I LOVE videos like this because they help me with manage my expectations for motherhood one day. I've a bit of fear surrounding staying connected after birth because it's such a big change, but hearing you talk about your experience makes it seem so manageable and doable and actually fun in between the exhaustion. Thank you for your transparency and for remaining accessible to those of us who aren't in the same stage of life as you yet 💚💚💚
So relatable! After two kids and breastfeeding, I always felt so touched out. So constantly needed and pulled at. My body was wrecked and no longer sexual just a means to support two humans. It's probably the biggest issue for my husband and I in our marriage. He wants it all the time and I am in a whole other place physically and mentally. Thank you for being so honest 💚. It would also be interesting to hear Thomas' perspective on how you feel and some of these topics as a couple!
Honestly, the sound of the physical needs that young children need constantly from their mother sounds like an absolute nightmare to me. And then if I had a partner who was expecting sex regularly, oh no he'd be out the door! Or atleast in the spare room.
Same. I have an 8yr old and 4yr old. It's been like this for about 6yrs now for me. Orgasm starts but doesn't finish. I think it's in my head as I'm so uncomfortable being sexual now but I can't get out of my head
this video is so validating even though I have 0 kids haha, my libido definitely has its ups and downs (mostly downs) and while I know that it's normal and fine, I often feel like there is something wrong with my relationship like we have lost our "spark". We are still very much in love and spend as much time as possible together and we do a lot of physical touch, we just tend not to have sex or any sort of sexual intimacy as often as before. I know that this doesn't mean there's anything wrong with my relationship but I feel like I need to keep getting told it by different people in order for me to actually understand it
My sex drive was low in postpartum and it was hard to find the time but now our kids are 9 and 6 and our sex-life is thriving, has been since baby number 2 was over the age of 2 and a haif I'd say. It's in some ways better than before. ❤ And we discovered a new freedom after his vasectomy. This stage is so hard, but your libido and all the fun will come back. 💖
Thank you for this video. Although I am not a mother, and haven’t been through child birth. I am chronically ill, disabled. So also feel disconnected from my body and that’s it a battle ground. Hearing your experience of now being in your head and finding sex harder to connect too, i can really relate to that. I’ve also noticed sensitivity changes after medical trauma. Basically I just want to say thank you for talking about this. I am grateful for how you communicate and share things. You have helped me find the language to describe what has happened to my body. xxx
I don't have kids but part of my hesitations to have them one day is sex. I feel like we've been engrained this idea that if we don't provide sex enough to our partner's they will cheat or leave and for some reason this is one of the societal messages that has stuck with me the most. My partner doesn't pressure me (maybe a pout if it's been a long while at most) but when I'm having low libido phases I feel so so guilty and as if I'm not worthy. And the guilt of not having sex with him makes me want sex even less. It's not always like this but it comes and goes. I just feel like having kids would make me miserable and feel like a sexless maternal figure and that would push my partner away.
Might be worth something talking to a therapist about! I totally get feeling like you have to have sex to keep your partner interested, but sex isn't the end all be all to life! If he's a worthwhile partner he'll stay. It's okay to go through seasons of life where you don't have sex much, a therapist might help remove your tie of worthyness to it!
I love those real honest and long chatty videos of yours. Been watching you through so many different phases of my life and you always manage to make me feel calm and at home (even if I'm not). Thank you 💚
I'm a single female without kids, due to health issues I spent 5+ months out of last year sleeping less than 4 hours out of 48. ANYTHING that isn't a hazard is worth trying to get sleep. On a different note, I've been watching you since well before you were married and I personally find your attractiveness is only increasing with time. So I hope you can rediscover your positive feelings about yourself soon, you seem like such a lovely and genuine person.
I’m definitely a few years from this phase in my life but I still love hearing and learning. I feel like I’ll be so much better prepared for when the time comes.
