Body Language of Attraction

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  • @ScienceOfPeople
    @ScienceOfPeople  3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Find out more in our full article on this topic: www.scienceofpeople.com/attraction/

    • @playboy_noplay_musick1935
      @playboy_noplay_musick1935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'd like to meet you 1 day. I think you're awesome. I wish more women were like you. I am a leader, but I didn't know how to handle the control and attention. I lost all my employees and friends 🥺

    • @gordongreer2243
      @gordongreer2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@playboy_noplay_musick1935 w
      G gf mom hi hi k

    • @adrianaristeo4724
      @adrianaristeo4724 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, you're sexy. I like girls that don't care about their image, Even if they don't look atractive, but they feel as they were. Attitud is better than be really atractive, i like your personality.

    • @uncledeva164
      @uncledeva164 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@playboy_noplay_musick1935 9

    • @Er.Sunil.Pedgaonkar
      @Er.Sunil.Pedgaonkar ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you

  • @josephe620
    @josephe620 8 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    Vanessa is not only smart
    she's one of the nicest people that I've seen on youtube ..
    look at the way she's so caring and considerate to other people's emotions, in this video
    even when this man interrupts her she tries to fix the sitiuation and brings up another topic whithout embarrasing him .. while keeping on a smiley attitude

  • @twes619
    @twes619 5 ปีที่แล้ว +583

    Imagine dating her... Every movement and facial expressions she's analyzing.
    *Update* Everyone, I didn't mean my comment with bad intentions. I literally meant, imagine dating someone or her and they're analyzing you and you had no idea because they're pro level status and you're already at a disadvantage. I'm a fan of Vanessa's channel and what she teaches.

    • @shirleycameron7718
      @shirleycameron7718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Shes annoying........

    • @abelflexes2
      @abelflexes2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      She'd be like a Damn terminator!

    • @Huveto
      @Huveto 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ha ha

    • @tbirdpimp07
      @tbirdpimp07 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      All women do this guys

    • @jamesturner3968
      @jamesturner3968 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Forget about what she seems to be on TH-cam. People really aren't what they seem until you get to really know them.

  • @stephenwiley117
    @stephenwiley117 2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I always find Vanessa so real and sincere! She is gorgeous with a smile that is simply incredible...but beneath that, she is so likable, kind, and caring. She has the heart of a teacher and I really appreciate that. I can totally relate to her and love her teachings. Her husband is one lucky man! Keep up your hard work Vanessa!

  • @paulao7022
    @paulao7022 5 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    I thought when a person crosses their arms in front of them, it meant they're hugging themselves for comfort.

    • @eb2129
      @eb2129 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hahahah true

    • @amywanja2695
      @amywanja2695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I thought so too😄

    • @stephaniesarahkelly4147
      @stephaniesarahkelly4147 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is true 👍

    • @derrickmwangi2967
      @derrickmwangi2967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      They are protecting themselves and are defensive

    • @banderas2000
      @banderas2000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      they are comfortable being uncomfortable

  • @quitemundane
    @quitemundane 2 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    She has this aura that makes you want her to be your friend, everyone’s friend... because she sounds calm and genuine when she talks.

  • @Evelyn-ux8rn
    @Evelyn-ux8rn 2 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Wow, I thought I was going to hear things I have already heard but Vanessa surprises me EVERY time! I learn new things every time I see her and it’s always so fascinating

    • @ScienceOfPeople
      @ScienceOfPeople  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you for watching! I'm glad to know this video brought value to you!

  • @lindsey607
    @lindsey607 6 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    Vanessa has a smile that lights up a room. Clearly, she has it goin on. A complete package.

    • @camjames8154
      @camjames8154 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      keep that to yourself lindsey

  • @mcanna5115
    @mcanna5115 8 ปีที่แล้ว +693

    i was really annoyed by the all the interruptions they made when vanessa was talking!! it was very interesting and they only were making jokes that weren't funny.

    • @shyrose2466
      @shyrose2466 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Mc Anna I agree. like shut up and let her talk. I am

    • @jasonfarthing6931
      @jasonfarthing6931 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Dudette. Chill. And the other 77 people. That was all fun and games.

    • @speechless00
      @speechless00 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's because they don't want their body language reactions to pour out.
      hhehehe

    • @dona4him
      @dona4him 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I agree. This particular show sucks.

