How to Diagnose Someone's Organizing Style WITHOUT the Quiz
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- Do you struggle to know what your organizing style is?
In today's podcast, I walk through how I diagnose my client's organizing style. I share my step-by-step thought process when walking through a house and what to look out for.
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I love the fact that you said "you've already spent money on it and you are no richer for having it and you will be no poorer for getting rid of it" this will help me immensely going forward xx
Cas, I hope you realize how much you are helping people! This is a brilliant talk, full of motivation, empathy and love. Thank you so much! Sending love from Spain ❤
Thank you!!
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I was watching a video by The Minimal Mum and she mentions that she's a ladybug and if we wanted to know what we were to watch your video. That video led me to this on and WOW! How absolutely beautiful! I wasn't expecting your beautiful, loving and caring speech. It really moved me, especially when you said 'the money has already gone...' and 'love yourself because you're worth it'. The last part of your speech actually bought tears to my eyes. My first time watching your video/podcast and was blown away. You have a new member here. Thank you and God bless!
Thank you and welcome!
I’m laughing when you describe a detail organizer and I’m like doesn’t everyone put all the pens together, the spoons together? Why would someone not want to do that 😂. Interestingly though I’m not good using a planner.
Same here. 😂
I'm great at starting a planner and crap at actually using it regularly 😅
It’s true though guys! 😳 My mom is that way… She has reusable straws in two or three different places. Teas in different places. Her mugs are spread out through the kitchen. It is a mess! I’ve tried to help her, but to no avail. She asked for my help again last month, and I said ‘nope… It is a hot topic for us! Either hire someone or get a friend to help you.’ I don’t understand it either. I love having things streamlined and close at hand, and one home for all the things. I helped her go through her utensils because she has three containers on her counter, full of all the utensils. I had one container up there, and put all of her seldom used utensils under the cabinet within reach of the stove. A week or so later, she had everything back up on the counter. I don’t know how to help her or what to do. Honestly, I think there’s nothing I can do because I think it’s that mother daughter relationship thing… And it’s not my circus. 🎪 And it’s no use sharing videos… because she knows it all.🤪
I’m so organized in even the junk drawer. I couldn’t understand why my hubby wants things in sight, makes me crazy. I finally get it and try to compromise. He needs open shelves for his clothes. 😀😀
I want everything neatly folded and in a drawer. My bathroom counter is clear. Hubby’s is not BUT it can still be neat and clean!!!
I feel like planners must be for crickets. I'm a bee and writing something in a planner is similar to me to sticking it in a box in the back of the closet. I only just found out about the styles this week. But I remember 15 years ago in college coming up with a 1 page sheet that I put all my homework and reading assignments for the week plus big projects coming up and taping it above my desk.
I got teary-eyed in the last few minutes -- just what I needed to hear. This is about loving our self and giving ourselves the space we deserve. Amen.
Cas, through you, I learned that I am a ladybug. But before I started decluttering, I couldn't have guessed that. Until I started getting rid of excess so I COULD put stuff away, I didn't know WHY I was so stressed all the time by my home. I knew it was "messy" and I needed to "clean more," but on a deeper level, I knew there was something else wrong. When I found you, Dawn, and Dana, I realized I was overwhelmed by everything in my environment. I set out to purge my home of undesirable items and discovered that I love visual simplicity. I love grabbing something out when I need it, and tossing it back away when I'm done. Quick, easy, out of sight! Thanks for returning my sanity!
That's super motivational, thank you for sharing 💕 I'm at the beginning of my journey, got rid of many things but still scared of letting go more... wish me luck and strength because I'll need them!
Home office shared with hubby. I thought we both were mostly crickets. Listening to this, I realize my hubby may be more bee and I may be more ladybug. His stuff laying everywhere drives me crazy! But I have a hard time filing papers away because I have detailed files and it isn’t working.💡😂
So true! A detailed filing system is not working for me either.
I am a bee and I actually love filling cabinets 😅 but it needs to be broader categories and for me to shove the papers in 😁 and when I need something I just take the small bunch out and find the one I need
22:18 Squeee to the puppy coming in and flopping down for a little snooze!! 😃❤🐶💞😍
The puppy is clearly at peace there....
