Alex is so special. He's so loving and kind and not afraid to show his emotions. He has such depth and wisdom already for his young age. Thank you for sharing Alex. Keep shining!
His former 4th grade teacher helped reunite him to Hannah and the others, and ultimately, led to him meeting Crystal and Aaron. That’s so, so special and pivotal. Crystal’s love for Alex during that tantrum is a true life lesson for me.
To the parents: we need more people like you in this world. A Godly couple who are willing to to adopt and foster children who society or the foster care system seem to be difficult. But, the main reason they are difficult, is that they need understanding, and unconditional love like you as wonderful role models are giving these kids. Alex thank you for sharing your story, you are much admired. I am humbled by your story. May God bless you and your family. 🙏
One thing i really admire Alex is his full of positive attitudes... Despite of his unfortunate experiences, he chose to have positive outlook in life and grateful of what he has...
For any child to be 'throwing a tantrum' considering all the back and forth, loss of parents, loved ones, friends, home, etc is a lot of to process for ANYONE let alone a child in limbo. I know this from personal experience too. Constantly unsettled, not knowing, unstable, uprooted, dealing with the thoughts of 'not being wanted' and to then have to manage abusive foster parents who should never be parents PERIOD, can feel hopeless that no one will ever want you. Watching Crystal and her husband allow these kids to express their feelings and also (as foster parents) learn and share the burden. It is heavy. Love it.
Just...WOW! I stumbled on the vlog of Alex being reunited with his brother & now I have been pulled into the lives of this extraordinary family. And a REAL family it is. Crystal & Aaron are THE definition of true parents. I agree with Crystal about not closing the door on biological backgrounds but she & Aaron have shown that it is (unconditional) love that make someone a mom or a dad! How incredibly fortunate for all of their children that they have been shown the love of a parent. I’m not sure what I enjoy more, the love Crystal shows Alex or the bond Alex has with his mother. Thank you both for allowing us to share your pain & your parenting even though it is always watched through tears! Alex is the most gentle, caring & inspiring teenager with an enormous heart. I hope he will consider becoming a teacher or pediatrician one day because he most certainly would be awesome. Alex, your honesty & raw emotions are your strength. Thank you for sharing your story. In this chaotic world full of so much turmoil YOU let us hope & pray that with young people like you the world may someday be a more loving & peaceful place. God bless Crazy Pieces.
Omg me to I had never heard of them before they are a great family and I love that they take care of all of these kids it really shows that there are kind loving godly parents who will love them unconditionally keep up the good work
Two failed "forever homes"? Split from the kids you called siblings, twice... Alex, my heart hurts for everything you went through. I am so glad and grateful that you are now strong, happy, and living with the Pettits. I'm happy that you're starting to reunite with your bio siblings and other found family members. Thank you for sharing your story - it meant a lot to me. I wish you only healing going forward and that this was cathartic and healthy for you
I was adopted at 3 days old. Growing up, I can never remember a time of not knowing I was adopted. My parents always explained to me that I was special, while other children only get one set of parents I got two. And that God hand-picked me just for them. Though I loved my parents with all my heart, there was always a part of me that craved knowing where I came from and what my roots were. When I was a teenager, my Mom told me she would fully support me finding my birth-parents because she knew she had raised me with enough love in my heart for all of them. My adoption had been a private one, so my Mom had my birth-mothers name, address and phone number. One February evening I finally got the courage to make the call to her and I will never forget that conversation. I had been raised an only child but found out I had three younger brothers. Adoption has always been so, so close to my heart. It's a beautiful selfless act! Thank you for sharing your stories!
I totally agree with these parents regarding the importance of all kids KNOWING their lineage/cultural heritage. It 'adds-to' the child's understanding of WHERE they came from, WHY their blood parents might have needed to adopt them out and HOW that all brought them to this loving home. The more a child can build CONTEXT, the more understanding of their belonging and compassion for their unique journey up to this point has been. Most importantly FORGIVE or make peace with those who hurt them and move forward lighter, not heavier. Beautiful.
The first video I saw from you guys was the brothers reunited. I have been binge watching your videos ever since. Your overall message that kids have value no matter what is a message that kids and adults alike need to hear more often. The bond of love your family shares is wonderful to see, and I thank you for sharing it with us.
Alex is so amazing. He seems so kind, with a big heart, open and honest. He is so handsome too. I am glad you have him in your family and I am sure you have given him what he needed to fulfill his potential. A safe and loving home. I only wish you good things in life and keep up the good spirit.
To the parents- you two are amazing! I wish when I was going through the system I would of had a family like you both. Every time I got to a family within 3 months they gave me back. It’s so hard to go through that. Great job with everything this means a lot. I feel the system is so messed up but this makes me feel hopeful about the system. Alex- I remember when me and my older brother met after being split. It was so emotional I cried so hard he did as well. Your so blessed to have a family like you have now. I’m going to follow your story and I hope one day you write your story and make it where other kids can read your story and know things do get better. Hugs to the entire family!
I’m doing well. I’m married now and my siblings and I have grown strong. We talk everyday. Life is amazing. The part I love so much is we are talking about becoming foster parents in the near future. The reasoning why is I want to foster a family of siblings just so the do t have to go through what my siblings and I went through. Alex is amazing to speak out about his past and make it where children get to see it’s ok life siblings and are connected and they will meet one day.
Alex is such a special young man! To hear his story is heartbreaking and heartwarming all at the same time. He’s a remarkable young man, thank you for sharing him with all of the world!
Wow, Alex & I had a very similar experience growing up. Though I aged out of foster care & repeated the same cycle for years, including abusive foster homes. I'm so happy for him & your family. Though it started out rough, this has ended in such a touching, beautiful story. I'm glad I stumbled upon it.
