I find comfort in sadness.
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- a small part of my daily thoughts combined with the one thing that heals me most.
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"I cry to feel a little else of everything else because I always feel too much of everything" too real😭✋🏾
@@Nifemiii-d3u :”)
here’s a hug from me🫂
Ecclesiastes 7:3 KJV
Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.
Sadness is the new peace. Loneliness is the new peace. Staying away from everything is peace.
true
it's not, running is not peace
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' Live in a place long enough and start liking it. '
Damnn bro🫂
We are who we are because of the things that we go through. Such a beautiful poem.
@@mxhesh doesn’t that just make you wonder tho :’)
And thank you so much 🥹🫶🏻
Sadness is something we all need and we will all experience, there's no way around it, it''s part of our nature whether you're masculine or feminine, there's a book that talks a lot about femininity and how to be the best woman you can possibly be, it's called the power of the female aura on lentlish.
Sadness is the norm, happiness is an anomaly.
If that's true, why even try to be happy?
We shouldn't strive for happiness. Happiness is fleeting. Contentment/satisfaction should be our pursuit. That's more fulfilling and long lasting.
Is being happy not a experience of pursuing contentment? Sadness is the depth of pursuing contentment but can we say happiness is just an infatuation?
i seem to enjoy both happiness and sadness intertwined in my journeys. I feel that each one creates the essence of understanding the other better
Thank you for this ❤. I'm glad I'm not the only one that feels this way.
girl it seems like its me in someone elses body, everything you said is what i feel like
I just love writerss they put my random thoughts in words and make me feel understood 😭🎀all the things u said is so true and it feels as if i m sad person and when laughing or happy thats just a temporary phase
its nice to see im not alone. and there are people who think in the way i think
This healed me in a way i cannot quite explain....so thankyou so much..
Im so glad to hear 🥹🫂
This resonates with me. I'm glad to see someone else who deals with the same insecurities and emotions that I do.
@@hinam9684 I’m so glad you could see that you’re not alone :) and there’s no need to feel insecure about how you feel and who you are 🫶🏻
I crave the pain of break ups. Those Sad songs just don't hit the same.
dudeee , little things which made me happy during that phase now just feels hollow now
@@fluffyninja7808 same
Sameeeee
True, i hurt ppl even when I don’t have the intention to do so ! My mind is isolated and i feel sad and basically my brain wants to stay sad and thinks too much .. i wish i could just turn that down
I've struggled with this fact about myself until my current age of 25. Especially as a man it is quite frowned upon to be shy and melancholic by nature, so I've been abusing myself for over a decade trying to change until a moment of catharsis overcame me and I was drowned in self-acceptance. If you relate to this never change, you do not owe the world a smile.
What I can say is that I was too good for something worst and when I realised it became very hard to accept and move on...but I'm still confused if it is really worst or its something else....
2024 was the worst phase of my life which taught me many lessons...
Here, mean and selfish people are happy..... and kind & pure hearted people are suffering....
I always wanted to help but ended up breaking myself and now I am lonely and have noone except myself and mom...
Hoping for better future and stronger me...🌌🍀
I just realised that even I have started to find comfort in sadness and this scares me.
of course it isn't a bad thing coz that what makes you who you are.❤
This is the most relatable thing I have even seen and experienced
Yes that's what I agree with aswell I also find sadness comforting I feel so much better knowing that other people feel this way too love you ❤
Every single line of the video is too relatable omg , i thought an the only one
I love this! Absolutely beautiful piece!❤❤❤
It's called "emotional addiction to negative emotions".I searched about it when I had an idea that maybe it's really a thing bcz I realized that I was seeking comfort in sad emotions through either ny memories but mostly through stories and I loved reading. I knew that wasn't healthy and I was already struggling with mental health but was actually recovering. That addiction would have kept me stuck so I searched on that and found out that it's a real thing and only thing one can do is actively take yourself out but sometimes you don't realise that you are in that zone or sometimes you crave for it so think you will consume a lil bit but get lost in that for hours or even couple of days. So, I basically stuck multiple sticky notes in every direction in my room written "Emotional addiction to -ve emotions" so when I got lost for long time I would see that note and get reminded that I need to do sth else. I am nmstill struggling with focus but that issue is 99% resolved although it took almost 2-3 years.
