6 Clear Signs A Woman Wants You (Most Guys Miss These)

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 20 พ.ย. 2024

ความคิดเห็น • 4.3K

  • @Carlos1234jfk
    @Carlos1234jfk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14326

    I got 2 things out of this:
    - Be Craig Ferguson
    - The girl I like doesn't like me back

    • @kanekowalski4715
      @kanekowalski4715 4 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      So change it, buddy.

    • @allmusicplays
      @allmusicplays 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

      One more day another world of possibility

    • @lungs808
      @lungs808 4 ปีที่แล้ว +194

      "Dont worry boys we will get them next time"

    • @notakebaks
      @notakebaks 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      Honestly, Craig is a snacc

    • @sly11benal7
      @sly11benal7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      On to the next prospect friend. Confidence n just relax, be urself. Wear nice cologne. Usually separate urself from the pack. Something fresh clean unique....

  • @timesink8947
    @timesink8947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20167

    My wife has given me two kids and I'm still not sure she's attracted to me.

    • @mikejones9961
      @mikejones9961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1674

      DNA test is in order

    • @vardaspavarde8480
      @vardaspavarde8480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +569

      Jus in case take dna test

    • @Walperion_Music
      @Walperion_Music 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      @The Darkest Knight Ok deal!

    • @krostan6570
      @krostan6570 4 ปีที่แล้ว +553

      my wife gave me comically large divorce papers

    • @Hallelujur
      @Hallelujur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      🤣🤣🤣

  • @iForix
    @iForix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2379

    "We've all been there before"
    *Sure...*

    • @Bolter024
      @Bolter024 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      ikr..

    • @Batman-bh6vw
      @Batman-bh6vw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      One second in and I'm already feeling personally attacked.

    • @dianeaishamonday9125
      @dianeaishamonday9125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      "We've ALL been there before"
      Only a Sith deals in absolutes, Charisma On Demand!

    • @youwaisef
      @youwaisef 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      *Yes I dream in my sleep too*

    • @guillermodolla4776
      @guillermodolla4776 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I came looking for this coment hahahha

  • @thebestone11-r9y
    @thebestone11-r9y 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2567

    There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal

    • @ALightforAttractingAttention
      @ALightforAttractingAttention 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Sorcery

    • @williamkaizen4479
      @williamkaizen4479 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where can i buy that ?

    • @smokexsmoke99
      @smokexsmoke99 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I have a question. Do most women actually find men attractive and beautiful looking?
      I'm a man, and I have heard from many straight women who I've had the privilege to be friends with that in general they do find the female body more aesthetically pleasing to look at than the male body - especially around the aspects of the male body that they find particularly disgusting - hair all over (face, chest, back, legs), the male genitalia region in general. But while they may think that the female body is more pleasant to look at than the male body, they do not find themselves physically attracted to women and instead find themselves attracted to men. So I heard that women are usually more interested in a man's personality rather than his looks.

    • @funjunkyy
      @funjunkyy 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@smokexsmoke99 Female attraction is much more complex than that of men, which is much more visual. It boils down to the feelings of security and exitement. If you can give a woman the FEELING of both, they are attracted to you. Looks play a role, but less so. Confidence, charisma, assertivness, mystery and humor give them the feeling of exitement. They need a STORY to be aroused sexually and emotionaly. So embody a story of personal growth - where you came from, where you are now and the where your gonna be in five years. Your status (e.g. how many other man look up to you or (have to) respect you, how much power you have in society and how many other woman are attracted to you), your wealth, your confidence, your intelligence, your dominant yet respectful demener, your physical and your emotional strength give them a feeling of security. Remember, you dont have to be the best in all of this, your girl just needs get the FEELING that you embody these traits. And every man is capable of this, we are literally built for this. Thats why famous k-pop boybands can get all chicks they want, even though they look very feminine and weak. So if you give off insecure vibes, are lazy, unambitious and very agreeable to other man and woman - its done. Subconsciously they will see you as very weak and that makes them feel not safe and bored in your presence and thus not sexually attracted. On top of that, the monthly cycle plays a role in their attraction. Depending on the week of the Month, they are very attracted or completly disgusted by very masculine traits (aka the testosterone in our sweat and smell).

    • @infinitesimotel
      @infinitesimotel 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@smokexsmoke99 I know that they do, but there are other things they prioritise depending on what they are looking for. Most of our customs and ethos have been given to us by the garbage in mainstream magazines and television which are completely polluted and spiked with propaganda.

  • @mitchfindergeneral
    @mitchfindergeneral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3600

    6 Subtle Signs Someone Feels Attracted To You
    1. You are Craig Ferguson.
    2. You are Craig Ferguson.
    3. You are Craig Ferguson.
    4. You are Craig Ferguson.
    5. You are Craig Ferguson.
    6. You are Craig Ferguson.

    • @AiyaJ
      @AiyaJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      FACTS

    • @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733
      @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Dude is like Gator from The Other Guys

    • @Hallelujur
      @Hallelujur 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      He's a creep. 😤 And the women are mostly responding to his constant flirtatious energy towards every female guest he has. 🙄😷

    • @alexiberthe2574
      @alexiberthe2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bonus : Craig Ferguson is who you are

    • @moka1251
      @moka1251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you this helped so mcuh ❤

  • @jacobvaughn1683
    @jacobvaughn1683 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3982

    Honestly, a girl could do every single one of these, and I’d still be like, “But does she actually like me?” - I’ll always second guess it.

    • @loyalpanda4890
      @loyalpanda4890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      FR

    • @ohhhhhhmygodbecky
      @ohhhhhhmygodbecky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      There's no shame in just asking her out

    • @phaestor
      @phaestor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      If she is pregnant, she might be trying to frame you with someone else's child. If you are wealthy she could also be trying to frame you for sexual abuse. Best to have her sign some sort of legal document where she clearly states her intentions.

    • @demukazz
      @demukazz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yeah, right! I like then they don't respond at all after me asking was it teasing or more.

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      That's why I make it a point to get straight to business if I'm really into her. Can't say my success rate has ever been over 25% with this method, but at least I know where we (and by "we" I mean me) stand. It clears up lots of misunderstandings and confusion.

  • @emptyhusk150
    @emptyhusk150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23866

    She pushes you onto her bed and starts undressing. Is she into you?
    Well, you can't really tell.

    • @Ntnt11
      @Ntnt11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2398

      She gets down on her knees and begs you for your seed. Is she into you?
      Cant really tell.

    • @RheaPatranabis
      @RheaPatranabis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +893

      It's true. You can't tell with women

    • @riseALK
      @riseALK 4 ปีที่แล้ว +578

      @@Ntnt11 seed ... you watch too much porn.

    • @alexnickolaev
      @alexnickolaev 4 ปีที่แล้ว +663

      Does she do it to you more often than to other friends of yours?

