Bravo to you Chidi for sticking to your faith. It would have been better to have that discussion much earlier especially the fact that she has body image issues. That’s why she now interprets it as rejection. May it work out well for you both 🙏🏾
On chidi’s Instagram he posted saying he actually told her the night of her flight prior to her getting on the plane and she flipped out on him threatening to cancel the trip. In the post he alleged her saying a lot of crazy things which contributed to his decision. This woman’s nuts.
@@southafricanpowerbackovert8576him being blind doesn’t make it any easier to restrict himself though. Remember he was born able to see he’s had to learn this discipline
She should’ve expected this though, he has been very transparent with his faith, if it were a women, people and her would be more understanding which is not fair
@@Lelo.Machaka and he didn’t just reject her and go to the next room. He explained everything. He said he longs for it but wants it to be at the right time. Am I the only one who thinks that’s honorable???
There are tons of religious people who still have premarital sex. He was sexting with her. He definitely did not make it clear to her that he has decided to not have sex.
Yeah right I've been celibate and men do not care they make fun of me aggressive and try to always get me drunk you kidding me men are way worse towards women
@@shelbyjames1894they aren't true ppl of God you must repent for your sins and not live in sin sexual sin is very destructive to mind body and spirit difference in being religious and having the spirit of God this man has the spirit of God in him and doesn't feel good to the spirit to sin he's sinning against his body
There seems to be something strange about her… can’t put my finger on it yet But I just have a feeling he’ll be better off without her she’s just not right
She’s needs to understand that it’s not about her, it’s about him and his commitment to his faith. She needs to be mature enough to understand that and if she really loves him she’ll be patient
He needed to clarify that earlier. If I went to see my man and he says we cannot even sleep in the same bed only when I get to him, I would go back home
No, it's straight up SEXIST. IF your partner wants to have sex, then have sex, unless, YOU don't want to. The question is WHY he doesn't want to? Is it because he was raised to have a F(CKED up and harmful relationship with sex and gender? I would bet it is. IT's super depressing to see people so oppressed.
Deciding to wait for marriage to have sex was one of the hardest things i struggled with after getting saved. But it was so worth it because you no longer have Soul ties to people who are just lusting over you. Less anxiety and depression and above all, you find the Partner God intended for you. If you're tired of everything you've been doing not working in relationships, try valuing sex as not just pleasure but a gift for marriage. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤️ Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️ Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
He'll definitely be saved and dodge a bullet from this mess. This girl is cranky and it speaks volume about her having 2 kids with men whom she barely have a relationship with.
@@jasg771people make mistakes but they can turn their lives around if they decide to. Obviously she hasn’t healed in some ways but your past should not be held against you
This woman is a mess all by herself wm self. Even her family said she snaps and can get very very angry…chidi said during the five years they have been talking, she sometimes would get very angry with him. He is scared of her and you can tell from his face and you can tell that she is about to snap 🫰
@@SJ-tb2wq absolutely he has such a loving normal family who adores him. I truly hope and pray that God can bless him with a woman who would love him the way he is. I don’t know if in Nigeria the government give disability benefits because I don’t know if he works. She seems quite unstable. I saw a clip for next episode she got very angry because they “killed a family member who is a chicken” 🐓 does she eat chicken. If so does she eat live chicken 🐓 hehehe
@@annicklagace7414 oh no! That is very sad. I hope now he can capitalize on social media and make some income. I would subscribe and watch all what he has to say…someone there needs to help him start TH-cam he can encourage others on how to cope with his disability. People already likes him. He is well spoken
I agree - because he waited until after he met her to tell her he won't have sex. So of course she takes it personally. In 5 years of talking, how could he not have told her?
He should have been more honest with her before they met. Because he waited until after they met, he held her, now he can tell what her body looks like - even if she cannot see - so she feels rejected, esp since she has a lot of body image issues. Why did he not tell her about his celibacy in 5 years of conversations? Seems strange and dishonest.
Rayne broke her nda in the past few days.. so we know they didnt work out.. And then chidi broke his.. and said that she was informed about the no sex .. Which means her not knowing , was just a tlc plot ..
Wow I Love that he stands up and is firm about his faith and beliefs . GOD FIRST I hope she sees that and understand that he is doing the right thing .
