As a psych major, lying for months to your partner is not an example of "masking." Masking is quite literally where autistic people try to behave like they don't have autism, lying is not part of this. My son is very mildly autistic and he's bold and honest, you don't ask him a question if you don't want to know the answer.
@@pixelhunter0lol yup he knew damn well what he was doing & is just making excuses so Matilda will feel bad for him. He seems to be a very inteligent man & i think knows his autism too well he’s using it as a crutch for his lies.
For once I actually think the card is correct, you can hear it in his voice he has the autism meme voice it's jokingly called the gene voice. Honestly, I don't think he can legally consent to marriage as he doesn't have the social acuity to understand consequences of social actions and relationships.
Nah I'm with Matilda. Ain't no way I tell my boyfriend that I've told literally the ENTIRE village that we are getting married.Only to find out we're not, in a public setting ( restaurant) and he gaslights me. Nah it will be my villain origin 😭
And the way the producers only corrected that dude about past events in a solo confessional was rough. At least they could've said it infront of Matilda so that she wouldn't feel crazy lol
@ezanderson8834 lol They definitely are. They aren't lying to spare your feelings. I showed my autistic friend my first apartment and he told me it looked like a hospital room, but don't worry his apartment wasn't much better lol. They can be brutal! This dude is just a liar, plain and simple.
I honestly understand why Matilda is upset. We, Africans don't have promise rings. When a guy proposes he must be ready with money to pay Lobola(dowry). Our parents find it disrespectful when a guy proposes and he doesn't plan on coming to pay dowry asap. Niles also needs to understand a lot of African weddings are huge. Hundreds of people come to the wedding to celebrate the couple.
Exactly. I would have felt so humiliated, especially if the whole town knew we were dating. You don't go to her parent's house and not show intent to marry her the traditional way especially after she has told her relatives about you. She's not impatient because she wants a green card like some other comments were saying. She's just trying to avoid embarrassment according to our culture.
You want her to work it out with a guy who lies to her, manipulates her, and then uses his autism as an excuse when she calls him out? 🤦🏽♀ the bar is underground nowadays
@@Leoprincess3038 I think you’re being extremely harsh and managed to turn a positive well meeting statement into something negative. Are you one of those people who sees” red flags” in every man that doesn’t worship a woman?. Sit down girl, he’s not that bad.
I’m curious, in America the tradition is father is responsible to pay for the wedding. Who is responsible for paying for the wedding in “African tradition” or even Ghanaian tradition?
@@phoebegodiva-adeniyi5315traditionally it comes to the rules of the tribe so either the bride or groom family, but recently it just goes to the family that is richer
"I’m autistic, just like Niles, but wow, he’s making some frustrating mistakes. It’s the same pattern everyone on this show falls into-they consistently fail to communicate something important to their partner until it’s too late. Every. Single. Time. As one of the most well-known autistic figures once said, 'The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.'"
Just because we're autistic doesn't mean we get to omit the truth, I've been told I usually tell the truth (even tho they don't always like it) we're quite known for it JS
Thank you for this. I have very little knowledge of autism but I know for sure lying about past events is not a symptom of autism. That was just manipulative
As an autistic person, I understand how anxiety can make lying look easier than conflict...but also his gaslighting is not ok. He should just apologize
I really appreciate your hilarious (and clean) commentary. You just have a knack for analyzing what's going on with these couples and explaining it in a way that we enjoy. Also, all glory to God indeed! 👏
@@unknownuser3736Don't be rude. This is why all these TH-camrs are being anonymous for life and not showing their face. Because people talk junk. Be happy he's putting his whole self out there and don't be rude
I've never felt so gaslighted like I did when I watched Renee. Poor chidi he deserves the world someone peaceful. SAUCE make videos on I LOVE A MAMAS BOY
I hate how he blames being a liar and a coward on his autism. It’s a character issue not a developmental issue. And then sitting there telling her all these rules she has to follow that he doesn’t even follow.😮
Yeah, na, I’m autistic, yes it’s hard to communicate. But he’s straight up acting more scared to speak and he’s lying to keep HIS best interest. This is why his family didn’t want this to happen.
