One or two of your videos helped me to begin traveling after my wife died. I remember you walking around a city in France and then walking around Santa Margherita Ligure, and the vulnerability you showed, combined with a sense of bravery, on the streets in your walk, helped me to develop a style of travel that includes those elements. Thanks, Laura.
Thank you for sharing that. I'm so glad to hear that my videos could help during such a difficult time and that you have had some fun adventures yourself!
Literally I had a similar experience, just moved back after 7 years from being abroad! Community was key for me, I opted out for a smaller town in the Midwest due to cost of living, friendlier smiles and just wanted a easier assimilation. I'm re learning the USA norms again also, keep visiting other places and don't shut out the small towns. I have never been happier! Good luck!! South Dakota, Iowa and Minnesota are really good places with walkable downtowns and active communities also!
Hi Laura. At 67 and recently retired (after working for 52 years), I am seriously contemplating moving overseas soon. I thank you for your videos, they are an inspiration for my future in Thailand. 🙏 Wish you the best!
oo Thailand is a wonderful place, I'm sure it will be a great place to retire! Thanks for your kind message and I'll keep the travel videos coming for sure!
I lived in Mexico for 8 years and came back when Covid hit. I am still trying recover from the massive changes American society and culture have gone through since I left. Good luck!
I really appreciate your taking the time to give us a personal update. I know you don't know us but as we watch you over the years we feel like we get to know you and as odd as it sounds you feel like a friend. As we watch we root for you and hope you're enjoying your life because we're enjoying being along for the ride. Your videos have always been so chill and non hyped. Explore the northwest. There's a lot to like about it. You're living your life how it unfolds for you. For me at least I watch in part for the travel information but also to see how someone can live life differently than I have/do. Keep doing you. Thanks for bringing us along.
My husband and I returned to the US in 2009 after 9 years working and living in multiple African countries. For that whole time, our African lives defined who we were to ourselves and others and we had no intentions of ever going back to the US. But life happened and we did return - it took awhile to get our bearings and find our new “tribe”who understood and accepted us since our life experiences were so different. And to figure out that we were more than just our preconceived notion of ourselves. But oh boy, the culture shock! It was much harder to move to Boston in the winter after 9 years on the equator than to move to Cairo at the start of our journey! And yet,no regrets- particularly the time we were able to spend with family and life long friends at truly meaningful points in all of our lives. And,when we were ready to move out of the US again, we did not hesitate - no fear of the unknown - just excitement! Thanks for all of your great videos, particularly in Mexico - our new homebase!
oh gosh, I can't imagine the shock of returning to a Boston winter after so much time in the sunshine! I spent 3 of my college years there and it was brutal! Thank you for your kind words and for sharing some of your story as well. It's always nice to hear that others have had similar experiences and what it was like for you coming out the other end of a break back in the US. Hope you are enjoying life in Mexico!
Hi Laura - After watching your video I felt sad about the anxiety and stress you've been experiencing since you moved back to the US last November because you felt like you failed or that you were going to disappoint your subscribers. You are such a special young woman and what you and Luke have been doing for the past 13 years takes so much courage and an adventurous spirit...you've done and experienced more than most of us will in a lifetime. You've taken us to places we never knew existed or ever thought was possible. You've quelled our fears of traveling to foreign lands. To hear you share all of the challenges you've encountered and how being back in the States where you can take a mental break and experience ease when interacting with others was surprising and eye-opening...you speak the Spanish language so beautifully; I was surprised about how much work it has been for you to communicate in languages other than your native language on a daily basis. I hope that you will continue creating content, you're a gifted storyteller with a sweet and calming voice. You make every place you visit sound idyllic and charming, and the best place in the world to be in the moment. After watching your Baja videos, Tim and I purchased your guidebook and visited San Jose del Cabo several times, along with Todos Santos, and La Paz. We recently visited Puerto Vallarta in May, where our youngest son got engaged on the Los Muertos Pier, how romantic....and we're making a return trip to PV in September. Also planning to visit Guadalajara/Tlaquepaque, just trying to figure out where me might want to land in retirement next year. I just want to encourage you that your videos have been so valuable to us and have given us the confidence to step out of our comfort zone...BTW, also hoping to do the train trip through Copper Canyon. In summary, you do you, I pray you find the work-life balance you desire. We love you and will continue to follow your adventures and hope that someday we might cross paths in Mexico. 😎🏖
This is such a kind message. Thank you to much for taking the time to share the experiences you've had with my videos. It means so much to hear that they have helped you in some small way. Guadalajara is a wonderful place to visit and to live (if you aren't following @alex-wittman yet on youtube I recommend her videos, she lives there and shares her experiences often). There are still a lot more adventures to go on and plenty of return trips to Mexico and elsewhere and I will absolutely be sharing them all here on TH-cam. Thanks for sticking with me!
Aww... I'm so NOT disappointed in you. Welcome to the PNW. I hope you find your people. Nothing is forever. Everything you stated was well said - and relatable.
I was born in the UK...lived there (Harrow) until 16. Then my family moved to the Seattle area (Fox Island) where I lived for 45 yrs. The weather started becoming an issue for me, so I moved solo to Mexico in 2018 in search of sun. As someone else said...nothing is forever...things change...people change. Good luck in the PNW.
I have always loved your videos. I feel as if I could be sitting or walking with you. As a previous response had said, Your videos are very authentic and not rushed tourist videos. Constantly smiling is not authentic to me. Welcome back !
Being able to communicate is so very important in daily needs. Never ever doubt your needs personal, financial or emotional. Only you know what this feels like. Nobody is promised tomorrow will be there for you so take every road you are comfortable with and live your today !! Laura, honey, I had a small stroke this weekend, called a TIA right back to normal thank god, go where you want, where you can afford, where you can communicate and do not stop being happy girl. Please listen to experience.
You have been an inspiration all these years and I don’t believe anyone would be disappointed in you for changing your pace of life. I lived in Greece for one year, the best year of my life. I would be there today were it not for the struggle to understand and be understood when trying to get around town, just as you described. I chuckled out loud with you, though, when you said you moved here to slow down! Keep doing what gives you joy.
thanks for the raw honesty. I am from California and have lived abroad in different countries most of my adult life. I was in Calif. for the past 10 months and left 2 weeks ago. Currently in France on the upper west coast. Escaping the heat! I didn't have or want a car this last time in small town No. Calif. it is a detriment but I just didn't want to pay out all it takes to have a car there. So I didn't assimilate into community situations....nor did I feel I wanted to. I just couldn't get in the swing of things. Mostly there was this weird endless pressure that I could feel. It went away once I landed in France. The spirit of competition was tiring and family situations, although often heart warming were exhausting as well. I mended some relationships and had a few fall out while I was there. Everything seems to be a big drama. I was so tired the whole time. Already after 2 weeks my head is clearing and I feel so much better. Who knows what comes next...?? once a nomad it is inside the spirit of who we are. Having a home base is wonderful. I am blowing in the wind. I am also 66 and thought I should stop ..alas I cannot nor do I want to. Just another perspective on the reality of a nomad trying to land...especially after the pandemic. I am an artist and a voice coach and the way it worked for me in Europe ended.in 2020. Nothing was the same afterward and I am now re-inventing a way to teach online, paint and be healthy. (starting a youtube channel now ..one of the reasons I watched your video) I think you guys got this! whatever "this" is..... peaceful days*
Thanks for sharing, Laura. This is a very helpful reminder for anyone who is in this position that they'll be ok, and it's just another chapter in their ongoing adventure. I went through the same wave of emotions after I moved back to Canada after living abroad for three years, so I get it. But, you've got a pretty healthy perspective on it, and as you said, you're still gonna travel and have your adventures! I know I was disappointed because I thought moving back was in some way a failure, and that I'd never live abroad again. It was when I finally got over feeling sorry for myself that I realized that just because I moved back, doesn't mean I have to stay, and doesn't mean I stop traveling!
Thanks for making this video Laura. It was great to hear your whole journey so far in context. I like that you are keeping your future plans open-ended. It’s an approach I need to embrace in my own life! And also, it’s awesome that you’ve gone through this journey with a partner whom you can share these experiences with. As a solo traveler, I envy that! It would be interesting to hear you expand more on the sacrifices you’ve had to make in order to adjust to life in Seattle. Looking forward to seeing more videos like this from you in the future.