    • @MariaL-ib4gw
      @MariaL-ib4gw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +584

      Casually explained, am I right;)

  • @Mech_Wizard
    @Mech_Wizard ปีที่แล้ว +183

    Pointing body is actually a sign of being interested, not attracted, but it is similiar and ofc if someone is attracted to you does also means is interested. But one can be just interested but without any attraction. Leaning towards someone while laughing means being friendly to that person and also trusting that person. Not necessarily physical attraction, but I do kinda agree about it in the basics - being friendly and trusting someone often corelate with attraction towards that person. Eyes darting / peeking at someone, is usually the the most accurate and significant indicator of pure physical attraction.

    • @thevegastan
      @thevegastan ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah that's what I totally too.

    • @MrBeetsGaming
      @MrBeetsGaming 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Reading body language is pseudoscience and everyone on the internet thinks they're an expert in it....

  • @thedrasc1465
    @thedrasc1465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4194

    Some of these clips had so much chemistry that I felt like an intruding third-wheel watching this 🤣

  • @hel2727
    @hel2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1623

    You've been married for 70 years, have 9 children, 6 grandchildren, 4 great-grandchildren and 8 dogs.
    Are they into you?
    Again, you can't really tell.

    • @ammumeme5789
      @ammumeme5789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Ree I actually spit out my coffee

    • @samarvora7185
      @samarvora7185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      Perhaps she's just being friendly.

    • @tommyshelby8119
      @tommyshelby8119 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's seems like I did it at the age of 2

    • @joshmathew7551
      @joshmathew7551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@tommyshelby8119 Dude ur with ur sister

    • @sirsam4769
      @sirsam4769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Casual bro

  • @celine_marie
    @celine_marie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13832

    This is in reality a compilation proving that practically everyone is into Craig Ferguson

    • @Bunndog
      @Bunndog 4 ปีที่แล้ว +556

      All living things are into Craig Ferguson

    • @720pGoatSoup
      @720pGoatSoup 4 ปีที่แล้ว +890

      And I don't even know who he is.

    • @trungcao1021
      @trungcao1021 4 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      It's true, love him

    • @no-body-nobody
      @no-body-nobody 4 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      dont know who he is but I'm in love

    • @mdntctyvlcn
      @mdntctyvlcn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Craig Ferguson has good taste.

  • @shinom0ri
    @shinom0ri ปีที่แล้ว +327

    Every once in a while I wory that people might like me and that I'm just not picking it up.
    I'm very greatful for videos like this confirming that I am not missing anything. ;)

    • @tedarcher9120
      @tedarcher9120 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And you end up being right, I call that a win-win situation

    • @Decently.kinkyy
      @Decently.kinkyy 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pseudo science mainly. Anyways, just ask if they are, easy to do for you or no?

    • @WasReallyDoingYourMom
      @WasReallyDoingYourMom 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I doubted it then 2 years later I overhear her friend say she was interested

    • @comicrandomness3289
      @comicrandomness3289 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@Decently.kinkyyfunny that you think they'll be honest.

  • @PhatKat77777
    @PhatKat77777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5510

    Lemme just watch this and delusionally convince myself someone is actually into me real quick

    • @THeOliveGardin
      @THeOliveGardin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      Feels bad man

    • @k3nz1e73
      @k3nz1e73 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Fr

    • @timowthie
      @timowthie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      I feel like that's the reason everyone is watching this.

    • @Ex0ticbr4d.KR7
      @Ex0ticbr4d.KR7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lmao same

    • @anthonyaranajr1996
      @anthonyaranajr1996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Nah I now watch these to hear the BS they say

  • @aevsol
    @aevsol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1066

    Signs person is attracted
    1. Preening: (fixing, standing straighter playing) is subconscious
    2. Pay attention to a drag or lingering touch
    3. Focus on frequent, unnecessary touches
    4. Look where the person orientates his body
    5. Person is leaning towards you
    6. Person looks at you, smiles and looks away

    • @gordeauxd
      @gordeauxd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Orients, not orientates.

    • @DaddyPsyMonn
      @DaddyPsyMonn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@gordeauxd say hallo at Harward for me

    • @gordeauxd
      @gordeauxd 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@DaddyPsyMonn
      It's called English.

    • @kudraabdulaziz3096
      @kudraabdulaziz3096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Sorry for ruining the 69 likes

    • @deniskasperovich8251
      @deniskasperovich8251 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Not person, woman. Signs of attraction in men are different

  • @Matuchin0
    @Matuchin0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1186

    She turns her body in your direction, laughs and leans over towards you, grabs your arm and doesn't let go until the very last moment, constantly plays with her hair and checks you out, hugs you and won't disconnect, gives you the smiling eye dart... Is she into you?... yeah again, you really can't be too sure, it's too dark in the room so she can't really see you properly.

  • @matthewbittenbender9191
    @matthewbittenbender9191 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Take preening with a grain of salt. I've seen a lot of girls twirl their hair or touch their face out of anxiety or nervousness. But touching is an excellent sign, almost a green light.

  • @Simon9Mr
    @Simon9Mr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4075

    The most important thing women love is sincerity. Be very sincere.
    If you can fake that, you've got it made.

    • @theamadan429
      @theamadan429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      HA!

    • @adrianchandler7853
      @adrianchandler7853 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      Nice! 🤣🤣🤣

    • @justinosborn1105
      @justinosborn1105 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Haha

    • @blueberrycobbler
      @blueberrycobbler 3 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      Except when she discovers that the sincerity was a lie and you were being manipulative, then you’ll truly find out what is the most important thing to women…honesty. Good luck.

    • @oregondude9411
      @oregondude9411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      Fake sincerity? Isn't that an oxymoron?

  • @alexandermallinckrodt2847
    @alexandermallinckrodt2847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2927

    What I take from this - Craig Ferguson is a player.

    • @josephm6719
      @josephm6719 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ozymandias Heliogabal Nullifidian Egad...

    • @josephm6719
      @josephm6719 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Ozymandias Heliogabal Nullifidian heya!

    • @kdawg5427
      @kdawg5427 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm 666th like

    • @shiv_ring
      @shiv_ring 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Ozymandias Heliogabal Nullifidian "Jedem das Seine" is German for "To each his own."

    • @kishanchali8752
      @kishanchali8752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@vermithor51ac no one would notice him if he wasn't a celebrity

  • @rickysmith923
    @rickysmith923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4053

    Girl: does all these things
    Me: she’s probably from Canada and is just being polite

    • @Alex-sr7xu
      @Alex-sr7xu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +146

      She probably just thought you were Craig Ferguson

    • @jacksbackable
      @jacksbackable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Are you telling me that people from the only country with forced speech are polite........!? Doesn’t seem to go together, you’ll have to excuse me! 😎🏖🌴☀️🇦🇺

    • @Maqalx
      @Maqalx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      They did not get the reference lol 😂

    • @jeffpro8
      @jeffpro8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      From my experience, Canadians aren't that polite.

    • @nishie.e
      @nishie.e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@jeffpro8 maybe they just didn't like you or weren't in a good mood.

