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  • Today's world has gone astray, purity is scarce. Sexualisation of society and we've lost touch to our morals. This poem aims to provide a solution. Lend me your ears. #MuslimLove The Anasheed in the Background by Ahmed Bukhatir / talkislam
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    This is my response/version of bball1989 video Sex, Marriage & Fairytales
    Marriage today is struggling. Divorces, adultery, misconceptions, etc are plaguing not only the marriage itself but products of those marriages (my generation and the next). My hope in this poem is to highlight the most frequent and problematic issues marriages face today while also pointing to Allah as the ultimate healer, redeemer, and restorer of every marriage. Whether single or married, my intention would be that this poem would allow you to look more deeply to Allah to either better your current marriage, or prepare for your future marriage. Jesus is our Prophet.
    Special Shout out to PureMatrimony for their support,
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ความคิดเห็น • 413

  • @SuperNia29
    @SuperNia29 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1464

    I'm a 19 year old catholic girl and this touched me so much..... thank you!

  • @sakitch1
    @sakitch1 12 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    ♥ I bear witness that there is no god but Allah and I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah ♥

  • @Nurlander
    @Nurlander 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1036

    When she is a daughter, she opens a door of Jannah for her father. When she is a wife, she completes half of the deen of her husband. When she is a mother, Jannah lies under her feet - If everyone knew the true status of a muslim women in Islaam, even the men would want to be women~~~ saying of Akram Nadawi

  • @drplatanito
    @drplatanito 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1197

    I too am Catholic I do want to study this faith.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  11 ปีที่แล้ว +1813

    May Allah make it easy for you :)

  • @TheLegendMuz
    @TheLegendMuz 12 ปีที่แล้ว +970

    I was so confused about Islam and Christianity i had to 2 friends, 1 of them is christian and the other is Islam they always use to confuse me about religion and god but you my brother have just proved why Islam is the biggest religion growing right now around the globe thank you.

  • @andalusiberia9041
    @andalusiberia9041 11 ปีที่แล้ว +2156

    I was christian orthodox,I converted to Islam after much study;but mainly b/c jesus is a prophet and not God.Islam actually says to marry only one and to marry upto 4 in certain conditions;financial,emotional,etc.support n must be just b/n wives. "Marry women of your choice,two, or three, or four;but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one."quran 4:3,majority have one wife,but in wars n when women were more than men,muslims have married more than one

  • @ranelguia389
    @ranelguia389 11 ปีที่แล้ว +906

    Amen, I say to you Mr. Lebo!
    I'm a Catholic but all I can say is.....Amazing Words!
    Keep it up! Salaam Alaikum!

  • @lircce
    @lircce 11 ปีที่แล้ว +413

    I'M SOOOO PROUD THAT I'M A MUSLIM
    فخورا جدا باني مسلم
    اللهم ادم نعمة الاسلام علينا

  • @prettyrickyxx3
    @prettyrickyxx3 12 ปีที่แล้ว +914

    This made me have thoughts of converting to Islam again. This is beautiful

  • @bobbybrady8
    @bobbybrady8 11 ปีที่แล้ว +883

    I am Catholic. This video is super good it has so many truths in it. This is the reason the world is so wrong today. No respect for God and No respect for women.

  • @smoochielipz21
    @smoochielipz21 12 ปีที่แล้ว +342

    It's sooooo true!!!! I am Jewish (conservative) and I appreciate this video 1000%

  • @2010sexyladies
    @2010sexyladies 11 ปีที่แล้ว +976

    I'm a conservative Christian (Protestant) and I think Islam is a very interesting religion. Closely related to Christianity! I LOVE THIS VIDEO!!

  • @zazjam786
    @zazjam786 11 ปีที่แล้ว +815

    This video has really encouraged me to get a new more modest wardrobe of outfits cuz as a muslim girl it's my duty to be a representative of my religion and it makes me feel bad that I've not been representing in the best way I could. Time to change for the better. Thank you for this awesome video!