I'm so happy I came across this video; the past few years I had pondered the idea of moving back to the US after living abroad since 2011 too! After much consideration, I concluded it was time. And you said something I tell everyone else; I don't know how to be an adult in America. I left when I was 18, and basically became an adult here. I became a part of a completely different language and culture, and learned how the country 'functions' along with everything bureaucratic. Though life here is amazing and I'm proud of myself of all I've accomplished solo, I feel like its time to go back..I'm very nervous trying to find people to relate to, depending on a car, going back to a very hardcore work culture. Though I am nervous, my instincts tell me to go. I just hope it all works out.
As a UK expat living in America, I feel all the feelings you expressed so well in this video. We first ‘met’ you learning how to plan our trip to Lithuania for a wedding that never happened. Now we are plotting a Spanish Adventure along with your experiences. What you do is valuable, and will continue to be so where ever you are. And that authenticity you seek DOES live on in America, just maybe not where you are just yet. The frugal but thriving happiness where artisanship matters, might be hidden from your view, but it’s out there! Pivot, dear Laura, pivot and find your base again, because you have something truly special that can’t help but thrive.
Most interesting! I met you on yt when moving from Europe to Mexico, loved your insights learning more about my new home country 😊 I disconnected after your move to Europe I wasn’t interested anymore. After my first three years now in Mexico I find it most interesting thanks to the yt algorithm learning about your coming back to the US especially to the PNW. Will subscribe again 😉 Good luck to you for now 🍀
As a Lithuanian person looking to move abroad, I could really relate to the portion of the video where you spoke about why you left this country. It is beautiful and peaceful, but there comes a point where that peace almost becomes isolating. The people are kind, yes, but they're also pretty reclusive, they're not quick to trust a stranger or to form new friendships. The opportunities here are limited as well, most industries are small and underdeveloped, and the cold season is *absolutely* brutal even if you're used to it and love the cold (like I do). It's a tough country to be in when you're looking for connections and experiences, and that's exactly why I'm looking to get out too.
For myself, I have been living outside the US for almost a year and I have no intention of going back. I think when you move from your home country with the original intent of settling someplace else, things will feel different then going someplace and just seeing how it goes. Really getting to know the culture, the language and the bureaucracy is a commitment and you gotta kinda know that's what you are getting into from the onset - I think it makes it easier to persevere. I am all for trying different countries to see what you like, but at some point you just gotta pick one and give yourself some time to breathe and adjust. You can always change your mind later, but it is the intent to stay somewhere that makes all the difference. When you choose to stay, you make different kinds of connections and friend groups as well. I can understand the thought of feeling like you gave up or disappointing people by going back to your home country, but you are an adult, and you can go where you want for however long you want. LOL
Life is a journey, and yours has certainly been one thus far. I love following what you are getting up to, and will continue to do so. It’s okay to have a home port to plan adventures from. ❤
I empathize with everything you’re saying, as we retired to Mexico 6 years ago and have similar thoughts, experiences, and challenges, particularly with respect to ever returning to the USA. It seems you’re handling it well, but I wish you well.
You are one reasons my wife and move to Mexico for 16 months. We lived in Mexico City for one year and four months in Puebla. We are now back in Texas. Thanks for sharing your life with us. God bless your new season.
Laura, I love this video. You focused on telling us about what makes you comfortable with your life as a travel journalist. You have learned what is important to you and how your traveling and living outside your home country has helped you define your future. I am actually surprised that you did not return to Mexico where I first met you. I like you have developed a love and appreciation for other cultures. My favorite places are Ireland, Sicilia, and Mexico. I look forward to you writing about and comparing your experiences of the US and the other places you have lived.
Hello, thank you for your candid thoughts about the USA and moving back there after so many years abroad. I got onto your channel because of your Lithuania clips. I'll be going to Klaipeda on my way to Riga soon, so the observations and tips for the Curonian Spit are particularly helpful. Your thoughts about the USA and moving back are especially poignant to me; I have considered moving back but come up against some of exactly the same obstacles you describe: health care, absolute need for a car, an atmosphere of optimizing/monetizing. These points you have expounded well. Good luck in Seattle!
Laura you rock! My wife and I have watched your channel for a few years now and love all your content. Were are so happy Luke and you are in a happy place. Thank you for all invaluable content
It's been fun and helpful watching and listening to you over the past several years as I researched where I'm going to land. You have a wonderful way about you. I respect your bravery and significant accomplishments. Grateful for you Laura 😊🤗
Glad to see you! I started watching you when you were in San Jose Del Cabo - I've been there and in the West Coast of Canada for the summer. The San Juan Islands, and Vancouver Island are gorgeous!! Esp. in the summer!! So stunning!! I hope you have fun exploring new spaces. I so get just wanting some ease for a while!
Best of luck with the move Laura, I can imagine it wasn't an easy decision and you were right to take time to share the news. I hope you find the work-life balance that's best for you. Enjoy the rest of your summer 🏝️
Still getting readjusted to living in the US again after (only) 4 years abroad and especially little Lithuania, but I can't emphasize enough the relief of the "comfort" of not having the daily struggle of not just existing but JUSTIFYING your existence in a place you're not from.
Two questions. 1. How in the world could you save money with what must be a low paying job like teaching English? It’s not like you were working in investment banking. 2. You must have family money, right? Writing and soccer coaching sounds like airhead fantasies of the privileged class.
Thank you for this video Laura 🙂 I think people in Australia are optimising/monetising absolutely everything too - and it's because of the hustle to stay afloat with the rising cost of living. No one can slow down or they'll sink. It's a bummer! Also, as a person who has lived abroad in multiple countries and who is 38 and currently plotting her next adventure - I learned to never make bold statements like "I'm never coming home" because inevitably I change my mind as I grow and experience things. These days I caveat *literally everything* with "but, I might change my mind so we'll see" haha. This way no one can be surprised/upset/let down by decisions. I really enjoyed hearing your summary of where you've lived and why. I understand so much the convenience of being back in your own country - there's nothing like it! I loved Seattle! If you haven't already - you should get the ferry to Vancouver Island and drive to Tofino. It's a gorgeous drive! And a popular place to try surfing 💜
haha I like that caveat! I sometimes surprise myself with how much I can change my mind, but I'm learning to accept my own growth and find what is best in each given stage of life. Right now, that's being here and I'm happy with that (for now, haha). Getting the ferry to Vancouver Island is definitely high on the priority list!
You're terrific, Laura. I especially loved your guys' videos on Baja. Thanks for this more personal one. I'll be looking forward to whatever comes next.
Much respect ✊🏽 to the reentry process 🇺🇸 and all that comes with it. Both of is have done it a few times now and know the struggle. Thanks for the sharing so authentically 🙏 If you make a trip to Denver, we’ll be happy to help out 💯
I've been following you since Mexico and here I am 2 years living in Cabo San Lucas! Ironically moved here from the Pacific Northwest! Keep doing you! I enjoyed hearing more about you!
Hello Ms. Bronner, my wife and I found your channel while searching for info on our plan to do a little traveling in Europe. We did that last summer (June/July 2023), thanks to many of your videos that we found sooo helpful and informative. We hit Barcelona, Nice, Naples, Rome, Malta and a few other wonderful cities. I absolutely love this video, and really enjoyed having a chance to hear this side of your story and I look forward to your future content, and watching where life takes you guys. Have you ever thought about narrating audio books?
Laura, this was a really cool video - I’ve learned so much about travel, and about the joy of experiencing other cultures through travel from so many great channels. But yours always have a deeply personal connection and feel to them, that is hard to articulate - and the vulnerability, and reality of this one really resonated. I think I found your videos either prepping for Spain, or Todos Santos, I can’t recall which first - but have enjoyed very much how you display the ups and downs of travel, and of a place, and how it uniquely connects to culture. I’m now in SoCal, by way the Pacific Northwest, and there are indeed some travel experiences throughout the west coast that would make amazing stories and landscapes to highlight. California alone is a bounty almost unmatched. Will continue to try and see as much of the world as possible, and look forward to continuing to be inspired by your travels and stories wherever they may come from, or take place!
Hi Laura! Its Charlene from Baltic World. So great to hear you’re doing well. I can so relate just spending one year being entirely nomadic. It was incredibly fun, had so much growth, but logistically challenging. But it’s great you’re able to spend some time in the US and in a more familiar environment. Can’t wait to see what’s next for you
I especially miss your reports from Mexico. The one about the lobster tacos is my favorite. I actually went there because of your videos and your book!
thank you for this video. we found you while looking for Bergamo info. Now that you're in the PNW, I think about Rick Steves since he's in that area. We've been watching his videos for european travel as well for many many years. Laura Bronner and Rick Steve's mashup would be cool to see. Anyhow, you're inspiring us to keep travelling in Europe, and eventually make a permanent move abroad as well. Thank you for this heartfelt talk.