She concerns me a lot. I am very concerned for him not only is he blind, but I feel like she will take advantage of him. I have a deep feeling that she is going to take advantage of him and because he’s not able to see she might get frustrated with him easily and flip out on him And because they don’t share the same believes, I feel like she will flip out on him about that too for example sleeping together he wants to wait until marriage and I totally get that heck when I was a virgin I have been a virgin for like 26 years and I lost my virginity at 27 and I thought the man that you know took my virginity. I thought we were gonna get married but I really wish I didn’t give my virginity up because I wholeheartedly wanted to wait till marriage, but I, didn’t really listen to myself and you know gave it to him which was a mistake, but I’m glad that he is putting up these boundaries, but I am so worried for him being with her. I’m very worried about him.
I hate how because someone has an “acceptable,” reasoning behind something, we ignore the manipulation or deceit behind it. It’s okay to be rooted in your faith, it’s not okay to not disclose the boundaries, expectations, etc. that you adhere to in your faith. If he was apart of a religion or adhered to certain principles Western civilization didn’t approve of y’all would be ridiculing him for not being open and honest.
My prayer in all of this is (and especially for this couple) is that she is as CALM.and SWEET as projects herself to be. I pray we don't see an ANGELA Part 2 as the series unravel. He's made his stance very clear about abstinence kindly respect it. And if I were her and she truly loves him, this is enough fact that he's very descent, responsible and a keeper. But....let's see how it goes!
I applause that young man for the choice he made, and I hope and pray that they both go for some tests before they have sex, because I watched these reality shows and people just met and have sex without taking aid's test or std and I wonder how can you act like that, it's scary 😱
What normal man would request something like that ? I think there is something else going on with him that he may be hiding from her. He may have ED or worrying about the size of his package. He needs to be honest with her.
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Bravo to you Chidi for sticking to your faith. It would have been better to have that discussion much earlier especially the fact that she has body image issues. That’s why she now interprets it as rejection. May it work out well for you both 🙏🏾
On chidi’s Instagram he posted saying he actually told her the night of her flight prior to her getting on the plane and she flipped out on him threatening to cancel the trip. In the post he alleged her saying a lot of crazy things which contributed to his decision. This woman’s nuts.
@@sonni7460yeaaaaah she was talking about cannibalism and vampire rituals and their flesh being eaten 😂😂
glad he is putting things clear, she is unable to wait she is not fit for him
Let’s make normal man with dignity 🎉 be patient love will coming way
Is that what's going on??? 😂😂😂 (ah you shuwa? In my best Nigerian accent)
See there are men out there that will wait!
God please give me 🙌🏿
Yes please of my gosh I need one so bad celibate for 3 years
He's blind... He's recovery needs God's intervention... more than anything... he has no choice but to be obedient
My kind
@@southafricanpowerbackovert8576him being blind doesn’t make it any easier to restrict himself though. Remember he was born able to see he’s had to learn this discipline
She should’ve expected this though, he has been very transparent with his faith, if it were a women, people and her would be more understanding which is not fair
@@Lelo.Machaka and he didn’t just reject her and go to the next room. He explained everything. He said he longs for it but wants it to be at the right time. Am I the only one who thinks that’s honorable???
There are tons of religious people who still have premarital sex. He was sexting with her. He definitely did not make it clear to her that he has decided to not have sex.
Facts and it takes a lot of a man to even do that
Yeah right I've been celibate and men do not care they make fun of me aggressive and try to always get me drunk you kidding me men are way worse towards women
@@shelbyjames1894they aren't true ppl of God you must repent for your sins and not live in sin sexual sin is very destructive to mind body and spirit difference in being religious and having the spirit of God this man has the spirit of God in him and doesn't feel good to the spirit to sin he's sinning against his body
There seems to be something strange about her… can’t put my finger on it yet
But I just have a feeling he’ll be better off without her she’s just not right
i agree, that feeling got stronger when she mentioned that she has had thisvision of fighting with the sister of her man.
He was VERY transparent about his beliefs. Also if she did any research on his country, she would learn that is very often the norm there.
She wants the yam like kimberly
How immature what dosent she get ! He explained himself perfectly and simple …
She didn’t even say much she just had emotions towards it relax
He never said till they are married and it’s because of his faith.
I respect Chidi. May Jesus bless him.
