Years of trying to get love from the outside and watching endless videos…it finally clicked for me yesterday and I realized I can give this to myself and my sps will also give it to me. For we are One. I woke up to both of them sending me sweet text messages. I am floored. 1 SP I had struggled manifesting the way I wanted since 2019. WOW
What to do if you feel Abandonment from your specific person ? * When you feel abandonment from your specific person, its cause of something activated the old wound for you. * at some point in our early childhood we felt dropped, left, ignored distance from our parents. * This experince when your young even though insignificant or you dont remember what happnd creates a wound inside of you. * this wound is essentialy like small expectation that you were going to left or abandonded. * this can effect when you get an adult and this expectation of getting abandonded starts to pop up. * because we create our reality and other people show up with us and this experince arises when your in relationship this starts to manifest. * so now you have manifested a pattern of abanded. ------------------------------------------- WHAT TO DO IF THIS IS YOUR SITUATION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO FLIP AROUND. * You have to start attending and caring for the part of yourself that expects to be left. * Heal the wound on spot but also create a reality where it no longer affects you. This is inner child work. * when you start chasing, golf after your sp, controlling, these are the signs that your abandonmemt wound has arised. * the only thing you have to do is heal yourself in the moment. * show up for yourself in the moment. Only you can show up not others. * Go within and no longer feel abanded. ------------------------------------------- What to do to turn this whole pattern around is :- * Settle yourself. * Close your eyes. * Start settleing into your body. * Take deep breathes down into your center. * Start talking to the part of you that is scared , that wants to chase after love and the person. * Say this to the inner child. - Hey swettie i am right here with you. - I know your really really scared right now. - I know this feels awfull to you. - I know it feels horrible to you. - I want you to know that i am right here with you. - i am never going to leave you. - I am right here, i am always going to be with you. - You are safe, your held, i love you so much. * This is a short meditation to make contact with inner child. * This helps in no longer fear of abandonment. * If you do this on consistent basis your inner child knows that its safe. * you no longer expect to be abanded cause your wound is healed. * doing this deep inner work , helps you to be with yourself and also helps your reality change for better. Thank you Shelly for a beautiful video❤ Your amazing as always ❤
I can totally relate to this. But only positive outcome is that i created it I can create it again. Self love is the key. It's a done deal and this is the best time to work on me and my career. He is already mine... I don't have to worry about that. My priority is me. Once when we are together there will be no looking back. Nothing can mess this up.
I'm just gonna sticky-note this here: *if you feel abandoned, you're creating a reality where you feel abandoned.* The other person *can't* show up for you. You have to do it first. Yeah, I know. Just try it though. Place what you thought was the cart in front of the horse.
I like this method alot. I've also used it to sooth myself from nightmares! Currently manifesting that everyone watching this video is with their SP! We deserve it! ❤️
That’s the right video I need.. I was ghosted by my ex without any reason and I can’t stop think about him I want him to regret and come back for a new relationship
Since everyone is you pushed out, what you’re thinking and feeling is what your ex is going to feel so if you resent him, it’s going to repel him from coming back.
Loved the way you gave the example of how your own inner child used to be scared of abandonment. Proves once again that we all CAN and ARE GOING to reach the same mastery in manifesting as you and that everything is possible even if it seems scary right now! 🌈
I think this part of your teaching is my favorite so far. 💕 In less than a week of showing up for that inner child my confidence levels and sense of self love are greatly increased, and I was pretty confident already, in all areas except the heart. 😄 For now I’m devoting the rest of the month to focusing mostly on showing up for me more. I was blessed to have a happy 35-year marriage with a man who taught me what unconditional love meant through his actions. There is no more powerful energy than being loved without condition. 💕 I’m already trained to expect to be adored, loved, respected, cherished, chosen. I simply lost sight of that when he died. Thank you, Shelly, for helping me find my way back. 🤗🤗🤗
I just did this yesterday! I promised to always be there for myself and comforted my inner self or child self. I will always be there and I know that now. Thanks Shelley for your life improving videos. 💕
Tears in my eyes all through your video although I consider myself to have resolved all these issues. Therei is so much compassion today from you Shelly. Thank ypu.