Been watching your videos for a while starting from when you were in Mexico. I bought your travel book and took a 2 month trip through Mexico and Latin America partly inspired by your videos others. We all change and I just wanted to commend you for your courage in sharing your life online which opens you up to all the praise and criticism. I’m from the US and although I haven’t lived overseas for as long as you have I understand how you feel with returning to the US. Looking forward to what the future holds for you and your business. It takes a lot of strength to make all the changes you and your partner have made. I think it shows you follow your heart and when you do that, there is no wrong choice. But I think you already know that.
Laura, Thank you for the video and your experiences traveling. I visited many places and more than once in the US and abroad. I understand and feel some of the things you do. I am from Tampa Bay..and live in SW Mexico...and also like the nice living and the well located airports. For your viewers...Mexico City and Bogota are hard to beat !
Always look forward to your videos and been following since your days in CDMX. I’ve watched many of your videos and I feel this is your best to date… motivating me to explore your earlier ones and your other websites. Thanks for the insight.
6 continents here solo traveler for many years and no way I would travel again unless absolutely necessary. I just got back from Mexico on a quick inevitable business trip and grateful I traveled in a group. I don’t recommend solo traveling to anyone. Biggest lie I was ever sold that traveling is empowering and freeing. What’s important is commitment to a solid community.
Great to hear your story. Thanks for sharing. I've been living in Bangkok, Thailand since July 2014. Funny how this month is exactly my 10 years abroad. I've been debating a move back home to Maryland/Washington DC as well. In the end, despite the crazy cost of living, the US is still the land of economic prosperity. The goal is to be financially independent, then hopefully I'll retire in Thailand indefinitely.
I’ve spent my adult life working on houses, investing and doing real estate here in my small town in Oklahoma. I’m 42 and pretty established, but gosh, can I relate to this video! I’ve only watched 2 of yours, but I’m glad I saw this one. I feel so lonely a lot, even though I know a ton of people in my town and have a lot of friends. Everyone is busy working everyday, no one can take time off and travel, and no one wants to go to fun interesting things with me. I feel pretty isolated honestly. All anyone does here is work! Life is WAY too short for that. I’ve been wanting to get a place in Mexico to redo and have a place there that I own and can afford so I can get away. I also disdain the healthcare system here and all the poison food. I’d love to go to Spain!
I have seen so many YT'ers say, 'I left the US and will NEVER return because of so and so', 'how/why my life is better in 'x' country and I will never return to the US', and so many more. When I hear such things, I for one, always hoped they would never return to the US. But the reality is, when things go bad in the country they are currently living in or things are not going well for them, or they've encountered many challenges and bad experiences in those countries they say they love, where do they run to ? Back here in the USA. No apologies for harsh words they said. No admitting they made a mistake. Instead, they give just another excuse as to why they decided to return. The US is not perfect. No country is! We have a lot of issues that need to be fixed but so do a lot of countries. But at the end of the day, despite the challenges we are faced with in the USA, there is no other place I would call home.
I truly appreciate this! 🙏 I'm currently living in Germany and have a yearning to return to the states. I've always wanted to return to Europe, but after living here, i keep wanting to find a US state comparable to the green rolling hills, green outdoors, all 4 seasons, and not far from a decent metropolitan. I feel bad for wanting to go back to the US because i wanted to come to Europe for so long. Nobody i speak to here makes it easier as they claim safety and quality of life that keeps them in Germany. However, i know that US is home. The bad part is that it's so far away from Europe.
Interesting to hear your story. Thanks for sharing. As a fellow Washingtonian and someone who plans to retire to Thailand, it is always good to hear other people's stories.
Your travel videos are amazing -- have been watching you since 2020 -- and it's exciting to explore this new chapter of your life with you! I must say that anyone can "do a travel vlog," you, however, have such an great personality and an compelling point of view, and that's why here. So, no matter where you are or what you do, I just know that it will be fabulous. I can't wait to watch it all unfold!!!
Hi Laura we both retired and looking to our next move. We learn a lot with your video and all the videos we saw from you. We hope you the best and thanks for this inspirational video. Enjoy every moment of your live and best luck to both of you.
Hi Laura. Just watched your returning home video. It's interesting when you discuss the US it feels like you are a foreigner visiting another unfamiliar country which is largely true as you've been away so long. I was thinking when you described (for instance) obtaining healthcare in Seattle or the emphasis on being productive all the time, that these are things we have to deal with and take for granted every day, but they're all a new learning experience for you. And I guess I look at those issues with new eyes when I hear about it from someone who isn't a foreigner, but who is an American who has to relearn their own land. I think in a way that can give you a very compelling but also a familiar take on America which is sort of refreshing. I think it would be an interesting angle to approach future US travel videos. Very few American's have done what you have in your life. Even though it was an exciting and rewarding adventure for you, it takes guts to just plant yourself in another country and adapt to a strange culture and different languages so far from your roots. I've enjoyed many of your videos through the years and you have given me a lot of useful and interesting information for which I thank you. I wish you happiness and success in whatever and wherever your plans take you.
Welcome back. I can only imagine how difficult it was to make that bittersweet decision to return to the US. If y'all need friends or accomodations in CO, I encourage reach out. I'd be happy to help however I am able.
I heard of this term called re-pat for folks like us returning back to our home countries after living abroad for years. I stayed gone for 7 years. Just got back last year to Texas. It sucks that the visa options are so limiting many places that I want to live longterm. Ive been in Mexico 4 years and my temp residency visa expires October so I need to get back to get my permanent residency. Things are changing for foreigners in Mexico due to the currency strength, costs are way higher, locals are frustrated, the bureaucracy is stressful, plus weather issues like droughts and extreme heat. So Im not sure where to go anymore.
There is a difference between slow travel and “living abroad”. With slow travel, you will never feel grounded in a place. Going “home” will always be on the back of your mind. I left the USA eight years ago. I haven’t even visited. I have only lived in two places since I left, five of which have been here in Poland. I can’t even fathom going back to the USA
Your comments about "everything has to be productive" etc., is so true. Things need to be optimized as you say, even our "fun" activities there is a culture of taking them to the highest level. I think throughout Canada and the US there is this idea that bigger houses, bigger vehicles, bigger stuff is important. This is part of our culture that I have difficulty with over time and difficulty connecting people also. The other thing that I witness is the badge of being busy. "How are you doing".. "I am SO busy" It a form of validation in this culture, which I think is sad and why I want to travel more. Anyways, I watch your videos and others as I am getting more ideas for my own travel and places to seek experiences - even if just for several weeks here and there. Thank you and hope all goes well on the west coast in this next phase of your journey.
Thank you so much for your story! I resonated with your questioning optimization and how pervasive it is in the U.S. particularly. I romanticize small towns in Europe for just that reason. I want slower, quieter, intentionally connected to nature and community and ironically, the constant search for these things has distracted me from finding them right where I am. The cost of living here in the U.S. is ridiculous which also makes me choose between family and friends and a lifestyle I can afford. So many of us are trying to figure it all out, you are not alone. I look forward to seeing where life takes you.
I share your struggle and know exactly what you mean about adjusting. I returned from Ecuador in 2019 after living there for two years. It is still a challenge.
I loved your videos from Mexico. You seemed so at ease there. You seemed like you would soon like many other Americans and Europeans permanently move to Mexico. Good luck in cold Seattle.
