Depends on what they're doing. At a certain point if there's just no trust whatsoever, I suppose that might be the right answer, but you can't just walk away from everybody as soon as a relationship with them (romantic or otherwise) becomes challenging because human beings and being close with other human beings is inherently a challenge on some level. That's just human nature. This is why grace and patience are important virtues.
@@Suisuizi1 it doesn't matter who plays the game. The goal of women testing men is to know how far they can go to hurt him before he leaves. That's very demonic. Such a behavior is one of the descriptions of narcissists and psychopaths.
@@evidencegrande7097 no, its to make sure if he can make a relationship, marry and have kids. Most mem dont want to do that. So naturally has to be done!
True, but she is explaining the core and initial reason for testing. There’s no resentment in the beginning of the relationship, you’re just getting to know each other. But in the beginning there will be a test.
She should be able to forgive and move on if you're truly repentant for your words or actions. If they can't forgive it's because they haven't been asked to or because they're not emotionally mature enough to understand that it is fundamental to a strong relationship. It goes both ways tho and men sometimes forget that. If she's not treating you right it's bc she's not being treated right first. Women must receive in order to give and she's going to give you whatever she's been receiving so if you want a happy life you need to care and actively provide happiness to her first.
Biology is not a fault, and men of the past have been tested to proven strong for the wife and kids. I dont know how women are supposed to judge if the man is noy one night stand or long term to have kids with
@@oriol2632 asking him hahahhahah. Are dumb do you think men dont lie and string along women regardless of what they want??? Do you think men answer upfront, direct answers. They DONT. Then they complain about how annoying thier gf/wive is she need to be quiet. And let the men lead??? Let the men lead to WHERE??? To abuse??? To be a place holder! To what! Men of the past gave commitment first rather than entering 10 years of relationship and them leaving her for the so now she has to find someone and or she wont! Abuse was mostly on the wife.
@@Suisuizi1To add on to what the others have said, rape is a matter of evolution as well. Yet we morally reject it because we can recognize the rights of the individual. Let's not use biology as moral justification
Nop women dont want 100% attention from men. They need validation and security. men dont produce relationships security especially if they are not serious . Since women no time to waste. She will be prying for security of the relationship obviously to withstand, to have kids etc. But for men they dont elongate relationships because not serious or not commitment! Or are just side chicks
@RanabirDan-op7un this has nothing to do with biology 😂😂😂 ITs sociology maybe. Explain why women are choosing to single, yup they crave that attention.
@@Suisuizi1the divorce rates would indicate that women have commitment issues. Men simply don't want to have a fake commitment and marry when she has the attitude that she can just divorce if she's not happy.
Gabor Maté: "Newborn babies dont have the abilty of self-regulating the nervous system....which means if babyies are not calmed down by parent, or nurtured, the child may die from crying too much."....So mother has to be with baby as often as possible or also with her hubby if botha re emotionally available to take care of the baby.... not just their own needs.
@@Suisuizi1easy , the way we do it , we look at “your” actions on none tested level, depending on how you handle every day things. We just sit down and observe, no questions asked, no scenarios created. We just want to see you and how you handle things in an authentic way, your first response. For example : You see her how she reacts when she is being pushed by a co-worker to lose her calm. (Which BTW is extremely obnoxious thing and it’s hard for people to keep their calm) if she is able to let go of the inflicted emotions and focus on what is important and stay unbothered by it, she is a keeper and must be protected. This is a skill that I personally respect and have put on a pedestal, so if a lady can do it , she has proven herself enough. We want actions not words. And what action is more pure than the one that is not influenced by anyone or anything. Just a choice that’s been well thought out and put a lot of time and effort to master a skill that is essential for developing a strong character.
@@rogerward3390im 30, never got in any relationship. I studied women for years and years, reading, watching them, seeing 20 of my close friends getting married and dealing with that. Then i understood. Nothing for me in that. Life is just bigger without it
@@MohamedElouarda-qk6ws there's lots of pluses being single, but there's lots of pluses sharing life with a sweet girl too. It's fairly certain in a failed relationship, one or both were douchbags. Don't be a douchebag. Treat as you'd want to be treated. Life will return the favor. I got two great kids that I wouldn't have if I didn't try a little risk, back in the day. Grow some nads. Be happy.