    • @jawynn615
      @jawynn615 7 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      OH my gosh! I specifically scrolled into the comments to see if anyone was thinking the same thing I was about that! The interruptions are SO annoying! Vanessa has such great content but these hosts ALWAYS interrupt her!

  • @plazawall586
    @plazawall586 8 ปีที่แล้ว +198

    I sometimes cross my hands for comfort does not mean I do not want to be approached

    • @nasithach8027
      @nasithach8027 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      +Paul Hynes right?! exactly, I do the same thing for comfort or when I'm cold.

    • @plazawall586
      @plazawall586 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Nasi Thach - I am no expert but simply if a woman is not interested in you I think you will pick up on that I think she would not look at you and would be less interested in talking to you

    • @richardnixon2567
      @richardnixon2567 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +Paul Hynes Its more than just crossing your arms, its the facial expression too. I'm not an expert either but someone with their arms crossed and a smile on their face seems approachable.

    • @nasithach8027
      @nasithach8027 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Paul Hynes Richard Nixon ..great points. this whole body language thing is hard..I mean why can't we just have telepathic powers.

    • @plazawall586
      @plazawall586 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      +Nasi Thach - exactly it would make things simple why can we just not go up to a person and ask straight out wether they like us or not they don't teach you that at school I guess things like fear of regection and pride gets in the way

  • @ciociosan
    @ciociosan 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    "Don't point your feet at me." 😂

  • @whitneyangelie3682
    @whitneyangelie3682 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I’ve heard all of these a million times before because this stuff fascinates me and I’m always wanting to learn more BUT I’ve also learned take it all with a grain of salt. You really have to get someone’s baseline down before you start trying to read them through body language. For example: I always tilt my head (and raise my brows another supposed sign of “attraction”) when I talk to people, whether I’m attracted to them or not. Also I play with my lips a lot as a habit, so her last point would mean nothing with me. Also if I’m sitting in an uncomfortable chair or cold I will cross my arms. So while knowing these tips can be helpful, you have to pay attention to so many other factors about the person you’re trying to analyze and not jump to conclusions… IMO Reading micro expressions is a much clearer indicator when it comes to reading someone, but you have to be very observant and vigilant to be good at it.

  • @diamondmeeple
    @diamondmeeple 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This girl is an expert of attraction... and she LOOKS that way too... :-)

  • @jacobeliottmcintyre
    @jacobeliottmcintyre 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    One thing I 've learned the more you focus on working hard and bettering yourself. And not tryin to analyze people and just accept them and love em for who they are. The right woman will come along and y'all will just click

    • @HeedAndSucceed
      @HeedAndSucceed 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I hope so

    • @skipperx5116
      @skipperx5116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      River Billy you are dead nuts on. Instead of trying to make it happen, just let it happen. Most important is to be yourself. If there is something about you that the other person objects to, better now than later.

  • @hyacinthdibley
    @hyacinthdibley 8 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    "....I know they're drunk, but..."
    HAHA. BEST LINE EVER.

  • @diegomoreno5927
    @diegomoreno5927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Those old people seemed very enthuasiastic about this

    • @andyc9902
      @andyc9902 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol boomers

  • @jahfus
    @jahfus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    This woman has a very awesome spirit. Much love and respect to her

  • @TL-mm7ni
    @TL-mm7ni 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The female indicators she mentioned is outdated. This is based on studies of old fashioned etiquette society. Times and postures are different now!!!

  • @Warenikk
    @Warenikk 9 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    A classic study by Dr. Albert Mehabrian is often misquoted as “the total impact of a message is based on: 7% words used; 38% tone of voice, volume, rate of speech, vocal pitch; 55% facial expressions, hand gestures, postures and other forms of body language.” But Mehabrian never claimed that you could view a movie in a foreign language and accurately guess 93 percent of the content by watching body language. His research was focused on the communication of emotions - specifically, liking and disliking.

    • @murrayfarrellmc454
      @murrayfarrellmc454 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Warenikk I agree wholeheartedly. 7% is drawing a long bow. It turns the guru content into bunk. The moment I hear 7% I just turn off.
      www.speakingaboutpresenting.com/albert-mehrabian-nonverbal-communication/

    • @antokindness
      @antokindness 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Warenikk Thanks a lot for your clarification, which explains direct everyday experience far better than this reigning misquote: indeed, along the line of this misquote, one could never interpet correctly any recorded message or even the reasoning of Stephen Hawking.
      Thanks again.

