One thing I have realized is that everyone’s journey is unique. My journey started decades ago when I learned to meditate. Everything is slow and spread out . We are old now, 82 and 74. We attended the same college 50 years ago, the same time for 3 years but didn’t know each other. He and my ex husband lived in the same apartment building at the same time for many years. We never ran into each other. On and on the similarities go. We were together four years, before the breakup. I am focusing on my life and doing all I need to do. My life is getting better. No more pain or obsessive thinking. I feel sad today with Valentine’s Day tomorrow. I do think our path is guided by God.
You have answered a question for me. I think my personality resonates with a long separation. I know that if he comes back, I want it to be permanent. I don't like the come and go style. Knowing myself, I would tell him to "stay gone" if he wants to run back and forth. I have a very direct personality. He knows me, also. I am on the verge of inner union now. I feel it. Of course, I will abide with anything the Divine has for me.
You're right. As much as the separation has been deeply painful at times and has triggered old feelings of being rejected and totally unsupported in this world, there is deep insight and wisdom coming out if it, and also of course healing, though it's very slow. I am very capable on my own and I still don't feel comfortable asking others for anything (including love), although I'm chronically ill. This is what I am working on changing, slowly. It seems that it's so much focus on the opposite - "love yourself first". But I have come a long way in that respect, and yet I'm scared of other people because of early and repeated trauma. Now it's been five years since I saw him - we spoke briefly on the phone one year ago and that was extremely painful, so I feel like this is still the best way for me. I have met someone else recently though and started to wonder if I should invite that in. It's a dilemma, but I don't want to stay stuck in this seemingly endless separation. Five years feels like a limit of some kind. Do you have any videos on that kind of dilemma - seeing others? I feel like it's about taking the risk of being seen and loved in the 3D - sometimes the 5D is way too comfortable …
@@anelisa333 I just noticed your handle... My sign from universe in the beginning when I asked and have followed me in the craziest of ways was 333 as well. 🥰🌈🙏
Thank you for this. My ego has told me multiple times 'ive reached inner union' or detachment or whatever, and no contact with TF continues. Gong be a while I guess lmao.
I really try not to engage with this sort of content because of my past experience on the subject, but I have to say this does make a lot of sense to me. Thank you 🙏
It's all down to ego that's why we go in to separation you have to realise you are one unit and focus on yourself! It's a hard journey believe me I've been in many separations but it does get easier
My DM lives down the road from me...our backyards are within sight. I can't just move. It is very distracting. I wonder why this has happened this way.
I felt a calling to do the same, it's a lot less distracting pressence without her on social media, I think it was the right decision. She tried to reach out for me after
Hi Anelisa, Ive met my twin 2 years ago, in September 2022, however we met thru my internship, we saw each other several times, but never dated. Then separation happened, and I haven´t seen him since March 2023. Im working on self love, and inner child healing, and doing twin flame meditations. I also think my twin might have found someone else. Do you still think its possible to reunite? I often go to that internship place, as a volunteer and I have been there about a hundred times and still havent seen him. I really want to reunite with my twin flame, because I deeply know he is my twin. Do you have any guidance for me? I am grateful and truly appreciate your wisdom and advice. Thank you, kind regards Nina
Going on 5 years with mine. Yes I follow the flame stuff still and I'm aware its a real thing- however I get less and less attracted to him as the back and fourth goes on and how he refuses to give outward expression in the 3d. He made a comment recently how natural red heads are his ideal type in general conversation - I am a natural ash brown brunette. Not one orange tinted hair on my body. It brought on more anger than hurt- I'm just so over this guy! There's reassurance, no reassurance than there's DE-reassurance. It's mind boggling how much the DM goes OUT of his way to put out a narrative he's not that into you. And yet tbh he wont go away. Won't go away yet does the absolute bare minimal to keep you a mile away and prevent rejection. What a strange journey. I'm not investing this long drawn out message because I'm obsessed anymore- I'm just livid and annoyed and in a way stuck in this connection. Have I grown? Tremendously. But I've grown so much that I think I've completed my challenge- I can get off of this ride now. Someone re--program this DM robot to just go with the flow now.
Separation for 14 years. But for a good chuck of that he never was on my mind. Then suddenly and randomly.. boom the obsessive thoughts. I don’t want a romantic relationship with him. He was a terrible person
Believe it or not I've met a few that are 30 and 40 years in separation!💛 Remember this is your Awakening primarily...your DM comes in as a byproduct once you shift and detox your energy.🧡💛
One thing I have realized is that everyone’s journey is unique. My journey started decades ago when I learned to meditate. Everything is slow and spread out . We are old now, 82 and 74. We attended the same college 50 years ago, the same time for 3 years but didn’t know each other. He and my ex husband lived in the same apartment building at the same time for many years. We never ran into each other. On and on the similarities go. We were together four years, before the breakup. I am focusing on my life and doing all I need to do. My life is getting better. No more pain or obsessive thinking. I feel sad today with Valentine’s Day tomorrow. I do think our path is guided by God.
