My last relationship there was an expectation that the relationship be 50/50 - yet I was doing all of the cooking, cleaning, organising things and also working full time. I find that a lot of men want this, and are confused when women get fed up and leave “blind sided”
Thats because for some of them their 50% is literally them paying their half of the bills and she does everything else. When they say they want 50/50 they never actually elaborate on what their 50% is supposed to look like.
wanting you to be traditional (keep the household clean, tidied, repaired, organized, fed and in clean clothes - AND performing sexually with enthusiasm on their terms) but also wanting your salary and benefits? That’s not 50/50.
Personality can either be an extreme attractiveness booster or downer, incels all seem to choose the latter and then complain that women don’t want to be around them.
My friends have dated the ugliest men, and so have I. Women are not the shallow ones. Men are the ones who said that if an ugly girl is drowning, they would turn away and ignore her.
He seems to be very knowledgeable and opinionated about women and what women want and think for someone who hasn’t spent any time with any, or at least never listened to any he’s been next to..
My boyfriend and I have had relationships before, but were both happily single (no dinners, no dating, no hooking up) for a decade before we met -- because we only wanted to bother with people who met our realistic standards and would be compatible with us. Not because of media brainwashing or political ideology or bitterness about the opposite sex, just because dating wasn't our priority and we were both content on our own. Then we met each other, when he was 46 and I was 35. We improved one another's lives and wanted to date, so we're dating now. We exceed one another's standards without needing to fake anything or even really try, just because of who we are naturally, and it's awesome. Well worth the wait. If we had listened to incels and femcels, not only would we not have that, but we wouldn't be content on our own either. It would be sad. I'm glad that's not us, LOL
I’m 46 and NEVER cared about body count, even when I was in high school in the 90’s, early 20’s in the 00’s, etc. as long as the number didn’t go up while we were dating (cheating) I didn’t care. In fact, I appreciate someone with experience. They know what makes them happy, and can hopefully communicate that with me.
I think it's in the incel's minds that they want to train someone to do what they want and only what they want. They are so insecure they can't image "their' woman with anyone else.
And you know what? I betcha when you finally want to have one, you’ll find someone to have it with, if you wish to have one at all, and it won’t be a massive trial and tribulation around it.
Beautiful. My dogs each have 3 names: the name I wanted, the name their godparent wanted, and the name my former partner wanted. The receptionists always sound brighter after they read the name, if they don't laugh outright at "Coda Clover Potato"
If you think every woman is not good enough for your effort. You're not worth for anyone's effort. The lesson treat people who you want to be treated is gone now because people like this guy are entitled.
bro you don’t want a gold digger but what gold do you even have????? you work retail! as a cashier! not even a manager! dude makes what, $10 an hour? he’s either the best parody account i’ve ever seen and is completely normal offline or he’s literally the worst employee at the store you hate the most, you *know* if it’s genuine he says this shit unprompted to anyone he can trap in a convo for more than a standard 2 minute transaction
Nobody: ...... Absolutely no one: ..... This guy's cat: ..... This guy: "Here's my list of requirements for females to meet in order for me to consider dating them..." Everyone: ...k...anyway
@@marahbaker8615 I made my husband watch this with me and as soon as he said "Handy dandy notebook" my husband went "OH F*CK You!" and I laughed so hard I choked lmao
Oh my god the half-hearted howl after mentioning "alpha males" near the beginning of the video got me. I nearly choked on what I was eating because I started laughing. 😂
This is why I actually categorize most INcels as just celibate. They are voluntarily choosing not to improve themselves. They aren't willing to put effort into it but still expect results.
Imo, being an incel isn't just a lack of sex. It's an attitude of unwarranted snobbery, entitlement, blame-shifting and no self-awareness. Dude gives off serious Bubble Bass vibes. I'd hate to hear him ordering at a burger joint.
His requirements in summary: I expect women to do everything that I want but I will never do anything for them and will actively walk over their feelings.
Guys like this pretend that women say they want millionaires but most women just want a partner with a job... Like any job, some way of contributing. Hell even if you don't have a job, if you can show that you're a contributing partner in the relationship that goes a long way for so many women.
