@@kitkat7871 neglect IS abuse though. You can get taken away or even arrested just as fast by neglecting your kids. I do agree that if he wasn't as affected by that, that's his own feelings or thoughts.
You “had a bad temper” because all the adults in your life had failed you, and you didn’t know how else to react. I’m glad that your journey led where it did.
As a parent who's children were in foster care, I was lucky. My kids were placed with an amazing family that we still have a relationship with today, 15 years later. My kids were in foster care for the longest 8 months of our lives, while I went into treatment for addiction. I'm sorry you went through so much. Your an amazing young man and deserve amazing thing.
Way to go, mom! As a former foster parent, this is exactly why so many of us did it!I love hearing about reunifications and of ongoing bonds with temporary caregivers! Such a blessing to have that support and it is so good for the kids to be able to maintain the bonds they formed with good foster parents so it wasn’t another loss experienced. It sounds like you placed your kids first after their removal and I really commend that!
CONGRATULATIONS on being clean AND having you babies home. I know you said 15 years ago but from a family with addicts and recovering addicts I know sometimes it can hit you for no reason out of nowhere. So in case anyone hasn't told you recently I'm proud of you
Congratulations, I know that was extremely hard and challenging. I grew up with a parent who had an addiction and I also was in foster care she got us back as well.
Imagine going through all you’ve been through, and becoming THIS person. People take life times, (sometimes it doesn’t even happen, )to find a kind, balanced, hardworking version of themselves , and you’re already there! That’s your hard work Alex, that got you there. I hope you’re super proud of yourself x
It was interesting listening to some of the details I hadn’t heard before. Thanks for sharing, and I give you a lot of credit doing so on social media. It takes a lot of strength just to tell people in person, so that’s awesome!
As an experienced foster Mum it's important to realise that neglect is a form of abuse. Thank you for sharing such a private and difficult part of your life.
All ANY child needs is unconditional love, boundaries and support - sadly, you were let down so many times by the adults around you Alex. BUT God had a bigger plan and knew who needed YOU as much as you needed THEM. I knew your story, but hearing you tell it again now reminds me how blessed ALL of you are to have each other. God is good!!!!
Alex, The bond you share with Hannah is second to none. God brought your mom and dad into your life and he did it for a reason. Your mom and dad are angels among men. There aren't many foster kids that grow up with the things that all of you kids do. Never take that for granted. Not all kids get a beautiful mansion to live in, parents that buy you anything and everything you want or need. Parents that buy cars for their kids, rent apartments for their kids, pay all of the kids bills etc. It takes a special person to do those things and Crystal and Aaron do all of those things with nothing but love. Never forget that your mom and dad rescued you from a much sadder life and never lose the appreciation you have for them. You are one amazing young man and I wish you nothing but the best.
I’m a 48 year old Mother and Grandma and I want you to know you inspire me. You’re such a remarkable young man. Thank for sharing what I know was difficult. One day you will be the BEST husband and father, just not for a few more years 😮 😉 ❤️
I came back here after watching your video with Jessica on your fams channel. And now im crying for the 2nd time. No kid should go through something like that. But im glad that you have your forever family that love's you no matter what.
I’m sorry everything you went through. I’m so proud of how far you have come. I don’t understand how some adults expect kids to control their feelings when they cant control their own.
Exactly. Yet they then audacity to blame the child. I wish I could get hold of them, make them sleep on a cold floor with only a piece of toast to eat. I hope the authorities threw away the key!!
Thanks Alex. There is plenty that you left out of this story and I can understand why. I don't like you taking responsibility for the bad things happening because you were bad tempered. Each of those who rescued you along the way have proven that it wasn't your fault. You have blossomed now. Keep growing and Stay Safe! 😺
It was different from your mum's version as she wasn't there to interject, obviously your mum needs to get her perspective across, but this was your life, in your words. What a gentleman, you should be proud of where you're at
Agreed. I think she is being a protective mom when she does that, but I find myself wishing she’d just let them talk when they try. This was very enlightening and emotional, but I wonder if it helped him to say it out loud with his voice?
It was not Crystals story to tell it was Alex story and he told us when he was ready. So much moving around as a young child how would you ever grow up trusting anything or anyone. I love the way he loves Hannah she is such a special young woman.
I fully believe that healing starts by speaking about the harms done to you. I was too ashamed and embarrassed to let anyone know my past until my late 30’s, drunk one night, when every secret I held came pouring out, the floodgates had opened. At 61 I can now laugh at the absurdity of things done to me. I mean, who does that? I could relate to your sleeping on the floor and having to redo chores because I slept under my bed, and just didn’t know how to do some things. The blessing is that now we can know with certainty who we are NOT going to be like, and how we’re NOT going to treat people, and we can now see the fear or shame in others
You are a remarkable young man. All that you went through and look at you now. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re such a genuine person who has so much love to give. God Bless you, Alex.
Sounds like you were going through a lot of trauma/PTSD as a young child, it wasnt you being naughty. Sounds like the first placement didnt understand that. 😔 Thank goodness for Crystal and Aaron coming into your life. ❤
@@KeKe_10_84 I don't think it was RAD. RAD can't be fully cured and Alex is just the sweetest soul you've ever seen now; I honestly just don't believe that he could have made such a dramatic transformation. Plus, the way they tell the story is that all Crystal had to do was just provide reassurance to him one time that she would always love him no matter how he acted and he never had another tantrum. RAD can't be treated that fast or easily; it takes years of intensive therapy. I think it was just a classic case of a really angry kid who reacted appropriately to abuse, and then when they got into a safe environment, tested boundaries so as to make sure their foster parents didn't just throw them out at every hurdle before they allowed themself to get attached.
