How to Spot the True Goodbars
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This is extremely spot on for me. I was once one of those who would bark loud but that didn't get me anything but sideways looks. However as time went on I slowly became more refined and matured. I didn't speak as loud (my voice carries) or much, and kept cool like very cold winter day in Texas. As a result, women would just flock towards me. Eventually it got to the point that other women that wanted to be around me got jealous of those who were spending time with me. I still remember my last semester, during a gaming tournament I was in, I had a random young girl barely out of high school just outright text me wanting to get know me more. That got me wondering why I wasn't like this when I in my teens.
But at last the answer for me was simple as I got older, stop chasing, be humble and keep that mysterious aura that keeps them wanting more.
Correct.
I feel you
Like them folks said: "Never kiss and tell".
Facts.
Players don't kiss and tell, nor do they have to solicit for women because women are your best advertisers for other women.
No Kap🗣📢
Dead on, Mr Rom....
I have never been a Goodbar but could always recognize those guys. To be able to captivate women with relative ease can be a blessing or a curse. Very few men have it and many do not. He may get a lot of panties but the drama comes along with it because some women get attached.
Great Observations....
Oh yeah the drama. Many wish they were regular guys. I always say the the most blessed man is the one who can find that ONE woman who is truly feeling him.
Coming back to this video years later since following you and this very well applies. I've got verbal confirmation from several women that women want me, stare at me, and talk about me in group chats. Lol. With my eyes wide and peripheral, I see it all. It is funny watching them trying to seduce me in different ways. Some are very aggressive and some very subtle. You're absolutely right. We can pick from that range of women showing interest. This is also stacked with a bit of body game, dress style, and a few other things you've mentioned in your videos over the years, plus your romtv and patreon vids that give plenty of insight. Rom, you're a blessing! Thank you!
P.s. I've been that guy they don't see. And also don't see with a woman.
OG Game 🎯
I follow it till this day humble and quiet
Seen.
I love your work man. You are by far the most balanced man I have met as far as dating coach goes. Everyone I've seen on TH-cam up until now are some asshole alphas, or some PÚA simp. You also have a unique audience that share very informative stuff. Keep it up man, and thank you.
You're welcome.
How to find Mr goodbar.1. Ask how he grew up or what's his job.If his job requires charisma, such as business or being a model, then they are high risk of being Mr goodbar.Confidence require practice and their job is daily practice.
3:30-4:17 ego maintenance/boost... Men really need to respect their time more (ROI and opportunity cost)! Women and children consume roughly 85% of all resources!
Choose wisely...
Truth.
Facts : It easier running a business then understanding and casing woman...
Brothers i will give some advice it's not who you see on a picture with a female but the guy you don't see. Think about it.
Very true.
Rom Wills Give us advice on white women uncle Rom..
LMAO! Rom, I've also seen more women go "Mode One", and men acting more "Mode 3-4." Very funny!
Women can be direct when they want somebody.
...depends on circumstance and environment.
...some are bold (clubs, lounges, bars, etc.)
...most are subtle. (stores, public places, work, etc.)
I don't really like using anecdotes but mentality definitely has part on the difference between the real goodbars and the pretenders.
I've had my greatest success when I was completely relaxed in my element. It's when external factors (stress from work etc) weigh me down that I end up pressing and become the chaser.
It starts smaller scale and is more of a internal fundamental thing than something that can be imitated. It has to be grounded in real belief/confidence in oneself. But it seems like an individual can increase their own gravity with some work. Although there are those just born with it.
Thanks Field Master Rom for these lessons. It's always important to note how women respond to that gravity and who it's coming from.
That's what's up. Being relaxed is always best.
Oh man, Rom I am still learning. Its hard cause I have never brought out that "aura" before. But as I said in one of your videos, I see a peek of that underworld. A womens glance says a a lot. That goodbar aura is like a damn secret beacon! I haven't acted on those signals tho cause I am still growing.
We're all still growing including myself.
the things ive learned from you rom judt confirmed how i felt naturally every topic ive experienced before or after hearing your video and your %100 authentic and true wisdom
Thank you.
