It's ridiculous people can't just go to work just to work. Instead we have to worry about being liked or being part of a click / or social group Within the job place. Employers can just fire you simply because you're not liked, despite whether you're able to do the job or not. It's a shame there's not a federal law that stops this kind of stuff from happening. All we can wish for in this case, for now, is Karma!!
@@nancyslifeshow3192 , I'm not a religious person but, I will pray for you and hope that everything turns out well. And just keep trying cuz that's all we can do. I am very sorry. I myself and my wife, we're both fired days apart because we do not fit in socially with certain people on the job field
Jeremiah Klyn yes thank you and same for you. But i do want say I was able to find a job and get hired easy and didn't even want reference from my boss that is cool that hired me but he said it wasn't necessary. I tried to keep it short my answers and I didn't have to mention I got fired. In fact I'm gonna get paid a lil more then what I was getting paid and same hours so I was very happy and blessed thanks to my friend who helped me get the job. Once she knew I got fired she decided to help me without me realizing it and I can't thank her enough cause she is a hero and angel to me. God is good.
@@nancyslifeshow3192 well that's awesome it's nice to hear a good story from one that started out bad. I wish you and others who have been in our shoes the very best. May God bless you more and take care. Thank you for sharing your story.
@@jeremiahklyn5906 thanks so much and one day I'll write my bad story and how good it ended even though the ending looked a lil crooked cause I was thinking negative for a min but I need think more positive and have more trust and faith, before getting hired my friend said have faith and I said I do and after interview got hired sp have to have faith and believe and trust. 🤗
I got fired last week from a job I just took because "I wasn't a good fit". I was at that job for a week. One week. I didn't even begin doing any of the actual work they hired me for and I hardly knew anyone. Everything seemed fine, nothing unusual, no dramatic event or workplace conflict, etc., I was just told I wasn't a good fit. I asked them to elaborate and they wouldn't. I can't stand the fact that employers can just let someone go with impunity when the employee didn't violate any company rules, policies, and did absolutely nothing wrong. It's insane. It was the most ridiculous and unprofessional thing that's ever happened to me. Employers don't care how firing someone can drastically affect their professional and personal lives, their families, and their financial well-being. No matter how much you like or dislike the company you work for, or how invaluable you think you are to them, always remember that you are expendable.
I was fired after only a few hours, when I found out the employer lied about pay, they told me on my first day I would be getting less than half of promised wage. I stated the amount I was promised, and I was told- and Im quoting... "get your shit and get out". Wow. Utter shock. I still have not seen any check for the hours I even was there. Somehow, Im not suprised. What a shit show.
This happened to me yesterday after working for a plumbing company for 2 months. I was fired yesterday because I didn't meet expectations I am a beginner at plumbing and I informed my employer of this at the job interview and he agreed to hire me as an apprentice. Well after 2 months he gave me the boot. It seemed so unfair. Is it even possible to grasp even a bit of the knowledge of plumbing in 2 months?
Stephen Ford : Sorry that happened, hopefully it means better things are in store for you. Sometimes employers or hiring managers make unrealistic assumptions about an applicant. Also a LOT of so-called “trainers” have little or no teaching skills. Just because a person is good at a job doesn’t mean s/he’s good at teaching another person to do the job.
That's an awful experience. With it being a one-week job, you could leave it off of your resume and treat it like it never happened. Hopefully, you did not leave another job to take that one-week job. Best to you! I hope that you have found another job in the meantime and are dong well.
Getting fired for the wrong reasons is pretty common and something I've gone through many times because I wouldn't back off from my principles. I do not regret it one bit.
this is happening to right now. i accept what i did. i made a mistake and i realize that. but i also didnt allow my managers to bully me and back me into a corner.
Bosses lie constantly so don't feel bad about stretching the truth. Tell them your contract ended, or you got made redundant, or you were misinformed about the job responsibilities and it wasn't the going in the right direction.
Galactic Khan same happened to me. They said it was work performance yet in January of this year I was told everyone was happy with my work. Made zero sense. You know if it was legit and you could have done better vs. When it’s bs and you worked hard and they have you some lame excuse. Don’t take accountability for an employers issues. The girl before me wasn’t good enough either. Shocker. Yet I had 2 past employers contact me trying to get me to work for them again instead while I was at this job for a year in a half. I must be so horrible at my job to be friends with all my past employers and have them want to rehire me let me tell ya! Lol
The fact is people like get let go from jobs all the time for unfounded reasons.. I am not gonna fall on the sword or admit to something I didn't do just to make myself look courageous etc. To me that's a lack of integrity if that's not truly what happened.
Anyone here because they just got fired? I got fired for not being able to handle all the paper work. I’ll take the blame sure. I wasn’t trained properly to handle stressful situations. I’m to blame and now I will find a new job. But I won’t disclose why I got fired to a new job. I’ll learn to train myself to handle stress situations. I’m growing from my experiences
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I was fired twenty years ago because of a serious depressive medical condition that medication made even worse. I was destroyed for being sick and hope those responsible for my destruction burn in hell.
Had a similar situation happen to me end of last year 2020. Was taking an anti depressant to help with my social anxiety for being in alot of meetings at work. I stopped my medicine cold turkey and it made me go in a mantic mind of state, caused me to cuss my supervisor out getting arrested and fired , they knew it wasn't me but since I was gone for more than 5 days with no contact got fired . It sucks it was a really good job and now struggling to land a job due to my pending charges
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I was terminated because they said my performance did not meet their requirements. Meanwhile I felt like the expectations were not clearly communicated or aligned between myself and the employer when I took the job and I felt I worked above and beyond to compensate for the scope of work that was much larger than what we had agreed upon. Ultimately I heard they hired a senior pm vs retaining me as a PM and helping me grow. How do I explain or accept the fact they in reality needed to hire someone with more experience yet did not provide me adequate support to get me into a larger role despite knowing my experience level
At least u didn't do the following: I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
@@Blodia1990 U r still better than my neighbor Cuong! Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that? Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. U r definitely a good, useful person in our society! YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Reason for leaving your last job, just simply say on your application that your job ended and leave it at that unless they ask for more details during the interview. By saying that your job ended, you wouldn't be lying no matter the reason for being let go unless you left voluntarily. But if your fired, terminated, or laid off, all of those do mean that your job ended at least for you. Plus most companies use employee at will policy, so they can let you go for any reason whatsoever or for no reason.
No one will hire us if we say I was fired or let go. Recruiters will black list us . Your information is good but people think we r fools to admit it . Guys you can just say I was a contractor .
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I My job has given 3 separate lies as to why I was fired the third one they gave to unemployment office I called the hr dept I said straight out so which lie are you actually going with 1 2 or 3 ??? Bunch of stuttering went on and they said you no longer work here we have to end this conversation. Well yeah duh 🙄 you lied
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
America has hardly any employee protection legislation. No protection from unfair dismissal or constructive dismissals by the sound of it and no unsatisfactory performance procedure. It's just 'you're fired' and that's that. In the UK you can take a company to an Employment Tribunal and sue them for all sorts of reasons.
European employee protection is both good and bad. If you are a lazy unproductive bum of an employee, then laws make it difficult to terminate you. If you are a good, honest, hardworking person, then laws rightfully protect you from evil corporations. you're right though, in the US, employment is "at will" and good people get fired every day, to no fault of their own.
America sucks when it comes to employe discrimination and there is no protection for employer discrimination against their own employee's. I'm glad to see UK at least stand for their own people, unlike cowardly administrators and hiring managers in America.
Don’t listen to that first point. Sometimes it’s not your fault and you may have been discriminated against, and you must get a lawyer. This isn’t always the case, however. In the instance where you were discriminated it’s important you do not accept/agree with the employer when they fire you.
I'm never going to tell anyone I was fired. In the UK a previous employer is only obliged to mention the period you were in employment for - nothing more. When I got fired I felt absolutely gutted. However instead of immediately going to a bar and drowning my sorrows, I went immediately to a local library and started studying in my IT field. I never stopped studying until I had passed a professional certification. I used the certification to go into business for myself and 3 years later I am still working for myself having had assignments in the UK, The Netherlands, Belgium and Spain! Getting fired from that crappy job and away from an insane fuck of a project manager was one of the best things ever to happen to me. However the icing on the cake was when I sent an email from my client's email service telling the truth about the behind closed doors insane antics of my project manager and it ended up with him getting fired! Truly poetic!!
Well don't say anything bad about your ex-boss. Maybe you could just give the reason they fired you and say you only agree with part of it or say there was a misunderstanding. The interviewer might be afraid you will also talk badly of them someday if you talk bad about an old boss.
I totally relate to this. I was working in a hotel, got bullied from a team leader. I spoke up to HR and they didn't sort it out for me. I decided to resign but received from them a termination letter just because I spoke up. Months after that, I got a part-time jobs in a better workplace.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
This was a very heart warming video. I recently was "let go" from a company and this helped calm me down! thank you for the advice and your calm presentation. You really made it feel like things are going to be okay. Thanks again, Amanda Maund
I got fired for coming in sick. I told my manager that I was super sick and he said that was okay then the end of the day he let me go because I couldn’t give them 100%. It was a very high maintenance place. I’ve been struggling how to explain this without people thinking I’m lying
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I was just fired today. It was a call center. They told me I violated a security protocol. When I asked to hear the call to see what they were taking disciplinary actions for they denied my request and said they didn't have to do that. I was so mad and shocked. I've worked in this place for almost 3 years. I have no idea how I am going to explain this in my next interview...
