Great comment about sex being playful and that being a big part of why people want non-monogamy. Being primarily attracted to women and in exclusively heterosexual relationships for the better part of three decades, I have grown to understand and experience an enormous chasm between the number of men who would love to be in an open relationship of some kind and the number of women-- the vast vast majority of women, who are inherently monogamous. I don't think monogamy is a retrospective of the patriarchy, I think it's essential tenement of the matriarchy. I am married to a beautiful and lovely woman whom I've been honest with about my need to have this playful sex outside of the relationship since we first began dating. She has stuck with me but it's still hard for her 5 years on. Nothing has changed for me. I find other women. We have sex and friendship and I always come back to her. We nurture our primary relationship well. Biologically, she just cannot fathom having sex without falling hopelessly in love with someone. She is still worried that I'm going to fall in love with someone else and leave her although I've given her no indication that that could possibly happen. I tried to use analogies like imagine if I was jealous whenever you talked to your mother on the phone every night or went out to see your Korean girlfriends because you all can speak in your native tongue and I can't be a part of that. Imagine if I needed you to not see your friends so that you could commit better to me. How could that be healthy? And so for some of us, sex is just a part of that natural fun and connection we have with others and does not diminish our ability to commit to a primary partner anymore than having friends or being close to your family does. Now I'm seeing a woman who is starting to fall in love with me and jealous whenever I give vague details about going on a date with my wife. It just never ends. I'm focusing on investing so I can compound my wealth to be able to afford a sugar baby. It seems like that is the only realistic remedy. I wish I was more attracted to men as the gay friends I have all seem to be on the same page about it.
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Great comment about sex being playful and that being a big part of why people want non-monogamy. Being primarily attracted to women and in exclusively heterosexual relationships for the better part of three decades, I have grown to understand and experience an enormous chasm between the number of men who would love to be in an open relationship of some kind and the number of women-- the vast vast majority of women, who are inherently monogamous. I don't think monogamy is a retrospective of the patriarchy, I think it's essential tenement of the matriarchy.
I am married to a beautiful and lovely woman whom I've been honest with about my need to have this playful sex outside of the relationship since we first began dating. She has stuck with me but it's still hard for her 5 years on. Nothing has changed for me. I find other women. We have sex and friendship and I always come back to her. We nurture our primary relationship well. Biologically, she just cannot fathom having sex without falling hopelessly in love with someone. She is still worried that I'm going to fall in love with someone else and leave her although I've given her no indication that that could possibly happen.
I tried to use analogies like imagine if I was jealous whenever you talked to your mother on the phone every night or went out to see your Korean girlfriends because you all can speak in your native tongue and I can't be a part of that. Imagine if I needed you to not see your friends so that you could commit better to me. How could that be healthy?
And so for some of us, sex is just a part of that natural fun and connection we have with others and does not diminish our ability to commit to a primary partner anymore than having friends or being close to your family does.
Now I'm seeing a woman who is starting to fall in love with me and jealous whenever I give vague details about going on a date with my wife. It just never ends. I'm focusing on investing so I can compound my wealth to be able to afford a sugar baby. It seems like that is the only realistic remedy. I wish I was more attracted to men as the gay friends I have all seem to be on the same page about it.
Hopefully your Lady finds someone who can 100% commit to her. Cant fanthom the pain she goes through
@@JackJackson-iz2uc feeling sorry for idiots it's just as futile as being angry at them