Laura thank you so much for sharing it is so much appreciated by me for sure. I so much appreciate not only your travel videos but also you and Luke as people who have real hearts, desires, dreams, likes, dislikes frustrations etc . I also love to travel but with my vocation and physical challenges creates additional challenges as well as realizational expectations. Not sure if you know but after spending 25 years in the insurance/legal field I studied to be a Pastor in the Lutheran Church of the Missouri Synod having studied at Concordia Seminary St Louis Missouri. This is something that I have always wanted to do even as a small boy but I always wanted to work for a major US Airline for which I did. Anyway my dear I would. For whatever it's worth I almost became a flight attendant for TWA before they disappeared lol. Anyway you might want to consider Arizona as another place to hang you guys hats as it's less expensive than Seattle. I am going to share with you a video on you tube entitled Eating Dirt to avoid hunger. I will share it for you as to what I was doing in Honduras for which the ABC News channel in Tucson Arizona interviewed me. Anyway Laura thank you so much for sharing and I am honored to be one of your top viewers. Blessings to you in abundance. Ron
Seattle is beautiful, I used to live in that area, but would not choose to go back to Seattle. Maybe Whidbey Island, maybe east of the mountains, but not Puget Sound City. Winters there were hard for me when I lived there. The first two or three winters were okay, but after that I got to where the dark and cold and damp just lasted too long. Sorry to sound discouraging about the area. I still have friends there who LIKE living there, so I know it can be done. And enjoy the beautiful sunny summer days. The mountains east of Seattle are the most sublime, most beautiful in all of the 48 states in my opinion: Glacier Peak Wilderness, Alpine Lakes Wilderness, Mt Baker area are suggested places to start. Good luck with it!
I've been considering moving from the USA to central America due to the rising cost of living here in the USA. Medical and veterinary care has become cost prohibitive. It's scary knowing you could lose everything you've worked your entire life for if you had a heart attack or were diagnosed with cancer. When my dog died two years ago, he had to go to the vet two or three times over the course of a week and was then hospitalized for 3 nights before I had to make the decision to put him to sleep. It cost almost $10,000 and i am not in a big city or expensive part of the country. I'm a creature of habit and the familiarity and modern conveniences are what's keeping me in the USA. Well, that and it's difficult to move two large dogs to another country.
Being a foreigner in a new country and struggling with language and culture is difficult. Expats are brave folks, but coming back home for comfort is nothing to be ashamed of, it's also courageous to prioritize taking good care of yourself, however that works best for you.
I enjoyed hearing about your past. I have always liked the people & lifestyle in Mexico. I've travelled solo down the Washington & Oregon coast...I live on Van Island... equally beautiful nature, mountains & the ocean. You have done lots in your young life so keep doing the same.
The shock was that you moved last November! When interesting job opportunities present themselves, they have to be explored. I was in awe of Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs, CO. I grew up in Chicago - beautiful city, just go before the cold weather hits :). Currently in GDL and loving it here.
Thanks for a great, candid take on your journeys. As a US native, I have travelled every state, some more than others, and lived in pretty much all regions. I am at the other end of the spectrum; I just retired in May, and am planning on moving to France sometime in 2025 or at latest 2026. There are still a few US - and Canadian, perhaps - destinations I want to hit up on this continent, so I am fluid on the timeframe. I spent two weeks in NZ in the early 2000s and loved it. I doubt now I'll get to go to OZ, but a Europe base can get me to a ton of the other places I have not yet been. I wish you both the very best. PNW was my fave place to live, but way too expensive now for my retirement budget.
Oh you moved to Seattle? That's a great choice. It's one of the best cities in the world. We know it and the region quite well as you may notice. Feel free to ask
Hi Laura I’ve followed along on your journey for several years and i was definitely shocked when I saw this video pop up! This first thing that popped up in my head was what do you guys think about the US cell phone service prices?! 😂 that aspect of international travel just blows my mind how you can get a sim in some countries for $10 or less a month and you’re set. Not in the good ol USA. Wishing you and Luke positive vibes, safety and a wonderful times as you spend your days back in USA.
I've lived abroad for 34 years, left Norway for college in the US right after high school and forgot to return. It would be WAY harder to move back to Norway than it was to move here in the first place.
We are impressed! Your honesty is refreshing on this platform. We can relate with being uncomfortable trying to accomplish easy tasks here in Mexico. As much as we love the Main Land around CDMX we intend to stay here in B.C.S. where the people are familiar dealing with Gringos!
Thanks, Mike! I appreciate your comment. I totally understand staying in Baja, not only bc it's more comfortable, but it's also so beautiful. CDMX and the central region is a short flight away and will be there for you to explore, but Baja is such a wonderful place to call home. I also made it to Señor Moose on your recommendation, the tacos were SO good, for sure some of the best I've had in Seattle so far, thanks for the rec!
Reality is no place is perfect. Where you are at the time is the right place at the time. I never thought I’d move back to Australia from Spain but life happened and I did. But the future who knows… certainly would move back in a future stage of my (and my family’s) life or maybe somewhere else (Mexico or Peru are on the list too).
Moving back to the US this fall after 4 years in Mexico and I dread moving back due to many reasons BUT my first grandchild is making her appearance in January and I can't miss that❤
Hello Laura. I joined you when you were in Mexico. It seemed like you very happy there. I hope Luke landed a good job in Seattle too. Good luck and thanks for all the videos.
Nothing to be disappointed about Laura. We had the pleasure of living in Joburg for 3 years, and despite the increased dangers versus England, we still consider that period as defining in our lives, even though we have been back in England for over 20 years. However we had the luxury of being in an English speaking country, so I have total admiration for you both in moving to a country that doesn’t. I think you both fully deserve to hopefully, have it a bit easier for a while. Also, from you travel blog, can I also suggest you look north, as we thought Vancouver is one of the best cities we have ever visited. I would love to see you cover it, perhaps combined with going by train rather than flying? Also Vancouver Island, Banff, whistler, Jasper, and our unexpected favourite Kelowna would make great locations for you. Finally, I also wanted to say thanks for your previous videos. We just took 3 months off, where we included both Andalusia and the Italian Riviera in our trip, and so your reviews were fantastic.
Hi Laura: Welcome back home! I always enjoyed your videos, particularly your videos from Lithuania, where I plan to go next month. Who in the hell can spell or even pronounce Siauliai? You gave me an idea of what to expect, the lay of the land, etc., and for that I am grateful. You've not disappointed anyone, quite to the contrary, all of the responses below are nothing but positive for you. We are given one true home, and there is nothing at all wrong with that, in fact that's the way it ought to be. Wish you the best of luck moving forward! Aciu!
It would have been much better for you to have lived in Vilnius or Kaunas instead of the smaller cities in Lithuania. Vilnius in the winter is a very busy place in the winter. Lots to do!
Damn, you are brave. I appreciate your honesty and candor and vulnerability. I'm an estadounidense living in CDMX since 2021 and lived in Medellín for two years before the pandemic. I've been fortunate to travel around the world, and I love my life abroad. I'm back in the US frequently to see friends and family and for business. And every time I go back I always think, "How is everything here be so easy and simultaneously so gd hard?" Communicating effortlessly is a delight, and Trader Joe's is often a first stop. But the grind is so exhausting. Even striving for "work-life balance" seems like a project to figure out and solve and dominate with a SWOT analysis and Gantt chart. Wishing you all the best in your new adventure. And consider checking out Internations to find like-minded folks. I participate frequently here in Mexico and love popping into events in US cities to connect with my global peeps. Un abrazote.
I wonder if traveling alone, safety, is a matter of perspective and reporting. It seems that when I travel, don't know the language as well, I am not tuned into the news channels as much as I am when I am in the US. So, in a way, not knowing what the true safety of a place is - gives you the feeling of safety. It's like quieting the noise that constant news can give you. Even so, building the life you want is all about taking risk. Thanks for sharing your story.
One or two of your videos helped me to begin traveling after my wife died. I remember you walking around a city in France and then walking around Santa Margherita Ligure, and the vulnerability you showed, combined with a sense of bravery, on the streets in your walk, helped me to develop a style of travel that includes those elements. Thanks, Laura.
Thank you for sharing that. I'm so glad to hear that my videos could help during such a difficult time and that you have had some fun adventures yourself!
Literally I had a similar experience, just moved back after 7 years from being abroad! Community was key for me, I opted out for a smaller town in the Midwest due to cost of living, friendlier smiles and just wanted a easier assimilation. I'm re learning the USA norms again also, keep visiting other places and don't shut out the small towns. I have never been happier! Good luck!! South Dakota, Iowa and Minnesota are really good places with walkable downtowns and active communities also!
You'll love MN winters.
Hi Laura. At 67 and recently retired (after working for 52 years), I am seriously contemplating moving overseas soon. I thank you for your videos, they are an inspiration for my future in Thailand. 🙏 Wish you the best!
oo Thailand is a wonderful place, I'm sure it will be a great place to retire! Thanks for your kind message and I'll keep the travel videos coming for sure!
This is amazing good for you
I lived in Mexico for 8 years and came back when Covid hit. I am still trying recover from the massive changes American society and culture have gone through since I left. Good luck!