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your forever home that is so full of love and joy! Thank you for sharing your story, Alex. I pray that someone out there who hears it will gain hope and encouragement in whatever tough situation they may be in, or maybe it inspires some parents to share their love and joy with a child who needs a loving family. Or even shed light on some parents who may not really know how to show love to their child, or have a child with needs they don’t know how to meet, and that they can reach out for help instead of continuing a dysfunctional, abusive path. We never know how our story can help and inspire others to a better life. There’s so much I’d love to say to you, as I grew up with an abusive stepdad and mom. I finally left home at 17, but for most of my childhood I just thought that was the way it was. I never felt safe to share what it was like at home, and my family was great at hiding the reality of our home life. I’m ancient now, at 49 😂, and have worked through the effects of those times. It makes my heart so full and happy hearing your story and seeing you grow over the years into the young man that you now are. You have such a sweet spirit about you, and are so loving and caring toward those around you. Be gentle with yourself, too, and don’t neglect caring for yourself as well…sometimes those of us who have been through tough stuff can forget this easily. I wish the very best for you, and for you and Savannah’s relationship and future together. Who knows, maybe someday you will find a way to use what you’ve learned to reach out to others and help them, like in a job (or maybe adoption) working with kids from similar situations. You are so good with your younger siblings, and I think you have the perfect personality and temperament to be awesome at something like that. 😊
We love you too, Alex. I'm thankful, you and Hannah, found your forever family.. I too, grew up in foster care. Each of you that found your way to the Pettits or, Wallace homes seem to be very blessed. Always remember and perhaps, you all will pay it forward.. Many never find their forever family, their peace and happiness.. You're definitely blessed. ❤️🙏❤️
Thank you for sharing your story! As many have said, there are reasons all kids act out and it doesn't make someone a bad kid. You have to love them through it... and I am so thankful you found parents that were willing to do that with you in your forever family!
You are such a strong and brave young man. You were not a bad or disruptive young boy, the people who had the honour of loving and caring for you were totally very cruel and made you live a disruptive and disfunctional life. You have grown into such a loving and caring young man who is loved and adored by your family. Your Mum and Dad can of course be credited by loving you, showing you a caring and a happy home. However the credit has to go to you by the way you have adapted to a loving home, adapted to how you, as a young person, deserved to be treated. You are a credit not only for yourself but to your family as well. You are also an inspiration to those unfortunate children who are struggling with their journey and that your story will give them a beacon of hope. You are the best big brother ever!! xxx
For all that you went through when you were younger your sure are an amazing young man!! Your mom and dad have done such an amazing job raising you and all of your brothers and sisters!! Your family is amazing and full of positivity. If I’m having a bad day I always watch one of your channels and it makes me feel so much better.
Thanks for sharing your story with us! It's terrible you had to go through all of that at such a young age! No child should even be aware of many of the things you were experiencing. However, your story really shows how true one of my favorite quotes is. I don't remember who said it, but it goes something like "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end". I can imagine you and the other kids felt scared, alone, like the future were never gonna be okay, like no parent would ever treat you with nothing but love and respect... And look at where you're now!
For what you have gone through in your young life Alex, you are an amazing kind man. Your heart could not be an larger for you show it everyday with how you love your Mom and family! I am proud of you!!
I have been following crazy pieces since 2018ish & this is the first time that I have heard your story in this much depth (Today is July 4, 2024). Seeing how close you are with Crystal & Aaron, I never would have guessed how horrible you were treated before you met them. To me, Alex has always been such a huge part of what makes the crazy pieces one of my favorite channels to follow. It wouldn't be what it is without you. You truly found your missing pieces in them, just like they found theirs with you. Watching your videos & theirs for as long as I have been watching them, I know that some things are scripted, but the love that shines through all of you guys for one another is authentic. You can fake a lot of things in life to make them look how you want them to look to other people. You have to have real chemistry & true love though to make it look like your family makes it look.
Alex, I’m so sorry that you had to go through so much trauma growing up. That would make anyone rebel. I worked with special needs children & some of them were rebellious having gone through the foster system also. To feel like you are not wanted & loved has to be the hardest thing ever. You turned out to be a fine young man & are certainly in the best home ever & are greatly loved by your now family & so happy that you & Hannah are finally together.
💙💙💙Breaks my heart that children have to go through what you and Hannah went through before you found your forever family. So proud of you both for your accomplishments and the respectful, awesome young people you have become. God Bless you both in your future. 💙💙💙
I was in and out of foster care my entire life Alex. I was adopted at 10 and back in the system at 14 til I aged out at 18. I empathize with you and how you started. I work in foster care now, helping kids just like me. Sending you big hugs and love. ❤
You have been through so much! And have managed to stay so strong and positive! I’m so glad that you found your FOREVER family and home. May GOD give you nothing but love, blessings and a beautiful future.❤️
Goodness Alex I only heard part of this on your mom's channel. Wow you have been through the wringer. Well done you are an inspiration and maybe if you change some people's perspectives on parenting you will leave a legacy. You can be extremely proud of well done, keep going. 👏 from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦
Alex.oh my... You are not and where not a difficult child you where in a difficult situation and didn't have the basic love and support you deserved. I am so happy you are apart of crazy pieces. You are an amazing person. I am certain you family is grateful for you and that you bless them everyday.
You are such a beautiful human inside and out. I’m so glad your family found you and encouraged your light to shine. You were meant for big things, I just know it. Keep shining!
So sorry u had to go thru that. Thank god things got better for u. I’m happy that you have grown to be a great young man. It’s so sad and thank god again that u got placed with a awesome family and things are better now
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your Mom and Dad! Really sorry about the rough road to get there. It’s a shame that adults do things like that! Super proud of you and the Man you have become Alex!