I’m concerned for my 42 year old friend he never had a gf or even held a girls hand and he has build up resentment for woman saying they give him mean looks, he is very annoyed at the advice people give him, he can’t do any self reflection
When I was in college I don’t think people were using the term incel yet but there was a guy who was part of my friend group who would probably qualify. Luckily there was no Andrew Tate yet, etc. but he was SO DESPERATE to find a girlfriend it turned all of us off. He was just looking for a girlfriend, who she was didn’t matter.
This guy... How is this not parody...? How can this possibly be for real? Too many absurd clichés. I'm fascinated to know what he's doing now. What his life consists of now - what? - a couple of years down the line from this vid. Also - "I wish I had two friends, and I wish neither of them talked to me" - made me screech. You are a treasure, and this GenX British woman appreciates you. Goodbye, Toast 😊
Right? He wants a woman to do “MOST OF the house chores”, but he also wants a relationship to be 50/50? So, if he expects his partner to do “most of” the house chores, what is HE going to do “most of” to keep things 50/50?
@SaphireXari So she has to be financially independent, cook the big meals and maybe every other meal, well groomed, do all the housework and never deny him sex. What does he do? What does he bring to the relationship?
I think Toast Sophia is a great name for a dog. 😊 I remember seeing a couple of videos Sam Collins did on this guy and his super triggered response videos trying to get under Sam's skin. The guy wants to be treated like a Dom when he obviously knows nothing about that scene, which isn't surprising. You don't just get to tell someone to submit and call you Master, without respect, in-depth discussion and negotiation about what both parties are comfortable with and what they want out of a scene or relationship. I've seen guys like him try to sleaze their way into inexperienced subs' beds, and it's always a solid reminder that if you are in that lifestyle, you need to be careful, be watchful and be educated on what is and isn't acceptable. There's a reason any reputable club, munch, or community has safeguards and people on the sidelines watching for red flag behavior. I'm not saying it's perfect, but I can't stand when guys like this adopt the lingo about one of my communities while being completely, dangerously ignorant about it, and acting too arrogant or cowardly to learn and respect subs. You have to earn that trust, and that submission. It's supposed to be precious and valued to have someone want to have that dynamic with you, whether it's for one scene or a committed relationship.
Guaranteed this guy would go full simp the first time a physically attractive woman gives him the time of day. The incel to simp to incel cycle is real.
@Maximmmino A lot of them it is through fault of their own. Everyone just does not have that "thing" or are often giving.... unwanted vibes and they just cannot figure it out even if they are successful in every other aspect of their lives.
Call me crazy,but i dont think its too late for this guy to make a meaningful change in his life. Is he rough around the edges? Yeah,yeah. But out of all the incels ive seen,at the very least he's somewhat reasonable and self aware. If he just worked on himself,physically and mentally,and changed some of his views,i could see bro being a hit with a lady.
He uploaded this video saying a lot of shit about his beliefd about women though. Women now will avoid him like the plague regardless if he changes or not.
@kirausamaria5409 It wouldn't be impossible for him to delete this video. Besides,I doubt a woman who he got with and has been with for a while,would see an old video he made when he was a worse and different person,and hold it against him if he had genuinely changed.
I think of a relationship like this... The total is 200% 50% is each partner giving 100% 100% looks different for everyone, but you can tell they're putting their best into the relationship And on the days you can only give 50%, your partner gives 150% You both have to be willing to do that whenever it needs to be done If one partner gives even just 101% all of the time, eventually it will fail because we are not machines. We have to have times when we're given the grace to be at less than 100%.
If men like this can demand all of those things from a woman as her 100%, what do they think the woman will demand a his 100% in return? If I expected my partner to do all of that for me, I personally would feel it's only fair to spoil them with whatever they wanted since they are doing whatever I want.
🤨 he needs to go get some zempy and hit the gym before he assumes he can get away with talking to women like this. I'm not saying that it's OK to talk to women like this. I just know there are some women that will forgive talking like this as long as he's hot. He should work on the hot part if he doesn't want to change his personality.
