When they ask you to get pregnant so they marry you

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  • When they trap you because they don't deserve you

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  • @michelleokonda8947
    @michelleokonda8947 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Aki after getting pregnant while in campus... Nilijichuna maskio. The hell I went through changed me completely. I never want to find myself in that situation again. I promised myself to work on being a better woman and a mother. Raising a child on your own is no joke!

  • @stanstano2675
    @stanstano2675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Benjamin, I hope you know that you are doing great work in all our lives. Being a girl aged 25, your videos are both therapeutic and slaps 😂😂😂it's gets my common sense back each time. Many thanks!

    • @joymiracle
      @joymiracle 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You have stated it completely right!😂 God bless Sir Benjamin for me

  • @asinatikagoya8757
    @asinatikagoya8757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Someone just left last month because of telling him to go home, meet parents before getting pregnant 😏😏😏😏. Thanks for the show Benjamin Zulu and Mwikali🙏🙏🥰🥰.

  • @teejayangel6638
    @teejayangel6638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    😂😂😂😂omg I've ROFLMAO that part of "don't judge me, only God can judge me" is a mantra in Kenya😂😂😂😂😂 they don't like hearing the truth nor being corrected. "Don't judge" 😂😂😂

  • @patienceturinawe9418
    @patienceturinawe9418 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You make a great team. Zulu is a gem. Mwikali's laugh is everything 🤣.
    God bless you both😊

  • @cikuciku2355
    @cikuciku2355 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    If there's something I fear in this life is to get pregnant before I accomplish my goals that's why I took my time to study men like seriously..... Ladies prioritize your life and your future goals and stay celibate and practice self love, and hehe and practice to view men as trees you will go far..

  • @joymiracle
    @joymiracle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not all break ups need a last conversation. disrespect is enough closure! Wow!📌📌📌

    • @TopsyAbby
      @TopsyAbby 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      PREACH!!!!!!!!!

  • @josphinekaibi8095
    @josphinekaibi8095 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks,,, become a healer,,,, Benjamin you are are a blessing to this generation

  • @joymiracle
    @joymiracle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "Don't birth children to battles. life itself is a battle." thank you sir Benjamin. if i can't get a child inside a marriage, then i don't want it. i keep echoing this to my age-mates that a child is heavy and it is a great call and responsibility and they insist that i am just still young,naive and inexperienced (@24). i keep telling them that before i clear a path for a child, i won't be willing to birth a child yet.
    i want to give my child a clear path like the way my mom has done to me

  • @queenslayhamisi5022
    @queenslayhamisi5022 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    True. Just do not get babies when not ready. And even when you have enough resources, just be considerate enough to get just enough. Death is there, loss of jobs is a reality in today's world. Let's appreciate Quality vs Quantity. Wisdom wisdom.....

  • @asinatikagoya8757
    @asinatikagoya8757 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We nolonger need Stars, 🌟🌟,we only need healers and story tellers 😃😃👌👌!!.

  • @Blackmandeze
    @Blackmandeze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You just aired my concerns I had been contemplating on this...a great confirmation I am doing great...from a single mother ...being a man is tough....only Zulu counseling can school us.

  • @amandaj.2781
    @amandaj.2781 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much Mr. Zulu for the wonderful wisdom...... God increase your knowledge

  • @amandaj.2781
    @amandaj.2781 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm far much wiser since I started listening to your counseling...... I want to be like you one day to save young lives
    🙏 Coach

  • @tabithakasina3711
    @tabithakasina3711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I had to organize my whole being to listen to this bitter truth. It's now clear I have to put myself together to swallow the bitter medicine so it can heal every broken piece in me inorder to sprout up to my Gods designed destiny.

  • @teacherelizabeth1781
    @teacherelizabeth1781 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My good God of heaven countinue giving you wisdom and strength to continue helping this generation

  • @sharondawah8706
    @sharondawah8706 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for saving my future 🙏

  • @moureentiara
    @moureentiara 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    hahahahahaha that was a really romantic message at the end.

  • @brendakerubo7398
    @brendakerubo7398 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i do feel our teacher for what he has to listen to.. I don't think i was built for such but his love and compassion for this generation is so bid. indeed we are blessed to have Zulu and Mwikali.. nowadays people treat sex so casually.. we are living in strange times.. lovers of pleasure and lust can cause you a lifetime pain.

  • @stellagitau7729
    @stellagitau7729 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Am 20 and learning each day.

  • @MeloXtie
    @MeloXtie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My mentor

  • @musiimentasharrotte2241
    @musiimentasharrotte2241 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I won't be reckless and selfish. I'll not add problems to life, life is already problematic. Deficits, loans I hear call you as thieves. 😅😅😅 Clear a path for them. By the time, I release them into the world, I'll have given them a fighting chance.

  • @Purity719
    @Purity719 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Benjamin

  • @perism1586
    @perism1586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Treating as casual what God meant to be sacred.

  • @healthyliving.5101
    @healthyliving.5101 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i salute sir

  • @KamuSaladi
    @KamuSaladi ปีที่แล้ว

    And this includes babies in exchange for girlfriend allowances. I had a Mzungu propose this to me. Thank God I had half a brain cell at that tender age.
    Demon.

  • @tabithakasina3711
    @tabithakasina3711 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had to organize my whole being to listen to this bitter truth. It's now clear I have to put myself together to swallow the bitter medicine so it can heal every broken piece in me inorder to sprout up to my Gods designed destiny.