What your Toxic Trait says about you!

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  • hey everyone! This is what your toxic trait says about you! Maybe you're a liar, a cheater, or an attention seeker! Comment down below!
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  • @MVPerry
    @MVPerry  ปีที่แล้ว +813

    Hey everyone, this video is a joke, but on a more serious note you can always improve yourself. It’s easier said than done but it’s definitely possible. You got this. 🙏

    • @IAmPixelRice
      @IAmPixelRice ปีที่แล้ว +9

      First Comment To Exist...

    • @LegendMM09
      @LegendMM09 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The fact that 90 percent of these are my toxic trait

    • @SarahAbramova
      @SarahAbramova ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you

    • @riritsun
      @riritsun ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@LegendMM09 that's not a good thing beste

    • @vladimirsimeonov9583
      @vladimirsimeonov9583 ปีที่แล้ว

      My friend who is not my friend anymore has these traits and I was like "yeah, (friend who is not my friend anymore's name)"

  • @_chew_
    @_chew_ ปีที่แล้ว +477

    Honestly, I think toxic positivity is actually worse than toxic negativity. It's basically a form of gaslighting but in a way that you can't confront someone for without coming across as being rude or overly negative. It's a way to dismiss people's problems as not real or not important and guilt-trip them into bottling everything up. Toxic negativity is at least openly toxic and you know what you're dealing with, as opposed to all the fake "advice" and forced smiles from someone pretending to be a positive influence when in reality they're the opposite.

    • @Ich-Existiere-Nicht
      @Ich-Existiere-Nicht ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah

    • @gigi1616.
      @gigi1616. ปีที่แล้ว +17

      "It could be worse 😀"

    • @suwakomoriya5145
      @suwakomoriya5145 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      FACTS

    • @urleftkidney
      @urleftkidney ปีที่แล้ว +2

      toxic positivity is basically postive negativity
      i dont make sense do i? 💀

    • @gigi1616.
      @gigi1616. ปีที่แล้ว

      @@urleftkidney i guess positive negativity would be something "negative" that actually has a positive impact?? idk

  • @sensitivezzz
    @sensitivezzz ปีที่แล้ว +443

    the perfectionism part was too relatable...
    also seeking validation, people pleasing, comparing myself to everyone else, hating myself, over thinking, being too needy and bottling up everything inside

    • @lovelynikki_346
      @lovelynikki_346 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Omg literally same tho🥺🥲

    • @sensitivezzz
      @sensitivezzz ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lovelynikki_346 🥲 hope we get better soon

    • @theextremelysimp8562
      @theextremelysimp8562 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      are you guys ok???

    • @sensitivezzz
      @sensitivezzz ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@theextremelysimp8562 not actually, but i'm trying to get better (really slowly, but i'm trying lol)

    • @lovelynikki_346
      @lovelynikki_346 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@theextremelysimp8562 No not really tbh, I wish things could get better, ty for asking though.🤍

  • @KeebeThePlush
    @KeebeThePlush ปีที่แล้ว +414

    The hardest thing for me is admitting things and just coming out since I feel like everyone will dunk me in a heart beat for my opinion especially on the internet

    • @SlapStyleAnims
      @SlapStyleAnims ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Same here.

    • @HarmonyMoonbeam024
      @HarmonyMoonbeam024 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I'm the exact same way sometimes

    • @complantayberryproductions
      @complantayberryproductions ปีที่แล้ว +14

      same. i just have a hard time exspressing my feelings and it leads to me getting told to speak up and stuff.

    • @EmmawhateverQW
      @EmmawhateverQW ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same

    • @Alastor__HH
      @Alastor__HH ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same bro same. I just make myself to be the villain that everyone hates so no one tries to get close to me, so no one can hurt me.

  • @Z3NIN
    @Z3NIN ปีที่แล้ว +50

    “Comparing yourself to everyone: Just be yourself!”
    My problems:

  • @Hugh_Yu-Gi-Oh
    @Hugh_Yu-Gi-Oh ปีที่แล้ว +171

    "Overthinking everything" is 100% true (at least to me)😂😂😂

  • @ushopatross93
    @ushopatross93 ปีที่แล้ว +370

    My toxic traits listed here:
    Arrogance, comparing myself to others, holding grudges, hiding insults in jokes, gossiping, and bottling up everything inside.
    One you didn't mention:
    Being too honest.