    • @lucyrosevelt5274
      @lucyrosevelt5274 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Warenikk well aren't you smart. I'm impressed and attracted - and I never even saw your face once. (Actually I do appreciate that tip because a lot of people do interpret that the way you said.

    • @murrayfarrellmc454
      @murrayfarrellmc454 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Warenikk An update to my previous reply. Mehrabian NEVER included gestures, posture and etc in his analysis.
      In fact, the Visual component is restricted to facial expression/s only. I am pleased to say that I have had an email conversation with the Professor and ultimately purchased his book, 'Silent Messages'. The professor also stated that his findings are often presented as a "Gross exaggeration".

    • @Warenikk
      @Warenikk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +Murray Farrell MC I got that quote from Wikipedia, but thanks for clarification. I actually like the content of Vanessa and tried some of her suggestions with shaking hands and focusing on the eyecolour of a person. But it´s a shame that she doesn´t know her stuff as thoroughly as she makes people believe :D

  • @svinjamaria
    @svinjamaria 9 ปีที่แล้ว +624

    *brushes back hair*
    "PLEASE SMELL MY PHEROMONES" lol

    • @daia5016
      @daia5016 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lmao

    • @ujahonyedikachi8041
      @ujahonyedikachi8041 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Svinja I love your smile from Africa 😁😂

    • @trje246
      @trje246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      isn't that when an ancient Egyptian steps on lego???
      ...wait, no that's a _pharaoh moan_ ...nm mb ;o)

    • @rahulthukaram
      @rahulthukaram 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      whats funny in that??

    • @RaymondYocum-uw5hd
      @RaymondYocum-uw5hd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You smell like fish

  • @grantchow13
    @grantchow13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Too much is made of crossing arms and the negative connotation of being negative and closed minded. It means to me concern and deep contemplation and focus.

  • @onkyomitsu4765
    @onkyomitsu4765 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    these hosts are hilarious. i love it!

  • @bobbysweeney5377
    @bobbysweeney5377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This was a pleasure to watch. That poor man was as awkward as one can be.😂

    • @c_telking4433
      @c_telking4433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not really. Weird observation 🤔

  • @thespokenword8540
    @thespokenword8540 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think I can at times anyway have a flirty personality. It doesn't really mean much though but I notice I do the head tilt thing almost all the all time regardless if I'm into someone or not. I also smile a lot too regardless of who's there. Also yesterday, I touched my chest but it was because I had heartburn and nothing more lol. The worst was probably when I would lick my lips constantly when I was younger only because they were dry. So it's best not to take this stuff too seriously :) Other people may look really dead pan but might actually like you.

  • @DrJoySmithMaxwell
    @DrJoySmithMaxwell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    arms crossed has soooooo many meanings... for me it's often because it's so darn cold & women's clothing are inadequate!

    • @caribaez5711
      @caribaez5711 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or I’m just thinking xD

  • @1perfectstrangerr
    @1perfectstrangerr 5 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    These 2 hosts are just horrifyingly bad with their constant interrupting and lame jokes....they down play evverything she's says by making stupid remarks...

  • @paulmannguyen5665
    @paulmannguyen5665 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Although body language can provide a lot of information as to what their mood and such is, fabricated body language can actually provide a negative effect. I had previously encountered an individual who had purposely tried to use the crinkle while we were talking for the first time. I realized that the individual had been doing so without proper tone changes; therefore, it indicated that he was not truly as passionate to the topic as his facial expression indicates. Therefore, this has not only changed my first impression of him; however, the thought of inauthenticity also lingered. Body language is nice to know to figure out people, and it should only be used to project how you truly feel rather than to fabricate someone else who is not you.

    • @paulquick8806
      @paulquick8806 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's what i thought a narcissistic person is and Avoid totally sociopath..no dought

  • @addycool444
    @addycool444 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    shes beauty with brains

  • @CatsAreNiceMeow
    @CatsAreNiceMeow 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video! I cross my arms a lot only because it’s comfortable lol I guess I need to be aware of my body language especially around a crush.

    • @ibrahimhamada5751
      @ibrahimhamada5751 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I admire for your comment and it really to see a beautiful and adorable woman like you with such an amazing smile iam Ibrahim from egypt and i am 37 years old i would love to learn more about you but that is if you don't mind sending me a friend request.thank you

  • @tamaramcnelly4204
    @tamaramcnelly4204 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I always cross my arms, it doesn't mean I don't want to be approached though, it's just comfortable for me, hmmm

    • @WayAboveYou700
      @WayAboveYou700 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      oh, really?