After 3 years of decluttering, I'm still not there. Forced to downsize and from time to time, I just feel so much loss that it's hard to just keep getting rid of MORE. I'm stuck. Thank you, Cass. I needed this today. 😢❤
So… I grabbed a trash bag… started with under the kitchen sink. Found that the floor of the cabinet had rotted out 😮. Now my simple declutterring has turned into a small home improvement project lol! I am now alone so had to figure it out on my own. It ain’t pretty or “right” but it’s done and usable. Problem sometimes when trying to deal with old houses and no room. You never know what you might run into, and I think that is also a big part of my problem when it comes to declutterring some areas. But I filled a trash bag, “fixed’ the cabinet and feel good about my accomplishment. Thank you for all your inspiring videos! Not only are they inspiring but also very understanding, non-judgemental and compassionate. I’m so glad I found your channel!
You have a leak that should be addressed!
It so figures that Bees would be the one to throw you for a loop.
And yeah Im a 🐝.
I went and looked all these places and my shoes are lined up, separated utensils, pens are even color coded. I had to take time to test them all and separate them based on their ink color. Ones that weren’t blue and black went together.
Wow. Was not expecting such a huge impact video when a I clicked on it. Feeling so enlightened after this. Thank you❤❤
I still have a really hard time figuring out my husband’s style … I know he’s macro, but I can’t tell visual vs hidden because he seems to do both. I’d swear he’s a ladybug, but he doesn’t hide all his stuff out of sight, just out of the primary space.
For example, his stuff in the bathroom is all randomly shoved into drawers - except the hairbrush, which is set on whatever the closest flat surface was when he finished brushing it - anywhere from the bathroom counter to the kitchen counter or a dresser, even 2 floors away in his office.
Or his clothes - his closet & dresser only contain what he currently wears weekly and everything else is stored in other rooms, even though there’s plenty of room for it in the spaces . However, he never closes doors.
It’s like he easily becomes blind to clutter until it’s in his way.
He does have ADHD, so I know some of this has to do with that, but it’s so hard to figure out systems that stick.
I’m seriously considering tying a rope to the hairbrush so it can’t wonder off 😂
He could be both. She's talked about leaning toward 1 style or the other depending on the space
Cas, this is a fantastic podcast. I realized months ago that my husband and I organize completely differently. But as a small business person, I am finding that when it comes to filing away "my" paperwork, my files were too detailed. The lawyer's experience completely explains my current home office frustration. Thank you!
Thank you, Cass, for this very wise, kind and practical message. I am always inspired and encouraged by your words.
My husband and I are both lady bugs through and through. Learning that about ourselves (and then binge-watching your videos) has changed our home DRAMATICALLY. I can’t thank you enough, Cas!
I’m confused. If you are both the same, weren’t you organized and happy? We are so different we are constantly arguing!
@@bcfriardoyle7697 we are now that we got our house in order. We both had way too much stuff & didn’t really realize it. Especially since it all was hidden in closets so our house appeared tidy but it was chaos. I see how it would be so hard being opposite of anyone in your household!
Awesome video Cas! You're so inspiring!!
PREACH, Cass! 😃24:04 to 31:23 is pure mindset magic and inspiration! 🤩😍 30:24 "..and fill so many bags and so many boxes until you finally wake up one day and you look around and you think ‘Wow, my house looks pretty good, and I didn’t even clean it.’ That’s your moment. That’s you clutter threshold. That’s the moment when life becomes easier because YOU were brave enough to let go of all the stuff that’s making it hard." ❤ Love ya', Cass!! ❤
I love this. I always thought I enjoyed things being hidden away. While I do enjoy the aesthetic, I realize I am an "out of sight out of mind" individual and will never reach for hidden items. I'm a proud bee through and through now. 🐝
I thought the same. My step mom is an amazingly organized bee and my parents home is so visually stressful to me. I thought I'd want things hidden and kept trying to organize like a cricket. I'd constantly forget about things, and my butterfly husband would never put anything away. The light bulb moment for me was combining it with Dana's clutter threshold. We both like to have our everyday things where we can see them, but the amount of stuff I can handle is way less than than my stepmom. So now I know I can organize visually too, but I need way less stuft
That's me, things must be in view, that I use daily. And a little in view if I need to see it monthly. I'm def "Out of sight out of mind.
Ooooh! This makes so much more sense now. I don't LIKE seeing my stuff but if I hide important things they will die where they were out but if I just drop it I'll keep seeing it.