    • @ushopatross93
      @ushopatross93 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @ohnocringedetector940 hahaha you best be joking! Because not accurate, or I'd actually subscribe and I think I'll just stay subscribed to MVPerry and let you cry about it

    • @ushopatross93
      @ushopatross93 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @ohnocringedetector940 nice copypasta... But still, no thanks! Go cry about it lol

    • @iwatchedtoomuchsaikik8949
      @iwatchedtoomuchsaikik8949 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ushopatross93 bro shut up

    • @iwatchedtoomuchsaikik8949
      @iwatchedtoomuchsaikik8949 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @oh no cringe detector ok but fr no one give a crap

    • @AnAlbanianFlagThatsAlbanian
      @AnAlbanianFlagThatsAlbanian ปีที่แล้ว +3

      SAME

  • @cutelycute493
    @cutelycute493 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Okay you said to list my toxic traits so I will
    1: Too defensive
    2: Always hating myself
    3: Bottling stuff up all the time
    4: Comparing myself to others
    5:overthinking things as well as under thinking
    6: I forgot that another one of my toxic traits is forgetfulness
    Anyone else?

    • @youravarageidiot
      @youravarageidiot ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too and being wayyyy to gullible

    • @NormanThe_FreedomHope22-5
      @NormanThe_FreedomHope22-5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same,

    • @vencedor1774
      @vencedor1774 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All of those traits might come from comparing yourself to others / overthinking stuff too much (social stuff). Not a psychologist, just noticing a trend.

  • @AlexaTheFox_Official
    @AlexaTheFox_Official ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My biggest toxic traits are overthinking, being a people pleaser, being aggressive, and a person who argues too much. These are going to be so hard to get rid of but so worth it.

  • @battybatboii_yt3431
    @battybatboii_yt3431 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    All the people in my class should watch this smh 😑

    • @Ernestolovesoreos
      @Ernestolovesoreos ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Past me should watch this video.

    • @Gore-Out-Starz
      @Gore-Out-Starz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same

    • @battybatboii_yt3431
      @battybatboii_yt3431 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Ernestolovesoreos I agree! Toxic behavior should be more discussed from a younger age so we can take control of it and not harm others and ourselves :))

    • @Ich-Existiere-Nicht
      @Ich-Existiere-Nicht ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @KagamineBlu
      @KagamineBlu ปีที่แล้ว

      same

  • @OfDream8811
    @OfDream8811 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    3:27 : “you bottle it up and then unleash it on some unlucky person”
    Lmfao I died, it’s even funnier because I’ve been watching ‘a certain magical index’ recently and it’s just funny to think of touma in that situation LOL

    • @v1ku390
      @v1ku390 ปีที่แล้ว

      I actually did that not long ago on one of my introverted friends because they never responded to my messages in the span of 3-4 days so I went up in person telling them there is a 45% chance pf me breaking up with her
      another thing about her is whenever I have lectures for my actions and the bell goes and im behind my friend doesnt wait for me she just leaves which is another reason why im mad at her rn however we both have autism so she probably had therapy after school or sumthin but doubt it because shes done it many times on me
      ik its kinda personal to say that but im only here for tips to improve my relationship with her

    • @Epoilable
      @Epoilable ปีที่แล้ว

      @@v1ku390 break up with her pls

  • @Kennysstan
    @Kennysstan ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Every Fandom's most traits are these words in this video

    • @user-Ityrirz
      @user-Ityrirz ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @did toxic trait: not a real person

    • @shhinysilver1720
      @shhinysilver1720 ปีที่แล้ว

      @did calling your content better than someone else’s in front of their fans is just idiotic and makes no sense if you want views. Also you are probably a bot.

  • @ACagedBird364
    @ACagedBird364 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I took that personally
    The drama and gaslighting one
    I love arguing

    • @bruh1230
      @bruh1230 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

    • @ChipsofShrimp
      @ChipsofShrimp ปีที่แล้ว

      Well yeah here’s why you’re wrong…
      Arguing ain’t good for you. But if you love arguing, let’s argue.

  • @eazyplayz3510
    @eazyplayz3510 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I love the fact that I have almost all of these traits 💀

  • @Demi-Joker
    @Demi-Joker ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Things you mentioned: Perfectionism (since I was in elementary school), self-hatred (since I was in elementary school), bottling things up (my whole life), holding grudges (there was a teacher that physically, mentally and emotionally abused me in elementary school, and I've had a grudge on her since. That's the only grudge I've had, but I've had it for around a decade), not taking care of self (because of my mental health issues, but I was improving, until I got broken up with, which sent me spiraling into a depression, so now I'm back to square 1)
    Things you didn't mention: nihilism (since elementary school), paranoia (since elementary school), compulsive apologizing (since elementary school), excessive skepticism (my whole life), unable to trust authority figures (since elementary school)

    • @theextremelysimp8562
      @theextremelysimp8562 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      about grudges, i've been holding this phrase for a very long time, and it also serves for hate
      "Hating someone is like drinking poison and expect others todie"

    • @anthonykhan1676
      @anthonykhan1676 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow that teacher really ruined your life, considering most of these traits started during elementary school.

