The Way Out (Gay short Film)

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  • The Way Out tells the story of Ryan (42), married and a father of two who is forced to come out of the closet during their vacation to Mexico.
    Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgendered, LGBTQ

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  • @briananderson8428
    @briananderson8428 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    "I wanted him to live my way. Now he doesn't live at all." This might be the best short I've ever seen. So well done.

  • @kjohns5139
    @kjohns5139 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Great short film, and so tragically true. Many closeted gay men are living two lives, with wives and children. However; it not only hurts the family, but in the long-run, it hurts the man trying to live two lives. it is very unfair that in the vast majority of these men's cases, family, religion, society and circumstances forced them into a traditionally straight life. A life where they could never be happy, or live-out their true selves. And once the children come along, the lies grow bigger, more often, and to more people. One day the guy wakes up to find the massive web of deceit he's woven for himself, feeling there's no way out. I know all this to be true. I lived a lie for 32 years. And even though I never cheated on my wife, I never knew the contentment, fulfillment, and happiness of being me, and knowing how to love and be loved as I was created to be, by a man side. But at 55-years-old, after 32 years of marriage, and two grown sons, I met a wonderful man who helped me see who I really was. At the time, I was in Evangelical ministry, for decades, and he was a Roman Catholic priest, of over 18 years. Subsequently, I got divorced, and he left the Church. And to say it was tough, is a massive understatement. In 2012 we got engaged to be married. At the point that I choose to be honest and open, I stopped living everyone else’s truth, and choose to live mine. It was very hard, for everyone involved, but finally I was free. And THAT, is worth, all you have to pay for that freedom. As difficult as it would be for this man to come out, in the long-run, it would be best, for him and everyone in his life. Sometimes your truth, is hard to live, but it is always better than living a lie.

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thanks for sharing. I believe that they are still millions of guys around the world that are living double life fearing, and not knowing how to revile them selfs to the world. Sadly many of them never do.

    • @danielstrussenberg
      @danielstrussenberg ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😊

    • @tvrajagopalaniyer8375
      @tvrajagopalaniyer8375 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@shimonkabili555425:18

    • @siegfriedsomseb2974
      @siegfriedsomseb2974 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@shimonkabili5554❤

  • @muwanguzishakira
    @muwanguzishakira 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    😢😢😢😢the conversation grandpa gave was soo painful. He's not living ma way nor other ways 😭😭😭 they need to be loved and accepted. No one has right to judge them.

  • @mail2toan
    @mail2toan ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Wow, it's so tragic for everyone in this story. I want to know the real story this was based from. I hope they all come out happy and at peace. Wow, powerful dramatic short! 👏

  • @kanishkk6531
    @kanishkk6531 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    @Shimon Kabili - Thank you for this very meaningful short film....
    I am Indian & gay and in my late forties. I came out to my parents when they wanted me to marry a woman. They accepted me immediately though I'm not sure they entirely understood the difficulties, the sadness and worst of all the loneliness of being gay & single in India. Despite it all, I'm relieved that I'm not living a double life and a lie. Your short film reaffirmed my belief that I did the right thing years ago....

    • @saroxkingdom
      @saroxkingdom 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You're lucky. Your parents accepted you. Mine haven't. We just don't talk about it, and I'm still living under their roof.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@saroxkingdom Get out of that bloody house!

  • @tomob102
    @tomob102 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Beach scene was soo romantic

  • @angelfmf
    @angelfmf ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Very touching story, special the scene in the car, i dont pity the main character though he made all his choices like many people i know, but im glad he found his way in the end*

  • @aaric1703
    @aaric1703 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Excellent and unexpected film. It never ceases to amaze me how people use religion as a basis for hate.

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too.

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because religion is hate. Simple

    • @WorldEye88
      @WorldEye88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The family was Jewish. It really doesn’t matter about religion. In this case is him who’s living a double life. The wife is the victim.

  • @staymonspencertcb7046
    @staymonspencertcb7046 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My fear was so high if they get caught 🫣

  • @pixie99
    @pixie99 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you xx

  • @josemartinseurodance4735
    @josemartinseurodance4735 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    BELA FOTOGRAFIA E UM CASAL GAY LINDOS ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @royyork2546
    @royyork2546 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    A WONDERFUL STORY..WISHING LIFESTYLE WOULD BE EASIER....LOVE STORY..SINCERELY, ROY LEONARDO DUKE YORK 2ND...

  • @joeowens6180
    @joeowens6180 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Extremely well done; the policeman was compassionate, but Ryan's life will always have a double torture. I hope he has learned...... "what you are doing."

  • @georgensal
    @georgensal ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very well done.....

  • @dougrobnyc
    @dougrobnyc 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Bisexual or Gay living in the closet is no way to live.

  • @hunterchampion5433
    @hunterchampion5433 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That’s so foul with your wife and kids on the trip. You’re cheating everyone. I don’t really believe in cheating but I believe in honesty. I understand that sex can just be Sex but you have to be considerate and transparent.

  • @irenejunechiriikenyangal254
    @irenejunechiriikenyangal254 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🔥🔥🔥🔥😘😘😘😘

  • @LMays-cu2hp
    @LMays-cu2hp ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very nice..