    • @juarezsilva7677
      @juarezsilva7677 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tamara McNelly You know, it can be comfortable, but it transmits the impression that you´re have your "heart closed".

    • @mdgsk824
      @mdgsk824 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Tamara McNelly It could've started off as a defensive gesture and you got so used to it and the comfort it gives you that it stayed. The point of it is that it happens 'suddenly' as soon as someone says or does something you dont agree with or when you get approached by someone unwanted. The key to understand someones body language is to study the individuals natural body movements and mannerisms first and then look for drastic/sudden changes in behaviour. Generally speaking crossed arms are a sign of discomfort(trying to get more comfortable) and resistance.

    • @lucyrosevelt5274
      @lucyrosevelt5274 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Tamara McNelly where a sweater, smile and tilt your head. Your're pretty - you will be approached but keeps those arms down.

    • @chippedtoothbeautysfamilyl8722
      @chippedtoothbeautysfamilyl8722 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sparra Lina hi

  • @user-bu6nq1ve6m
    @user-bu6nq1ve6m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Arm crossing isnt necessarily closing, if the arms are not crossed totally (one kinda rest on other) and thumbs are visible (fists no clinched) that is called self hug and it actualy means comfort!

  • @tamiz8895
    @tamiz8895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s so gorgeous, what a fun interview

  • @josephhoward1858
    @josephhoward1858 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    She won me over at 2:21!

    • @Cod4Wii
      @Cod4Wii 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agree, that was so sexy

    • @rahatzaman4158
      @rahatzaman4158 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      absolutely right

  • @KenStentiford
    @KenStentiford 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    7% vocal, 8% body language, 85% finding them attractive.

  • @007stuntman3
    @007stuntman3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I really enjoyed the information you shared, it was interesting to learn, but I have to say, the guy in the video was a crack up, thank you...

  • @michaelashworth4172
    @michaelashworth4172 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For years I taught that 7% of communication was non-verbal because you hear it so often until I decided to do some research and after half an hour found where it came from and that it's missing the context: small children showing whether they want to an ice-cream. The 7% figure when applied to all communication is just plain wrong. So bad it was in the first minute. I switched off straight away. (And I'm talking about training I was giving in the early 2000s, pretty depressing that the myth is still being repeated.)

  • @bravowebsolutions
    @bravowebsolutions 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    omgosh she's back to school you bro, luugat that outift [wowzers power grl]

  • @BigEMarc
    @BigEMarc 8 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Don't women (and all people) generally want to be attractive to everyone they meet? It means that everyone will treat you better than if you weren't. This means that you can't use these "cues" as reference for when a girl likes someone, because they will constantly (unconsciously) do these things to appear amiable.

    • @gailwillis5198
      @gailwillis5198 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nope.

    • @BigEMarc
      @BigEMarc 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gail Willis No you are incorrect sir. What I said is true.

    • @Durka-Durka
      @Durka-Durka 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No way! There's nothing more awkward than somebody liking you that you don't like back.

    • @gailwillis5198
      @gailwillis5198 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Little Lynkx Nope.

    • @BigEMarc
      @BigEMarc 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gail Willis Wow thanks for the insight!

  • @kaartopower2793
    @kaartopower2793 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I from Somalia right now I speaking Somalia, this vedio is a great video, thank you so much.

  • @ShinyArjunSingh
    @ShinyArjunSingh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wow...man...made my life....
    Nice one, Subscribed. Please keep them coming.....

  • @deandrejordan4975
    @deandrejordan4975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When she said, "you're revving my engine" I lost it lol.

  • @NiaKitti775
    @NiaKitti775 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I tap my collar bone when im "breaking my barrier"

  • @sakiv9275
    @sakiv9275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Give one like to admire that young woman. Beauty with brain.

  • @ManishaSingh-qt4pm
    @ManishaSingh-qt4pm 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So so true... thanks for uploading....keep uploading

  • @YuvrajWithAGuitar
    @YuvrajWithAGuitar 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    so vennesa was doing all those things while i was watching her right now! she is hitting on me! Congratulations vennesa its a yes from me!

  • @briancee953
    @briancee953 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    The good sell out i usually take note of is the combination of facial expression n tone of voice. its like someone learning to ride a bike for the first time, u usually cant master everything at once, when u master balance you are struggling with direction, when u have mastered direction you are struggling with balance.