"You have to heal yourself IN THAT MOMENT" - wow! What a brilliant distinction of the massively nebulous task of "healing yourself" which feels overwhelming and big. You made it so clear in this video that healing is quick and in the moment. Beautiful offering. ♡
Myyyy Godness 😱😱😱😱 exactly what l was looking for today. Thank you. My manifesting skills are starting to get really uncanny.. Like, all my doubts in "as you believe so it shall be done onto you" are being dissolved. Huh... Goosebumps. Huge thanks to you 🥰😘
This video is so timely for me. I recently had someone ghost me, which really hurt and broke me because I really thought he was the one, but meeting him was also a blessing because it made me wake up and realize that I had been sabotaging my relationships as this pattern of being ghosted kept happening. I had realized that days before they ghost me, I end up having fears of them leaving, which became a self-fulfilling prophecy. And of course, because of my fears and anxiety, I clung to them more which made them pull away from me. I am now working on healing my abandonment issues. Thank you so much for these videos! 5:00 Oh gosh 🙈 6:28 Love this. I'll keep this in mind. Thank you so much!!!
Thank you Shelly, it's so true, sometimes when we feel abandoned or scared to do something, it's just our wounded inner child that needs to be comforted and loved by yourself ❤
That makes total sense why none of my relationships have survived in the past, not even my 11 year marriage as the abandonment issue from childhood came up as my mum was dying. Great video thanks Shelley.
This tool is so important.!Thank you Shelly.Wish I had it in my past relationships but better now then never! You give security and ease for our next relationship whenever that will happen:) This information is worth everything!!🌹
I love the energy! I always happen to catch myself on my free time when your videos go live and i love it! Thanks for this, will first work on my inner child and self love to become a magnet to my sp!
thank you so much this was so beautiful :) i was left out of no where by my specific person and i was so scared that if i got them back they would leave again but now i know it won’t happen, thank you i needed this 💖
Don't give up on life and the universe.... I know of a great man who helped me fix my broken heartbeat relationship and everything was restored to normal in days without delay...
I don't know you will believe me or not... But I was doing this mental diet thing I and realized my 5 relationships are failed . Breakups were sudden and they kind of betrayed me, left me. And that thought of abandonment is still in my heart. I don't want to manifest any of ex but the way we broke up still haunts me. It hurts me. So I can't open my heart for someone new. I keep getting those memories all the time. I just had a thought what if I ask shelly in comment section about "How to remove this feeling of abandonment". I was about to request you for video on this. I will persist on my assumption that you are my mind reader. ♥️♥️♥️
You are probably the best relating to our needs and explaining the solution. My problem is focusing on the positive and keeping my thoughts positive to manifest.
Shelly I really liked this subject very important because I think that when you get through the abandonment issue then the manifesting the sp ex is much more productive. Big likee 💙❤️😍
Shelly, I just purchased your 4 course bundle , but now I realize I should have bought this one to help me with abandonment issues, but I will need to wait. I feel like I need to work with what I purchased already. Thanks for your videos, they are very inspiring
I kept coming across this topic of the inner child and didn’t think it pertained to me....until now and so much is crystal clear! 😱 That short meditation was emotional for me and I felt the love. Thank you for such great information.
7:43 I'm crying. I obviously have abandonment issues. In my childhood I had lost all my friends in my class and then even in my year. 🙈🙊 Now, I'm a magnet and people come to me like zombies through the walls but the wounds are still there. They are becoming smaller and smaller though.
What you talk here is so true. I’ve done inner child work meditation, and looking inward, I’ve cried but I also feel I’m healing. I’ve been loving myself more 🌺 thank you for your videos.
This works so much and not only with love..... I've been having problems with my internet company and I tried to do the inner child work focused on them just cause I felt so frustrated and it made my whole vive be of frustration and anger and I hate feeling like that.... today they fixed all the problems and the people were so nice and helpful unlike other times... its amazing... I just love it!!! 😁😁😁 i know its a little crazy but I trully believe this made a diference on how they treated me... ❤
Thank you Shelly for the video! Your playlist of inner child is amazing, i recommend it to everyone! We must not pay attention to the 3d as we have created it from fear. The only thing we have to do is to be persistently there for us, everything and everyone else will shape to how we feel about us.🌈
I can’t tell you how much your videos have helped me. Not to attract anyone back ( it started at first with that when I was being needy and lonely) but your advice to focus on our own wholeness makes me feel so empowered that I don’t feel I need that person anymore. That’s a great feeling to have!!