  • @Budnbuf
    @Budnbuf ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Well done. I am hoping to see more from you Shimon.

  • @joellebrown539
    @joellebrown539 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The argentinian guy is really beautiful. Whats his name?

  • @WorldEye88
    @WorldEye88 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great movie. Israeli and Mexican cast with excellent performance. A real situation. However 11:55, how stupid can you be to leave the bed to look for a guy in the streets in the middle of the night…
    The urges were really bad. He got lucky. Police were benevolent and helped him.

  • @rajhakesepian1211
    @rajhakesepian1211 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ni film pendek ap masih ada film fullnya

  • @2622ja
    @2622ja 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ein Ende ohne Ende.

  • @Twinkietoots
    @Twinkietoots ปีที่แล้ว +5

    And the message is ????? Live your life in a lie ????

  • @stevelapierre4776
    @stevelapierre4776 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is based on TRUE EVENTS.... people comment, ''touching, well done...'! It is anti-human... If gays are treated like this in Mehico... I never knew this... Well to hell with Mehico!!!

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes it's base on my true experience.

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you the married guy? And did you get together with the other guy?

    • @stevelapierre4776
      @stevelapierre4776 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsallagame7354 Hi, NO.. I am not but spoke to the real guy and THIS is really what happened to him unreal... I knew a few people go there every year, and meet teen male prostitutes on the beach and I find this true story.. To hell with Mexico like I said....is this ok!!!??

    • @Deftonesalexglover_girl
      @Deftonesalexglover_girl ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shimonkabili5554ממש עצוב לי לשמוע מקווה שהיחס ישתנה.

  • @SomoIya-qh7jz
    @SomoIya-qh7jz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥰🥰😍😍💕💕❤️❤️💖💖💞💞👍💯

  • @behnammobile1505
    @behnammobile1505 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Please make Farsi subtitles

  • @juancarlosdelacruz7859
    @juancarlosdelacruz7859 ปีที่แล้ว

    Por favor en español

  • @neculaiboranda
    @neculaiboranda ปีที่แล้ว

    😅😅😅😅

  • @jammyhome8544
    @jammyhome8544 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So funny one 😂😂😂

  • @josephlenehan4461
    @josephlenehan4461 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Joseph and today

  • @juanramos.jr.7948
    @juanramos.jr.7948 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    En tiempo la mentira se va da cuenta! La verdad siempre va salir! Yo siento por la familia, todo sus vidas destruirlo! Se el sabia que era gay el debería da cuenta de principio. El solo destruir la vida de todos. Merecer que lo espera! Solo opinión de un gay!

  • @Natalieollievere-lr5jy
    @Natalieollievere-lr5jy 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ROMANS 5:8 BUT GOD COMMENDETH HIS LOVE TOWARD US ,IN THAT, WHILE WE WERE YET SINNERS , CHRIST DIED FOR US.

    • @declankelly9829
      @declankelly9829 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are quoting a man who abused homosexual people. Read Romans chapter 1. Paul from Tarsus was exactly like the Police chief in the movie. He was homophobic. Since you quote him I suspect you are too.

    • @I_JUST_LOVE_MEN
      @I_JUST_LOVE_MEN 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      That means you can do anything but you'll go to heaven?

  • @DANIIEL32
    @DANIIEL32 ปีที่แล้ว

    ?

  • @neculaiboranda
    @neculaiboranda ปีที่แล้ว

    😊r55r😊

  • @keithdubas8044
    @keithdubas8044 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This presents itself as a LGBTQ film, but it is not. It infers you should live as a frustracted, closeted person.

    • @crowwatcher172
      @crowwatcher172 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      True, wrong message

  • @hpy9137
    @hpy9137 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    El objetivo principal del corto parece ser continuar con la manía de los estadounidenses de ofender a otras naciones desde su supuesta superioridad. Cuando terminan negando las injusticias de su tierra y lo conservadores que son en su gran mayoría. Tristemente realista. Todos sufren por no ser honestos y dejar ser.

  • @cynthiajones4332
    @cynthiajones4332 ปีที่แล้ว

    Truly I say to you, whoever hears my word (Jesus) and believes him who sent me (God) has eternal life. He does not come into judgment, but has passed from death to life.John 5:24 Are people born gay? Do people choose to commit adultery/fornicate or are they born with a tendency to sin? Please think about it. Repent/believe or you will not inherit the kingdom of God. Out of love Jesus died for you, live for Him.

    • @KCal1213
      @KCal1213 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shut the hell up with your stupidity. Worry about your own eternal life.

    • @neilcognito
      @neilcognito ปีที่แล้ว +10

      How do you say, "Piss off" in spanish? 😕
      Also, note your bible also say, to not force your beleives and teachings on others. That is a sin, and you will not inherit his kingdom.
      Now, please go repent, and bug off.

    • @shimonkabili5554
      @shimonkabili5554  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@neilcognito The only nasty replies that I get are from religious people that are supposed to be peaceful and come people. Think about that.

    • @felixcanas9446
      @felixcanas9446 ปีที่แล้ว

      Say what? You Dídac not understand this story at all. Why Did you watch it?

    • @itsallagame7354
      @itsallagame7354 ปีที่แล้ว

      Religious people are the most hateful and bigoted bunch. They’re not supposed to be peaceful