I was fired because I worked too hard and it set a bad example to people younger than me (millennials). I’m NOT joking. I was their manager and they felt obligated to work as hard as I did and the CEO said it would be bad for their mental well-being. Worked their for 4 years. Broke my heart.
Workplace harassment is real. It could show courage not to lie by saying it was your fault. Why not say it wasn't a good fit ? What if the employer doesn't tell you.
My- - boss... fired me after three weeks because I'm 'not talkative enough and it's 'fOr ThE sAkE oF tHe CoMpAnY''. Like she knows what torment and god damn agony I go through day after day to be able to be an S grade car wash kiosk small-talk employee... Now how am I not only going to get the capacity to talk in an interview, but get accepted *anywhere?*
Ian Randolph I was just fired over unfair reasons, false claims..just simply one of the managers didn’t like me from day 1. I quit my job (as a manager) for that job to only work for less than 2 weeks. Total confidence killer. Any ways I hope you’re doing well and don’t let it get to you!
Literally just got fired today I couldn’t pick up the skills fast enough to do the main labor work so they moved me to be a warehouse assistant I picked up how to do everything in the warehouse however I have to be able to make delivery’s your our job sites so the workers can do their job well I don’t have a drivers license as I have a fear of driving so I avoided it as much as possible and now I’ve been let go because of it
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I work to provide for my niece and my sister and 18 years old. I got fired for eating chicken nuggets in front of managers that seemed to be okay at the time but wasn’t until the next two weeks when the owners reviewed cameras and saw me eating them and fired me. I took full responsibility even though it was my first job and because everyone around me made it okay I took the fall I’m still looking for a new job!
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
How can I take responsibility for the fact that my immediate supervisor takes an immense dislike to me? I outperform almost all my coworkers and constantly help with other people’s assignments I’ve tried sucking up to this boss and she literally waved me away with a swift backhand motion. She is increasingly giving me “verbal warnings”, on which some events were 100% fictitious. Please tell me what to say other than “I take responsibility for my boss hating me” ,,,, because I really have tried everything in my power to improve the situation - even going out to dinner one night!,
Hi Valerie this is Stephanie, yeah I can relate to what you are saying. I worked for a for-profit educational company once, and every time the kids went above percentile, I would get yelled at and would have to hear it that 'oh they don't need the program anymore.' So, the business model is something that is important to note too. Acknowledge your time there, show future employers how you've learned from that work experience, and move on! There are long-term physiological consequences and results when someone is constantly on edge. Being mad consistently creates diseased cells in the body and causes them to proliferate. Besides, you don't want to work for someone who is unappreciative of all your hard work! You are a great employee and you deserve to have your talents, skills, knowledge, and education supported and encouraged. Good luck!
Sorry to hear he just got fired but if it’s any consolation, any time I was ever fired, which was quite a few, I always felt great relief and happiness
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Great Advice. I made a mistake that might get me fired. I don't know how it's gonna go but I'm scared. Who else getting fired that would love to share their story?
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
This might be the way to get a new job, but I don't consider it moral to admit to doing something wrong if you didn't actually do anything wrong. I have a very corrupt employer currently and am leaving to get away from the corruption. I haven't been fired but management is incredibly abusive and it's not just me as this is a systemic problem where I work. In fact my abusers have themselves been abused. That's the kind of environment I work in and why I'm leaving, but regardless, the point is that I would never admit to wrongdoing when I am innocent.
Yep exactly why mine ended. I stuck up for myself against the abuse with a boundary and was fired next day. That job never allowed for healthy communication or respect. So given the reason any employer that asks I will tell them I wasn’t happy there and this is what makes me happy so I don’t go through that again. My job before felt like family so I know what a happy and healthy environment looks like.
What's the chance of saying you "left" the company and being found of actually being involuntarily fired vs what's the chance you will not move on with the interview if you admit you were "fired?" The answer to this question matters sooooo much.
Hi, Don. I recently got terminated due to me “not communicating enough”, they didn’t think I would be a good fit for them in the future, and they mentioned that they were struggling to find work for me at this point in time. Being an introvert, I do have difficulty talking with people and I am currently working on improving my communication skills. Thankfully, my direct supervisor said that he was willing to help me with my resume and provide a positive reference and letter of recommendation. Despite this I am still a bit nervous about addressing this in my interview and what to put down the application because this isn’t the first time that I have been terminated from a position. Beside the tips provided in the video, do you have any more suggestions for me. I love your channel and appreciate what you are teaching us. Thanks.
I know this comment is a couple years old now, How did it workout? I am in that same exact position, I just got fired from being an IT tech at a company and they didn't give a very clear answer, they.mentioned the communication errors (Which is something that literally everybody there was bad at) and left it at that.
- Employers dont give a shit why you were fired. - Just tell them you resigned, they dont care. Do NOT say you were fired. - They wont call your previous employer, if they do, its nothing to worry. I have been rejected for dozens of company I applied because I admitted that I hate my job before and my boss sucks. So I decided to tell the next batch of companies that I applied, that I resigned because I want to look for another career. Guess what? I got accpeted. Other companies even called me back after I got accepted. Dont overthink!
F that. Tell them you we're laid off as part of a'reduction in headcount' RHC. Most employers can't handle the truth and oftentimes you're not just explaining yourself to HR but someone else indirectly that may not give it their all batting for you.
I was just fired from my job today. I was just there 4 weeks and they fired me through my employment agency and gave no reason. I keep going over in my mind things I might have done or didn't do. I can't seem to put my finger on it. Im afraid to apply for another office job and I'm afraid to go in for another interview. My confidence is gone. I just dont know what to do. What do canadian employers want? What is expected of the employee? I'm wondering if it was a bad move coming to this city? This is the 3rd time I have lost my job in a space of 3 months. I have never never lost my job before, I was never fired before in my whole work life of 20+ years. I feel like such a failure and I cant stop crying.
I was fired once due to office politics. So my answer to that question for later interview was that I was a contractor and they decided not to renew my contract. That's it. You can tell them the truth that either you violated a policy or you didn't meet the KPI or whatever. But no matter how briefly you say the truth, it'll look bad on you. Because if you didn't reach the KPI at your previous company, how can you make the interviewer believe that you're competent enough for their company. Or say you violated a policy. If you did it once and get fired, that's very major violation, which will be a huge red flag for the interviewer. If you violated a policy multiple times and get fired, like constant being late, then how can you expect the interviewer to believe that you've changed or you will change? Besides, nobody likes being fired and most of people will have a victim mindset towards their experiences of being fired even if they're 100% the ones to blame. And we are after all humans, when talking about things like that, it's quite usually that your emotions trumps your rations, which will make you subconsciously rant about your previous employer.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I was told my employer that I just slept in which I did about four times our household got sick I didn't make the excuse that I'm under the weather I showed up late twice in one week and I failed to do a couple tasks around the company when they asked me to do so was very busy I tried my best but how you told to approach makes perfect sense thank you for the content
I was fired 4 months ago and struggled a bit with how to answer the question. Your video gave me the insight to own my violation with explanation. Thank you.
Employment is "at will" and that's really a good thing because jobs are not "your right" but given to those who are deserving. being your own boss has it's own set of problems and I know from first hand experience.
My job got everyone laid off due to covid 19, I want to show my interest in working for them again in the future when they re open. How should I do it?
I’m loving these videos ! I subscribed to the channel after doing horrible in a Abercrombie (clothing store) interview . I felt awful, since I wasn’t interviewed in years almost a decade to be exact and I didn’t have any experience on that field. And the questions were so simple , I panicked my ANXIETY KICKED IN AND , WELL I didn’t get the part time after all 😒. Thanks a lot Don Georgevich your channel is very helpful.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
How do I explain termination when I was fired after making a complaint for harassment? Two weeks after I made the complaint to HR? The only thing that could have improved my job experience was training. My training was cut short one manager left on medical leave ...the new manager compared my job to her previous company. She was abusive verbally to me and I had multiple witnesses to this....how do I explain??? I feel like i'm on the losing end.
I have a Similar problem. What he is saying is your excuse for being fired is irrelevant to a prospective employer. Leave the excuse at home. Your new employer doesn’t want to hire a whiner. They want to hire a winner who had a bad season! So show them you are a winner and close the deal!
1988cuco wow, I am deeply sorry about that. What I learned from working for a heartless corporation is that when you file a harassment complaint, you’re a trouble maker. They will always favour management over a subordinate. You must get witnesses to back you up. That’s what I did, and finally my bully manager was sacked.
@@coccinelle80 I was updated by a formal coworker she was just fired this past week , Apparently she did the same thing to another employee. I guess too much of a liability to the company. It's really sad but I knew she would not change and she would do this again. Karma.
@@Mrdeniro100 So you would believe that it is acceptable for someone to harass you and be abusive to you at work. Her actions created my works space a hostile environment. As of a recent update she did the same to another employee and more complaints of harassment against her made. The company fired her and karma was served. Now when I answer prospective employers I just say It was a cultural and change in management .
I could be fired tomorrow. If it does happen, you helped me realize that I will be okay. I should briefly about my responsibility. Then I should let it go.
I would simply say I was laid off rather than having to explain why I was fired. A company is going to hire the person that wasn’t fired oppose to the person that was.
@G A I don't believe they can ask about the nature of you leaving. If you were fired or laid off. I believe it is only to find out the start and end date of employment.
