that my language doesn't have a woman/female difference. That way I could weed out the sexists in a heartbeat and move on with my life

    • @Atlessa
      @Atlessa วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Oh? What language? Do you basically say "woman dog" or "man cat" if you wanna make that kind of distinction?

    • @Nelly-w7c
      @Nelly-w7c วันที่ผ่านมา

      I feel very confused about this statement. Are you upset about what they said? Do you get what they are saying at all?​@@Atlessa

  • @evilcowhead
    @evilcowhead วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Oh my gosh, I need to say this, but I was a pick me girl before I transitioned!
    I literally just hung out with the dudes. When they said I wasn't allowed to due to religious reasons, I hung out with the girls, but they didn't like me. Now that I realized I am just antisocial and trans it makes so much sense.

  • @curiousnerdkitteh
    @curiousnerdkitteh วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    18:43 "So if that was the shot, then the shot has indeed missed!" Nice.

  • @js66613
    @js66613 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Honestly, that mom who'd blame the victim would've - if she hadn't already voted for Trump and supported Project 2025, 'cause she thought that somehow she wouldn't have to deal with the consequences. She also has 0 self-awareness clearly, and I feel bad for her children. :(

  • @Romanticoutlaw
    @Romanticoutlaw วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    I'm not like other girls. I'm three raccoons in a trench coat

  • @NINJAfries07
    @NINJAfries07 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    26:24
    “Hahaha my horse broke my toes”
    “Oh dang!”
    “And she weighs over 15,000 pounds”
    “1,500?”
    “Nope. Add another 0 to that”
    “There’s no way it could be that much”

  • @claratalbot7613
    @claratalbot7613 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    28:30 Ah yes, the classic of calling the younger generation all "lazy" & "soft" because how dare they ever take a day off from work when they need it. Like sure try to avoid drinking too much when you go out but things happen & trying to force yourself to work when you don't feel good for whatever reason ends up with either makes your recovery take longer or you end up crashing later on when it catches up with you. It's better to just take the time off to fully recover. If your workplace gets upset with that, then that just shows you they don't really care about their employees & don't see them as people

  • @dr_slurmp
    @dr_slurmp วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    27:51 “does her playlist compare?” she says as she proceeds to show the most consensual metal/rock selection known to man

  • @koraliekora-leepalmer4024
    @koraliekora-leepalmer4024 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    Lmao, i just saw this after making a "im just a quirky girl xD!" Joke in my head. The neighbors are putting decorations up and I was like "I'm so quirky, always buying plants instead of having holiday decorations"

  • @Moon_x_sun
    @Moon_x_sun วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    16:15 i struggle making friends but thats just bc Im bad at actually talking to people. I Can make friends and such but Im bad at keeping them bc i dont tekst them much. And i know thats a mix of a me problem and also others not texting me but Im ok i dont really feel that lonely :)

  • @chrysaoros
    @chrysaoros วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    I was, indeed, not like other girls, I am an AAA batery 🔋😎

  • @Illegally-_-Miku
    @Illegally-_-Miku วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    "Im not like other girls! Im transitioning into a man!"

  • @John_b123
    @John_b123 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    4:20 saying ben drowned instead of link in the context of any other zelda game besides majoras mask wouldn't even make sense. Also form what i do remember ben drowned was represented by a wooden stastue in game not even link

    • @H4vnt3d.D0ll
      @H4vnt3d.D0ll วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yea, he's represented by a statue of link
      Maybe the post is just saying they recognize BEN more that Link..? I dunno

  • @Halomeowmeow788
    @Halomeowmeow788 16 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    The "my best friend is a cow" one whilst she's stood next to a horse reminds me of Mushu from Mulan when he says "Disgrace on your cow" whilst pointing to Mulan's horse 😂

  • @errantwinds-up8uu
    @errantwinds-up8uu วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I do believe in unconditional love, but it includes calling out loved ones on their bad behaviour like in the bitch sister story, and if necessarily, loving them from a loooong distance away. Note: not saying everyone should unconditionally love bad family members. Just that I do believe it's a thing.

    • @tealkerberus748
      @tealkerberus748 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      If you love someone, you won't let them engage in toxic and abusive behaviour around you. That's like those "boymom" parents who let their kid be horrible and then wonder why their kid ends up in remand school. Unconditional love doesn't mean there are no boundaries - it just means you still love them while you maintain your boundaries.

  • @lucialma
    @lucialma วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Me at 15: “I’m not like other girls”
    Me at 35: “I’m exactly like other autistic girls”

  • @St4ruwu
    @St4ruwu วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    We hate other emotional support demons
    We love "MMEEEEE!!!11!!! UWU OwU"

  • @_ksm0922
    @_ksm0922 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    15:28 Weird how her version of 'girl's night' is the same as literally every girl I know

  • @savageinkstudios2969
    @savageinkstudios2969 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    People will legitimately get mad if you say you find parenting easy, or say you must be doing a crap job. Its nuts. I cant even blame that mom for feeling the need to say something.