  • @iwantyou9944
    @iwantyou9944 11 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    every time i hear my mother aisha and prophet muhmmed name i cry becauze a lot of people acusing them , they dont know how aisha love prophet muhmmed pbu them

  • @bigunit617
    @bigunit617 11 ปีที่แล้ว +560

    I have seen this video probably 100x. I am a devout Catholic and yet I agree with every word in this video I can recite it by heart at this point yet I will still watch it 100x more. Thanks for the great video and powerful words that I hope the world will heed one day soon

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  11 ปีที่แล้ว +1226

    Hey thank you for your comment, but I disagree. For starters, I didn't blame the women and secondly I did "look around me" and in reality all the beautiful things in life are covered up. From the pearls in their shells, to the jewellery in their safe, even to the Queens in their castles. See, Beautiful things need to be protected not put out on display for the whole world to touch and see, this devalues their true price. This was the way of our Mary (pbuh) and this is the way our women follow.

  • @ykass93
    @ykass93 11 ปีที่แล้ว +545

    i am a young muslim girl who unfortunately does not wear the hijab yet. This video really makes it clear to me how easily it is to become caught up in this life :( Insh' Allah i wear it soon, May Allah swt guide us all. Your videos make so much sense mash'allah may Allah swt reward you for making such information accessible to everyone.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    I sincerely respect your comment. It's nice to see people being realistic. Thankyou. However just quickly, Islam is as basic as it gets. Put simply - Islam teaches humans how to be humans. "I have been sent to perfect the good manners" Prophet Muhammad (pbuh).

  • @mimoushb
    @mimoushb 12 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    That was the best 5 minutes of my life
    Thank you.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  11 ปีที่แล้ว +420

    Thankyou for your comment :)
    In regards to Muslim men marrying more than one women, let's look at an example that we can both relate to - Abraham, the prophet of Allah (God) who married two women at the same time Sarah and Hajar.
    Think about the widows, the divorcees and the single mothers with children whom no one wants to marry, do we just leave them without a husband? It's for the protection of women under the guardianship of someone capable who will be fair and equitable between them.

  • @causewellyeah
    @causewellyeah 12 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    That was awesome! I'm Christian and I think that I still have so much to learn from both my religion, and other religions such as Islam. I loved what you said about before looking for a partner, you should look for Allah first - that's so true.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    Hey, it means choose a woman based on those four characteristics. But out of those characteristics, the most important one is the religion, you will never go wrong with a religious woman.

  • @ojosverdesPR
    @ojosverdesPR 11 ปีที่แล้ว +296

    Im a christian (protestant) and I like this video. I dont know why, but hearing this words I want to cry. I would like to find a man who can respect me, love God, and obey the laws. I'm a conservative young woman. Now Talking about islam what I don't understand is why Muslims men are allowed to marry more than one women. In my opinion pure love is when you love only 1 person no matter what. Could somebody explain this to me??? Please I really want to understand.

  • @capo00100
    @capo00100 11 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    If you read what had been written in Quran about Mary your eyes will tears
    do your research about it

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Thankyou :) Without Allah we are nothing. The One and Only God, where would we be without Him.

  • @Islamic_Guidance
    @Islamic_Guidance 12 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Wow, I love this, Please keep these coming...

  • @lw08eeg
    @lw08eeg 11 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    I really want to wear the hijab sooo badly.. i know its past its time but i am just held back!! InshAllah it will happen, im 24 and its about time i did

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Whoever has sincere questions on the status of women and men in Islam, by all means ask us! We're more than happy to answer. But please refrain from derogatory language, I mean please have some respect for yourself before you worry about the way we respect our women, in which we do in the BEST of manners :)

  • @josnaz1
    @josnaz1 12 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    MashaAllah. I'm an American convert to Islam. One reason I converted is because of the evil things against wish this brother speaks. I know that Allah subhanu wa ta'la rightly guides whom He pleases, but my heart is troubled at the fact that, when brothers such as the one in the video points out what he has, that's it's like talking to a brick wall.

  • @natec6841
    @natec6841 12 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Hey man, I'm Christian here, but I loved what you're saying here :) Kudos!

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Asalamualaykum Brother, I have to admit it was inspired by your "Queens of Islam" video. May Allah reward you brother.

  • @Rezz101
    @Rezz101 12 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Rather search to find Allah first, for once you found him, you're guaranteed to find her." Beautiful line, more people need to understand this statement in today's society.