Alex you are a credit to yourself & your parents. You have been through so much but it hasn't made you hard & bitter, you have a heart of gold & you deserve all the love that comes your way. Although you have only come into my life through TH-cam & I don't know you personally I can see what a special, kind & caring person you are. You are very blessed to now be in your forever home with such loving parents & siblings. You are loved by all your TH-cam family to. Xxx❤️🇬🇧😘
Thank you Alex for being so brave and sharing your story! It makes me so sad to hear what you've been through but also very happy that you've found your forever family. And for Mom and Dad, it makes me SO HAPPY to hear you love the kids unconditionally and that you recognize that throwing a temper tantrum doesn't mean the kid is "difficult" but he is having a hard time. The situation is hard, not the kid. I love that you have that approach, that's what every kid should be told by their caregivers!
Alex you are a super young man and should be proud of who you are considering all you have gone through. I know when you have children of your own you will love them unconditionally. Thank you Crazy Pieces for showing him the love and support you have and are giving not only to Alex but to all of your own and adopted children xxx .
Personally, it's very hard for me too when Alex is telling his story I almost cry. Drugs really not only can kill someone literally, but so many families were broken because of it. Really sad.
The Granddaughter we are raising had the same kinds of fits at 3 and 4. I was called every name you can think of but we worked through it and now at 11 she is a wonderful person just like you are. So glad you found the family God wanted you to be with.
I first saw the other video about a week or two ago and it had me in tears. Alex seems like such a well-rounded boy and a testimony of how the worst can turn out to be something special. Your story is incredibly inspiring and should be a movie.
Ok so I just crawled out from under a rock and only recently found this channel & family. I’m also a birth mother having placed a baby (closed adoption) when I was a senior in high school. That said, Alex, you are so special. You are brave, and so open and so generous sharing your pain, and thoughts and feelings yet still manage to see the good in everything. You simply shine and I’m so impressed by how mature you are. I just love you! Your parents are such good examples, I love that they embrace your whole past and where you are from. Never lose your vulnerability, you are such a good role model! It’s evident your parents just allow you to be who you are. You are very lucky! You’ve been through hell and but aren’t bitter or jaded. You just exude this happiness ... it’s infectious! ❤️
The world needs more Pettit's. I can't watch ANY of your videos without crying my eyes out.... the humanity and the LOVE that you all show to your kids.... WOW I know I am a hormonal grandma, but gosh. Waterworks. Every. Single. Time. I love you guys. I love being uplifted by the warmth and positivity that your family literally EXUDES. You can see how loved those children feel, and you can see the love they have for Crystal and Aaron. It's SUCH a beautiful thing. And Alex, thank you for sharing so much of yourself. I'm sorry that there have been people in your life that have not seen your value, have treated you with less than you deserved or that they made you feel not worth of love. That breaks my heart. No child deserves that....you were scared, confused, afraid and lonely. I'm so happy that the Pettit's found you and that they DO love you unconditionally. I can't wait to see where your life journeys take you all. God bless you!! ~ Jan
Stay strong Alex, you have been through so much and you are growing into a fine young man. You are in a home where the family loves you without any constraints. You are an inspiration to all adoptees, so they know that there are people out there who love you. And the subscribers are included in that.
I love when Alex gets emotional. It's a great release and shows how big his heart is. Watching all the videos you can genuinely see that he loves his whole family and cares deeply. I see him as a sibling leader. They look up to him and he takes that role very seriously. He's so adorable and has such an amazing future in store for him.
Mr Rogers said it best: “I like you just the way you are” 🧡 the universe placed you right where you needed to be, and we can all see what love your parents have for all of you 🥰
I've binge watched a bunch of your videos after randomly coming across your channel! I'm so happy I did find it, because you are amazing parents and all your children biological and adoptive, are growing up in such a loving environment, and you are raising them to be the best human beings in their own unique ways. I plan to adopt children at some point in my life and this is just so inspiring! Both your channel and Crazy Middles are beautiful! 🙏🏽
My heart hurts for Alex. His story is so sad. You can tell he is a great kid. All he needed was some love. I know he is okay now and has an awesome family who love him. May God bless their hearts. You really don’t know how the fosters care is until you come across these stories.
Aaron and Crystal I think you two are amazing. I can see the love, compassion and understanding that you have for each and every one of your kids when you talk and listen to them. I can also see how much all the kids love both of you as well. I'm fairly new to your channel but I find myself binge watching one video after another, laughing one minute and wiping my eyes the next, you know... allergies. I gave up on the 'I was chopping onions' since I was usually sitting in the living room lol. Thank you for sharing your family with us.
Alex for someone who has gone through a lot for such a young age, you turned out to be one incredible person. Thanks for sharing the struggles you went through.
I love the fact that Alex and all of your kids aren’t scared to show emotion and are real It takes a lot and especially if you have had a hard past You are all inspiring to me and I love your family❤️❤️
Special thanks to both of you for opening your hearts to children of the world who need family. And well done Alex for sharing so much of your story so openly, for your vulnerability, for your strength - I hope you know how many other kids you have touched by sharing your story with humility, humor and grace.
Guys, you are such a positive influence on the world. Alex has matured and learned to love himself through your genuine acceptance of who he is. And Alex I can see that you are such a loving person and authentic. Keep giving out that love and positivity.
Aaron & Crystal 💕 you two to me are literally angels on Earth. Your family is so special and amazing and it's that way because if you two. What you've created and made as your family is so inspiring and truly amazing. It is like you were all meant to be together from day 1. Thank you for all you've done for your kids and kids that have come and left your lives. I know all the kids you've helped have a special place in your heart. 💕
Omg I have cried so much. These videos are so sad and they mean so much. No one will ever know what they actually went through .They have some strong story’s and it makes me cry how they are able to tell their stories.i literally have been binge watching every video.