    • @upscale9109
      @upscale9109 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would like to know the IP address of that teacher because they gotta go

    • @raptorboi5355
      @raptorboi5355 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesus, I'm morbidly curious on what happened in elementary school that was so traumatizing, so horrid that you can name various negative traits that are defining personality traits in your life.

    • @kiritokirigaya6228
      @kiritokirigaya6228 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your forgot another one: attention seeking

  • @That_random_girl22
    @That_random_girl22 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “You’re your own worst enemy and have been fighting yourself for years” ummm yep ain’t that the depressing truth

  • @T_the_Smeargle
    @T_the_Smeargle ปีที่แล้ว +31

    . . . Y’know, even if they’re just a joke I still actually felt some of them.
    Being easily controlled by others eventually dawned on me because I was so unaware of myself for a long time… I have indeed been a puppet in the past, and my extroverted emotions were the only thing showing my true self. Said emotions are bottled up now, mostly because I’m physically contained in my room for legal reasons and am patiently waiting for the transformation from introvert back into extrovert.
    Edit: comment sent before being finished, thought I’d add that this video helped me realize that I’m both a narcissist and also hate myself for being one. I did put others’ needs before my own, but now I’m full of self doubt.
    Hey, Y’know what? That one was right; I really do feel like most of these are relatable! I figured I needed help, but I didn’t realize just how bad it is!!!
    Arceus have mercy, because I’ve done everything I could to remain positive until everything came crashing down in 2020.

    • @T_the_Smeargle
      @T_the_Smeargle ปีที่แล้ว

      Sorry this was long, I’ll shut up now.

    • @T_the_Smeargle
      @T_the_Smeargle ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @yourfacereveal2242 actually no… despite the narcissism, I strangely don’t intend to be popular.
      In fact, I’m okay with hating myself because for the rest of you it’s justified because you all can find negatives and point them all out… and once told what my negatives are, I usually remember a scenario that it ended up in effect!
      . . . I’ll go back to being quiet, but the TLDR is that I never had nor will ever have the goal to intentionally being popular.

    • @cutelycute493
      @cutelycute493 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah you're an extrovert going off how long that comment is as well as going off your reply.

    • @T_the_Smeargle
      @T_the_Smeargle ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cutelycute493 I’m a horrid person and seemed to have flipped for the worse since being stuck at home.
      I honestly don’t know what’s wrong with me, but it seems that only online can I be my true self(which I guess is a little bit of a too-chatty extrovert who’s probably just annoying to you all).

    • @ChipsofShrimp
      @ChipsofShrimp ปีที่แล้ว

      @@T_the_Smeargle Bro you seem very cool ngl.

  • @alejaschmidt2598
    @alejaschmidt2598 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "Just be yourself bro!" IT'S NOT THAT EASYYYY 😭 I compare myself to others alot and I talk down about myself alot. I'm positive about others but a lot less on myself. A burst of confidence comes every once in a while, but it's Rare.

    • @xlxcy_edits5731
      @xlxcy_edits5731 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awe :( hope you feel better soon im sorry thats happening!

    • @Progamer-gd1ur
      @Progamer-gd1ur ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro you just described me 💀💀

    • @zhegn4420
      @zhegn4420 ปีที่แล้ว

      literally me

  • @StrangerThingsS5SeriesCreator
    @StrangerThingsS5SeriesCreator ปีที่แล้ว +37

    The "Taking Things Personally" one is the definition of me lol 🤣

  • @supermario5849
    @supermario5849 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    1:35 that’s a struggle I can relate the most TBH 😔

  • @redpanda7914
    @redpanda7914 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I bottle my feelings up on a daily basis because when I let them out in anyway I always look like the bad guy

  • @drucy.
    @drucy. ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So, from the listed here I have :
    - Not taking care of myself
    - Hating myself
    - Being defensive (although in my case, it'd more "distrusting", but "defensive" works too)
    - Bottling up
    And somehow... None of what's said afterward is true.
    I do take care of my hygiene, just not the rest, so I'm not disgusting to be around.
    I'm not my worst enemy. I just know I'm worth nothing and noone should bother with me.
    I haven't been hurt by anybody. I'm just naturally hyper untrusting/defensive. And it's a problem.
    Twenty-eight years and counting of bottling up many things. Haven't burst yet. Doubt I will.