@@Maximmminothe whole "it's a choice" was a dead giveaway. Seen it far too many times with people like him. These people simply cannot accept that they cause their own problems and they will lash out at everyone.
That doggo belly up behind you 😭😭😭
And you expect me to pay attention to anything you say??
Lol same! I get so distracted by them, but they're just so cute 😂😂❤
People should also earn your disrespect. That is what this guy doesn’t get. People get basic respect until they prove they deserve more or less.
He wears the sunglasses indoors so we can't see when he starts tearing up
Thanks. I was wondering about the sunglasses.
My last relationship there was an expectation that the relationship be 50/50 - yet I was doing all of the cooking, cleaning, organising things and also working full time. I find that a lot of men want this, and are confused when women get fed up and leave “blind sided”
Thats because for some of them their 50% is literally them paying their half of the bills and she does everything else.
When they say they want 50/50 they never actually elaborate on what their 50% is supposed to look like.
wanting you to be traditional (keep the household clean, tidied, repaired, organized, fed and in clean clothes - AND performing sexually with enthusiasm on their terms) but also wanting your salary and benefits? That’s not 50/50.
He certainly acts like someone who prefers to be alone.
Personality can either be an extreme attractiveness booster or downer, incels all seem to choose the latter and then complain that women don’t want to be around them.
It's weird that he has set standards for himself out of anger
Rather than just having standards and boundaries in place in general
I’ve noticed they ALL do it. They’re all incredibly angry imo
My friends have dated the ugliest men, and so have I. Women are not the shallow ones. Men are the ones who said that if an ugly girl is drowning, they would turn away and ignore her.
He seems to be very knowledgeable and opinionated about women and what women want and think for someone who hasn’t spent any time with any, or at least never listened to any he’s been next to..
My boyfriend and I have had relationships before, but were both happily single (no dinners, no dating, no hooking up) for a decade before we met -- because we only wanted to bother with people who met our realistic standards and would be compatible with us.
Not because of media brainwashing or political ideology or bitterness about the opposite sex, just because dating wasn't our priority and we were both content on our own.
Then we met each other, when he was 46 and I was 35. We improved one another's lives and wanted to date, so we're dating now. We exceed one another's standards without needing to fake anything or even really try, just because of who we are naturally, and it's awesome. Well worth the wait.
If we had listened to incels and femcels, not only would we not have that, but we wouldn't be content on our own either. It would be sad.
I'm glad that's not us, LOL
I love how he said women are so demanding when I can only imagine the only thing a woman demanded he do was step back or to go away.
It looks like he's filming this in his mother's den while waiting for chicken tendies and pizza pockets
Exactly! What 33 year old man decorates his place like that? It’s clearly mom’s place.
Just offf camera he has a massive collection of Mountain Dew pee bottles
Came here to say exactly this. Except I’m pretty sure it’s his granny’s den.
100% he’s waiting on those pizza pockets though.
So glad I wasn't drinking. Break me up. Thank you
It’s anyone else but themselves. The awkwardness, lame rhetoric and lack of self confidence scares people away.
I’m 46 and NEVER cared about body count, even when I was in high school in the 90’s, early 20’s in the 00’s, etc. as long as the number didn’t go up while we were dating (cheating) I didn’t care. In fact, I appreciate someone with experience. They know what makes them happy, and can hopefully communicate that with me.
At 53 I agree but in the incels case we both know he's gonna be SELFISH.
I think it's in the incel's minds that they want to train someone to do what they want and only what they want. They are so insecure they can't image "their' woman with anyone else.
Money matters so long as bills can get paid comfortably. After that point it goes down a lot.
Unlike that guy I'm not an incel I just don't have a sex life 😂
I'm 40, male, in a small town full of right wing Christian Fascist elderly people. I know exactly why I have no sex life.
same
no sex gang
And you know what? I betcha when you finally want to have one, you’ll find someone to have it with, if you wish to have one at all, and it won’t be a massive trial and tribulation around it.