You're amazing 💜 Thank you for this video , I appreciate you more than you'll ever know . Abandonment issues have kept me behind , alone and stagnant for so long and I'm DONE ruining things for myself. I needed this video so much 🦋
Shelly, today this was as if on cue. This morning my SP and I (already a bit strained the last 2 months due to the lockdowns) had a difficult conversation. It's a 3rd party situation and a recent very minor incident was enough to fuel his fears of being caught since he has limited privacy during the lockdowns. So he asked me to stop communicating until all is back to normal and he can have some privacy again. Right now he thinks it's impossible and wants to stop our connection, at least temporarily. We're also long distance and my plans to visit this summer have been halted due to the virus. He thinks he may have to keep working from home until September or later, so quite a long time and uncertain right now. I feel numb and in shock. We're soulmates (confirmed by readings too) and I'm the only person he's ever opened up to about intimate details and he himself told me today I know him better than anyone (and yet he said he doesn't love me romantically - I believe otherwise, so I know it WILL manifest - and apparently has no problem taking an indefinite break either). But this situation has me wrapped up in 3D and I'm at a loss about how to turn it around in my head so I can manifest a different outcome. If I'm being honest, I don't even feel like I have the energy to manifest positive outcomes because I'm feeling so down. I thought I'd be crying hopelessly, instead I've only cried a little bit and am actually fairly calm, but I feel so numb and drained. Hope your video helps!! Will be watching it now. Thank you, as always!
Thank you for sharing. Try self love for a few days, if possible Bringing the attention back into your self, your worth. From a re-centered place you can create again.
Since childhood I had developed this idea about myself that I am not good enough and therefore deserved to be left out. Only if I became good enough people will then accept and love me. I watched men after men leave and me chasing them while shaming myself internally for not being good enough. Till I recognised this pattern in me. Working on these thought patterns has helped me create a better life for myself.
Thank you for this content. I started inner child healing few months ago by meditation and discovering what were the situations that I have wounds now. I was many times left alone, without needed help, even forgotten to be picked up after swimming lessons. I never knew that I had that. Now I want to focus on that healing and taking care of my inner child. I will do the work everyday, and every moment I feel I need this. Thank you ♥
I have been knowing about LOA since 2007 when I first watched the Secret! Lately my manifestations come with a day or so or take forever the ones I have tight holds on. Long story short I just thought of this subject last night and look here it is. Thanks Shelly!
When we are happy idk why are we sooo stupid to think of sumthin sad and feel scared of it and we create it without knowing it...bt now we gotta be happy no matter how bad our situation is and create a beautiful future a beautiful reality that we have always wanted❤❤ everything is possible. ..just be positive and see things unfold
Dear Shelly, This video landed on my feed Feb 14th 2024. I know it is for a reason. I am Indian and arrange marriages happens instantly. I fell in love with a man when I was 18. Parents found out and as we were neighbors my family went and spoke with his family and got him married in front of my eyes in 2weeks. Now I am 36 same exact pattern repeated. I fell in love with someone and he was taken by his family and got him married immediately. This is how I landed in internal work and is been manifesting the same exact married sp of mine because at this point I don't feel like i want anyone else. I am so committed to the process and saw some results of him admitting he loves me. But haven't got the full manifestation yet.
#beentherefeltthat! I recognize the pattern now.. I literally felt my inner child was soothing with this ! ♥️ I have downloaded this video to work on my inner self the more I can. You are awesome Shelly!😍 Thank you 😊
Yes.This video resonates with me very well, Shelly. Just keep loving yourself, keep listening to Ho'onoponoponopono, and self love meditations here on TH-cam. Very very profound meditations. It is called self love. Feel, feel and feel everything Shelly. All is real and full of love. There is always a person whom you can connect deep.
Your spiritual messages really helped me to grow spiritually and learn a lot about my relationships in a deep sense💕 We have to face our wounds buried deep inside in order to manifest the real love... Your spiritual awakening video was especially eye opener :) Thank you so much!
I think this is one of your best videos!! It's really helpful… you seem to be so authentic in how you have experienced abandonment!! Your inspiring with your truth!!🙏💞💕
Me *literally does not chase people, does not wait on people, does not care if they leave me* people *keep leaving me* me 'I honestly do not care, they're not good enough for me. Next.' I am NOT afraid of being abandoned. I am NOT afraid of losing people. I have never been nor will I ever care if IF someone leaves. I'm better on my own.
I got so upset yesterday when my ex left early and felt abandoned. I let him know I felt he didn’t wanna be with me and am now realizing I should have soothed my inner child!
Crying. I know of my abandonment wound. When how old I was the situation. Haven't healed it I get so attached if I desire and like being with a man. My specific person has been backing off even though I have not been needy in how I speak or in action with him. It's my energy.