I'm glad I listened to the end. The reasons we have been fired are different, so I handle it a lil differently. The first time I was seeing things in the company I could've reported n they knew I was seeing it, so they used my medical condition to get rid of me. The 2nd time I was given a choice to be fired or practice outside my scope of practice and I was not comfortable with the 2nd choice, so I chose to be fired the 2nd time. I prefer not to go to an interview describing the negative things I saw in previous employers... if that makes any sense. ☺
What about if your employer trumps up charges gets false witnesses frames you write you up and then does a repeat before you can have it booted out of your employee file a year later how are you supposed to take ownership in something that you didn’t do to a future employer to a future employer what about if your employer trumps up charges gets false witnesses frames you write you up and then does a repeat before you can have it booted out of your employee file a year later how are you supposed to take ownership in something that you didn’t do to a future employer
Few weeks back i realised that it really doesn’t matter to any one and the only advice would be to be modest ,confident, fluent while you are answering the interviewer. Sound like as if it really doesn’t matter to get laid off without next job because the self contained knowledge you possess.
Are there any concerns about switching careers/industries after being let go? I was a high school math teacher let go for my performance and now my goal is to get an entry level actuarial position. How would you react to this interview answer? "The reason I left my last teaching position was because I was let go due to performance. I was notified in February that my contract would not be renewed and May would be my final month at this school. During my three years in my prior teaching position, performance wise, I went from being rated Beginning, to Effective, to Highly Effective. I was awarded teacher of the month during my final year for showing continuous growth. When I moved across the country and started at my new school, I don't think I effectively planned for the new environment I was in and that, in turn, led to my unsatisfactory performance. In the moment, I felt like the first 6 or 7 weeks were going great and according to plan. I did not realize that this was just a honeymoon phase and I actually needed a better plan from the start. I feel that despite my flexibility and drive to help students, my students needed a more traditional, structured environment with specific due dates and higher expectations. Also, I learned that if it is easier for students to get an A or B, it becomes more difficult to identify all of the students who are struggling and need more support. In October of that school year, when the honeymoon period was over, I found out that things were not going well in my classes. I consulted with my coworkers on their teaching styles and inquired with my students' counselors on ways to support my students. I found new activities that many of my students responded positively to. I also participated in optional professional development geared towards math teachers on my time off. However, despite my willingness to improve throughout my entire teaching career, the first semester at my new school just did not make the cut and I accept the result. I'm really excited to start over with this new career. I don't think teaching in general was a good fit for me and I'm ready for new things."
U r still better than my neighbor Cuong! Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that? Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. U r definitely a good, useful person in our society! YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Customer approached me and asked me who she can complain against my manager that she just spoke with. I told her politely that he is the manager and no one in the store is above him to complain. She says that must be someone else beside him in the store and I said that assistant manager is only person she can speak with. Shortly after manager got angry, called me in his office and fired me. He did not want me there that I can be witness of complaint on him. So because of that I am looking for job and got some interviews that they ask. I dont know what to say. I saw video that says not to say that you were fired. So I said that I left. Any way you say you loose. If you said you were fired, you lose, if you say you left, you lose. Meanwhile the gap in my resume grows. Help!
Yeah, but if you are layed off that means the employer failed, you didn't do anything wrong. Terminated / fired means you engaged in misconduct or were warned about general performance and failed to meet those expectations repeatedly. An employer should know not to use the word fired or terminated.
What if you fell asleep because you were on day 6 of 13 hour shifts ? What do you say. You will never fall asleep again. ? I’ve been in this profession 15 years and never had an incident but terrified on job interviews
very interesting video ,this video encouraged me alot to take courage to accept my mistakes , i got all my answers , thankyou very much for making this video , god bless you 👍👍
I was fired for misconduct from my job. I had.a hearing and the administrative judge stated that my conduct did not warrant firing or ceasing of benefits. When I was fired, my wonderful manager answered the question "if she would hire me again", she checked no. This organization has stated that they will not state why I was fired they would only state the day I started and when I left. How can I get defend myself if my new employer takes the response of "no, I wouldn't hire her back" seriously, whereas my new employer would pass me by?
The issue with employers is that they know the got you by the balls and can do (technically) whatever they want with you wether your a good worker and show up everyday or not.
Don't ever admit getting terminated - ever. I know people would say honesty is the best policy, and that's true, in most cases. But you need to say something like "my contract ended", learn your lesson from the previous job and move on. It happens all the time unfortunately
Is a good explanation that the previous job wasn't the right fit in terms of the skills required, but the new job has a different skill set that is a much better fit for the abilities?
That gets tricky and I don’t really have enough room here on TH-cam to address that but if you head on over to my site and get enrolled in one of my coaching programs we can work on that one together
This video is too one sided. I would disagree that it is always the employee's fault why they are fired. For instance, I recently got fired after I told them that I was pregnant. Of course, I could say it's my "fault" that I got pregnant, but - is this really how it is supposed to work? And there are many other instances when getting fired is rather unfair: Retaliating bosses, random reasons or moodiness, narcissistic bosses, etc.
My past experience.. BY LAW .. they can be sued !!! So don’t tell them you were fired!!! New employer will Never be given that info!!!! When asked .. reason for leaving...you say it was time to move on... they can’t even answer if you are rehire-able or not!!!! They can get sued!!! Q-What would your past employer say about you... which by law they cannot provide any info...hard worker ... flexible, professional...even if they want to Btw... only references can be asked that. And you have to sigh that waiver...
I feel bad for the guy that got fired for accidentally using is corporate card. Most places I've worked at the issued me corporate cards always gave the employee a chance to pay any parts of the balance that was used for personal uses.
I got fired from a coffee place after only working there for 3 days. They said that I “wasn’t advancing fast enough” even though they knew I was new and they never trained me properly.
I just found out that I’m going to be fired and they don’t know I know that. It’s in a dental office and the office manager hired her daughters BFF and her daughter works there, she was hired to replace me and I’ve been training this new person that is replacing me. The new girl a few days ago screamed at me and told me to grow up. What do I do or say when they go to fire me, they also put an ad on Indeed for my job.
So sad to hear your story. This kind of stuff is a real shame when it happens to people. This has happened to my wife 4 or 5 times, and you know what there is no good advice to give as far as I know,, all I can do is wish you luck and hoped that by now something has worked out for you, very sorry to hear this story as I can totally relate myself. My best wishes and look goes out to you. I was fired from a job simply because two old geezers didn't like me and I really liked the job that I was doing it really sucks
Jeremiah Klyn Thank you I just got a new job a week ago, I was with this horrible Orthodontist office almost a year, I didn’t use them as a reference when I went looking. I didn’t trust them, ppl can be a**holes. At the end of the working day, the office manager said that Dr. G wants to talk to me, I said ok and I gathered up my things and walked into his office and he told me that I was a hard worker and that he was sorry he had to do this, but you’re not a good fit and I have to let you go. The lab girl that trained me in the beginning worked with me and we got along really great. She was old enough to be my daughter and she was a black girl and we hit it off and we were perfect coworkers. She was called in the office after work before I was fired and he told her same BS as he told me 5 months later, I was pissed, I thought they were being racist, until they pulled me in and told me same BS. She saw the ad in Indeed and called me, so I knew when I was called in the office that they were goin to fire me. I was one week away from being there for a year.
The only thing that is sad here is how you people are handling this! Quit, right away???? How does that help you to keep paying the bills? How does that bring you justice?? Jeremiah, this has happened to your wife 4 to 5 times!?? If you or your wife have not taken any legal action in all of those times, I have no sympathy for you or her whatsoever. You're allowing them to walk all over you. You have all the power to contact a lawyer to get justice, and you choose to do nothing. It's like you enjoy all of the abuse. You people make me sick.
Hello Don! Thank you for making this video. I just got kicked out from my job yesterday. The problem was that when they were going to tell me about that I had to let go, they kinda "sugarcoated" it, by starting the conversation with "You're such a nice girl, you take your instructions and job seriously and we are happy with you , BUT, you have a problem with working on your own and you're asking us for help when you don't understand, please notice that I've only been there for one month and they already say this, expecting me to be able to do EVERYTHING without asking for help when I'm new. That for me is just ridicolous. I got sad about this and honestly, I don't think that is the real reason. But when I keep asking them they just repeat the same "you're not good enough for us to work on your own " It's impossible for me because I've been showing my best sides but not good enough, apparantely. What can I do? How do I continue?
I been fired for leaving two notes to the manager because my boss would not answering his phone. He fired me saying, I was damaging the company. So now I started tribunal form now.
I had person i don't know her, but she already got fired but still not accept yet. Right now, if i become a psikolog or recruitment to interview or at least to talk to her, i want to asking a question. Why you get fired from the previous job? I hope she admit and accept her mistakes that cause trouble and fired is the best desicion to fix the mistakes and bring value to company.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I got fired due to having kidney stones and only taking a day off due to that and going to the ER and then having my dog since 5 years old pass away. I am 19. I can’t control these things and don’t feel the need to take responsibility as these were horrific events in my life
I was let go for missing a lot of time due to medical issues. The last straw was when I lost a pet of 10 years late December. I couldn't sign in for a few days after that. I did get medical notes for the other stuff but it didn't help.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I got fired just today because I was locked out of my workplace building while I was on break. And then when I tried to get back in the security lady wouldn’t let me back in. It really sucks man. I came in late on my first day too because I’m in a bit of a housing crisis. Literally the night before my first day I was scoping out potential places to sleep for the night. I eventually found a place but I didn’t get much shut eye.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I may be facing termination. Sadly, I work for Sam’s Club, I’m a very hard worker, I was hired as a cashier, and yet I do the job for 10 people. The main reason for my possible termination boils down to not being able to procure enough credit cards for the company.
