I was in relationship with a narcissist girl. In two months she showed her true color. Then i went to the doctor and she told me it's the sign of narcissist. I got rid of her by very difficulties. Being alone is much better than living with a narcissist.
@@jugveersingh4742 I recommend you to read about " Cognitive Distortion" it's a topic of CBT . Baat shi hai , usne inko halke main liya pr isse se yeh bhi pta chalta hai ki aap Narcissism se pareshan ho
Waiting for narcissism in your channel. Being empath, i am learning to be a little narcissist. And most doctors are silent about narcissist relationships.
Starting me bohot achcha samjhaya. Pehle 2 points ekdum sahi samjhaye. Phir to point kuchh alag hi ho aap ek hi baat bol rahe hai, repetition. Mahan hai mahan hai. P.S. - I am not a narcissist but can explain each of these points in a much better manner.
Sir meri ek distance relationship thi ek ladki ke saath. 7 saal ke baat mujhe pata chala koi narcissism kis chidiya ka naam. Hai usne mujhe bahut emotionally abuse kiya. Phir maine use hmesa k liye block kar diya. Mujhe ise samjhane me time lag gaya thank to internet i got this information in 2018. During abuse i started smoking weed/ganja to cope with the situation i was in. After few months of breaking up, i got mentally breakdown doctor said you have mood disorder. Before this relationship i was healthy n fine mentally. Doctor said you have mood disorder, i was not in that position to control i had 1or 2 maniac episodes.. sir its been two years I'm taking pills. Sir pls guide how can I come out of this illness N I can sleep like few years back. doctor you are doing a great job. People don't understand such abuse can happen to a guy a healthy kicking man of 24 got this desease. Guide some steps so i could recover ASAP. AGAIN THANK YOU VERY MUCH SIR FOR THE WORK YOU ARE DOING.
Mine was also the same. I also got mood disorder coz of him n panic attack(which not everybody can understand). Finally I went to a psychiatrist and she prescribed me depression pills( which was not actually needed) n when I told him about my mental health condition he told me " ohh sorry if this happend to u coz of me, I know u will not accept me again in ur life, plz don't hate me, I m only yours, plz don't hate me ". Then finally i realized what that person is. N the very interesting thing is that i never got closure from his side. He enjoyed seeing me confused, he blamed me n called me cheater coz I left him due to his lying n selfish behavior. N you won't believe what he said me one day. He said go n love urself, if u can't love urself then how could u expect someone else will to do this for u. Then I myslef left him. Just imagine how it feels when u have given all ur time, energy, emotions to a person. That One sided investment. N then stuggled to move on from that same person. I have seen all those love bombing, idealization, devaluation, discard and then again idealization in a repeated manner just to trap me in the same place. N the funny thing about these people is that they think we were not worthy of them that's y they treated us like this. But deep inside they know that they will still leave no opportunity if they get a chance of having us back in their life. It doesn't matter who they r with. They can live with anybody who can make them feel superior n boost their ego. That's it. They just need these validation from outside world coz from inside they know how empty they are. I m damn sure he must be reading my comment one day coz I told him he is a narc( which I must not have told) . But only one thing what I want to say him is that I can't hate u coz that's not my nature but I don't love u anymore. N yes now I do love myslef even more as u told me to do.
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था। उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया। बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था। उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ। आज मैं खुश हूँ।
Sir mere paper ha jan 2021 ko lekin kuch samaj ni aa ra tha kha se padhu fir aapka channel mila air bhut help mili . sir aap bhut acha padateha ty sir .
Sir, I am suffering a narcissistic abuse, plz help how can I come out, I was very confident and happy previously but I have lost my own identity now and I am scared for anything, my partner is narc, he doesn't leaves me, no matter how much I leave him, he exploits me emotionally, plz make a vedio of how can a person get back to his or her self about being with such people, and suggest how to get rid of them forever, how to teach them a leason
I laughed so hard while i listened to this because my siblings and mother have all of these. Imagine having 3 siblings and a mother who are all adults and married and always pick on me because i am not like them so they always make me feel like shit and they are so good at it that i have to take medication for anxiety and panic disorder for 15 years now but they refused to change.
Dr. Sahab, mere life 99% log aise hi hai or apki baat sun k hum v aise hi par jara jara apki baat bahut achi lagi thank you aap se baat karna ho to kya kare
Self love means u care urself and love yourself.. But you are aware of others feelings and pain.. But a narcissist person only love himself he dose not care about others.. They have almost no empathy means they cant feel what others are feeling.. Narcissist persons only want attention from others and they will act like child means they are repulsive.. They are manipulating and very good in making fake stories...