  • @qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm1460
    @qwertyuiopasdfghjklzxcvbnm1460 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alright, my traits
    - Seeking validation
    - Holding grudges
    - Not taking care of yourself
    - Bottling up emotions
    -Hiding insults in jokes
    - Overthinking everything
    - Perfectionism

  • @corebit9731
    @corebit9731 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mines bottling up everything. It puts me in a dark place when I think of letting everything out.

  • @SoulKnight48
    @SoulKnight48 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ‏‪3:05‬‏ ‏‪Wow. That's a clear bullseye

  • @Mtr_R
    @Mtr_R ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Always good as usual and very relatable.

  • @memeinc7635
    @memeinc7635 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nah the comparing one has just made my day thank you so much ❤❤❤

  • @DashieXPs_Son
    @DashieXPs_Son ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lying, overthinking everything, being too negative, and manipulating, I feel terrible

  • @tokeners
    @tokeners ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As far as I am aware I have two toxic traits which I am currently working on striving to be a better person.
    Toxic traits I have currently:
    • Bottling everything to myself
    (Even if it hurts myself and others)
    • Pleasing others
    (As much as I like to help others and make others smile, I do need to be aware of others that may take advantage of me)
    • Jealousy
    (This one I am quite ashamed for this but I can't help with knowing the fact others had better than me, which led to Jealousy)
    As a kid/pre-teen I used to have more toxic traits, but fortunately all them no longer stick with me as I have already sort it out, and worked my way out of the traits, so of course it led to being a completely different person. So here are the toxic traits that used to stick with me.
    My past traits:
    • Perfectionism
    • Taking everything personally
    • Too serious
    • Judging others
    • Being competitive
    • Selfish
    (I wasn't all selfish just not considerate enough for others)
    • Attention seeking
    • Holding grudges
    - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
    So note to you and myself, it is possible to change yourself for the better you just need to think about it, work it out, take action. You can always strive to be better, it is 100% possible, we all go through character development in life or experiences. We learn something new and we become a better version of our self as we age up. Don't give up there is still hope!

  • @RelatableAccount
    @RelatableAccount ปีที่แล้ว +3

    my traits
    -Being manipulative (unconsciously)
    -Gaslighting (really rare when I hate that person)
    -Comparing myself to the others
    -holding grudges
    -Overthinking everything
    -perfectionism
    I think this is all
    now that I think it I have a lot of toxicity
    Anyways I am trying to improve myself :thumbsup:

  • @kalleldavis
    @kalleldavis ปีที่แล้ว +2

    3:10 i do overthink at everything seriously

  • @Frosty_McFrost05
    @Frosty_McFrost05 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    MVPerry: Comparing yourself to everyone: Just be yourself bro that’s all you have to do
    Me: That’s easier said then done when I suck at everything 😭

    • @Frosty_McFrost05
      @Frosty_McFrost05 ปีที่แล้ว

      @oh no cringe detector stop capping bro

  • @Blueskies2513
    @Blueskies2513 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You say I shouldn't take these seriously but these are pretty accurate IMO, I want to cry now because of how I relate to at least half of them when I don't actually and I just hate myself l

  • @timefragment5387
    @timefragment5387 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I finally found I’ll try living like this on vinyl! My Death Dynamic Shroud collection is growing

    • @MVPerry
      @MVPerry  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is awesome. I have that vinyl too. It’s a really strange, scary, and beautiful experience

    • @timefragment5387
      @timefragment5387 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MVPerry my version is on the new stargate splatter which I found at a newbury comics

  • @EEEEEEE36364
    @EEEEEEE36364 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My toxic traits: (trying to work on them rn, currently going to therapy!!)
    Seeking validation, people pleasing, comparing myself to everyone, selfishness, hating on myself, attention seeking, holding grudges, being too defensive, too needy, overthinking everything (can confirm😭😭), bottling up everything inside, always being negative
    These hit too close to home, and I’m working on myself, trying to get better. I sincerely hope I’m not too far off gone, since it’s been a while being like this.

  • @ritikapambi
    @ritikapambi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have some of these, but im finding it so hard to improve myself :(
    - taking things personally: because I'm sensitive and an emotional fool
    -seeking validation: i feel like i cant live without seeking validation
    - people pleasing
    -Jealousy : this is the most recent and one of the biggest problems i have, and it honestly ruins my whole day..i think it has much to do with my low self esteem and comparing myself to others always
    - COMPARING YOURSELF TO EVERYONE-- this is probably the worst trait i have
    -Hating on yourself: i let down myself a bit too much when i perform poorly in my exams and when i sometimes say mean things to others
    -Causing drama: because i take things personally and zoom in too much on matters in my life. i actually am getting better at handling these meltdowns, so I'm proud of that :)
    Holding grudges-i identified it recently,and I'm trying to improve on this but it's SOOO difficult 😭
    Always arguing - I'm working on it and I'm seeing improvements
    Being too defensive - this is the majority of my personality and i don't know how to fix it! Ofc, a lot of it comes from low self esteem
    OVERTHINKING EVERYTHING -: i overthinking about literally everything - about my academics, about my abilities , what people say etc
    Always being negetive- I've improved on this but , i still have meltdowns whenever something wrong happens

  • @emotivelyy_
    @emotivelyy_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

    0:39 People pleasing can be good. It can be just liking seeing others happy and making your heart filled with joy when you see others genuinely happy.

