"IT'S A DAILY THING" ✅ Psychotherapist reveals the next steps for Dele Alli's addiction recovery 🙏

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  • Sam Matterface and Alex Crook speak to sports psychotherapist and Spurs fan Steve Pope about Dele Alli's revelations to Gary Neville on The Overlap 🙏
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ความคิดเห็น • 84

  • @chrisprice4658
    @chrisprice4658 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Absolutely brave of Deli to have come out with his problems, I wish him all the best, and hope this is the turning point in his life

  • @SKVisuals1
    @SKVisuals1 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    He’s been very brave to come out and speak about his story, good for him.. I hope this can bring awareness for more children going through similar situations/upbringing.

    • @Otto-1943
      @Otto-1943 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stunning and brave 😅

  • @nickchivers9029
    @nickchivers9029 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I for one, have lambasted Dele Alli over the years for his wasted potential, and i know he wont see this but I am sorry that I did that and I hope everyone else who did the same is sorry. Football is not important enough to be that cruel to someone you dont know and we all need to learn to stop and think about what we say before we say it.

    • @dalegrant9282
      @dalegrant9282 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Mate, you weren't to know. Underneath every troubled character is a story. We're all blank slates from birth, usually there's a cause for the effect.

    • @nickchivers9029
      @nickchivers9029 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@dalegrant9282 well yeah, that's my point, we didn't know. I'm not saying we can't criticise people, or how they perform on a pitch. But we all, fans and media, tend to take it way too far.

    • @PaulRobertWilden
      @PaulRobertWilden ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm guilty of this too.

    • @User594gs57
      @User594gs57 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same i felt horrible and felt so sad for him. People think fame n money equals happiness. Unfortunately it’s just not the case

  • @paulk8275
    @paulk8275 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm a recovering alcoholic 13 half years soba your addiction can come at any time but thank god I have aa meetings and a 12 step program to help me live my life on life's terms

    • @VR46314
      @VR46314 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats man

  • @PaulRobertWilden
    @PaulRobertWilden ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He wasn't chasing a high, there is no relation between Dele's addiction and Paul Gascoigne's addiction.

  • @Raiim
    @Raiim ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Be kind to people, you have no idea what everyone is carrying in their head

  • @garethmackinnon6782
    @garethmackinnon6782 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Just found out ail dele was sexually assulted when he was 6 so have a think every 1 who has a dig at him poor guy has had to carry that with him

    • @charlottebowes7666
      @charlottebowes7666 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @hayder88Sounds like we need to get rid of nonces…
      Go for the cause, not the solution 😎

    • @peterrogers7800
      @peterrogers7800 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@charlottebowes7666unfortunately it’s being normalised more than ever by media and the left

  • @mattheendpod2659
    @mattheendpod2659 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The vampiric press forcing him into this shouldn't be ignored either.

  • @PaavoPlatform
    @PaavoPlatform ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Crook coming off as really condescending here. Exactly what Dele reffered to in the media. The media can be unnecessarily ruthless.

  • @JimDuggan-tq2lv
    @JimDuggan-tq2lv ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Such a sad situation really, to go from White & Jordan to Matterface & Crook is awful truly awful. I hope we all recover from this terrible time.

    • @Tom-ws2zx
      @Tom-ws2zx ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would actually prefer Jordan & Matterface opposed to White. At least Sam doesn’t sensationalise everything and spin every story into click bait..

    • @sagittariusa1848
      @sagittariusa1848 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@Tom-ws2zxNo......he just hints and plants seeds at EVERYTHING!
      He reads his Twitter feed 🤷

  • @nickjones3900
    @nickjones3900 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Rotund Crook trying to tell an experienced Psychotherapist how to do his job.

    • @Carnivalihq
      @Carnivalihq ปีที่แล้ว

      I see Crook. I switch off.

    • @NadrojRB
      @NadrojRB ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s my therapist too, he’s an absolute OG

  • @dwdimanuel290
    @dwdimanuel290 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Talksports should issue a public apology to Dele Ali

    • @siphonfeed1385
      @siphonfeed1385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and after never allow Rory Jennings back on air.

  • @BS-bl2ut
    @BS-bl2ut ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy is a bit of a grifter. He’s making a lot of comments only the situation and making suggestions having only seen a 40 minute interview

  • @tc-ou2zb
    @tc-ou2zb ปีที่แล้ว

    It was nice to hear from an expert on TalkSPORT for once😅 Joking aside, the therapist spoke really well and it is clear that this is just the first step in a long road of recovery for Dele. I wish him all the best.