Well, now that we can move past autism, We should talk about mental illness to full effect(bats**t crazy) I think Rayne is completely unhinged and scary, and she reminds me of my aunt that was the same It's absolutely terrifying and good for you Chidi for saying no more
Renee's son: ... I hope she stays! Me: 😂😂😂 This kid is ruthless... but sad imagine your little one, a 3 year old saying nah, I'm better off without ya.. Danm!!!
I wish these folks would stop saying they've been DATING. NO! Youve been computer pen pals. Women stop manifesting "Dating" relationships. Its getting damn embarrrassing
I have been autistic my whole life and I don't lie to make people feel better or me I usually just hide from them But I found someone anyways I didn't get there by lying to him Niles bro we're autistic, not dumb and I say that quite honestly, we have to be honest and upfront because we can be intelligent and neurodivergent and you know what you're doing is wrong bro We are on the spectrum, but we have to know where we're at and we have to be honest if we really want to reach people
He disnt lie, or hide anything.. He told her " I think we should take longer to plan this wedding " in the first episode.. bit she answered " don't you disappoint me!"
@Nightcall411 just rewatched it for his exact words .. he says " were only gonna do this one time ..we're only gonna have 1 wedding. So you know what that means ? We might need a little more time to plan that out " That was his answer to her saying she told her family, friends, neighbors, church members about it.. And then she answers him " I hope you will not disappoint me" So I can't call him a liar .. communication is a struggle for people with autism , and her being pretty aggressive in her way of speaking to him, must scare him.. he looks so scared and worried during this convo , and was kind of shut down, because matilda wouldn't really listen
@annicklagace7414 thanks for you replay and rewatching it as well. I would say communication is a struggle for everybody. She is aggressive I will give you that, but she's only this aggressive because 1) it's probably worked for her in the past to get her way. 2) because in the time they've spoken to one another she's probably picked up that he's easy to back down or at the very least doesn't like confrontation. I would say what he's been doing as lying because if there was an award system to him lying like sex, affection, praise, or even acknowledgment he would gladly take those awards. So if you lie to get your way aka awards/ perks you also have to take the cons for when you're caught/ called out on said lies. I will say I don't believe he's lies were made with malicious intent.
Niles needs to stop using autism as an excuse for his behaviour. He has no understanding of her culture. In West Africa once you have decided to marry and get engaged the whole process starts rolling, there's no long drawn out engagement. And Rayne is lucky that Chidis family are good God fearing people. Less patient people would have carried her off to do money ritual 😂
Been following Sauce for a while and I think he said that the animations took a very long time to make. Which is fair. Some of the old animations were so funny lol, but the commentary is still good 👍
No bc as an autistic person myself, there is no situation where you can just pull the autism card and expect to go blameless. take accountability for yourself
I have met many men and women with mild and sever and in-between autism. Manners is not a factor. The person either has manners or does not and it is NOT related to autism
I’ve found there are a lot of people online (and I guess now national TV) that use autism/Asperger’s to act like a complete ass. Not to mention that nowadays everyone is so quick to self-diagnose as autistic and use it to excuse their shitty behavior. It’s reprehensible.
she wouldnt be Talking to him like that if the cameras were'nt there .... and she wonder WHY she's alone and even her own son wanted her to stay in Nigeria....
Perfect thing to watch while I’m sick for the fourth time this year, I’m on my period, and finals are breathing down my neck right now. Still it could be worse. I could be in this situation. 😂
I'm tired of people, and Niles himself speaking without a filter is him telling the truth. He's telling his own truth. Not the general truth. The way he spoke about Matilda's house made me mad. So disrespectful.
As a psych major, lying for months to your partner is not an example of "masking." Masking is quite literally where autistic people try to behave like they don't have autism, lying is not part of this. My son is very mildly autistic and he's bold and honest, you don't ask him a question if you don't want to know the answer.
Either I’m Autistic, or just a big fibber 😂😂😂
Yea hes using his autism as an excuse to be a shitty person
Lol yup, i have an autistic family member and they are the most honest person i have ever known, hands down!
Exactly
@@pixelhunter0lol yup he knew damn well what he was doing & is just making excuses so Matilda will feel bad for him. He seems to be a very inteligent man & i think knows his autism too well he’s using it as a crutch for his lies.
Dude needs to stop blaming autism for sh*tty behavior.
