DONT tell him. i feel like the husband doesn’t trust the best friend as much as he trusts his own wife so he’ll most likely believe what she says . if she’s seeing someone while married and probably lying her way through it just proves she’s a great liar and manipulator. she also manipulated the best friend by making her accept her apology after kicking her out !!! what “best friend” does that??. the truth WILL eventually come out and the husband will soon find out how much of a pu$$y his wife is, and why her best friend left her. i personally believe it’s best if she leave her best friend’s life, completely toxic
@Parking_lot182 if the best friend got evidence, i agree with you. in the absence of proof, the wife will create a scene and will probably try to trick the husband into believing that the best friend is trying to ruin their marriage or something. as a result, the wife will victimize herself and make her husband even more drawn to her and her lies. cuz if i were the husband, i would honestly stick to my wife's word if there wasn't any evidence.
@Parking_lot182 yes but remember karma is real ! 🤣 and what i meant is there’s no point in telling (without proof) if she’s a narcissistic manipulator. you need to mark where she manipulated her best friend into forgiving her after literally kicking her out on the street. whether she speaks up or not, their lives are already ruined in the first place. just know that the truth will come out at any moment :)
Okay so I have a similar story, my bestie met met this guy and they ended up being really close she used to text him all night while texting me rarely, which I was jealous of so when I met him I didn't like him at first, but then we got along so my jealousy died down, so this guy ended up developing a huge crush on her, and part of the reason she wanted me to get close to him was so he would develope a crush on me and move on from her, and obviously I was like "no way dude", and the more I got to know his feelings for her I realized he had it baaad for her and it wasn't simply a matter of him just finding someone else, well anyways we all knew that she didn't like him, everyone but him that is, she kept leading him on, not necessarily telling him he had a chance but not turning him down when everyone knew that's what she wanted to do, well it was like this for couple of months and then she got a boyfriend and told everyone to keep it from him, and even months of being in a relationship she still kept leading this poor guy on, while being like "guys, don't tell him anything imma tell him", so coincidentally I ended up meeting him the day after she finally decided to turn him down but she still hadn't told him about the boyfriend, I just couldn't hold it in and told him, thinking that it would help him get over her better,he thanked me for telling him, but she was angry, well I still weaseled my way out of her anger and it all died down quickly but yea, I love you bestie but you were literally playing with his feelings and even I, someone who has no feelings, felt sorry for him
The one being the bad friend is the one doing the cheating and putting the other friend in the position of knowing and having to worry about whether or not to do the right thing, and it pains me that so many people would consider someone the "bad friend" for telling the person being cheated on what they deserve to know. I know you don't, hence "bad" being in quotes and all, but yeah. It pains me to my soul that anyone would be seen as the "bad friend" for telling. It might be because I was in a similar position. My best friend was always cheating on his girlfriends and then even his wife and would tell me about it. I asked him repeatedly not to tell me about it, that the conversation itself made me uncomfortable and that I was even more uncomfortable with having to keep his secret for him by lying. I eventually told him I wouldn't lie for him anymore. When his wife asked indirect questions I kind of dodged the issue. "No, I don't know where he is." instead of saying like "He's probably over fucking Jennifer right now, did you try there?" When she finally got around to asking me directly "Is he cheating on me?" I had to tell the truth. I did feel bad about betraying his trust, but I had asked him repeatedly not to put that trust in me in the first place. We're still friends now, but it definitely put our relationship on the rocks for a while several different times.
Honestly i was waiting for Alex to call her out but not everyone watch the same show, gave me totally different perspective on Dr. Addison Montgomery tho 🤷🏻♀️😂
TELL TIM baby girl! Stop bringing kids into fucked up family circles just because someone was to coward to do the right thing!!! Lets break these chains. Definitely tell him or let him know, doesn’t matter how he finds out, as long as he knows the truth.
Tell Tim. It's not about friendship, it's about integrity, and since your friend decided to bring you into the situation by telling you what she's doing, it's a question if where your level of integrity is
@@arsena5209 Even if they haven't watched the show, sooo many people know the basic story arc there that it's still surprising that someone wouldn't pick up on it.
@@DisIntegratedLife perhaps alyx isn’t one of those people? i for sure am not haha, don’t know anything about the show except the nicknames & Katheryn Heigl with a sick man or something shsksk-
@@tardybloomer Yeah definitely possible, probably more than possible since it seems she missed it. And I wasn't saying people necessarily should get the reference even if they don't watch the show. It's just so well known at this point it warrants at least a little surprise when someone doesn't know. Especially when the person who doesn't know is female, because the show had such a large female audience. This is a bit of an uncommon case where it concerns this show because of the whole "McDreamy" thing, which made the show even more well known, as well as its long run-time. It'd be like someone not knowing the show Supernatural is being referenced when someone talks about Sam and Dean Winchester.
Alyx was halfway into reading the doctor secret when I realized it was from Grey's Anatomy. I'm surprised I figured that out because I've only seen like the first 5 episodes of the show which I guess is where the stuff in the secret happens.
you should tell tim!!! ive been in the same situation. i ruined their relationship and my friendship for a year, she came back though and thanked me and realized she wasnt truly happy in the relationship, and the guy still thanks me to this day. stay true to YOURSELF. tell her to tell him and if she doesnt do it yourself.