Me too :) It's nice to hear something realistic. Nobody really talks about these stuff and honestly the way in which Melanie and Thomas deal with things and how good of a team they are is my inspiration. This is exactly the connection and love that I want to sustain with my partner
Genuinely love this topic(I have 3yo and 9mo), but also wanted to share that I became your subscriber the moment I heard you were bedsharing with your toddler! I do feel inadequate for having made the choice to bedshare among all the sleep training parents out there. Thank you for normalizing it ❤
Thank you for this video, Melanie! ❤️ Could you do a video on things you wish you knew/should have done/appreciated before having kids? And maybe one after kids too?
My Mom told me that she would start working out once the youngest of us kids turned 1 1/2 . She didn’t put any pressure on herself before that. And she said it’s even better to slowly get back in shape because your skin will have enough time to adjust to the body :) but overall she said that it is sooo important to cherish the first years as a mother as they pass so quickly and to not put pressure on oneself ❤
That difficulty you mentioned about being in your head - I have that all the time, even without a baby. Maybe it’s because I have alot of stress, but what helps you switch off and be in the moment? 23:39
My third baby just turned one and I will still always choose sleep over sex 😂 one of us also always falls asleep with one of the kids so we barely even see each other in the evenings. But I’m positive that the sex will return…one day
Haha I love your videos so much but omg your makeup application techniques make me want to scream!! Needed this video though, very relatable and reassuring. Hugs from South Africa!
I've commented a lot on your videos today. But it's like you are speaking my thoughts about my body, I'd love to be body confident after two children, but I'm not, and "melting candle" is exactly how I feel. Thank you for being open and honest, as great as the body positive movement is, I feel as if it isn't OK to be open about feeling down about how you look/feel. So thank you x
I can totally relate!! Saw my gynecologists 2 months after giving birth because I was dry as Sahara desert down there, needed a special course of medication to make things normal
Such a helpful and insightful video! I’m 25 and single but one day I hope to be a mother and have a partner and will certainly be revisiting this then!
Love your videos Mel! Your transparency helps women so much. I’m pregnant with my first and it’s so funny how unglamorous it truly is. I find that a lot of people forget to check in on momma as well and only ask about the baby. Like honey!!! I’m dying of nausea over here. 😂
Love these insights 💚 And thank you for sharing and your vulnerability, even with body positivity stuff. I think it's wonderful that despite that, you seem so fulfilled by everything else in your life right now. But I hope that it's something you can continue to work towards having more health there 💪🏽💚
4 months post partum with my second and I relate to this video so much. It's unreal. I had such a high sex drive and now it's just not existent. I know it'll come back but when, who knows.
i don't have kids yet but watching your journey through motherhood IS making me wonder how the heck my parents managed to have my sister and i only 18 months apart, like dang i feel a little bad for my mom
I haven’t had children myself, but my partner has a 9 year old and I feel really similar about a lot of the things you mentioned. His daughter obviously doesn’t co-sleep (she’s forming permanent memories these days lol), but ultimately we still spend a lot of time caregiving, and with two full time jobs it just feels like if she’s home, the sexual sides of us are just turned off (it is for me at least). It has also taken about a year and a half of living all together (part time for his daughter) to feel like I can be even a little sexual after she goes to bed when she’s at the house with us.
Great video, as always, can totally relate, your ability to share these things so honestly is so appreciated ❤ You've talked about not being in your head and letting go during sex... I've always really struggled with that, with kids and before as well. My brain is always on and it's annoying. What helped you be good at that (I know you said before kids, but still)? I feel like this uptight not fun not sexy person for not being able to just be more free and then it becomes a spiral and I'm more and more like that Love you!