Muy ‘tism
This guy seems so naive. Lying is not okay but he just seems so weak.
He is probably used to being complacent with his behavior all his life.
For once I actually think the card is correct, you can hear it in his voice he has the autism meme voice it's jokingly called the gene voice.
Honestly, I don't think he can legally consent to marriage as he doesn't have the social acuity to understand consequences of social actions and relationships.
He's like Big Ed, when he first came on the show. He wanted everyone to feel bad for him because of his disability.
Nah I'm with Matilda. Ain't no way I tell my boyfriend that I've told literally the ENTIRE village that we are getting married.Only to find out we're not, in a public setting ( restaurant) and he gaslights me. Nah it will be my villain origin 😭
Exactly this
And the way the producers only corrected that dude about past events in a solo confessional was rough. At least they could've said it infront of Matilda so that she wouldn't feel crazy lol
I hope Chidi meets a sweet woman
An sweet African woman
Only in his dreams
@@davicool4284 why? He's nice and deserves love too.
@@davicool4284you’re perfect for nasty ass rayne
@@mytruecrimelibrary no woman - NO WOMAN wants a skinny, short, unemployed, broke, blind guy
They said Matilda was quick to anger, but she’s been nothing but patient with him 😂😂😂😂
I’m actually rooting for these two ❤
Barber: " they will curse you😁"
🤣
That Part!
😂😂😂 he was tickled
And he’s so deadass
Let's GOOOOOO!!! Niles is triflin as hell for using his autism as an excuse for his LIES!!! 😂😂😂
Seriously! I've had friends with autism and they were not pathological liars. He needs to stop making autistic people look like liars.
Yea you would think they would be brutally honest like he used when he called her home a prison 😂
My brother is autistic it’s not an excuse for bad behavior
@ezanderson8834 lol They definitely are. They aren't lying to spare your feelings. I showed my autistic friend my first apartment and he told me it looked like a hospital room, but don't worry his apartment wasn't much better lol. They can be brutal! This dude is just a liar, plain and simple.
Met way too many with autism who used it to shield bad behavior tbh,biggest scumbags I’ve ever met
Renee is just a young Angela who hasn't started smoking
😅
She looks like she does heroin
Honestly the hot pocket diet is likely identical between the two 😭
Plus chickens
Crack
did anyone notice how the sisters husband stood there Holding a cross while rayne was acting crazy??!.😅😅😅😂
At 18:42 if anyone wondering 😂😂😂
Omg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The man hold the cross like demons in the house🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It worked too. They’re no longer together 😂
😂 😂
I honestly understand why Matilda is upset. We, Africans don't have promise rings. When a guy proposes he must be ready with money to pay Lobola(dowry). Our parents find it disrespectful when a guy proposes and he doesn't plan on coming to pay dowry asap. Niles also needs to understand a lot of African weddings are huge. Hundreds of people come to the wedding to celebrate the couple.
Mvelase❤😂😂😂 asiyigqoki kwaleyo engagement ring thina😂
@@nenevalentia Ncese sthandwa. Konke kuzolunga❤
@@luyandamthembu5678 ya probably cultural misunderstanding was a part of it. Though it still doesn’t make him out of the woods for lying.
Exactly. I would have felt so humiliated, especially if the whole town knew we were dating. You don't go to her parent's house and not show intent to marry her the traditional way especially after she has told her relatives about you. She's not impatient because she wants a green card like some other comments were saying. She's just trying to avoid embarrassment according to our culture.
The way her face hit the car seat😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
I bursted out laughing 😆 😂😂. She was over it
Had me in tears 😭😂🤣
If there was ever a "OOF" That's what it looks like
When
I really like Matilda, she seems down to earth, hard-working and patient. I hope they work out.
Up until the point she comes to America and discovers Golden Corral
She should stick to an African.
@@davicool4284 well a girls gotta eat
You want her to work it out with a guy who lies to her, manipulates her, and then uses his autism as an excuse when she calls him out? 🤦🏽♀ the bar is underground nowadays
@@Leoprincess3038 I think you’re being extremely harsh and managed to turn a positive well meeting statement into something negative. Are you one of those people who sees” red flags” in every man that doesn’t worship a woman?. Sit down girl, he’s not that bad.
