I Have No Objective Empathy - Debate ft. Man with Masters in Neuroscience

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  • @river8477
    @river8477 5 ปีที่แล้ว +529

    Why is this title not called: “destiny makes a friend”

    • @kenpanderz672
      @kenpanderz672 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      because Destiny doesnt believe in actual friendship. people are just commodities to him.

    • @openmind2464
      @openmind2464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kenpanderz672 also he's wrong

    • @kenpanderz672
      @kenpanderz672 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Justin Dunn
      why do you think my beliefs about friendship differs from his?

    • @-john2g3
      @-john2g3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Gnolomweb Wait, not liking Destiny is objectiv ? Or are you just r/woooshing ?

    • @-john2g3
      @-john2g3 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Gnolomweb R/wooosh is a place in reddit, where people post someone that missed an obvious joke ( sometimes just over the top sarcasm ). And how do i fit into the Dunning Kruger effect ?

  • @michaelanirudhan3618
    @michaelanirudhan3618 5 ปีที่แล้ว +921

    Destinys son only likes him cause he gives him chocolate milk

    • @Matt-ww9wv
      @Matt-ww9wv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      He would be obligated to support his son ditching him for another that maximized his chocolate milk consumption. He would have to be happy with this. Hell, Destiny 2.0 could come in and take his entire platform as his entire audience must enjoy Destiny 2.0 more and Destiny must be happy with this. As Destiny 2.0 is programmed to continually outclass Destiny in whatever endeavors he chooses Destiny is pigeonholed into a life where he has nothing and must be happy as everyone else has only made the egotistical consequential choice to abandon him.
      Destiny's position reduces to complete isolation where he must be happy that nobody interacts with him. He pretty much agrees with Tom in the practical sense, he simply doesn't make the leap in logic necessary as he would then have to concede his perspective when shared with others is horrible for his personal experience. Although Destiny wants to only care about his preferences, his preferences are slave to the pragmatic world. In that world your preferences cannot always be maximized and the concessions put you in a place closer to what Tom described.

    • @canalsincontenido
      @canalsincontenido 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      8-7 months late but you guys made me chuckle outloud, thanks

    • @colbycovington4541
      @colbycovington4541 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn😂😂😂😂

    • @pepefroglive
      @pepefroglive 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @Rebel8MAC
      @Rebel8MAC 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Choccy milkstiny

  • @kaifeng216
    @kaifeng216 5 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    This guy was really great to listen to.

    • @Shadowbeamx
      @Shadowbeamx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Yea I wish he plugged his channel/had one.

    • @longlivenc7235
      @longlivenc7235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Compared to most guests, sure, but that isn't saying much. He was still annoyingly dogmatic.

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Shadowbeamx I do :) It's here: th-cam.com/channels/YJu9G4mMbmbFygCuoxikGg.html
      Most of the videos are a bit old. But I am planning a re-launch later this year :D

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Long Live NC In what way(s) was I annoyingly dogmatic?

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thanks :D

  • @thejakobistable
    @thejakobistable 5 ปีที่แล้ว +744

    Finally a debate with 2 people respecting the rules of a healthy discussion

    • @vagrant9414
      @vagrant9414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      jakob law Something uncommon in our age

    • @braindoko
      @braindoko 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      SIR

    • @meepoman3941
      @meepoman3941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jakob law I just realized

    • @TheOneTheyCallFrost
      @TheOneTheyCallFrost 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jakob law Pretty boring though.

    • @Alex-yo1zg
      @Alex-yo1zg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jakob law Also boring as fuck

  • @slyrax4154
    @slyrax4154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    I enjoyed having somebody use the "You don't want to go down this road because it will go badly for you" assertion against you for a change.

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      :P it was true, though! I was saving everyone some time :)

    • @slyrax4154
      @slyrax4154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Tom Burns agreed, just hadn't seen anybody get to do that move with him before!

    • @Marcin-pr2sz
      @Marcin-pr2sz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please add time stamp to comments like this in future. I agree your point is valid & don't want to go through whole vid to get context. Thanks in advance.

    • @SynetheSage
      @SynetheSage 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@tfburns You warned Destiny against contradicting himself, yet to do so you created a false dichotomy. He explicitly described himself as ego-utilitarian; he cares about the consequences, and he measures those consequences by the degree to which they satisfy his interests. That's not a contradictory position, and your basis for claiming it is was a false dichotomy.
      "If you value the consequences, you fundamentally aren't valuing the friendship."
      He values maximizing the fulfillment of his interests. Creating and maintaining friendships with those he enjoys and respects, and who enjoy and respect him in return, is something he holds within his interests - tautologically, he must be valuing that friendship for it to be within his interests. Since he has many different interests, some of which may be undermined in the fulfillment of other interests, he seeks to maximize the fulfillment of all these interests he has value in. Because he values them all, he values optimizing the consequences of his actions toward fulfilling those interests.
      Whatever arguments are made in the "papers and papers" that have been written about this, they have no way of undermining this, because it is logically consistent on a practically tautological level.