Alex I'm so happy for you! I love the relationship you have with Hannah, she is a very special person full of love and cares for everyone! I'm so glad you are in this Family, your parents are a blessing from God him self. I'm proud of the person you have become. ❤️
Alex, I've been watching your journey on Crazy Pieces and was lucky to see you turn into an AMAZING young man! I'm so happy for your future with Savannah!! I'll continue to pray for your family and for all the kids struggling out there in foster care. Sending love always ❤ 🥰
After the start in life you had, how you turned out to be so kind, caring & frankly adorable defies logic. Crystal & Aaron worked miracles with you & you have paid them back with being the best big brother anyone could wish for. May you continue to thrive as a Pettit. ❤️
this story hit home you have never went this deep on your family channel. Imagine that needing proper parenting and love over neglect changed your behavior. that's spot on teaching a child AND LOVING A CHILD IS WHAT HELPS THEM GROW AND DEVELOP I'm glad your parents chose you and Hannah and loved you like their own.
You were a kid that had to go thru a lot and that's why the tantrums .. I always believe that some kids do that trying to get attention because something was missing.. you are a great person. God placed you in the right home w the right people. Aaron and Crystal you are doing a great job
I have seen the one done through your family page but this one was a little better. It was more in depth but that might be because you last did it at like 14 and you are 18 now. When you mentioned how "happy and full of joy" the kids were on the way to Legoland, that touched me, like how you knew thru the moment that these parents were different. Glad it worked out for you and Hannah!
Thank you thank you thank you for sharing your life. You are touching a lot of people. You're an incredible young man and I wish you all the best. I came upon this video while researching adoption in hopes of adopting in the future. I appreciate your words and experiences. You are very heard. ♡
Alex, your are now living your best life. You are a wise & strong young man with a huge heart. Keep reaching for the stars and you will touch them one day .
Omg as a mom of two hearing your story broke my heart 😢 you are such an amazing young man and I have watched your family channel for a while now and watching you grow into the young man you are today i don’t know you personally but im so proud of you Alex you are a strong soul keep it up
So sorry you had a troubled younger years. But, you are an amazing young adult. Caring and loving . We had 6 foster children who grew up to be amazing teens. Love them very much. We lost our 22 year old son last year to a brain bleed. I am so grateful for those kids now. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage!
Alex … thank you so much for sharing this part of your life … I’m adopted too . So hearing other peoples story’s is really nice .. sending love and light your way ! Keep being the positive sweet young man you are !
Now, I am even more proud of you…I am sorry you went through all that-kids don’t come with instructions, but any reasonably good parent should know that kids need to feel unconditional love-they may get momentarily angry or disappointed with a child’s behavior…but a parents love doesn’t diminish from that and it is very important that children are told and taught this….and, if possible, I love your parent even more and I am sooooo very happy for you that they rescued you from that part of your life…..you are truly your parents son and I can see the love you have for them and the love they have for you. It doesn’t matter if they adopt another 20 children…the love they have for each of their children doesn’t change…time passage doesn’t change the love….it is eternal.
Alex you have survived so much. You are a remarkable young man who has so much love to give, and there are so many people who watch your videos that including me love you to bits. You should be so proud of the man you are today. So happy you found your forever home. Stay happy love you to bits
Thanks for sharing your story with us, its not always easy to be open about our past! You totally suit the name Alex. Sorry that you spent so long in foster care before you were adopted but very glad you found your amazing forever family. That is not the proper way to discipline a child! Family is important and so are the connections, I am sorry that you can't see your sister! Ugh, it hurts my heart that you were all subjected to that abuse in a place that was supposed to protect you-that abuse was and is not love! So glad that Sam spoke up and you were rescued! So glad you at least got reunited with Hannah after all you have been through. I can't imagine the anxiety after all you had been through, to hear that someone is coming to see you but I am glad you found your mom and dad! Glad Sam is doing well and is building her life! Thank you for sharing your story with us, I know how much courage that took! You are an amazing guy with a huge heart and your past does not define you!
Temper tantrums are definitely nothing to be ashamed of and not you fault! We’ve all chucked them especially when things don’t feel right. I’m glad you found parents who knew how to parent!
You are an awesome human Alex. You have overcome so much in your life. I never would’ve guessed you ever had a temper. I can totally understand why, but I’m so glad you outgrew that, your life could’ve been totally different. 🥰🥰🥰
So proud of you and your strength! No child should have to go through those things, I’m sorry you and sweet Hannah went through so much. Thank you for sharing your story. Hugs! I just adopted my baby girl she’s almost 10yrs old. She was also in 6 homes before she found us. Anyone can change with the proper love and parenting. So grateful.
You're so brave for sharing your story so raw like that. You have taken what was a very hard start to your life and become such a caring and considerate human being.
Your story breaks my heart. You have been through so many experiences and situations that nobody should ever experience, especially not a child. I am so happy that your forever family found you and reunited you with Hannah. You can tell that you have an amazing bond with all of your siblings, especially Hannah.
I have heard your story in bits and pieces but not from the beginning until now. Wow, you have gone trough so much in your young life Alex. I think that you have turned out to be a fine young man much in part to the love you found in your forever home. I have to admit that I got choked up when you talked about your last tantrum and what your mom said to you! Your bond with Hannah is remarkable and so is the relationships that you have with all of your other siblings. You should be proud of the person you have become!