African tradition you invite everyone you know plus who they know, including the guy sold plantain that one time
I’m curious, in America the tradition is father is responsible to pay for the wedding. Who is responsible for paying for the wedding in “African tradition” or even Ghanaian tradition?
@@phoebegodiva-adeniyi5315traditionally it comes to the rules of the tribe so either the bride or groom family, but recently it just goes to the family that is richer
@ Thank you so much for responding. I am very intrigued by African culture 🤩
Not over here in Angola, that's not all of Africa bro
@@phoebegodiva-adeniyi5315dont listen its mostly the men
I think in the Nigerian culture giving gifts upon departure is common for rhe family
Yes he probably wanted to make sure she had some souvenirs. He’s a saint and she’s an abuser.
In some cultures in Nigeria it actually is.
Yes it is.
Yes because she came to see him and likely had already bought these things for her
But she isnt Ghanian?
@@benogidan
I can’t with rayne 😂😂😂 she flips so fast and the stuff that comes out her mouth is jaw dropping 😂😂😂
She’s got textbook borderline personality disorder
Man that lady scares the heck out of me with her lack of emotional responses aside anger and being a victim
"I’m autistic, just like Niles, but wow, he’s making some frustrating mistakes. It’s the same pattern everyone on this show falls into-they consistently fail to communicate something important to their partner until it’s too late. Every. Single. Time. As one of the most well-known autistic figures once said, 'The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.'"
Just because we're autistic doesn't mean we get to omit the truth, I've been told I usually tell the truth (even tho they don't always like it) we're quite known for it JS
Rita Mae Brown?
Thank you for this. I have very little knowledge of autism but I know for sure lying about past events is not a symptom of autism. That was just manipulative
I think thats why they are chosen for the show 😂
As an autistic person, I understand how anxiety can make lying look easier than conflict...but also his gaslighting is not ok. He should just apologize
I really appreciate your hilarious (and clean) commentary. You just have a knack for analyzing what's going on with these couples and explaining it in a way that we enjoy. Also, all glory to God indeed! 👏
Suace, the “This Isn’t America: 90 Day Fiasco” rap kinda ate. Drop the full version🤣
13:53 🙌🏼
He will Collab with Souja Boi USSSSSMAAAN on that track.
13:53 🔥
I was married to a man on the spectrum and he was honest af...sometimes a little too honest 😂
The “this is America” bars is crazy!!!!!!
That mustache looking good on Sauce
Ayo that’s not a mustache that’s like 5% 😂
@@unknownuser3736Don't be rude. This is why all these TH-camrs are being anonymous for life and not showing their face. Because people talk junk. Be happy he's putting his whole self out there and don't be rude
Those 2 hairs
I've never felt so gaslighted like I did when I watched Renee. Poor chidi he deserves the world someone peaceful.
SAUCE make videos on I LOVE A MAMAS BOY
Semi-Mama's Boy here lol... Thank you bcs your comment gives me a bit more hope!
I hate how he blames being a liar and a coward on his autism. It’s a character issue not a developmental issue. And then sitting there telling her all these rules she has to follow that he doesn’t even follow.😮
It's not a real Monday without the new SAUCE episode
Chidi is hopefully joining Rose in the dodged a massive bullet club
I’m so happy chidi got away from rayne toxic crazy deeply deranged ssa 🤦🏾♀️
Michael too
Chidi and his family are lovely people 👍🏻 I wish America could make a trade agreement, Chidi and his family for Rayne . She’s MEAN ‼️
I love that barber 😂 straight up facts
Barber: They can curse you
😂😂😂😂😂
Manipulative is texting a blind man. 😂
Have you heard phones can read text aloud 😮. Phones are quite modernized now
@@folddealfeal2740 Right? like if he couldn't use a phone why would he have one?
Niles is trifling as hell.
OMG I wanted to like Niles but damn you is straight up lying and on top of that, he's gaslighting the hell outta her. Poor Matilda
0:51 has me HOLLERING 💀💀
9:00 is he seriously trying to hide behind him being on the spectrum as justifying his poor behavior and handling this situation?
yes.
Chidi, did not stand a chance man!