  • @assuming9735
    @assuming9735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +335

    I don't think the issue is that people lie about psychology tests, it's more like people cant be trusted to objectively view themselves.

    • @assuming9735
      @assuming9735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Blahblehblahbleh I acknowledge the /s, but that is a legitimate argument one could make as to why Destiny especially isnt able to evaluate himself fairly .

    • @brickmaestro8243
      @brickmaestro8243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They're not mutually exlusive.

    • @AnonymousAZ
      @AnonymousAZ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's true, if you took the AX MURDERER AT THE DOOR TEST, and had that a game like Rust or Minecraft, there are people that would unlock the door and let them in. That's where you see the same.
      In society we know the rules are, accessory to crime is allowing it. That's where the morality divide happens, and why Destiny is right that morality is subjective to the society you're in.

    • @d_clan_
      @d_clan_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      TRUE

    • @faikerdogan2802
      @faikerdogan2802 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      TRUEEEE The amount times people get offended when i don't trust them

  • @Tocinos
    @Tocinos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Destiny got objectively aborted in this debate

    • @Amonfobious
      @Amonfobious 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      this is the best one yet

    • @kyliewynne638
      @kyliewynne638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Tocinos Yup, I never realised how much of a fucking Psycho he was until now....I wonder if he even agrees in the principal of giving to charity given the rhetoric spouted here....I mean I genuinely am freaked out by his lack of empathetic response

    • @kova5581
      @kova5581 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was actually kind of surprised by how much I share his egoist values. Although I think much like him I view those ideas more as the way I wish my relationships with other people were rather than how they actually are.

    • @kyliewynne638
      @kyliewynne638 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Ethan Bradberry Well I am not surprised he isn't alone his beliefs but I cannot say it's a comforting prospect to imagine a belief in that humanity is little more than purely selfish hedonists.

    • @donspaggiari9970
      @donspaggiari9970 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Kyle Wynne, don't be freaked out. Low-empathy doesn't automatically indicate psychopathy. Autism, for example, is also associated with low empathy. Empathy isn't a pre-requisite for altruism, or kindness, or compassion. You don't necessarily need empathy to be a good person. In fact, empathy itself can occasionally mislead and cause a person to commit immoral acts.

  • @meepoman3941
    @meepoman3941 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Im gonna send this video to the 9 year old who keeps joining my games of Fortnite and explain to him in great detail why our friendship is becoming a detriment to me and it is not worth my time because I don’t have fun playing with him.

    • @kakibackup2koujo612
      @kakibackup2koujo612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      My dude

    • @pward17
      @pward17 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dont you think if you impress on him positively it would make the world better? Potentially beneficial for your offspring if not yourself. In the end a selfish end but a mutually beneficial means. A side product of mutually beneficial ends as well.

  • @grantobrien3396
    @grantobrien3396 5 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    Destiny got "I am not your friendly neighborhood progressive'd" in this debate.

  • @derp2018
    @derp2018 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    39:12 MAN this guy absolutely destroyed Destiny it's actually not even funny. He brought up a point that Destiny could never ever defend. Kappa

  • @dundoderdumme3044
    @dundoderdumme3044 5 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    Destiny logic: I care about my son. Seeing other people suffer makes me unhappy...
    10 minutes later: WHY SHOULDN'T I PRESS A BUTTON KILLING ALL OTHER PEOPLE (including son) TO MAKE MY OWN LIFE LAST LONGER?!?!?!?!?! CANT ANSWER THAT, HUH?

    • @notunder8738
      @notunder8738 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      The net well being of destiny might increase though, as being alive for 5-10 minutes (even with the knowledge of having killed everybody) provides quite a bit of enjoyment opposed to dying. He only cares about his son because it ultimately gives him pleasure. If he would die, then receiving pleasure from any source is impossible. The question now is just, if you press the button, are your last 5-10 minutes a time of suffering or joy, above or below a neutral, emotional state? If the knowledge of all people dying makes you more miserable for the 10min than peacefully dying earlier, then pressing the button is useless. If you can live with a clear consciousness, then press the button.

    • @spacecow93
      @spacecow93 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I dont think this guy understood the part where destiny would die.

    • @Greatkingrat88
      @Greatkingrat88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      It's a theoretical question where he asks the other guy to justify his beliefs. What part of this is hard to understand?

    • @DerpMuse
      @DerpMuse 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Notunder you just only described self interest of a species in order to keep the species propagating. That doesnt mean its moral. its in interest of the self. self interest goes beyond good and evil. Otherwise you'd attribute evil, to the lion eating a gazelle.