Absolutely encourage your friend to tell TIM the truth, but if she doesn’t. You should, but I would talk to her through text so you have evidence of her acknowledgement of the events. So he can at least have more trust in you.
PLEASE TELL TIM!!! my only thought while hearing that secret and hearing that they're going to start trying for a baby was that she may accidentally end up pregnant with her ex's baby and try to pass it off as her hubby's or not even know who the father is... which I know is a far reach but it's still very possible. if you lose your best friend, just know that it was probably for the best as she was able to just kick you out of her house with absolutely no remorse when you had nowhere else to stay, that is not the way you treat a friend, especially one you've known for so long. My honest guess (from personal experience) is that she's treated you a certain way multiple times in the past but you're scared to lose her because you don't see how bad her behavior is and the "she wouldn't treat me bad, we've been friends for years" mindset. regardless, I would say encourage your bestie to tell him and admit what she's doing, because if she's able to so nonchalantly do this to him behind his back it's only going to get worse, and he will find out eventually. It's up to you whether you want him to find out right now or in 10 years when they have a kid who will have to go through seeing their parent's divorce or stay together just for them.
TELL TIM. If her loyalty as a friend switched up so fast with you that she kicked you out of the house even tho she wasn't being honest with anyone about what she was doing, you don't owe her anything as a friend anymore and if her hubby is rlly a nice guy he deserves the truth. Especially if they're trying for a kid
the way that the story at 18:02 is the opening to Grey's and Alyx is CLUELESS is hilarious, especially because even I am aware and I've never liked Grey's 💀💀
TELL TIM. Everyone deserves someone they are truly in love with including Tim's wife, and if she is in love with him she wouldn't have done that. Don't affect future innocent children's lives by letting them have parents who wont be in love.
i’m still trying to decide if they were actually trolling her or if this person is one of those people who are genuinely dumb enough to tell ppl that and think they’ll believe them just so they can get sympathy
100% TELL TIM: IF his wife refuses to tell him. do not let this guy get trapped by having a kid with a person who’s been cheating on him for a whole YEAR
Tell Tim. Doesn't matter how well you know them, if you feel it isn't your place, whatever the situation is, people deserve to not spend/waste their life with someone who isn't being trustworthy/loyal/faithful/honest etc with them. Also will be better for the cheater in the long run too because obviously she is not happy in her marriage. Better all around for everyone. But I understand how tricky of a situation it is, I have been there and to this day I'm so glad I told what I knew
2:57 yk i used to mix up my brothers name and my boyfriends name all the time when we were dating. but i'm pretty sure it was just because their names sounded similar ( cameron and aaron ) well they just have similar ending sounds but it still got me confused
Tell Tim. I know it’s awkward but he is innocent in this situation and doesn’t deserve to be dragged into a shitty situation for the rest of his life, especially if he’s as sweet as you say he is
tell Tim, but make sure to say “you didn’t hear this from me” and make some sort of excuse for the both of you( for example, when he confronts the wife he’ll say he saw a text message from her Ex.) that way he’ll know, and you get to keep your relationship with your best friend that is a cheater :)
Real question is, who'd want to be best friends with someone who hides things and creeps around from someone they're meant to "love and cherish" ? 🤔 Hope this person makes better friends and tells Tim tbh
@@Chris_xo that’s what i’m saying! i understand that having to let go of such a strong friendship must be hard. but honestly i just couldn’t imagine being friend with a cheater, i absolutely despise them.
I was friends with a girl who absolutely LOVED being the one guys would cheat on their girlfriends with. It literally gave her pleasure to know she was with someone else's bf. We're not friends anymore lol
My dad knew his friend was cheating on his wife. He risked their friendship and told her, and we haven’t talked to them in years. The last time we saw them was in 2018, and it was only for a few minutes. Mind you this was when i was a baby. But their marriage has worked out. I would tell the husband but please be careful.
To me, I don’t care how close I am to that person, if my s/o was cheating on me I would wanna know no matter who it was that was telling me, so therefore I would do the same for someone else. At the end of the day cheating is wrong and no one should turn a blind eye to it 🤷🏽♀️
Once I got really really drunk. I was stupid & thought I can drink infinite amounts of coctails "because basically they're 80% water" & I downed a lot of kinds of it, with strong shots, beers & even wine & jager, I think. I felt really pretty & confident, but most of my night was spent with peeing & laughing at everything, because I didn't even know what was going on. I heard months later, that I thought a girl was a tree & tried to climb on her & I ate 2 slices of random people's pizza. My friend asked if I was okay, I said yes, hugged him & immadiately I ran away to vomit. I said hi to my roommates, but ran away again. I got back to my room, a roommate of mine took off my clothes & I went to throw up again. Finally, I felt okay...so I thought. I went to sleep. I slept with open eyes. They woke me up, I talked like I was in another dimension. I threw up in the sink, then on the bed. I was dressed up by them again. My bed was changed. The floor had a spot still. Next day, I remembered like none of it past me falling asleep. Even now, the splatter of vomit is on the floor after 10 months & I had to spend 400$s on cleaning the bedsheets. Not the most graceful moment of my life to say the least..