  • @genuardi22
    @genuardi22 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    the talksport pundit trying to bash the expert in the field lmao

  • @jamesmckeon9139
    @jamesmckeon9139 ปีที่แล้ว

    Steve is the man should be a regular on the channel

  • @Mark-99999
    @Mark-99999 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Don’t agree you never beat addiction!! With that mindset you would never have peace

    • @biggiesmalls3096
      @biggiesmalls3096 ปีที่แล้ว

      First thing I thought of too and I fully agree. Hate that mindset but some people say it’s the right one to have. Idk

    • @Mark-99999
      @Mark-99999 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@biggiesmalls3096 i go by what I said because then you don’t have to carry it on your shoulders your whole life

    • @colindixon9916
      @colindixon9916 ปีที่แล้ว

      One day at a time bro, one day at a time 😊

    • @MRGTR-94
      @MRGTR-94 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's old school guys

    • @mooskamoo
      @mooskamoo ปีที่แล้ว

      That belief keeps people in the cycle, addiction can definitely be overcome completely and permanently. I’ve done it myself and seen it done countless times.

  • @ASSASSIN95-z7j
    @ASSASSIN95-z7j ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I totally respect Deli for he’s bravery.🙏

  • @IAmCrumpton
    @IAmCrumpton ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s great he came out coz now can get help! No one can help him unless he wants it. Good on him and I hope this inspires others to get help, myself included!

  • @grimeslick
    @grimeslick ปีที่แล้ว

    That doctor is spot on deli can get help but what’s stopping him from going back to the addiction

  • @siphonfeed1385
    @siphonfeed1385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    wheres the rory apology?

  • @Emiliosnanar
    @Emiliosnanar ปีที่แล้ว

    Giving football players highly addictive sleeping tablets is terrible. I was addicted to valium and they should never be given to young people so they can play better football . This is what is wrong with the beautiful game . They dont stand a chance poor boys 😪

  • @stevegist4199
    @stevegist4199 ปีที่แล้ว

    Has this guy even watched the interview? He keeps saying players knew and enabled him, but Deli says that nobody knew because he didn't tell anyone!

  • @joshuacullen3217
    @joshuacullen3217 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Presenter just changes subject when it goes against what he thinks.

  • @ArcAudios77
    @ArcAudios77 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good watch & listen, thanks Gentlemen.
    Regards

  • @richard.c.griffiths1468
    @richard.c.griffiths1468 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All the thing said about Deli over the last few years I can tell you I never lost faith in him... Brilliant player a d can be again if He wants..

  • @california7376
    @california7376 ปีที่แล้ว

    Everyday people suffer much worse. Yet on 100k a week and we gotta get emotional about it. Get real.

  • @arsebusquets2436
    @arsebusquets2436 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The fact Jordan and Co tearing strips off him in April should not be forgotten in all of this. Adding credence and lending weight to that "lazy" persona that was cultivated around him post- Mourhino's comments and how Dele had wasted his career in general. Now Talksport are tripping over themselves to be seen to be lauding "brave" Dele for speaking out. Bloody hypocrites and a key component of the toxic clickbait culture that exists in football.

    • @VR46314
      @VR46314 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s tbe media in general mate

    • @nickchivers9029
      @nickchivers9029 ปีที่แล้ว

      It wasn't just Simon Jordan who indulged in too much speculation so I don't know why you've singled him out

    • @arsebusquets2436
      @arsebusquets2436 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@nickchivers9029Because it's a Talksport channel and Jordan is its chief football contrarian, whose segments are regularly clipped up by the outlet, where he "blasts" something or somebody for clickbait. Much like was done with Dele Alli on numerous occasions.

  • @35t10b
    @35t10b ปีที่แล้ว

    Reminds me of Stan collymore and his problems. Stan had some great moments as did Dele

  • @gavinquinn2219
    @gavinquinn2219 ปีที่แล้ว

    All i hear is helping this 1 and this 1 he needs to look after himself and get to meetings Recovery is the best thing in life dont get me wrong its a day at a time but he needs to HELP HIMSELF and ALWAYS ASK FOR HELP!!!! WE DO RECOVER!!!!

  • @ElFinto
    @ElFinto ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s a bit unprofessional of this man using Dele’s name no? Should he not being giving his opinion as a general opinion?