  • @florianpierredumont4775
    @florianpierredumont4775 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    > wants to spend more time with you.
    > voice tone changes when she talks with you.
    > likes when you compliment her, isn't afraid of physical contact, through hugs and kisses on the cheek, front and hands.
    > never let you down, refuse to let you talk bad about yourself. Asks you to "remotive" her too, and hugs/kisses you when you do, so you can build a link of affection.
    > wants a sit close to you at the dinner table.
    > isn't afraid to put a hand on your arm or leg, openly or with discretion.
    > keeps the said hand on your arm/leg for a moment, asking for your reaction.
    > let you touch her hand in return, play with her palm, caress her skin, and eventually, unites fingers with yours for a few minutes before you signal her that you need your hand back.
    > looks at you in every occasion, for a moment, smiles brightly, and gives you a compliment. Many times.
    > give you advices or ask you directly to put something off, or back, because "it makes you more attractive with(out) it."
    > laughs a lot to all you are saying, agrees with you, asks you to repeat what you already told her lately, so you can have conversation.
    > eyes are shining. Brightly.
    Her besty : gives us obvious clues that we both SHOULD go a little bit further.
    My besty : gives me signs to carry on and go further, such as wide open eyes and thumbs up.
    > in the end, thanks you for all you did with/for her, acknowledge your qualities (also gives you a list of said qualities), and says she is proud to know you, and eager to know you more in the future.
    Thank you, girlfriend, for these moments. Those were the best weeks of my life.

    • @sidr8920
      @sidr8920 ปีที่แล้ว

      :(

    • @mayo_nnais3
      @mayo_nnais3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I complimented a woman and she liked it. Is she into me?

    • @FlamingCockatiel
      @FlamingCockatiel ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is a sweet comment.

    • @GenXMafia
      @GenXMafia ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I had to go rub one out after reading this....

    • @happygoat2867
      @happygoat2867 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and what do I do if I want to kiss her and she rejects me

  • @serpentphoenix
    @serpentphoenix 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1695

    Just so you guys understand. Body language is not magic, but it is a lot like Occlumency and Legilimency from Harry Potter. If you know what the body language for flirting are, it can also be faked by someone just to pretend that they have a interest in you for whatever reason. They can also learn to be self aware of their body language and mask them before acting in a way.
    Salespeople, actors and politicians are generally extremely good at this and I'm quite certain they fake it while in public. It really comes down to practice and constant interaction with people, watching their cues, etc.

    • @eliopalombi
      @eliopalombi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Oclumency? Harry Potter? MARRY ME

    • @NoblesseOblige-17
      @NoblesseOblige-17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I have an inkling that Jesus Christ might be attracted to you.

    • @kungfuman82
      @kungfuman82 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      People joke that this channel is a goldmine for sociopaths (paraphrasing, of course) and, while it is humorous, there's probably a bit of truth in it.

    • @Notyurr
      @Notyurr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@kungfuman82 There's definitely some truth, but I feel like most of the charm developed by people with anti-social disorders comes from experience or is just a result of their illness.
      I feel like psychopaths and sociopaths lack the feeling of anxiety so they come off as charming due to their confidence

    • @kookiefly
      @kookiefly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think you've got such a good point! Ppl should also take these things into account.

  • @jbratt
    @jbratt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4335

    If a girl farts really loud in front of you and laughs, it means she is comfortable around you.

    • @ballkicker2391
      @ballkicker2391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      lmfao

    • @gustavofring4363
      @gustavofring4363 3 ปีที่แล้ว +368

      I wouldn't want that to happen near me tbh😂 no matter how good we connect... If she farts purposely when I'm in the room, I'm out

    • @trendingstories8922
      @trendingstories8922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      it means she doesn't care about your feelings

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life 3 ปีที่แล้ว +77

      Yeah... about that. She might be into me, but I'll defo not be into her after that if you catch my drift.

    • @1000π
      @1000π 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      *snifffffff*

  • @TanvirAhmed24
    @TanvirAhmed24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +900

    Unfortunately, it's impossible to know whether or not someone is attracted to you. People might also feel attracted to you, but choose not to act upon it. The best thing to do is enjoy yourself and trust the right person will notice and ask you out. Flirt a little with the people you're interested in and see what happens.

    • @fullmetalalchemist471
      @fullmetalalchemist471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yep!

    • @jessmith7324
      @jessmith7324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Agreed. Everyone feels attraction to others even when in relationships. If thats the case, they wont normally do anything but enjoy the moment of'he's/she's cute'

    • @ashleedugan2875
      @ashleedugan2875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Definitely agreed. I've been aware of these things for a long time (open body language, touch, eye contact, etc.) and used that knowledge to actively do the opposite to hide my attraction. They're decent indicators of someone who wants you to know they're attracted to you, but they're not tell-alls.

    • @FromDkWithLove
      @FromDkWithLove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Feels like this ought to be common knowledge, but it's a nugget of wisdom all the same.

    • @mworld2611
      @mworld2611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A man of wisdom

  • @Moultdog
    @Moultdog 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    A really good sign that I never see talked about is when someone maintains eye contact while taking a drink, especially if they are smiling while doing it. You actually see some of this in the video. It shows they are completely engaged and don't want to allow that momentary interruption even though they are literally blocking part of their face. Another one that is blatantly obvious most people miss is when someone tries to isolate you from the group. A lot of times when we are interacting we won't notice subtle, often unintentional, manipulations to get one-on-one time with you. It could be as overt as touching someone's arm or elbow or back to move them away from others or simply leaning a certain way, etc. It is most often realized in retrospect and/or pointed out by an observer, which could be another sign because why are THEY watching you. It is all a massive convoluted dance of human interaction made all the more complicated by romantic inclinations. Unfortunately there are some people out there that will do these things just to get you to engage to make themselves feel better or look better to their friends. I saw this happen a lot working bars for several years across multiple states and yes it also happened to me. Always take these kinds of things with a grain of salt when you're dealing with people who depend on your support, like people in the service industry or salespeople or entertainers or politicians, etc. They are automatically attempting to get you to like them and engage with them for self-preservation.

  • @PowerMatrixAnime
    @PowerMatrixAnime 4 ปีที่แล้ว +594

    One sign: she qualifies herself to you. If you tell her that you like responsible/smart/charming women, she will start finding ways to hint at it, either overtly or covertly like telling a story.

    • @Carlos1234jfk
      @Carlos1234jfk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      That's brilliant. Gonna try this

    • @HenryCejudoTripIeC
      @HenryCejudoTripIeC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sherloid Bai hello from the dark side

    • @arraikcruor6407
      @arraikcruor6407 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Men do this too!

    • @LeonBosset
      @LeonBosset 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So you tell her what qualities you like, and she will attempt to manifest them to you? I've been doing it wrong all this time, trying to figure out what she wants.

    • @glossbaus2128
      @glossbaus2128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I have instances where men do this too. Usually the person who is interested would ask you what qualities you are looking for.. you answer them and suddenly they are trying to "qualify" themselves to you..