Okay that secret about the girl sleeping with the head neurosurgeon and meeting his wife is literally Greys Anatomy. She’s telling this secret as if she were Meredith and the guy is Derek and his wife is Addison. 🤦🏻♀️😂
Honestly i was waiting for Alex to call her out but not everyone watch the same show, gave me totally different perspective on Dr. Addison Montgomery tho 🤷🏻♀️😂
That first secret isn't that weird to me as a 19-year-old with an older brother (12 years older). I wouldn't even say it's co-dependency. It just sounds like they're really close siblings to me. My older brother and I were always just the two of us, and we grew up with a single mom and "deadbeat" (his more than mine) fathers who weren't present in our lives. He's called me his wife's name by accident and called her my name by accident. But he literally does that with our mom as well and his sister-in-law. We've hung out while my sister-in-law was busy or visiting her family. We went to the beach together with my nephew, which was fun. We're just close, and I love spending time with my brother. There's literally nothing weird about it. It's almost like having a close friend you meet up with or hang out with when free and call up when you're bored. It's always spontaneous as well, and his wife loves it. Sometimes all of us hang out together. She literally invites me. To be honest, I feel like the person in the first secret is blowing it out of proportion unless there's more to the story they didn't share. But then again, since we're a small family, we are incredibly close. Apparently, we're more close than I thought compared to others.
the drunkest I ever was, me and my friends tried to take 21 shots one for every year my friend has lived (it was his birthday), anyway, my friends wanted me to take a shot while leaning backwards and one was gonna catch me and the other was going to throw the shot in my mouth and they missed and thew it in my nose.... I sniffed tripple distilled vodka. it burned so much I just ended up crying in a curled up ball of pain...
For the cheating situation, I don't know if she should tell Tim or not, because you have to weigh the pros and cons of doing it. If you tell Tim, you lose your best friend. Your choice depends on whether you're willing to lose your friend or not. You don't have a moral obligation to do either, as it can be argued both ways. It's like a trolley problem. If you pull the lever, less people die, but if you leave it alone, you technically didn't cause those deaths. No one can tell you which choice you should make, it's all up to you and what you feel is morally correct.
To the first story: I’ve called my brother babe a ton and him the same to me once he had a gf. We laughed about it the first few times and now we just ignore it cause we both know it was just a mistake lol I’ve never called my husband my brothers name tho but I can see how it happens if he spends a a lot of time with his sister. It also seem like they have a close relationship as do my brother and I. I wouldn’t worry about it tbh.
idk to me it sounds like one of those relationships where the person is gonna end up accusing their significant other of hating and being jealous of their sibling in the future and take their sibling's side in everything :/
@@arsena5209 Yeah.. Honestly its a strange situation- I'm very close to my older bro(s) (i actually have three ^^;) and, I could honestly see mixing up names of him with other people in my life. Obviously not due to any gross incest-y thing but cause if I'm close with a bunch of people, I mix up names. Hell, I call my cat my bros name wayy to many times than I'd like to admit. Maybe it's something like that..? I hope lol
tell tim, because if you wait until after having the baby to tell tim you'll risk being a single mother, or a dysfunctional family, and the child doesn't deserve that.
omg speaking of like doing things to get ppl to leave u alone.. i once got my bsf to tell this kid i got bone cancer and died because i wish in like 6th grade n he was in like 11th trying to get at me n so i was like wtf.. and he literally believed her and left me alone🙏🙏🥰
Man, that first story just sounds like the guy has a sister complex and that submitter should get the hell out of that relationship for their own good. It's not going to go anywhere, things will just get worse from there on. Shit like that always ends up in the significant other taking their sibling's side in everything from that point onward and accusing the person of hating their sibling for no reason and being jealous of them. It's just going to be a horrible relationship that will end badly.
idk why but i’ve waited to watch this vid the next time i got drunk and i just remembered. def way after “the next time” but atleast i’m watching it drunk. excited to watch
pleeeease TELL TIM. i’ve been in a situation like that before and in my case, it def helped. you could be saving someone a lot of wasted time and love.
Tell Tim, I was in the same situation with a “friend”. I kept telling her to break up with the boyfriend and she continually made excuses on why she “couldn’t”. I was also friends with the guy she was cheating with. Anyways, she finally broke up with her boyfriend, and then I got a DM. She had told him she was breaking up with him because I had been pressuring her to do it. Told him I thought he was a loser and that she deserved better. I was so pissed I told him the truth and we both were basically like what the fuck. Neither of us said anything to her about the new secret we had. I continued to be friends with girl until I realized how toxic she really was. She got mad at me for hanging out with her new boyfriend alone. (the one she cheated with) even though I was how they met in the first place. She also did this with another boyfriend (she was convinced I was trying to get with him). Also found out another situation that had happened behind my back but I won’t disclose it. this was like 11 or so years ago. This girl contacted me a few years ago after she met my husband while he was out with a friend (we were in town visiting family) she brought me up and told him how good of friends we were. He came home and told me about it and my sister and I bursted out laughing. I never responded to her message.
Why is being friends with someone so much more important than anything else. BTW, I don't think your situation is the same. Your friend was not trying to get pregnant. ☹️
I feel like ever since I started Watching this series, I lose a bit of faith in humanity (Is this relatable?), Love this channel By the way Edit: Thanks for 30 likes
re: intentionally being a freak I love doing this when men harass me. Totally scare and bewilder them. Not that we have to defend ourselves, they're the problem and not me... but maybe they'll think twice before harassing another person
TELL TIM! not for your friend or even the husband, but for the potential child that they're trying for. if they do have a kid, and then they divorce, that's not gonna be very healthy for that child. tell the husband before they have a kid.