I cannot believe I did this to myself...My God you are literally talking about me in this video...I am so happy I found out about LOA and I found you...😀😀😀
I wanted to thank you Shelly for your videos, I am watching all of them (from Italy) . You give such powerful advices and you have so much wisdom and knowledge. Thank you so much. ❤
Wow, that little meditation made me cry so much! But my inner response was, who cares if I love myself if no one else does? If no one else thinks I am good enough? That reaction does tie in perfectly with my pattern of third parties I guess, not sure what to do with that response though.
Thank you Shelly! This is such a more holistic view of what is actually happening. Advice that helps beyond the SP. I signed up to the Free Yourself course a couple of days ago & I'm starting it tomorrow. If you ever get a chance, could you talk about manifesting while grieving a death? I feel guilt getting into the good feelings and vibrations needed to manifest. Also, not sure why this death happened & manifested.
Hmmm, you might want to explore why you feel guilty. I mean, I'm sure for a variety of reasons, however all those reasons are all beliefs that you're holding about why you should feel bad about being happy. Whenever I'm faced with guilt, I remember the perspective that my happiness, health, wealth, etc OFFERS more beauty to the world. In other words, I'm not honoring or serving anyone by not living in my fullness. So glad you're doing Free Yourself... it will probably help with what you're feeling right now. :)
@@ShellyBullard Thank u so much for taking the time to reply. I don't usually feel guilt, only now bcs of this death. I kinda feel guilty feeling happy when this person died. I think it's good advice though about honoring the person who died.
Years of trying to get love from the outside and watching endless videos…it finally clicked for me yesterday and I realized I can give this to myself and my sps will also give it to me. For we are One. I woke up to both of them sending me sweet text messages. I am floored. 1 SP I had struggled manifesting the way I wanted since 2019. WOW
What to do if you feel Abandonment from your specific person ?
* When you feel abandonment from your specific person, its cause of something activated the old wound for you.
* at some point in our early childhood we felt dropped, left, ignored distance from our parents.
* This experince when your young even though insignificant or you dont remember what happnd creates a wound inside of you.
* this wound is essentialy like small expectation that you were going to left or abandonded.
* this can effect when you get an adult and this expectation of getting abandonded starts to pop up.
* because we create our reality and other people show up with us and this experince arises when your in relationship this starts to manifest.
* so now you have manifested a pattern of abanded.
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WHAT TO DO IF THIS IS YOUR SITUATION IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP AND HOW TO FLIP AROUND.
* You have to start attending and caring for the part of yourself that expects to be left.
* Heal the wound on spot but also create a reality where it no longer affects you. This is inner child work.
* when you start chasing, golf after your sp, controlling, these are the signs that your abandonmemt wound has arised.
* the only thing you have to do is heal yourself in the moment.
* show up for yourself in the moment. Only you can show up not others.
* Go within and no longer feel abanded.
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What to do to turn this whole pattern around is :-
* Settle yourself.
* Close your eyes.
* Start settleing into your body.
* Take deep breathes down into your center.
* Start talking to the part of you that is scared , that wants to chase after love and the person.
* Say this to the inner child.
- Hey swettie i am right here with you.
- I know your really really scared right now.
- I know this feels awfull to you.
- I know it feels horrible to you.
- I want you to know that i am right here with you.
- i am never going to leave you.
- I am right here, i am always going to be with you.
- You are safe, your held, i love you so much.
* This is a short meditation to make contact with inner child.
* This helps in no longer fear of abandonment.
* If you do this on consistent basis your inner child knows that its safe.
* you no longer expect to be abanded cause your wound is healed.
* doing this deep inner work , helps you to be with yourself and also helps your reality change for better.
Thank you Shelly for a beautiful video❤
Your amazing as always ❤
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Thanks so much!
Nora Arakaki you’re welcome. ❤️
Thank you this really helped
Monica xoxo you’re welcome 😇
I will NEVER be abandoned by anyone again!
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I can totally relate to this. But only positive outcome is that i created it I can create it again. Self love is the key. It's a done deal and this is the best time to work on me and my career. He is already mine... I don't have to worry about that. My priority is me. Once when we are together there will be no looking back. Nothing can mess this up.
Love this!
I hope you get everything you desire
I'm just gonna sticky-note this here: *if you feel abandoned, you're creating a reality where you feel abandoned.* The other person *can't* show up for you. You have to do it first.
Yeah, I know. Just try it though. Place what you thought was the cart in front of the horse.
Yesss✨
I like this method alot. I've also used it to sooth myself from nightmares! Currently manifesting that everyone watching this video is with their SP! We deserve it! ❤️
@@indum8 it is done! Your SP is yours! 💕 Xx
@Amy Lever thank you so much 😊 I miss my SP 😔 and your comment was a manifestation of my thoughts 😘😘😘😘
@@luxuryqueen42 You're so welcome my dear! Sending you much love and wishes come true! Xxx
Glad you liked it💙
You are a lovely couple. Couple goals. It's a done deal. I wish everyone an amazing and fulfilling relationship with their desired sps...