@Alex Pettit I’m so glad you told your story on this channel in your own words. I’ve seen it on your Mom’s channel, which I’ve followed for a long while. But it’s good to hear it, in more detail from you. I’ve always admired your tender heart, and how you’ve come to where you are in life now. Your parents are such giving, accepting, and loving people. It’s so incredibly wonderful that you and Hannah are Pettits, and have a secure and blessed life now and going into the future. I’m also so very happy for you and Savannah to have found each other. There’s nothing compared to true love and happiness in this world. Love you all so much. God bless you now and way into the future that you and Savannah have begun recently. Love from Queensland, Australia 🥰❤️❤️💍👏🙏🏻🇦🇺
I am so happy for you that you came in your "real" family. Love is so important. Love heals all wounds they say. It certainly helped you. You can absulutely be proud of the man you became, I love your energy, I whish you all the best
Oh Alex, now i know why u are so loveable.... my late grandma was born on the 24th of september. I was so so close to her and she was the only person i cried for after she passed.
You turned into such a wonderful man with the right love and care you truly deserved, non of you kids deserved to go through half the stuff you have but youv all grown into such grate children/adults and your parents should be so proud of how well they did in your upbringing
God had bigger and better plans for you young man! Your parents are seriously THEE BEST! Like you said, you just needed to be loved and God knew that you needed them and they needed you! You are such a positive gentleman, and I’m so genuinely sorry for all of the things you had to endure. People (adults mostly) do not realize what that can do to a child that has an everlasting effect on them. So proud of you for being the best YOU! You are super handsome, the best big brother, a great great son, I know your parents are beyond proud of you!! Thanks for sharing Alex, makes me sad to think of the kind of people who could punish a child in such a horrific manner. That’s the past, and while you don’t have to ever forget, for yourself you can forgive, and that’s totally up to you anyway. It’s something I recently learned in therapy, and sounds so cliche to say, but it’s so true. You can forgive and never forget, you can love someone from a far and that doesn’t mean you have to have a seat at your dinner table for them, etc. Anyway, this made me so sad and sad beyond happy at the same time. Love ya kid!! ,
I m glad u r at a better place in life & know what love & family is. I hope & pray to god that u have resolved your ptsd caused by those people , if not please do go to therapy & also talked to loved ones whenever needed . Life is a work in progress
Imagine what kind of life you would've had if you made a different choice. Crystal knew what you needed and was there to love you into wholeness. What a blessing.
You’ve been through so much I’m sorry for all you went through but I’m glad to see you’ve made it to where you are now. You have a bright future ahead of you.
Thank you for sharing your story Alex, I'm glad you finally found your Forever Home with such Amazing parents and a family that showed you how life should of been, I think you have turned into the strong Man you have become because of your strength and courage to be the person you really are. I'm sorry you had to go through life with people who didn't understand you and take the time to get to know you as you really are a Truly Awesome guy. And we can see how Proud your parents are of how you have matured. Your Family think the world of you. Onwards and upwards ❤.
Alex you should be proud of where you are! There was obviously reasons why you were acting the way as a child. I am so glad you told this story cause I didnt realize you and Hanna had been through so much together and I love you picked Crystal and Aaron to be with!
It’s 100% normal for kids who have been separated from their parents (major trauma) to act out, throw tantrums. It would be abnormal if you had not done that. Neglect is abuse. You are so amazing to have survived all that. I’m so sorry you went through all that. I’m glad it all ended well, you seem pretty well adjusted now. Im sure there will all ways be residual crap you have to deal with but I’m so glad you found Crystal and Aaron who seemed to have made up for all the missing love and attention. Your family is amazing. You will make an amazing parent one day.
You have turned into an amazing young man has of all the kids who your mum and dad adopted. You would never believe any of you have been adopted you all fit together so well and your parents are truly fantastic. Good luck for your future in everything you do. X
Hey Alex, i just want you to know.. from your stories all this year, it just show me that tough kids just need an extra loves.. and im glad that you share this.. your mom is awesome and bring sparkle to my life! 💕
you are a brave and strong human. It makes me sad that you experienced the neglect. Our world is better with you in it -- hopefully, you van help others like you. ❤️❤️
Neglect is child abuse. Don't minimize what those jerks did to you.
This !
Exactly.
Don't tell someone who lived through trauma how they should feel about or describe that trauma.
@@kitkat7871 neglect IS abuse though. You can get taken away or even arrested just as fast by neglecting your kids. I do agree that if he wasn't as affected by that, that's his own feelings or thoughts.
You “had a bad temper” because all the adults in your life had failed you, and you didn’t know how else to react. I’m glad that your journey led where it did.
Righteous indignation! Kundalini syndrome let's you see behind the puppet show.
@@startwithurfeet230 ok weirdo.
Absolutely
As a parent who's children were in foster care, I was lucky. My kids were placed with an amazing family that we still have a relationship with today, 15 years later. My kids were in foster care for the longest 8 months of our lives, while I went into treatment for addiction. I'm sorry you went through so much. Your an amazing young man and deserve amazing thing.
Way to go, mom! As a former foster parent, this is exactly why so many of us did it!I love hearing about reunifications and of ongoing bonds with temporary caregivers! Such a blessing to have that support and it is so good for the kids to be able to maintain the bonds they formed with good foster parents so it wasn’t another loss experienced. It sounds like you placed your kids first after their removal and I really commend that!
CONGRATULATIONS on being clean AND having you babies home. I know you said 15 years ago but from a family with addicts and recovering addicts I know sometimes it can hit you for no reason out of nowhere. So in case anyone hasn't told you recently I'm proud of you
Congratulations, I know that was extremely hard and challenging. I grew up with a parent who had an addiction and I also was in foster care she got us back as well.
I started welling up when Alex said " I don't know what Mom and Dad saw in us to wanna keep us" 😭😭😭
Yes 😭. Im crying over here watching this video.