You mean _when_ they get divorced. Tim's wife is kidding herself if she thinks she will stay with Tim permanently. And, if she knows she is going to leave him eventually, then she is using him as a baby daddy. 😒
Okay listen. Here’s my thing about Tim. When I was listening to the story I was like “oh DEFINITELY tell Tim!” And then I started thinking, would I tell Tim if it were my lifelong best friend who was cheating on him and the answer to that is no. So if it were strangers, I believe it would be the right thing to do to let Tim know. But if it were someone I was close to I wouldn’t do the right thing and tell Tim? That’s messed up. Tell Tim because it’s the right thing to do and if your friend gets mad, it’s on her for being a shitty person.
TELL TIM. Being a good friend is not as important as being a moral human being and a good person. Do the right thing.
also !!! the friend wasn't a good friend if she's so quick to slut shame and cant communicate anger well
DONT tell him. i feel like the husband doesn’t trust the best friend as much as he trusts his own wife so he’ll most likely believe what she says . if she’s seeing someone while married and probably lying her way through it just proves she’s a great liar and manipulator. she also manipulated the best friend by making her accept her apology after kicking her out !!! what “best friend” does that??. the truth WILL eventually come out and the husband will soon find out how much of a pu$$y his wife is, and why her best friend left her. i personally believe it’s best if she leave her best friend’s life, completely toxic
@Parking_lot182 if the best friend got evidence, i agree with you. in the absence of proof, the wife will create a scene and will probably try to trick the husband into believing that the best friend is trying to ruin their marriage or something. as a result, the wife will victimize herself and make her husband even more drawn to her and her lies. cuz if i were the husband, i would honestly stick to my wife's word if there wasn't any evidence.
@Parking_lot182 yes but remember karma is real ! 🤣 and what i meant is there’s no point in telling (without proof) if she’s a narcissistic manipulator. you need to mark where she manipulated her best friend into forgiving her after literally kicking her out on the street. whether she speaks up or not, their lives are already ruined in the first place. just know that the truth will come out at any moment :)
Okay so I have a similar story, my bestie met met this guy and they ended up being really close she used to text him all night while texting me rarely, which I was jealous of so when I met him I didn't like him at first, but then we got along so my jealousy died down, so this guy ended up developing a huge crush on her, and part of the reason she wanted me to get close to him was so he would develope a crush on me and move on from her, and obviously I was like "no way dude", and the more I got to know his feelings for her I realized he had it baaad for her and it wasn't simply a matter of him just finding someone else, well anyways we all knew that she didn't like him, everyone but him that is, she kept leading him on, not necessarily telling him he had a chance but not turning him down when everyone knew that's what she wanted to do, well it was like this for couple of months and then she got a boyfriend and told everyone to keep it from him, and even months of being in a relationship she still kept leading this poor guy on, while being like "guys, don't tell him anything imma tell him", so coincidentally I ended up meeting him the day after she finally decided to turn him down but she still hadn't told him about the boyfriend, I just couldn't hold it in and told him, thinking that it would help him get over her better,he thanked me for telling him, but she was angry, well I still weaseled my way out of her anger and it all died down quickly but yea, I love you bestie but you were literally playing with his feelings and even I, someone who has no feelings, felt sorry for him
100% tell Tim. Put yourself in the husband's shoes and do the right thing, even if it means being a "bad" friend.
The one being the bad friend is the one doing the cheating and putting the other friend in the position of knowing and having to worry about whether or not to do the right thing, and it pains me that so many people would consider someone the "bad friend" for telling the person being cheated on what they deserve to know. I know you don't, hence "bad" being in quotes and all, but yeah. It pains me to my soul that anyone would be seen as the "bad friend" for telling.
It might be because I was in a similar position. My best friend was always cheating on his girlfriends and then even his wife and would tell me about it. I asked him repeatedly not to tell me about it, that the conversation itself made me uncomfortable and that I was even more uncomfortable with having to keep his secret for him by lying. I eventually told him I wouldn't lie for him anymore. When his wife asked indirect questions I kind of dodged the issue. "No, I don't know where he is." instead of saying like "He's probably over fucking Jennifer right now, did you try there?" When she finally got around to asking me directly "Is he cheating on me?" I had to tell the truth. I did feel bad about betraying his trust, but I had asked him repeatedly not to put that trust in me in the first place. We're still friends now, but it definitely put our relationship on the rocks for a while several different times.
I'm on team tell Tim
The doctor girl literally just described the first couple episodes of season 1 of Grey's Anatomy and I love that Alyx didn't even know it lol
That was literally what I was thinking omg
i literally just said the same thing. girl got trolled.
lol I mean people are gonna lie in these at some point
HELP just like the high school musical secret 💀
I RELAIZED THAT TOO💀
Alyx passionately reading the Grey's Anatomy first few episodes was so sweet. She really was in it and present with that secret 😂🥰
Honestly i was waiting for Alex to call her out but not everyone watch the same show, gave me totally different perspective on Dr. Addison Montgomery tho 🤷🏻♀️😂
Frll
the way the residency-drunk-sleeping-with-the-neurosurgeon-boss story is literally the plot of the first season of grey's anatomy and alyx had no idea
NOOOOOOOO
That's what I thought but I wasn't finna bring it up-😭😭😭
😭😭 poor Alyx
@@ayydubs BAHAHAHAHAHQHAHAHAHA I CANT
Like Meredith Grey is that you??????