  • @stayhappylittlemermaid
    @stayhappylittlemermaid 4 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    If you don't go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don't ask, the answer is always no. If you don't step forward, you're always in the same place.
    -Nora Roberts

    • @FromDkWithLove
      @FromDkWithLove 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      You're absolutely right. I need to step it up. I need to watch much more anime. 48 hour binge session here I go!

    • @exaygeetee9454
      @exaygeetee9454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      100% .... There is brilliance in boldness.

    • @mrkiky
      @mrkiky 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      If you're standing on the edge of a cliff, you can do worse than staying in the same place, jussayin....

    • @dakedakinson64
      @dakedakinson64 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I did that, got restriction orders.

    • @Hey-ey9jn
      @Hey-ey9jn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I did that, got nothing.

  • @MisterPol
    @MisterPol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    Focus on improving yourself before you can help others. It's just like in an airplane, you need to put your own oxygen mask on first before you can help others put theirs on!

    • @MisterPol
      @MisterPol 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And thank you for inspiring me to get into self development!! ❤️

    • @venetiancopper6032
      @venetiancopper6032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True bro

    • @tensae4725
      @tensae4725 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kathan Jani do you watch Alpha M too ? Because I’ve seen this guy there.

    • @rickybobby9840
      @rickybobby9840 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shoutout logic

    • @johnny2x459
      @johnny2x459 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MisterPol most stoopid comparison example I have ever read I mean the oxygen mask in the plane.

  • @suaptoest
    @suaptoest ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Only when married does a man know what is true happiness .
    But then it's already too late.

  • @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733
    @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +432

    Lets take a moment of silence for those of us that get zero of those signs..

    • @sly11benal7
      @sly11benal7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Loll come on bruh. Go to a bar(s) n flirt with bartenders/waitresses. See what happens. It's easy...

    • @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733
      @Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Sly11B Enal Those are the last people that want to be hit on. They just pretend to be nice for tips

    • @sly11benal7
      @sly11benal7 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Jackmerius_Tacktheritrix5733 not true...lol I guess different worlds.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some signs of attraction last only a millisecond..Ive noticed them before.

    • @User-rz7de
      @User-rz7de 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

  • @JoeWagner21
    @JoeWagner21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +942

    I've concluded nobody has ever been attracted to me.

    • @cecilyerker
      @cecilyerker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Now who’s fault is that

    • @JoeWagner21
      @JoeWagner21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      @@cecilyerker God

    • @windmill4581
      @windmill4581 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Cecily Erker definitely not his. Do you think he just controls who is attracted to him? You’re the same women who cheats on a dude and says “it’s your fault for not liking me enough”

    • @Caine61
      @Caine61 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @Cecily Erker It’s your fault. Apologize.

    • @LeonBosset
      @LeonBosset 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hilarious post! Yet somehow, I find myself unable to laugh.

  • @mitchkania8457
    @mitchkania8457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +592

    I love the Gal Gadot face when she realizes she’s on camera and shouldn’t be pining over Pine.

    • @sharonyang3927
      @sharonyang3927 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Intended or not, I love that you chose the wording "pining over Pine"

    • @TranslatedAssumption
      @TranslatedAssumption 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      I would lose it if Gal Gadot was interested in me, mega crush here.

    • @epbrown01
      @epbrown01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I feel bad that she will never live that down, but it really was adorable. :-)

    • @Noonenobody_1
      @Noonenobody_1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥁 🥁 tsssss

    • @makidtrej
      @makidtrej 2 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@epbrown01 Why bad? I mean let's be honest: if Gal was not married, she'd totally be dating Chris. If anything i kinda feel bad for her husband.He is considerably less attractive than Chris and It must have been really awkward for him to see that interview. I mean, let's be frank: no one likes to see our s.o. looking at someone else that way. And tbh, he might have a small doubt (at least i know i'd be wondering) if something might have happened behind the scenes between them.

  • @messemphanger
    @messemphanger ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Don't forget the aura, you can "feel" it when talking to someone the chemistry between you two.

    • @burgundyjayde
      @burgundyjayde ปีที่แล้ว +6

      OMG yes I feel it with this guy I know

    • @tracksmanbeats1467
      @tracksmanbeats1467 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Facts bro!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 energy doesn’t lie

    • @livingcontradiction2249
      @livingcontradiction2249 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      But then again, as a man, you can't really know.

    • @Classickoolcars
      @Classickoolcars ปีที่แล้ว

      Best feeling EVER…🤣🤣👍

    • @Un.kno.wn_evil
      @Un.kno.wn_evil ปีที่แล้ว

      And here's I am who's struggling with the "chemistry" subject, very especially the "organic" one, and then the "inorganic" one😴😴

  • @funkymonkeylovin
    @funkymonkeylovin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1251

    Two takeaways from this:
    1. Be Craig Ferguson
    2. Don't be me.

    • @invertedassassin1006
      @invertedassassin1006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's not true
      You are the way you are be proud of it

    • @Johnsmith-yn6gw
      @Johnsmith-yn6gw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lemme just touch you a little bit so you can feel better

    • @arpitabrahmachari7649
      @arpitabrahmachari7649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If the person in your pfp is you... Stop demanding for attention, your good looking and you know it

    • @sunset8516
      @sunset8516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oof self-burn, does are rare

    • @chaitanyajain3127
      @chaitanyajain3127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You look handsome btw

  • @srandres
    @srandres 3 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    Watching this not to tell when someone is attracted to me, but to know how to express my attraction to someone else.

    • @colescalisthenics
      @colescalisthenics 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Interesting pov

    • @giuliar2539
      @giuliar2539 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @snarkygnome619
      @snarkygnome619 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I try to learn these to convey subliminal signs of attraction that neurotypicals would maybe understand better than I would.

    • @facundosoler2200
      @facundosoler2200 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's not gonna work. They're not gonna pick it up lol

    • @h.w.4482
      @h.w.4482 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      autistic, neurotypical, whichever, I just wish I could actually pay attention enough to see whether these signs were even there or not 😂

  • @ImmortalGirl
    @ImmortalGirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +381

    People can ask to sleep with me and my insecurities would be like "naah they just being friendly"

    • @jbratt
      @jbratt 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You had 69 thumbs up. It made me laugh so I hit the thumbs up and ruined it.

    • @peripheralparadox4218
      @peripheralparadox4218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      When I’m getting a head job I just assume she’s super friendly.

  • @ModernDatingMastery
    @ModernDatingMastery หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    *It's amazing how a little knowledge can empower men to approach women with more assurance. Definitely a must-watch for anyone navigating the dating scene!*

  • @paft
    @paft 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Attraction is tricky. A person could be attracted to you, but is aware of potential signs and doesn't want to show it, being self-conscious and trying to avoid the signs. Like a hug for example...intentionally pulling away quickly. I've done it.