I’m really glad you met your brother. Also that you found a family that loves you and cares for you. As a kid as young as 5 being taken away from her parents and finding her forever home. Ik it’s the best feeling ever. I’m glad to know that I’m not alone out here. And your parents are freaking awesome! I’m extremely glad I came across y’all videos. Stay blessed you just got a new member ❤️
It's really amazing to actually hear his point of view on it all. What an inspiring young man! So smart and wise, shares his emotions so readily. You two are absolutely a God send to many children, You give love unconditionally, you're caring, respectful, loving, compassionate, smart amazing parents!! You could teach SO many SO much, just like in your videos! I've learned so much from all of you!! Thank you for sharing your lives, I'm sure it isn't easy or nice sometimes! Don't ever doubt yourselves you are doing something, MANY things, actually, So right and good, the WHOLE WORLD NEEDS YOU GUYS!!!
OMG! 😭 What a bunch of mean people you are! You made me cry again. 🤣 THANK YOU SO MUCH, for helping Alex and your other kids! God put them in your path because He knew it was right. Thank you for being the instruments He used for these kids. Thank you for giving them love, education, a home and in general a chance where there would have been none. I’ve seen a few videos with Alex and he’s a wonderful young man, you can tell he’s a good soul. Keep going forward little bro, keep growing, keep learning, keep loving! A big hug from Puerto Rico! GBU, your parents and your siblings! 🙌🏻
Hard to imagine all that you went through Alex. Emotions had to be high and yet trying to hide some as to not wanting to cause another incident, especially at young age where things had to be confusing. Not knowing who you could trust. I am happy that you found your forever family and you bio brother. Stay strong and happy.
Started crying from sadness and ended the video happy crying. Oh Aex. I am so happy that your forever family found you. The way you speak shows how resilient and mature you are. I feel like you have a gift and you will one day help kids that were in the same situation you used to be in. Sending a big hug. You are such a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your story Alex.
Thanks for answering many of the questions I had after watching Alex and his brother, Josh, reunion. Given all Alex has been through before reaching your family, he has turned into a remarkable young man. I am sure he will go on to do many great things.
Crystal and Aaron you two are absolutely amazing and incredible parents. I can see the love you both have for all of your kids and it’s so inspiring. Because of you I definitely want to foster and adopt when I’m older. Thank you for showing others what true love and compassion is. The world needs more people like you guys❤️
Alex is so amazing, honest and brave to tell his story. Then found a loving family. I love you Alex, you are so adorable and handsome. I listen to your story and crying at the same time. May God be with you in everything you do.
I’m a social worker and I tell new foster parents the children they will be getting are broken. Most have been through more in their short lives than most adults ever go through. The thing they need more than anything is love and stability. Foster parents have the hardest jobs of anyone in the child services system. There aren’t enough words to thank them for what they do. It’s very obvious that Alex is loved and is being raised to be a great man! Love this family and all they do for their children.
I can’t wait to adopt my kids. It blows my mind that there’s a good chance that my kids exist already and I just haven’t met them yet. My heart breaks for them already because I don’t want them to have to go through the hard things that they might have to go through before we meet but I cannot wait for the day that we get to come home together.
Hope someday Alex can also meet his sister and personally I will be waiting for it in your vlog. Thank you for giving a family and a home to him and to the other kids.
I stumbled on one of your videos when Alex meet his older brother and I was just blown away by the love among brothers and from there I was introduced to the Crazy Pieces and I love your channel... So wholesome and rooted in love, compassion and kindness. Thank you Crystal and Aaron for your large heart. Alex you are incredible young man with a beautiful 💓... Continue to remain grateful for the blessings you have. We love you Alex!!!
Thank you very much, Alex, this very much hit me close to home, at the moment I am going through a tough time where I feel my parents don't love me, I get sent to my room for 1 little thing I do wrong and I get screamed and yelled at for every movement I make and I'm really thankful that I have u guys here to help me through this it might not be physically but you surely have mentally, I am also going through a tough time where my friend has separated from me and taking many of my beloved friends away from me including some of my very close family friends, I have had a very depressing and emotional last month but I am so very thankful that there are more people out there suffering from these emotions and its not just me, I really appreciate everything you do Alex and all the Crazy Pieces!! Xx 🥰
When a Foster Child or Adopted child says go ahead send me to a group home or back to foster care IS ABSOLUTELY HEARTBREAKING. No child should fear being unloved just for misbehaving.
So much of Alex and Chrystals bond reminds me of my son Andrew and me. He died suddenly last year at 22 of a brain bleed. Life is too short. Don’t sweat the small stuff. So happy for Alex. Aaron and Crystal are amazing people. God bless.
I just stumbled across your channel 💕 You are amazing parents!! I wish every child in the system had you as parents!! The world would be amazing!! Alex, I just wanted you to know what a superstar you are!! For you to be so positive and sharing your journey with the world is amazing!! I took a girl in 6 years ago and what you shared in this video will make a HUGE difference in our lives!! Thank you so much for your words💕 Thank you mom and dad for your advice/wisdom too!! My God continue to bless all of you! 🥰. End note I did binge watch quite a few of the videos before this one! 😉
Alex, you’re just such a positive soul. After overcoming terrible nightmares & obstacles, I need to commend you on your continuos positive outlook on life. You have nothing but a heart of gold and deserve all the love that comes your way. You’re awesome! Keep being yourself and do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of being yourself.
😢Thank you for sharing. Some children are with natural parents and don’t experience love like you have. Very blessed to have found your forever family.
Thank you TH-cam for recommending your last video... I instantly subscribed.. thanking God for people like you guys.. you give so many people hope.. you're AMAZING..
Blessed child Alex. You have taught me and the world something. Unconditional Love. To Love without expecting anything in return. That’s a beautiful heart you have. After your suffering your heart is pure. Thank you. Peace Love
Alex, I admire you so much for sharing your story. In spite of the difficulties you experienced in your early years, you are such a fine young man. I notice in the videos how thoughtful and kind you are to everyone, without ever seeking recognition. You are a very caring person. I would be so proud if you were my son or grandson! You deserve all the happiness in the world and that’s what I wish for you. I’m sending love to you and all the Crazy Pieces family from Austin, Texas! 🤗
It takes so much strength to talk about this. It’s also healing. I have been through some ruff times when I was little, but always had my four siblings to go through it with me. Bless your heart Alex! Making this video helps others too. I think helping others heal is also healing for you. ❤️
Alex has grown up to be a nice young man, so sorry for what you had to go thru. Thank you Crazy Pieces family for all your unconditional love towards all the children that cross your path.