TELL TIM baby girl! Stop bringing kids into fucked up family circles just because someone was to coward to do the right thing!!! Lets break these chains.
Definitely tell him or let him know, doesn’t matter how he finds out, as long as he knows the truth.
I’ve always been flabbergasted by how nonchalant and shameless ppl are about cheating on their significant other…
some of them are proud of it and it's... ew 😬
Exactly it blows my mind every time I hear it. So sad! It makes being single feel like a breeze.
fr, it’s kinda sickening tbh. how could you destroy and manipulate your s/o’s trust and confidence like that?
Fr like huh????
Being intoxicated is no excuse bruh
Tell Tim. It's not about friendship, it's about integrity, and since your friend decided to bring you into the situation by telling you what she's doing, it's a question if where your level of integrity is
the grey’s anatomy secret is so funny how did alyx not get it 😭
not everyone watches every show
@@arsena5209 Even if they haven't watched the show, sooo many people know the basic story arc there that it's still surprising that someone wouldn't pick up on it.
@@DisIntegratedLife perhaps alyx isn’t one of those people? i for sure am not haha, don’t know anything about the show except the nicknames & Katheryn Heigl with a sick man or something shsksk-
@@tardybloomer Yeah definitely possible, probably more than possible since it seems she missed it. And I wasn't saying people necessarily should get the reference even if they don't watch the show. It's just so well known at this point it warrants at least a little surprise when someone doesn't know. Especially when the person who doesn't know is female, because the show had such a large female audience.
This is a bit of an uncommon case where it concerns this show because of the whole "McDreamy" thing, which made the show even more well known, as well as its long run-time. It'd be like someone not knowing the show Supernatural is being referenced when someone talks about Sam and Dean Winchester.
@@DisIntegratedLife idk anything ab greys anatomy 😭
Alyx was halfway into reading the doctor secret when I realized it was from Grey's Anatomy. I'm surprised I figured that out because I've only seen like the first 5 episodes of the show which I guess is where the stuff in the secret happens.
you should tell tim!!! ive been in the same situation. i ruined their relationship and my friendship for a year, she came back though and thanked me and realized she wasnt truly happy in the relationship, and the guy still thanks me to this day. stay true to YOURSELF. tell her to tell him and if she doesnt do it yourself.
I absolutely agree
If you’re cheating you’re clearly not fully happy in the relationship that you’re in
@@jodoodlyboi2963 some people cheat just because they're shitty people, it's not always that deep
Absolutely encourage your friend to tell TIM the truth, but if she doesn’t. You should, but I would talk to her through text so you have evidence of her acknowledgement of the events. So he can at least have more trust in you.
Tell Tim, he needs to know, especially with them trying for a baby. He’ll be further crushed later on when he finds out the baby wasn’t his.
tell tim, everyone deserves to know the truth and not waste their time
PLEASE TELL TIM!!! my only thought while hearing that secret and hearing that they're going to start trying for a baby was that she may accidentally end up pregnant with her ex's baby and try to pass it off as her hubby's or not even know who the father is... which I know is a far reach but it's still very possible.
if you lose your best friend, just know that it was probably for the best as she was able to just kick you out of her house with absolutely no remorse when you had nowhere else to stay, that is not the way you treat a friend, especially one you've known for so long.
My honest guess (from personal experience) is that she's treated you a certain way multiple times in the past but you're scared to lose her because you don't see how bad her behavior is and the "she wouldn't treat me bad, we've been friends for years" mindset.
regardless, I would say encourage your bestie to tell him and admit what she's doing, because if she's able to so nonchalantly do this to him behind his back it's only going to get worse, and he will find out eventually. It's up to you whether you want him to find out right now or in 10 years when they have a kid who will have to go through seeing their parent's divorce or stay together just for them.
i hope she sees this
TELL TIM. If her loyalty as a friend switched up so fast with you that she kicked you out of the house even tho she wasn't being honest with anyone about what she was doing, you don't owe her anything as a friend anymore and if her hubby is rlly a nice guy he deserves the truth. Especially if they're trying for a kid
👍 Agree 1000%
the way that the story at 18:02 is the opening to Grey's and Alyx is CLUELESS is hilarious, especially because even I am aware and I've never liked Grey's 💀💀
I feel like I’ve watched so many of these videos that I just have no reaction to most of these confessions anymore.
Same bro.
I'm not suprised 🥱
I sometimes wonder how Alyx has so much to say about every confession because at this point all I can usually say is "wow" or "wtf" 🗿
TELL TIM. Everyone deserves someone they are truly in love with including Tim's wife, and if she is in love with him she wouldn't have done that. Don't affect future innocent children's lives by letting them have parents who wont be in love.