    • @syd.n3yy
      @syd.n3yy ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, but if it becomes an obsession (like me) then its unhealthy.

    • @undertale-perseverance
      @undertale-perseverance ปีที่แล้ว

      it’s really exhausting though.

  • @Funnehisslay
    @Funnehisslay ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I ain’t toxic

    • @Songbird1117
      @Songbird1117 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just for saying that, we all know you're either in denial or you've got your nose so high on the air that you can't even see your own flaws

    • @Funnehisslay
      @Funnehisslay ปีที่แล้ว

      @Flyhigh_technobladeOh why

    • @Songbird1117
      @Songbird1117 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ORTHODOXXIA! Lmaoo

    • @Funnehisslay
      @Funnehisslay ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Songbird1117ok??

  • @Topaz12345
    @Topaz12345 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i lie, take everything personally, too competitive, comparing myself to EVERYONE, hating on myself, holding grudges, always arguing, overthinking everything, I bottle up everything, aaannnddd that's it

  • @THEDEADMOLE
    @THEDEADMOLE ปีที่แล้ว +1

    -I'm an over thinker (sometimes I stay up all night bc of this)
    -Comparing myself to others
    -Holding a grudge
    -irritability
    -Bottling up emotions
    -Hating myself
    Yay

  • @user-fc6bc6en1
    @user-fc6bc6en1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:48 i know, its bad, but manipulating people is SOOOO easy

  • @spyrofreak911
    @spyrofreak911 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Overthinking and disguising insults as jokes.... Damn. You've got my two toxic traits right there. Surprised it was on the list cause those two are rarely brought up. I'm a high functioning autistic as well so sometimes my sense of humor is really dark.

  • @foxonrye
    @foxonrye ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1.comparing everyone to myself
    2.argumentive
    3.lying(time to time)(bitter lie)
    4. Taking things personally.
    Another bonus is that I used to hate myself, but I do now celebrate myself and stand up for who I am. I'm trying to be myself slowly but surely.

  • @Selardhan
    @Selardhan ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t stop myself from arguing, it’s just so satisfying, I can’t stop bro.

  • @selecade
    @selecade ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My toxic traits are, Bottling everything up and overthinking, You were correct for those ones omfg
    what makes me laugh the most is that the most toxic person im friends with who says "Im not toxic your toxic" is literaly 5 of these (specifically, Aggressive, Guilt tripping, Manipulation, controlling, jealousy) which makes me laugh even more because went I confront her about this she denies it.

  • @bnuuy6969
    @bnuuy6969 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The fact that I act like most of these in my daily life even though some of them are the exact opposites of each other
    My mood changes really fast🥲

  • @wow70859
    @wow70859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My toxic traits are: being manipulative sometimes, guilt tripping, causing drama, being to controlling sometimes, I'm starting to learn how much of a bad person I am

  • @Internet_No_Body
    @Internet_No_Body ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro you just gave the simplest of things the harshest commentary while straight up complimenting things like being manipulative, to me "Being the main character villain" sounds rad as all hell.

  • @NotMyFav
    @NotMyFav ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyone is like "be your self" but when you actually be your self you get so much hate from ppl you just go back to trying to blend in

  • @sweethoneydew3000
    @sweethoneydew3000 ปีที่แล้ว

    For me, some of those things are there because of a crap childhood, but I glad to say I’m truly trying to improve myself. Great video btw!

  • @Hiyrufox7904
    @Hiyrufox7904 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being needy sometimes, bottling up my emotions(today I got hit in the nose and as obvious as it was I still said yes when someone asked if I was ok although I was crying when they asked), abusive(only sometimes I’m like this but every fight I’ve been in the person never bothered me again😊

  • @AshleyLikesTrains-mv4tp
    @AshleyLikesTrains-mv4tp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I got jealousy, holding grudges, defensive, overthinking everything

  • @emotivelyy_
    @emotivelyy_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:49 This is why I EXTREMELY despise my narcissistic Dad.