    • @ShalomSimplified
      @ShalomSimplified 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Right, I've done it, too. In fact, shaking his hand rather than hugging him. Literally no one, as far as I could ever tell, figured out I had a crush on him, him included. To this day, only two people know, and only because I told them. Not that I never gave a single sign, but someone would have had to have ben deliberately studying me to ever catch it, and it would have still been so vague that they likely wouldn't have gotten it.
      But typically, if someone is hiding it that much, there's probably a good reason. In my case, it was because he already was courting someone else!

    • @mtlicq
      @mtlicq ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@ShalomSimplified Correct! Appearances can be deceptive. Let yourself be genuine. Walk by faith (and love), not by sight. Also participate in creating the good that you want to come about; Don't just passively rely on giving or sending signals.

    • @Lisaaaaaaq
      @Lisaaaaaaq ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly. If you're into body language like some people are then most likely they will do the opposite if they don't want their feelings to be known or if they're embarrassed or shy about it

    • @MrParkerman6
      @MrParkerman6 ปีที่แล้ว

      ...except if they are willing to hug at all, they probably like you.

    • @paft
      @paft ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@MrParkerman6 Hug was a bad example. But some people are like that, or touchy by nature and yet it doesn't mean anything. It isn't always black and white.

  • @davidkonevky7372
    @davidkonevky7372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I remember there was a time where me and my crush started being more close to each other, we would laugh, we would talk a lot, I felt great, I truly think she may have liked me on that way. But we both ruined it by not taking action, I will try to be more direct next time, and improve myself.

    • @Frankya92
      @Frankya92 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Been through this too. I still regret it to this day

    • @tomorrowcomestoday1621
      @tomorrowcomestoday1621 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by taking action

    • @juleslefumiste9204
      @juleslefumiste9204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So it didn't escalate into the most erotic copulation between you two?

    • @davidkonevky7372
      @davidkonevky7372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@tomorrowcomestoday1621 making a move basically

    • @num1Jaysta
      @num1Jaysta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I've been there during high school

  • @THE______TRUTH
    @THE______TRUTH 3 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    Today I learned that Craig Ferguson is an absolute ladies man. Real talk the man is one of the funniest talk shoe hosts ever and I dont understand why he isnt a bigger show host.

    • @wolfman231
      @wolfman231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      They dicked Craig over. He is too edgy for mainstream and the advertisers to fill the earlier slot. Conan got the same unfair treatment.

    • @Baci302
      @Baci302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I couldn't deal with his accent. My hearing isn't the greatest and between the accent and the fact that he talks a bit fast caused to give up on the show without giving him a proper chance. Looks like I could've picked up a few pointers if I had. lol

    • @itzAurora_Xoxo
      @itzAurora_Xoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Baci302 damn I love the accent...Scottish accents 😍

    • @HerveBoisde
      @HerveBoisde 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      He’s too witty for the average American

    • @Aditya-sj4ev
      @Aditya-sj4ev ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hes the chancellor of rizz university in my books

  • @roadrunner2658
    @roadrunner2658 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s a blessing and a curse. It’s relationships have always been struggle a struggle for me. “Beautiful people never know who to trust”

  • @danwellsanddangmtb2302
    @danwellsanddangmtb2302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Is girls running away and screaming whilst puking a sign that they are attracted to me?

    • @AiyaJ
      @AiyaJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Mhmm 🥴

    • @poet279
      @poet279 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That means she wants the D.

    • @that1goat369
      @that1goat369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It means you a psychopath who drugged her. I mean she drugged herself

    • @alexiberthe2574
      @alexiberthe2574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Go for it, follow her

    • @HandofOmega
      @HandofOmega 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      According to Pepe LePew, YES!!

  • @simonsheridan5906
    @simonsheridan5906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    “We’ve all been there. You’re talking with someone you like and you’re not quite sure if they’re flirting with you...”
    Have we?! 😂

  • @kleeblattchen38
    @kleeblattchen38 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    She literally tells you that she likes you. Is she into you?
    Well, you can't really tell...
    she might be just joking around you know...

    • @E2WAVY
      @E2WAVY 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Damn, he’s right

    • @rustyhowe3907
      @rustyhowe3907 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I had this once just for them to tell me they were joking just to make me awkward, now I'm dating their ex and guess who's gonna get invited to the wedding?😈

  • @pstuddy
    @pstuddy ปีที่แล้ว +33

    0:45 gal gadot was so adorable right here. the stare, the smile, the lip bite, and then that typical “uh oh someone might catch me” bashful lookaway stare to the ground gaaah ❤

    • @RokkitGrrl
      @RokkitGrrl 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She caught herself pretty quickly!

    • @amazonprime5
      @amazonprime5 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Go outside now

  • @CaseyBurnsInvesting
    @CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    This is the channel I needed in High School.

    • @zonkentshangase4419
      @zonkentshangase4419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      But i have it in highschool

    • @ratsass7201
      @ratsass7201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If it were not for covid then this would be perfect timing for me.

    • @itiswhatitis2145
      @itiswhatitis2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Matricx700 SEE Your favourite celebrities here
      SUBSCRIBE TO THIS

    • @itiswhatitis2145
      @itiswhatitis2145 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      SEE Your favourite celebrities here
      SUBSCRIBE TO THIS

    • @unsalted_pepper550
      @unsalted_pepper550 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the same thing! I wanted to experiment these tips on people but sadly, my last year of highschool has been ruined by covid😑

  • @lyfeldvalencia3495
    @lyfeldvalencia3495 2 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I think all this can happen when a person feels like they are heard and appreciated, especially women. Not necessarily romantic interest, as the disclaimer said. If you truly want to know if someone wants to be romantically involved with you, is to feel see their intent on their behavior. As someone said, you'll feel the heat if there's any as long as you keep a keen sense. If you can't, just ask.

  • @mauler5858
    @mauler5858 4 ปีที่แล้ว +824

    Im a dude, and full disclosure I'd look at Henry Cavill the same way too.

    • @jahimuddin2306
      @jahimuddin2306 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same dude. Although I am bisexual.

    • @jacksbackable
      @jacksbackable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So you’re coming out.......!? 🤨

    • @kenedwards849
      @kenedwards849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

    • @alltheworldsastage4785
      @alltheworldsastage4785 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okay.

    • @BlackMoridin
      @BlackMoridin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      straight as an arrow, but yeah Henry Cavill, Jason Momoa both would make me do that XD

  • @d.e.b.b5788
    @d.e.b.b5788 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for teaching men how to understand when girls are interested. Far too many men are absolutely clueless, and no matter how many times a girl gives them attention, they absolutely miss it entirely.

    • @Kenny.G-33
      @Kenny.G-33 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Because woman play alot of mind games, so that man is now safeguarding himself from future games

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 ปีที่แล้ว

      why dont youjust open your worthless mouth and straight up TELL US you like one of us? ya women and your mindgames are exactly why everyone is single.

    • @S.P.01
      @S.P.01 ปีที่แล้ว

      Women have to make it easier and more obvious. It doesn't have to be some puzzle Men should fix in order to get it. All the games can be avoided.