F'n Trump destroyed America. MAGAts everywhere
I really appreciate your taking the time to give us a personal update. I know you don't know us but as we watch you over the years we feel like we get to know you and as odd as it sounds you feel like a friend. As we watch we root for you and hope you're enjoying your life because we're enjoying being along for the ride. Your videos have always been so chill and non hyped. Explore the northwest. There's a lot to like about it. You're living your life how it unfolds for you. For me at least I watch in part for the travel information but also to see how someone can live life differently than I have/do. Keep doing you. Thanks for bringing us along.
My husband and I returned to the US in 2009 after 9 years working and living in multiple African countries. For that whole time, our African lives defined who we were to ourselves and others and we had no intentions of ever going back to the US. But life happened and we did return - it took awhile to get our bearings and find our new “tribe”who understood and accepted us since our life experiences were so different. And to figure out that we were more than just our preconceived notion of ourselves. But oh boy, the culture shock! It was much harder to move to Boston in the winter after 9 years on the equator than to move to Cairo at the start of our journey! And yet,no regrets- particularly the time we were able to spend with family and life long friends at truly meaningful points in all of our lives. And,when we were ready to move out of the US again, we did not hesitate - no fear of the unknown - just excitement! Thanks for all of your great videos, particularly in Mexico - our new homebase!
oh gosh, I can't imagine the shock of returning to a Boston winter after so much time in the sunshine! I spent 3 of my college years there and it was brutal! Thank you for your kind words and for sharing some of your story as well. It's always nice to hear that others have had similar experiences and what it was like for you coming out the other end of a break back in the US. Hope you are enjoying life in Mexico!
I loved this more personal video! Thanks so much for sharing it, Laura!
Thank you so much! I 'm so glad you enjoyed this style of video!
Hi Laura - After watching your video I felt sad about the anxiety and stress you've been experiencing since you moved back to the US last November because you felt like you failed or that you were going to disappoint your subscribers. You are such a special young woman and what you and Luke have been doing for the past 13 years takes so much courage and an adventurous spirit...you've done and experienced more than most of us will in a lifetime. You've taken us to places we never knew existed or ever thought was possible. You've quelled our fears of traveling to foreign lands. To hear you share all of the challenges you've encountered and how being back in the States where you can take a mental break and experience ease when interacting with others was surprising and eye-opening...you speak the Spanish language so beautifully; I was surprised about how much work it has been for you to communicate in languages other than your native language on a daily basis. I hope that you will continue creating content, you're a gifted storyteller with a sweet and calming voice. You make every place you visit sound idyllic and charming, and the best place in the world to be in the moment. After watching your Baja videos, Tim and I purchased your guidebook and visited San Jose del Cabo several times, along with Todos Santos, and La Paz. We recently visited Puerto Vallarta in May, where our youngest son got engaged on the Los Muertos Pier, how romantic....and we're making a return trip to PV in September. Also planning to visit Guadalajara/Tlaquepaque, just trying to figure out where me might want to land in retirement next year. I just want to encourage you that your videos have been so valuable to us and have given us the confidence to step out of our comfort zone...BTW, also hoping to do the train trip through Copper Canyon. In summary, you do you, I pray you find the work-life balance you desire. We love you and will continue to follow your adventures and hope that someday we might cross paths in Mexico. 😎🏖
This is such a kind message. Thank you to much for taking the time to share the experiences you've had with my videos. It means so much to hear that they have helped you in some small way. Guadalajara is a wonderful place to visit and to live (if you aren't following @alex-wittman yet on youtube I recommend her videos, she lives there and shares her experiences often). There are still a lot more adventures to go on and plenty of return trips to Mexico and elsewhere and I will absolutely be sharing them all here on TH-cam. Thanks for sticking with me!
Aww... I'm so NOT disappointed in you. Welcome to the PNW. I hope you find your people. Nothing is forever. Everything you stated was well said - and relatable.
Thanks so much, Sherry. Thanks for sticking around all these years! I'm so excited to explore more of the PNW, it already feels like an endless list.
I was born in the UK...lived there (Harrow) until 16. Then my family moved to the Seattle area (Fox Island) where I lived for 45 yrs. The weather started becoming an issue for me, so I moved solo to Mexico in 2018 in search of sun. As someone else said...nothing is forever...things change...people change. Good luck in the PNW.
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I enjoy this video, it’s definitely a new chapter for you. Wishing you the very best going forward.
I have always loved your videos. I feel as if I could be sitting or walking with you. As a previous response had said, Your videos are very authentic and not rushed tourist videos. Constantly smiling is not authentic to me. Welcome back !
Thank you so much, it means a lot to me to hear that you feel that way about the videos!
Being able to communicate is so very important in daily needs. Never ever doubt your needs personal, financial or emotional. Only you know what this feels like. Nobody is promised tomorrow will be there for you so take every road you are comfortable with and live your today !! Laura, honey, I had a small stroke this weekend, called a TIA right back to normal thank god, go where you want, where you can afford, where you can communicate and do not stop being happy girl. Please listen to experience.
You have been an inspiration all these years and I don’t believe anyone would be disappointed in you for changing your pace of life. I lived in Greece for one year, the best year of my life. I would be there today were it not for the struggle to understand and be understood when trying to get around town, just as you described. I chuckled out loud with you, though, when you said you moved here to slow down! Keep doing what gives you joy.
thanks for the raw honesty. I am from California and have lived abroad in different countries most of my adult life. I was in Calif. for the past 10 months and left 2 weeks ago. Currently in France on the upper west coast. Escaping the heat! I didn't have or want a car this last time in small town No. Calif. it is a detriment but I just didn't want to pay out all it takes to have a car there. So I didn't assimilate into community situations....nor did I feel I wanted to. I just couldn't get in the swing of things. Mostly there was this weird endless pressure that I could feel. It went away once I landed in France. The spirit of competition was tiring and family situations, although often heart warming were exhausting as well. I mended some relationships and had a few fall out while I was there. Everything seems to be a big drama. I was so tired the whole time. Already after 2 weeks my head is clearing and I feel so much better. Who knows what comes next...?? once a nomad it is inside the spirit of who we are. Having a home base is wonderful. I am blowing in the wind. I am also 66 and thought I should stop ..alas I cannot nor do I want to. Just another perspective on the reality of a nomad trying to land...especially after the pandemic. I am an artist and a voice coach and the way it worked for me in Europe ended.in 2020. Nothing was the same afterward and I am now re-inventing a way to teach online, paint and be healthy. (starting a youtube channel now ..one of the reasons I watched your video) I think you guys got this! whatever "this" is..... peaceful days*
Thanks for sharing, Laura. This is a very helpful reminder for anyone who is in this position that they'll be ok, and it's just another chapter in their ongoing adventure. I went through the same wave of emotions after I moved back to Canada after living abroad for three years, so I get it. But, you've got a pretty healthy perspective on it, and as you said, you're still gonna travel and have your adventures! I know I was disappointed because I thought moving back was in some way a failure, and that I'd never live abroad again. It was when I finally got over feeling sorry for myself that I realized that just because I moved back, doesn't mean I have to stay, and doesn't mean I stop traveling!
Thanks for making this video Laura. It was great to hear your whole journey so far in context. I like that you are keeping your future plans open-ended. It’s an approach I need to embrace in my own life! And also, it’s awesome that you’ve gone through this journey with a partner whom you can share these experiences with. As a solo traveler, I envy that!
It would be interesting to hear you expand more on the sacrifices you’ve had to make in order to adjust to life in Seattle. Looking forward to seeing more videos like this from you in the future.
I'm so happy I came across this video; the past few years I had pondered the idea of moving back to the US after living abroad since 2011 too! After much consideration, I concluded it was time. And you said something I tell everyone else; I don't know how to be an adult in America. I left when I was 18, and basically became an adult here. I became a part of a completely different language and culture, and learned how the country 'functions' along with everything bureaucratic. Though life here is amazing and I'm proud of myself of all I've accomplished solo, I feel like its time to go back..I'm very nervous trying to find people to relate to, depending on a car, going back to a very hardcore work culture. Though I am nervous, my instincts tell me to go. I just hope it all works out.
As a UK expat living in America, I feel all the feelings you expressed so well in this video. We first ‘met’ you learning how to plan our trip to Lithuania for a wedding that never happened. Now we are plotting a Spanish Adventure along with your experiences. What you do is valuable, and will continue to be so where ever you are.