I really appreciate this video! Just had my second baby nearly 4 months ago now and absolutely our sex life has changed, probably more drastically with the second so far. I'm fairly confident it will recover more to what it was, probably around the 18 month mark. It's true that right now I don't often feel sexy and there isn't much time we have alone anyway so it's rough. I agree with your statement about the "big o" though lol
So I'm only 28 and definitely haven't had children yet, and though I absolutely get feeling great about ones body when it's fit and physically strong (it's just a different feeling physically!), when it isn't, I like that it looks just like bodies in nude paintings/drawings/photography in classical art, because most of those people depicted are just regular people that move their bodies a regular amount of time and I find the realness and also adultness (in contrast of teenage bodies) beautiful
Love love love these kind of videos ❤ & such good information to learn! Let out a laugh there with the lipstick orgasm demonstration 😄 Can I ask what shade that was too 🥰 gorgeous! I’m after getting CT secret salma 😍❤️
35 and a half weeks pregnant today expecting my first little boy. My partner no longer wants to have sex because of the bump and is doing the typical “im scared im going to poke him” none sense.😂 im already starting to feel quite insecure of my body though the stretchmarks have just started and my thighs have doubled in size. I need some body positivity in my life after this little one comes out!
Love your story about your confusion about how to make sex work… very similar to my confusion as a teen!! I had it explained as being like “having someone else put their finger up your nose, except it’s a penis and a vagina”, and that was it… so I was so confused about how that was physically possible 😂
“I feel a bit like a melting candle” YES!! 9m PP here and very much noticing the saggier, jigglier parts now that I’ve got an interest in sex again. Trying to remind myself not that I shouldn’t feel this way, but that it’s just fine and neutral that I feel this way, no big deal. I don’t need to change my body unless I want to, but it’s okay to not love parts of it right now.
I definitely find the societal pressure more than my partner. He’s very understanding. I do not feel like a sexual being at all (22 months postpartum). Though I like feeling closeness to my partner. Sex on the sofa once the baby is asleep when I have the energy- I’ll get back to a more sexual me at some point.
Life really is about different seasons.. having kids completely disrupt life entirely. Disrupt schedules, sex, partner relationships etc.. it's definitely not for me.
My baby was born 17 weeks ago via c section and since then I've been poorly and needed a nephrectomy so 2 abdominal surgeries in a short space of time. I am hopefully getting a kidney transplant in a couple of months so another abdominal surgery is required. When you said you feel like a melted candle I laughed out loud 🤣 that's what I feel like!
Am I actually first? Wowee 😊 thanks for the video, this is one of the things that sorta scares me about having kids so I look forward to hearing what you have to say
It's still worth it. Thongs change but if you want kids and this is just a scare...find the right partner and it's so worth it. I had not imagined the feelings you could have for your kid, but even more surprising: my love for my partner grew with him being the father of my child on top of the romantic feelings that were already there.
what you were saying about being in your head...i've largely had much better solo sex than partnered sex for this exact reason. i'm never not thinking!! it frustrates me to no end. there are other factors, ofc, like i know exactly what feels good to me, and i can just do that, and not have to explain it to another person, but yeah.
I'm pregnant with my first and since beginning of my pregnancy we didn't have sex. I feel so alwful, have low libido, feel pain in my back, cramps, baby moving inside of me, breast hurt, risk of bleeding due to some pregnancy problems.. I always had very high libido and it's very surprising for my but I simply cannot force myself to have PIV sex
How have things changed downstairs in terms of tightness etc from the man's perspective? Does it feel the same? I've always wondered this as I don't have any children (yet), but it's something I've heard male friends talk about?x
I’m exclusively nursing my 4 mo old, and we bed share. And I have POP since the birth. I’ll be surprised if we have sex before the end of the year tbh.
Justice for real talks like these! Even though TH-cam doesn’t like it we definitely do!! ❤🔥
Agreed!!!💚
your honesty and transparency about motherhood is so so refreshing and helpful to me, thank you Melanie ❤
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I LOVE videos like this because they help me with manage my expectations for motherhood one day. I've a bit of fear surrounding staying connected after birth because it's such a big change, but hearing you talk about your experience makes it seem so manageable and doable and actually fun in between the exhaustion. Thank you for your transparency and for remaining accessible to those of us who aren't in the same stage of life as you yet 💚💚💚
So relatable! After two kids and breastfeeding, I always felt so touched out. So constantly needed and pulled at. My body was wrecked and no longer sexual just a means to support two humans. It's probably the biggest issue for my husband and I in our marriage. He wants it all the time and I am in a whole other place physically and mentally. Thank you for being so honest 💚. It would also be interesting to hear Thomas' perspective on how you feel and some of these topics as a couple!