❤️Alex⭐ Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm sure it wasn't easy. I watch your videos, you are so sweet, kind and so thoughtful of others. You have so many great qualities and I'm so happy that your where you are with you your with so you were able to grow up into the amazing person you've always been. Thanks for sharing 💕
Hi crazy pieces! My name is lex and I just wanted to say that I think your family is just amazing! I understand what Alex and some of the other kids go through and has gone through because I have been in the foster care system. It's not fun being in the system because of all the abuse and trauma that a lot of Foster and adoptive parents put the kids through, but yet again whenever I'm dealing with my trauma from Foster Care I just look at your videos and I see a more positive side of this world so thank you for that! You guys are truly a blessing to the system and I think that the stories that the kids have in your family are absolutely amazing because they have gone through a lot and they are pushing through their hardships with the right amount of support that they need. Thank you guys for everything!
I'm glad that he ends up in a loving family that helps him in fixing the broken pieces of his past. I think this is very traumatic and I'm glad that Alex was able to talk about it. It's a big sign that he is doing good with his life now. Other people become a different person after going through such experiences. That's why in psychology we are always told to be more understanding and not to judge other people easily may it be with their decisions in life, how they act the way they are, and why they end up doing crimes. You never knew what they have been through and what made them do such a thing. Something in the past created them, and sometimes it's impossible to fix.
All i have to say is this world needs more people like you to make it a much better place. Such a loving supportive family. Sending all my love and blessings to you all.
Such a heart warming story. These kids are so special. They each deserve the very best life has to offer. I wish I could hug each and everyone of them.❤️🙏
What a beautiful story. I'm 77 and never knew my Father. No one in my family would tell me. I even did the Ancestor.Com thing, hoping, but ..... my Mother was abusive to me growing up. I won't go into details, but it was a sick relationship. She then married a guy that turned out to be a drunk. I lived with them for 6 horrible months, and then (thank God) my Grandparents made arrangements to take me in. That was a blessing and the answer to my prayers. Whenever I see stories like this, I kinda tear up 'cuz I can feel the pain these kids went through. To Alex: you have SO much courage and love in you. You're not afraid to express your emotions and share them with us. God bless all of you.
I think Alex is really spiritually connected andI that’s why he ends up with people who provide divine/unconditional love. In one of the clips he said he would like to meet his biological parents because he is thankful to them for giving him life, I was really impressed that he understands this rather ‘profound’ concept as many would take a long time to grasp if given up by biological parents. I’m sure Alex will carry on your legacy and continue to spread unconditional love! Thanks for being so inspiring.... from Bangkok, Thailand. ❤️🧚🏻♀️❤️
i agree, i think that if there are siblings in a foster care home they should not be seperated. if i was to adopt kids when im older and found out that if i adopt one child or two and they have other siblings then i would adopt all of them because i would want them to grow up to gather instead of me adopting one child and then have to track down there other siblings
I love Alex, his smile is beautiful and he has a big heart. I'm so thankful you guys are together. Your family is a blessing to watch. You guys are wonderful parents!!
These kids are just having it rough they just need to be loved and be understood.Thank you for sharing and God bless your family.God bless Aaron and Crystal too
I'm just now seeing this after following you for I don't know how long. Better late than never ! This video tells so much about who Alex is and how he became the amazing, loving ,kind young man he is today !!! Love, hugs and prayers from a Kansas Grandma with a beautiful Granddaughter that came to our family from foster care and adopted into our family 6 years ago today !!!!!
My mom always says “the hardest kids to love are the ones who need the most love.”
love this quote thank you
TRUE!❤️
Love it.
That's great!!
Also very true!
R u talking about me
Alex is so special. He's so loving and kind and not afraid to show his emotions. He has such depth and wisdom already for his young age. Thank you for sharing Alex. Keep shining!
I am a Lancaster
I've never heard the definition of unconditional love explained better!
i have not either
I’m so proud of Alex. He seems like such fun loving kid. After EVERYTHING he’s been through he is so positive! Such a cute smile too! ♥️
Agree with you! 😊
He is happy he's reunited with his brother.
The ones who b the most broken tend to b the most positive ones. #fosterkid #adopted
i agree!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Always be proud of your self Alex. You have a loving family now.
His former 4th grade teacher helped reunite him to Hannah and the others, and ultimately, led to him meeting Crystal and Aaron. That’s so, so special and pivotal.
Crystal’s love for Alex during that tantrum is a true life lesson for me.
To the parents: we need more people like you in this world. A Godly couple who are willing to to adopt and foster children who society or the foster care system seem to be difficult. But, the main reason they are difficult, is that they need understanding, and unconditional love like you as wonderful role models are giving these kids. Alex thank you for sharing your story, you are much admired. I am humbled by your story. May God bless you and your family. 🙏
Very well said!!
We need more people in the world like Alex
One thing i really admire Alex is his full of positive attitudes... Despite of his unfortunate experiences, he chose to have positive outlook in life and grateful of what he has...
For any child to be 'throwing a tantrum' considering all the back and forth, loss of parents, loved ones, friends, home, etc is a lot of to process for ANYONE let alone a child in limbo. I know this from personal experience too. Constantly unsettled, not knowing, unstable, uprooted, dealing with the thoughts of 'not being wanted' and to then have to manage abusive foster parents who should never be parents PERIOD, can feel hopeless that no one will ever want you. Watching Crystal and her husband allow these kids to express their feelings and also (as foster parents) learn and share the burden. It is heavy. Love it.