I like most stuff put away as long as I use it so ritually that I couldn't possibly forget about it. My detail is determined by the time savings. Its so easy to put all my batteries with the same type in a caddy that I will because I don't want to dig when I need the battery but paperwork is all together because I'll likely never need it again so who care!
I thought I just had multiple organization personality disorder 😅.
Just by watching this…. So Empowering such encouragement! I absolutely love you Cass! Bravo for allowing us to feel strong, you are compassionate, empathetic and so understanding!!
“Trust yourself” 🥰 This is my new favourite life mantra and I love it! Thank you Cas x 🙏🏼
I think this is the pep talk I have been needing. Thank you so much! 🥰👍
Hey Cas! I've been watching your videos for a long time. But the last few weeks, I've been binge watching! Lol. Life is out of control for my family right now. Losing both parents, recently. So deciding what to keep from Mom's house and bring home, what to declutter from my house, etc..
I took your free master class last night. I immediately got up and did a no mess declutter!
I haven't even finished this video, so I'm probably on a completely different topic, but hi ADHD.
I have a full bag of trash. And like 4 huge bags of donate!!! Thank you for your guidance!
-Mel
Ha! Just got further down the video. It was so easy for me to get done what I did last night. I started at like 7pm and stopped at 8:30. I completed cleaning out the bottom of my TV stand, I emptied my huge basket for throw blankets. And repurposed it to put all of our cat's supplies in it. I finished my coat closet. It makes sense now. And I got almost half of my "storage closet" cleared out. Just by grabbing trash and things that we don't use or want. Especially the stuff for the "garage sale" that never happened. Again, thank you!
The problem with me is it's not just ADHD but I'm also on the spectrum and the two can be total opposite when it comes to clutter and organizing.
@@cfw900 I'm not on the spectrum, but along with the ADHD I also have OCD. And some other mental health issues. Plus Lupus. It's really hard to get stuff done. I'm sure you can relate.
I think it’s useful to give yourself permission to experiment and fail with systems. I haven’t bought fancy storage until I know it works. My office is next and yep I’d love to buy nice stuff but I know it’s not yet working so I need to try out something new. Around the house I like stuff put away but for work it’s out of sight out of mind. Just trying to figure out how much visual I need to keep me on track and productive without the overwhelm. Office is currently my garage but due for conversion this summer so fingers crossed this will help!
I love seeing your new fur baby come in and chill out!🐾🐾❤
He is adorable Cas!
One of your best podcasts ever!!! I thought through our home, how I've organized it, and also realized that aging has changed a few ways we've been forced to rethink. Dirty clothes have to be brought to a laundry room daily. Carrying a basket downstairs in our upper 70's, no more. Under bed storage, too hard now. Kitchen storage, rethought for ease of use. Would you please address storage suggestions for bodies that age, as knees and backs have to be considered? Thank you!
Cas, I have watched a lot of your videos and this video was one of my most favourites. You know that feeling when it ends and you just want to watch it again! Yes that was the feeling! Loved it 🩷
Hello
After watching your podcast, I believe I'm a bee. I stack until I find a way to store it and I'm a perfectionist. I have a hard time doing a "partial" tidying up and coming back to it later. Your podcast has been a huge motivator for me and I now understand my ADHD better.
This was very useful. I have learned at visual doesn't have to mean 'clear' for me, because sometimes clear isn't pretty, and I like pretty. LOL. Clear can men a pretty box with a label on it.
I also love this quote: "you've already spent money on it and you are no richer for having it and you will be no poorer for getting rid of it" I am going to get rid of some organizational pieces that are the wrong size.
I am a butterfly, I think. That said, I'm also trying to account for how my disability (in a wheelchair) fits in... Like, I can't go as high with vertical storage as I might like. And I can't necessarily reach a pegboard (and I'm not sure I'm even allowed to put one up, given the rules in my rental unit re: attaching stuff to walls).
Anyone else want to snuggle up and take a nap with the puppy? ❤
Cass you are amazing..everytime I want to clean up an area I put on one of your videos and I am instantly motivated. 😊 Thanks.
I'm listening to this (and not quite done), and I feel like I fall in an in-between category. I'm detailed to a point. And visual and uncategorized to a point. This fits my personality because I'm also a writer, and I can plot a book only so much before it goes off the rails. I studied to make myself more organized with that aspect of life, but I'll never be 100%. So... I guess I'm really me no matter what I'm doing, but I'm trying to do it better!