I find it just so crazy that we’re the ones that actually manifested the abandonment issues, geez😏
It’s called “anxious attachment style”. We bring our childhood trauma into our interpersonal relationships.
Oh yeah i just saw a video on that the other day
Yes. Anxious & Avoidant types tend to partner up 🤦♀️
@@ShellyBullard As I am anxious, I think my SP is avoidant... but doing manifestation to get him back and asking for a better relationship.
@@ShellyBullard that is my boyfriend and all my past boyfriends
I am now going to talk to myself the first thing in the morning about how beautiful person I am.
I am going to talk to inner me on daily basis.
Yes!!
That’s the right video I need.. I was ghosted by my ex without any reason and I can’t stop think about him I want him to regret and come back for a new relationship
Since everyone is you pushed out, what you’re thinking and feeling is what your ex is going to feel so if you resent him, it’s going to repel him from coming back.
He will sweetheart. Don't worry.
That’s what happened to me:( but you have to remember that you created that
He will.
Exactly the same! But I cannot stop thinking of him...
Loved the way you gave the example of how your own inner child used to be scared of abandonment. Proves once again that we all CAN and ARE GOING to reach the same mastery in manifesting as you and that everything is possible even if it seems scary right now! 🌈
Yes!! So glad you liked it✨
I think this part of your teaching is my favorite so far. 💕 In less than a week of showing up for that inner child my confidence levels and sense of self love are greatly increased, and I was pretty confident already, in all areas except the heart. 😄 For now I’m devoting the rest of the month to focusing mostly on showing up for me more.
I was blessed to have a happy 35-year marriage with a man who taught me what unconditional love meant through his actions. There is no more powerful energy than being loved without condition. 💕 I’m already trained to expect to be adored, loved, respected, cherished, chosen. I simply lost sight of that when he died. Thank you, Shelly, for helping me find my way back. 🤗🤗🤗
That's true - even friends abandon me. Your meditation just made me cry. I really need to do some healing
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I just did this yesterday! I promised to always be there for myself and comforted my inner self or child self. I will always be there and I know that now.
Thanks Shelley for your life improving videos. 💕
Amazing!
Tears in my eyes all through your video although I consider myself to have resolved all these issues. Therei is so much compassion today from you Shelly. Thank ypu.
Beautiful💙✨
Me too, my eyes filled when Shelly spoke to inner child. In the tv drama Marcella that happened.
"You have to heal yourself IN THAT MOMENT" - wow! What a brilliant distinction of the massively nebulous task of "healing yourself" which feels overwhelming and big. You made it so clear in this video that healing is quick and in the moment. Beautiful offering. ♡
Myyyy Godness 😱😱😱😱 exactly what l was looking for today. Thank you. My manifesting skills are starting to get really uncanny.. Like, all my doubts in "as you believe so it shall be done onto you" are being dissolved. Huh... Goosebumps. Huge thanks to you 🥰😘
You’re welcome💙💙💙
This video is so timely for me. I recently had someone ghost me, which really hurt and broke me because I really thought he was the one, but meeting him was also a blessing because it made me wake up and realize that I had been sabotaging my relationships as this pattern of being ghosted kept happening. I had realized that days before they ghost me, I end up having fears of them leaving, which became a self-fulfilling prophecy. And of course, because of my fears and anxiety, I clung to them more which made them pull away from me. I am now working on healing my abandonment issues. Thank you so much for these videos!
5:00 Oh gosh 🙈
6:28 Love this. I'll keep this in mind. Thank you so much!!!
Thank you! I cried in this meditation like a Child thats been waiting such a long Time to cry and get wiped off tears.
Thank you Shelly, it's so true, sometimes when we feel abandoned or scared to do something, it's just our wounded inner child that needs to be comforted and loved by yourself ❤
You’re welcome ❤️
That makes total sense why none of my relationships have survived in the past, not even my 11 year marriage as the abandonment issue from childhood came up as my mum was dying. Great video thanks Shelley.
I’m glad it resonated with you ❤️
This tool is so important.!Thank you Shelly.Wish I had it in my past relationships but better now then never! You give security and ease for our next relationship whenever that will happen:) This information is worth everything!!🌹
Aww I’m glad you liked if✨❤️
Your videos are becoming more attractive day by day. Congratulations on your progress. Be blessed ❤️🙏
Thank you🥰
I love the energy! I always happen to catch myself on my free time when your videos go live and i love it! Thanks for this, will first work on my inner child and self love to become a magnet to my sp!