It's not self love ; it's an attachment to their wrong image that is called ego not self approval
It's totally egoistic
@@BigBrain-sx4pm haha
Yep! That's true I am dealing with this type husband over 10 yrs. But I want to move on now😒
Can you tell me the possible treatment of these disorder
Truly discribed
@@pradnyeshd08 there is no treatment. Just we who have to learn how to tackle such people. Its worse if its pur parents😔
आप बहुत अच्छे डॉक्टर है।
Sir aapko sunke dil garden garden ho jata he . 🙏 Bahot mast explain kiya . Maza aa gaya
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😂❤"narcissistic ko chasni bhi pila do fir bhi unhe fheeki lagegi"
I was in relationship with a narcissist girl. In two months she showed her true color. Then i went to the doctor and she told me it's the sign of narcissist. I got rid of her by very difficulties. Being alone is much better than living with a narcissist.
Can you plz tell me how you know she is narcissist
Bilkul shi mujhe to jitne bhi online ladke mile vo sbke sb narcissist nikle 😑
@@aayeshakhalifa5490 ye sub dunya naccisst he lol
@@aayeshakhalifa5490 I'm not try me
@@shabeerganie960 i am not like others..i am different..this is the first sign of a narcissistic person
Dr Rajiv - You are brilliant. That is why You are so modest and down to earth. My regards to You..
Sir mujhe apki personality bahut pasand ayi .... Serious topic ko bhi roast bana diya 😂😂
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M b yhi soch rha tha😂
आपको नारसिज्म कि जानकारी नहीं है इसलिये यह बात हल्के मे ले गये |
@@jugveersingh4742 I recommend you to read about " Cognitive Distortion" it's a topic of CBT . Baat shi hai , usne inko halke main liya pr isse se yeh bhi pta chalta hai ki aap Narcissism se pareshan ho
bhai in sb ke bich mere dost ko kyu Roast kiya😂😂😂😂😂
😀😀😀😀😀I really like ur way of explanation with expressions 👍🏻👍🏻😀😀😀
Sir i am from Pakistan sir apse bht kuch seekhny ko milta ha thankuuuuu so much for your guideline. Ap hat topic ko hi bht achy se explain krty ha
Sir, way of expressing any opinions, with body sign's, is unique
Imagine being a narcissistic dealing with narcissistic people 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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hihi...
dono mr jayenge saale😂
I'm a student and I loved ❤😘this topic 😍sachhi maza aa gya😘
Well explain with realistic example. ❤
I love your videos like watching a friend talking..
Aap complex baat ease se botle hai 🎉
Self love spills on others too and has empathy.
Narcisists is not capable to love others... empathy is out of question.
In short he is talking about my father and grandmother 🤷
every point is true .i am facing through My daughter .Full truth u r saying.thanks
Very nice sir..... bahut se log in manorogo se prabhavit hain
The way you explained is very interesting and expressions is too
Sir yours way of explaining is very impressive 🙏
Zabardast video... Bohot serious disorder ko bhi aapne bohot badiya tareeke se bataya
Sir me vocab padh raha tha..to narcissist ka meaning dekh raha tha...but aapka video dekh k maja aa gya 😅 subscribe kr raha hu 👍👍
Very good teaching
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Haste hasate khub kaam ki baate sikhayi sir aapne.
it could have been explained even in a deepr level.. it will really help 👍
Thank you Rajiv sir for creating this video, I was requesting this for almost all the video i watched.
Very Good explanation. Amit Kumar, Advocate.
Waiting for narcissism in your channel. Being empath, i am learning to be a little narcissist. And most doctors are silent about narcissist relationships.
Sir aap kya mast simple tarike se explain karte hain .. nice videos
bahut Accha sir❤❤❤
bhot hi badhiya jankari I am narcissist personality disorder man
It was awesome sir 😂😂😂😂👏👏
Sir aapki explanation dil ko chhu jante h or knowledge bhi 😊😊
Thanks sir aap bahut acha padhate hain
Thanku so much sir very realistic explanation on narcissistic personality disorder
Very nice explanation sir 👌
Apka bolne ka tarika bohot badhiya lagta hai
I've got tears laughing, great style sir.
#_आपके समझाने का तरीक़ा बहुत अच्छा लगा सर! मज़ा आ गया😄😄😄
Simple way Greatest way.
Love you sir.
Starting me bohot achcha samjhaya. Pehle 2 points ekdum sahi samjhaye. Phir to point kuchh alag hi ho aap ek hi baat bol rahe hai, repetition. Mahan hai mahan hai.
P.S. - I am not a narcissist but can explain each of these points in a much better manner.