Writer here too (and a plotter) and I also feel like I'm something in between.
I think one way to tell if someone is detailed, ask to see how they store files on their computer lol. Mine are categorized in folders and sub-folders and sub-sub-folders. Pretty sure I'm a cricket haha. I store almost NOTHING on the desktop...
Same!
Genius
That's a good tip. :) I do the same, being a Bee.
I’ve been watching your channel for years. In October/November I started thinking about actually decluttering and did a Swedish Death Cleaning. I have empty drawers, cabinets and closets are organized and downsized! Thx for the motivation.
Cas, I have read the emails you send. I have watched your podcasts. But this one really spoke to me. It is less important how I organize than I need to declutter, really take the blinders off and get rid of stuff. Thank you.
Watching and listening to you helped me realize why my husband wouldn’t “organize” his work area like mine. He had to see his notes on his clients and projects. I like things filed. Thank you for helping me to understand there are types of organizing styles. And maybe understand him too. 😉 ❤
You would be completely confused by my home then...I am a ladybug, but my husbands a bee...the house drives me crazy because stuff is everywhere, and there's nothing I can do about it. Physical problems keep me from accomplishing anything because the 5 minutes a day I can actually DO something is totally destroyed within hours. I have had to give up trying to clean/tidy/organize...but my mental state knows somethings wildly off. You would look at the areas you spoke of and think I am a bee. Totally wrong. I just can't do what needs to be done. We have an entire room that's unuseable because its the only place I can stash things away..and its a total mess..I have given up trying to find things in there, and I don't have the stamina to clean it out.
I feel I'm one of those who is very room-dependant in my organizing style, at least when it comes to visual vs hidden. I think detail-wise I am definitely more of a detailed organizer. But in terms of visual I am drawn to whichever style makes more practical sense for that room.
Like my entryway out-in-the-open, visual organizing just makes more practical sense. I tried having a wardrobe, but getting a hanger and hanging my jacket when I came in just was too tedious for me to follow up and I ultimately always wound up draping it across the back of one of the kitchen chairs instead. But the moment I removed the wardrobe and put up hooks instead I hang my jacket the moment I walk through the door. I have open bins for hats, gloves, scarfs, etc. and I hang my most used ones over the edge so they are quickly located when I need to get going.
My bathroom is the complete opposite. The only item sitting on the bathroom counter is the handsoap dispenser. Everything else is either in a drawer or a cabinet. But that makes practical sense to me as it isn't more work for me to open a cabinet door to get my toothbrush, lotion or anything else I need. And it leaves the counter open for me to lay out whatever else I need at that moment, like my change of clothes.
My kitchen is a mix. I prefer a mostly clear counter, but I have dedicated space for frequently used appliances on a separate counter since it makes no practical sense for me to constantly put them away.
My livingroom is majority open and visual, I have a lot of DVDs, boardgames, figurines, etc. And all of those things are openly on display and I very much prefer to have them out in the open. But I obviously use hidden storage for more utility-style items, like pens, hobby supplies, etc. And my surfaces there are neither empty nor full. There's usually a couple of decorative items spaced out on them.
Wow, this is me to a T! Scary but kind of a relief to know I am not the only one. 😊
@@mooseyourbody probably a lot more of us than we think :)
This sounds like me I just hang my coat on my exercise bike lol😂and if I put my gloves away I can never find them but in my bathroom I prefer to only have my face wash and hand soap on the sink. For the living room gave bookcases but it’s just books on them and in categories and my pens are in front of me in cups but I do have some things put away in bins and I sometimes I have to make myself clean up when I’m still in the middle of a project it’s hard in the kitchen have my coffee maker and rice cooker out but prefer to stash other stuff out of sight
"know thyself" - an age old concept that rings oh so true on so many levels.
It didn't take me long to know I'm a hidden clutter/organizer. I get anxious when there's too much visual stuff. I am mostly ladybug, but in some areas, I'm a cricket.
Wow this is great! My family has opposite organizing styles, so it’s interesting to hear how you help others with opposing styles. I may approach things in a detailed way that is not always what they may need to stay organized. Thanks for sharing this! It’s super helpful
I’m a bee 🐝 and so is my 7 year old daughter. I’ve gotten the sterilite drawers and put them in the cubbies instead of a bin and put a label on each drawer. Digging around in a bin drives me crazy. My 74 year old mom is a ladybug 🐞 and I just stay away from her section of the house. Caregiving can be hard if you try to control everything so we definitely use the container concept.