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      These could mean everything OR nothing
      Training a pigeon is easier than understand a woman

  • @micheabell4978
    @micheabell4978 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    THE LADIES AIN’T AN ISSUE TO CRAIG😭😭

    • @tmjre6138
      @tmjre6138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      For Craig. You cute though.😜

  • @mcfly9175
    @mcfly9175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    When no one does this to you lol

  • @HamzaALASLI
    @HamzaALASLI 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    When she keeps laughing at your repeated terrible jokes

    • @Loguer
      @Loguer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I mean, I do that...

    • @arcturus4762
      @arcturus4762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When she supports your military expeditions and your devotion to the empire

    • @thebeyonder4961
      @thebeyonder4961 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arcturus4762 idk the empire is pretty chill

    • @deathrager2404
      @deathrager2404 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@arcturus4762 nd then yougo out on a mission and she bangin yo bestfriend.

  • @kirosmatavastros
    @kirosmatavastros ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I always do lingering hug, be it love interest or a friend or even another guy - just because it's the most enjoyable type of hug to a receiver.
    There is no other motivation, then being the king of enjoyable hugs.

  • @Wolf88888
    @Wolf88888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I am both a practitioner, and trainer, in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). I have also been trained in Neuro-Subliminal Communication (NSC), which, essentially, focuses on the meaning behind pre-conscious gestures, such as preening, or things like subconsciously swallowing during a negotiation. With all that said, I would like to say that this video is very accurate. The couple of things that I would add , that somewhat complicate matters, are the effect of context and inter-relational dynamics. For example, if a person is in an environment, or in the type of relationship (such as boss/subordinate, or friend/best friend's partner, dynamic), where it could viewed as highly-inappropriate to demonstrate attraction, or where impulses toward attraction need to be suppressed, then one might see a seemingly paradoxical reversal of the behaviors listed in this video. Basically, this means that, depending on the context, if someone seems to go out of their way to suppress these responses, then it might just mean they are attracted to you, but want to hide it, perhaps even from themselves. Still, pre-conscious 'leakage', such as blush responses, eye dilation, etc., are still likely to occur. One just has to employ more acuity in observation.

    • @FrodeFalch
      @FrodeFalch ปีที่แล้ว

      Confidence and Alpha body language >> being a nerd with alot of written knowledge

    • @Mustakrakish1337
      @Mustakrakish1337 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What happens at work ends up on reddit. Seriously though, all great points.

    • @h.w.4482
      @h.w.4482 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      "alpha body language" lmao

  • @naughtiusmaximus
    @naughtiusmaximus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Now I realize why every girl I have ever talked to, stood like a drill instructor not looking at me in my general direction.

  • @JohnnyValmaggia
    @JohnnyValmaggia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Counterintuitive Addition: if she (or he) challenges you. I don't mean a duel, although anything is possible, but teases and competitions are a sign of attraction too.
    For example, I asked a friend once if a certain girl we worked with was now single. He said "yes", then proceeded to tell her I had asked. She turned around and, in front of the whole work group, asked me why I was wondering that, a cheeky smile on her face. I turned to my traitor friend, saying "I told you to be subtle about it, moron". When I looked back at her she did Ben's appropriately named "smiling eye dart" and told me she was single. You don't see the challenge? She was testing how I would react.
    Another example could be a tackle competition. However, if you get that far, you don't need me telling you she likes you.

    • @begobolehsjwjangan2359
      @begobolehsjwjangan2359 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      why would you ask if she is a single or not? if you are a real man then you go for her whether she is married or taken or engaged.
      a lion doesn't concern himself over opinion of the sheep.

    • @JJsWonders
      @JJsWonders ปีที่แล้ว

      @@begobolehsjwjangan2359 we just hit peak TH-cam comment

  • @dal_alek
    @dal_alek ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I trusted u 😭, the way my friend look at me is the same way u said that she secretly loves me, so I told her how I feel about her & that I know she likes me from the way she looks at me…
    Now she said she doesn't wanna see me for the upcoming million years 😵

    • @Newbro-fk9xe
      @Newbro-fk9xe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is that true?

    • @dal_alek
      @dal_alek 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Newbro-fk9xe so true bruh, I'm still single 🤧

    • @Newbro-fk9xe
      @Newbro-fk9xe 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@dal_alek u must'vs gotten it wrong big time or she was playing with yo

  • @joshhernandez58
    @joshhernandez58 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Got it. After reviewing this I can, in fact, confirm that no one has ever been interested in me. lol

  • @promo_elite
    @promo_elite 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Conclusion: study Craig's The Late Late Show lady interviews.

  • @SithCelia
    @SithCelia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I recently started flirting with a guy who's only slightly worse at flirting than I am, but now I'm to the point where I'm convinced that there are men as well as women who only flirt to make themselves feel better and have no intention whatsoever of pursuing things further.

    • @TaxingIsThieving
      @TaxingIsThieving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are you a Smith?

    • @cheap_car_stories
      @cheap_car_stories 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      pretty spot on for me, i like the game but have lost my interest in what developes from there.

    • @davidshillaker7578
      @davidshillaker7578 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Nah, us guys are just emotionally stunted. We only care about sports and complaining about politics

  • @flamingmonkeyxii
    @flamingmonkeyxii ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All this time I thought I was bad on picking up on signs of flirting. Turns out just no one was flirting with me!

    • @charles2241
      @charles2241 ปีที่แล้ว

      Those inebriated tend to do more sketchy things. I like how they make such a big deal out of women grabbing his leg, when the perv puts it out there specifically for them to do that. I mean, what do they have? Their chair, themselves, and his leg, there's not much else to do. It's so fake.

  • @837301
    @837301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +253

    Sign #7: they sit on your face

    • @countlitmogaphil392
      @countlitmogaphil392 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg

    • @neonkscksc
      @neonkscksc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So, when a bully bulies someone at school by sitting on their face, It's love?...
      Man, If I ever have kids, they'll be homeschooled.

    • @OhridSase
      @OhridSase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately not on your face, but on C.Ferguson's face

    • @mizzoupatriot8814
      @mizzoupatriot8814 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dead giveaway lol.

    • @juleslefumiste9204
      @juleslefumiste9204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey, it depends on the context. It could be they just want to be nice to you

  • @jl-dq5ch
    @jl-dq5ch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    It's no secret, people like to be liked...
    ...having said that from personal experience I recommend if you want more people to like you (friendship or something more) just do these same things to lots of people rather than hope they do them towards you. I do all of these things constantly towards people (sometimes on purpose, other times unconsciously but catch myself in the act) and believe me it makes a big difference.

    • @lenel2926
      @lenel2926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      hope i can get success...😞social interactions ain't really a strong point for me

    • @LyfaLeeZhure_DavidShawn
      @LyfaLeeZhure_DavidShawn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @j l ...and how many restraining orders do you have against you?