Controversial in the title is crazy 😂 but thank you for giving this excellent brotha another platform. #fba all day! 🇺🇸
Dog, since I was a jit, I NEVER talked to them first. But everywhere I went they was looking at me. Knew my name before I knew there's etc
This Video is another indeed classic Mr.Rom...It's going in my plays archive right now lol I've had familiar experience, not to much of Women approaching me but they give me cues to go talk to them, but the part where u say Women expose the experience she had with me to another friend of ours... like in this one instance a female that I thought was private told a mutual friend of ours (a guy) about us chilling together and having sex... So when my Partner ask me about it I denied everything to keep his mind wondering because I knew he called her his Sister (not biological sister, he liked her in so many words) and by denying it I saved him having Ill feelings toward me because he & I we're cool... he still pick my brain about that particular female... Great video
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Thank you. It's funny that women will be the ones who snitch.
Great points, Rom. And yeah, I have an excerpt on this one, too. Check your inbox...
Bruh get that book out.
good point my brother always told me to observe and let the women check for you and like you said the women chose the man
That complaining about in 😂 roll about someone , is a tactics for subtle likeness for the dude . Always watch out for that 😂 damn women be so sneaky
great videos Rom always putting out good content
Thank you.
At about 4 minutes in, what your speaking on. In my opinion, my friends who do that to men ave been sexually or emotionally abused as children and have difficulty dealing with intimacy, trust, abandonment issues, as well as a host of other insecurities. This is my opinion based off anecdotal evidence and personal accounts of my friends.
That's fair. Experience is a great teacher.
you hit that right on the head man
Thank you.
is it possible to be “the mr goodbar” archetype for specific women ? or is it that you’re a goodbar universally for all women ?
It's always for specific women. No man is universal to all women.
The point where most women are choosing you, even with passive IOIs, is the kind of game I'm focusing on. I cringe at these so-called dating coaches and PUAs who shove down twelve hours "approach and holler" sessions where massive time is wasted. I think I'm on my way to mastering the passive game craft since I get the occassional IOIs while on the street, and even recently had a fine chick approach me who I banged that same day. But I want to be that dude who make chicks' heads roll and grab my attention in ways that borderline sexual "harassment".
I feel you.
Rom Wills exactly what came out my mind . I’m honored!
Be careful what you wish for with that last point my dude. Don't want broads camping outside your house do you😂
This is an apt conversation
Thank you.
How to Spot the True Goodbars? We will tell her that with a straight face. No sugar code with me. But don't get it twisted a bad boy like myself actually love women. And i'm a one man women. It's just when i'm bachelor i don't miss if you understand what i mean. Females get very predictuel after a while.
If that's comment is related to me thanks than brother. If it's not also thanks lol. Rom knows the game.
No problem brother.
Truth.
Unc Rom
This is a solid video
Respect!
Thank you.
Can one become a goodbar? I'm learning so much man...trying to improve myself especially with women
Depends on the person. Anything is possible for a man willing to work.
Rom Wills so true...I'm willing to work. Got a long way to go..turning 22 in a few weeks. Thank you for all you do Rom. You don't know how much you've opened my eyes to the game!
shettt dangerous stuff
It can be.
I think I was dating a good bar and didn't even know it. He told a friend he wanted to meet me as I had seen him around but blah. Anyway met at a get together and he made me laugh. His beeper was going crazy and the women there were all into him. Had sex with this guy one time and he's damn near proposing marriage. I'm like look dude I'm gonna screw you again you ain't gotta make stuff up. We ended up a couple. So one day my girlfriend was giving a party and he came to pick me up. All the women were saying who's that fine man, come on in baby. So I run to the door to see who this fine ass man is and it's him. I'm like for real y'all. He just standing there grinning. I had to eventually quit him because he wanted to get married and then he started stalking me a whole nuther story. But he just wasn't all that to me as far as the way the other women would act. Never got it?
That's how it goes.
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I'm not a total womanizer but I do alright. My thing is I use the internet too much for my dates and I'm not the best picture taker. Plus I'm sometimes too lazy in person to make conversation with women probably because of the internet lol.
That was Tareeq Nasheed. My guts tells me so.
great video.
Thank you.
Is a goodbar a muscle or classic man?? Or cross between n Urkel/thug??
Joe Cool Goodbar is a quiet, confident balanced "mind" man
Rom why are some women so easy?
Women want sex more than we do.
Do you think that has something to do with boys encouraged and women discouraged from their sexuality?
gfx yes
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@@RomWills check out that book on shophar's channel
"A Taste Of Honey"🍯
it mentions the Whip Of MODESTY
women liking sex and receiving more pleasure from it and ,
well
the female,
loving the man its all to 10 the woman 9️⃣✖️ MORE
but she denies it..............
great read
I like that pic 🎆
What you teach the only way to learn is APPROACH APPROACH APPROACH! IJS...nonetheless I agree with most of what you're saying
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Yep.