And that authenticity you seek DOES live on in America, just maybe not where you are just yet. The frugal but thriving happiness where artisanship matters, might be hidden from your view, but it’s out there! Pivot, dear Laura, pivot and find your base again, because you have something truly special that can’t help but thrive.
Most interesting! I met you on yt when moving from Europe to Mexico, loved your insights learning more about my new home country 😊 I disconnected after your move to Europe I wasn’t interested anymore. After my first three years now in Mexico I find it most interesting thanks to the yt algorithm learning about your coming back to the US especially to the PNW. Will subscribe again 😉 Good luck to you for now 🍀
As a Lithuanian person looking to move abroad, I could really relate to the portion of the video where you spoke about why you left this country. It is beautiful and peaceful, but there comes a point where that peace almost becomes isolating. The people are kind, yes, but they're also pretty reclusive, they're not quick to trust a stranger or to form new friendships. The opportunities here are limited as well, most industries are small and underdeveloped, and the cold season is *absolutely* brutal even if you're used to it and love the cold (like I do). It's a tough country to be in when you're looking for connections and experiences, and that's exactly why I'm looking to get out too.
Your videos have been so helpful and will continue to be❤- you have to do what is best for you 😊
We've missed you a lot. Thank God you are both well and returned to TH-cam. Welcome back!
For myself, I have been living outside the US for almost a year and I have no intention of going back. I think when you move from your home country with the original intent of settling someplace else, things will feel different then going someplace and just seeing how it goes. Really getting to know the culture, the language and the bureaucracy is a commitment and you gotta kinda know that's what you are getting into from the onset - I think it makes it easier to persevere.
I am all for trying different countries to see what you like, but at some point you just gotta pick one and give yourself some time to breathe and adjust. You can always change your mind later, but it is the intent to stay somewhere that makes all the difference. When you choose to stay, you make different kinds of connections and friend groups as well.
I can understand the thought of feeling like you gave up or disappointing people by going back to your home country, but you are an adult, and you can go where you want for however long you want. LOL
Life is a journey, and yours has certainly been one thus far. I love following what you are getting up to, and will continue to do so. It’s okay to have a home port to plan adventures from. ❤
I empathize with everything you’re saying, as we retired to Mexico 6 years ago and have similar thoughts, experiences, and challenges, particularly with respect to ever returning to the USA. It seems you’re handling it well, but I wish you well.
You are one reasons my wife and move to Mexico for 16 months. We lived in Mexico City for one year and four months in Puebla. We are now back in Texas. Thanks for sharing your life with us. God bless your new season.
Hi Laura, I loved your storytelling video. It was very interesting to hear about your life and travel journey so far. I love your honesty. ❤
Thank you so much, I'm so glad you loved the video!
Laura, I love this video. You focused on telling us about what makes you comfortable with your life as a travel journalist. You have learned what is important to you and how your traveling and living outside your home country has helped you define your future. I am actually surprised that you did not return to Mexico where I first met you. I like you have developed a love and appreciation for other cultures. My favorite places are Ireland, Sicilia, and Mexico. I look forward to you writing about and comparing your experiences of the US and the other places you have lived.
Thank you, Laura! It is a very honest video, all the best and new exciting travels!
Hello, thank you for your candid thoughts about the USA and moving back there after so many years abroad. I got onto your channel because of your Lithuania clips. I'll be going to Klaipeda on my way to Riga soon, so the observations and tips for the Curonian Spit are particularly helpful. Your thoughts about the USA and moving back are especially poignant to me; I have considered moving back but come up against some of exactly the same obstacles you describe: health care, absolute need for a car, an atmosphere of optimizing/monetizing. These points you have expounded well. Good luck in Seattle!
Laura you rock! My wife and I have watched your channel for a few years now and love all your content. Were are so happy Luke and you are in a happy place. Thank you for all invaluable content
It's been fun and helpful watching and listening to you over the past several years as I researched where I'm going to land. You have a wonderful way about you. I respect your bravery and significant accomplishments. Grateful for you Laura 😊🤗
Glad to see you! I started watching you when you were in San Jose Del Cabo - I've been there and in the West Coast of Canada for the summer. The San Juan Islands, and Vancouver Island are gorgeous!! Esp. in the summer!! So stunning!! I hope you have fun exploring new spaces. I so get just wanting some ease for a while!
Best of luck with the move Laura, I can imagine it wasn't an easy decision and you were right to take time to share the news. I hope you find the work-life balance that's best for you. Enjoy the rest of your summer 🏝️
Thanks so much for your kind words! I'm definitely finding that balance more than ever before. Hope you have a nice summer too :)
Still getting readjusted to living in the US again after (only) 4 years abroad and especially little Lithuania, but I can't emphasize enough the relief of the "comfort" of not having the daily struggle of not just existing but JUSTIFYING your existence in a place you're not from.
It is natural to doubt. I wish you the best of luck on your journey and we will continue to follow you!
Two questions. 1. How in the world could you save money with what must be a low paying job like teaching English? It’s not like you were working in investment banking. 2. You must have family money, right? Writing and soccer coaching sounds like airhead fantasies of the privileged class.
Laura, thanks for sharing your experience. I found your discussion validating; you're a great role model.
Thank you for this video Laura 🙂
I think people in Australia are optimising/monetising absolutely everything too - and it's because of the hustle to stay afloat with the rising cost of living. No one can slow down or they'll sink. It's a bummer!
Also, as a person who has lived abroad in multiple countries and who is 38 and currently plotting her next adventure - I learned to never make bold statements like "I'm never coming home" because inevitably I change my mind as I grow and experience things. These days I caveat *literally everything* with "but, I might change my mind so we'll see" haha. This way no one can be surprised/upset/let down by decisions.
I really enjoyed hearing your summary of where you've lived and why. I understand so much the convenience of being back in your own country - there's nothing like it!
I loved Seattle! If you haven't already - you should get the ferry to Vancouver Island and drive to Tofino. It's a gorgeous drive! And a popular place to try surfing 💜
haha I like that caveat! I sometimes surprise myself with how much I can change my mind, but I'm learning to accept my own growth and find what is best in each given stage of life. Right now, that's being here and I'm happy with that (for now, haha). Getting the ferry to Vancouver Island is definitely high on the priority list!
You're terrific, Laura. I especially loved your guys' videos on Baja. Thanks for this more personal one. I'll be looking forward to whatever comes next.
Much respect ✊🏽 to the reentry process 🇺🇸 and all that comes with it. Both of is have done it a few times now and know the struggle. Thanks for the sharing so authentically 🙏 If you make a trip to Denver, we’ll be happy to help out 💯
In my mid 30’s I burnt out on international travel. It was nice to come home to familiar surroundings
I've been following you since Mexico and here I am 2 years living in Cabo San Lucas! Ironically moved here from the Pacific Northwest! Keep doing you! I enjoyed hearing more about you!
Welcome home. The USA is so HUGE! You will not get bored.
Hello Ms. Bronner, my wife and I found your channel while searching for info on our plan to do a little traveling in Europe. We did that last summer (June/July 2023), thanks to many of your videos that we found sooo helpful and informative. We hit Barcelona, Nice, Naples, Rome, Malta and a few other wonderful cities. I absolutely love this video, and really enjoyed having a chance to hear this side of your story and I look forward to your future content, and watching where life takes you guys.
Have you ever thought about narrating audio books?
She does have a great voice!
Laura, this was a really cool video - I’ve learned so much about travel, and about the joy of experiencing other cultures through travel from so many great channels. But yours always have a deeply personal connection and feel to them, that is hard to articulate - and the vulnerability, and reality of this one really resonated. I think I found your videos either prepping for Spain, or Todos Santos, I can’t recall which first - but have enjoyed very much how you display the ups and downs of travel, and of a place, and how it uniquely connects to culture. I’m now in SoCal, by way the Pacific Northwest, and there are indeed some travel experiences throughout the west coast that would make amazing stories and landscapes to highlight. California alone is a bounty almost unmatched. Will continue to try and see as much of the world as possible, and look forward to continuing to be inspired by your travels and stories wherever they may come from, or take place!