  • @Ua_Conchubair
    @Ua_Conchubair ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Almost everything except the validation and the ones that basically is about approval from anyone or anything.

  • @JesterBean
    @JesterBean ปีที่แล้ว

    Jealousy, manipulative, comparing myself to everyone, selfishness, insecure, hiding insults in jokes, gossiping, overthinking, arrogance, dramatic, and holding grudges apparently

  • @Marsey624
    @Marsey624 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this video. Great video mvperry

    • @MVPerry
      @MVPerry  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you

    • @Marsey624
      @Marsey624 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MVPerry ofc keep it up!

    • @hypehate3238
      @hypehate3238 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MVPerry yes

  • @deltaxeno7807
    @deltaxeno7807 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Imma be real, I've been against myself so long, to the point where I made a whole character to represent that, named PUNISHMENT....I've LITERALLY been turning my negativity into lore.

  • @elliecassar1881
    @elliecassar1881 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my toxic traits are:
    lying, i usually lie about liking certain people or disliking certain people despite i actually am the opposite about that person
    taking things personally, i dont know if taking jokes seriously counts
    perfectionism, i dont know if im a perfectionist or not since i get mad at myself if i dont do things perfect especially in stuff like drawing tutorials, but i dont get infuriated or mad by stuff like a wrongly rotated tile
    seeking validation, i developed low self esteem just from being bullied all the time and i never show my own emotions, i just let people say what they think my emotions are
    people pleasing, i only get manipulated/taken avantage of sometimes but im definitley a people pleaser
    comparing yourself to everyone, i often try to "not be disrespectful" by letting people force me around, and i always compare myself to one of my family members who is not sensitive at all and is brave (and also really cocky)
    hating on yourself, i hate when people tell me to just "be positive" or say that im not stressed only ungrateful
    overthinking everything, i always worry about what people think about me
    bottling up everything inside, i often try to hide my tears when im crying and i often snap at people when i wasnt trying to due to all the emotions i have bottled up

  • @maxkar8723
    @maxkar8723 ปีที่แล้ว

    My toxic traits are: overthinking, bottling everything up until it all overflows, perfectionism, and taking things personally.

  • @SomeOddSpecimen
    @SomeOddSpecimen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    im an overthinker... And maybe i bottle my feelings, and maybe i lie sometimes, and i do compare myse-

  • @mariutaaa
    @mariutaaa ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am mostly people-pleasing, comparing myself and overthinking.

  • @Almost_Luna_Lovegood
    @Almost_Luna_Lovegood ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi! Love your videos!

  • @witchtale3159
    @witchtale3159 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My toxic traits: (some kinda personal stuff in here, but not really?)
    Perfectionist- Thinking too hard about things/(obviously) wanting things like any work I do, and my assignments to be the best they can be; unless I’m too tired or just really don’t care at the moment; This has resulted in a lot of missing assignments spread throughout my classes because I feel shameful at the idea of myself turning in unfinished assignments, even if they’re almost done.
    Bottling things up- My negative emotions, mostly just any sadness I feel (I suspect emotional neglect from my currently divorced mom, she did have mental illness but she would always ask things in an annoyed/kind of angry tone like, _“Why are you crying?”_ ), to the point where my body’s nearly instant reaction to the mixture of stress and pressure is to just cry.
    Worrying about my self image, mostly at school- That’s self explanatory, if it isn’t, pretty much just not wanting anyone to think I’m stupid for my grades (which aren’t really that bad) and not wanting to do or say anything that I think of as even remotely stupid or embarrassing.
    Refusing to ask for help from a higher up, aka my teachers- For some reason I gave myself the idea that I would be viewed as stupid for asking for help in front of any of my classes but I do feel semi-ok with one-on-one help.
    Literally just talking about my emotions or problems- It seems I just can’t do it, particularly with my dad??? I can talk about it with my friends and nothing happens but I do it with my dad and I start crying.

  • @Entofox
    @Entofox ปีที่แล้ว

    For me it is seeking validation, comparing myself to others, jealousy, holding grudges, being too defensive and bottling everything up inside-

  • @TorresGaming5882
    @TorresGaming5882 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Usually I want things either super organized or just trashy

  • @emmajumet7367
    @emmajumet7367 ปีที่แล้ว

    Being a perfectionist and overthinking things. I either over think or for get about it. There is no in between.

  • @omori.enjoyer.143_
    @omori.enjoyer.143_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    my toxic trait is rejecting help from anyone and still wishing they would come and help me

  • @arat382
    @arat382 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadly the overthinking one is true, in fact I think that perhaps saying that overthinking is true proves the fact I'm needy and an attention seeker, or that maybe I do gossip.