Just...WOW! I stumbled on the vlog of Alex being reunited with his brother & now I have been pulled into the lives of this extraordinary family. And a REAL family it is. Crystal & Aaron are THE definition of true parents. I agree with Crystal about not closing the door on biological backgrounds but she & Aaron have shown that it is (unconditional) love that make someone a mom or a dad! How incredibly fortunate for all of their children that they have been shown the love of a parent. I’m not sure what I enjoy more, the love Crystal shows Alex or the bond Alex has with his mother. Thank you both for allowing us to share your pain & your parenting even though it is always watched through tears! Alex is the most gentle, caring & inspiring teenager with an enormous heart. I hope he will consider becoming a teacher or pediatrician one day because he most certainly would be awesome. Alex, your honesty & raw emotions are your strength. Thank you for sharing your story. In this chaotic world full of so much turmoil YOU let us hope & pray that with young people like you the world may someday be a more loving & peaceful place. God bless Crazy Pieces.
Omg me to I had never heard of them before they are a great family and I love that they take care of all of these kids it really shows that there are kind loving godly parents who will love them unconditionally keep up the good work
Same!!!!!
SAME!
Now I’m here crying to all the videos
Amen❤️❤️❤️
What an incredible 4th grade teacher! I hope Alex gets to reconnect with her one day!
Two failed "forever homes"? Split from the kids you called siblings, twice... Alex, my heart hurts for everything you went through. I am so glad and grateful that you are now strong, happy, and living with the Pettits. I'm happy that you're starting to reunite with your bio siblings and other found family members. Thank you for sharing your story - it meant a lot to me. I wish you only healing going forward and that this was cathartic and healthy for you
I was adopted at 3 days old. Growing up, I can never remember a time of not knowing I was adopted. My parents always explained to me that I was special, while other children only get one set of parents I got two. And that God hand-picked me just for them. Though I loved my parents with all my heart, there was always a part of me that craved knowing where I came from and what my roots were. When I was a teenager, my Mom told me she would fully support me finding my birth-parents because she knew she had raised me with enough love in my heart for all of them. My adoption had been a private one, so my Mom had my birth-mothers name, address and phone number. One February evening I finally got the courage to make the call to her and I will never forget that conversation. I had been raised an only child but found out I had three younger brothers. Adoption has always been so, so close to my heart. It's a beautiful selfless act! Thank you for sharing your stories!
Crystals motherly instincts are on POINT!!! I can practically feel it through the screen!
I totally agree with these parents regarding the importance of all kids KNOWING their lineage/cultural heritage. It 'adds-to' the child's understanding of WHERE they came from, WHY their blood parents might have needed to adopt them out and HOW that all brought them to this loving home. The more a child can build CONTEXT, the more understanding of their belonging and compassion for their unique journey up to this point has been. Most importantly FORGIVE or make peace with those who hurt them and move forward lighter, not heavier. Beautiful.
Very well said!!
The first video I saw from you guys was the brothers reunited. I have been binge watching your videos ever since. Your overall message that kids have value no matter what is a message that kids and adults alike need to hear more often. The bond of love your family shares is wonderful to see, and I thank you for sharing it with us.
Unconditional ..... One word but so incredibly powerful.
Alex is so amazing. He seems so kind, with a big heart, open and honest. He is so handsome too. I am glad you have him in your family and I am sure you have given him what he needed to fulfill his potential. A safe and loving home. I only wish you good things in life and keep up the good spirit.
Alex, you are so strong and an inspiration to other children going through this. You will never know your impact on this world. Keep smiling
Danielle ... SO TRUE!!!
siblings should not be split because theey are pieces of each other
yes totally agree
I agree so much
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They had a reason
@@abriellaabby9799 yes but Doesn't mean should happen though
Katie louise Cunningham smith I’m so sorry my brother took my phone and saw me watching this and he wrote it
Brilliant CRYSTAL for clearing that up re Alex's foster parents who didn't know how to respond to his trauma. Ultimately led to you. Love it.
To the parents- you two are amazing! I wish when I was going through the system I would of had a family like you both. Every time I got to a family within 3 months they gave me back. It’s so hard to go through that. Great job with everything this means a lot. I feel the system is so messed up but this makes me feel hopeful about the system.
Alex- I remember when me and my older brother met after being split. It was so emotional I cried so hard he did as well. Your so blessed to have a family like you have now. I’m going to follow your story and I hope one day you write your story and make it where other kids can read your story and know things do get better.
Hugs to the entire family!
How are you doing now? Hugs and kisses 😘 hope life is treating you well
I’m doing well. I’m married now and my siblings and I have grown strong. We talk everyday. Life is amazing. The part I love so much is we are talking about becoming foster parents in the near future. The reasoning why is I want to foster a family of siblings just so the do t have to go through what my siblings and I went through. Alex is amazing to speak out about his past and make it where children get to see it’s ok life siblings and are connected and they will meet one day.
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Alex is such a special young man! To hear his story is heartbreaking and heartwarming all at the same time. He’s a remarkable young man, thank you for sharing him with all of the world!
Wow, Alex & I had a very similar experience growing up. Though I aged out of foster care & repeated the same cycle for years, including abusive foster homes. I'm so happy for him & your family. Though it started out rough, this has ended in such a touching, beautiful story. I'm glad I stumbled upon it.
Alex you are a credit to yourself & your parents. You have been through so much but it hasn't made you hard & bitter, you have a heart of gold & you deserve all the love that comes your way. Although you have only come into my life through TH-cam & I don't know you personally I can see what a special, kind & caring person you are. You are very blessed to now be in your forever home with such loving parents & siblings. You are loved by all your TH-cam family to. Xxx❤️🇬🇧😘
Couldn't agree more!
Alex is such a sweet and mature kid. It’s so good that he found this family and his brother!
it breaks my heart to hear alex story but i am happy he found crazy pieces.