Honestly, the sound of the physical needs that young children need constantly from their mother sounds like an absolute nightmare to me. And then if I had a partner who was expecting sex regularly, oh no he'd be out the door! Or atleast in the spare room.
It will go back to normal and you will feel sexy again From another mom of 2. ❤
Same. I have an 8yr old and 4yr old. It's been like this for about 6yrs now for me. Orgasm starts but doesn't finish. I think it's in my head as I'm so uncomfortable being sexual now but I can't get out of my head
this video is so validating even though I have 0 kids haha, my libido definitely has its ups and downs (mostly downs) and while I know that it's normal and fine, I often feel like there is something wrong with my relationship like we have lost our "spark". We are still very much in love and spend as much time as possible together and we do a lot of physical touch, we just tend not to have sex or any sort of sexual intimacy as often as before. I know that this doesn't mean there's anything wrong with my relationship but I feel like I need to keep getting told it by different people in order for me to actually understand it
My sex drive was low in postpartum and it was hard to find the time but now our kids are 9 and 6 and our sex-life is thriving, has been since baby number 2 was over the age of 2 and a haif I'd say. It's in some ways better than before. ❤ And we discovered a new freedom after his vasectomy. This stage is so hard, but your libido and all the fun will come back. 💖
Thank you for this video.
Although I am not a mother, and haven’t been through child birth.
I am chronically ill, disabled. So also feel disconnected from my body and that’s it a battle ground.
Hearing your experience of now being in your head and finding sex harder to connect too, i can really relate to that.
I’ve also noticed sensitivity changes after medical trauma.
Basically I just want to say thank you for talking about this.
I am grateful for how you communicate and share things. You have helped me find the language to describe what has happened to my body. xxx
So relatable as a mom of two who breastfed for 3 years. Thanks for being so honest ❤
I don't have kids but part of my hesitations to have them one day is sex. I feel like we've been engrained this idea that if we don't provide sex enough to our partner's they will cheat or leave and for some reason this is one of the societal messages that has stuck with me the most.
My partner doesn't pressure me (maybe a pout if it's been a long while at most) but when I'm having low libido phases I feel so so guilty and as if I'm not worthy. And the guilt of not having sex with him makes me want sex even less. It's not always like this but it comes and goes. I just feel like having kids would make me miserable and feel like a sexless maternal figure and that would push my partner away.
Hey, Have you had all your hormone levels checked recentiy? It can hugely affect libido and self-esteem.
I agree Alice you said it so well
@@black-ij3ui but wouldn't you prefer to orgasm too? Have you looked into why that might not be happening for you?
Might be worth something talking to a therapist about! I totally get feeling like you have to have sex to keep your partner interested, but sex isn't the end all be all to life! If he's a worthwhile partner he'll stay. It's okay to go through seasons of life where you don't have sex much, a therapist might help remove your tie of worthyness to it!
But sex isn't the only reason he is your partner, right?
I love those real honest and long chatty videos of yours. Been watching you through so many different phases of my life and you always manage to make me feel calm and at home (even if I'm not). Thank you 💚
I enjoyed this video so much I wanted to like it multiple times. I'm 4,5 months postpartum and I feel less alone now, thank your Melanie !
Love a chatty get ready with me! I don’t have kids myself (we’re undecided on them) but I’m glued to all your videos 😂
I'm a single female without kids, due to health issues I spent 5+ months out of last year sleeping less than 4 hours out of 48. ANYTHING that isn't a hazard is worth trying to get sleep.