No shot 😂
She certainly was something else.
poor Chidi he seems like such a sweetie
So happy he got out of that
Bet Micheal got in touch with Chidi and told him his story about crazy american women
I love Chittys sister Victoria ! She’s a gem!❤
Yeah, na, I’m autistic, yes it’s hard to communicate. But he’s straight up acting more scared to speak and he’s lying to keep HIS best interest. This is why his family didn’t want this to happen.
Well, now that we can move past autism, We should talk about mental illness to full effect(bats**t crazy) I think Rayne is completely unhinged and scary, and she reminds me of my aunt that was the same It's absolutely terrifying and good for you Chidi for saying no more
chicken lady is just as wild as dem birds that squawk at one another with no filter or listening ability xD
Renee's son: ... I hope she stays!
Me: 😂😂😂
This kid is ruthless... but sad imagine your little one, a 3 year old saying nah, I'm better off without ya.. Danm!!!
This is unacceptable to treat anyone like this. Renee should be in psych ward or jail. This is unacceptable behavior, my god who raised this lady...
@@lavenderlovee i especially feel sorry for her kids. If she’s this unhinged on camera, i don’t wanna know how she treats her poor children.
😭 when a producer has to intervin in ur lies 😂 its over
When SAUCE drops im here for it all❤
I wish these folks would stop saying they've been DATING. NO! Youve been computer pen pals. Women stop manifesting "Dating" relationships. Its getting damn embarrrassing
The shot of the goat peeking around the corner in WIIIILD 😭😭😭😭
I have been autistic my whole life and I don't lie to make people feel better or me I usually just hide from them But I found someone anyways I didn't get there by lying to him Niles bro we're autistic, not dumb and I say that quite honestly, we have to be honest and upfront because we can be intelligent and neurodivergent and you know what you're doing is wrong bro We are on the spectrum, but we have to know where we're at and we have to be honest if we really want to reach people
He disnt lie, or hide anything..
He told her " I think we should take longer to plan this wedding " in the first episode.. bit she answered " don't you disappoint me!"
@@annicklagace7414I will agree with you, however saying "I think" versus "I can't, I won't,or not at this time" or completely different.
@Nightcall411 just rewatched it for his exact words .. he says " were only gonna do this one time ..we're only gonna have 1 wedding. So you know what that means ? We might need a little more time to plan that out "
That was his answer to her saying she told her family, friends, neighbors, church members about it.. And then she answers him " I hope you will not disappoint me"
So I can't call him a liar .. communication is a struggle for people with autism , and her being pretty aggressive in her way of speaking to him, must scare him.. he looks so scared and worried during this convo , and was kind of shut down, because matilda wouldn't really listen
@annicklagace7414 thanks for you replay and rewatching it as well. I would say communication is a struggle for everybody. She is aggressive I will give you that, but she's only this aggressive because 1) it's probably worked for her in the past to get her way. 2) because in the time they've spoken to one another she's probably picked up that he's easy to back down or at the very least doesn't like confrontation.
I would say what he's been doing as lying because if there was an award system to him lying like sex, affection, praise, or even acknowledgment he would gladly take those awards. So if you lie to get your way aka awards/ perks you also have to take the cons for when you're caught/ called out on said lies. I will say I don't believe he's lies were made with malicious intent.
"Raw dawgin'" 😂😂😂😂
My favorite type of dawg 😭😭😭
Niles needs to stop using autism as an excuse for his behaviour. He has no understanding of her culture. In West Africa once you have decided to marry and get engaged the whole process starts rolling, there's no long drawn out engagement.
And Rayne is lucky that Chidis family are good God fearing people. Less patient people would have carried her off to do money ritual 😂
I'm glad i found this channel, SAUCE good job
The "What now?" to the curse information was perfect comedic timing 😆And Sauce dropping bars!
Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
That Chris Tucker Clip......Chef Kiss🤣
18:40 Oh hell nah! Not today Satan 😂
Y’all 😂
Matilda is pretty and could do better. She needs to find her a real man. Niles is weird af.
The sound effects had me dying 😂
Bro literally thinking hes big brain. Its like fortune cookie wisdom on steroids 😂
Matilda is like the best 90 day meme material since lorrissa
He is the black Charlie Brown right down to the "good grief."
That “This Ain’t America” song could be a hit!🔥😭😂
We dig the new setup but any reason for no more animation?