Did you talk to someone about your mental health problems?
I think I’ve lived in sadness as the default emotion in my life , that when happiness finally comes, it feels bittersweet: sad that it took so long to feel happy , worried the feeling won’t last, and struggling to fully embrace and enjoy the moment.
You said this truee
Sadness lets you put down the walls you have been puting up against the world. After putting them down you feel your vulnerability, you don't pity yourself for it, instead you understands it and it's comforting to understand yourself. you don't feel the fear of judgement of showing your vulnerability to someone.
You FEEL you.
Omg sameee here, idk but im also generally a sad person. But for me, i find comfort in sadness, bcs feeling sad at least make me felt like im still human rather than not feel anything :(
Without sadness there's nothing to feel happy about.
We are a poetry, not like anyone else, but the one that makes you feel yourself.
LOVE your Beautiful Words....
I've never felt so understood.... Good to see that so many people feel the way i do. ❤
I comfort myself and squeeze so tight by knowing the fact that at the end you’ve yourself and you have to take care of you cause nobody else will ❤
Don’t know how your video came up in my feed but this is exactly how I feel and what I think constantly but its always hard to make people around understand that I am not lost neither depressed
We always hear sadness and crying are part of life. There is a reason for that. These things realize us that we are alive. Life should be enjoyed, with joy. Sadness is a part. Embrace it.
The male urge inside me says I wanna be with her fix her and heal her from every single thing and make her happy ❤
Sadness is my strongest emotion , tbh thankyou very much !!!!
It's new year 2025 and I am feeling sad as usual, after listening to this I am happy to be a sad person. I thought only I am being exceptional. Indeed there are people like me out there.
Keep balance in your emotions I know it is hard but not impossible sadness is a feeling but don't to be feel sad every time you have make your self happy no one in the world care for you either you are happy or sad find happiness in little things around you
But honey you can get sick because of it ... another world full of beauty and creativity and deep rich emotional world ... but outside sadness❤
You just described "me"😭🫂🤍
Like I feel good after crying because if make me feel warm and living and that I have emotions if we could be happy and enjoy it then we could be sad and feel it❤
And as far as I’m concerned I’ve high functioning depression and anxiety and I’m a sad person too.
Im sorry to hear but I hope you heal 🥹
Hello! We don't know each other, but I truly believe that there is someone who cares about you, cried and felt the same way you Pain. And that someone is Jesus. I believe that I went through this and was healed. However, the Bible may not always be enough and God can use other things to heal us, such as therapy, which I I consider it VERY important. A big hug, even from afar. I hope you get well. :)
@@mate_piecekkkj this was comforting thankyou so much sending love your way!!!!
@@avaashmusic thankyou so much💗
Apathy is feeling dead inside. Sadness is like a jolt to the system, to the heart, that we're still alive. My entire life there's been this feeling that something is missing. Then a Billie Eilish song comes on and hits me with a lyric like "I knew you in another life" and it triggers me for unexplained reasons. It's like there's a sadness in resonance, an echo that strums across the strings of our heart. To me, when I'm moved to cry, it's like I'm honoring those that have lived through pain and suffering versus being apathetic to it.
This vedio is so true for me. Thanks for putting out the words and feelings that I feel.
sadness is the only thing I feel nowadays, all other feelings are playing hide and seek
Did you do something to cope up with it?