  • @sweetnspicyayisha
    @sweetnspicyayisha 12 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I'm Sikh but I found this very well done. True words spoken.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's nice when people use facts :) Thank you for clearing up the hatred people are pouring out.

  • @abdulshaks9356
    @abdulshaks9356 11 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    Islam is for everyone don't matter what colour you are and what you've done in the past! You start a complete new life and this goes out to my white, blacks, asians bros n sistas:)

  • @HighHack47
    @HighHack47 11 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    Absolutely, if Christian women are really sincere they would follow Mary -Peace upon her-, and if they do so, they would cover like here, and if they followed Jesus -Peace upon him- they would have prayed like we muslims by prosternation... MATTHEW 26:39:[And he went a little further, and fell on his face, and prayed, saying, O my Father, if it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.].. but, in fact, we are the true followers of Jesus message

  • @abc123987ful
    @abc123987ful 10 ปีที่แล้ว +867

    that's because Islam is a continuation of judaism and Christianity. Moses & Jesus we prophets sent by Allah to guide the misguided and prophet Mohammed is the last and final prophet from God. All the prophets taught the same message and that was to worship Allah only.

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    Thankyou for your message. This is another stereotype. In the Quran it says clearly: "Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them.." Quran 24:30. As noted, Men are also required to guard their modesty, our dress must cover a select part of our body, the women only must cover more, because hey let's face it, Islam is a realist religion, and in reality women are more attractive in their nature. Hope this helps :)

  • @leopard786
    @leopard786 11 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    Just to add to what lebo2196 said, it is stated in the bible that solomon had 700 wives. "And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines; and his wives turned away his heart." (Kings 11:3). In fact, pretty much all world religions allow for multiple wives and Islam is the first to limit that to a maximum of 4. And even then, its conditional on that u must be just with all four of them, and if you cannot be just then it is forbidden for you to marry 4. U can only marry 1

  • @chuckexd
    @chuckexd 12 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I don't feel suppressed. I don't feel forced. I don't feel excluded. I AM a Muslim women. I'm proud wearing a scarf at a young age that covers me. It shows that some people have modestly. It's not me that's brainwashed, the sociaity is unhealithy and sick. It's comes to be that people judge before they acknowledge. I'm sick of people saying that Muslim men force things on women, that they treat them horrid. I'm sick of stereotyping.

  • @NatalieDeJayy
    @NatalieDeJayy 11 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I love what he's saying & I understand & though we both don't practice the same religion (I'm catholic), I believe we agree on this topic. -3 Much love.

  • @StaTeBrigaKoJe
    @StaTeBrigaKoJe 12 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Love from Bosnia, my Brothers

  • @ammo0oneh
    @ammo0oneh 12 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i seriously dont understand how 256 people can dislike this video.
    Mashallah Beautiful

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Wasalamualaykum, It's an Anasheed by Ahmed Bukhatir "Remember Them".

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    History has proven the nature of mankind and as much as we hide and fail to admit today's problems - they exist. We live in an age where 12 year old boys haven't left a single porn website unvisited, where married men and women cheat on each other to get a high, where young women and men are left neglected because the one they thought loved them was only using them for sex. Islam and the Quran has the means to prevent all these major problems from even occurring. So much for a "fairytale" book.

  • @limbaspramarta9857
    @limbaspramarta9857 11 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    wow.. this video is very lights and open my mind.. thanks bro !

  • @avaniiful
    @avaniiful 12 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    "Once you find Him, you're guarenteed to find her"

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    JazakAllahu Kheir

  • @Daud85
    @Daud85 11 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    May Allah SWT make it easy for you, Ameen

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    We have an ENTIRE CHAPTER named after Mary :D

  • @KZPKZP
    @KZPKZP 12 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    A case of bad apples spoiling the barrel. I'm not a Muslim but know it is a peaceful religion in its core teachings. I like your video.

  • @00uchiha
    @00uchiha 12 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That was so awesome
    This is the truth about Islam
    Thank you for telling the truth

  • @msburk93
    @msburk93 12 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm not anyone religious I was born into a religion. But watching your videos make me fall more and more in love with our religion. Please continue and keep these coming more often. It really opens my mind and keeps me researching.