Cas, I love your channel, and I love listening to your stories. I've just thought it would be so cool, if you contacted that lawyer client again and ask her if she still has that system.
So interesting! My son and I live together, I just realized we are opposites, plus he is good at organizing and I just don’t have that talent. He is the hidden type and I am visual.
Your voice is the BEST!!!! Thank you for your time!!! And help! ❤❤❤
Until I took control of my house and really started setting things how I wanted them I would have never guessed my style not even with a quiz.
Cass, I would love some advice in my craft room. I want to see everything I love to see my fabric. I love to see the thread. It inspires me the color and the rest of my home I want it hidden. How do I do both?
It really isn't enough to tidy up... without a manageable system it's not sustainable
For me, I think I don't fall neatly in your "detailed / non-detailed" categories. What I kind of noticed, is that I like things in little categories. Things that are in different categories together in a drawer or box stresses me out a lot. But I also notice that I don't put thins away if it's not easy. And for me it's not the mental energy of sorting things, but the physical energy of putting things in their place. The amount of steps I have to take. I won't open boxes, or remove things that are stacked to put things in the right box. So I kind of follow your advice for crickets (because I definitely prefer my organisation hidden.) But I have an extra rule. I call it the "one step rule". Things have to be in micro categories, but it can't take more than one step to put things away. So I have boxes without lids, or drawers. But the boxes are small, and all the drawers have dividers. And this really seems to work for me. I have implemented this in my kitchen and a few of the storage solutions in my work space, and this really seems to stay organised. I am slowly working on tackling the rest of my house
This sounds like the best of both styles 😊
You sound like a Ladybug, honestly. Look at that one again. I love the original Clutterbug book.
This started out real cute and by the end turned into a life changing motivational lecture
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This was WONDERFUL! I have made progress, but I have so much more to go. I’ve been effective lately by jumping on one small, defined area or type of stuff & working for a set period, like 15-20 minutes. I do best in the morning after I’ve had my coffee but before I’ve gotten involved in the day’s activities. Thanks, Cass!
WOW Cass, you are always a big help but, today was great 👍👍👍👍👍Thank you and God Bless you 😊🤗
Wow. I commented on another one of your videos that I was a butterfly. But this discussion was VERY eye opening. I am 100% a bee 🐝.
I have tons of carts, categories, my silverware is exactly as you described. I have to have visual stuff otherwise I forget what I have. I salivate over The Home Edit. I love color coding and spending a lot of time making detailed systems. It just takes a long time like you said and I have gotten overwhelmed since dealing with chronic fatigue.
I am looking to have a pro organizer come help me and I have a good budget… do you have any advice for making sure I find the right organizer?
My only worry is hiring someone, and them trying to implement systems that don’t match my style. Thank you!!
LOL! I opened my junk drawer and it's neat. My sneakers came off about an hour ago and they are next to each other, in front of the hutch. I opened the cabinet and took out the bowl I haven't used in possible a year. I have been going through my stuff for the past 6 months, since I found you and the other ladies. I am getting there. My husband needs to see some stuff so I won't get rid of those items but I can move them (I'm in the kitchen watching you). He doesn't cook but every once in a while, he wants ___ . So the hutch can hold those items. It's close enough. Thank you for the videos. I actually started listening tonight while I sewed Christmas gifts and the videos kept going. Sewing is done and now kitchen declutter will start again. I think I'm a Bee or Cricket. :)
My kitchen stuff is all sorted out but I literally don't know where my shoes are lol
I am visual but not with paper seeing paper stresses me out i don't even like words out or in decor items or visible labels. I can do labels in hidden places. Like inside the fridge. I was trained to be ashamed of mess to hide mess from people who might show up so for years even after I discovered I was a visual bug my house still wasn't clean and I needed it to be clean for others so I cleaned regular for a bit and then I would run out of time and start shoving and hiding random stuff in hidden places but that became very problematic and make more work. It took a while to unlearn cleaning is hiding and hating my house so much when it was clean because I couldn't relax because I couldn't live in it. I couldn't function when I had to get things out and put them back and I was exhausted and just wouldn't do it.
This was so informative on organizing styles! Thank you!