I am not your teacher. You are not a student in my classroom. I don’t need to be tested. Nor will I test you. We are not in high school. We are in love and act accordingly. It’s just us. Only us. We don’t play with our hearts. We only have one. Wendy Carrey ❤🔥💯
That doesn’t help. Just shows the best high value Women you are really insecure and afraid. As a man you are her leader, protector, guide and teacher. That’s the reason of the love and respect. The test with many women is subconscious. It just happens. As a man we welcome the test while not even being concerned with it. Bc as a real man you just who you are, you respond accordingly as a man. Don’t argue with her, stay calm, give leadership and direction. If she still acting up you walk away.
It's a narcissistic thing , it's not about pushing it's about getting what they want and then when they get it their not happy, it's another excuse for women's bad behaviors and their entitlement issues
Woman have a thing called hypergamy. Part of evolution where they look for the best possible partner. To be the best possible partner you have to be authentically yourself, provide security and also show masculine indifference by not caving into her demands. You also have to display that you are on a higher sexual market value than her so that she is scared to lose you.
@@lioness6853 I don't know nothing but To get to have a good relationship with a woman, as a man you have to shape her the way you know she must be, cause if you don't do it someone else will like, TV, friends family etc and for you would be better if she doesn't have any male friends cause you know every man's intention As a man you must provide, take care and entertain your female They keep your spirit safe by loving you, respecting you, helping you with her love, you know that when we are being loved by a woman we love we are unstoppable And what she says in the video it's right cause our role is to be strong and stronger and they will never like a weak man although they love him, also we as man have to be competitive cause life is war and it's competitive If a woman loves you and you are weak she won't get to know why she doesn't like you but it's because you are weak and you are not a man an they feel it Women are more emotional than logical It's easier for a man to kill himself than it is for a woman because they have that in their nature because we have to be strong If you are arguing with a woman you're most likely to loose because most of them don't want to accept they are wrong. If you want to have a good relationship with a woman you have to find a woman who is, young because they are innocents and you as a man have to have experience in life so you can teach her things and she can adore you, she also does have to be a virgin or does have to have very few experience with man because she will compare you when she's angry Also woman sometimes get to get upset for no reason and you have to be a man and understand her feeling and keep her safe If you don't entertain her she will do stupid things to get to have some drama in their life, that's why you have to entertain her And a lot of more knowledge. Not every single female is like this but more than 99% is like this Don't believe me if you want I don't know if you are an "expert" or not but keep it mind and you may believe me once you have a relationship with a female Also they have to be feminine not feminist or trying to pretend they hate men nor they are equals
Hope this helps someone who doesn't know how to treat a female, also listen to this woman, she does know about this but don't complicate things Just be strong, capable to do anything, be kind of competitive, have a vision don't be lazy and they will love you, just watch them Do the opposite and they won't like you I do have experience although I'm young. You just have to pay attention to every single female you know or interact and you will notice how they act when you SHOW you are strong Also be mysterious if you want them to fall in love easily They will know if you're lying because of their instincts so don't lie to them, don't pretend to be someone you are not, it won't work, just become that guy
Guys...it's simple the woman joins your world because she sees you as her protector and provider DONT change for them stay firm draw the line quickly never change or she'll leave you
@@Oneirics9 Women want their men to change, I've seen them want their man to become more emotional and when it finally happens the woman all a sudden liked the strong firm better ...and she never recovers seeing her man softer it's kyryonite.
@@nolan9221 point ... I also think some differences we all should accept in others ...... But we should be able to help each other where necessary... Like my man can encourage me to say prayers and so I can encourage him ... or may be I can help him in finances and he can play role in my life in some other way .... Whatever that can keep us in lives of one another ..... but certainly eliminating all difference should not be the goal in the first place.