Hi Laura! Its Charlene from Baltic World. So great to hear you’re doing well. I can so relate just spending one year being entirely nomadic. It was incredibly fun, had so much growth, but logistically challenging. But it’s great you’re able to spend some time in the US and in a more familiar environment. Can’t wait to see what’s next for you
I especially miss your reports from Mexico. The one about the lobster tacos is my favorite. I actually went there because of your videos and your book!
thank you for this video. we found you while looking for Bergamo info. Now that you're in the PNW, I think about Rick Steves since he's in that area. We've been watching his videos for european travel as well for many many years. Laura Bronner and Rick Steve's mashup would be cool to see. Anyhow, you're inspiring us to keep travelling in Europe, and eventually make a permanent move abroad as well. Thank you for this heartfelt talk.
Nice reflective video. Thanks for catching us up. -Marc
Been watching your videos for a while starting from when you were in Mexico. I bought your travel book and took a 2 month trip through Mexico and Latin America partly inspired by your videos others.
We all change and I just wanted to commend you for your courage in sharing your life online which opens you up to all the praise and criticism. I’m from the US and although I haven’t lived overseas for as long as you have I understand how you feel with returning to the US.
Looking forward to what the future holds for you and your business. It takes a lot of strength to make all the changes you and your partner have made. I think it shows you follow your heart and when you do that, there is no wrong choice. But I think you already know that.
Life as many seasons no apologies.. you were blessed to have those adventures... everyday life can be challenging.....
keep well
Don't be embarrassed about enjoying some comfort. The US is your home. Welcome back.
Laura, Thank you for the video and your experiences traveling. I visited many places and more than once in the US and abroad. I understand and feel some of the things you do. I am from Tampa Bay..and live in SW Mexico...and also like the nice living and the well located airports. For your viewers...Mexico City and Bogota are hard to beat !
Always look forward to your videos and been following since your days in CDMX. I’ve watched many of your videos and I feel this is your best to date… motivating me to explore your earlier ones and your other websites. Thanks for the insight.
Great soulful video. Lots of space over on Vashon to clear your head. You'll be fine. Hang in there.
Thank you so much, I'm glad you could feel the vibe I was trying to create. I still need to make it over to Vashon, hopefully in a few weeks!
6 continents here solo traveler for many years and no way I would travel again unless absolutely necessary. I just got back from Mexico on a quick inevitable business trip and grateful I traveled in a group. I don’t recommend solo traveling to anyone. Biggest lie I was ever sold that traveling is empowering and freeing. What’s important is commitment to a solid community.
Great to hear your story. Thanks for sharing. I've been living in Bangkok, Thailand since July 2014. Funny how this month is exactly my 10 years abroad. I've been debating a move back home to Maryland/Washington DC as well. In the end, despite the crazy cost of living, the US is still the land of economic prosperity. The goal is to be financially independent, then hopefully I'll retire in Thailand indefinitely.
I’ve spent my adult life working on houses, investing and doing real estate here in my small town in Oklahoma. I’m 42 and pretty established, but gosh, can I relate to this video! I’ve only watched 2 of yours, but I’m glad I saw this one. I feel so lonely a lot, even though I know a ton of people in my town and have a lot of friends. Everyone is busy working everyday, no one can take time off and travel, and no one wants to go to fun interesting things with me. I feel pretty isolated honestly. All anyone does here is work! Life is WAY too short for that. I’ve been wanting to get a place in Mexico to redo and have a place there that I own and can afford so I can get away. I also disdain the healthcare system here and all the poison food. I’d love to go to Spain!
I have seen so many YT'ers say, 'I left the US and will NEVER return because of so and so', 'how/why my life is better in 'x' country and I will never return to the US', and so many more. When I hear such things, I for one, always hoped they would never return to the US. But the reality is, when things go bad in the country they are currently living in or things are not going well for them, or they've encountered many challenges and bad experiences in those countries they say they love, where do they run to ? Back here in the USA. No apologies for harsh words they said. No admitting they made a mistake. Instead, they give just another excuse as to why they decided to return. The US is not perfect. No country is! We have a lot of issues that need to be fixed but so do a lot of countries. But at the end of the day, despite the challenges we are faced with in the USA, there is no other place I would call home.
I truly appreciate this! 🙏 I'm currently living in Germany and have a yearning to return to the states. I've always wanted to return to Europe, but after living here, i keep wanting to find a US state comparable to the green rolling hills, green outdoors, all 4 seasons, and not far from a decent metropolitan.
I feel bad for wanting to go back to the US because i wanted to come to Europe for so long. Nobody i speak to here makes it easier as they claim safety and quality of life that keeps them in Germany. However, i know that US is home. The bad part is that it's so far away from Europe.
Love this video. You are an inspiring young woman, with a very happy bright future ❤️
Interesting to hear your story. Thanks for sharing. As a fellow Washingtonian and someone who plans to retire to Thailand, it is always good to hear other people's stories.
Your travel videos are amazing -- have been watching you since 2020 -- and it's exciting to explore this new chapter of your life with you! I must say that anyone can "do a travel vlog," you, however, have such an great personality and an compelling point of view, and that's why here. So, no matter where you are or what you do, I just know that it will be fabulous. I can't wait to watch it all unfold!!!
Lithuania misses you !
Hi Laura we both retired and looking to our next move. We learn a lot with your video and all the videos we saw from you. We hope you the best and thanks for this inspirational video. Enjoy every moment of your live and best luck to both of you.
Hi Laura. Just watched your returning home video. It's interesting when you discuss the US it feels like you are a foreigner visiting another unfamiliar country which is largely true as you've been away so long. I was thinking when you described (for instance) obtaining healthcare in Seattle or the emphasis on being productive all the time, that these are things we have to deal with and take for granted every day, but they're all a new learning experience for you. And I guess I look at those issues with new eyes when I hear about it from someone who isn't a foreigner, but who is an American who has to relearn their own land. I think in a way that can give you a very compelling but also a familiar take on America which is sort of refreshing. I think it would be an interesting angle to approach future US travel videos. Very few American's have done what you have in your life. Even though it was an exciting and rewarding adventure for you, it takes guts to just plant yourself in another country and adapt to a strange culture and different languages so far from your roots. I've enjoyed many of your videos through the years and you have given me a lot of useful and interesting information for which I thank you. I wish you happiness and success in whatever and wherever your plans take you.
Welcome back. I can only imagine how difficult it was to make that bittersweet decision to return to the US. If y'all need friends or accomodations in CO, I encourage reach out. I'd be happy to help however I am able.
I heard of this term called re-pat for folks like us returning back to our home countries after living abroad for years. I stayed gone for 7 years. Just got back last year to Texas. It sucks that the visa options are so limiting many places that I want to live longterm.
Ive been in Mexico 4 years and my temp residency visa expires October so I need to get back to get my permanent residency. Things are changing for foreigners in Mexico due to the currency strength, costs are way higher, locals are frustrated, the bureaucracy is stressful, plus weather issues like droughts and extreme heat. So Im not sure where to go anymore.
There is a difference between slow travel and “living abroad”. With slow travel, you will never feel grounded in a place. Going “home” will always be on the back of your mind.
I left the USA eight years ago. I haven’t even visited. I have only lived in two places since I left, five of which have been here in Poland. I can’t even fathom going back to the USA
Your comments about "everything has to be productive" etc., is so true. Things need to be optimized as you say, even our "fun" activities there is a culture of taking them to the highest level. I think throughout Canada and the US there is this idea that bigger houses, bigger vehicles, bigger stuff is important. This is part of our culture that I have difficulty with over time and difficulty connecting people also. The other thing that I witness is the badge of being busy. "How are you doing".. "I am SO busy" It a form of validation in this culture, which I think is sad and why I want to travel more.
Anyways, I watch your videos and others as I am getting more ideas for my own travel and places to seek experiences - even if just for several weeks here and there. Thank you and hope all goes well on the west coast in this next phase of your journey.
Thank you so much for your story! I resonated with your questioning optimization and how pervasive it is in the U.S. particularly. I romanticize small towns in Europe for just that reason. I want slower, quieter, intentionally connected to nature and community and ironically, the constant search for these things has distracted me from finding them right where I am. The cost of living here in the U.S. is ridiculous which also makes me choose between family and friends and a lifestyle I can afford. So many of us are trying to figure it all out, you are not alone. I look forward to seeing where life takes you.
I share your struggle and know exactly what you mean about adjusting. I returned from Ecuador in 2019 after living there for two years. It is still a challenge.
I loved your videos from Mexico. You seemed so at ease there. You seemed like you would soon like many other Americans and Europeans permanently move to Mexico. Good luck in cold Seattle.