Omg.....all are present in my one and only husband🙄
Damn 😐😂😂😂😂
In beetween reading your comment I thought you are going to write narendra modi.
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हा मेरे भी पती मे सभी गुण हैं
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You are great guruji🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Really good explained
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Thankyou sir apne boht help kiya my good friend is narrsicist I will sure forward to his parents and usse psychiatrist k pass leke jaunga
Ab Apka friend kaisa hai
Thank you for this knowledge.
Sahi baat esa mahan insaan mera zindagi me v hai
Beautiful explanation sir
Aasan Vasha mei Smajhane ke liye Shukriya Sir Ji❤️🙏
Sir meri ek distance relationship thi ek ladki ke saath. 7 saal ke baat mujhe pata chala koi narcissism kis chidiya ka naam. Hai usne mujhe bahut emotionally abuse kiya. Phir maine use hmesa k liye block kar diya. Mujhe ise samjhane me time lag gaya thank to internet i got this information in 2018. During abuse i started smoking weed/ganja to cope with the situation i was in. After few months of breaking up, i got mentally breakdown doctor said you have mood disorder. Before this relationship i was healthy n fine mentally. Doctor said you have mood disorder, i was not in that position to control i had 1or 2 maniac episodes.. sir its been two years I'm taking pills. Sir pls guide how can I come out of this illness N I can sleep like few years back. doctor you are doing a great job. People don't understand such abuse can happen to a guy a healthy kicking man of 24 got this desease. Guide some steps so i could recover ASAP. AGAIN THANK YOU VERY MUCH SIR FOR THE WORK YOU ARE DOING.
Mine was also the same. I also got mood disorder coz of him n panic attack(which not everybody can understand). Finally I went to a psychiatrist and she prescribed me depression pills( which was not actually needed) n when I told him about my mental health condition he told me " ohh sorry if this happend to u coz of me, I know u will not accept me again in ur life, plz don't hate me, I m only yours, plz don't hate me ". Then finally i realized what that person is. N the very interesting thing is that i never got closure from his side. He enjoyed seeing me confused, he blamed me n called me cheater coz I left him due to his lying n selfish behavior. N you won't believe what he said me one day. He said go n love urself, if u can't love urself then how could u expect someone else will to do this for u. Then I myslef left him. Just imagine how it feels when u have given all ur time, energy, emotions to a person. That One sided investment. N then stuggled to move on from that same person. I have seen all those love bombing, idealization, devaluation, discard and then again idealization in a repeated manner just to trap me in the same place. N the funny thing about these people is that they think we were not worthy of them that's y they treated us like this. But deep inside they know that they will still leave no opportunity if they get a chance of having us back in their life. It doesn't matter who they r with. They can live with anybody who can make them feel superior n boost their ego. That's it. They just need these validation from outside world coz from inside they know how empty they are.
I m damn sure he must be reading my comment one day coz I told him he is a narc( which I must not have told) . But only one thing what I want to say him is that I can't hate u coz that's not my nature but I don't love u anymore.
N yes now I do love myslef even more as u told me to do.
Bhai thik hue
@@spriya7 same here dear, i haven't recovered yet. Still going to see the doctor. I hope everything will be fine soon.
@@ankit.Chaudhary note completely bro.
@@manjeetkr.9003 Kitne % thik hue
Liked your video very much
Thank you so much sir...bhut helpful video hai 😄
Very very nice video sir..... It is very helpful..... Thank you so much sir....
Very good explain sir👌👍😄😆😃
I am dealing with such husband since last 42 years
Omg
Naya chahye koi
इसी तरह से मैं एक Narcissist लड़की के hoovering का शिकार हुआ था।
उसपर trust करके उसे दोबारा मौका दिया तो, वो लड़की कुछ दिन बाद फिर से rough tone में बात करना शुरू कर दी। बार बार ऐसी बातें करती थी, जिससे मेरा मानसिक संतुलन खराब हो। last time वो लड़की जब मिली थी, तब उसको 4 थप्पड़ मार कर उससे contact खत्म कर दिया। इतना कुछ होने के बाद भी वो 6 month बाद unknown number से मुझसे contact करने की कोशिश की, but मैंने ignore किया, उसे block कर दिया।
बहुत time बाद मुझे समझ आया, वो narcissist लड़की मेरे अच्छे education और lifestyle से जलती थी, मेरा mental health खराब करने के लिए उस लड़की का सोंचा समझा plan था।
उससे अलग जब से हुआ, तब से relaxed feel कर रहा हूँ।
आज मैं खुश हूँ।
Gr8 exaplaintion...👍
2:16 " Tum kar kar ke thak jaoge lekin wo le le ke nhi thakenge " lol lol lol lol lol
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Nice, short and Informative sir.