Thank you for showing me that I need to give myself more grace!! ❤🤗
Wow. I usually do something while watching podcasts. But I found myself just sitting and watching. I know I'm a ladybug but I now know what my husband is! Thank you!!
The last few minutes in particular were so motivating
I feel like I'm hidden and visual because I want to easily access my things but as clear as possible space. Then again, I think the fact that we are a family of 11 plays a part in it, and my time is precious. Lol
I don't have a junk drawer, depending on the day I might kick my shoes off or stack them. My coat and shoes are on hooks but my utensils are away my hair stuff are out and my daily face products are visually hidden I'm struggling to find my organising style, my brain over thinks and bee and cricket don't always resonate to me either. I've done the quiz and depending on the day and my mood it changes. Help
But if i let it go i wont be able to make melon balls! I will be melon baller poor 😢
Amazing podcast. It’s a great reminder our organization styles do not fit in one checked box. I live with visual people, but I prefer my everyday items out of sight and where they belong. If I’m down to a 10 minute pickup on others items, but less than 5 on my own items.
I totally love this video. So on it. I myself have been on this journey of living simple life. I have a story to share. I've been wanting to help my mom for a while on decluttering her house, however I had no idea on how bad it was until I went over there. It wasn't until she broke her ankle in January and had surgery that I realized it. She actually became a horder with clothes and shoes. But once I started helping her decluttering, she's realizing she doesn't need this stuff. It's definitely a process.
Could you show an example of the lawyer's vertical storage layout? Perhaps a rough sketch of the room? Thank you .
This was a fun and interesting pod cast..I love how you try to evaluate peoples styles and said "its about self awareness and recognising how you and your family naturally organize stuff."... i have commented on your videos for years, saying I am different bugs in different areas of my house and life...I am detailed in things I am passionate about and are mainly a cricket and bee, but I am not detailed in areas that don't interest or inspire me..their I am eg. a ladybug.
I have done your test and what I find is I have different styles for different areas and themes in my house... I am detailed in some areas but also not detailed in areas, I find visual clutter stresses me totally, but I need eg paperwork visual so I don't forget to do it.
I like certain areas in clear storage eg in the attic, closed cupboards with things I don't use all the time eg, seasonal decor, tools, craft stuff, medicine, seasonal clothes, garden shed stuff, so that I know what's in the boxes quickly at a glance when I do go to the box every few months to use something. But the stuff I used daily eg bathroom products, kitchen items etc I keep in solid containers I can't see into so that it doesn't cause visual clutter and stress me. I even take labels off bathroom products that are out eg in the shower, because I find the labels/writing stresses me... but I have labels on all my hidden storage..whether it is clear or solid.
I still have areas I haven't found a solution for eg family paperwork ... but keep trying different ways to organize it. Eventually I hope to get there and find a method that works.
Love what you say in the latter 5th of this podcast.. "we are worth it."..I will listen to this podcast every time I am decluttering spaces because i have done 3 whole house declutters since 2017 and there is still stuff (kids things) i struggle to let go of. Thanks xx
0:12 Hi Cassandra, My name is Merrawyn - living and working on the Gold Coast and I will be 74 in late June😱😱😱. Where has my life gone!!! I need to do things smarter and easier now that I am in the “over the hill” mob. Feeling terrified to be honest. I have completed your 30 day boot camp and getting closer to liking my spaces around the place. Amazon , Silly Sollys (similar to Dollar Tree), TKMax & Bunnings (similar to Home Depot) have been my go-to for getting things organised. I need to do things smarter & easier to manage house keeping and cleaning. I so love some of the gadgets being used on the TH-cam vlogs & I daily watch folk like Clutterbug, Minimal Mum Dawn & her sister Diana & Ashley from Til Vacuum Do Us Part to name just a tiny few. Thank you for your inspiration and encouragement & also teaching us how to let go of things that clutter our lives. Love and blessings Ⓜ️❤️🤗 Merrawyn
You are so awesome and clever!! How do you think of all this? Thanks for this!!!❤
I Love you so much, thank you for sharing your knowledge and understanding of us, You are such a Godsend, talented and perfectly clear. Such a beautiful picture of FACTS and knowledge
Talk about inspiration!! Thank you for empowering me! I will
Be watching this more than once 😊.
"Hot mess sandwich" over here!! :D
I’m trying to figure out my mother’s style Bcuz I’m helping her with Swedish Death Cleaning. And she will have “like” things scattered all about randomly.