She’s needs to understand that it’s not about her, it’s about him and his commitment to his faith. She needs to be mature enough to understand that and if she really loves him she’ll be patient
He needed to clarify that earlier. If I went to see my man and he says we cannot even sleep in the same bed only when I get to him, I would go back home
I love ❤that he stood on his faith
Very respectful of him. Very gentleman like.
No, it's straight up SEXIST. IF your partner wants to have sex, then have sex, unless, YOU don't want to. The question is WHY he doesn't want to? Is it because he was raised to have a F(CKED up and harmful relationship with sex and gender? I would bet it is. IT's super depressing to see people so oppressed.
He is such an amazing human
He should just be with a christian women so he doesnt have to worry about not being able to sleep with her. It would make things so much easier.
This relationship won't last!
Deciding to wait for marriage to have sex was one of the hardest things i struggled with after getting saved. But it was so worth it because you no longer have Soul ties to people who are just lusting over you. Less anxiety and depression and above all, you find the Partner God intended for you.
If you're tired of everything you've been doing not working in relationships, try valuing sex as not just pleasure but a gift for marriage.
Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤️
Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️
Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
@@Shawn-8 most people do it without even thinking, not out of love. It's like something itches and they want to scratch it.
@@Shawn-8 Jesus loves you Shawn. Ask him and he will reveal himself to you. Not a piece of paper.
He'll definitely be saved and dodge a bullet from this mess. This girl is cranky and it speaks volume about her having 2 kids with men whom she barely have a relationship with.
Amen
@@jasg771people make mistakes but they can turn their lives around if they decide to. Obviously she hasn’t healed in some ways but your past should not be held against you
She has a screw loose
This woman is a mess all by herself wm self. Even her family said she snaps and can get very very angry…chidi said during the five years they have been talking, she sometimes would get very angry with him. He is scared of her and you can tell from his face and you can tell that she is about to snap 🫰
Yes, she's a psycho. I hope he can escape her clutches without further damage. He's been through enough.
@@SJ-tb2wq absolutely he has such a loving normal family who adores him. I truly hope and pray that God can bless him with a woman who would love him the way he is. I don’t know if in Nigeria the government give disability benefits because I don’t know if he works. She seems quite unstable. I saw a clip for next episode she got very angry because they “killed a family member who is a chicken” 🐓 does she eat chicken. If so does she eat live chicken 🐓 hehehe
@@pn4640 no there's nothing for the disabled there .. except a hard life
i feel so bad for him, he doesn't need this.
@@annicklagace7414 oh no! That is very sad. I hope now he can capitalize on social media and make some income. I would subscribe and watch all what he has to say…someone there needs to help him start TH-cam he can encourage others on how to cope with his disability. People already likes him. He is well spoken
There’s waiting for marriage and then there’s the fact that he don’t want to be intimate with you.
What does being intimate lead to… 🤔
I agree - because he waited until after he met her to tell her he won't have sex. So of course she takes it personally. In 5 years of talking, how could he not have told her?
No there's not.
@@Lelo.Machakait doesn't lead to marriage especially in African culture 🙄
He is so genuine 🥺and she should feel blessed …
Way to go Chidi....you are setting an example for so many other adults that are in love.
He should have been more honest with her before they met. Because he waited until after they met, he held her, now he can tell what her body looks like - even if she cannot see - so she feels rejected, esp since she has a lot of body image issues. Why did he not tell her about his celibacy in 5 years of conversations? Seems strange and dishonest.
Tlc plot ..
They broke their nda.. and his post was about her knowing about all this before she went.
No chemistry
Rayne broke her nda in the past few days.. so we know they didnt work out..
And then chidi broke his.. and said that she was informed about the no sex ..
Which means her not knowing , was just a tlc plot ..
She is scary
Sounds like an excellent excuse
Chidi’s definitely using her to get to an American doctor’s opinion on wether or not he can restore his vision.
I like this Chidi guy.. very handsome, likable, and humble
….she will fumble this man. they are not compatible
If he’s not comfortable sleeping with someone in the same bed I’m like that too then big deal
Now you know how she's got 2 kids from 2 different strangers 😂
It's crazy that we live in a time where a man being respectful can interpreted as rejection. 😔
Naa he's right, no rush .
She looks WRECKED.
I didn’t think he is blind
I don't think is about faith.
It looks to me that he wants to marry her really fast and he's using her desire for him to make te wedding happen.
ha ha ha ha women have played games with men's desire since time began.