  • @darkprince3007
    @darkprince3007 12 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'm a christian and i think it is important not disrespect or be prejudice against any religion, considering we come from the same roots, ( Abraham ) christians should be more sensitive.

  • @enismelda
    @enismelda 12 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Beautiful lyrics, beautiful religion...Proud to be muslim ♥ ♥ ♥

  • @saw22100
    @saw22100 12 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I feel like even if you don't wear makeup or all this fancy clothing boys seem to look at girls. Simply you can't even walk secure. He is so right, some guys just come behind girl and don't have the wisdom like a man. I love this video! Mashallah! Respect to all Muslims!:)

  • @sbayousbayou
    @sbayousbayou 12 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This honestly makes me realize that i have been wanting such a perfect spouse for such a long time when I didnt realize i NEED to strive for my perfection before expecting perfection in someone else.

  • @SmileyAl12
    @SmileyAl12 12 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I didn't want him to stop speaking. Beautifully said Masha'Allah!

  • @moonlightdreamer95
    @moonlightdreamer95 11 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    sister, just try and do it! :) just wake up one day and try the hijab on and walk out of the house. pray to Allah to help and guide you, insha'Allah you will be strong enough to do it! :)
    ps - i wear the hijab and i am so grateful for it! the hijab liberates you rather than oppresses you; when you wear it you don't feel the need to fuss about how your hair or makeup look because the hijab is simple and modest - you should have no big accessories, makeup or skin tight clothing. good luck sis :)

  • @imasymbolofpeace
    @imasymbolofpeace 12 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i love the wordings of this video...it made me cry...it reminded me of my duty as a gurl towards my religion. and its the job of us girls to expose ourselves to the minimum so that boys dont get into fitnah coz we provoke them!

  • @baller4lyfe2008
    @baller4lyfe2008 12 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Masha Allah, may Allah grant taqwah to all those involved in making this video, and the poet, masha Allah to you, very gifted!

  • @hisBOUDY
    @hisBOUDY 12 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    mashallah..:'(.. i cried... thanks Allah He showed me rite way.. inshallah Allah gives me a husband who will be like u... happines guarantied:(

  • @SIKM4N
    @SIKM4N 12 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Beautiful, May Allah guide us and keep us guided! AMEEN !

  • @susuhorsujet
    @susuhorsujet 12 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I watched it over 10 times :)

  • @KAT_511
    @KAT_511 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i had to watch this twice... i wanted to watch it again.
    brought tears to my eyes. Allahu Akbar
    Alhamdulillah i'm muslim.

  • @gasbarferit
    @gasbarferit 12 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    From Turkey, congratulation :)

  • @xscenify
    @xscenify 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    MashaAllah! May Allah bless you, bless you brother!
    JazakAllah!
    I'd love to see every one of my Ummah bound together so close by following the sunnah of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SA) - the only peaceful way. Keep the great men and women of our deen as role models!
    Salaam alaikum! (Peace onto all)

  • @Neseri2de
    @Neseri2de 12 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great post there! This is what the world need's more of, keep it up.

  • @shebaanqsx3
    @shebaanqsx3 12 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This needs more views. I can't stop watching it.

  • @x6xsavagex9x
    @x6xsavagex9x 12 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    wow....i replayed this so many times and it still amazes me!...good job!

  • @Khadija3011
    @Khadija3011 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awwwwwwww, my heart melted at his words. I always look forward to his poems, but this had me going Masha'Allah. May Allah bless him ameen

  • @D-Shuffl3
    @D-Shuffl3 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BarakAllah' Feekum Ahki so pure and so my type of woman.
    May Allah swt continue to guide protect and preserve you your Muslimah and your family.
    Subhan'Allah

  • @inkofscholars
    @inkofscholars 12 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    mashallah

  • @HyperHijabi
    @HyperHijabi 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    May Allah bless you brother for creating such an inspirational channel and discussing the intricacies of Islam! Alhumdulillah!

  • @MumsyPooh
    @MumsyPooh 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, what an awesome video! I am LDS and agree with a lot of you say. Thank you so much for sharing!!!!!!