    • @iammrawesomesauce
      @iammrawesomesauce 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dundo Der Dumme Yeah here's the problem: you're assuming that Destiny cares about his son and hates to see others made unhappy because of some sort of empathetic imperative, when in fact it's due solely to the fact his relationship with his son and the happiness of others are beneficial to him. His relationship with his son only matters to the extent that it brings him happiness, not because of some sort of intangible obligation he feels to his son. His caring for the continued success of his son is resultant of the same thing, his own selfish want to have his son be the best person he can be so he can have the best relationship he can have with him, therefore bringing him the most amount of happiness. It's a similar thing with the people around him and his motivation to minimize they're unhappiness; he only does so for the effect of happiness or convenience it might bring him. Consequently, if he values the length of his own life over all else, it would also make sense for him to press a button and kill all people to maximize his own outcomes. Sure, it might make disappear other, lesser forms of satisfaction he receives, and unless the other people he would be killing wouldn't have any way to feel pain or know that they're dying it would be immoral, but if all of these stipulations were to be worked around or found to work in his favor, how could you argue against him making the decision that would most maximize his own happiness?

  • @DuckingAround
    @DuckingAround 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    39:13 😂😭 that was the perfect response to what destiny said lmaoo

    • @Bhuyakasha
      @Bhuyakasha 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      And Destiny's response "not necessarily", not even a full on denial lol

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      haha. Got 'em!

  • @bplus2932
    @bplus2932 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Destiny's son will put this video in his favorites ;)

  • @RebirthFlame
    @RebirthFlame 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Steven "The ends justify the means" Bonnell 2.0

  • @Sl4ym4tr14
    @Sl4ym4tr14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Talk more with him, very entertaining!

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Thank you :) I would be happy to come by again. I just need notice for it, though. Oh, and if Destiny ever comes to Japan (I think he was planning to at some point?) I will challenge him to a 1v1 IRL debate.

    • @Sl4ym4tr14
      @Sl4ym4tr14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nice, I'd like to see that as some sort of channel special

    • @choggerboom
      @choggerboom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Tom Burns I just realized I have used some of your material on TH-cam for assistance in grad school. I thought your voice had a faint familiarity to it. And by the way, you were fantastic in this debate. Cheers man!

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      choggerboom great to hear it! hope grad school is/was fun for you :P

  • @last9703
    @last9703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    If I didn't know any better I would think Destiny's philosophy is being used by him as a coping mechanism that allows him to detach himself from a certain traumatic experience.

    • @tjalferes
      @tjalferes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Not only Destiny, but everyone. Spiritual, philosophical, metaphysical, ontological, epistemological, moral, aesthetic, politcal, social and other systems are very closely linked to psychological states. Cause and effect.

    • @simple2830
      @simple2830 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Last I think so.

    • @Jaryism
      @Jaryism 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      I 100% agree, he's being completely disingenuous in this debate. NOBODY has no empathy or regard for suffering of pets, animals, genocide, people in pain, etc. Destiny is trying to convince himself that he doesn't care about this shit but he really does, he's lying to himself.

    • @retard1657
      @retard1657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Jaryism its possible that he doesnt feel empathy but I also highly doubt it. He probably to him he only feels because of genetics and that he really shouldn't

    • @GordieKat
      @GordieKat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tjalferes But that doesn'r mean they aren't true.

  • @SlimeYee
    @SlimeYee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These conversations are great. Thanks buddy!

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad you enjoyed them :)

  • @croesuslydias6488
    @croesuslydias6488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    “It’s 11 am now so this time tomorrow would be 11 am tomorrow” -philosophy

  • @DuckingAround
    @DuckingAround 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I have such limited knowledge on these sorts of subjects but I very much enjoyed this.

    • @rakeow
      @rakeow 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sivartus6692 thank you

  • @SJNaka101
    @SJNaka101 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It makes me happy to watch destiny continue to grow as a person. This was a great talk. Feels like some progress was made.

  • @1untamedbrain
    @1untamedbrain 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoyed listening to this. Kudos to you both. :)

  • @spockrates7980
    @spockrates7980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Does anyone have the follow-up conversation to this somewhere? This was one of the best conversations Destiny has ever had. Can't believe I can only find one video

  • @Worgen33
    @Worgen33 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Oh, there is an animal species that Destiny has to give moral consideration too. Crows and black birds, they will remember people who have wronged them and attack them.

  • @ArktosBears
    @ArktosBears 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    Destiny is in a relationship with a girl. ✓
    The girl sees a Chad she believes could offer more utility than Destiny. ✓
    The girl leaves Destiny for the Chad. ✓
    Destiny has no problem with this because it fits his moral system. ???

    • @kakibackup2koujo612
      @kakibackup2koujo612 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol this was actually funny.

    • @eireRSPS
      @eireRSPS 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Overnight destiny is chad uwu

    • @firesong7825
      @firesong7825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      No, Destiny is selfish so anything that opposes his quality of life would be something that he is not okay with. His moral system only applies to himself.

    • @andydavis3075
      @andydavis3075 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@firesong7825
      It's the morality of hypocrisy since he thinks he's the only one who can follow it is him self but, if others follow that principle it can have a negative impact on him

    • @NarutoStorm3Rocks
      @NarutoStorm3Rocks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes, he wouldn't give a shit, cause as he said he wouldn't want to be with a girl, if she believes she would be better with the "chad" and in turn doesn't get the "best use of her time" and i agree with him on that it's not that edgy tbh.