Thank you Alex for being so brave and sharing your story! It makes me so sad to hear what you've been through but also very happy that you've found your forever family. And for Mom and Dad, it makes me SO HAPPY to hear you love the kids unconditionally and that you recognize that throwing a temper tantrum doesn't mean the kid is "difficult" but he is having a hard time. The situation is hard, not the kid. I love that you have that approach, that's what every kid should be told by their caregivers!
Alex you are a super young man and should be proud of who you are considering all you have gone through. I know when you have children of your own you will love them unconditionally. Thank you Crazy Pieces for showing him the love and support you have and are giving not only to Alex but to all of your own and adopted children xxx
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Personally, it's very hard for me too when Alex is telling his story I almost cry. Drugs really not only can kill someone literally, but so many families were broken because of it. Really sad.
Another video of crying😭. I feel so bad for any child that has to go through what kids like Alex have had to go through
The Granddaughter we are raising had the same kinds of fits at 3 and 4. I was called every name you can think of but we worked through it and now at 11 she is a wonderful person just like you are. So glad you found the family God wanted you to be with.
I first saw the other video about a week or two ago and it had me in tears. Alex seems like such a well-rounded boy and a testimony of how the worst can turn out to be something special. Your story is incredibly inspiring and should be a movie.
Ok so I just crawled out from under a rock and only recently found this channel & family. I’m also a birth mother having placed a baby (closed adoption) when I was a senior in high school. That said, Alex, you are so special. You are brave, and so open and so generous sharing your pain, and thoughts and feelings yet still manage to see the good in everything. You simply shine and I’m so impressed by how mature you are. I just love you! Your parents are such good examples, I love that they embrace your whole past and where you are from. Never lose your vulnerability, you are such a good role model! It’s evident your parents just allow you to be who you are. You are very lucky! You’ve been through hell and but aren’t bitter or jaded. You just exude this happiness ... it’s infectious! ❤️
The world needs more Pettit's. I can't watch ANY of your videos without crying my eyes out.... the humanity and the LOVE that you all show to your kids.... WOW I know I am a hormonal grandma, but gosh. Waterworks. Every. Single. Time. I love you guys. I love being uplifted by the warmth and positivity that your family literally EXUDES. You can see how loved those children feel, and you can see the love they have for Crystal and Aaron. It's SUCH a beautiful thing. And Alex, thank you for sharing so much of yourself. I'm sorry that there have been people in your life that have not seen your value, have treated you with less than you deserved or that they made you feel not worth of love. That breaks my heart. No child deserves that....you were scared, confused, afraid and lonely. I'm so happy that the Pettit's found you and that they DO love you unconditionally. I can't wait to see where your life journeys take you all. God bless you!! ~ Jan
Stay strong Alex, you have been through so much and you are growing into a fine young man. You are in a home where the family loves you without any constraints. You are an inspiration to all adoptees, so they know that there are people out there who love you. And the subscribers are included in that.
I love when Alex gets emotional. It's a great release and shows how big his heart is. Watching all the videos you can genuinely see that he loves his whole family and cares deeply. I see him as a sibling leader. They look up to him and he takes that role very seriously. He's so adorable and has such an amazing future in store for him.
Mr Rogers said it best: “I like you just the way you are” 🧡 the universe placed you right where you needed to be, and we can all see what love your parents have for all of you 🥰
I've binge watched a bunch of your videos after randomly coming across your channel! I'm so happy I did find it, because you are amazing parents and all your children biological and adoptive, are growing up in such a loving environment, and you are raising them to be the best human beings in their own unique ways. I plan to adopt children at some point in my life and this is just so inspiring! Both your channel and Crazy Middles are beautiful! 🙏🏽
My heart hurts for Alex. His story is so sad. You can tell he is a great kid. All he needed was some love. I know he is okay now and has an awesome family who love him. May God bless their hearts. You really don’t know how the fosters care is until you come across these stories.
Aaron and Crystal I think you two are amazing. I can see the love, compassion and understanding that you have for each and every one of your kids when you talk and listen to them. I can also see how much all the kids love both of you as well. I'm fairly new to your channel but I find myself binge watching one video after another, laughing one minute and wiping my eyes the next, you know... allergies. I gave up on the 'I was chopping onions' since I was usually sitting in the living room lol. Thank you for sharing your family with us.
Alex for someone who has gone through a lot for such a young age, you turned out to be one incredible person. Thanks for sharing the struggles you went through.
What an amazing young man. You guys are changing these children’s lives and it shows. Thank you for being great people. The world needs more of you
I love the fact that Alex and all of your kids aren’t scared to show emotion and are real
It takes a lot and especially if you have had a hard past
You are all inspiring to me and I love your family❤️❤️
Special thanks to both of you for opening your hearts to children of the world who need family. And well done Alex for sharing so much of your story so openly, for your vulnerability, for your strength - I hope you know how many other kids you have touched by sharing your story with humility, humor and grace.
Guys, you are such a positive influence on the world. Alex has matured and learned to love himself through your genuine acceptance of who he is. And Alex I can see that you are such a loving person and authentic. Keep giving out that love and positivity.
Alex is so strong being big brother,but in the same time so emotional,he is such a perfect son!
Aaron & Crystal 💕 you two to me are literally angels on Earth. Your family is so special and amazing and it's that way because if you two. What you've created and made as your family is so inspiring and truly amazing. It is like you were all meant to be together from day 1. Thank you for all you've done for your kids and kids that have come and left your lives. I know all the kids you've helped have a special place in your heart. 💕
Omg I have cried so much. These videos are so sad and they mean so much. No one will ever know what they actually went through .They have some strong story’s and it makes me cry how they are able to tell their stories.i literally have been binge watching every video.
I’m really glad you met your brother. Also that you found a family that loves you and cares for you. As a kid as young as 5 being taken away from her parents and finding her forever home. Ik it’s the best feeling ever. I’m glad to know that I’m not alone out here. And your parents are freaking awesome! I’m extremely glad I came across y’all videos. Stay blessed you just got a new member ❤️
It's really amazing to actually hear his point of view on it all.