The doctor story is actually the grey’s anatomy plot 🙄 lol
Literally, I was waiting for someone to say it
I knew it 😭
@@katiewalsh8386 same🧍🏽♀️
18:45 this is literally the plot of greys anatomy im crying
oh my god the doctor story is LITERALLY GREYS ANATOMY LMAOOO THAT PERSON PLAYED YOU SO HARD
I was like “is she in on the joke? I’m confused.” Lmao
I was just about to comment that lmfaooooo
i’m still trying to decide if they were actually trolling her or if this person is one of those people who are genuinely dumb enough to tell ppl that and think they’ll believe them just so they can get sympathy
The whole thing is seeeeeending me like MA'AM ARE YOU REALLY OUT HERE PLAYING MEREDITH FUCKING GREY the audacity ouchhh
@@fakecake3 i could NOT😭😭😭😭😭 SHE PLAYED IT WELL THO lmfaooooo
100% TELL TIM: IF his wife refuses to tell him. do not let this guy get trapped by having a kid with a person who’s been cheating on him for a whole YEAR
why are these secrets so much funnier when alyx reads themmm
she has hilarious reactions to a lot of them honestly 🤣
na fr it’s the reactions 😭😭
Alex taking the plot of greys anatomy so seriously is the funniest thing I’ve even seen
i completely love how the grey’s anatomy reference went over alyx’s head in the last one
Tell Tim. Doesn't matter how well you know them, if you feel it isn't your place, whatever the situation is, people deserve to not spend/waste their life with someone who isn't being trustworthy/loyal/faithful/honest etc with them. Also will be better for the cheater in the long run too because obviously she is not happy in her marriage. Better all around for everyone. But I understand how tricky of a situation it is, I have been there and to this day I'm so glad I told what I knew
the doctor one is literally a run down of the first two seasons of greys anatomy LMAO
18:13 okay which grey's anatomy fan submitted that secret?! i love you for that lmao
"Fan"?
Are you sure the woman who submitted that doesn't _actually believe_ that she is Dr. Grey? 😵
alyx has been putting her whole ayydubussy into these videos lately
HELP WTF ???? LMAO
@Mickey Holmes you can’t if your the creator you can but your not so you can’t.
@@Celebrityuploads i think they were just making a joke LOL
@@luvellieee oh LOL 😅
you are not funny
14:05 i relate to this. I fall asleep to this series every night
love the girl who recreated greys anatomy with her secret this is so funny
I love falling asleep to this series. I rewatch old episodes and drift into my wonderful dreams
Can already say this one is gonna be traumatizing. Being drunk never leads to anything good LOL.
yeah lmao those people should definitely stop drinking 🤣
2:57 yk i used to mix up my brothers name and my boyfriends name all the time when we were dating. but i'm pretty sure it was just because their names sounded similar ( cameron and aaron ) well they just have similar ending sounds but it still got me confused
Tell Tim!! When he eventually finds out it’s going to make life really hard for that potential kid
Tell Tim. I know it’s awkward but he is innocent in this situation and doesn’t deserve to be dragged into a shitty situation for the rest of his life, especially if he’s as sweet as you say he is
tell Tim, but make sure to say “you didn’t hear this from me” and make some sort of excuse for the both of you( for example, when he confronts the wife he’ll say he saw a text message from her Ex.) that way he’ll know, and you get to keep your relationship with your best friend that is a cheater :)
Real question is, who'd want to be best friends with someone who hides things and creeps around from someone they're meant to "love and cherish" ? 🤔
Hope this person makes better friends and tells Tim tbh
@@Chris_xo that’s what i’m saying! i understand that having to let go of such a strong friendship must be hard. but honestly i just couldn’t imagine being friend with a cheater, i absolutely despise them.
@@blank6449 Truthh
I was friends with a girl who absolutely LOVED being the one guys would cheat on their girlfriends with. It literally gave her pleasure to know she was with someone else's bf. We're not friends anymore lol
Alyx, sweetheart... that one story is exactly the plotline of Grey's anatomy HAHAHAHA detail by detail
please make a podcast I could listen to you 24/7
My dad knew his friend was cheating on his wife. He risked their friendship and told her, and we haven’t talked to them in years. The last time we saw them was in 2018, and it was only for a few minutes. Mind you this was when i was a baby. But their marriage has worked out. I would tell the husband but please be careful.
To me, I don’t care how close I am to that person, if my s/o was cheating on me I would wanna know no matter who it was that was telling me, so therefore I would do the same for someone else. At the end of the day cheating is wrong and no one should turn a blind eye to it 🤷🏽♀️
tell tim, but voice concerns about ruining their friendship so maybe he’ll be tactical with how he confronts his wife
That is literally greys anatomy - the doctor cheating story is the entire plot of greys anatomy
this is my new favourite video, your facial expressions and the way you read everything is so funny
Once I got really really drunk.
I was stupid & thought I can drink infinite amounts of coctails "because basically they're 80% water" & I downed a lot of kinds of it, with strong shots, beers & even wine & jager, I think. I felt really pretty & confident, but most of my night was spent with peeing & laughing at everything, because I didn't even know what was going on. I heard months later, that I thought a girl was a tree & tried to climb on her & I ate 2 slices of random people's pizza.