  • @drackaris_
    @drackaris_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +125

    total edgelord destiny is

  • @dakoje2951
    @dakoje2951 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice conversation. Loved it

  • @tcritt
    @tcritt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    EDGESTINY

  • @FlipsMG
    @FlipsMG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Have this guy on more, quality content

  • @billythunderchode2569
    @billythunderchode2569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Destiny got absolutely killed in this debate

  • @Exypno
    @Exypno 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is an awesome conversation

  • @c00m_goblino6
    @c00m_goblino6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    can you turn down your voice volume I can't hear the game

  • @Godzdeal
    @Godzdeal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Very pleasant debate!

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree :) It was very cordial and friendly.

  • @FridgeGames101
    @FridgeGames101 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    this was very enjoyable

  • @eimang2266
    @eimang2266 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    That was the best debate so far imo

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Glad you enjoyed it :)

    • @Ghettofinger
      @Ghettofinger 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tom Burns this is 8 months late, but after visiting your channel, I appreciate the quality. I always enjoy learning new things, but the more I learn the more I realize how little I know and how little I could ever know. Quite sad.

  • @hugoehhh
    @hugoehhh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yo I loved this one, keep it up :)

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Glad you enjoyed it :)

  • @livingtoaster1358
    @livingtoaster1358 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Destiny was about to say Light Yagami I know he was going to for his character

  • @jeffc5974
    @jeffc5974 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What does "valuing the friendship" mean if it doesn't mean valuing what you get out of it?

  • @michaelanirudhan3618
    @michaelanirudhan3618 5 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    I feel like destinys views on ethics and morality are in complete contrast to his views on abortion

    • @aidendevere6693
      @aidendevere6693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      mikekachowski
      Genuine question but, how so?
      I believe he stated his reasoning for being against abortion was because he hated the concept of him being destroyed at any given time even as a developing fetus --
      does that not fall under the umbrella of his morality and ethics?

    • @gamegod273
      @gamegod273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It wouldn't be him as I view humans as being shaped by their experiences, if he were abused and not taught anything, you couldn't tell me that Destiny would be the same man he is today, I would say he'd have a wildly different personality.

    • @XxBlumannxX
      @XxBlumannxX 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @Aiden Devere What an utterly nonsensical argument to make. "I wouldn't have liked to have been aborted, so therefore abortion of people who don't exist yet is wrong." What a dumbass. May as well make birth control illegal with that logic.

    • @aidendevere6693
      @aidendevere6693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Ashar Rasheed I'd say its nonsensical as well but it does seem to fall under his umbrella of self-interested beliefs.

    • @gamegod273
      @gamegod273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      If he's ever masturbated then I say he's a hypocrite. You don't get to insist that the second a sperm touches an egg suddenly you can't take it out otherwise that'd be murder.

  • @EliTheGleason
    @EliTheGleason 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's so entertaining to watch people learn

  • @vargonian
    @vargonian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I used to pretend that I preferred rainy days over sunny days for whatever reason, maybe just to be a contrarian, or maybe as a way of coping with the fact that I lived in a rainy part of the world. Ultimately I was lying to myself. I wonder if Destiny is essentially doing this with his personal positions re: morality.

    • @andreaaldrich4046
      @andreaaldrich4046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      vargonian Yes. Seems so.

    • @theronerdithas2944
      @theronerdithas2944 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I think i like cloudy weather, but that just might be because when the sun is up and it's hot out, all day from 12am to sunset the sun is on the side where the windows to my room are so it's uncomfortably hot, and my computer is running often so that adds to it.

    • @spacedoohicky
      @spacedoohicky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He could be, or he could be accepting the fact that no matter how much he doesn't like rainy days the rain will still happen.

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That's my suspicion. But as I said in this discussion, it's hard to delineate between preferences objectively without being influenced by some kind of personality bias.

    • @spacedoohicky
      @spacedoohicky 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Tom Burns Do you mean by comparison of preferences?

  • @Nockiz3
    @Nockiz3 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My dude, this was very pleasent to listen to and yes, I guess I had nothing better to do

  • @horizon92lee
    @horizon92lee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    15:44, Jesus, such sociopath, much wow

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I was also quite surprised by this response and it caught me a bit off-guard, I have to say. Most people I meet and talk to will acknowledge that suffering in other beings exists and is something worth caring about.

    • @brazcomsomerville2113
      @brazcomsomerville2113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      such is the mind of someone who read Nietzsche as his first philosopher xD

    • @idontgetthejoke4813
      @idontgetthejoke4813 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh lord is not caring about animals sociopathic? Ah fuck me.