Imagine going through all you’ve been through, and becoming THIS person. People take life times, (sometimes it doesn’t even happen, )to find a kind, balanced, hardworking version of themselves , and you’re already there! That’s your hard work Alex, that got you there. I hope you’re super proud of yourself x
It was interesting listening to some of the details I hadn’t heard before. Thanks for sharing, and I give you a lot of credit doing so on social media. It takes a lot of strength just to tell people in person, so that’s awesome!
As an experienced foster Mum it's important to realise that neglect is a form of abuse. Thank you for sharing such a private and difficult part of your life.
All ANY child needs is unconditional love, boundaries and support - sadly, you were let down so many times by the adults around you Alex. BUT God had a bigger plan and knew who needed YOU as much as you needed THEM. I knew your story, but hearing you tell it again now reminds me how blessed ALL of you are to have each other. God is good!!!!
Alex, The bond you share with Hannah is second to none. God brought your mom and dad into your life and he did it for a reason. Your mom and dad are angels among men. There aren't many foster kids that grow up with the things that all of you kids do. Never take that for granted. Not all kids get a beautiful mansion to live in, parents that buy you anything and everything you want or need. Parents that buy cars for their kids, rent apartments for their kids, pay all of the kids bills etc. It takes a special person to do those things and Crystal and Aaron do all of those things with nothing but love. Never forget that your mom and dad rescued you from a much sadder life and never lose the appreciation you have for them. You are one amazing young man and I wish you nothing but the best.
So proud of how far you came from all of what you went through. I was a foster kid too. My story isn't a good one
I’m a 48 year old Mother and Grandma and I want you to know you inspire me. You’re such a remarkable young man. Thank for sharing what I know was difficult. One day you will be the BEST husband and father, just not for a few more years 😮 😉 ❤️
I came back here after watching your video with Jessica on your fams channel. And now im crying for the 2nd time. No kid should go through something like that. But im glad that you have your forever family that love's you no matter what.
I’m sorry everything you went through. I’m so proud of how far you have come. I don’t understand how some adults expect kids to control their feelings when they cant control their own.
Exactly. Yet they then audacity to blame the child. I wish I could get hold of them, make them sleep on a cold floor with only a piece of toast to eat. I hope the authorities threw away the key!!
Thanks Alex. There is plenty that you left out of this story and I can understand why. I don't like you taking responsibility for the bad things happening because you were bad tempered. Each of those who rescued you along the way have proven that it wasn't your fault. You have blossomed now. Keep growing and Stay Safe! 😺
It was different from your mum's version as she wasn't there to interject, obviously your mum needs to get her perspective across, but this was your life, in your words. What a gentleman, you should be proud of where you're at
Agreed. I think she is being a protective mom when she does that, but I find myself wishing she’d just let them talk when they try. This was very enlightening and emotional, but I wonder if it helped him to say it out loud with his voice?
I also think that they wanna uphold their brand of "family channel" and just have mostly fun up lifting vlogs.
I think that Crazy Pieces and Crazy Middles are awesome families
@@andyrathbone6365 I love all of the “Crazy” channels!
It was not Crystals story to tell it was Alex story and he told us when he was ready. So much moving around as a young child how would you ever grow up trusting anything or anyone. I love the way he loves Hannah she is such a special young woman.
Neglect is a form of abuse :( so glad you eventually received the best family ever! Prayers for your siblings. 🙏
Your character development is so inspiring. Your so cool!
I fully believe that healing starts by speaking about the harms done to you. I was too ashamed and embarrassed to let anyone know my past until my late 30’s, drunk one night, when every secret I held came pouring out, the floodgates had opened. At 61 I can now laugh at the absurdity of things done to me. I mean, who does that? I could relate to your sleeping on the floor and having to redo chores because I slept under my bed, and just didn’t know how to do some things. The blessing is that now we can know with certainty who we are NOT going to be like, and how we’re NOT going to treat people, and we can now see the fear or shame in others
You are a remarkable young man. All that you went through and look at you now. Thank you for sharing your story. You’re such a genuine person who has so much love to give. God Bless you, Alex.
Sounds like you were going through a lot of trauma/PTSD as a young child, it wasnt you being naughty. Sounds like the first placement didnt understand that. 😔 Thank goodness for Crystal and Aaron coming into your life. ❤
I’m happy to see how far Alex has become to now.
It sounds like RAD, especially if he was tantruming like that at age one… then to go on and be abused and neglected further. Just awful!
@@KeKe_10_84 I don't think it was RAD. RAD can't be fully cured and Alex is just the sweetest soul you've ever seen now; I honestly just don't believe that he could have made such a dramatic transformation. Plus, the way they tell the story is that all Crystal had to do was just provide reassurance to him one time that she would always love him no matter how he acted and he never had another tantrum. RAD can't be treated that fast or easily; it takes years of intensive therapy. I think it was just a classic case of a really angry kid who reacted appropriately to abuse, and then when they got into a safe environment, tested boundaries so as to make sure their foster parents didn't just throw them out at every hurdle before they allowed themself to get attached.
Hi ❤ u truly inspiring me I glad u doing okay .