  • @jordanmagpiebullet7978
    @jordanmagpiebullet7978 ปีที่แล้ว

    MVPerry keep your amazing contact coming and we all will keep watching them and my toxic treat is Bottling everything up is inside and I am trying to fixing it

  • @mattuy6523
    @mattuy6523 ปีที่แล้ว

    Perfectionism, people pleasing, hating on yourself, being too defensive, overthinking, and holding a grudge when you got use me over and over again door slam and bottle it all up that's all and can be resolved somewhat well step by step

  • @LemonaY_Gat
    @LemonaY_Gat ปีที่แล้ว

    my toxic traits are this:i am literally the “taking things personally” but only to my older brother,i take stuff personally alot but then again i insult them,well only my bro bc he is my bro,and im also very mean but then kind.. idk why and then idk how i can be so mean and rude and then again i have so much empathy,everytime someone tells me their sad stories i end up feeling like i have the same story and then i get all depressed,i also bottle up all my feelings and act like im fine,and ofc alot of people are just like me so idk,and i just hurt people sometimes without even noticing it,i want to change all the bad things that i have and i do but again im human and we aren’t perfect so ill try my best on being better,everyone should.

  • @Stranger-_
    @Stranger-_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is probably a toxic trait but idk so this is like a vent/ description of how I feel thingie idk-
    In the past two years, a lot has happened. Recently everything is getting better, but I while ago I was literally on the verge of committing (I think the next word is probably self explanatory). One thing that absolutely changed me though is something that happened at my old school at the beginning/middle of this/the school year. We were working on a project and for better context, I have adhd, slower retention processing disorder, and at the time I was severely depressed and I had major trouble focusing. As we were working on the project, I had a friend, as I won’t say her name, what I will say is that she was very talented. She was really cool, nice, organized, pretty, and just overall impressive. I was the opposite. I was failing almost all of my classes, my self confidence was close to 0, I was bullied, and I just didn’t like myself. When we were working, her project (for English, which I sucked at) was amazing. Her handwriting was super clear, the writing and the detail was just astonishing. What angered me was that she said, “It’s not even that good..”I struggled with mine, I had bad handwriting, the detail was minimal, and it was awful compared to hers. One of the assistant teachers came over and congratulated her in a silent room about how amazing her project was, and once she came over to look at mine, there was no congratulating, not even a single word, or an offer to help. After that she had gone over to the main teacher, and was telling him about my progress, and it was quite obviously bad. In that room I was on the verge of tears. Despite it not even being that friends fault, I began to hate her. I still liked her as a friend, but when that happened, the only thing I could think when someone did something amazing, like get a good score on a test, or even something like a girl on a TV I saw who got in to college at an early age, or someone who was giving food to the less fortunate, all I could think is, “why didn’t I do that”, “why couldn’t I do that.” “you could’ve done that.” Unfortunately, those thoughts haven’t gone away, but my mental health has recovered since then so that’s a plus-
    Long story short, I get unnecessarily jealous when someone does something better than me, or something I can’t do.

  • @dumbmemesidk
    @dumbmemesidk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "you know that you're a narcissist and you don't care"
    Right on the money lol

  • @megvmi_
    @megvmi_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mine is unfortunately lying. I’ve become soo two faced and good at lying because of the insane benefits of it. I just twist up the truth.. 😅

  • @BigglyWeskly
    @BigglyWeskly ปีที่แล้ว

    My toxic traits are
    1: Being too competitive
    2: Overthinking everything
    3. Hiding insults in jokes
    4. Comparing myself to everyone else

  • @barryphilips7179
    @barryphilips7179 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    wassup perry, how are you doing, are you doing okay, wish you the luck in the whole world, keep up the amazing good work man, hope you have the happiest day ever, you always make me laugh and put a smile on my face everyday

  • @nufcow3n
    @nufcow3n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For me:
    1. Hiding insults in jokes
    2. Gossiping
    3. Holding grudges
    4. Arrogance (Only in football, or soccer)

  • @MinninieRin
    @MinninieRin ปีที่แล้ว

    "are you even your own person"
    I, legitimately, felt so offended, and went "STOPP" VERY audibly. AND THEN PEOPLE PLEASING WAS THE NEXT ONE AND I JUST GAVE UP

  • @jul1us.01
    @jul1us.01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being a liar is a good tool until you can't tell if you're lying or you're telling the truth and you start accidentally telling lies
    *And then you feel like you can't control it and just 😭😭😭*

  • @TawnyTiramasu
    @TawnyTiramasu ปีที่แล้ว

    Overthinking everything and bottling up emotions are my worst toxic traits 😅

  • @I_HAVE_ADHD_LMAO
    @I_HAVE_ADHD_LMAO ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mine is being a hypocrite and then thriving in being a hypocrite

  • @akemi_444
    @akemi_444 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My toxic trait is always being kind to everyone and not to myself and hating myself and also thinking I can do everything on my own and that I don't need anyone

    • @Libops
      @Libops ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it you, my secret twin brother ??!