    • @horizon92lee
      @horizon92lee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@idontgetthejoke4813 yes

  • @HyunaTheHyena
    @HyunaTheHyena 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Those thumbnails are getting better each video

  • @TheInteriktigt100
    @TheInteriktigt100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Did this second debate ever happen? If so, I haven't been able to find it...

  • @firesong7825
    @firesong7825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    15:53 That must have been fascinating to the other guy considering that he's majoring in neuroscience. It's almost like an interactable video about a sociopath.

    • @kakibackup2koujo612
      @kakibackup2koujo612 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well yes but destiny would just admit that as well.

  • @chanye7403
    @chanye7403 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a feeling the anime character you were about to mention was Dio Brando because he pretty much fits the bill

  • @Loot1377
    @Loot1377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Nice debate.
    Leaned a whole bunch.

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glad you enjoyed it :)

  • @QuakePhil
    @QuakePhil 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    33:00 nice steelmanning!

  • @tom_curtis
    @tom_curtis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Destiny keeps on refuting himself.
    Specifically he keeps on indicating that the happiness of others is relevant to his happiness. At one point, he indicates that he does not like to see death. But these should only matter to him if he is at least minimally concerned about the well being of those he wants to be happy , or at least, wants to be happy in his presence.

    • @Disentropic1
      @Disentropic1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I think the idea is that if they were internally dead and experiencing nothing, or suffering, or whatever, he wouldn't care in the slightest as long as the external facade they presented (as complex automata) pleased him aesthetically.
      I do mostly agree he's wrong when he claims this, I think his childhood distance from his parents (lots of siblings, moved out early, sounds like not ideal relationships) induced him to conceive of relationships in a detached way. One can easily imagine how being one of many unspecial siblings could produce a focused self-advocacy culminating in moral egoism. Add internet harassment to that and it seems pretty natural to close yourself off. But if Destiny could resolve the issues that caused him to dissociate and lose trust in people, he'd probably begin to express less personally defensive moral notions.

    • @tom_curtis
      @tom_curtis 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Disentropic, that is a possibility, but that is itself inconsistent with his insistence that he wants his friends to visit him only if that is the best use of their time to maximize their own utility.

    • @Disentropic1
      @Disentropic1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Good observation, but I personally charitably read that part as him saying that he wanted to _think_ people spent time with him for that reason. It seems a decent fit with egoism: if you're people's favourite guy to be around, it probably boosts your ego. You wouldn't want there to be any signs that they'd rather do anything else. I think he'd say it doesn't matter to him if he can't tell they're not choosing him selfishly.

    • @tmsphere
      @tmsphere 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly, he's just kinda stuck right now in fallacy of viewing his subjective feelings and biases as "most rational" and compares it to pure egotism which its not pure egotism at all for obvious reasons.

  • @haleynewton6395
    @haleynewton6395 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Destiny says anyone who would trade up on him is not a true friend, yet he would always trade up as well, so basically there's no such thing as a true friend in his mind. I don't think he realizes that part of having a good relationship is applying some sort of commitment and not just bailing when things become not optimal. Whether he realizes it or not, I think it's why he values his son more than most, because he's already made some sort of commitment to him, even though theoretically he could always trade up on Nathan, I don't think he would because he has decided he'd be commited to his son, which brings them closer together. Then again I'm pretty sure Destiny, and most people for that matter, have very little idea what it's like to have a true friend, so it'd be next to impossible for him to realize this without having experienced it.

  • @vegacareless
    @vegacareless 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Stirnerstiny. I liked that one.

  • @firesong7825
    @firesong7825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this guy, he's great.

  • @thedog5k
    @thedog5k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One of the few times I have actually been back and forth as far as opinion.
    I agree with both on this certain point. I do want people to value my friendship intrinsically but I want to bring up an experience.
    I felt left out repeatedly by a certain group of people. After bringing it up they apologize and obviously offer to hangout obviously. But if you have to negotiate to get peoples attention, is it really what they desire?
    A lot of destiny’s points felt way to edgy, but there really is a point to some of it.

  • @heinzguderian9980
    @heinzguderian9980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    There's a video of an interview with Michio Kaku online, and he makes the argument that free will must exist because of the randomness of quantum mechanics. Except that it doesn't matter, because no individual has any control over this randomness.

  • @snowdriftmoon
    @snowdriftmoon 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did this guy come back on stream? And if so does anyone have the vod link?

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, I did:
      th-cam.com/video/VHstxbbHwyI/w-d-xo.html
      th-cam.com/video/lkZ1GC-851Q/w-d-xo.html
      Hope you enjoy(ed) :)

  • @nevercaughtbeingquiet2293
    @nevercaughtbeingquiet2293 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I refuse to believe if his son told him “I only love you because you give me food” that he wouldn’t be slightly upset

    • @Eterntitty
      @Eterntitty ปีที่แล้ว

      Then you do not understand him

  • @abuvyrmom
    @abuvyrmom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Did that debate they were planning ever get set up??