My friend asked if I was okay, I said yes, hugged him & immadiately I ran away to vomit. I said hi to my roommates, but ran away again. I got back to my room, a roommate of mine took off my clothes & I went to throw up again. Finally, I felt okay...so I thought. I went to sleep. I slept with open eyes. They woke me up, I talked like I was in another dimension. I threw up in the sink, then on the bed. I was dressed up by them again. My bed was changed. The floor had a spot still. Next day, I remembered like none of it past me falling asleep. Even now, the splatter of vomit is on the floor after 10 months & I had to spend 400$s on cleaning the bedsheets.
Not the most graceful moment of my life to say the least..
damn, I didn't know Luffy was so adventurous 🤣
i love u alyx. great vid. love your honesty and your pushing for accountability
when the submission was the plot of grey’s anatomy 😭 1000/10
Okay that secret about the girl sleeping with the head neurosurgeon and meeting his wife is literally Greys Anatomy. She’s telling this secret as if she were Meredith and the guy is Derek and his wife is Addison. 🤦🏻♀️😂
Honestly i was waiting for Alex to call her out but not everyone watch the same show, gave me totally different perspective on Dr. Addison Montgomery tho 🤷🏻♀️😂
tell tim !! it would absolutely wrecked him but it’ll save him from any further heart break if she has a baby
That first secret isn't that weird to me as a 19-year-old with an older brother (12 years older). I wouldn't even say it's co-dependency. It just sounds like they're really close siblings to me. My older brother and I were always just the two of us, and we grew up with a single mom and "deadbeat" (his more than mine) fathers who weren't present in our lives. He's called me his wife's name by accident and called her my name by accident. But he literally does that with our mom as well and his sister-in-law.
We've hung out while my sister-in-law was busy or visiting her family. We went to the beach together with my nephew, which was fun. We're just close, and I love spending time with my brother. There's literally nothing weird about it. It's almost like having a close friend you meet up with or hang out with when free and call up when you're bored. It's always spontaneous as well, and his wife loves it. Sometimes all of us hang out together. She literally invites me.
To be honest, I feel like the person in the first secret is blowing it out of proportion unless there's more to the story they didn't share. But then again, since we're a small family, we are incredibly close. Apparently, we're more close than I thought compared to others.
the drunkest I ever was, me and my friends tried to take 21 shots one for every year my friend has lived (it was his birthday), anyway, my friends wanted me to take a shot while leaning backwards and one was gonna catch me and the other was going to throw the shot in my mouth and they missed and thew it in my nose.... I sniffed tripple distilled vodka. it burned so much I just ended up crying in a curled up ball of pain...
i love how you just genuinely gave meredith grey advice
alyx you give better advice than my lisensed therapist
For real tho
maybe you need a better therapist? 💀
@@arsena5209 😭😭👦🏻
For the cheating situation, I don't know if she should tell Tim or not, because you have to weigh the pros and cons of doing it. If you tell Tim, you lose your best friend. Your choice depends on whether you're willing to lose your friend or not. You don't have a moral obligation to do either, as it can be argued both ways. It's like a trolley problem. If you pull the lever, less people die, but if you leave it alone, you technically didn't cause those deaths. No one can tell you which choice you should make, it's all up to you and what you feel is morally correct.
To the first story: I’ve called my brother babe a ton and him the same to me once he had a gf. We laughed about it the first few times and now we just ignore it cause we both know it was just a mistake lol I’ve never called my husband my brothers name tho but I can see how it happens if he spends a a lot of time with his sister. It also seem like they have a close relationship as do my brother and I. I wouldn’t worry about it tbh.
idk to me it sounds like one of those relationships where the person is gonna end up accusing their significant other of hating and being jealous of their sibling in the future and take their sibling's side in everything :/
but I genuinely hope that I'm wrong and this specific relationship won't be like that
@@arsena5209 Yeah.. Honestly its a strange situation- I'm very close to my older bro(s) (i actually have three ^^;) and, I could honestly see mixing up names of him with other people in my life. Obviously not due to any gross incest-y thing but cause if I'm close with a bunch of people, I mix up names. Hell, I call my cat my bros name wayy to many times than I'd like to admit.
Maybe it's something like that..? I hope lol
@@messiahofthefirst.3415 I hope it's like that too lol
tell tim, because if you wait until after having the baby to tell tim you'll risk being a single mother, or a dysfunctional family, and the child doesn't deserve that.
Definitely tell Tim
TELLLLL TIMMMM!!! If she stops being your friend because of it, oh well, but he needs to know before they have a baby.
I've been sober for 7 months on the 16th! I am so so excited and never dreamed of getting this far 🤎🤎🤎
Ooo!!! Congrats! The journey is tough but you're doing amazing! So many people are proud of you! 💕💕
Congrats keep going you can do it
:D
WE ARE STILL WAITING ON COUSINS SECRETS ALYX!!!!
Tell Tim for sure. Imagine how horrible the situation will be (it’s already horrible but even more so) if there’s a kid involved
i’m giggling at the girl who just did the first episode of grey’s
omg speaking of like doing things to get ppl to leave u alone.. i once got my bsf to tell this kid i got bone cancer and died because i wish in like 6th grade n he was in like 11th trying to get at me n so i was like wtf.. and he literally believed her and left me alone🙏🙏🥰
Man, that first story just sounds like the guy has a sister complex and that submitter should get the hell out of that relationship for their own good. It's not going to go anywhere, things will just get worse from there on. Shit like that always ends up in the significant other taking their sibling's side in everything from that point onward and accusing the person of hating their sibling for no reason and being jealous of them. It's just going to be a horrible relationship that will end badly.