Based 🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Toast Sofia is a fantastically silly name. I don't have 4 legged animals, but I do have a shrimp named Shrumplestilskin
That is a perfect shrimp name
Beautiful.
My dogs each have 3 names: the name I wanted, the name their godparent wanted, and the name my former partner wanted. The receptionists always sound brighter after they read the name, if they don't laugh outright at "Coda Clover Potato"
Bro why is he saying he's done with dating while making a video begging someone to date him
"It's not like i like you or anything, brother" 😂
He says „I’m not in the dating scene anymore“ like it’s his choice 😭
He has his reasons, his VALID reasons 😂😂😂
It kind of is.
He's got got Prada tastes on Primark( low cost clothing shop in UK) money in women.
His 4 is likely everyone else's 8.
@toriladybird511 lmaoo "prada taste on primark money" is diabolical 😭 imma have to use that 🤝
@ArtsoK21 please do ❤
_"Call me Master"_
Jesus Yikes Christ.
If you think every woman is not good enough for your effort. You're not worth for anyone's effort. The lesson treat people who you want to be treated is gone now because people like this guy are entitled.
Nah he gotta be trolling. Dude wearing a anime shirt talking about women💀
bro you don’t want a gold digger but what gold do you even have????? you work retail! as a cashier! not even a manager! dude makes what, $10 an hour? he’s either the best parody account i’ve ever seen and is completely normal offline or he’s literally the worst employee at the store you hate the most, you *know* if it’s genuine he says this shit unprompted to anyone he can trap in a convo for more than a standard 2 minute transaction
The people frantically bagging their own products to speed up the process and downloading tap to pay on their phone.
Nobody: ......
Absolutely no one: .....
This guy's cat: .....
This guy: "Here's my list of requirements for females to meet in order for me to consider dating them..."
Everyone: ...k...anyway
He better never say "Handy Dandy Notebook" a-freakin-gain...Blues Clues doesn't belong to him.
Steve would NEVER
@@marahbaker8615 I made my husband watch this with me and as soon as he said "Handy dandy notebook" my husband went "OH F*CK You!" and I laughed so hard I choked lmao
Thay was adorable hearing you speak of of woman and your girlfriend. Men like you are soooo refreshing ✨️
"To learn who rules over you; simply find out who you are not allowed to criticize." ~Voltaire
I would argue that you don't even have to be funny, just willing to laugh together.
Oh my god the half-hearted howl after mentioning "alpha males" near the beginning of the video got me. I nearly choked on what I was eating because I started laughing. 😂
I stumbled across this guys videos once and he came across so creepy and sleazy to me, like his entire person creeped me out so much
A few days ago I didn't know about your channel...at all. Now, I'm hooked. I absolutely love your commentary.
Same I got recommend him a couple days ago and am working my way through the backlog
Love the mellow vibes of your voice . Side bar, mad about body count while mad you’re not able to get a body count is WIIIIILLLLLDDDD.
through no fault of their own....right
This is why I actually categorize most INcels as just celibate. They are voluntarily choosing not to improve themselves. They aren't willing to put effort into it but still expect results.
At some point a person's celibacy is no longer involuntary. This guy seems to have chosen no to find a sex partner.
Totally agree, pickles are just cucumbers soaked in evil.
Disgraced cucumbers!
It's really the sunglasses in the dark for me...
So he thinks women are petty to want respect but he's mad not being respected????
the way you speak of your girlfriend is so refreshing 😅 you are both lucky to have each other 😊
The dog asleep on the bed, tho.....
His cope game is strong.
Imo, being an incel isn't just a lack of sex. It's an attitude of unwarranted snobbery, entitlement, blame-shifting and no self-awareness. Dude gives off serious Bubble Bass vibes. I'd hate to hear him ordering at a burger joint.
I bet he walks like he's carrying air luggage, too.
I feel like the attitude is covered by the “involuntary” part, they just fail to see the correlation.
His requirements in summary: I expect women to do everything that I want but I will never do anything for them and will actively walk over their feelings.