  • @jjppmm29
    @jjppmm29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    19:14
    here is the answer to the question
    there would be nobody to carry on your legacy, nobody to remember you, after the 10 minutes are up you would just stop existing full stop....
    or at least that is the most palpable answer people could give that I can think of or have heard

    • @Achromasloth
      @Achromasloth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dude, I’m not NEAR as edgy as Destiny, but even I would press the button if that’s the only thing to consider.
      Like, who cares about my legacy. I certainly wouldn’t, I’d be dead.

  • @oberdinger09
    @oberdinger09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really do enjoy these discussions. Whether or not I agree is a different story though.

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Glad you enjoyed it :) And yes, enjoying =/= agreeing!

  • @MrDnB89
    @MrDnB89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    how does he reconcile this with his views on abortion?

  • @OriginalPai
    @OriginalPai 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I would lie to the axe murderer just so I didn't have to clean up all the blood after he was done.

  • @onlyme0349
    @onlyme0349 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I really respect this guy he was debating, usually people who debate take the bully approach to pressure the opposing party but this guy took like a buddy approach actually guiding towards finding the truth as more people should be, however Destiny acted really dumb and took statements that were ridiculous when turned into examples, like he wouldn't understand and feel comfortable if his wife still stayed with him if she found someone better than him.

    • @fullalbums5675
      @fullalbums5675 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I find his egoistic views too edgy for me, especially about animals, but if my wife find someone better than me then fuck, I want her to leave

    • @Boulder7685
      @Boulder7685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It helps that philosophy has significantly greater potential for collaborative discussion due to a relatively innate measure of theoreticals in question, and a prerequisite of some introspection to find where someone thinks they stand on a matter, rather than what they think is correct for a matter.

    • @megadeathx
      @megadeathx 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How can Destiny know that his wife would be happier with somebody else unless she makes the claim to him herself? Essentially, he would be okay with receiving divorce papers but wouldn't be okay if she reneged on finalizing the divorce, or if she claimed to want a divorce but never filed for divorce. This example isn't as ridiculous as you may think it should be. Lots of people are less happy in a shitty marriage and eventually break up in order to rid themselves of being around a person that doesn't like them.

  • @szirsp
    @szirsp 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wait, no one was yelling, was this even a debate? I cannot tell anymore ;)

  • @theeggdover1243
    @theeggdover1243 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Destinys obsession with not being hypocritical is scaring me a bit...

  • @ErikLW
    @ErikLW 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please refer to OG Plato's Republic for the whole of this discussion. Good talk Destiny and Tom.

    • @ErikLW
      @ErikLW 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      www.idph.net/conteudos/ebooks/republic.pdf

  • @rondovk
    @rondovk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Revisiting this after dr k is interesting

  • @sisyphushappy1312
    @sisyphushappy1312 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Did this guy ever talk to destiny again and is it a vid? Link?

  • @maxmustermann9058
    @maxmustermann9058 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is like an entertaining and witty Rem

  • @DionDell
    @DionDell ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What’s the name of the guy Destiny debated?

  • @aarona634
    @aarona634 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wheres the debate from the next day?

  • @hawaiin420
    @hawaiin420 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s crazy to hear this after the whole mr redacted situation

  • @The_Daliban
    @The_Daliban 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The man is really charismatic.does he have a channel?

  • @monkelican2368
    @monkelican2368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know this video was a long time ago, but anyone know what the game in the beginning is called?

    • @eman1425
      @eman1425 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Monkelican lords mobile

  • @bassbole
    @bassbole 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The major problem with saying something like 'It's not fair to judge someone's past morality based on current standards' IMO is there were people at any given time who did recognize the immorality of those actions. It's not as if the immorality of the action was unknowable, it's just that most people didn't recognize it.
    You are basically excusing the immorality of an action based on what was socially acceptable at that time, which seems really misguided.

  • @shaunmartinez4010
    @shaunmartinez4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What video was their next convo?

  • @Argacyan
    @Argacyan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Will is not free on a grander scale, but what will is will give you the illusion of it being free to the point where asking if it actually was free makes little difference.

  • @hejalll
    @hejalll 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Destiny has said he cares about the people inside America, but now he's saying he doesn't?

  • @Preacher_.
    @Preacher_. 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    How TF do these videos not have millions of views!

    • @nukecorruption
      @nukecorruption 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I bet some of these might be secretly hidden from search or banned in some countires. You never know with TH-cam nowadays. I was in US for 3 months and searching for a really specific topics on Google for example was really difficult compared to where I live (Finland). Censorship is high in some countires

  • @Dexanimus
    @Dexanimus ปีที่แล้ว

    empathy. knowing what its like to suffer is why you should value minimizing it for others.

  • @donfulton4875
    @donfulton4875 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just came upon this video. I usually agree with Destiny, but this guy is compelling. Like this guy. Like Destiny too, but have new questions about him.

  • @Pleasekillmysonsdad
    @Pleasekillmysonsdad 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    When I visited colleges years ago I remember the tour guide I had was a neuroscience undergraduate. They told us they love their field because we only use 10% of our brains and wouldn't it be great if we could use all of it.
    Ffs.