Exactly what I needed to hear. I was laid off at my own fault but it was a combination of factors: I did not have the profile and did not want to as I was passionate about it. Still I feel guilty for letting that happen but soon or later they would find out I wasn't ready nor was the right person. Indeed my boss said he would look for a senior person with experience in the field
It,s not a big deal. No jobs are the same. How people are, what they expect and so on is pretty different from any place u get. And if you got fired, its just how it is. You can not expect you might match in everyplaces. keep trying, and you find a fine place for you sometime. Have tried to got fired sometimes before, and it hasn't stopped me from getting opportunities :)
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Condolences 🙏 man... hope u find a better job with better peeps surrounding u. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I was let go from my internship this week. I worked really hard to prove I belonged there. I was given a full-time offer, and I pushed too hard during negotiations to try to get more money so they rescinded the offer. I was pushing for more because I have a three month old son and a nephew in Peru that my wife and I want to bring to the states. They also ended my internship because I got an offer and didn’t take it. They’d have let me finish the week, but I got a call from another potential employer and took the call during work hours. I’m a recent college graduate and I just finished my Bachelor’s degree, so I don’t have a lot of experience. How do I go about recovering from this?
That’s a hard lesson to learn. Once you start negotiating that gives them every right to take the offer off the table. If you’ve ever watched shark tank it’s the same thing.
On a previous job we were given the task of deleting 1 account from a very massive database and the difference between success and getting fired was just 1 click of the mouse. Yes, 1 person had failed resulting in deleting an entire account which was in the area of mass transportation.
I found the above mentioned strategies helpful and interesting. Defiantly a psychology with interviewing.. Im going to go with them this time around. Thanks Don.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
If I had lied and had not been the honest Asperger guy I am I would still have had my job! A job that I really liked and that fit me greatly. But no ... I thought being honest about my mistake , I asked a female client with whom I felt a connection out ... she apparently didn't want to and filed a full complaint while all I did was ask one time in a very polite and friendly way ... she even knew that my company had a 0 tolerance for stuff like that ..., would show them my integrity, that it was a momentary weakness because of recent personal problems (I always get lonely around this time of the year) and would make them give me a second chance ... But nope ... their cold reasoning: "I admitted my wrong ... so I knew I was in the wrong ... I knew the company policy ... thus I had acted knowing that it was wrong and against policy ... so according to them I didn't care about the consequences breaking this policy would have on my job" Thus ironically ... if I had lied, put the majority of the blame on the girl ... I probably would have gotten away with a warning ... because they would not have bothered the client and risk her lashing out against the company. Moral of the story: ALWAYS LIE when you have enough material to work with to fabricate a beneficial case for yourself ... honesty won't put bread on the table ... not in this backstabbing, hypocritical society. Because I had a blank record for all of the 3 years that I worked there, they decided to terminate my permanent contract with 7 week notice instead of 'direct on the spot fire because of urgent reasons' ... I will tell new employers I was let go because of to much economical unemployment within the firm and that I was the youngest guy at the firm so I was let go. Sad that I have to lie ... it goes against my principles ... but in this 'MeTOO-era' apparently 'just asking someone out' is related to 'sexual harassment' ... and that's a subject one does not want to come even near on on an interview
I'm never working for a company ever again. reselling on e-commerce and a website for reselling and getting people to buy is the best thing. Need to get out of food industry, I work at a pizza shop, they won't pay me the actual rate I want so when the time comes I will be out.
I was hired at Chevy dealership after 1-week of training I sold 3 cars and 1 truck in 2 weeks and on the following Monday Manager came to me and said you have to leave, I said why? he said it is not going to work you have to go now.
Got let go last Friday from a speech therapy clinic. I was their front office assistant. The reason they stated for letting me go was I violated company policy on tardiness because I left early to save them on payroll without permission. Mind you, I was almost let go back in October a couple months ago because apparently when I reported a sexual harassment claim to HR about a patient's parent coming on to me while I was working, HR suspended me without pay for a week and while being out when I asked for answers, they said I was the one prolonging the investigation which resulted in another week without pay. They also held onto my paychecks past their postage dates since I hadn't set up direct deposit yet. In the end, their final solution was to keep the parent as a client, let me go back to work with a signed final notice agreeing it was dual partied (really wasn't though). Ironically, the final notice said that my claim was my 5th infraction in a month with 4 others never mentioned to me before and it never said what they were. I still don't know to this day what they were. How do I explain that to any employer?
Click bait. It's illegal in MANY STATES to disclose any information ABOUT an employee, other that "start/exit dates". Period. If ANYONE discloses anything else, it's illegal to do so.
that's not true, especially with my employer. in order to use them as a reference they make you sign a waver saying they aren't legally liable for anything said, etc. and yes the form they fill out allows them to tell the future employer that you were fired and why
Bullshit! NEVER let them implement into you, that it was your fault! There is no bulliying, nor bossing nor mobbing! You have to understand that, Its just a common game, where tools get into play and where you have to understand it is NEVER your fault. The company cuts corners and then you are a target. Common Tools for example are psychological weapons to harass you and make you quit your job or give you the feeling its good they quit you. 😎 Just play that game right 👉🏽 no emotions 👉🏽 no rage 👉🏽 no mercy for others or yourself! Again never feel sorry for yourself. Shitty situation? Time to move on to a better situation for you. Remember the second you understand its all just a game and nothing is personal ( even the tools they use give you the impression ) the faster you can logg out and focus on a new job. ❤️
The one issue not covered is what if you were fired for office politics and the employer lied about the reason for your termination. How do you explain this without blaming the company and taking responsibility?
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this! Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy! Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related. Almost no social interactions outside his family. Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️. I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame. People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE! Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
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It's ridiculous people can't just go to work just to work. Instead we have to worry about being liked or being part of a click / or social group Within the job place. Employers can just fire you simply because you're not liked, despite whether you're able to do the job or not. It's a shame there's not a federal law that stops this kind of stuff from happening. All we can wish for in this case, for now, is Karma!!
Jeremiah Klyn exactly what happened to me in the end I got fired
@@nancyslifeshow3192 , I'm not a religious person but, I will pray for you and hope that everything turns out well. And just keep trying cuz that's all we can do. I am very sorry. I myself and my wife, we're both fired days apart because we do not fit in socially with certain people on the job field
Jeremiah Klyn yes thank you and same for you. But i do want say I was able to find a job and get hired easy and didn't even want reference from my boss that is cool that hired me but he said it wasn't necessary. I tried to keep it short my answers and I didn't have to mention I got fired. In fact I'm gonna get paid a lil more then what I was getting paid and same hours so I was very happy and blessed thanks to my friend who helped me get the job. Once she knew I got fired she decided to help me without me realizing it and I can't thank her enough cause she is a hero and angel to me. God is good.
@@nancyslifeshow3192 well that's awesome it's nice to hear a good story from one that started out bad. I wish you and others who have been in our shoes the very best. May God bless you more and take care. Thank you for sharing your story.
@@jeremiahklyn5906 thanks so much and one day I'll write my bad story and how good it ended even though the ending looked a lil crooked cause I was thinking negative for a min but I need think more positive and have more trust and faith, before getting hired my friend said have faith and I said I do and after interview got hired sp have to have faith and believe and trust. 🤗
I got fired last week from a job I just took because "I wasn't a good fit". I was at that job for a week. One week. I didn't even begin doing any of the actual work they hired me for and I hardly knew anyone. Everything seemed fine, nothing unusual, no dramatic event or workplace conflict, etc., I was just told I wasn't a good fit. I asked them to elaborate and they wouldn't. I can't stand the fact that employers can just let someone go with impunity when the employee didn't violate any company rules, policies, and did absolutely nothing wrong. It's insane. It was the most ridiculous and unprofessional thing that's ever happened to me. Employers don't care how firing someone can drastically affect their professional and personal lives, their families, and their financial well-being. No matter how much you like or dislike the company you work for, or how invaluable you think you are to them, always remember that you are expendable.
I was fired after only a few hours, when I found out the employer lied about pay, they told me on my first day I would be getting less than half of promised wage. I stated the amount I was promised, and I was told- and Im quoting... "get your shit and get out". Wow. Utter shock. I still have not seen any check for the hours I even was there. Somehow, Im not suprised. What a shit show.
I'm so sorry for that, Steven.. :( I hope that you'll find a much better job soon..
This happened to me yesterday after working for a plumbing company for 2 months. I was fired yesterday because I didn't meet expectations I am a beginner at plumbing and I informed my employer of this at the job interview and he agreed to hire me as an apprentice. Well after 2 months he gave me the boot. It seemed so unfair. Is it even possible to grasp even a bit of the knowledge of plumbing in 2 months?
Stephen Ford : Sorry that happened, hopefully it means better things are in store for you.
Sometimes employers or hiring managers make unrealistic assumptions about an applicant. Also a LOT of so-called “trainers” have little or no teaching skills. Just because a person is good at a job doesn’t mean s/he’s good at teaching another person to do the job.
That's an awful experience. With it being a one-week job, you could leave it off of your resume and treat it like it never happened. Hopefully, you did not leave another job to take that one-week job. Best to you! I hope that you have found another job in the meantime and are dong well.
Getting fired for the wrong reasons is pretty common and something I've gone through many times because I wouldn't back off from my principles. I do not regret it one bit.
this is happening to right now. i accept what i did. i made a mistake and i realize that. but i also didnt allow my managers to bully me and back me into a corner.
I got fired for making a schedule error. I am 59. It's really rough out there. I haven't been able to find the job.
Who just got fired from their job?
Team 2000 I did June 23 2019
I just got fired last night
Me, today smh
Maybe I do,will find out tomorrow
@@nagisanmiku3764 you fired??