On a different note, I've been watching you since well before you were married and I personally find your attractiveness is only increasing with time. So I hope you can rediscover your positive feelings about yourself soon, you seem like such a lovely and genuine person.
Love your sincerity! So good to see a woman being open to talk about sexuality as normal as it should be. You are an example to us!
This transparency is so refreshing Mel!
I’m definitely a few years from this phase in my life but I still love hearing and learning. I feel like I’ll be so much better prepared for when the time comes.
Me too :) It's nice to hear something realistic. Nobody really talks about these stuff and honestly the way in which Melanie and Thomas deal with things and how good of a team they are is my inspiration. This is exactly the connection and love that I want to sustain with my partner
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i love this. I’m never going to have kids, but i love hearing about your experience with motherhood ❤💚
Genuinely love this topic(I have 3yo and 9mo), but also wanted to share that I became your subscriber the moment I heard you were bedsharing with your toddler! I do feel inadequate for having made the choice to bedshare among all the sleep training parents out there. Thank you for normalizing it ❤
love love love this video! thank you for your honesty!
Thank you for this video, Melanie! ❤️ Could you do a video on things you wish you knew/should have done/appreciated before having kids? And maybe one after kids too?
The joke about sitting on a co-sleeper’s couch 😂😂😂
That hit way too close to home for me hahaha I always laundering throw blankets lol
you are so brave, Melanie, talking about this
My Mom told me that she would start working out once the youngest of us kids turned 1 1/2 . She didn’t put any pressure on herself before that. And she said it’s even better to slowly get back in shape because your skin will have enough time to adjust to the body :) but overall she said that it is sooo important to cherish the first years as a mother as they pass so quickly and to not put pressure on oneself ❤
That difficulty you mentioned about being in your head - I have that all the time, even without a baby. Maybe it’s because I have alot of stress, but what helps you switch off and be in the moment? 23:39
My third baby just turned one and I will still always choose sleep over sex 😂 one of us also always falls asleep with one of the kids so we barely even see each other in the evenings. But I’m positive that the sex will return…one day
Great video as always, Melanie 💚
“The tea as cold as my loins” made me chuckle sm 😂
Haha I love your videos so much but omg your makeup application techniques make me want to scream!! Needed this video though, very relatable and reassuring. Hugs from South Africa!
I've commented a lot on your videos today. But it's like you are speaking my thoughts about my body, I'd love to be body confident after two children, but I'm not, and "melting candle" is exactly how I feel. Thank you for being open and honest, as great as the body positive movement is, I feel as if it isn't OK to be open about feeling down about how you look/feel. So thank you x
I can totally relate!! Saw my gynecologists 2 months after giving birth because I was dry as Sahara desert down there, needed a special course of medication to make things normal
Such a helpful and insightful video! I’m 25 and single but one day I hope to be a mother and have a partner and will certainly be revisiting this then!
Love your videos Mel! Your transparency helps women so much. I’m pregnant with my first and it’s so funny how unglamorous it truly is. I find that a lot of people forget to check in on momma as well and only ask about the baby. Like honey!!! I’m dying of nausea over here. 😂
perfect timing with my breakfast and tea!! Love you Mel💜
Love that Chip from Beauty and the Beast cup! Thanks for sharing so much useful knowledge with us. 🙌
Thank you this has helped me sooooooooooo much, like you could not imagine!!! I’m so glad to know that „others feel the same“! Thank you ❤
Love these insights 💚 And thank you for sharing and your vulnerability, even with body positivity stuff. I think it's wonderful that despite that, you seem so fulfilled by everything else in your life right now. But I hope that it's something you can continue to work towards having more health there 💪🏽💚
Always feel like I'm listening to a friend when I listen to your chatty videos 🥰
Same, back then and still now after all these years- a friend known for ages yo just happened to never having met
4 months post partum with my second and I relate to this video so much. It's unreal. I had such a high sex drive and now it's just not existent. I know it'll come back but when, who knows.
i don't have kids yet but watching your journey through motherhood IS making me wonder how the heck my parents managed to have my sister and i only 18 months apart, like dang i feel a little bad for my mom
Thank you for your authenticity!!! Leaving a comment for the algorithm 💚
Thanks for videos like this, Melanie!