  • @adamschlinker972
    @adamschlinker972 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is fucking good.

  • @jackkraken3888
    @jackkraken3888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    33:45 Destiny:'I have zero regard for family ties. I don't care about my siblings and shit. I feel some obligation to my parents because they spent money raising me or what not. ...Family ties mean nothing to me.. "

  • @MrJeo29
    @MrJeo29 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have THE BEST ethical theories
    Nice one liner

  • @amaechichioma6215
    @amaechichioma6215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think everyone would struggle with objective empathy. Even when we do, we usually empathize with people along our own personal values. If I saw a person drowning in the river, my first instinct may be to save them because I value life. What is this person does not value his life and wanted to kill himself? Because of my bias, I would think there was something wrong with him that required 'curing'. We usually make assumptions based on our unique positions. It's the only thing we can go by. And that's why we struggle with concepts like euthanasia or suicide.

  • @xenom23
    @xenom23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    you know when someone brings in Kant , its getting serious

  • @coolioikke
    @coolioikke 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i would argue that for the "button that extends your life for 10 mins but kills all life on earth" that it would make me feel bad, and the last 10 minutes would not be enjoyable and at that point im likely on life support or w/e and already suffering and would just want it to end faster.

  • @g0nz0geek
    @g0nz0geek 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm two seasons into GoT and I didn't know that Tyrion kills Tywin :(

  • @wartem
    @wartem 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's able to play a game and debate at the same time?

  • @thisaccountisdead9060
    @thisaccountisdead9060 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know? If I can be bothered. I was going to look at a paper Jordan Peterson contributed on relating to "psychological entropy". In that paper are discussed the roles of the ventro medial prefrontal cortex, dorso lateral prefrontal cortex and cingulate cortex. The ventro medial prefrontal cortex is implicated in social interactions - it is basically an extension of the insula cortex (implicated in "empathy") and the cingulate cortex (emotional regulation). I've just been looking at a paper discussing how damage to the ventro medial prefrontal cortex (vmPFC) can reduce the likely hood of depressive symptoms, while damage to the dorso lateral prefrontal cortex (dlPFC) can increase the likely hood of depressive symptoms. Often the dlPFC gets labelled "the cognitive centre" of the prefrontal cortex, while the vmPFC gets labelled "the emotional centre" of the prefrontal cortex. I've also seen evidence that hypnosis can be used to manipulate the dlPFC (which is newest part of the human brain in evolutionary terms) in reducing people's perception of pain. The vmPFC typically reduces in activity during hypnosis, which enables the dlPFC to exert more control of parts of the brain that are involved in pain perception such as the cingulate cortex and the motor sensory cortex. If I can be f*cked I might type something up and email it to you perhaps I don't know? - I think a lot of people may blow their shit, but you seem relatively impartial and open minded. I don't want to upset anybody (particularly as I am not a professional in this area).

  • @patriciaholmes3779
    @patriciaholmes3779 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perhaps the only will that exists is the will to live

  • @ugh_dad
    @ugh_dad 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    A self-interested reason for caring for the suffering of others: The more people are suffering the worse their decision making is, suffering pushes them further down the hierarchy of needs so their intellection favors base goals over higher goals like wanting to remove scary members of society instead of thinking about improving economic outcomes. Additionally, they are also less likely to add value with their labor & more likely to reduce productivity and even increase their rates of committing crimes in order to escape their suffering &/or to make others suffer. More people suffering means less intellectualism, less economic output, less value in that output, & higher rates of discord & exceptional events.

  • @godsrevolver9737
    @godsrevolver9737 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Compatibalism has recently been debunked. It's interesting to come back to this afterwards.

  • @EFYletsplays
    @EFYletsplays 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think that Destiny's point about your neighbor believing that you aren't stealing from them is much more important than the facts. He used the negative example of stealing and getting away with it, but as a person who gets his personal high off of showing integrity off this comes to mind often. Not only can't you steal, you have to create the appearance you would never steal from them to make that belief strong.

  • @aprioriontoast704
    @aprioriontoast704 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    who's the guy destiny debating?

  • @gamikhan9087
    @gamikhan9087 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Destiny is saying and agreeing with:
    -I would want my friends to be egoism-utilitarian like me.
    -There is a better version of me destiny v.2 (better for his utilitarian friends)
    -All the friends would ditch him
    -But some friend would appreciate him more???
    In that hypothetical that a friend would preffer destiny v.1 is nonsense, destiny is beeing dishonest and dilusional or lying but that case is more acepptable because he said that he would do that but he also says that people shouldnt be dishonest. Idk going in this rabbit hole feels pretty bad.
    Like that Man with Masters in Neuroscience I dont think he really thinks all what he is saying.
    Really want to see this Man with Masters in Neuroscience again.

    • @Disentropic1
      @Disentropic1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Destiny didn't say any friends would prefer him to Destiny 2.0. He said that in that hypothetical all his friends would go hang out with Destiny 2.0 and he would want them to.