Bosses lie constantly so don't feel bad about stretching the truth. Tell them your contract ended, or you got made redundant, or you were misinformed about the job responsibilities and it wasn't the going in the right direction.
exactly. this employers are great liars too. no doubts.
Exactly! I got layed off today & just to hear them change the subjects on why I was being let go was down right B.S. on so many levels
Galactic Khan same happened to me. They said it was work performance yet in January of this year I was told everyone was happy with my work. Made zero sense. You know if it was legit and you could have done better vs. When it’s bs and you worked hard and they have you some lame excuse. Don’t take accountability for an employers issues. The girl before me wasn’t good enough either. Shocker. Yet I had 2 past employers contact me trying to get me to work for them again instead while I was at this job for a year in a half. I must be so horrible at my job to be friends with all my past employers and have them want to rehire me let me tell ya! Lol
I agree
Or just say you are looking for a new career path or experience as the prospective employer can only ask how long you were employed.
The fact is people like get let go from jobs all the time for unfounded reasons.. I am not gonna fall on the sword or admit to something I didn't do just to make myself look courageous etc. To me that's a lack of integrity if that's not truly what happened.
Debby Bumgarner EXACTLY 👏
That’s deep & true
Yes , what if you were harrassed?
Yes, DB. Yes, yes, yes!
Anyone here because they just got fired? I got fired for not being able to handle all the paper work. I’ll take the blame sure. I wasn’t trained properly to handle stressful situations. I’m to blame and now I will find a new job. But I won’t disclose why I got fired to a new job. I’ll learn to train myself to handle stress situations. I’m growing from my experiences
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
How’s that job searching going?
I was fired twenty years ago because of a serious depressive medical condition that medication made even worse. I was destroyed for being sick and hope those responsible for my destruction burn in hell.
solidair: EXACTLY!!!!
They are most likely burning in hell right now;)
Had a similar situation happen to me end of last year 2020. Was taking an anti depressant to help with my social anxiety for being in alot of meetings at work. I stopped my medicine cold turkey and it made me go in a mantic mind of state, caused me to cuss my supervisor out getting arrested and fired , they knew it wasn't me but since I was gone for more than 5 days with no contact got fired . It sucks it was a really good job and now struggling to land a job due to my pending charges
I can relate. I have to work so hard to not hate three people who played a huge role in ending my career.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I was terminated because they said my performance did not meet their requirements. Meanwhile I felt like the expectations were not clearly communicated or aligned between myself and the employer when I took the job and I felt I worked above and beyond to compensate for the scope of work that was much larger than what we had agreed upon. Ultimately I heard they hired a senior pm vs retaining me as a PM and helping me grow. How do I explain or accept the fact they in reality needed to hire someone with more experience yet did not provide me adequate support to get me into a larger role despite knowing my experience level
Accept it my man. It's really ok. Thank the company and move on with your life.
At least u didn't do the following:
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
@@Blodia1990 U r still better than my neighbor Cuong!
Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
U r definitely a good, useful person in our society! YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Reason for leaving your last job, just simply say on your application that your job ended and leave it at that unless they ask for more details during the interview. By saying that your job ended, you wouldn't be lying no matter the reason for being let go unless you left voluntarily. But if your fired, terminated, or laid off, all of those do mean that your job ended at least for you. Plus most companies use employee at will policy, so they can let you go for any reason whatsoever or for no reason.
No one will hire us if we say I was fired or let go. Recruiters will black list us . Your information is good but people think we r fools to admit it . Guys you can just say I was a contractor .
shut the fuck up ! you are so wrong Nancy , get over it bitch!
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I got rejected from more than 10 companies. Don't EVER tell YOU WERE FIRED. HIDE IT. Don't be honest. I GOT REJECTED FROM MORE THAN 10 COMPANIES.
I have to agree. Focus on the good.
Unfortunately you must lie
Or omit the job entirely that is trashing you (( sadly ))
it's ok to lie actually because this employers are great liars too.
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My job has given 3 separate lies as to why I was fired the third one they gave to unemployment office I called the hr dept I said straight out so which lie are you actually going with 1 2 or 3 ???
Bunch of stuttering went on and they said you no longer work here we have to end this conversation. Well yeah duh 🙄 you lied
Hi7man663 my interview is on monday, so you are saying hide it that i got fired??? Pls answer
Better answer is “business shift” or “end of contract”. Telling oh I take responsibility this n that would really screw the interview for new job.
I like the "business shift" description....it describes what happened to me exactly without details.
I agree its like your apologizing to your interviewer for why you were fired from your last job
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
'Even if it wasn't your fault you have to take responsibility' yeah ok!
Yeah I know,,right!
This some real BS if I know I wasn't wrong I'm not
accepting shit
How can you take responsibility for some cruel pricks to fire people without no reasons
Yea its easier said than done 😂😂😂
Marko Deniro lol, exactly !
America has hardly any employee protection legislation. No protection from unfair dismissal or constructive dismissals by the sound of it and no unsatisfactory performance procedure. It's just 'you're fired' and that's that. In the UK you can take a company to an Employment Tribunal and sue them for all sorts of reasons.
European employee protection is both good and bad. If you are a lazy unproductive bum of an employee, then laws make it difficult to terminate you. If you are a good, honest, hardworking person, then laws rightfully protect you from evil corporations. you're right though, in the US, employment is "at will" and good people get fired every day, to no fault of their own.
America sucks when it comes to employe discrimination and there is no protection for employer discrimination against their own employee's. I'm glad to see UK at least stand for their own people, unlike cowardly administrators and hiring managers in America.
@@MartellThaCool the truth has been spoken oh, you are quite right about that.
@@jeremiahklyn5906 especially living in Ohio as it's right to work state aka fire at will without no reason. American employments sucks
@@MartellThaCool I understand completely,,I live in Arizona,,,it is also a RIGHT to work state..
Don’t listen to that first point. Sometimes it’s not your fault and you may have been discriminated against, and you must get a lawyer. This isn’t always the case, however. In the instance where you were discriminated it’s important you do not accept/agree with the employer when they fire you.
I'm never going to tell anyone I was fired. In the UK a previous employer is only obliged to mention the period you were in employment for - nothing more. When I got fired I felt absolutely gutted. However instead of immediately going to a bar and drowning my sorrows, I went immediately to a local library and started studying in my IT field. I never stopped studying until I had passed a professional certification. I used the certification to go into business for myself and 3 years later I am still working for myself having had assignments in the UK, The Netherlands, Belgium and Spain! Getting fired from that crappy job and away from an insane fuck of a project manager was one of the best things ever to happen to me. However the icing on the cake was when I sent an email from my client's email service telling the truth about the behind closed doors insane antics of my project manager and it ended up with him getting fired! Truly poetic!!
good luck my friend.
Accepting responsibility for pointing out to a control freak that he creates a toxic environment is nothing I'm going to do. Period.
do what makes you feel comfortable
I keep hearing this but what if your boss was not a good boss. Should I just tell a story.
They fire me my job today
Well don't say anything bad about your ex-boss. Maybe you could just give the reason they fired you and say you only agree with part of it or say there was a misunderstanding. The interviewer might be afraid you will also talk badly of them someday if you talk bad about an old boss.
The shortest story you can: "The job wasn't a fit anymore."
John Meyer good advice. It’s so hard to keep it short. Especially if you tend to ramble when your nervous.
Bad bosses and jobs exist. I would just say it wasn’t a fit for you and leave it at that.
I totally relate to this. I was working in a hotel, got bullied from a team leader. I spoke up to HR and they didn't sort it out for me. I decided to resign but received from them a termination letter just because I spoke up. Months after that, I got a part-time jobs in a better workplace.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
This was a very heart warming video. I recently was "let go" from a company and this helped calm me down! thank you for the advice and your calm presentation. You really made it feel like things are going to be okay.
Thanks again,
Amanda Maund
Would you still tell interviewers the whole story?
I got fired for coming in sick. I told my manager that I was super sick and he said that was okay then the end of the day he let me go because I couldn’t give them 100%. It was a very high maintenance place. I’ve been struggling how to explain this without people thinking I’m lying
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I was just fired today. It was a call center. They told me I violated a security protocol. When I asked to hear the call to see what they were taking disciplinary actions for they denied my request and said they didn't have to do that. I was so mad and shocked. I've worked in this place for almost 3 years. I have no idea how I am going to explain this in my next interview...
I was fired because I worked too hard and it set a bad example to people younger than me (millennials). I’m NOT joking. I was their manager and they felt obligated to work as hard as I did and the CEO said it would be bad for their mental well-being. Worked their for 4 years. Broke my heart.
Workplace harassment is real. It could show courage not to lie by saying it was your fault. Why not say it wasn't a good fit ? What if the employer doesn't tell you.
My- - boss... fired me after three weeks because I'm 'not talkative enough and it's 'fOr ThE sAkE oF tHe CoMpAnY''. Like she knows what torment and god damn agony I go through day after day to be able to be an S grade car wash kiosk small-talk employee...
Now how am I not only going to get the capacity to talk in an interview, but get accepted *anywhere?*
Ian Randolph I was just fired over unfair reasons, false claims..just simply one of the managers didn’t like me from day 1. I quit my job (as a manager) for that job to only work for less than 2 weeks. Total confidence killer.
Any ways I hope you’re doing well and don’t let it get to you!