What an inspiring young man! So smart and wise, shares his emotions so readily.
You two are absolutely a God send to many children, You give love unconditionally, you're caring, respectful, loving, compassionate, smart amazing parents!!
You could teach SO many SO much, just like in your videos! I've learned so much from all of you!! Thank you for sharing your lives, I'm sure it isn't easy or nice sometimes! Don't ever doubt yourselves you are doing something, MANY things, actually, So right and good, the WHOLE WORLD NEEDS YOU GUYS!!!
OMG! 😭 What a bunch of mean people you are! You made me cry again. 🤣 THANK YOU SO MUCH, for helping Alex and your other kids! God put them in your path because He knew it was right. Thank you for being the instruments He used for these kids. Thank you for giving them love, education, a home and in general a chance where there would have been none. I’ve seen a few videos with Alex and he’s a wonderful young man, you can tell he’s a good soul. Keep going forward little bro, keep growing, keep learning, keep loving! A big hug from Puerto Rico! GBU, your parents and your siblings! 🙌🏻
Hard to imagine all that you went through Alex. Emotions had to be high and yet trying to hide some as to not wanting to cause another incident, especially at young age where things had to be confusing. Not knowing who you could trust. I am happy that you found your forever family and you bio brother. Stay strong and happy.
Started crying from sadness and ended the video happy crying. Oh Aex. I am so happy that your forever family found you. The way you speak shows how resilient and mature you are. I feel like you have a gift and you will one day help kids that were in the same situation you used to be in. Sending a big hug. You are such a beautiful family. Thank you for sharing your story Alex.
Such wisdom and maturity for such a young man, love you , Alex
Thanks for answering many of the questions I had after watching Alex and his brother, Josh, reunion. Given all Alex has been through before reaching your family, he has turned into a remarkable young man. I am sure he will go on to do many great things.
Oh Alex, such a sweet caring loveable boy. Everyone needs an Alex in there life.
How josh went to Alex’ game!! How sweet 😭🥰
Crystal and Aaron you two are absolutely amazing and incredible parents. I can see the love you both have for all of your kids and it’s so inspiring. Because of you I definitely want to foster and adopt when I’m older. Thank you for showing others what true love and compassion is. The world needs more people like you guys❤️
I truly agree!! We need more Aarons & Crystals in this world....
Alex is so amazing, honest and brave to tell his story. Then found a loving family. I love you Alex, you are so adorable and handsome. I listen to your story and crying at the same time. May God be with you in everything you do.
wow this video has blown my mind, this astounding young man has been through so much and just look at him now. incredible
I have just recently found you and your sisters channels and I have fallen in love with both your families!!!
I’m a social worker and I tell new foster parents the children they will be getting are broken. Most have been through more in their short lives than most adults ever go through. The thing they need more than anything is love and stability. Foster parents have the hardest jobs of anyone in the child services system. There aren’t enough words to thank them for what they do. It’s very obvious that Alex is loved and is being raised to be a great man! Love this family and all they do for their children.
I can’t wait to adopt my kids. It blows my mind that there’s a good chance that my kids exist already and I just haven’t met them yet. My heart breaks for them already because I don’t want them to have to go through the hard things that they might have to go through before we meet but I cannot wait for the day that we get to come home together.
Hope someday Alex can also meet his sister and personally I will be waiting for it in your vlog. Thank you for giving a family and a home to him and to the other kids.
I stumbled on one of your videos when Alex meet his older brother and I was just blown away by the love among brothers and from there I was introduced to the Crazy Pieces and I love your channel... So wholesome and rooted in love, compassion and kindness. Thank you Crystal and Aaron for your large heart. Alex you are incredible young man with a beautiful 💓... Continue to remain grateful for the blessings you have. We love you Alex!!!
Thank you very much, Alex, this very much hit me close to home, at the moment I am going through a tough time where I feel my parents don't love me, I get sent to my room for 1 little thing I do wrong and I get screamed and yelled at for every movement I make and I'm really thankful that I have u guys here to help me through this it might not be physically but you surely have mentally, I am also going through a tough time where my friend has separated from me and taking many of my beloved friends away from me including some of my very close family friends, I have had a very depressing and emotional last month but I am so very thankful that there are more people out there suffering from these emotions and its not just me, I really appreciate everything you do Alex and all the Crazy Pieces!! Xx 🥰
Hang in there. I hope things get better for you really soon!!❤
Im 31 and have 2 biological children but theres anyways this voice inside of me pushing to adopt. These videos just make that voice even stronger. 💗💗
Jamie Anderson it’s expensive but SO rewarding..
You are such a blessing. Alex I'm so glad you found your forever loving home
When a Foster Child or Adopted child says go ahead send me to a group home or back to foster care IS ABSOLUTELY HEARTBREAKING. No child should fear being unloved just for misbehaving.
So much of Alex and Chrystals bond reminds me of my son Andrew and me. He died suddenly last year at 22 of a brain bleed. Life is too short. Don’t sweat the small stuff. So happy for Alex. Aaron and Crystal are amazing people. God bless.
Your entire family is an inspiration. Alex, I am really proud of how you've handled lifes hurdles. God bless each of you
So proud of you, Alex! Thank you for sharing your story and for building up others who may be going through tough times. You are a treasure!
I’m here and ready to cry
So much same.
Lol GIRL YES.
I just stumbled across your channel 💕 You are amazing parents!! I wish every child in the system had you as parents!! The world would be amazing!! Alex, I just wanted you to know what a superstar you are!! For you to be so positive and sharing your journey with the world is amazing!! I took a girl in 6 years ago and what you shared in this video will make a HUGE difference in our lives!! Thank you so much for your words💕 Thank you mom and dad for your advice/wisdom too!! My God continue to bless all of you! 🥰. End note I did binge watch quite a few of the videos before this one! 😉
Alex, you’re just such a positive soul. After overcoming terrible nightmares & obstacles, I need to commend you on your continuos positive outlook on life. You have nothing but a heart of gold and deserve all the love that comes your way. You’re awesome! Keep being yourself and do not let anyone or anything stand in the way of being yourself.