Glad you liked it💙
thank you so much this was so beautiful :) i was left out of no where by my specific person and i was so scared that if i got them back they would leave again but now i know it won’t happen, thank you i needed this 💖
Don't give up on life and the universe.... I know of a great man who helped me fix my broken heartbeat relationship and everything was restored to normal in days without delay...
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This is a really great method for self soothing. Thank you
You’re welcome ✨
"premiered 111 minutes ago" :) needed this! This expectation has always followed me.
Thank you so much. Sometimes is hard to find someone to talk about this. I'm so glad I found your video. It's horrible the feeling and living in fear
So glad you’re here💙
this makes so much sense, i got a little emotional during this video💜🥺
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I don't know you will believe me or not... But I was doing this mental diet thing I and realized my 5 relationships are failed . Breakups were sudden and they kind of betrayed me, left me. And that thought of abandonment is still in my heart. I don't want to manifest any of ex but the way we broke up still haunts me. It hurts me. So I can't open my heart for someone new. I keep getting those memories all the time. I just had a thought what if I ask shelly in comment section about "How to remove this feeling of abandonment". I was about to request you for video on this.
I will persist on my assumption that you are my mind reader. ♥️♥️♥️
You attracted it, just like me!
You are probably the best relating to our needs and explaining the solution. My problem is focusing on the positive and keeping my thoughts positive to manifest.
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Omg, this solution feels like simplest yet most effective technique! Thank you Shelly!
You're welcome!
Shelly I really liked this subject very important because I think that when you get through the abandonment issue then the manifesting the sp ex is much more productive. Big likee 💙❤️😍
So glad you liked it!
@@ShellyBullard 💛💋
Your videos are really transforming my behaviour Shelly thankyou so much 🌸
Love it!🦋
Shelly, I just purchased your 4 course bundle , but now I realize I should have bought this one to help me with abandonment issues, but I will need to wait. I feel like I need to work with what I purchased already. Thanks for your videos, they are very inspiring
You’re welcome, glad you like them🥰
Can you do an actual meditation for the inner child?
Sure.
Im excited, as always :)))!!!
I kept coming across this topic of the inner child and didn’t think it pertained to me....until now and so much is crystal clear! 😱 That short meditation was emotional for me and I felt the love. Thank you for such great information.
You’re welcome!
Your videos are always my favorite part of the day
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7:43 I'm crying.
I obviously have abandonment issues. In my childhood I had lost all my friends in my class and then even in my year. 🙈🙊
Now, I'm a magnet and people come to me like zombies through the walls but the wounds are still there. They are becoming smaller and smaller though.
Love this✨
This course is life changing please get it everyone
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What you talk here is so true. I’ve done inner child work meditation, and looking inward, I’ve cried but I also feel I’m healing. I’ve been loving myself more 🌺 thank you for your videos.
You’re welcome💙💙
That made me cry. So potent and needed. Thank you Shelly
So happy you liked it
This works so much and not only with love..... I've been having problems with my internet company and I tried to do the inner child work focused on them just cause I felt so frustrated and it made my whole vive be of frustration and anger and I hate feeling like that.... today they fixed all the problems and the people were so nice and helpful unlike other times... its amazing... I just love it!!! 😁😁😁 i know its a little crazy but I trully believe this made a diference on how they treated me... ❤
Amazing!
Thank you Shelly for the video! Your playlist of inner child is amazing, i recommend it to everyone! We must not pay attention to the 3d as we have created it from fear. The only thing we have to do is to be persistently there for us, everything and everyone else will shape to how we feel about us.🌈
Yes!! You’re welcome✨
I can’t tell you how much your videos have helped me. Not to attract anyone back ( it started at first with that when I was being needy and lonely) but your advice to focus on our own wholeness makes me feel so empowered that I don’t feel I need that person anymore. That’s a great feeling to have!!
Love this!💙
I swear when i think of a particular topic, a video shows up for it! Loving this 💜
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No words to express my feelings... Unexplainable SUPERRRROSSUUMM... ❤️❤️💚💛💖👍👍 (from My inner child👶)🤗🤗
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Thank you so much for this video!! This is exactly what I needed and I know this is what has caused the cycles of being left in my life.