Literally just got fired today I couldn’t pick up the skills fast enough to do the main labor work so they moved me to be a warehouse assistant I picked up how to do everything in the warehouse however I have to be able to make delivery’s your our job sites so the workers can do their job well I don’t have a drivers license as I have a fear of driving so I avoided it as much as possible and now I’ve been let go because of it
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I work to provide for my niece and my sister and 18 years old. I got fired for eating chicken nuggets in front of managers that seemed to be okay at the time but wasn’t until the next two weeks when the owners reviewed cameras and saw me eating them and fired me. I took full responsibility even though it was my first job and because everyone around me made it okay I took the fall I’m still looking for a new job!
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
How can I take responsibility for the fact that my immediate supervisor takes an immense dislike to me? I outperform almost all my coworkers and constantly help with other people’s assignments I’ve tried sucking up to this boss and she literally waved me away with a swift backhand motion. She is increasingly giving me “verbal warnings”, on which some events were 100% fictitious. Please tell me what to say other than “I take responsibility for my boss hating me” ,,,, because I really have tried everything in my power to improve the situation - even going out to dinner one night!,
Valerie Merges : These jobs are getting ridiculous!!!
I'm so sorry, Valerie.. I really hope you've moved on and found a much better job where people appreciate you for your contributions
Hi Valerie this is Stephanie, yeah I can relate to what you are saying. I worked for a for-profit educational company once, and every time the kids went above percentile, I would get yelled at and would have to hear it that 'oh they don't need the program anymore.' So, the business model is something that is important to note too. Acknowledge your time there, show future employers how you've learned from that work experience, and move on!
There are long-term physiological consequences and results when someone is constantly on edge. Being mad consistently creates diseased cells in the body and causes them to proliferate. Besides, you don't want to work for someone who is unappreciative of all your hard work!
You are a great employee and you deserve to have your talents, skills, knowledge, and education supported and encouraged. Good luck!
Just got fired today. Your video is a breath of fresh air. Thank you. I am going to use this on my next interview.
Sorry to hear he just got fired but if it’s any consolation, any time I was ever fired, which was quite a few, I always felt great relief and happiness
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Great Advice.
I made a mistake that might get me fired. I don't know how it's gonna go but I'm scared. Who else getting fired that would love to share their story?
I’ve been fired many many times
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
This might be the way to get a new job, but I don't consider it moral to admit to doing something wrong if you didn't actually do anything wrong. I have a very corrupt employer currently and am leaving to get away from the corruption. I haven't been fired but management is incredibly abusive and it's not just me as this is a systemic problem where I work. In fact my abusers have themselves been abused. That's the kind of environment I work in and why I'm leaving, but regardless, the point is that I would never admit to wrongdoing when I am innocent.
that is completely understandable and I agree with your situation. one video, one solution cannot address the needs of everyone.
Yep exactly why mine ended. I stuck up for myself against the abuse with a boundary and was fired next day. That job never allowed for healthy communication or respect. So given the reason any employer that asks I will tell them I wasn’t happy there and this is what makes me happy so I don’t go through that again. My job before felt like family so I know what a happy and healthy environment looks like.
I am supposed to tell my employer about my mental disability before getting hired.
Christina Ostil :Good Question.
Id never tell my next employer that i was fired from my last job ! Never ever..
What's the chance of saying you "left" the company and being found of actually being involuntarily fired vs what's the chance you will not move on with the interview if you admit you were "fired?" The answer to this question matters sooooo much.
Hi, Don. I recently got terminated due to me “not communicating enough”, they didn’t think I would be a good fit for them in the future, and they mentioned that they were struggling to find work for me at this point in time. Being an introvert, I do have difficulty talking with people and I am currently working on improving my communication skills. Thankfully, my direct supervisor said that he was willing to help me with my resume and provide a positive reference and letter of recommendation. Despite this I am still a bit nervous about addressing this in my interview and what to put down the application because this isn’t the first time that I have been terminated from a position. Beside the tips provided in the video, do you have any more suggestions for me. I love your channel and appreciate what you are teaching us. Thanks.
I’m glad to be here helping you. Best of luck to you
How's it going now?
I know this comment is a couple years old now, How did it workout? I am in that same exact position, I just got fired from being an IT tech at a company and they didn't give a very clear answer, they.mentioned the communication errors (Which is something that literally everybody there was bad at) and left it at that.
@@blakewixom2893 I'm sorry I got fired yesterday
Keep on doing what you’re doing Don. Your content is clear, friendly, and empathetic. Big thumbs up 👍
any advice for someone who was fired because he punched a co-worker.
Youth Manual lmfaoooo he was aggravating you? 😂😂 pow
That’s exactly what happened to my dad today. But I believe in him highly - but they started it.
Can say that there are certain things I won't tolerate! I learned my lesson, and am making progress in anger management if asked!
Punch the interviewer too.
keep being THAT legend
- Employers dont give a shit why you were fired.
- Just tell them you resigned, they dont care. Do NOT say you were fired.
- They wont call your previous employer, if they do, its nothing to worry.
I have been rejected for dozens of company I applied because I admitted that I hate my job before and my boss sucks. So I decided to tell the next batch of companies that I applied, that I resigned because I want to look for another career. Guess what? I got accpeted. Other companies even called me back after I got accepted. Dont overthink!
If that works for you then do it
F that. Tell them you we're laid off as part of a'reduction in headcount' RHC. Most employers can't handle the truth and oftentimes you're not just explaining yourself to HR but someone else indirectly that may not give it their all batting for you.
I have never been fired before but this is really useful information for the future if the day comes
thank you for the info, it helped me passed my final interview 🙏 answered prayer indeed. God Bless you more
Glad it helped!
I don’t know how to admit I’m wrong when it seems that my employer was fully at fault and I want to ensure she looses her job.
I was just fired from my job today. I was just there 4 weeks and they fired me through my employment agency and gave no reason. I keep going over in my mind things I might have done or didn't do. I can't seem to put my finger on it. Im afraid to apply for another office job and I'm afraid to go in for another interview. My confidence is gone. I just dont know what to do. What do canadian employers want? What is expected of the employee? I'm wondering if it was a bad move coming to this city? This is the 3rd time I have lost my job in a space of 3 months. I have never never lost my job before, I was never fired before in my whole work life of 20+ years. I feel like such a failure and I cant stop crying.
I was fired once due to office politics. So my answer to that question for later interview was that I was a contractor and they decided not to renew my contract. That's it. You can tell them the truth that either you violated a policy or you didn't meet the KPI or whatever. But no matter how briefly you say the truth, it'll look bad on you. Because if you didn't reach the KPI at your previous company, how can you make the interviewer believe that you're competent enough for their company. Or say you violated a policy. If you did it once and get fired, that's very major violation, which will be a huge red flag for the interviewer. If you violated a policy multiple times and get fired, like constant being late, then how can you expect the interviewer to believe that you've changed or you will change? Besides, nobody likes being fired and most of people will have a victim mindset towards their experiences of being fired even if they're 100% the ones to blame. And we are after all humans, when talking about things like that, it's quite usually that your emotions trumps your rations, which will make you subconsciously rant about your previous employer.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
WHAT WAS THE REASON TO LEAVE ? most of the time I say in my application " I moved out of state " .period.
I was told my employer that I just slept in which I did about four times our household got sick I didn't make the excuse that I'm under the weather I showed up late twice in one week and I failed to do a couple tasks around the company when they asked me to do so was very busy I tried my best but how you told to approach makes perfect sense thank you for the content
I was fired 4 months ago and struggled a bit with how to answer the question. Your video gave me the insight to own my violation with explanation. Thank you.
i hope it helps you get back on your feet again
The fact is that a company can let you go for any reason. It’s better to be in a position to write your own ticket
Employment is "at will" and that's really a good thing because jobs are not "your right" but given to those who are deserving. being your own boss has it's own set of problems and I know from first hand experience.
What do you say if you were fired without cause and not given a reason?
My job got everyone laid off due to covid 19, I want to show my interest in working for them again in the future when they re open. How should I do it?
I’m loving these videos ! I subscribed to the channel after doing horrible in a Abercrombie (clothing store) interview .
I felt awful, since I wasn’t interviewed in years almost a decade to be exact and I didn’t have any experience on that field. And the questions were so simple , I panicked my ANXIETY KICKED IN AND , WELL I didn’t get the part time after all 😒.
Thanks a lot Don Georgevich your channel is very helpful.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
How do I explain termination when I was fired after making a complaint for harassment? Two weeks after I made the complaint to HR? The only thing that could have improved my job experience was training. My training was cut short one manager left on medical leave ...the new manager compared my job to her previous company. She was abusive verbally to me and I had multiple witnesses to this....how do I explain??? I feel like i'm on the losing end.
I have a Similar problem. What he is saying is your excuse for being fired is irrelevant to a prospective employer. Leave the excuse at home. Your new employer doesn’t want to hire a whiner. They want to hire a winner who had a bad season! So show them you are a winner and close the deal!
You have to be brave and admit you are at fault according to this guy.
1988cuco wow, I am deeply sorry about that. What I learned from working for a heartless corporation is that when you file a harassment complaint, you’re a trouble maker. They will always favour management over a subordinate. You must get witnesses to back you up. That’s what I did, and finally my bully manager was sacked.
@@coccinelle80 I was updated by a formal coworker she was just fired this past week , Apparently she did the same thing to another employee. I guess too much of a liability to the company. It's really sad but I knew she would not change and she would do this again. Karma.
@@Mrdeniro100 So you would believe that it is acceptable for someone to harass you and be abusive to you at work. Her actions created my works space a hostile environment. As of a recent update she did the same to another employee and more complaints of harassment against her made. The company fired her and karma was served.
Now when I answer prospective employers I just say It was a cultural and change in management .