    • @CrestOfArtorias
      @CrestOfArtorias 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He said that IF there is a Destiny 2.0 he would want his "friends" to maximize their experiences even if that meant ditching him.

    • @gamikhan9087
      @gamikhan9087 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Disentropic Exacly like CrestOfArtorias is saying.

    • @tfburns
      @tfburns 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Glad you enjoyed this discussion :) I hope to come back again soon

    • @Jaryism
      @Jaryism 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Disentropic But I also feel Destiny's just being disingenuous, because as someone who's watched him back since his SC2 days with Minigun, seen him joking with Lilypichi and joking with Kyle, I disagree with this whole pretend "persona" that he's projecting to us here... I just don't believe him. He'd be incredibly hurt if a long time Kyle just abandoned him for a person who's a better friend similar to him, this whole bullshti like "Destiny would want the friend to be with a Destiny2.0" I just don't believe that, knowing that he does having feelings and is emotional (and his need for attention and self indulgence, he most certainly not feel happy for them).

  • @somniumsogni
    @somniumsogni 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    did this guy ever come back?

  • @ConceptHut
    @ConceptHut 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The principle that dont ever lie even for a justification dies when examining if you should not kill the person trying to kill you. Because self defense is a valid justification

  • @LtDeadeye
    @LtDeadeye 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just remember this video the next time Destiny complains and proclaims somebody who is unrelated to him is lying or spreading untruths about other people who are also unrelated to him and have no apparent foreseeable effect on him.
    Also, On Dualism.
    You are aware of your thoughts but you aren't aware of your brain state. If you can be aware of your thoughts and not be aware of your brain states then your thoughts and your brain state isn't identical.
    The self is what you are aware of when you introspect. The self that we are aware of isn't identical to something physical. If a is identical to b that means what ever is true of a is true to b. If you can find one thing that's true of one that's not true of the other then they're not the same. The same is true even if the two are always correlated. Fire and smoke always go together but they're not the same hence Correlation doesn't equal identity. Like the fire which causes the smoke, so is the electrical stimulation that causes the memory. Also, there's a difference between a state and that which possesses a state such as water possessing the state of being solid, liquid or gas.
    We have what are called mirror neurons. A mirror neuron fires when we perform an action such as drinking a cup of coffee. Those same neurons fire if I observe someone else drinking a cup of coffee.
    1. Those mirror neurons are responsible for allowing us to express altruistic empathy. If those neurons are damaged, we cannot express empathy. The belief that the feeling of empathy is identical to the firing of those neurons is the physicalist point of view.
    2. The property dualist says the firing of neurons causes the feeling of empathy in the brain. The feeling is a non physical state but is caused by a non physical state. If the physical state doesn't work, it doesn't cause the mental state of empathy. Property dualism is a bottom up, along for the ride, point of view.
    3. Substance dualism says that if your mirror neurons don't work, then the mind that depends on the neurons working just as it depends on your eyes to see can't be expressed properly. The soul and the brain are different!
    The science is consistent with all three claims, not just one claim.
    That said, a thought is a mental state, not a brain state, that can be true or false. There's no state of my brain that can be true or false.
    Also, thoughts don't have geometrical properties such as size and shape and they're not located anywhere such as closer to my right ear than my left ear. The brain state can be observed and can be projected to a computer screen but a thought is a first person private perspective which must be revealed despite the computer projections.
    The brain also depends on the mind. It has been observed that upon introspection, changing your negative thoughts to positive thoughts. The content of your thoughts form new neuro-pathways in your brain. This has been observed on scans. A body without a mind is called a corpse!
    I am not a slave to my body and I can rise above it. If I was my brain, I'd be a passive bystander.
    The brain state of sensation such as pain can't be described as true or false but can be described as accurate or inaccurate. The brain state of thought can be described as true or false. Ideas can be confused or unclear but a neuron isn't. An idea isn't spacially located. A belief is a brain state in which is something I take to be true somewhere between 51% and 100%.
    A belief is not a sensation because beliefs can be true or false but sensations can't and a belief isn't a thought because you can have a thought you don't believe and you have beliefs you aren't thinking about.
    A desire is the fourth kind of state of consciousness. A desire is a felt inclinations towards or away from something. You might desire ice cream which is a felt inclination towards ice cream. Desires can neither be true nor false but they can be appropriate or inappropriate.
    Free will is the final kind of mental state. Free will is a purposing or intending to do something. An exercise of free will is to bring something about. It can be exercised without bodily cooperation. You can change your thoughts but not your beliefs.
    If it were so that no life existed in the universe, those states of consciousness would not exist! Consciousness is not physical! An electrical activity in my left hemisphere might have dimension but my thoughts don't have geometrical properties. My thoughts can be true or false but my brain states, electrical activity, cannot be true or false because it makes no sense to say that they are.

  • @watcheem
    @watcheem 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    awww looks like he got a new friend :)