I LOVE these videos! They are the only thing I watch ❤❤❤
thank you so much for your openness and honesty
I haven’t had children myself, but my partner has a 9 year old and I feel really similar about a lot of the things you mentioned. His daughter obviously doesn’t co-sleep (she’s forming permanent memories these days lol), but ultimately we still spend a lot of time caregiving, and with two full time jobs it just feels like if she’s home, the sexual sides of us are just turned off (it is for me at least). It has also taken about a year and a half of living all together (part time for his daughter) to feel like I can be even a little sexual after she goes to bed when she’s at the house with us.
Great video, as always, can totally relate, your ability to share these things so honestly is so appreciated ❤ You've talked about not being in your head and letting go during sex... I've always really struggled with that, with kids and before as well. My brain is always on and it's annoying. What helped you be good at that (I know you said before kids, but still)? I feel like this uptight not fun not sexy person for not being able to just be more free and then it becomes a spiral and I'm more and more like that
Love you!
I have no children but I definitely struggle with this too!
No kids either and I AM ALWAYS IN MY OWN HEAD TOO😢
I really appreciate this video! Just had my second baby nearly 4 months ago now and absolutely our sex life has changed, probably more drastically with the second so far. I'm fairly confident it will recover more to what it was, probably around the 18 month mark. It's true that right now I don't often feel sexy and there isn't much time we have alone anyway so it's rough. I agree with your statement about the "big o" though lol
Yesss amazing content I’m 25 no kids but love these videos
Thank you for sharing this with us ❤
So I'm only 28 and definitely haven't had children yet, and though I absolutely get feeling great about ones body when it's fit and physically strong (it's just a different feeling physically!), when it isn't, I like that it looks just like bodies in nude paintings/drawings/photography in classical art, because most of those people depicted are just regular people that move their bodies a regular amount of time and I find the realness and also adultness (in contrast of teenage bodies) beautiful
Thank you for this! ❤
Soooo relatable! Thanks for being honest about this stuff!!!❤
Will watch this immediately I’m at home…I’m here for the algorithmic game. 😅
Amazing video, thank you Melanie-watched it while nap-trapped after nursing 😂❤
Love love love these kind of videos ❤ & such good information to learn! Let out a laugh there with the lipstick orgasm demonstration 😄
Can I ask what shade that was too 🥰 gorgeous! I’m after getting CT secret salma 😍❤️
This was the perfect end to a chaotic day 😅❤
“Tea as cold as my loins” 😂 love ya Mel 💚
Gave it a Like and I'm leaving a comment for algorithm purposes
Thanks so much for this video 💛
Sending love from Scotland Xx
Love the video. Such an interesting topic!
Can you list all the skincare/make-up products you used in this video? After seeing the final result I’m planning on buying all of them 😂
Haha 😂
So relatable
The lipstick explanation was funny 😂
Comment for algorithm, those topics are important too!
35 and a half weeks pregnant today expecting my first little boy. My partner no longer wants to have sex because of the bump and is doing the typical “im scared im going to poke him” none sense.😂 im already starting to feel quite insecure of my body though the stretchmarks have just started and my thighs have doubled in size. I need some body positivity in my life after this little one comes out!
THIS IS TOOOOO GOOD!!!!!!
cryyyying over that bit about the 'what are you at' thoughts haha
Thank you melanie really helpful video !
Love your story about your confusion about how to make sex work… very similar to my confusion as a teen!! I had it explained as being like “having someone else put their finger up your nose, except it’s a penis and a vagina”, and that was it… so I was so confused about how that was physically possible 😂
After I was done with breastfeeding my iibido came back. Makes sense when you think about it!