You’re welcome, glad you liked it🥰
You're amazing 💜 Thank you for this video , I appreciate you more than you'll ever know . Abandonment issues have kept me behind , alone and stagnant for so long and I'm DONE ruining things for myself. I needed this video so much 🦋
So glad you liked it ❤️
Shelly, today this was as if on cue. This morning my SP and I (already a bit strained the last 2 months due to the lockdowns) had a difficult conversation. It's a 3rd party situation and a recent very minor incident was enough to fuel his fears of being caught since he has limited privacy during the lockdowns. So he asked me to stop communicating until all is back to normal and he can have some privacy again. Right now he thinks it's impossible and wants to stop our connection, at least temporarily. We're also long distance and my plans to visit this summer have been halted due to the virus. He thinks he may have to keep working from home until September or later, so quite a long time and uncertain right now. I feel numb and in shock. We're soulmates (confirmed by readings too) and I'm the only person he's ever opened up to about intimate details and he himself told me today I know him better than anyone (and yet he said he doesn't love me romantically - I believe otherwise, so I know it WILL manifest - and apparently has no problem taking an indefinite break either). But this situation has me wrapped up in 3D and I'm at a loss about how to turn it around in my head so I can manifest a different outcome. If I'm being honest, I don't even feel like I have the energy to manifest positive outcomes because I'm feeling so down. I thought I'd be crying hopelessly, instead I've only cried a little bit and am actually fairly calm, but I feel so numb and drained. Hope your video helps!! Will be watching it now. Thank you, as always!
Thank you for sharing. Try self love for a few days, if possible Bringing the attention back into your self, your worth. From a re-centered place you can create again.
@@ShellyBullard Thank you so much Shelly! I'll try that. And I loved the video!
Yes! Love never leaves me! I am love!
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Since childhood I had developed this idea about myself that I am not good enough and therefore deserved to be left out. Only if I became good enough people will then accept and love me. I watched men after men leave and me chasing them while shaming myself internally for not being good enough. Till I recognised this pattern in me. Working on these thought patterns has helped me create a better life for myself.
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Love it 💓💓💓 no more chasing!!!!
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This is a great video and a wonderful way to soothe yourself and affirm to yourself that you are okay and that all is well no matter what
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Thank you for this content. I started inner child healing few months ago by meditation and discovering what were the situations that I have wounds now. I was many times left alone, without needed help, even forgotten to be picked up after swimming lessons. I never knew that I had that. Now I want to focus on that healing and taking care of my inner child. I will do the work everyday, and every moment I feel I need this. Thank you ♥
I have been knowing about LOA since 2007 when I first watched the Secret! Lately my manifestations come with a day or so or take forever the ones I have tight holds on. Long story short I just thought of this subject last night and look here it is. Thanks Shelly!
I also like the book. It’s simple and to the point 👍
@@luxuryqueen42 Yes it is, always something very basic to fall back on when you feel off track!
Amazing! You’re welcome✨
When we are happy idk why are we sooo stupid to think of sumthin sad and feel scared of it and we create it without knowing it...bt now we gotta be happy no matter how bad our situation is and create a beautiful future a beautiful reality that we have always wanted❤❤ everything is possible. ..just be positive and see things unfold
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I haven been watched so many coaches, but you are the best!!!
thank you Bill!
@@ShellyBullard THANK YOU SHELLY. MAY GOD ALWAYS BLESS YOU & YOUR FAMILY!
Dear Shelly, This video landed on my feed Feb 14th 2024. I know it is for a reason. I am Indian and arrange marriages happens instantly. I fell in love with a man when I was 18. Parents found out and as we were neighbors my family went and spoke with his family and got him married in front of my eyes in 2weeks. Now I am 36 same exact pattern repeated. I fell in love with someone and he was taken by his family and got him married immediately. This is how I landed in internal work and is been manifesting the same exact married sp of mine because at this point I don't feel like i want anyone else. I am so committed to the process and saw some results of him admitting he loves me. But haven't got the full manifestation yet.
#beentherefeltthat!
I recognize the pattern now..
I literally felt my inner child was soothing with this ! ♥️ I have downloaded this video to work on my inner self the more I can.
You are awesome Shelly!😍
Thank you 😊
Amazing! You’re welcome✨
I have never been abandoned and never will 😊
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This will definitely build up my self confidence and self love😍 awesome video Shelly✨
Glad you liked it💙
Thank you for this! Hopeful this breaks the pattern.
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Yes.This video resonates with me very well, Shelly. Just keep loving yourself, keep listening to Ho'onoponoponopono, and self love meditations here on TH-cam. Very very profound meditations. It is called self love. Feel, feel and feel everything Shelly. All is real and full of love. There is always a person whom you can connect deep.