She does this weird thing with putting little things in baggies inside another bin. 😅😅 Or she will bin things that don’t need a bin (imo to me as a cricket even lol).
About the Lawyer she needed a secretary that what secretary 👩💼 do
I thought I was a cricket, butbit was just a "wanna be". After watching first video on which clutterbug are you, I thought I was butterfly. Now after listening to this podcast, I convinced I am a frustated Bee, with hyper-Butterfly children.
Oh my gosh! Epiphany moment! Don't laugh but I have taken the "Quiz" so many times I almost know the questions by heart and yet I didn't believe it. "I'm not a Cricket!" I kept telling myself. I printed out the booklet at least 5 times and analyzed it to death. "I'm NOT a cricket!" I tried organizing styles for the Ladybug and Butterfly and then found myself MICRO organizing within those MACRO baskets and bins.... and again, said "You're not a cricket, Carrie!" You just said that if I'm trying to figure out exactly what I am and analyzing it to death to figure it out.... I'm a cricket or a bee. Well, I'm not visual so..... ☹🤣 I just find my need to micro organize almost exhausting. I find myself re-organizing already organized spaces just to make it better and neater. I make more work for myself than necessary and I'm constantly trying to keep things tidy. You have just helped me so much with this video I wish it hadn't taken me a year to see it. There are a couple of problem areas for me and I know exactly what to do now. My issue wasn't figuring out the style, but embracing something a little less rigid. You rock, Cas!
Looks in my kitchen drawer....yep, detailed....but, ladybug? Sooooooo hard to say.....
Cas, your podcasts need to be put into books. So good 😎
This is wonderful! Thank you!! As an ADHD person who is ALSO a cricket, this finally made me understand all of my patterns of cleaning (or lack thereof!).
Thank you so much for the diagnosing tips!! Really didn’t want to be a bee, but I think my hubby and I both are! But my daughter, who I thought was a bee, is totally the opposite: a ladybug! 🤯🤯🤯
I relate to that lawyer! I have empty dressers but had my neighbor build open shelves. I have hooks for most my other clothes. My kitchen cabinets are always open. I have open shelving for my pantry. I have visions of a pantry with indus wire shelves and my desk in there so I can see what I have to decide what I want to cook...
I'm a Bee, and the way I take constant mental inventory about what I have tells me two things: I am a Bee, and I have Kon Mari-ed in the past.
The thing that might throw someone else for a loop is that I am trying to cope in my situation where I have to store things in odd suitcases, without being able to organize perfectly as a Bee. I think about where my things are distributed constantly and how I can reduce, and eventually display what I have, and get my projects completed so as to enhance my life, and make me of benefit to others -- near and far.
I'm in a more temporary situation right now, and I have adopted a lot of tricks of other Clutterbugs trades. But I know my brain, thanks to Cass's original categories.
I don't cook a lot, so I don't think my kitchen is really representative of who I am. I take much better care of my office. If you opened my OCD-arranged desk drawers, you would think I'm a cricket or bee, but if you opened a kitchen drawer, it's the opposite.
omg, I am a Ladybug (hidden & non detailed) but my partner is probably a Bee or Butterfly (very visual & detailed for some items), that's why the house stresses me out. helppp
This is soooo helpful. I wasn't sure about my style even after taking the quiz a few times and getting different answers. The way you put it here let me see what exactly I do and how i organize my stuff, not how I would like to organize it, how I actually do it in general. That helps me decide how to org the stuff that isn't working. Now, my husband, another story altogether. LOL!
What is your style and how did you realize it? Asking cause I thought I was a ladybug but when I took the quiz it placed me at first as a butterfly and then a bee.
@@chriswildfire After looking in my drawers and closets, i saw that the ones I felt are working well, are micro sorted and are either clear or have labels so things don't get forgotten. This helped me to org spots I wasn't thrilled with like my crafts and linen closet. Try looking at your spaces that work to decide what is best for you.