Melanie please do more writing or reading content, I miss it 💚
“I feel a bit like a melting candle” YES!! 9m PP here and very much noticing the saggier, jigglier parts now that I’ve got an interest in sex again. Trying to remind myself not that I shouldn’t feel this way, but that it’s just fine and neutral that I feel this way, no big deal. I don’t need to change my body unless I want to, but it’s okay to not love parts of it right now.
I definitely find the societal pressure more than my partner. He’s very understanding. I do not feel like a sexual being at all (22 months postpartum). Though I like feeling closeness to my partner. Sex on the sofa once the baby is asleep when I have the energy- I’ll get back to a more sexual me at some point.
Oh my good yes getting out of my head has been the biggest challenge...
we LOVE a chatty get ready with me 💚
Thank you for an honest talk❣️🙏🏽🤗
Life really is about different seasons.. having kids completely disrupt life entirely. Disrupt schedules, sex, partner relationships etc.. it's definitely not for me.
Gave a like cause you are the best ❤
Your orgasm analogy had me absolutely ROARING with laughter 😂
My baby was born 17 weeks ago via c section and since then I've been poorly and needed a nephrectomy so 2 abdominal surgeries in a short space of time. I am hopefully getting a kidney transplant in a couple of months so another abdominal surgery is required. When you said you feel like a melted candle I laughed out loud 🤣 that's what I feel like!
All the best! It sounds like you’ve been having a tough time
Commenting for algorithm love all ur content sm xxx
Where is the rose water spray from 😊
Thank you for this video!
Love you posting frequently 💚 But take of yourself 💙
Am I actually first? Wowee 😊 thanks for the video, this is one of the things that sorta scares me about having kids so I look forward to hearing what you have to say
It's still worth it. Thongs change but if you want kids and this is just a scare...find the right partner and it's so worth it. I had not imagined the feelings you could have for your kid, but even more surprising: my love for my partner grew with him being the father of my child on top of the romantic feelings that were already there.
Feeling all the same❤ sex is more intimate now too... yes it's always a quicky😂😂😂😂
You are always amazing melanie love your intelligent videos you are a good person i wish nothing but the best for you and your beautiful family
You're looking beautiful, I love your style and advice :)
"Tea as cold as my loins" made me cackle
"Tea as cold as my loins" I feel that and I'm not even a mom yet XD
thank you for this video xx
If noone had sex again after having a baby there wouldn't be so many siblings 😂
what you were saying about being in your head...i've largely had much better solo sex than partnered sex for this exact reason. i'm never not thinking!! it frustrates me to no end. there are other factors, ofc, like i know exactly what feels good to me, and i can just do that, and not have to explain it to another person, but yeah.
Omgosh dying at boobs like elbows 😂😂😂
I'm pregnant with my first and since beginning of my pregnancy we didn't have sex. I feel so alwful, have low libido, feel pain in my back, cramps, baby moving inside of me, breast hurt, risk of bleeding due to some pregnancy problems.. I always had very high libido and it's very surprising for my but I simply cannot force myself to have PIV sex
Hey it's okay it's not your fault and hey you're pregnant. For many it turns out to be a myth that you'll have a huge sex drive while pregnant ❤
How have things changed downstairs in terms of tightness etc from the man's perspective? Does it feel the same? I've always wondered this as I don't have any children (yet), but it's something I've heard male friends talk about?x
Excellent video! ❤
I’m exclusively nursing my 4 mo old, and we bed share. And I have POP since the birth. I’ll be surprised if we have sex before the end of the year tbh.
In Germany it is not allowed to have sex in the same room with (sleeping) children.
How is that a law
@@bluesquirrel2472 I am German. never heard of that rule in my live.
😂 highly doubt that
the O question cracked me 😂💀
YES! Thank you 💞
Big sister sitting beside & answering every possible question 🙆🌄
Absolutely loved this video, Mel! And I will get back to watching it after I pick up, feed, bathe and put to bed my kid. 😂
Commenting to help with ~le algorithm~ 💚