Been following Sauce for a while and I think he said that the animations took a very long time to make. Which is fair. Some of the old animations were so funny lol, but the commentary is still good 👍
No bc as an autistic person myself, there is no situation where you can just pull the autism card and expect to go blameless. take accountability for yourself
Loved your goats and cow rap!!😂😂
"praise to Lord" everytime we get matilda's backshot, was funny af!!
LMAOOOOO 7:04 IS TOOOO REALL AND TOO FUNNY BC ???!?!?!?!!!! AMAZIN VID AS ALWAYS SAUCE!🤣🤣😁
Bruh that edit with the demonic Rayne is crazy😂😂😂
Damn I just realize I start automatically praying 🙏🏼 everytime I see Rayne that’s some demonic possession stuff
He just needs to be grateful somebody loves him enough to want to marry him 😭
The American mind often struggles to accept the rest of the world ain't always as developed as they're used to. lol
This how relationships and recaps are indeed
CRAZY WORK!!! 🤣🤣🤣
“Chitty Chitty I don’t wanna Bang-Bang you” is wild😂
11:33 brrrr brrr brrr 😂😂😂
Just saw that Victoria husband held a cross when she said shrieking 😅😅😅😂😂😂😂😂
celebrate good times ❌
celebration time ✅
When I say a Sauce post makes the day 1000x better 💫
Been waiting for you SAUCE 👏🏽 😂
You made me laugh so much with this one 😂❤
Aye, honestly, I assumed Matilda was going to knocks his lights out like a Tex Avery cartoon.🤷🏾♀️
I have met many men and women with mild and sever and in-between autism. Manners is not a factor. The person either has manners or does not and it is NOT related to autism
I’ve found there are a lot of people online (and I guess now national TV) that use autism/Asperger’s to act like a complete ass. Not to mention that nowadays everyone is so quick to self-diagnose as autistic and use it to excuse their shitty behavior. It’s reprehensible.
Niles better come through! Matilda is so sweet ❤
Bro using his autism to justify his actions. Again.
Nobody:
Maltida: "Naow!"
The PRAISE THE LORD every time we see Matilda from the back is chefs kiss🤌🏾😂😂😂 Sauce
I had to rewind to make sure I heard it right because I have a similar reaction 😂😂
14:45
She too good for him
Edit: I see it now, she's gonna be taking care of him like a huge man child
she wouldnt be Talking to him like that if the cameras were'nt there ....
and she wonder WHY she's alone and even her own son wanted her to stay in Nigeria....
Perfect thing to watch while I’m sick for the fourth time this year, I’m on my period, and finals are breathing down my neck right now.
Still it could be worse. I could be in this situation. 😂
There is always a silver lining 😂
TMI 😱
Anybody not in a relationship with him is doing well 😅
@ you got that right. 😂😂😂
I am also on my period! Day 11! 😡
Im screaming at "this aint america" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that's why i will be loyal to sauce until he says he's done❤❤❤
I love the ‘ol ‘if I tell them the truth they won’t want to be with me’ excuse. So they just lie. 😒 Sauce 🥰
I feel bad seeing Matilda crying 😢
I'm tired of people, and Niles himself speaking without a filter is him telling the truth. He's telling his own truth. Not the general truth. The way he spoke about Matilda's house made me mad. So disrespectful.
The audacity of this man 😂
“Awww, here it goes.”-Kel (voice)🥳
The "boinking curses" really got me laughing though
rayne has some SERIOUS issues .. i think an exorcism would be in place....
she makes Angela seem normal... like an Angel
I feel so sorry for rennee son.
I don't understand why you would agree to a traditional wedding and then complain about the customs 🤦
The BEST TH-cam channel! @sauce! Keep them coming! I love every episode!
Matilda looking like she's about to kill him
Sauce is a pleasant break from Reality when it comes to these uploads😅
This Guy is a "character". I love the edits in this video 😂😂😂
Niles keeps blaming autism for his being manipulative. Those “maxims” were a clear attempt, and he’s absolutely lying.
This Rayne girl is so wild, like honestly when she talks about her exes--she honestly drove them to drugs lol
Omg I said the exact same thing on a different commentator’s page 😂
LOL that's how her wording makes it sound but there's no way a relationship would make me start doing crack. That's just stupid.