  • @kkkkkkkkkk955
    @kkkkkkkkkk955 10 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    I like the male host. He's funny haha

  • @BurningPXG
    @BurningPXG 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hard dilemma: She's charismatic because she's attractive or is she attractive because she's charismatic?

  • @jamesmercado8457
    @jamesmercado8457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I thought I was a expert in reading body language. My mind told me I was right, but eventually reality showed me that I was wrong.

  • @backcountyrpilot
    @backcountyrpilot ปีที่แล้ว

    If you can see her face, she’s not running away. 🎉⚡️❤️

  • @MXRiderFiftyTwo
    @MXRiderFiftyTwo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Been single 18yrs...
    I just can't be bothered chasing women
    And secondly I can't afford 1

    • @misteryoso8712
      @misteryoso8712 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Poor guu

    • @philgeorge1003
      @philgeorge1003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No he's got it made. They're far more trouble than they're worth!

  • @microndexasecond1800
    @microndexasecond1800 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Vanessa u r geogorous and way of explaining things blows me😊

  • @olivierbakoyogo1324
    @olivierbakoyogo1324 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always being aware with the fake or true happinesses

  • @glassbuddha
    @glassbuddha 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really like your videos. Simple and precise

  • @PHILIPWATSON82
    @PHILIPWATSON82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Relationships are now a thing of the past
    Good luck guys you're gunna need it

  • @GoldenAngel-
    @GoldenAngel- 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Be yourself, Be Happy , end of story 😏

  • @Renad-bm3ph
    @Renad-bm3ph 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    body language is so easy

  • @johnp2647
    @johnp2647 8 ปีที่แล้ว +367

    Old man is hilarious lol

    • @Guy-cs8yj
      @Guy-cs8yj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LoL he’s not even that old

    • @perfectlyimperfectmae6137
      @perfectlyimperfectmae6137 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kinda Cute & funny😂😂😂fun to be with

    • @stanbily9416
      @stanbily9416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He is not even funny. He’s annoying!

    • @hotwireyouth4544
      @hotwireyouth4544 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@stanbily9416 You realize you said he is not not funny, meaning he is funny. This sentence is an oxymoron.

    • @stanbily9416
      @stanbily9416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hotwireyouth4544 It was a typo. *He’s

  • @nkosinathilinda904
    @nkosinathilinda904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think most of these are culture-specific, I don't doubt the evolution part but I think people in different parts of the world show attraction slightly different, depending on what they've been socialised to believe is acceptable. For example, most westerners would tell you that when a person doesn't make eye contact they're either hiding something or they're not interested, that might be true for people in the West but in my country, too much eye contact is believed to be a sign of disrespect. So when I'm talking to an adult I tend to break eye contact a lot, that's just one example. My point is, context matters when you're looking for these "signs".

  • @jaytheaqua2795
    @jaytheaqua2795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    That man is hilarious 💀💀💀💀💀

  • @rg2027x
    @rg2027x 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "open up the truck, get in"... lol! 🤪

  • @josephtvshow7467
    @josephtvshow7467 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you guys I have learned a lot from this program.

  • @Babyy_girl
    @Babyy_girl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why am I unconciously saying "Don't talk to me"

  • @geoffreylee5199
    @geoffreylee5199 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    These two show why they still are in medium television market on a minor morning show; they constantly interrupt their guest. Now how I got to this clip, I don’t know how it was recommended.

  • @pedroalvesmcmxcv
    @pedroalvesmcmxcv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The caveman reason is so funny.. right with the big bang

  • @rajibchowdhury9088
    @rajibchowdhury9088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Vanessa, I love your book captivate , I am reading it . I am excited to learn more and more such a wonderful thing to understand others around us around so I start

  • @wellwhatdoyakno6251
    @wellwhatdoyakno6251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    0:15 so gorgeous, she lit me up

  • @shyrose2466
    @shyrose2466 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    My crush had his legs crossed :(

  • @slavar21
    @slavar21 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great! I'm gonna crack my date tomorrow.

  • @rebornmoron2926
    @rebornmoron2926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Folding hands is self soothing

  • @jewelsokike2712
    @jewelsokike2712 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Social awareness of others.

  • @a.christian6003
    @a.christian6003 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The gramps so funny with his comments 😆 😂

  • @lukeskywalker2116
    @lukeskywalker2116 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Poor guy. He’s totally outmatched.