So glad it resonated with you✨
Thank you for this! I’ve come to realize that I do have some work to do on myself. Looking forward to winning those ebooks 😁
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Thanks for all ur efforts.. u make this world a better place
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Perfect timing 🤩
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Every morning i watch your videos
Love it!
Yes. I relate so much. Lifelong issue I'm working on.
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What a relief. Thank you so much, Shelly.
You’re welcome
Your spiritual messages really helped me to grow spiritually and learn a lot about my relationships in a deep sense💕 We have to face our wounds buried deep inside in order to manifest the real love...
Your spiritual awakening video was especially eye opener :) Thank you so much!
I think this is one of your best videos!! It's really helpful… you seem to be so authentic in how you have experienced abandonment!! Your inspiring with your truth!!🙏💞💕
Thank you🥰 I’m glad you enjoyed it
Me *literally does not chase people, does not wait on people, does not care if they leave me* people *keep leaving me* me 'I honestly do not care, they're not good enough for me. Next.'
I am NOT afraid of being abandoned. I am NOT afraid of losing people. I have never been nor will I ever care if IF someone leaves. I'm better on my own.
Thank you Shelly...from the bottom of my heart, thank you!! ❤❤
You’re so welcome!
I love the topic you choose everyday... Its really seems like telepathy working
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This is what I needed. Describes my situation.
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Dunno why but I felt like you look more beautiful each video 😘
Aww thank you😘
I got so upset yesterday when my ex left early and felt abandoned. I let him know I felt he didn’t wanna be with me and am now realizing I should have soothed my inner child!
That explains the whole chasing thing its mot only not feeling good enough but also feeling abundant
I just ordered your bundle course! Thank you! 🙂
So excited for you!
Crying. I know of my abandonment wound. When how old I was the situation. Haven't healed it I get so attached if I desire and like being with a man. My specific person has been backing off even though I have not been needy in how I speak or in action with him. It's my energy.
I like when you do the live-streams so we can all interact with the viewers and ask questions with each other 🙂
Glad you liked it🥰
I cannot believe I did this to myself...My God you are literally talking about me in this video...I am so happy I found out about LOA and I found you...😀😀😀
So glad you’re here✨🥰
This video makes me cry ❤️
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Thank you Shelly for the tips to eliminate this pattern, love ya 💚😽
You’re welcome💙
I am safe, loved and cherished. I got me! ❤❤❤❤
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I wanted to thank you Shelly for your videos, I am watching all of them (from Italy) . You give such powerful advices and you have so much wisdom and knowledge. Thank you so much. ❤
Wow thank you Shelly 🙏🏻🌸
You’re welcome❤️
Wow, that little meditation made me cry so much! But my inner response was, who cares if
I love myself if no one else does? If no one else thinks I am good enough?
That reaction does tie in perfectly with my pattern of third parties I guess, not sure what to do with that response though.
Shelly you’re ⭐️ .
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Thank you for the self-love meditation❤
You’re welcome! Glad you enjoyed it✨
Can be the lucky one.. I really need it..❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Omg I can relate to this its true glad there is a way to fix it and I could get my so back thank you ms bullard
So glad you liked it ☺️
Thank you Shelly! This is such a more holistic view of what is actually happening. Advice that helps beyond the SP. I signed up to the Free Yourself course a couple of days ago & I'm starting it tomorrow. If you ever get a chance, could you talk about manifesting while grieving a death? I feel guilt getting into the good feelings and vibrations needed to manifest. Also, not sure why this death happened & manifested.
Hmmm, you might want to explore why you feel guilty. I mean, I'm sure for a variety of reasons, however all those reasons are all beliefs that you're holding about why you should feel bad about being happy. Whenever I'm faced with guilt, I remember the perspective that my happiness, health, wealth, etc OFFERS more beauty to the world. In other words, I'm not honoring or serving anyone by not living in my fullness. So glad you're doing Free Yourself... it will probably help with what you're feeling right now. :)
@@ShellyBullard Thank u so much for taking the time to reply. I don't usually feel guilt, only now bcs of this death. I kinda feel guilty feeling happy when this person died. I think it's good advice though about honoring the person who died.
Just a few minutes more before it premiers ❤ loving the video topic for the day.
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Thank You from the bottom of my heart 💐👑♥️
You’re welcome🥰
I'm watching this video 10x! Thanks Shelly!❤️
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Because of you ive had the courage to start my own channel!! Sacredseasons2020!! Thank you for being you!!
Love this!
No longer feeling abandoned or being abandoned
This is so good! 🥰