@damask_rosei8966 yes, i tried
This is tooooo good, make more of these please 😭
Hey I'm same I thought I was the only one who feels this
🥺❤️🩹why can I relate to this
There's comfort in sadness. Something about it calming the mind but honestly some happiness wouldn't hurt once in a while :D
I love that the movie "Inside Out" emphasizes this - that sometimes your main/default emotion is sadness and thats ok. I always felt like I had an obsession with sadness but after that movie I realized that it's not that I like being sad, but that it's my main emotion where I feel most like myself. (Rileys mom main emotion is sadness because she sits in the center of them). The important part is that I experience all my emotions well - just, sadness gets a little more of me. 💙
In sadness I found close to God
And we are quite souls which is so rare 🌷🖇
No one else could have said it this beautifully, you have my thanks
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Relatable. Most people consider sadness as nothing desireble. But I feel comfort that I'm feeling sad. So glad there are people who feel the same.
I totally get what you mean! 😊 It feels like some of my thoughts are coming out through your words, and I really appreciate that. Just wanted to say thanks! 🙏
You are not alone 😢❤
You've written it down so beautiful
Love this perspective and 100% relatable about will i create and think like i do if i wasnt this sad. Almost dont know what i would be like if i wasnt sad...
"I always feel too much of everything." Yep
If only I have a potential likes yours when it comes to words, my life would have been different.
*Honestly Sadness teaches us things we need to learn. When Iam sad, I realize what I actually want to do, What I was meant to do. If you always look for a way to find happiness, You'll never be happy.*
There is a strange beauty in sadness and happiness feels astray
Thanks for sharing - I've been melancholic and maudlin all my life and always felt that it was wrong to be this way and so wore the plastic smile. But lately, finally after 57 years of life, I've grown to embrace it. It's paradoxical - I find joy amidst the sadness - Wabi Sabi - Beauty amidst the ruins. "Everything has a crack in it...that's how the light gets in." - Leonard Cohen. - as they say in Gotham - Keep frowning!
as someone who doesn't cry at all even when I'm sad, i'd like to add a fresh perspective to this beautiful piece-
I think this isn't pure sadness but also the things that come along with it, like the want to not do anything and being okay with not doing anything that's the most comforting. like i'd be so stressed about my assignment but if I'm sad I'll let myself be and tell myself it's okay if I don't finish it right on time.
If you've experienced comfort much more than anything else, there's a comfort to it. Because it's a safety net. Any other emotion might feel too overwhelming or out of place. I am the exact way. I feel a lot but I feel sad the most. But feeling is not a bad thing, as long as you know how to manage it. I love the orange peeling the end, the blanket is coming off, you're out in the open and vulnerable. The peel is the blanket, the sadness.
didn't expect to find this video in my feed , the exact moment when i was feeling sad and totally related to it.
I really like the oranges in the back. And i know for sure that was intentional - I love the contrast.
From what i decipher from this scene, and this is just a personal view, is that while you find comfort in sadness, in the dull areas of life (which may be ironic because sadness is an emotion with so much depth and substance, and i feel like happiness alone is a shallow emotion)
So while you like the dull areas, like me, you feel that you need a dosage of happiness too, every once in a while. So that oranges must be happiness. Taking one orange occasionally to cherish it, then you won't feel that happiness is shallow. You'll feel that happiness is much more precious when there is so much sadness. Just the way you like the sun on your skin when there is so much rain.
Thank you for this, and you aren't the only one feeling this way. This all applies to me too. Great job.
ikr like i was gonna comment the same thing oranges here contrastingly symolize the joy and it creates a vivid yet impactful image in our minds sometimes too small things that go unnoticed by many have so much to say
This is totally relatable to me as well , but sometimes coming out of sadness is all we want.
This is beautiful 🤍
Thank you for validating me.
I feel you Ava.
I can relate to this one hundred percent.
Should I be worried?
Hahaha.
For me it's more complicated to deal with it externally, because no one seems to be able to understand it, than actually feeling this way.
Anyway, thanks for this video.
I subscribed and I'm following you on Spotify.
All the best to you.