😢Thank you for sharing. Some children are with natural parents and don’t experience love like you have. Very blessed to have found your forever family.
Thank you TH-cam for recommending your last video... I instantly subscribed.. thanking God for people like you guys.. you give so many people hope.. you're AMAZING..
Hey from Australia 🐨 Alex you are an incredible young man, don’t ever change. Crystal & Aaron you are true inspirations and amazing parents ❤️
Blessed child Alex. You have taught me and the world something. Unconditional Love. To Love without expecting anything in return. That’s a beautiful heart you have. After your suffering your heart is pure. Thank you. Peace Love
Alex, I admire you so much for sharing your story. In spite of the difficulties you experienced in your early years, you are such a fine young man. I notice in the videos how thoughtful and kind you are to everyone, without ever seeking recognition. You are a very caring person. I would be so proud if you were my son or grandson! You deserve all the happiness in the world and that’s what I wish for you. I’m sending love to you and all the Crazy Pieces family from Austin, Texas! 🤗
It takes so much strength to talk about this. It’s also healing. I have been through some ruff times when I was little, but always had my four siblings to go through it with me. Bless your heart Alex!
Making this video helps others too. I think helping others heal is also healing for you. ❤️
Alex has grown up to be a nice young man, so sorry for what you had to go thru. Thank you Crazy Pieces family for all your unconditional love towards all the children that cross your path.
Alex shows a lot of emotion. It takes a real man to show it.
I love Alex to bits. He has been through so much and he is such a kind and gentle soul .
I'm so proud of Alex. He is a gorgeous young man. I have a 18 years old grandson. What I love about him is his good nature and gladness.
I just wanted to let y’all know that “I ADORE YOU GUYS” what selfless,amazing,loving, and caring souls!!!!
❤️Alex⭐ Thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm sure it wasn't easy. I watch your videos, you are so sweet, kind and so thoughtful of others. You have so many great qualities and I'm so happy that your where you are with you your with so you were able to grow up into the amazing person you've always been. Thanks for sharing 💕
'There will always be someone out there looking for you' . 😍 - you are absolutely worthy, you are absolutely loved. ♥
Hi crazy pieces! My name is lex and I just wanted to say that I think your family is just amazing! I understand what Alex and some of the other kids go through and has gone through because I have been in the foster care system. It's not fun being in the system because of all the abuse and trauma that a lot of Foster and adoptive parents put the kids through, but yet again whenever I'm dealing with my trauma from Foster Care I just look at your videos and I see a more positive side of this world so thank you for that! You guys are truly a blessing to the system and I think that the stories that the kids have in your family are absolutely amazing because they have gone through a lot and they are pushing through their hardships with the right amount of support that they need. Thank you guys for everything!
I'm glad that he ends up in a loving family that helps him in fixing the broken pieces of his past. I think this is very traumatic and I'm glad that Alex was able to talk about it. It's a big sign that he is doing good with his life now. Other people become a different person after going through such experiences. That's why in psychology we are always told to be more understanding and not to judge other people easily may it be with their decisions in life, how they act the way they are, and why they end up doing crimes. You never knew what they have been through and what made them do such a thing. Something in the past created them, and sometimes it's impossible to fix.
This is so well put and so true!
I absolutely LOVE this family. Uncondicional LOVE IS what you guys send to the world... Greetings from Portugal.
All i have to say is this world needs more people like you to make it a much better place. Such a loving supportive family. Sending all my love and blessings to you all.
Alex you are such a sweetheart and a pure soul. We need more people like Alex pettit
Such a heart warming story. These kids are so special. They each deserve the very best life has to offer. I wish I could hug each and everyone of them.❤️🙏
What a beautiful story. I'm 77 and never knew my Father. No one in my family would tell me. I even did the Ancestor.Com thing, hoping, but ..... my Mother was abusive to me growing up. I won't go into details, but it was a sick relationship. She then married a guy that turned out to be a drunk. I lived with them for 6 horrible months, and then (thank God) my Grandparents made arrangements to take me in. That was a blessing and the answer to my prayers. Whenever I see stories like this, I kinda tear up 'cuz I can feel the pain these kids went through. To Alex: you have SO much courage and love in you. You're not afraid to express your emotions and share them with us. God bless all of you.
I think Alex is really spiritually connected andI that’s why he ends up with people who provide divine/unconditional love. In one of the clips he said he would like to meet his biological parents because he is thankful to them for giving him life, I was really impressed that he understands this rather ‘profound’ concept as many would take a long time to grasp if given up by biological parents. I’m sure Alex will carry on your legacy and continue to spread unconditional love! Thanks for being so inspiring.... from Bangkok, Thailand. ❤️🧚🏻♀️❤️
i agree, i think that if there are siblings in a foster care home they should not be seperated. if i was to adopt kids when im older and found out that if i adopt one child or two and they have other siblings then i would adopt all of them because i would want them to grow up to gather instead of me adopting one child and then have to track down there other siblings
I love Alex, his smile is beautiful and he has a big heart. I'm so thankful you guys are together. Your family is a blessing to watch. You guys are wonderful parents!!
These kids are just having it rough they just need to be loved and be understood.Thank you for sharing and God bless your family.God bless Aaron and Crystal too
I'm just now seeing this after following you for I don't know how long. Better late than never ! This video tells so much about who Alex is and how he became the amazing, loving ,kind young man he is today !!! Love, hugs and prayers from a Kansas Grandma with a beautiful Granddaughter that came to our family from foster care and adopted into our family 6 years ago today !!!!!