I could be fired tomorrow. If it does happen, you helped me realize that I will be okay. I should briefly about my responsibility. Then I should let it go.
i hope it goes well for you.
I would simply say I was laid off rather than having to explain why I was fired. A company is going to hire the person that wasn’t fired oppose to the person that was.
@G A I don't believe they can ask about the nature of you leaving. If you were fired or laid off. I believe it is only to find out the start and end date of employment.
I'm glad I listened to the end. The reasons we have been fired are different, so I handle it a lil differently. The first time I was seeing things in the company I could've reported n they knew I was seeing it, so they used my medical condition to get rid of me. The 2nd time I was given a choice to be fired or practice outside my scope of practice and I was not comfortable with the 2nd choice, so I chose to be fired the 2nd time. I prefer not to go to an interview describing the negative things I saw in previous employers... if that makes any sense. ☺
What about if your employer trumps up charges gets false witnesses frames you write you up and then does a repeat before you can have it booted out of your employee file a year later how are you supposed to take ownership in something that you didn’t do to a future employer to a future employer what about if your employer trumps up charges gets false witnesses frames you write you up and then does a repeat before you can have it booted out of your employee file a year later how are you supposed to take ownership in something that you didn’t do to a future employer
Few weeks back i realised that it really doesn’t matter to any one and the only advice would be to be modest ,confident, fluent while you are answering the interviewer.
Sound like as if it really doesn’t matter to get laid off without next job because the self contained knowledge you possess.
possibly.
Are there any concerns about switching careers/industries after being let go? I was a high school math teacher let go for my performance and now my goal is to get an entry level actuarial position.
How would you react to this interview answer?
"The reason I left my last teaching position was because I was let go due to performance. I was notified in February that my contract would not be renewed and May would be my final month at this school.
During my three years in my prior teaching position, performance wise, I went from being rated Beginning, to Effective, to Highly Effective. I was awarded teacher of the month during my final year for showing continuous growth. When I moved across the country and started at my new school, I don't think I effectively planned for the new environment I was in and that, in turn, led to my unsatisfactory performance.
In the moment, I felt like the first 6 or 7 weeks were going great and according to plan. I did not realize that this was just a honeymoon phase and I actually needed a better plan from the start. I feel that despite my flexibility and drive to help students, my students needed a more traditional, structured environment with specific due dates and higher expectations. Also, I learned that if it is easier for students to get an A or B, it becomes more difficult to identify all of the students who are struggling and need more support.
In October of that school year, when the honeymoon period was over, I found out that things were not going well in my classes. I consulted with my coworkers on their teaching styles and inquired with my students' counselors on ways to support my students. I found new activities that many of my students responded positively to. I also participated in optional professional development geared towards math teachers on my time off.
However, despite my willingness to improve throughout my entire teaching career, the first semester at my new school just did not make the cut and I accept the result.
I'm really excited to start over with this new career. I don't think teaching in general was a good fit for me and I'm ready for new things."
U r still better than my neighbor Cuong!
Here's some motivation. U still have some time. U r not 60. My neighbor got fired when he was 50 around christmas 🎄 and his bday! How cursed is that?
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and many other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his major, mental illness conditions. He likes to put up a tough, fake front in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
U r definitely a good, useful person in our society! YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
No science in this. Dont be a fool. Just say that you are looking for a better opportunity & that's why you are here looking for new job. That's it 💯
that can work.
Customer approached me and asked me who she can complain against my manager that she just spoke with. I told her politely that he is the manager and no one in the store is above him to complain. She says that must be someone else beside him in the store and I said that assistant manager is only person she can speak with. Shortly after manager got angry, called me in his office and fired me. He did not want me there that I can be witness of complaint on him.
So because of that I am looking for job and got some interviews that they ask. I dont know what to say. I saw video that says not to say that you were fired. So I said that I left. Any way you say you loose. If you said you were fired, you lose, if you say you left, you lose. Meanwhile the gap in my resume grows. Help!
Yeah, but if you are layed off that means the employer failed, you didn't do anything wrong. Terminated / fired means you engaged in misconduct or were warned about general performance and failed to meet those expectations repeatedly. An employer should know not to use the word fired or terminated.
What if you fell asleep because you were on day 6 of 13 hour shifts ? What do you say. You will never fall asleep again. ? I’ve been in this profession 15 years and never had an incident but terrified on job interviews
very interesting video ,this video encouraged me alot to take courage to accept my mistakes , i got all my answers , thankyou very much for making this video , god bless you 👍👍
I was fired for misconduct from my job. I had.a hearing and the administrative judge stated that my conduct did not warrant firing or ceasing of benefits. When I was fired, my wonderful manager answered the question "if she would hire me again", she checked no. This organization has stated that they will not state why I was fired they would only state the day I started and when I left. How can I get defend myself if my new employer takes the response of "no, I wouldn't hire her back" seriously, whereas my new employer would pass me by?
You don’t have to list your previous employer as a reference. That is your choice
@@DonGeorgevich Thank you Don. I appreciate your response.
Charge it to the game and move on! i move on very quickly so 🤷🏾♂️
if that works, do it.
The issue with employers is that they know the got you by the balls and can do (technically) whatever they want with you wether your a good worker and show up everyday or not.
Don't ever admit getting terminated - ever. I know people would say honesty is the best policy, and that's true, in most cases. But you need to say something like "my contract ended", learn your lesson from the previous job and move on. It happens all the time unfortunately
How did you pass a reference check? Were you a highly marketable candidate?
Is a good explanation that the previous job wasn't the right fit in terms of the skills required, but the new job has a different skill set that is a much better fit for the abilities?
Appreciate your feedback but how do you explain that you were fired because you filed an harassment complaint against your supervisor?
That gets tricky and I don’t really have enough room here on TH-cam to address that but if you head on over to my site and get enrolled in one of my coaching programs we can work on that one together
This video is too one sided. I would disagree that it is always the employee's fault why they are fired. For instance, I recently got fired after I told them that I was pregnant. Of course, I could say it's my "fault" that I got pregnant, but - is this really how it is supposed to work? And there are many other instances when getting fired is rather unfair: Retaliating bosses, random reasons or moodiness, narcissistic bosses, etc.
My past experience.. BY LAW .. they can be sued !!! So don’t tell them you were fired!!! New employer will Never be given that info!!!!
When asked .. reason for leaving...you say it was time to move on... they can’t even answer if you are rehire-able or not!!!!
They can get sued!!!
Q-What would your past employer say about you... which by law they cannot provide any info...hard worker ... flexible, professional...even if they want to
Btw... only references can be asked that. And you have to sigh that waiver...
you might want to double check your findings...
I feel bad for the guy that got fired for accidentally using is corporate card. Most places I've worked at the issued me corporate cards always gave the employee a chance to pay any parts of the balance that was used for personal uses.
I got fired from a coffee place after only working there for 3 days. They said that I “wasn’t advancing fast enough” even though they knew I was new and they never trained me properly.
I just found out that I’m going to be fired and they don’t know I know that. It’s in a dental office and the office manager hired her daughters BFF and her daughter works there, she was hired to replace me and I’ve been training this new person that is replacing me. The new girl a few days ago screamed at me and told me to grow up. What do I do or say when they go to fire me, they also put an ad on Indeed for my job.
Quit right away. No need to stay in a box full of snakes and idiots.
So sad to hear your story. This kind of stuff is a real shame when it happens to people. This has happened to my wife 4 or 5 times, and you know what there is no good advice to give as far as I know,, all I can do is wish you luck and hoped that by now something has worked out for you, very sorry to hear this story as I can totally relate myself. My best wishes and look goes out to you. I was fired from a job simply because two old geezers didn't like me and I really liked the job that I was doing it really sucks
Jeremiah Klyn Thank you I just got a new job a week ago, I was with this horrible Orthodontist office almost a year, I didn’t use them as a reference when I went looking. I didn’t trust them, ppl can be a**holes. At the end of the working day, the office manager said that Dr. G wants to talk to me, I said ok and I gathered up my things and walked into his office and he told me that I was a hard worker and that he was sorry he had to do this, but you’re not a good fit and I have to let you go. The lab girl that trained me in the beginning worked with me and we got along really great. She was old enough to be my daughter and she was a black girl and we hit it off and we were perfect coworkers. She was called in the office after work before I was fired and he told her same BS as he told me 5 months later, I was pissed, I thought they were being racist, until they pulled me in and told me same BS. She saw the ad in Indeed and called me, so I knew when I was called in the office that they were goin to fire me. I was one week away from being there for a year.
The only thing that is sad here is how you people are handling this! Quit, right away???? How does that help you to keep paying the bills? How does that bring you justice?? Jeremiah, this has happened to your wife 4 to 5 times!?? If you or your wife have not taken any legal action in all of those times, I have no sympathy for you or her whatsoever. You're allowing them to walk all over you. You have all the power to contact a lawyer to get justice, and you choose to do nothing. It's like you enjoy all of the abuse. You people make me sick.
Teresa Farmer Dirty! Dirty! Dirty!
Hello Don! Thank you for making this video. I just got kicked out from my job yesterday. The problem was that when they were going to tell me about that I had to let go, they kinda "sugarcoated" it, by starting the conversation with "You're such a nice girl, you take your instructions and job seriously and we are happy with you , BUT, you have a problem with working on your own and you're asking us for help when you don't understand, please notice that I've only been there for one month and they already say this, expecting me to be able to do EVERYTHING without asking for help when I'm new. That for me is just ridicolous. I got sad about this and honestly, I don't think that is the real reason. But when I keep asking them they just repeat the same "you're not good enough for us to work on your own "
It's impossible for me because I've been showing my best sides but not good enough, apparantely.