Laura thank you so much for sharing it is so much appreciated by me for sure. I so much appreciate not only your travel videos but also you and Luke as people who have real hearts, desires, dreams, likes, dislikes frustrations etc . I also love to travel but with my vocation and physical challenges creates additional challenges as well as realizational expectations. Not sure if you know but after spending 25 years in the insurance/legal field I studied to be a Pastor in the Lutheran Church of the Missouri Synod having studied at Concordia Seminary St Louis Missouri. This is something that I have always wanted to do even as a small boy but I always wanted to work for a major US Airline for which I did. Anyway my dear I would. For whatever it's worth I almost became a flight attendant for TWA before they disappeared lol. Anyway you might want to consider Arizona as another place to hang you guys hats as it's less expensive than Seattle. I am going to share with you a video on you tube entitled Eating Dirt to avoid hunger. I will share it for you as to what I was doing in Honduras for which the ABC News channel in Tucson Arizona interviewed me. Anyway Laura thank you so much for sharing and I am honored to be one of your top viewers. Blessings to you in abundance. Ron
Seattle is beautiful, I used to live in that area, but would not choose to go back to Seattle. Maybe Whidbey Island, maybe east of the mountains, but not Puget Sound City. Winters there were hard for me when I lived there. The first two or three winters were okay, but after that I got to where the dark and cold and damp just lasted too long. Sorry to sound discouraging about the area. I still have friends there who LIKE living there, so I know it can be done. And enjoy the beautiful sunny summer days. The mountains east of Seattle are the most sublime, most beautiful in all of the 48 states in my opinion: Glacier Peak Wilderness, Alpine Lakes Wilderness, Mt Baker area are suggested places to start. Good luck with it!
I've been considering moving from the USA to central America due to the rising cost of living here in the USA. Medical and veterinary care has become cost prohibitive. It's scary knowing you could lose everything you've worked your entire life for if you had a heart attack or were diagnosed with cancer. When my dog died two years ago, he had to go to the vet two or three times over the course of a week and was then hospitalized for 3 nights before I had to make the decision to put him to sleep. It cost almost $10,000 and i am not in a big city or expensive part of the country. I'm a creature of habit and the familiarity and modern conveniences are what's keeping me in the USA. Well, that and it's difficult to move two large dogs to another country.
Damn yea, Lithuanian winters could be really harsh for foreigners. Wish you the best in the USA, hope they have "Gira" in there!
Being a foreigner in a new country and struggling with language and culture is difficult. Expats are brave folks, but coming back home for comfort is nothing to be ashamed of, it's also courageous to prioritize taking good care of yourself, however that works best for you.
I enjoyed hearing about your past. I have always liked the people & lifestyle in Mexico. I've travelled solo down the Washington & Oregon coast...I live on Van Island... equally beautiful nature, mountains & the ocean. You have done lots in your young life so keep doing the same.
The shock was that you moved last November! When interesting job opportunities present themselves, they have to be explored. I was in awe of Garden of the Gods in Colorado Springs, CO. I grew up in Chicago - beautiful city, just go before the cold weather hits :). Currently in GDL and loving it here.
Thanks for a great, candid take on your journeys. As a US native, I have travelled every state, some more than others, and lived in pretty much all regions. I am at the other end of the spectrum; I just retired in May, and am planning on moving to France sometime in 2025 or at latest 2026. There are still a few US - and Canadian, perhaps - destinations I want to hit up on this continent, so I am fluid on the timeframe. I spent two weeks in NZ in the early 2000s and loved it. I doubt now I'll get to go to OZ, but a Europe base can get me to a ton of the other places I have not yet been.
I wish you both the very best. PNW was my fave place to live, but way too expensive now for my retirement budget.
I’m glad you listened to your gut. Nothing is forever and you’re always allowed to change your mind 🩵
Great clear perspective of travel and living around the world.
Oh you moved to Seattle? That's a great choice. It's one of the best cities in the world. We know it and the region quite well as you may notice. Feel free to ask
Hi Laura I’ve followed along on your journey for several years and i was definitely shocked when I saw this video pop up! This first thing that popped up in my head was what do you guys think about the US cell phone service prices?! 😂 that aspect of international travel just blows my mind how you can get a sim in some countries for $10 or less a month and you’re set. Not in the good ol USA. Wishing you and Luke positive vibes, safety and a wonderful times as you spend your days back in USA.
I've lived abroad for 34 years, left Norway for college in the US right after high school and forgot to return. It would be WAY harder to move back to Norway than it was to move here in the first place.
We are impressed! Your honesty is refreshing on this platform. We can relate with being uncomfortable trying to accomplish easy tasks here in Mexico. As much as we love the Main Land around CDMX we intend to stay here in B.C.S. where the people are familiar dealing with Gringos!
Thanks, Mike! I appreciate your comment. I totally understand staying in Baja, not only bc it's more comfortable, but it's also so beautiful. CDMX and the central region is a short flight away and will be there for you to explore, but Baja is such a wonderful place to call home. I also made it to Señor Moose on your recommendation, the tacos were SO good, for sure some of the best I've had in Seattle so far, thanks for the rec!
Reality is no place is perfect. Where you are at the time is the right place at the time. I never thought I’d move back to Australia from Spain but life happened and I did. But the future who knows… certainly would move back in a future stage of my (and my family’s) life or maybe somewhere else (Mexico or Peru are on the list too).
Moving back to the US this fall after 4 years in Mexico and I dread moving back due to many reasons BUT my first grandchild is making her appearance in January and I can't miss that❤
Hello Laura. I joined you when you were in Mexico. It seemed like you very happy there. I hope Luke landed a good job in Seattle too. Good luck and thanks for all the videos.
Nothing to be disappointed about Laura. We had the pleasure of living in Joburg for 3 years, and despite the increased dangers versus England, we still consider that period as defining in our lives, even though we have been back in England for over 20 years. However we had the luxury of being in an English speaking country, so I have total admiration for you both in moving to a country that doesn’t. I think you both fully deserve to hopefully, have it a bit easier for a while. Also, from you travel blog, can I also suggest you look north, as we thought Vancouver is one of the best cities we have ever visited. I would love to see you cover it, perhaps combined with going by train rather than flying? Also Vancouver Island, Banff, whistler, Jasper, and our unexpected favourite Kelowna would make great locations for you. Finally, I also wanted to say thanks for your previous videos. We just took 3 months off, where we included both Andalusia and the Italian Riviera in our trip, and so your reviews were fantastic.
Hi Laura: Welcome back home! I always enjoyed your videos, particularly your videos from Lithuania, where I plan to go next month. Who in the hell can spell or even pronounce Siauliai? You gave me an idea of what to expect, the lay of the land, etc., and for that I am grateful. You've not disappointed anyone, quite to the contrary, all of the responses below are nothing but positive for you. We are given one true home, and there is nothing at all wrong with that, in fact that's the way it ought to be. Wish you the best of luck moving forward! Aciu!
It would have been much better for you to have lived in Vilnius or Kaunas instead of the smaller cities in Lithuania. Vilnius in the winter is a very busy place in the winter. Lots to do!
I liked it when you guys were in Mexico City!
Damn, you are brave. I appreciate your honesty and candor and vulnerability. I'm an estadounidense living in CDMX since 2021 and lived in Medellín for two years before the pandemic. I've been fortunate to travel around the world, and I love my life abroad. I'm back in the US frequently to see friends and family and for business. And every time I go back I always think, "How is everything here be so easy and simultaneously so gd hard?"
Communicating effortlessly is a delight, and Trader Joe's is often a first stop. But the grind is so exhausting. Even striving for "work-life balance" seems like a project to figure out and solve and dominate with a SWOT analysis and Gantt chart.
Wishing you all the best in your new adventure. And consider checking out Internations to find like-minded folks. I participate frequently here in Mexico and love popping into events in US cities to connect with my global peeps.
Un abrazote.
Keep going. Love your videos. You inspired me to book a trip to Seville and I’m going this November!!
That's awesome, enjoy it! It's such an amazing city!
What a life time of amazing experiences that you beautifully shared,, all the best
If you come to Colorado let me know! We can show you around several awesome places! 🎉
I wonder if traveling alone, safety, is a matter of perspective and reporting. It seems that when I travel, don't know the language as well, I am not tuned into the news channels as much as I am when I am in the US. So, in a way, not knowing what the true safety of a place is - gives you the feeling of safety. It's like quieting the noise that constant news can give you. Even so, building the life you want is all about taking risk. Thanks for sharing your story.