Smart!
There something more that he not tell you!!
Wow I Love that he stands up and is firm about his faith and beliefs . GOD FIRST I hope she sees that and understand that he is doing the right thing .
After the chicken incident why would he 😂😂😂
Now we know why he didnt want to be in the same room as her (he revealed it on his insta)
he gay?
She needs to be patient
I'm not religious at all but if someone is deep in their faith like this and put up boundaries, it needs to be respected.
If she can accept this they might work out
Chidi is a good person,,he search the lady not for sex too fast,he has own respect.But Rayne is not happy.
First episode, Rayne seemed so sweet and innocent....albeit sheltered. Every episode since, Rayne is hella annoying.
And the windows open for a reason his first wife is listening he got to keep it casual 😂😂😂
She concerns me a lot. I am very concerned for him not only is he blind, but I feel like she will take advantage of him. I have a deep feeling that she is going to take advantage of him and because he’s not able to see she might get frustrated with him easily and flip out on him And because they don’t share the same believes, I feel like she will flip out on him about that too for example sleeping together he wants to wait until marriage and I totally get that heck when I was a virgin I have been a virgin for like 26 years and I lost my virginity at 27 and I thought the man that you know took my virginity. I thought we were gonna get married but I really wish I didn’t give my virginity up because I wholeheartedly wanted to wait till marriage, but I, didn’t really listen to myself and you know gave it to him which was a mistake, but I’m glad that he is putting up these boundaries, but I am so worried for him being with her. I’m very worried about him.
She is pretty but needs someone more like her
Chidi is awful 🤦♀️ calling her big and saying weird shit first meeting her even though she accepted him and his disability
He said she's soft and tender 😂😂like she's a pot roast
What is his disability? I’m just catching up on the show
@@uwpride he's blind
She looks the the grown up version of that girl from good burger. The one at the psych ward
She needs to relax Galaxy is insecure
These peoples make me feel depressed 😮
I hate how because someone has an “acceptable,” reasoning behind something, we ignore the manipulation or deceit behind it. It’s okay to be rooted in your faith, it’s not okay to not disclose the boundaries, expectations, etc. that you adhere to in your faith. If he was apart of a religion or adhered to certain principles Western civilization didn’t approve of y’all would be ridiculing him for not being open and honest.
Couple of the season 😊😊😊😊
He knows she does not look the same in real life.
my underbelly tells me somtehing is just not right about this couple, i guess time will tell.
I agree I think it’s her
@@JM-wn1gr yes, why would a healthy women choose a blind one,without papers. She looks like a introverted Angela(from micael and angela)...
Wow even rejected by a blind man..damn girl i feel so 😢for u
the blind develop their other senses. So he can smell her, hear her, feel her better than folks who see can.
He is sweet
She’s crazy
My prayer in all of this is (and especially for this couple) is that she is as CALM.and SWEET as projects herself to be. I pray we don't see an ANGELA Part 2 as the series unravel. He's made his stance very clear about abstinence kindly respect it. And if I were her and she truly loves him, this is enough fact that he's very descent, responsible and a keeper. But....let's see how it goes!
😂😂Another Usman. These guys Lowkey not attracted to these women
I applause that young man for the choice he made, and I hope and pray that they both go for some tests before they have sex, because I watched these reality shows and people just met and have sex without taking aid's test or std and I wonder how can you act like that, it's scary 😱
Lol, 😂😂😂😂.
nooooo😂😂😂😂
Good 🧐 BE true to God
Dam girl fix you’re sweaty hair
She wants her fish to get tamed to badly
Hahaha 😭😭😭
Im happy he’s blind he doesn’t have to see how bad she really is 😂 poor guy 😅
😂😂😂
😢😢😢😢😂😂😂
Witch
What normal man would request something like that ? I think there is something else going on with him that he may be hiding from her. He may have ED or worrying about the size of his package. He needs to be honest with her.
Maybe he senses red flags. It’s not ok to just rush and sleep with someone. you gotta make sure they not crazy
Omg!! Ya ll trippin. So being a proper gentle man is a no no??? Stupid
I believe it’s a part of his faith to not have sex before marriage.
It’s his religious culture. People take that seriously.
Some people actually stick to their faith, even men…I know that may be hard to believe but they’re out there
He smells bad breath
Or fish