Sir aapka batana hi drastically good he
Thank u sir
Thank u for making this video🙏
The narcissist is the cause of the terrible state of affairs in our country. You have given the hint. Thank you.
Mamta Banerjee
@@coolaffection9701 no
@@kumarsathyanesan2488 yes
Yes she is
@@coolaffection9701 kangana k bare me kya khyal h bhakt ji 😜
Sir mere paper ha jan 2021 ko lekin kuch samaj ni aa ra tha kha se padhu fir aapka channel mila air bhut help mili . sir aap bhut acha padateha ty sir .
Kindly make video on its treatment,
Please
Politics ka example bahot badiya laga
Very nicely explained
You can put any other variable in the equation.
Namste sir ,mai ne kafi let dekha but aapke samjhne ka treka bhut hi gjab Hai aur v personality ka definition btaye plz
Very good speech sir
Thankyou so much....ye sab btane k liye ....meri life mei b isi type ka ek mental h 😀😀😀😀😀ab samajh aaya ki wo bimar insan h.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Let's spread the education & raise vibration on the 🌍 more aggressive than narc's
👌👌👌👌 keep it up sir thank you
Thanks allot❤
Salute Dr.
Sir how do we detect narscissim, and approach the to get treated?
best well explained
Thank you sir for informative videos
Sir, I am suffering a narcissistic abuse, plz help how can I come out, I was very confident and happy previously but I have lost my own identity now and I am scared for anything, my partner is narc, he doesn't leaves me, no matter how much I leave him, he exploits me emotionally, plz make a vedio of how can a person get back to his or her self about being with such people, and suggest how to get rid of them forever, how to teach them a leason
I also feel the same but now I get back in life with full joy
Doosra chahye koi
Ap thik hui
@@shubh5621 kya kiya
Thank you so much sir.....
Sir narcissistic injury par ekh video banaiye
I laughed so hard while i listened to this because my siblings and mother have all of these. Imagine having 3 siblings and a mother who are all adults and married and always pick on me because i am not like them so they always make me feel like shit and they are so good at it that i have to take medication for anxiety and panic disorder for 15 years now but they refused to change.
That's because u never retaliate but keep on mending this bad relationship. U need to keep them in their place .
Apke video dekhne me bada maza ata hai
In short she is my mother 😂😂 self importance me jeene wali
I can understand
My Mother in law...🙄Such pple r so insecure and jealous of others qualities..They r weak in short😄
And my ex girlfriend. Jina haram kar diya tha
@@VCArtLesson 😂😂
@@alfenshasagar8138 haso nahin... saans lena mushkil ho gaya tha mera. Aisi girlfriend kisi ko na mile 😒😒
Gajab bhai gajab, ekk dum sahe kahay
Thnx alot....
Bilkul sahi sir hum aise hi insaan ka torture jhel rahe haih..life almost ended
Great sir...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 sir you are saying about my husband.
Me pagal ho gai hu inki harkaton se. Bt apki baaton ne mujhe hasa diya.or solution bhi
V good way of explaining
Thanks you so much sir
So accurately presented 👍 and also everyone is lucky to have them in their life. They torture and they are expert in manipulation.
Manipulation is main which is not discussed in video
@@nehadahiya5403Yes
Dr. Sahab, mere life 99% log aise hi hai or apki baat sun k hum v aise hi par jara jara apki baat bahut achi lagi thank you aap se baat karna ho to kya kare
" अपने प्यार माँ पागल. " ==> " अपने प्यार में पागल "
Inka treatment kya h sir kon se Dr ko dekhana chahiye
Well explained, but how to remain out of it or manage it
🤣🤣🤣moja aiya video main bohat kuch shikne mila😇😇😇
I think i am too suffering from this disorder. Very soon I'll meet a psychologist and start my journey to be a normal person.
Bhai thik hue
Same mere sath bhi aisa hi huwa
Sir how to deal with them so that they would be settle down.
Trying to doing works on grounded things
@@lazarangelov624 कुछ हो सकता है ऐसे लोगो का
No contact only boundaries
Sir I'm 16 year old and I a question, what is difference between self love and narcissistic personality
Self love means u care urself and love yourself.. But you are aware of others feelings and pain..
But a narcissist person only love himself he dose not care about others.. They have almost no empathy means they cant feel what others are feeling.. Narcissist persons only want attention from others and they will act like child means they are repulsive.. They are manipulating and very good in making fake stories...
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Self love increses empathy because you are capable beyoned yourself
Narcissits can NOT go beyoned themselves.
Sir btane ka tarika mast h😂🤣👍👍👍👍
Sir Aap comedy channel Start kro....
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