Hello, Professor Vaknin. That is my family of origin. Just so you have an idea, in your video " Get Rid of Your Sick Family", mine scored 12 out of 13...🙃 I walked away in november last year, had one of the harder years of my life, grieving, completely no contact with my passive agressive mother and my three brothers. Your videos have been helping me a lot during this year. Thank you 🇧🇷
I'm stunned there are no comments, not surprised, as this topic is mindfully, deeply alarming, and attacks the core of your heart, mind and soul collectively. Pandora's box, combining overt, and insidious.
For 45 years I thought my family was close and cared for each other. The lie is soul crushing. Family 1st, honor your parents except your father. I repeated the cycle with my own. I hate lying so oh well. I’m a lone wolf and I ❤my peace.
I’m so very grateful Professor Vaknin. is bringing awareness about the toxicities that exist in some family dynamics. Being a scapegoat can result in a Hellish existence on this planet.
I would say that scapegoats become later one of the mentally toughest people to exist… but for those who are extremely traumatized will ofc become cluster b
Yep. I agree with the last sentence. Unfortunately, once you uncover the secrets and lies and this gets out to the wrong people, there is no going back.
Thank you for this video! I was going to ask you if you wouldn't mind please creating a video on narcissistic siblings, in childhood and adulthood. You must have read my mind! Thank you for everything that you deliver on this channel, I appreciate it all. Truly.
I posted a video on my channel called 'Moving back in with family was a terrible mistake'. I caught an argument on camera between my 37-year-old brother and my 70-year-old father, and my brother has some kind of undiagnosed mental illness. He lived with my dad his whole life. He's never paid any bills. He watches every little thing you do, and ALL of it makes him angry. The situation is so absurd, and they are completely unwilling to look in the mirror and take accountability for their own toxicity, that they have turned me into the scapegoat and have tried to destroy me instead. This explains my family to a T.
They only see me as a working body now. Based on the gang stalking video. They have a forum or group that they consume about a person which is “identical to me”.
Thank you for helping us scapegoats navigate the complexities of our circumstances, teaching us how to handle adversities and validating our struggles xx ❤️🩹
Hello, Professor Vaknin.
That is my family of origin.
Just so you have an idea, in your video " Get Rid of Your Sick Family", mine scored 12 out of 13...🙃
I walked away in november last year, had one of the harder years of my life, grieving, completely no contact with my passive agressive
mother and my three brothers.
Your videos have been helping me a lot during this year.
Thank you 🇧🇷
I'm stunned there are no comments, not surprised, as this topic is mindfully, deeply alarming, and attacks the core of your heart, mind and soul collectively. Pandora's box, combining overt, and insidious.
It was only posted 15 minutes ago and the video is 20 minutes long.
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Its been posted an hour ago
In the mean time sevarel comments have been written!
Sam, thank you for this. It has been me. Very validating.
For 45 years I thought my family was close and cared for each other. The lie is soul crushing. Family 1st, honor your parents except your father. I repeated the cycle with my own. I hate lying so oh well. I’m a lone wolf and I ❤my peace.
19:55 "then the damage regrettably is for life" - ouch
50yrs old. Can confirm.
I’m so very grateful Professor Vaknin. is bringing awareness about the toxicities that exist in some family dynamics. Being a scapegoat can result in a Hellish existence on this planet.
It's sad to me... I literally have no one in my Family in my Life now... But the toxicity is gone. They did me a favor by disowning me...
I was scapegoated by dad, mom and brothers
Scapegoated by my whole family, including my children 😢
I was firm with my boundaries and now my family is taking me to court.
Wtf
I would say that scapegoats become later one of the mentally toughest people to exist… but for those who are extremely traumatized will ofc become cluster b
I agree. It builds a very high level of mental resilience
Well technically when you let no one approach you you can never be betrayed 🤷
Yep. I agree with the last sentence. Unfortunately, once you uncover the secrets and lies and this gets out to the wrong people, there is no going back.
Where are my fellow scape goats at!?!?! Scape goats unite!!!!!🐐✊💪
Thank you for this video! I was going to ask you if you wouldn't mind please creating a video on narcissistic siblings, in childhood and adulthood. You must have read my mind! Thank you for everything that you deliver on this channel, I appreciate it all. Truly.
Last thing my sister said to me: LOL Loser
wow wow wow. the last line at the end was a stabber. lol
Everything about my "family". :(
Thank you Sam Vaknin, Brilliant explanation ⭐️🙏
I posted a video on my channel called 'Moving back in with family was a terrible mistake'. I caught an argument on camera between my 37-year-old brother and my 70-year-old father, and my brother has some kind of undiagnosed mental illness. He lived with my dad his whole life. He's never paid any bills. He watches every little thing you do, and ALL of it makes him angry. The situation is so absurd, and they are completely unwilling to look in the mirror and take accountability for their own toxicity, that they have turned me into the scapegoat and have tried to destroy me instead.
This explains my family to a T.
They literally forced me to apply for food stamps and. I just got out of high school
They only see me as a working body now. Based on the gang stalking video. They have a forum or group that they consume about a person which is “identical to me”.
Thank you--Insightful & powerful--lots to think about.
Thank you 🖤 this brought me a moment of relief.
Very informative, thank you xxx
✨Thank you✨
I've been thinking of when you said that our personalities are unchanged after age nine.
I see the darkness in you Sam
That is for God to deal with...
True story 😢❤️🩹
I was the scapegoat and I freakin left. They dont get a single word! But i feel guilt and resentment concerning my aging sickly narc mother.
They’ve been doing it for years.
family enmeshment is cross-cultural..healthy family bond is great...unhealthy bond would damage for life without support.
😢
Thanks Doc❤️🩹
Yes
This is me
People look at relationships podcasts and drink a lot. I think these factors have a lot to do with it
There is no tv shows anymore if anyone is on the internet it’s always a forum of hatred in every category
Thank you for helping us scapegoats navigate the complexities of our circumstances, teaching us how to handle adversities and validating our struggles xx ❤️🩹