    • @tealkerberus748
      @tealkerberus748 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Some people find parenting easy like some other people find training for a marathon easy. If you're doing the activity you most want to do in this world, it may be strenuous and demanding, but it won't feel like work. And that makes it feel easy.

    • @savageinkstudios2969
      @savageinkstudios2969 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      @tealkerberus748 thats how i feel about it. I had fertility issues and miscarriages for almost 10 years trying for a baby. By the end i didnt think it was even possible for me. Now that i have my son theres nothing in the world id rather do than spend every minute of every day with him. Even when i was up every two hours breastfeeding from cracked bleeding nipples it never felt like work and i wouldnt have traded it for anything. But a parent who doesnt enjoy parenting hears you say that and "you must be doing a terrible job if you enjoy it" 🙄

    • @Jeshcaprints
      @Jeshcaprints 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      People should just be able to have both opinions. Not everyone is meant to be parents and some are. This is why getting rid of reproductive rights is terrible for everyone, it’ll hurt the ones that want to have kids by not making it safe for them to conceive and terrible for people that really aren’t prepared for kids

  • @shalvanic
    @shalvanic วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    3:18 Is... Is this whole post taken from like 2012?? No one is still talking about half of those Creepypastas in this year, are they??? I feel like I glanced into a window and I saw my life 12 years ago, and it is so cringe.

    • @gl1tter_cloudz295
      @gl1tter_cloudz295 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I wonder how they even came across it 😭 maybe they are freshly discovering creepypaste this year or something lmao

    • @yeeyeeyeeye
      @yeeyeeyeeye 17 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      The only modern discussion of those stories I've seen are from CreepCast, a podcast by Wendigoon and Meat Canyon of them reading and discussing creepypastas.

  • @CyberWarezz05
    @CyberWarezz05 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    6:39 my mother is in competition with me too and I honestly never understood that. Like, it took me a while to figure it out, and after I did, I couldn't accept it easily, especially since it hurt. So here are some things that made me realize this:
    - my mom rarely complimented me, in fact she insulted me more by calling me either fat, lazy, or insinuating that I'm not "good enough". But the thing is, my mom is exactly the person that she calls me: she is unhealthy, doesn't do any physical activity, and loves to complain about anything
    - she can't stand to look the same: she hated when I bleached my hair blonde, because she is a blonde. She of course complimented me when I dyed my hair reddish brown again. Same happened with hair length: she can't stand to have shorter hair than me, and insults me if I suggest that she should get a new haircut.
    - she can't stand the fact that I am in a happy and healthy marriage. She always said that my husband isn't good enough for me because he was poor, and now when he has a decent job, she says that I can get someone with even more money than him. My mother and father are in a toxic marriage, but she only sees flaws in other marriages.

  • @aarondubourg3706
    @aarondubourg3706 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    2:08 this reminds me how alot of the human rights messages get willingly misinterpreted by thr ppl who fight against it or how wide encompassing these messages are. Like if you want your partner to chose what happens to your body? Well your body, your choice. Willingly giving up the choice is itself a choice.

    • @tealkerberus748
      @tealkerberus748 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      This is true. And also, the essence of dom/sub dynamics. You can make that person the absolute emperor of your life .. but also if they start doing things or telling you to do things that make you feel uncomfortable, unhappy, or unsafe, you have the right to back out.

    • @grrahstacky
      @grrahstacky วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I don't get why you must post it for everyone to see that you're body is his 💀 nobody cares what you're into, I think it's cringe still if it's actually not about the message intended.

    • @aarondubourg3706
      @aarondubourg3706 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@grrahstacky yeah... ppl who say stuff like that is just ugh. They just shut down all critical thought at anything remotely "woke" like... gasp human rights. And that person most certainly was NOT posting that cus of s kink BDSM thing. It was probably just an "Us vs Them" thing where all that mattered to them is that what they posted was "anti-woke" even if it hurts them.

  • @Plushinfernalii
    @Plushinfernalii วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    4:06 This has to be one of the best click moments in click history

  • @Klmp13
    @Klmp13 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    "Your body, my choice" is absolutely true. So here, drink this Arsenic. I insist
    😂

  • @yourrealdestiny
    @yourrealdestiny วันที่ผ่านมา +29

    Euh? What is this? Funny Swedish man with funny memes!? Impossible... it's... it's... YIPPEEEEE

  • @Rutanachan
    @Rutanachan วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    4:40 Just in case ANYONE is wondering, probably not, but hey, I can give some Zelda-Trivia, so let me XD
    "You've met with a terrible fate, haven't you?" Is a quote from Majoras Mask, and a pretty memorable one, too. It's also the game the Ben Drowned Creepypasta is based on, which is probably one of the first cursed-videogame-from-yard-sale creepypasta out there, or at least the most known one, before it became a plot-hook for horror games nowadays XD

  • @jaybirdjargon
    @jaybirdjargon วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Granted not about girls, but about horses. My Great Uncle was unable to serve in WWII because when he was 13 his foot got crushed by a horse. I don't know what shoes he was wearing, just know they weren't crocs.