Guys like this pretend that women say they want millionaires but most women just want a partner with a job... Like any job, some way of contributing. Hell even if you don't have a job, if you can show that you're a contributing partner in the relationship that goes a long way for so many women.
I’m concerned for my 42 year old friend he never had a gf or even held a girls hand and he has build up resentment for woman saying they give him mean looks, he is very annoyed at the advice people give him, he can’t do any self reflection
Maybe he is gay.
Yeah this is very scary
I'm hopeful none of my friends will turn out this way
He can go ahead and stay out of the dating pool.
When I was in college I don’t think people were using the term incel yet but there was a guy who was part of my friend group who would probably qualify. Luckily there was no Andrew Tate yet, etc. but he was SO DESPERATE to find a girlfriend it turned all of us off. He was just looking for a girlfriend, who she was didn’t matter.
Toast is living the life i dream of
As a woman, I don't men looking at me like an object .
I demand you give me wrestling jokes whenever I want.
Omg how'd I get here so quickly?????? Let's get into this
This channel is quickly becoming one of my favourites - I love his commentary 😆
This guy... How is this not parody...? How can this possibly be for real? Too many absurd clichés.
I'm fascinated to know what he's doing now. What his life consists of now - what? - a couple of years down the line from this vid.
Also - "I wish I had two friends, and I wish neither of them talked to me" - made me screech.
You are a treasure, and this GenX British woman appreciates you.
Goodbye, Toast 😊
I watched a pretty recent video from him after filming this
He's still doing the same thing
@@Maximmmino How. Depressing.
@@Maximmmino yea, I'm not surprised.
The way he just slipped in do most of the house chores.
Right? He wants a woman to do “MOST OF the house chores”, but he also wants a relationship to be 50/50?
So, if he expects his partner to do “most of” the house chores, what is HE going to do “most of” to keep things 50/50?
@SaphireXari So she has to be financially independent, cook the big meals and maybe every other meal, well groomed, do all the housework and never deny him sex. What does he do? What does he bring to the relationship?
why does he almost sound like dunkey? 😭
I had to look this up
You are very right
I don't know why but the demon slayer shirt fits really well here
Because the female lead has a literal gag for most of the story, exactly like his ideal woman
Did you give her a middle name so you can call her full government name when she misbehaves?
Yes and also sometimes she won't respond to toast but will respond to sophia
why is he so mad...oh wait, I know the answer🙄
I think Toast Sophia is a great name for a dog. 😊
I remember seeing a couple of videos Sam Collins did on this guy and his super triggered response videos trying to get under Sam's skin. The guy wants to be treated like a Dom when he obviously knows nothing about that scene, which isn't surprising. You don't just get to tell someone to submit and call you Master, without respect, in-depth discussion and negotiation about what both parties are comfortable with and what they want out of a scene or relationship. I've seen guys like him try to sleaze their way into inexperienced subs' beds, and it's always a solid reminder that if you are in that lifestyle, you need to be careful, be watchful and be educated on what is and isn't acceptable. There's a reason any reputable club, munch, or community has safeguards and people on the sidelines watching for red flag behavior. I'm not saying it's perfect, but I can't stand when guys like this adopt the lingo about one of my communities while being completely, dangerously ignorant about it, and acting too arrogant or cowardly to learn and respect subs. You have to earn that trust, and that submission. It's supposed to be precious and valued to have someone want to have that dynamic with you, whether it's for one scene or a committed relationship.
I want to rescue the cat.
I was thinking about taking up some diet in the New Year. Thanks to this video, I feel like throwing up and I don't want to eat anymore. Thank you!
*watching in lesbian*
You eat the pickle at the end cause its the best part! Like a lil treat to finish your meal with.
Is he in his grandmas living room?
I cant believe this guy is still around 😂😂
6:07 Oh thank God! I thought this was a new video from him.
Unfortunately he is actually still around 😭😭
Guaranteed this guy would go full simp the first time a physically attractive woman gives him the time of day. The incel to simp to incel cycle is real.
Yes people are born gay or certain changes come about that shift their sexuality the notion it's a choice is ridiculous
The fact that guys with friends but no romantic prospects don’t just flip a gay switch and bang each other is proof that it isn’t a choice.