  • @isavellapapazikopoulou2090
    @isavellapapazikopoulou2090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I'll still ask myself this even after 40 years of marriage, I swear

  • @tony853
    @tony853 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this video, I now realized that my 5 year long crush never liked me. It was just simple eye contact. It was all in my head. Don't listen to the voice inside ur head.

  • @johndo9165
    @johndo9165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Also, if they almost continuously have quick glances at you, even when you don't engage in conversations in a group meeting, then that's 100% it. However, as a guy, you almost certainly won't notice them.

  • @AleksiJoensuu
    @AleksiJoensuu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's also worth it to compare the person against themselves - everyone's amount of touching, preening, smiling etc. is individual. Some people simply might like to touch others more than average, or might be more smiley or have more eye contact. Or, some people might respond to you or others touching and smiling more readily and match you. So try to gauge how a person acts towards others around them compared to yourself, or compare how their acts evolve as your interactions continue.
    Also, some signs of non-attraction from some might be a sign of attraction from others. Such as, some people might be deathly afraid of making eye contact with people who they are attracted to, while others might make more contact! There's people out there who will simply not talk to you or interact with you at all when they're attracted to you. Go figure. Just, don't think everyone who's avoiding you is attracted to you or you'll end up playing the creep. With one of these people, a sign could be that they choose to be in the same place with you as often as they can, even if they might not interact with you while they're there. These people can be hard to read, and it can be something else entirely too, so take it easy. As an example, I once had a polyamorous friend literally ask me to hang out with her girlfriend saying she wanted her girlfriend to date someone like me. So we did for a short amount of time, didn't hit it off and stopped seeing each other, and ended up dating with that friend - for going on four years now.
    Also - you can always just do the straight up thing and ask. :)

    • @georginamaclar
      @georginamaclar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true. I constantly avoid eye contact and being close to someone I have a crush on .

  • @alexmartin3433
    @alexmartin3433 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I got one thing out of this: no one has ever been attracted to me

  • @blackmetalerik
    @blackmetalerik ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this video just tells me i'm forever alone😔

  • @Kissfan96dr
    @Kissfan96dr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    another sign at work or school, if they regularly come by your desk to ask a question they can easily find the answer themselves. #2 - you give them little unnecessary commands and they comfortably obey.

  • @ericm.3791
    @ericm.3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I usually manage to know if she isn’t interested in me by her saying one of two possible words, boyfriend or husband. I seem to get that a lot.

    • @RARochester
      @RARochester 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's just the opposite bro; she's saying I like you and would f*ck you so don't tempt me. Trust me I've been the other man so many times....

    • @Wize817
      @Wize817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@RARochester Nah, I think he just gets the "Sorry, I have bf/husband." line. I know what you're saying, but what lines do they say to you that make it the clear they're down despite the bf/husband?

  • @PhluppeHimself
    @PhluppeHimself 4 ปีที่แล้ว +580

    * Sister gives long hug during our dad's funeral *
    "She's into me!"

    • @Sleepless4Life
      @Sleepless4Life 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Incest is Wincest my friend!

    • @christina4012
      @christina4012 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      No...

    • @deepmindofx8148
      @deepmindofx8148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      If she’s your sister by marriage it’s not incest

    • @christina4012
      @christina4012 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Chloe Ewing well duhh

    • @kennethjose7159
      @kennethjose7159 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      You: Can’t do anything now huh, dad?

  • @Adonis.D.Prince
    @Adonis.D.Prince ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's been years since I last upgraded my personality. This channel is really adding some DLC to my brain.

  • @KP-5928
    @KP-5928 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Love this video as with all your others! One thing I want to point out, is that for the clips with Kate Mara and Catherine at the beginning of this video, I think that there is a good chance they could have both been touching their hair out of self-consciousness/feeling a bit uncomfortable. In both cases, men were publicly making sexual hints at them, and many women actually do not like when men do this and are often horrified by it. But out of "politeness" or being in a public setting, they don't say anything and instead unconsciously express that discomfort by "preening". I often preen when i'm nervous so I think it is important to point out that preening can indicate two very different things: interest vs. discomfort. Of course, we have no idea what was actually going through either woman's minds so I could be totally wrong. Just wanted to give my perspective so people don't accidentally mistake discomfort with flirting in certain cases!

    • @alexzepeda_
      @alexzepeda_ 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      👋Hi, my dream is to have 350 subs😃....

    • @AJ-tx3qm
      @AJ-tx3qm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      THANK YOU

    • @RARochester
      @RARochester 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AJ-tx3qm so is Craig all that ? Let's get a woman's perspective....

    • @raquelborn
      @raquelborn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Second this. It’s like a nervous energy or irritation tick. But not a good nervous energy. Women are sharper than a lot of men think. And we’re good at smiling / looking fine to appease a man’s ego to avoid the aggression that can result when a man realises we’re not interested / we’re rejecting him.
      So by itself, preening is not a reassuring sign. Don’t be creepy / obnoxious / come on too strong if you don’t want her having a negative reaction inside.

    • @ShalomSimplified
      @ShalomSimplified 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very glad you pointed that out. There have actually been cases of teenage girls in particular ending up in bed with boys they hadn't actually wanted to sleep with because they were excessively nervous and the boy took their nervous preening, lip-biting, etc. as flirting.

  • @Lumors
    @Lumors 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Lol my ex got a jealousy rage when I played with my hair after a friend of mine entered the room.
    1. I rarely wear my hair down, so having it around is unusual enough for me to touch it.
    2. I get anxious in larger crowds and it was a bigger meetup, 10+ people. I probably just stimmed.
    So while it can be a hint, it is not necessarily a telling sign.
    (Oh, on the other hand, a jealously rage is a relatively good sign of a toxic relationship.)

    • @CiaLaVirago
      @CiaLaVirago 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Thank god you dumped him. Good riddance!

    • @thtsirrelevv
      @thtsirrelevv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I always play with my hair like, anywhere, everywhere, at anytime, around anyone. its kinda a bad habit

  • @sophiehayes5201
    @sophiehayes5201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Nobody:me watching this knowing nobody likes me

    • @Cipher_Paul
      @Cipher_Paul 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Isn't it what everyone else here is doing as well 😂 ?

    • @wills3rdgirl
      @wills3rdgirl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha, me too 😂

  • @skoodlemoose
    @skoodlemoose 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What im gathering from this video is that craig ferguson can have any woman on the planet that he wants. Also this is my first time ever hearing of him

  • @dioxyde0
    @dioxyde0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    after watching some of these videos and realising i've known most of these already, it makes me feel like a charisma god

  • @datheamore6395
    @datheamore6395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I will say that with the hair preening, sometimes women play with their hair if they are fidgety or anxious. I am a woman and I play with my hair all of the time.

  • @gnihtemos
    @gnihtemos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    There's some good advice here, as per usual. And I like Craig Ferguson, and it's fun to watch all the flirting,,, and he is witty and all that. But make no mistake, the ladies who go on His show know exactly what they're doing there and why they're on the show. so, If you behave very much like Ferguson, in real life situations,,, Don't expect the same reactions.