  • @sevans8784
    @sevans8784 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +2

    PSA: the "sober curious" movement is about approaching substance use with more nuance than an "abstainance only" way of thinking! There can be a lot of shame around struggles with addiction, and it's common for people to get stuck in a cycle of "I'm an addict, so I can't at all have this thing," to "I really want it, but I can't have it," to "okay, maybe I'll have a little," and then "well, if I'm screwing up anyway, I might as well binge," and around and around and around.
    Being sober curious comes more from the mindset of "I can drink if I want to, I just don't want to right now," which is a much gentler, more compassionate way of working with yourself around addiction.

  • @SnowLily123
    @SnowLily123 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    1:56 Ah yes. The 2004 version of ‘not like other girls’. Good job, Click. :)

    • @ary3901
      @ary3901 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      time travel

    • @yalibethlosadacosme6330
      @yalibethlosadacosme6330 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Finally found someone who noticed

    • @amandapanda5087
      @amandapanda5087 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Click is living in the year 2004, is all

  • @Santisima_Trinidad
    @Santisima_Trinidad วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    3:50 nooooooooo, my dearest sweetest quirky girl XD, you missed the chance for a pun. "Normal girls wear bows, we shoot Bows!". I have never been more disappointed.

  • @ann18o96
    @ann18o96 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Oh yeah a horse once stepped on my toes in normal riding shoes. On accident. I swear he didn't notice, and seemed surprised when I was insisting of moving him xD They're so smart and so dumb at the same time I swear...

    • @EchoL0C0
      @EchoL0C0 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Most animals have a specific intelligence (I don't know if that's the actual term) which means they can be very smart at one or a few things, but only those things (which is different from humans, who have general intelligence and can be smart at a lot of different things.)
      So yeah, it's totally possible for animals to be smart and dumb at the same time!

  • @Antifearn
    @Antifearn วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    I am not like other girls…
    I’m really tall and skinny,
    I have really big feet,
    I never wear anything girly like skirts or heels,
    I always have my hair up in a ponytail,
    While other girls drink and hang out with the boys, I like to stay at home and read books,
    I LOVE food,
    I HATE pumpkin spice lattes and have never had one before,
    In fact, I hate anything that has to do with pumpkins because one Halloween night, I got one thrown at me by a headless man riding a horse, which caused me to mysteriously vanish from society,
    You know what, I’m not even a girl,
    And I don’t even exist because,
    I am Ichabod Crane, the fictional protagonist of Washington Irving’s 1820 short horror story, The Legend of Sleepy Hollow.

  • @emorainbow8999
    @emorainbow8999 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I wonder what people like her would say about the full body coverings, infant clothing, mens clothes, and loose fitting clothes (majority) in that museum. It doesn't matter what you wear, how old you are, what gender you are, nor where you are. If someone wants to SA you, they are going to SA you. Guy, gal, enby pal -- doesnt matter. Monsters walk among us and pretending its the fault of those attacked is beyond disgusting.

  • @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer
    @CasualVFlowerEnjoyer วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I think the difference of making friends as a kid vs making them as an adult is that as a kid, its more out of convenience. Your options are limited because the places you can go are limited. You are a kid though so you don't realize you're settling, at the time, for people who are the closest to being what you want in a friend in your local area. As an adult we can roam far and wide, join various hobby-based communities that weren't available in school (aka anything not sports or academics lol), just generally find people that better fit your vibe and sometimes that mean losing touch with the childhood/school friends that didn't quite fit the way you needed as you grew. Sometimes you are lucky to meet people in childhood that got you and grew with you and/or mutual hardships and joys bonded you together like family. Its the luck of the draw, mostly determined by WHERE you were born lol. Sometimes we just aren't born with hot singles (read as cool besties) available in our local area. Sometimes its just hot messties

  • @55alegria
    @55alegria วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I remember seeing multiple times a post that said that half of misoginistic comments are made by women. While I couldn't verify if this was true or not, with how these people act (wanting to be main characters and all) it wouldn't surprise me if it was indeed true...

  • @amethyst-forgiving
    @amethyst-forgiving วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Being a basic birch is fine, other trees don’t care if you like Taylor Swift or SOAD

    • @js66613
      @js66613 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Trees are chill like that. They don't judge you... mostly because they probably can't.