    • @crybabyscomfortcrowd
      @crybabyscomfortcrowd ปีที่แล้ว

      honestly i feel you 😔✊️

    • @akemi_444
      @akemi_444 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Libops yes it's me

    • @VR-F
      @VR-F ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @willedscroll8394
    @willedscroll8394 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The manipulative thing is so so True on me! How? I have never been able to describe it, but I Love seeing myself as the villain. Some even like the villain more than the hero, right?

  • @rozietheroz185
    @rozietheroz185 ปีที่แล้ว

    My toxic traits are:
    comparing myself to others, jealousy, being way too aggressively positive, overthinking everything

  • @RandomSimon
    @RandomSimon ปีที่แล้ว

    I take a lot of things personally, but I'm trying to get past of it, I don't like to feel it and I hate to make my friends sad bcs of it, but I'm thankfull to them for keeping being at my side.

  • @reneedittmer9625
    @reneedittmer9625 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dang-
    The defensive one hit hard for me TwT
    Very true tho, I am pretty defensive, mainly because I feel like no one understands me :,)
    And the overthinking as well :,)
    I overthink a lot of things, and remember every single bad memory and it always just comes back to haunt me TwT
    It doesn't make me hate them tho, but for some reason makes me think poorly of myself. And I'm also pretty indecisive.
    And I'm very negative, I'm only negative when it comes to certain things tho. I don't really release my negativity on others. And I do bottle most emotions up :,)
    Man, never realized I was this damaged-

  • @nsisongikpajr.237
    @nsisongikpajr.237 ปีที่แล้ว

    My toxic traits are:
    Judging others, jealousy, being too competitive, arrogance, comparing myself to everyone, selfishness, attention seeking, gaslighting, always arguing, hiding insults in jokes, and overthinking everything.
    I know, big list.

  • @Motivationoffical1
    @Motivationoffical1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anger and manipulation and selfish gotta be some main villain

  • @ambienccabyss
    @ambienccabyss ปีที่แล้ว

    LMAO
    THE OVERTHINKING THING MADE ME LAUGH IRL CUZ THATS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS DOING IN THE MOMENT

  • @ADesiredGrim
    @ADesiredGrim ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to be a people pleaser back when I was 13
    Now 16 decided to actually be helpful to the ones that needed other then the ones that take you for granted

  • @CatKun1234
    @CatKun1234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ooooo I like the new thanks for watching thing then again it’s been a while since I’ve seen these videos lol 3:39

  • @user-vd4kb2le7e
    @user-vd4kb2le7e ปีที่แล้ว

    Damn, dude hit me hard when he talked about validation.

  • @igormaciaszek3258
    @igormaciaszek3258 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love overthinking everything it makes me entertained 24/7

  • @WowIexistnope
    @WowIexistnope 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    my toxic trait is i have mentally given up on myself, i don't deserve to get better, don't waste your time on me, im fine

  • @alivingpersonudontknowbehi6082
    @alivingpersonudontknowbehi6082 ปีที่แล้ว

    “You will never get anything done in life”
    Wasn’t ready for the truth

  • @CodeR74
    @CodeR74 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Taking things personally, not taking care of myself, hating on myself, holding grudges, being physically abusive, this is all me :)

  • @charliejohnson8561
    @charliejohnson8561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the lying, taking things personally, people pleaser, jealousy, comparing my self to everyone, holding grudges, always auguring, being too defensive, overthink everything, bottling up everything inside Some you were right(a lot) some you were wrong. Love all of your videos though!

  • @Hudaaaldin2047
    @Hudaaaldin2047 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Being too defensive :'3
    Fun fact, there's a lot been going with you if you make anger issue as a mask.

  • @N0T4X0
    @N0T4X0 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m not exactly sure what toxic traits I have, but I’d say overthinking and bottling stuff up + perfectionism are some of them, I feel the need to do everything right (shout out to my old school causing me to think this way) and I’ll sometimes overthink to the point where I get nothing done :’)

  • @vict0riathefangirl
    @vict0riathefangirl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Self-hatred
    Over thinking
    bottling things up
    People pleasing
    Seeking validation
    And sometimes not taking care of myself
    My coping mechanisms are looking at cute things and making edgy jokes 👍👍