  • @shabzy01
    @shabzy01 12 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "Find Allah first"- If only people these days learn to do that , Inshallah

  • @24FBRUM
    @24FBRUM 12 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mashallah a video every women and man should see...

  • @realoverfake
    @realoverfake 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    I hope this video will guide more people into the true religion - Islam. Mash'allah.

  • @zedkay1269
    @zedkay1269 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    SubhannALLAH u always send shivers down my spine and tears to my eyes all by only saying the truth

  • @uzzygal2k10
    @uzzygal2k10 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    SubhanAllah this brother is so talented may Allah bless him with happiness! Ameeen

  • @zaidkhanishere
    @zaidkhanishere 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brilliantly done brother, JazakAllahKhair!

  • @pWiinCeSs4u17
    @pWiinCeSs4u17 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    WoOah well done. . . im not going to sit here and say im perfect but this video actually gave me shivers and made me cry , , , all i know is that if your patient for something that means so much to you down the track not only will u understand its value but appreciate it more now that you have it right under your nose . . . and all u can do is thank ALLAH for having it . . .

  • @fatimamohamed1981
    @fatimamohamed1981 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You see, that's where people falter. Instead of what's on the inside counting, its what's on the out. It's like we think without REALLY thinking, almost as if we've forgotten who we are. But Masha Allah, this video is just BEAUTIFUL on all levels. It really touched my heart. Jazakallah Khayr for all of your amazing videos, akhi.

  • @spaztikbabe
    @spaztikbabe 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And remember, It is Islam that is Perfect in every single way and direction. BUt it is us, the Muslim who are not.
    Do not forget that.
    But it is never to late for us to change, never is. We can become even more perfect then the word perfect it self. We just need to unite with one another, and strengthen our Imaan.
    May Allah Guide us. Guide us on the righteous path.
    Ameen brothers and sisters, Ameen

  • @TalkIslam1
    @TalkIslam1  12 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Done :)

  • @AnamKhatib
    @AnamKhatib 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Subhan'Allah. Thought-provoking and a great way to spread such a deep message. Please keep up the good work!

  • @2013aghaa
    @2013aghaa 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love it love it love it!!!!!! Keep them coming!!!! Thank you!!!!

  • @TrueBluebruhz
    @TrueBluebruhz 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm Mormon, but this guys Awsome.

  • @abdullahX001
    @abdullahX001 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Assalamualaykum ya akhi,
    MashaAllah, TabarakAllah. May Allah swt show you mercy and be pleased with you.
    I hope you produce another one, soon, iA :D

  • @0famz
    @0famz 12 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Masha'Allah those are great words!

  • @funkfatz
    @funkfatz 12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Akhi this is inspiring. More than anything its reassuring! Only drives me to keep up my faith. And I hope others feel the same. Where they do not, inshaAllah they will soon.

  • @scar4401
    @scar4401 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The last lines from 4:26 onwards, hit me hard.
    I hope we live our life according to sunnah of our prophet. Amen!!

  • @umamamalik3183
    @umamamalik3183 12 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Seriously I love all of your vids Why I love Jesus, How 2 love Muhammad(SAW) Jazakallah Khair.. 2 Interesting just love them all. :)

  • @dark8paladin
    @dark8paladin 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Last Line was definitely Amazing going to take it to heart!

  • @borkan2009
    @borkan2009 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jazakallah khair . I love your poems brother.Just keep it up and May Allah give you strength and power to fulfill this dawah Inshallah!

  • @palilovergirl101
    @palilovergirl101 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There are no words to describe how amazing this is. Mash'Allah.

  • @TravellerUnderShade
    @TravellerUnderShade 12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful video, Masha’Allah. I love the many messages you manage to convey in one video. Insha’Allah with more people like you, we can start to dispel all these stereotypes and misconceptions about our beautiful religion. May Allah SWT reward you tenfolds for what you are doing and make you a source of hidaya for many insha’Allah

  • @Ashraf881
    @Ashraf881 12 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Subahanallah...!
    I Just had a Goosebumps..!!
    I Love it...

  • @Ellyanoor
    @Ellyanoor 12 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You're just amazing and every video you make is amazing, masha'Allah. I really love this one, Respect.