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your forever home that is so full of love and joy! Thank you for sharing your story, Alex. I pray that someone out there who hears it will gain hope and encouragement in whatever tough situation they may be in, or maybe it inspires some parents to share their love and joy with a child who needs a loving family. Or even shed light on some parents who may not really know how to show love to their child, or have a child with needs they don’t know how to meet, and that they can reach out for help instead of continuing a dysfunctional, abusive path. We never know how our story can help and inspire others to a better life. There’s so much I’d love to say to you, as I grew up with an abusive stepdad and mom. I finally left home at 17, but for most of my childhood I just thought that was the way it was. I never felt safe to share what it was like at home, and my family was great at hiding the reality of our home life. I’m ancient now, at 49 😂, and have worked through the effects of those times. It makes my heart so full and happy hearing your story and seeing you grow over the years into the young man that you now are. You have such a sweet spirit about you, and are so loving and caring toward those around you. Be gentle with yourself, too, and don’t neglect caring for yourself as well…sometimes those of us who have been through tough stuff can forget this easily. I wish the very best for you, and for you and Savannah’s relationship and future together. Who knows, maybe someday you will find a way to use what you’ve learned to reach out to others and help them, like in a job (or maybe adoption) working with kids from similar situations. You are so good with your younger siblings, and I think you have the perfect personality and temperament to be awesome at something like that. 😊
We love you too, Alex. I'm thankful, you and Hannah, found your forever family.. I too, grew up in foster care. Each of you that found your way to the Pettits or, Wallace homes seem to be very blessed. Always remember and perhaps, you all will pay it forward.. Many never find their forever family, their peace and happiness..
You're definitely blessed.
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I agree
Thank you for sharing your story! As many have said, there are reasons all kids act out and it doesn't make someone a bad kid. You have to love them through it... and I am so thankful you found parents that were willing to do that with you in your forever family!
Good to see you telling all about your entire adoption and family lets go Alex keep risingup man love you loads bro
Proud of you Alex for all you have and will accomplish Looking forward to your future,I’m sure it will be great.
You are such a strong and brave young man. You were not a bad or disruptive young boy, the people who had the honour of loving and caring for you were totally very cruel and made you live a disruptive and disfunctional life.
You have grown into such a loving and caring young man who is loved and adored by your family. Your Mum and Dad can of course be credited by loving you, showing you a caring and a happy home. However the credit has to go to you by the way you have adapted to a loving home, adapted to how you, as a young person, deserved to be treated. You are a credit not only for yourself but to your family as well. You are also an inspiration to those unfortunate children who are struggling with their journey and that your story will give them a beacon of hope.
You are the best big brother ever!! xxx
For all that you went through when you were younger your sure are an amazing young man!! Your mom and dad have done such an amazing job raising you and all of your brothers and sisters!! Your family is amazing and full of positivity. If I’m having a bad day I always watch one of your channels and it makes me feel so much better.
I agree
Thanks for sharing your story with us! It's terrible you had to go through all of that at such a young age! No child should even be aware of many of the things you were experiencing.
However, your story really shows how true one of my favorite quotes is. I don't remember who said it, but it goes something like "Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, it's not the end".
I can imagine you and the other kids felt scared, alone, like the future were never gonna be okay, like no parent would ever treat you with nothing but love and respect... And look at where you're now!
You brought tears to my eyes…you are a wonderful caring man and deserve all the love you are getting.
i’m so proud of you alex and how far you’ve come and finally getting into an amazing family
For what you have gone through in your young life Alex, you are an amazing kind man. Your heart could not be an larger for you show it everyday with how you love your Mom and family! I am proud of you!!
You're an amazing person and I'm so glad life got better for you. No one deserves to go through that
I have been following crazy pieces since 2018ish & this is the first time that I have heard your story in this much depth (Today is July 4, 2024). Seeing how close you are with Crystal & Aaron, I never would have guessed how horrible you were treated before you met them. To me, Alex has always been such a huge part of what makes the crazy pieces one of my favorite channels to follow. It wouldn't be what it is without you. You truly found your missing pieces in them, just like they found theirs with you. Watching your videos & theirs for as long as I have been watching them, I know that some things are scripted, but the love that shines through all of you guys for one another is authentic. You can fake a lot of things in life to make them look how you want them to look to other people. You have to have real chemistry & true love though to make it look like your family makes it look.
Alex you've come a long ways . So glad the Mom & Dad found you and Hannah. Thanks for sharing your story. I'm very proud of ya .
Alex, I’m so sorry that you had to go through so much trauma growing up. That would make anyone rebel.
I worked with special needs children & some of them were rebellious having gone through the foster system also. To feel like you are not wanted & loved has to be the hardest thing ever.
You turned out to be a fine young man & are certainly in the best home ever & are greatly loved by your now family & so happy that you & Hannah are finally together.
💙💙💙Breaks my heart that children have to go through what you and Hannah went through before you found your forever family. So proud of you both for your accomplishments and the respectful, awesome young people you have become. God Bless you both in your future. 💙💙💙
Thank you for sharing your story. So glad you & Hannah, were able to finally ended up in a loving home. God bless you both.
I was in and out of foster care my entire life Alex. I was adopted at 10 and back in the system at 14 til I aged out at 18. I empathize with you and how you started. I work in foster care now, helping kids just like me. Sending you big hugs and love. ❤
i am sorry
You have been through so much! And have managed to stay so strong and positive! I’m so glad that you found your FOREVER family and home. May GOD give you nothing but love, blessings and a beautiful future.❤️
Goodness Alex I only heard part of this on your mom's channel. Wow you have been through the wringer. Well done you are an inspiration and maybe if you change some people's perspectives on parenting you will leave a legacy. You can be extremely proud of well done, keep going. 👏 from Cape Town South Africa 🇿🇦
Alex.oh my... You are not and where not a difficult child you where in a difficult situation and didn't have the basic love and support you deserved. I am so happy you are apart of crazy pieces. You are an amazing person. I am certain you family is grateful for you and that you bless them everyday.
So proud of you. You're an amazing young man despite living through such hardships in your life. Amazing
You are such a beautiful human inside and out. I’m so glad your family found you and encouraged your light to shine. You were meant for big things, I just know it. Keep shining!
So sorry u had to go thru that. Thank god things got better for u. I’m happy that you have grown to be a great young man. It’s so sad and thank god again that u got placed with a awesome family and things are better now
I’m so glad you and Hannah found your Mom and Dad! Really sorry about the rough road to get there. It’s a shame that adults do things like that! Super proud of you and the Man you have become Alex!