@@marysusa6985 thank you 😊
I was telling my in-laws about the 21 item challenge I had just proposed to my husband and the first question was… why 21 items? I did not have an answer so I said I made it up.… so I ask you, why 21 items? 😁
I love that you referenced hogwarts ♥️
I just got to say open cupboards in the kitchen ALL the time. My husband and I want to see our stuff. Every surface has piles
The pups desire to chew affects my style, e.g., I don't want them following me into the closet to put shoes away or hang a coat, so coats hang on the back of a chair and I had to stop using a basket by the door for indoor/outdoor shoes. I downsized, was bedridden, and still need to figure out how and where to store things. I want to fit into this smaller house. I am working toward this ( I just ordered IKEA shelves and cubbies.)
On any test (personality, etc.) I always hover right at the middle where quadrants meet, so I am an ecclectic mix. I know thst, to a point, I can handle clutter because it is vidually stimulating, but the time comes when I want to see less.
I really do love your work! I’m still trying to figure out me! It seems like it would be so obvious but despite how much I love & appreciate organization, I just can’t get there! 2024 will b e the year!
I live with another person in a small inconvienient apartment (so we share a lot of space) and I constantly try to organize things and processes at home (that STILL has a lot of homeless clutter, oh, gosh, I don't have proper place for an iron and it pisses me a lot). But that, unfortunately, is only me. The other person is not willing to do anything, but enjoys being messy instead.
Every time I start talking about tidying, organizing, decluttering, that other person becomes a hedgehog. Even if I say: "Let's do it together, I'll help you. You'll see, an order is a good thing," the answer is: "Don't touch my stuff! I'll do it myself.. sometimes... maybe, because I don't have time (yea, looking TV all day long surely takes time). I see no dirt, I see no clutter, you're just talking nonsense! My things are in order (yea, all-in-the-HEAP)" The subject bites (literally) and runs away (physically).
I think that the other person is a butterfly (and I am a lazy procrastinating cricket), and I think that the main problem is lack of motivation and loss of a habit to be organized and tidy. When you are forced to live in a messy bucket for 30 years, you either go mad, either become clutter-blind and mess-ignoring. But when you mess-ignore for so long, you keep the messy bucket supported even if the original cause is long gone.
I think that I must say something, find some words of persuasion, not my usual straightforward way, but what and how?
I've lived in my own clutter for so long I get anxious when I put things away.
Always start with you. Got that from Marie Kondo. We are really the only ones we can change. Maybe speak of Cass and get her Clutterbug book, and excitedly talk about what you are. Can't change someone else, only gently guide if they'll let you.
I would so cringe when someone wanted to help me organize. I'm a Bee. But once my daughter turned me on to Kon Mari and I discovered Cass & Minimal Mom & Dana K White -- I took off and got victory for myself. Did I fix everyone in my home? No, but we did help my son (Butterfly 100%) organize; so flexible.
@@sandijames6409That's the start of knowing you are visual. Bee or Butterfly... Look them up.
Great video Cas! I wonder if you could do a series on how to accommodate multiple styles in the same house like you touched on? I am a bee and my husband is a ladybug - there are always battles on what gets thrown into a closet vs. left out for me to find again especially in the kitchen. Thanks!
I agree. But my situation is a bit different. My husband seems to be a butterfly and I seem to be more of a cricket (total opposites). But from what I remember, Cas said to defer to the more visual/macro organizer. This is the torture for me because I don't like to see thing out in the open, and I like detailed organizing. I will give her suggestions a try, but I'm struggling mentally to work it out.
Your situation is different because your husband (in theory) should defer to your style. I would love to see how Cas would say to work your situation out. I hope she can do a video that would help us both out. That would really be a blessing. Many blessings to all!
I used to be a very detailed organizer. Now I understand I had a need to control the growing amount of possessions. Having realised that and now shedding everything that does not fulfil its purpose, I have become a less detailed organizer. Still a hidden organizer though! Which is challenging with a visual, non-detailed partner 😊
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I just took the quiz- it's a nickname of mine, so it's especially "me" 😆
I’m a crickbee. I waffle on everything. Sigh
I LOVE your hair 🥰It makes your eyes stand out
Laughing at your not putting bandaids back in place. You’d hate mine where they are sorted by sizes.
I think that I could be a cricket, but I’ve learned that’s going to take a while to happen. In one of Cass’ videos she talked about defaulting to visual and fast and easy. So I’ve been trying to do that. I call myself a grouper. Bin that I can group similar items in and hide in the closet. Drawers and cabinets only as detailed as needed to find stuff. Grocery lists on the frig so I remember to add to it.
I know I need to do a lot more decluttering. Especially getting things out of the “staging area” aka the garage. 😊