  • @colouradventures8656
    @colouradventures8656 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video blew my mind

  • @mus1cal4ddict76
    @mus1cal4ddict76 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I cross my arms I do it because I my posture feels good. People think I do it because I’m insecure my body.

  • @alicanedremit93
    @alicanedremit93 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She is very beautiful !

  • @SoulsOfWisdom
    @SoulsOfWisdom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Careful of the eye crinkle smile. It literally is just as easy to fake as the non-crinkle smile. I mean, it's not even that hard. lol

  • @NippaMoon
    @NippaMoon 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Curious, if a woman had her arms crossed, sometimes I would still approach her and say something off the wall ,,, silly,,, and they tend to then put the arms down and give the gestures you spoke of about being inviting

  • @petraspetraitis3380
    @petraspetraitis3380 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Labas vakaras, Su naujais metais 🤗🤗🤗❤️🌲Padarykime repeticija ligios teisės dėl visko givenu sau ačiū kad pasidalinote. Kalba tam kad galėtume bendrauti 😀😉👍👍👍👍👍

  • @jancerny8109
    @jancerny8109 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Women flip their hair when it gets in their eyes, not when they wish to attract someone.

    • @Omegaxyz5482
      @Omegaxyz5482 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Jan Cerny I'm certain these are generalizations and situations vary.

    • @topfun4724
      @topfun4724 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Jan Cerny yeah you know. and then they get hit on, and they like why they hitting on me you know. then the guy walks away feeling stupid you know, cuz he watched this stupid video you know.

    • @kerryfoster1
      @kerryfoster1 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes and it's very annoying when they keep fiddling and tossing their hair!

  • @Chaoticdemon08
    @Chaoticdemon08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your amazing! Love the advice!!!

  • @rajsanfrancisco5074
    @rajsanfrancisco5074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I so loved this. It's hilarious too

  • @frj1154
    @frj1154 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nicely talk few points but very clear

  • @rodneydockrill604
    @rodneydockrill604 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful information, beautiful lady stunning, beautiful advice.

  • @peter50555.
    @peter50555. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Deer in the headlights… very rare…. Eyes wide open… mouth ajar… if you see this feel blessed!

  • @gerry.shafer6101
    @gerry.shafer6101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I. MUST. HAVE. BEEN. SLEEPING. TO. C. THESE. !!!

  • @jeancruse3765
    @jeancruse3765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Problem I have is if I fancy a man. I won’t look them in the eyes. I’m scared they will see what I’m thinking 🤣

  • @KTHKUHNKK
    @KTHKUHNKK 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great stuff
    Pretty much right on the money.

  • @lisacharlton1813
    @lisacharlton1813 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is nuts!!! Caveman? Evolution? What other fairy tale can you teach us?

  • @gleidson105
    @gleidson105 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best way to see if a man is interested on girl just check his body if something starts swelling and come up . Bingo he wants ya

  • @MusketeerInc
    @MusketeerInc 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow these are some really great tips!

  • @truckerdamnyankee
    @truckerdamnyankee 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very informative to upping my game...

  • @rogerbeaird3320
    @rogerbeaird3320 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I look at the ladys eyes they are windows of the soul

  • @nathantoth1527
    @nathantoth1527 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for sharing info Vanessa.

  • @Guy-cs8yj
    @Guy-cs8yj 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You really are something special @Vanessa Van Edwards

    • @Guy-cs8yj
      @Guy-cs8yj 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vanessa Van Edwards I only say it because it’s true 😊. You have so much to offer, and such amazing energy.

  • @jimdamulira7058
    @jimdamulira7058 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fabulous n it's magically presented,,,just dope

  • @kreesol6411
    @kreesol6411 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I literally saw how uncomfortable you were that whole time as he was hitting on you and his wife in a sense felt threatened and you were noticing all of that and you were uncomfortable but made sure to hide it really well so you went along with it and tried to mirror them and stay calm. Very interesting.

  • @thesunisout2858
    @thesunisout2858 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What happened to looking at someone you like and just smile.

  • @djcham1
    @djcham1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Arms folded is more indicative of pacifying ones self than being ‘guarded’ or ‘defensive’. Seems to be a common misconception in a lot of presentations I’ve been watching. Is this correct?

  • @arianaventi6299
    @arianaventi6299 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    she's so pretty