  • @taterbapple9847
    @taterbapple9847 ปีที่แล้ว

    Although sad, there are poor traumatised addicts too. Multi millionaires should not expect more sympathy.

  • @TheSensimillionaire
    @TheSensimillionaire ปีที่แล้ว

    Dele is my new favourite player

  • @jamesmckeon9139
    @jamesmckeon9139 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m sure he was just doing sleeping pills with his gangland 50 person entourage

  • @VR46314
    @VR46314 ปีที่แล้ว

    YNWA Dele Alli

  • @heyheyhe0011
    @heyheyhe0011 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Milli Vanilli blamed it on the rain. Dele blamed on pills. At least Dele got to sleep with Pep’s daughter many times over.

  • @victoranakpe7178
    @victoranakpe7178 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He should find peace with his birth parents as part of his healing

    • @bydand5592
      @bydand5592 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why? They’re the reason he’s suffering the way he is

    • @cjprince1
      @cjprince1 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks, doctor.

    • @dealz5197
      @dealz5197 ปีที่แล้ว

      Everyone is therapist nowadays 😂

  • @Inca13
    @Inca13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What he addicted to?

  • @footballmessiah9230
    @footballmessiah9230 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m pretty sure he went through most of this before he was doing great, why not come out then? Why coming out now that everybody slaughtering him because he’s off his game by a country miles? I wish you all the best Delli but I’d have more sympathy for you if you had came out when you were at the top of your game.

    • @ethandalton6480
      @ethandalton6480 ปีที่แล้ว

      He probably didn't want to come out about it, but felt he had to before the toxic gutter press leaked the story.

  • @MRGTR-94
    @MRGTR-94 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy loves a ramble 😴

  • @andrewmartin2103
    @andrewmartin2103 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also got robbed in his home at knife point.

  • @theutopiaproject7434
    @theutopiaproject7434 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    they eluded too it, but the reality is professional sport and winning at all costs is a toxic environment that is extremely hard to be vulnerable in out of fear of being cast aside, building friendships and loyalty almost impossible, show weakness and you are removed quickly. he might find that he actually cant get happy playing football and being around that because people will now try and use this against him to get an edge... sounds dark but that is the reality.

  • @NorthernExplorer84
    @NorthernExplorer84 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I noticed the video where Rory Jennings slates Dele as being the problem was removed....good move TalkSport.
    All the best Dele and good luck mate

  • @GeoffV-k1h
    @GeoffV-k1h ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Psych is spot on about Dele being a legend at Spurs. Fantastic player at his very best. Had he not had these problems he would be a starter for England right now.

    • @wizzkidde5
      @wizzkidde5 ปีที่แล้ว

      A legend? what did he win at Spurs? Oh wait we’re talking about Spurs 🤣

  • @sjchan3199
    @sjchan3199 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congrats hes a strong brave man to talk about this. Its a growing problem and it can help him and others fight back too. Well done dele i hope you make a full recovery and find peace in your life.

  • @richard.c.griffiths1468
    @richard.c.griffiths1468 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Come back to Spurs Deli..

  • @Carnivalihq
    @Carnivalihq ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I so wanted to watch this then saw Alex Crook and couldn’t go through with it. Talksport, that’s how deeply some of us listeners feel.
    I had to have a friend summarise the conversation for me.

  • @SufferersKeepOnJammin
    @SufferersKeepOnJammin ปีที่แล้ว

    Tell Dele his (all) addiction is in the gym lifting weights and getting stronger every second he is clean. And if he slips, it's back stronger than ever. One day at a time, young bro. Identify and Keep away from your triggers.

  • @PopTatari106
    @PopTatari106 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    talksport have done nothing but had in in for this guy, ok so his career has not gone where he thought it would but the non stop calling him out etc was wrong . done for clicks . now you lot are trying to play the good guys

  • @CAAGANE10
    @CAAGANE10 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂😂 I got fired my job last year I’m good enough that’s why i shouldn’t blame ediction or what ever stop promoting mental health stop criticize ever day young players bring them instead interview then help them after that England 🏅

    • @andrewreynolds1091
      @andrewreynolds1091 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      These experts actually everyone different. Who is to say delli won't get over it. Love his positive attitude. Been through therapy my self . Not all go
      back to rehab.

  • @CecilJooste
    @CecilJooste ปีที่แล้ว

    Deli gonna have a Good book