You can't be too bad, pup sleeping peacefully behind you. Critters don't like everyone.
And watching him keep saying "female" is just cringe.
How is this guy the same age as me?
"Be cheese." Best advice EVER.
He writes his Eminem style lyrics about wrestling in the "handy dandy notebook" as well. they all suck.
This is wild and I am going to force myself to sit through it
He has to be trolling!! 😂😂
He's gonna be single for the rest of eternity!! 🤣🤣
the way you talk about your girlfriend is so sweet, your face absolutely lights up 🥹
"Through no fault or their own"??? Really?
I meant people who don't have sex in general not specifically this guy 😭😭
@Maximmmino A lot of them it is through fault of their own. Everyone just does not have that "thing" or are often giving.... unwanted vibes and they just cannot figure it out even if they are successful in every other aspect of their lives.
The incel movement was started by a woman pass it on. It was actually pretty wholesome to start. A support group.
Am i tripping or does this guy sound like a really nasally Charlie from Smiling Friends?
Call me crazy,but i dont think its too late for this guy to make a meaningful change in his life. Is he rough around the edges? Yeah,yeah. But out of all the incels ive seen,at the very least he's somewhat reasonable and self aware. If he just worked on himself,physically and mentally,and changed some of his views,i could see bro being a hit with a lady.
He uploaded this video saying a lot of shit about his beliefd about women though. Women now will avoid him like the plague regardless if he changes or not.
@kirausamaria5409 It wouldn't be impossible for him to delete this video. Besides,I doubt a woman who he got with and has been with for a while,would see an old video he made when he was a worse and different person,and hold it against him if he had genuinely changed.
This guy is how you end up the subject of an Alex Jones lawsuit..... 😮
He's THIRTY-THREE?! I thought with his maturity he was like, twenty-seven tops.
Wow this is some cringe shit... dear lord.
Dude sounds like my dad. It is uncanny really.
I cant help but think of these "alphas" as chicks.
I think Mommy issues, they’re always physically unattractive & look greasy.
Huh?
I’m just here to watch the dog chill
You want an RKO, get Randy Orton from WWE to do it.
A nice guy explains incels. Awesome.
STANDERTS
Omg he has a low skilled job it only gets worse
I think of a relationship like this...
The total is 200%
50% is each partner giving 100%
100% looks different for everyone, but you can tell they're putting their best into the relationship
And on the days you can only give 50%, your partner gives 150%
You both have to be willing to do that whenever it needs to be done
If one partner gives even just 101% all of the time, eventually it will fail because we are not machines. We have to have times when we're given the grace to be at less than 100%.
If men like this can demand all of those things from a woman as her 100%, what do they think the woman will demand a his 100% in return?
If I expected my partner to do all of that for me, I personally would feel it's only fair to spoil them with whatever they wanted since they are doing whatever I want.
Another banger
Not this guy again. Flabby waste of air.
I can be your friend that never speaks to you, I'm great at it 😅
21:21 I am so dead lmao
Are you in your mid- to late- thirtyteens? 😂
1- how did you fall on the decision to shave just the middle of the mustache?
2- gonna find the original video but gl with the channel!
This guy is the pinnacle of alpha male 😆
🤨 he needs to go get some zempy and hit the gym before he assumes he can get away with talking to women like this. I'm not saying that it's OK to talk to women like this. I just know there are some women that will forgive talking like this as long as he's hot. He should work on the hot part if he doesn't want to change his personality.
I was the worlds biggest incel until i grew a hilarious moustache and beard and made videos about other incels. Now all women love me.
Yo mustache is crazyyyyyyy no way u think that look good
Hey, at least he's not homophobic...? 😅
Actually he got got mad and called everyone the f slur in the video of his i watched right after this 😭😭
@Maximmmino Welp, why am I not surprised?
@@Maximmminothe whole "it's a choice" was a dead giveaway. Seen it far too many times with people like him. These people simply cannot accept that they cause their own problems and they will lash out at everyone.