What can I do? How do I continue?
I been fired for leaving two notes to the manager because my boss would not answering his phone. He fired me saying, I was damaging the company. So now I started tribunal form now.
I had person i don't know her, but she already got fired but still not accept yet. Right now, if i become a psikolog or recruitment to interview or at least to talk to her, i want to asking a question. Why you get fired from the previous job? I hope she admit and accept her mistakes that cause trouble and fired is the best desicion to fix the mistakes and bring value to company.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
I got fired due to having kidney stones and only taking a day off due to that and going to the ER and then having my dog since 5 years old pass away. I am 19. I can’t control these things and don’t feel the need to take responsibility as these were horrific events in my life
I was let go for missing a lot of time due to medical issues. The last straw was when I lost a pet of 10 years late December. I couldn't sign in for a few days after that. I did get medical notes for the other stuff but it didn't help.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I got fired just today because I was locked out of my workplace building while I was on break. And then when I tried to get back in the security lady wouldn’t let me back in. It really sucks man. I came in late on my first day too because I’m in a bit of a housing crisis. Literally the night before my first day I was scoping out potential places to sleep for the night. I eventually found a place but I didn’t get much shut eye.
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Thanks Don. I also got fired but now I know how to explain it to prospective employers
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
I may be facing termination. Sadly, I work for Sam’s Club, I’m a very hard worker, I was hired as a cashier, and yet I do the job for 10 people. The main reason for my possible termination boils down to not being able to procure enough credit cards for the company.
Exactly what I needed to hear. I was laid off at my own fault but it was a combination of factors: I did not have the profile and did not want to as I was passionate about it.
Still I feel guilty for letting that happen but soon or later they would find out I wasn't ready nor was the right person.
Indeed my boss said he would look for a senior person with experience in the field
every time I've been fired, i was at my lowest point, but every time was a blessing in disguise.
thats what happens when u lie on your resume and get caught lol
@@calvin9187 lol I didn't lie. I thought I was ready but, actually, I didn't like doing that kind of job, and never will
So getting fired can actually help because it shows dignity and strength to be honest
yes, but i would not aim to get fired so i can show strength.
It,s not a big deal. No jobs are the same. How people are, what they expect and so on is pretty different from any place u get. And if you got fired, its just how it is. You can not expect you might match in everyplaces. keep trying, and you find a fine place for you sometime. Have tried to got fired sometimes before, and it hasn't stopped me from getting opportunities :)
Just got fired from my job
Like a few minutes ago
And this is the first video I saw
Helped me alot
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Condolences 🙏 man... hope u find a better job with better peeps surrounding u.
YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.
Thank you for sharing your story with us!!!👍👍👍👍👍👍
I was let go from my internship this week. I worked really hard to prove I belonged there. I was given a full-time offer, and I pushed too hard during negotiations to try to get more money so they rescinded the offer. I was pushing for more because I have a three month old son and a nephew in Peru that my wife and I want to bring to the states. They also ended my internship because I got an offer and didn’t take it. They’d have let me finish the week, but I got a call from another potential employer and took the call during work hours. I’m a recent college graduate and I just finished my Bachelor’s degree, so I don’t have a lot of experience. How do I go about recovering from this?
That’s a hard lesson to learn. Once you start negotiating that gives them every right to take the offer off the table. If you’ve ever watched shark tank it’s the same thing.
On a previous job we were given the task of deleting 1 account from a very massive database and the difference between success and getting fired was just 1 click of the mouse. Yes, 1 person had failed resulting in deleting an entire account which was in the area of mass transportation.
I'm getting frusated every job I get it doesn't work out what job can I keep will fit me
I know what you mean
I found the above mentioned strategies helpful and interesting. Defiantly a psychology with interviewing.. Im going to go with them this time around. Thanks Don.
good luck on that next interview
I got fired from my job for performance (not selling enough) so this is really helpful for explaining what happened.
good luck on your next interview
@@DonGeorgevich Thank you :-)
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong.
If I had lied and had not been the honest Asperger guy I am I would still have had my job! A job that I really liked and that fit me greatly.
But no ... I thought being honest about my mistake
, I asked a female client with whom I felt a connection out ... she apparently didn't want to and filed a full complaint while all I did was ask one time in a very polite and friendly way ... she even knew that my company had a 0 tolerance for stuff like that ...,
would show them my integrity, that it was a momentary weakness because of recent personal problems (I always get lonely around this time of the year) and would make them give me a second chance ...
But nope ... their cold reasoning:
"I admitted my wrong ... so I knew I was in the wrong ... I knew the company policy ... thus I had acted knowing that it was wrong and against policy ... so according to them I didn't care about the consequences breaking this policy would have on my job"
Thus ironically ... if I had lied, put the majority of the blame on the girl ... I probably would have gotten away with a warning ... because they would not have bothered the client and risk her lashing out against the company.
Moral of the story:
ALWAYS LIE when you have enough material to work with to fabricate a beneficial case for yourself ... honesty won't put bread on the table ... not in this backstabbing, hypocritical society.
Because I had a blank record for all of the 3 years that I worked there, they decided to terminate my permanent contract with 7 week notice instead of 'direct on the spot fire because of urgent reasons'
... I will tell new employers I was let go because of to much economical unemployment within the firm and that I was the youngest guy at the firm so I was let go.
Sad that I have to lie ... it goes against my principles ... but in this 'MeTOO-era' apparently 'just asking someone out' is related to 'sexual harassment' ... and that's a subject one does not want to come even near on on an interview
live and learn
Sorry this happened. Is there an appeals process where perhaps you could request leniency?
No workplace dating. Ever. No exceptions. Policy or not.
I'm never working for a company ever again. reselling on e-commerce and a website for reselling and getting people to buy is the best thing. Need to get out of food industry, I work at a pizza shop, they won't pay me the actual rate I want so when the time comes I will be out.
I was hired at Chevy dealership after 1-week of training I sold 3 cars and 1 truck in 2 weeks and on the following Monday Manager came to me and said you have to leave, I said why? he said it is not going to work you have to go now.
very interesting
Got let go last Friday from a speech therapy clinic. I was their front office assistant. The reason they stated for letting me go was I violated company policy on tardiness because I left early to save them on payroll without permission. Mind you, I was almost let go back in October a couple months ago because apparently when I reported a sexual harassment claim to HR about a patient's parent coming on to me while I was working, HR suspended me without pay for a week and while being out when I asked for answers, they said I was the one prolonging the investigation which resulted in another week without pay. They also held onto my paychecks past their postage dates since I hadn't set up direct deposit yet. In the end, their final solution was to keep the parent as a client, let me go back to work with a signed final notice agreeing it was dual partied (really wasn't though). Ironically, the final notice said that my claim was my 5th infraction in a month with 4 others never mentioned to me before and it never said what they were. I still don't know to this day what they were. How do I explain that to any employer?
Click bait. It's illegal in MANY STATES to disclose any information ABOUT an employee, other that "start/exit dates". Period. If ANYONE discloses anything else, it's illegal to do so.
True.
that's not true, especially with my employer. in order to use them as a reference they make you sign a waver saying they aren't legally liable for anything said, etc. and yes the form they fill out allows them to tell the future employer that you were fired and why
Honestly if you have good references from other jobs they don’t usually care much. Most employers realize there are bad employers out there too
Bullshit! NEVER let them implement into you, that it was your fault! There is no bulliying, nor bossing nor mobbing! You have to understand that, Its just a common game, where tools get into play and where you have to understand it is NEVER your fault. The company cuts corners and then you are a target. Common Tools for example are psychological weapons to harass you and make you quit your job or give you the feeling its good they quit you. 😎 Just play that game right 👉🏽 no emotions 👉🏽 no rage 👉🏽 no mercy for others or yourself! Again never feel sorry for yourself. Shitty situation? Time to move on to a better situation for you. Remember the second you understand its all just a game and nothing is personal ( even the tools they use give you the impression ) the faster you can logg out and focus on a new job. ❤️
The one issue not covered is what if you were fired for office politics and the employer lied about the reason for your termination. How do you explain this without blaming the company and taking responsibility?
I hope u get motivated after reading 📚 this!
Hope this cheers u up n give u hope! Enjoy!
Take guts to admit u got issues. All humans do. U r not like my neighbor Cuong. He was arrested 2x for his rage against his supervisors! Then he got fired around christmas 2012! Sought revenge and retribution, lost 2 court cases to his employers, & lost thousands of dollars to attorney fees! The misery doesnt stop here. He doesn't go out unless necessary. No job. No vacations. No eating out. Doesn't celebrate any kind of holiday as he lost interest in anything socially-related.
Almost no social interactions outside his family.
Wife works and cooks for him daily. He has 2 junk cars sitting in his backyard and other clutters. He also collects cans and bottles to get paid for recycling ♻️.
I mean Cuong is a miserable guy who has no real, honest hope in his life anymore! That's 10 years of misery n denial of his mental illness conditions. He likes to brag in front of others, but his pain and agony overpowers him inside. His false pride 😤 is what leads him to self destruction! What a shame.
People on this site have more courage than 🐔 Cuong! A failure covers n lies about his issues. That's Cuong. YOU ARE FREAKIN, PRECIOUS AND UNIQUE!
Wish u accept Jesus Christ as your Savior so u can go to heaven after this life. God doesn't expect you to be perfect nor sinless. He just wants u to believe in Him as your Savior for your sins so u can go to heaven after this life.