You have answered a question for me. I think my personality resonates with a long separation. I know that if he comes back, I want it to be permanent. I don't like the come and go style. Knowing myself, I would tell him to "stay gone" if he wants to run back and forth. I have a very direct personality. He knows me, also. I am on the verge of inner union now. I feel it. Of course, I will abide with anything the Divine has for me.
Yes, the longer separation seems to fit personalities so it makes sense🥰💛
You're right. As much as the separation has been deeply painful at times and has triggered old feelings of being rejected and totally unsupported in this world, there is deep insight and wisdom coming out if it, and also of course healing, though it's very slow. I am very capable on my own and I still don't feel comfortable asking others for anything (including love), although I'm chronically ill. This is what I am working on changing, slowly. It seems that it's so much focus on the opposite - "love yourself first". But I have come a long way in that respect, and yet I'm scared of other people because of early and repeated trauma. Now it's been five years since I saw him - we spoke briefly on the phone one year ago and that was extremely painful, so I feel like this is still the best way for me. I have met someone else recently though and started to wonder if I should invite that in. It's a dilemma, but I don't want to stay stuck in this seemingly endless separation. Five years feels like a limit of some kind. Do you have any videos on that kind of dilemma - seeing others? I feel like it's about taking the risk of being seen and loved in the 3D - sometimes the 5D is way too comfortable …
th-cam.com/video/YHF21rZ5kKM/w-d-xo.html This might help.💛
@@anelisa333 I just noticed your handle... My sign from universe in the beginning when I asked and have followed me in the craziest of ways was 333 as well. 🥰🌈🙏
Thank you so much💐💐💐
Thanks for the positive message.
In a LDR and this is what I am experiencing. It's been 3 years and I have been learning my lessons well. Gracias!
You're welcome 😊
I understand now..thank you!
This was perfect for me, thank you so much.
You're welcome!🧡
Thank you for this. My ego has told me multiple times 'ive reached inner union' or detachment or whatever, and no contact with TF continues. Gong be a while I guess lmao.
It's all in Divine timing. Keep letting go of outcomes.💜
I really try not to engage with this sort of content because of my past experience on the subject, but I have to say this does make a lot of sense to me. Thank you 🙏
It's all down to ego that's why we go in to separation you have to realise you are one unit and focus on yourself! It's a hard journey believe me I've been in many separations but it does get easier
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My DM lives down the road from me...our backyards are within sight. I can't just move. It is very distracting. I wonder why this has happened this way.
I was in runner chaser, now i am in total separation. It was so hard for me, so i blocked him.
I felt a calling to do the same, it's a lot less distracting pressence without her on social media, I think it was the right decision. She tried to reach out for me after
Hi Anelisa, Ive met my twin 2 years ago, in September 2022, however we met thru my internship, we saw each other several times, but never dated. Then separation happened, and I haven´t seen him since March 2023. Im working on self love, and inner child healing, and doing twin flame meditations. I also think my twin might have found someone else. Do you still think its possible to reunite? I often go to that internship place, as a volunteer and I have been there about a hundred times and still havent seen him. I really want to reunite with my twin flame, because I deeply know he is my twin. Do you have any guidance for me? I am grateful and truly appreciate your wisdom and advice. Thank you, kind regards Nina
Yes you can reunite but the focus has to be on you.🥰
@@anelisa333 thank you so much :) i appreciate your guidance :)
How do we neutralize the energy?
I will do a video for you💛🧡
@@anelisa333 thank you 🙏
Hes married. Weve been gping through this for 5 years. Keeps saying ill have to talk to her. .does one tell him not to come over??
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Decades
Going on 5 years with mine. Yes I follow the flame stuff still and I'm aware its a real thing- however I get less and less attracted to him as the back and fourth goes on and how he refuses to give outward expression in the 3d. He made a comment recently how natural red heads are his ideal type in general conversation - I am a natural ash brown brunette. Not one orange tinted hair on my body. It brought on more anger than hurt- I'm just so over this guy! There's reassurance, no reassurance than there's DE-reassurance. It's mind boggling how much the DM goes OUT of his way to put out a narrative he's not that into you. And yet tbh he wont go away. Won't go away yet does the absolute bare minimal to keep you a mile away and prevent rejection. What a strange journey. I'm not investing this long drawn out message because I'm obsessed anymore- I'm just livid and annoyed and in a way stuck in this connection. Have I grown? Tremendously. But I've grown so much that I think I've completed my challenge- I can get off of this ride now. Someone re--program this DM robot to just go with the flow now.
There's no red button to get off....it's your Awakening. What they say in the 3D is irrelevant...it's the energy that matters.💛🧡
Separation for 14 years. But for a good chuck of that he never was on my mind. Then suddenly and randomly.. boom the obsessive thoughts.
I don’t want a romantic relationship with him. He was a terrible person
How does 28years separation sound!?? Is there still any chance? How common is this!?🥹
Believe it or not I've met a few that are 30 and 40 years in separation!💛 Remember this is your Awakening primarily...your DM comes in as a byproduct once you shift and detox your energy.🧡💛