Alex I'm so happy for you! I love the relationship you have with Hannah, she is a very special person full of love and cares for everyone! I'm so glad you are in this Family, your parents are a blessing from God him self. I'm proud of the person you have become. ❤️
Alex, I've been watching your journey on Crazy Pieces and was lucky to see you turn into an AMAZING young man! I'm so happy for your future with Savannah!! I'll continue to pray for your family and for all the kids struggling out there in foster care. Sending love always ❤ 🥰
After the start in life you had, how you turned out to be so kind, caring & frankly adorable defies logic. Crystal & Aaron worked miracles with you & you have paid them back with being the best big brother anyone could wish for. May you continue to thrive as a Pettit. ❤️
this story hit home you have never went this deep on your family channel. Imagine that needing proper parenting and love over neglect changed your behavior. that's spot on teaching a child AND LOVING A CHILD IS WHAT HELPS THEM GROW AND DEVELOP I'm glad your parents chose you and Hannah and loved you like their own.
You were a kid that had to go thru a lot and that's why the tantrums .. I always believe that some kids do that trying to get attention because something was missing.. you are a great person. God placed you in the right home w the right people. Aaron and Crystal you are doing a great job
I have seen the one done through your family page but this one was a little better. It was more in depth but that might be because you last did it at like 14 and you are 18 now. When you mentioned how "happy and full of joy" the kids were on the way to Legoland, that touched me, like how you knew thru the moment that these parents were different. Glad it worked out for you and Hannah!
Thank you thank you thank you for sharing your life. You are touching a lot of people. You're an incredible young man and I wish you all the best.
I came upon this video while researching adoption in hopes of adopting in the future. I appreciate your words and experiences. You are very heard. ♡
Alex, your are now living your best life. You are a wise & strong young man with a huge heart. Keep reaching for the stars and you will touch them one day .
The Pettit's are the best. The more I hear the clearer it becomes. So happy for you.
Thanks for sharing! Your family's stories are a big part of my inspiration to adopt older kids
Omg as a mom of two hearing your story broke my heart 😢 you are such an amazing young man and I have watched your family channel for a while now and watching you grow into the young man you are today i don’t know you personally but im so proud of you Alex you are a strong soul keep it up
This about broke my heart I wanted to hug you so tight. Alex you are so wonderfully special with the biggest heart & dont ever forget that.
So sorry you had a troubled younger years. But, you are an amazing young adult. Caring and loving . We had 6 foster children who grew up to be amazing teens. Love them very much. We lost our 22 year old son last year to a brain bleed. I am so grateful for those kids now. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage!
Alex … thank you so much for sharing this part of your life … I’m adopted too . So hearing other peoples story’s is really nice .. sending love and light your way ! Keep being the positive sweet young man you are !
Now, I am even more proud of you…I am sorry you went through all that-kids don’t come with instructions, but any reasonably good parent should know that kids need to feel unconditional love-they may get momentarily angry or disappointed with a child’s behavior…but a parents love doesn’t diminish from that and it is very important that children are told and taught this….and, if possible, I love your parent even more and I am sooooo very happy for you that they rescued you from that part of your life…..you are truly your parents son and I can see the love you have for them and the love they have for you. It doesn’t matter if they adopt another 20 children…the love they have for each of their children doesn’t change…time passage doesn’t change the love….it is eternal.
Alex you have survived so much. You are a remarkable young man who has so much love to give, and there are so many people who watch your videos that including me love you to bits. You should be so proud of the man you are today. So happy you found your forever home. Stay happy love you to bits
You are so strong Alex
Thanks for sharing your story with us, its not always easy to be open about our past! You totally suit the name Alex. Sorry that you spent so long in foster care before you were adopted but very glad you found your amazing forever family. That is not the proper way to discipline a child! Family is important and so are the connections, I am sorry that you can't see your sister! Ugh, it hurts my heart that you were all subjected to that abuse in a place that was supposed to protect you-that abuse was and is not love! So glad that Sam spoke up and you were rescued! So glad you at least got reunited with Hannah after all you have been through. I can't imagine the anxiety after all you had been through, to hear that someone is coming to see you but I am glad you found your mom and dad! Glad Sam is doing well and is building her life! Thank you for sharing your story with us, I know how much courage that took! You are an amazing guy with a huge heart and your past does not define you!
Your an amazing young man. Bless you in your ventures. You and Savannah are socute together. And of course thst sweet pup.
Temper tantrums are definitely nothing to be ashamed of and not you fault! We’ve all chucked them especially when things don’t feel right. I’m glad you found parents who knew how to parent!
Alex, wow you turned out great after your past. I'm proud that you finally found a lovely parents. Love from Canada🥰🥰🥰
I agree
You're such a strong person. After all you've been through, you still shine a positive light all around you ❤
I feel like somewhere there is a kid in a similar situation and is going to see this and be so inspired by you Alex
awe Alex you are BEYOND STRONG to tell your story. im so proud of you for who you have become,you are loved by so many.
You are an awesome human Alex. You have overcome so much in your life. I never would’ve guessed you ever had a temper. I can totally understand why, but I’m so glad you outgrew that, your life could’ve been totally different. 🥰🥰🥰
So proud of you and your strength! No child should have to go through those things, I’m sorry you and sweet Hannah went through so much. Thank you for sharing your story. Hugs! I just adopted my baby girl she’s almost 10yrs old. She was also in 6 homes before she found us. Anyone can change with the proper love and parenting. So grateful.
You're so brave for sharing your story so raw like that. You have taken what was a very hard start to your life and become such a caring and considerate human being.