Thank you so much for your support 🫂
@@avaashmusic Anytime! 🤗🫂
Now this is called content and this is how a creator should be!!👏👏❤
it's good to know I'm not the only one
I don't like the reasons that make me cry
But I do like crying and the way that feels
I never let myself be happy never be satisfied always complain even in happy moments not cuz im ungrateful but just cuz im more used to sadness than happiness im used to things not working out and happiness feels to scary whst if it stops
The more you try to avoid negativity the more it will come to you. Sadness is a part of each and every living beings life, its nothing just a feeling which fades away with time. So time is the key, invest in your time.
This is just so relatable!
Once i was trying to write a 30 day journal challenge and there was a question which says" what makes you happy?"the first thing i genuinely felt and wrote was sadness.Sadness makes me feel like a real being and not merely existing.It blooms a feeling of comfort and solace whilst it is okay to feel how we feel cause we all got our own ways of feeling happy keeping in mind its not forced but subconsciously a natural flow.
Sadness is lucidity and being sensitive,it's when you're aware of things as they are without thinking...to me.
You are an amazing person 😊
Tristeza é uma passagem. É um aviso q algo q está bem. Vc consegue. Olhe para si mesma.
The endless pursuit of happiness makes us sad, it is normal to be sad as normal as happy can be, life is a mix of them, sad events happen anyway and we can not do anything about... peace!
The title feels relatable yet strangely not resonating well at the same time with me, this is so real, I didn't watched the video but the title made me click , hope you're doing well though
I'm genuinely shocked watching this because I can't relate to it at all. Whether it's my environment, surroundings, or just the culture of our country, I rarely find myself sad for more than a day. How can someone let sadness consume them to the point that it becomes their personality? If what you're sharing in the video is real, I believe you need to change your surroundings and the people around you. However, if this is just a poem, then I must say-it's phenomenal. It truly captured my attention. :) Love from India ♥♥
I'm melancholic forever
I think I had been sad for all of my life
Trust me I feel her
I'm also a sad person an extreme one
@ifnanahmushtaq You just need a better environment and experience of life. You will heal yourself.
@@RealRudrasheel where will I bring the better environment when I have seen the same environment since childhood?
@@ifnanahmushtaq Start Travelling Definitely it will help.
@@RealRudrasheel travelling to where ?
And ultimately I have to come home
Trust me nothing helps
Even if anything helps that's temporary
Why is this so relatable? 🫂
And it Feels like staying away from everyone is peace ....
this is beautiful
Fr like i used to be afraid of being alone butt now i justt find peace in being alone i justt feel suffocating around ppl
Keep journaling and keep calm, sister.
sadness
She tends to bring me back to the present, the now,
Moments quiet, alone with me myself, and I,
Heck even them sad chill songs I usually listen to sound better,
Shit happens on my journey called Living, I am glad Sadness sets the mood and background to process all that's going on.
Beautiful❤...love youuuu
1:09 so powerful
I feel too much of everything tahts why I’m this way
We all learned to embrace it,a bitter truth
I have that comfort with being alone, if it wasn't for physical touch -
I genuinely think I could live alone without a partner forever.
Lucky enough that you can shed tears atleast :)
So do I! Thanks for this.
This used to be me but then I realized that feeling happy instead of sad is better.
i found this vid of urs and now I can't stop watching your videos!!
I clicked this vid cuz it was relatable and um.. it's okay not to be okay🍷
🥹🫂🫶🏻
ur not alone its me too
I'm like you ava literally I'm what you're. More love 2 you
Through my eyes it looks that you live in a pretty neutral frequency that dips down with the confusion of the world. You your soul is looking for truth and expression on how to consciously understand life. There is an 'other side' to all this because you will eventually want to move on and do more to your fullest expression. The sadness is like rehealing a self inflicted wound, it works temporarily until you're ready. This is speaking from experience. Clear the fear, free the soul. The beautiful thing is that you're already doing it by posting this. Keep going and so much more will blossom 💚
❤ I like it ❤