    • @Mustakrakish1337
      @Mustakrakish1337 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bulk of the video is Ferguson dishing the rizz

  • @JustinBarzak
    @JustinBarzak ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This channel has taught me through many videos that Craig Ferguson is just killing it with women

  • @Lorien.-.
    @Lorien.-. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Not gonna lie, I'm here because of the Gal Gadot X Chris Pine thumb

  • @invertedassassin1006
    @invertedassassin1006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    4:34 when introduction came I thought RDJ is also attracted to craig

  • @jaimeframer6220
    @jaimeframer6220 4 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    All I think I learnt was that I miss Craig as a late night host.

    • @stogieguy7201
      @stogieguy7201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He was great and should have taken over for Letterman

    • @JamesRDavenport
      @JamesRDavenport 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You and the whole freaking world. That political hack Colbert is about as sexy as testicular dandruff.

    • @danieldeplorable4960
      @danieldeplorable4960 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      He wasn't "woke" enough.

  • @dodoraptor8387
    @dodoraptor8387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lose it all...Job, career, home, cash...If she's still by your side, then she loves you

  • @ghostbuster8377
    @ghostbuster8377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Just stare at her eyes while chatting, if she stares back then she likes you.
    If she doesnt then maybe shes shy or she is not into you

  • @shounakhinge8
    @shounakhinge8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Just here to have a glimpse of how attractive people experience world...

    • @raspberrymist
      @raspberrymist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I always wonder this as well..

    • @timowthie
      @timowthie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You have magnificent moustache my friend. Woman should date you just for that.

    • @shounakhinge8
      @shounakhinge8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@timowthie whoa ! How could you tell just from this blurry photo ? 😅

    • @beefy_hanes
      @beefy_hanes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Came to compliment the moustache

    • @seifeldinkhaled4253
      @seifeldinkhaled4253 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      With a moustache like that I'm betting you already had the full view before watching😉

  • @uwu-sd4sf
    @uwu-sd4sf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    yes now i've finally confirmed that no one is attracted to me 😌

    • @girthakian
      @girthakian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Right there with ya bro. 👊

    • @DantesFromHospital
      @DantesFromHospital 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      xdd same alone all my life xdd at least i dont have to listen anyone xd beeing ugly is gift from god xd

  • @guillervz
    @guillervz ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had never considered the standing straight as preening. It makes a lot of sense. Now I know why the girl I like was so standing like that when I first saw her after a long time.

  • @DanielSelk
    @DanielSelk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I KNEW the "nobody loves me" comments would be here. XD

  • @TheUltimateFridge
    @TheUltimateFridge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I sometimes do these on purpose, to show I like someone.

    • @raspberrymist
      @raspberrymist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      And do they show they like you back?

    • @TheUltimateFridge
      @TheUltimateFridge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@raspberrymist Man, why you got to call me out like that?
      Jokes aside, sometimes.

    • @raspberrymist
      @raspberrymist 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TheUltimateFridge sorry, was really just curious.

  • @Notyurr
    @Notyurr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    "We've all been there"
    *Looks in the mirror*
    Welp, nope 🥺

    • @Chaotic4Neutral
      @Chaotic4Neutral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's not too late to change that. Make a list of things you could do better, focus on one at a time and be patient. It'll pay off eventually.

    • @Notyurr
      @Notyurr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Chaotic4Neutral I'm joking

    • @Chaotic4Neutral
      @Chaotic4Neutral 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Notyurr idc, still applies for anyone who's actually in that situation

    • @Notyurr
      @Notyurr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Chaotic4Neutral k

    • @Pelipear
      @Pelipear 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Notyurr every kiss begins with k

  • @rustyhowe3907
    @rustyhowe3907 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    And when she gives you a compliment.
    "But something like is normal".
    "Yeah it may be considered that way, but I'm still proud of you for it".
    😍

  • @jessiecoastaliving
    @jessiecoastaliving 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    As much as I would like to incorporate some of these nuances into my everyday life I don’t like the fact that all of his advice and examples come from celebrity interaction and not from everyday ordinary people. Like plain sight PDA in ordinary places we typically would interact.

    • @KpxUrz5745
      @KpxUrz5745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Excellent point. Because this video is completely ridiculous and pointless. Another thing I hate: when billionaires give advice on wealth creation and life.

  • @infectedcontactlensyes.5172
    @infectedcontactlensyes.5172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I always feel like I'm the only girl here just looking to improve my social skills

    • @Mrbrownstone1028
      @Mrbrownstone1028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Are you single

    • @blacktainfalcon7097
      @blacktainfalcon7097 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Mrbrownstone1028 jesus christ man, I thought I was a weirdo, but I guess I'm pretty tame in comparison.

    • @AwkoTurtle
      @AwkoTurtle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@blacktainfalcon7097 let the man shoot his shot 😂

    • @Mrbrownstone1028
      @Mrbrownstone1028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@blacktainfalcon7097 are you single

  • @manifestgtr
    @manifestgtr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    What does it mean when she hits you with the bear mace while recoiling and frantically punching numbers into her phone? I feel like things are really starting to happen 👍

    • @genshaw6794
      @genshaw6794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Something's happening alright
      It's been 4 months
      How are you XD

    • @Matt_Alaric
      @Matt_Alaric 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She's just playing hard to get, it means she wants you to turn up the flirting even more.

    • @manifestgtr
      @manifestgtr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Matt_Alaric
      Good call…I’ll keep you updated 🤙

    • @sstrykert
      @sstrykert 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's just trying to tell others about your masterful techniques! If you can handle the bear mace, you can handle her at her worst!😂

    • @itzAurora_Xoxo
      @itzAurora_Xoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahaha sense of humour is great

  • @ДмитрийМоисеев-ж5ф
    @ДмитрийМоисеев-ж5ф ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How great it is to not only hear but also to see what you're telling us
    Great examples, thank u!

  • @vaskar1017
    @vaskar1017 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I have observed that when girls are attracted to me, they tend to stick their chest out and arch their back especially when they're sitting next to me.

  • @joesmith201212
    @joesmith201212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    yeah ive noticed the way a girl faces you when they speak, the more they turn and more fully facing you they are into you, but if they talk to you side ways like they just want to run away when you are talking to them, its game over man!

  • @TheDalinkwent
    @TheDalinkwent 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I just love how Craig Ferguson is always the main example used in Attraction videos.
    It makes sense.

    • @sunsetrider45
      @sunsetrider45 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I came here to say that as well!

    • @timm8998
      @timm8998 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It does not make sense to me at all. He seems like a weird guy to me. They are actresses coming on a show, do we know if they really 'like' him at all? It's pretty much part of the show format.

    • @itzAurora_Xoxo
      @itzAurora_Xoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@timm8998 they seem to enjoy his company tho ..alot were bery touchy too

  • @jordansrhoads
    @jordansrhoads 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5:13 To be fair. This could also be her trying to put as much distance as possible between her and James Cordon.