Ok Alex, you made me cry happy tears. I have watched you grow up and love you all so very much. Good luck with your future endeavors
Your story breaks my heart. You have been through so many experiences and situations that nobody should ever experience, especially not a child. I am so happy that your forever family found you and reunited you with Hannah. You can tell that you have an amazing bond with all of your siblings, especially Hannah.
I have heard your story in bits and pieces but not from the beginning until now. Wow, you have gone trough so much in your young life Alex. I think that you have turned out to be a fine young man much in part to the love you found in your forever home. I have to admit that I got choked up when you talked about your last tantrum and what your mom said to you! Your bond with Hannah is remarkable and so is the relationships that you have with all of your other siblings. You should be proud of the person you have become!
@Alex Pettit I’m so glad you told your story on this channel in your own words. I’ve seen it on your Mom’s channel, which I’ve followed for a long while. But it’s good to hear it, in more detail from you.
I’ve always admired your tender heart, and how you’ve come to where you are in life now.
Your parents are such giving, accepting, and loving people. It’s so incredibly wonderful that you and Hannah are Pettits, and have a secure and blessed life now and going into the future.
I’m also so very happy for you and Savannah to have found each other. There’s nothing compared to true love and happiness in this world. Love you all so much.
God bless you now and way into the future that you and Savannah have begun recently.
Love from Queensland, Australia 🥰❤️❤️💍👏🙏🏻🇦🇺
You have a lot of insight and are so level headed..I wish so much for you..I feel you will do great things..
I am so happy for you that you came in your "real" family. Love is so important. Love heals all wounds they say. It certainly helped you. You can absulutely be proud of the man you became, I love your energy, I whish you all the best
Hope you are doing well and love living on your own! Wishing nothing but the best!
Oh Alex, now i know why u are so loveable.... my late grandma was born on the 24th of september. I was so so close to her and she was the only person i cried for after she passed.
You turned into such a wonderful man with the right love and care you truly deserved, non of you kids deserved to go through half the stuff you have but youv all grown into such grate children/adults and your parents should be so proud of how well they did in your upbringing
God had bigger and better plans for you young man! Your parents are seriously THEE BEST! Like you said, you just needed to be loved and God knew that you needed them and they needed you! You are such a positive gentleman, and I’m so genuinely sorry for all of the things you had to endure. People (adults mostly) do not realize what that can do to a child that has an everlasting effect on them. So proud of you for being the best YOU! You are super handsome, the best big brother, a great great son, I know your parents are beyond proud of you!! Thanks for sharing Alex, makes me sad to think of the kind of people who could punish a child in such a horrific manner. That’s the past, and while you don’t have to ever forget, for yourself you can forgive, and that’s totally up to you anyway. It’s something I recently learned in therapy, and sounds so cliche to say, but it’s so true. You can forgive and never forget, you can love someone from a far and that doesn’t mean you have to have a seat at your dinner table for them, etc. Anyway, this made me so sad and sad beyond happy at the same time. Love ya kid!! ,
I am so sorry that you had to go through so much. but thank the Lord you are amazing person today.
I've actually not seen your full life story on the crazy pieces channel so thanks for sharing
I have been watching crazy pieces for some time. I'm subscribing because you are a nice good and wonderful person. God bless you and you parents
I m glad u r at a better place in life & know what love & family is. I hope & pray to god that u have resolved your ptsd caused by those people , if not please do go to therapy & also talked to loved ones whenever needed . Life is a work in progress
Imagine what kind of life you would've had if you made a different choice. Crystal knew what you needed and was there to love you into wholeness. What a blessing.
You’ve been through so much I’m sorry for all you went through but I’m glad to see you’ve made it to where you are now. You have a bright future ahead of you.
Your story has made you such a great person. I am so happy you found such a wonderful family.❤️
Thank you for sharing your story Alex, I'm glad you finally found your Forever Home with such Amazing parents and a family that showed you how life should of been, I think you have turned into the strong Man you have become because of your strength and courage to be the person you really are. I'm sorry you had to go through life with people who didn't understand you and take the time to get to know you as you really are a Truly Awesome guy. And we can see how Proud your parents are of how you have matured. Your Family think the world of you. Onwards and upwards ❤.
You're an amazing young man Alex. One day you'll be a great dad and husband. Thanks for sharing your full story. You've been through alot.
Alex you should be proud of where you are! There was obviously reasons why you were acting the way as a child. I am so glad you told this story cause I didnt realize you and Hanna had been through so much together and I love you picked Crystal and Aaron to be with!
Wow thank you so much for sharing your story 💗 you have come along way and so proud of you
It’s 100% normal for kids who have been separated from their parents (major trauma) to act out, throw tantrums. It would be abnormal if you had not done that. Neglect is abuse. You are so amazing to have survived all that. I’m so sorry you went through all that. I’m glad it all ended well, you seem pretty well adjusted now. Im sure there will all ways be residual crap you have to deal with but I’m so glad you found Crystal and Aaron who seemed to have made up for all the missing love and attention. Your family is amazing. You will make an amazing parent one day.
You have turned into an amazing young man has of all the kids who your mum and dad adopted. You would never believe any of you have been adopted you all fit together so well and your parents are truly fantastic. Good luck for your future in everything you do. X
Hey Alex, i just want you to know.. from your stories all this year, it just show me that tough kids just need an extra loves.. and im glad that you share this.. your mom is awesome and bring sparkle to my life! 💕
This makes me so happy that you have your amazing mom and dad now.
you are a brave and strong human. It makes me sad that you experienced the neglect. Our world is better with you in it -- hopefully, you van help others like you. ❤️❤️
Your story made me emotional! You're amazing!