Yeah it really sounds like a nightmare jesus
TELL TIM. First talk to the "friend" and encourage her to tel the truth, but if she doesn't, THEN TELL TIM.
I love the secret before 19:59 is the plot of greys anatomy
idk why but i’ve waited to watch this vid the next time i got drunk and i just remembered. def way after “the next time” but atleast i’m watching it drunk. excited to watch
TELL TIM!
LNAO the secret @ 19 minutes is literally the story of greys anatomy. Meredeitj grey and Derek Shepard 💀😂
I absolutely love the person who have their boss a lap dance. If you're reading this let's be friends please
same lmaooo she's so spontaneous she seems like a fun person to be around
Your uploads literally make my day
I just wanna know where i too can get a lamp that sits on the edge of my table, dangling it’s little feet.
Spicy secrets as always, but that lamp is too adorable
Bro the doctor secret is literally greys anatomy…
bro as soon as she said "would you tell him the truth" I FELT THAT IN MY SOUL
Who tf sent in the greys anatomy plot 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Alyx, the second to last secret is the plot of the first 2 seasons of Grey's Anatomy lol
COUSIN SECRETS WHEN?!?!
Okay but pool secrets might actually be amazing
happy pride folks
pleeeease TELL TIM.
i’ve been in a situation like that before and in my case, it def helped. you could be saving someone a lot of wasted time and love.
Tell Tim. He deserves to know especially if he's how good of a person you said he is
Tell Tim, I was in the same situation with a “friend”. I kept telling her to break up with the boyfriend and she continually made excuses on why she “couldn’t”. I was also friends with the guy she was cheating with. Anyways, she finally broke up with her boyfriend, and then I got a DM. She had told him she was breaking up with him because I had been pressuring her to do it. Told him I thought he was a loser and that she deserved better. I was so pissed I told him the truth and we both were basically like what the fuck. Neither of us said anything to her about the new secret we had. I continued to be friends with girl until I realized how toxic she really was. She got mad at me for hanging out with her new boyfriend alone. (the one she cheated with) even though I was how they met in the first place. She also did this with another boyfriend (she was convinced I was trying to get with him). Also found out another situation that had happened behind my back but I won’t disclose it. this was like 11 or so years ago. This girl contacted me a few years ago after she met my husband while he was out with a friend (we were in town visiting family) she brought me up and told him how good of friends we were. He came home and told me about it and my sister and I bursted out laughing. I never responded to her message.
Why is being friends with someone so much more important than anything else.
BTW, I don't think your situation is the same. Your friend was not trying to get pregnant. ☹️
I feel like ever since I started Watching this series, I lose a bit of faith in humanity
(Is this relatable?), Love this channel By the way
Edit: Thanks for 30 likes
Very relatable lol
@@bombbomb7179 lol Very, This series is cool tho, Yet Messed up in a way from all these confessions, 👍
it is relatable
I mean… I started losing faith in humanity a long time ago but these videos bring the bar so much lower.
not the random person regurgitating the plot of the beginning of grey’s anatomy and not even thinking to change anything at all💀
re: intentionally being a freak
I love doing this when men harass me. Totally scare and bewilder them. Not that we have to defend ourselves, they're the problem and not me... but maybe they'll think twice before harassing another person
These videos are my life support and free therapy from Alex
As soon as I saw drunk I clicked so fast
I AM CRYING LAUGHING, the greys anatomy review🤣🤣🤣🤣
The sister one tho.. 💀
Ikr 💀💀
it sounds like a sister complex 💀💀💀
TELL TIM! not for your friend or even the husband, but for the potential child that they're trying for. if they do have a kid, and then they divorce, that's not gonna be very healthy for that child. tell the husband before they have a kid.
You mean _when_ they get divorced.
Tim's wife is kidding herself if she thinks she will stay with Tim permanently.
And, if she knows she is going to leave him eventually, then she is using him as a baby daddy. 😒
I’m about to make a submission atp 😭
same 😭
same As well
Ps: What does ATP Mean
@@Kasiissilly
it’s short for “at this point”
@@luvellieee oh thank you
LMFAOOO ALYX 18:03 IS THE PLOT TO GREYS ANATOMY
TELL TIM WTF
19:55 is nobody gonna talk about how this is literally the plot of greys anatomy 😭 okay miss Meredith grey
Okay listen. Here’s my thing about Tim. When I was listening to the story I was like “oh DEFINITELY tell Tim!” And then I started thinking, would I tell Tim if it were my lifelong best friend who was cheating on him and the answer to that is no. So if it were strangers, I believe it would be the right thing to do to let Tim know. But if it were someone I was close to I wouldn’t do the right thing and tell Tim? That’s messed up. Tell Tim because it’s the right thing to do and if your friend gets mad, it’s on her for being a shitty person.
18.04 the story is identical to the first season of Grey’s Anatomy… so I don’t know how true it could be
DONT TELL TIM, try to convince your friend to stop cheating and tell him herself Bcus it’s better coming from her than anyone else
Alyx out here giving Meredith Grey advice 😭😭