@@caralho5237 i had a boyfriend who turned emotional later in relationship, worst experiance. i am okay with emotional mens cuz i have been there for many of my male friends who have broken down due to family pressure but my ex was just too much. He threatened my male best friend cuz he was spending too much time with me according to him. too much time is me having same class with him and having SAME TUTIONS. he would have problem with my skirt which were knee length and make me wear his coat in summer or else he would sulk. all my school breaks were with him but he had problem with me spending time on my female friend. STALKED ME after break up for a while. You don't know how bloody scary that feeling is. later after breaking up for a year he texted me with his new gf problems. i was there for him, listening and giving advice for days but all he had to say was i was too bland and my answers were boring. not even a small thank you. Sometimes its not backstabbing but getting no acknowlegement for being there in their worse.
My girlfriend asked me if I would still like her with short hair. I said I'd love her but wouldn't find it attractive. She then proceeded to ask me about incremental lengths and I just stopped and asked her why she was looking for the line? I told her to stop looking for the line and just try to make me happy because that's what I do. She actually agreed and said she wouldn't do it again.
Life is already hard enough to compete against others. It's not worth it to still compete when it comes to a family or woman. At the end of the day we just want to go home and rest, feel loved and have peace.
My dear men remember one thing. If you dont like what she does dont stay. Do 1 favour. If you see a woman walk away from you never cry for her or any woman.. Make yourself comfortable with Staying happy. Alone and lonely are two different words. Its wo.en who get lonely men stay Alone and stayed alone for 1000s of years even as a cavemen.
Mature women do not test their man. At some point it is necessary to connect and talk about important issues that WILL happen in the relationship. Just don't ignore them when they arise. Deal with them so you can move on. Men call women naggers, but don't realize if they would just talk and let her know you value her concerns will do wonders for you both. Some men think after they get married, his work is done, but its just the beginning. Thats what you signed up for.
I love how she’s making a blanket statement. I’m not even a woman and I know that shits not true. Read between the lines people. if you can’t do that, good luck in life. ❤️
I've learned to walk away from women like this so many times and they always come back begging begging begging. I just came back from the Philippines doing one just like that and she is constantly texting and trying to get back into my good graces. Never play a woman's head games. that's how you win
Sometimes it’s not about consciously testing it’s like an instinct. You’re compelled to do a stress test just to be sure the man they’re with can handle the stress of caring for a family without her.
Then test back at woman. It's both people are who are in a relationship. I am not out to be a father for a grown ass woman,who is already an adult by himself. Then it's better adopting that woman as a little girl and marrying another responsible adult woman by itself
Guys, do yourself a favor and walk away if they constantly do this type of shit. I understand before entering into a relationship, but after that, and especially after marriage and children, don't be afraid to think about you. Tell her exactly how it is (set your boundary) and never be afraid to make a step forward if it's the right thing to do. Go for your dreams. Work as hard as you can and a good woman will come at some point. Have faith.
Its especially difficult with a woman who has a ton of scars and traumas from broken trust from men of various types of relationships. From friends, brothers, father's.. even husbands unfortunately
Thats bs women should not test their man all the time if they can’t figured them out after being with them for a couple months they need to move on. Relationships are the hardest job people can have. Why make it harder? Woman needs to have their medication either checked or changed.
It's their idea,the men should handle all the tantrums, immaturity,wrongs,etc and all the bad things, that's way beyond toxic and enduring all of this as test,but at the same time if a man does this similar test even at 10% of what they do, it's immaturity
I don't agree to her but Man some thing she says are actually correct like she said not giving into her trying to push is into her arguments. Idk I've never been in a relationship but that sounds correct to an extent....
This is very true. I would subconsciously do this to my husband before we were married. I would ask him to do something (romantically) that I initially didn’t know he didn’t want to do (not anything weird) but when he would say no, I would keep pushing and pushing to see if he would give in. I could’ve cared less about it being done but I would keep asking him and pushing to see if he would crack and give in against his boundaries. He stood really firm on his boundaries and kept saying he would never do it even after days which I liked (I didn’t understand why I liked it at the time or why I did this but this makes perfect sense). If he would’ve gave in, it would’ve gave me a sense that his boundaries were easily lowered with some persuasion and that he may be a liability to me and our future kids and also not a good leader. I think a lot of men test women like this as well. Men will take women through all sorts of tests to determine if she’ll stay down with him. I think it’s more of a human thing than a gender thing. I feel like the more trauma or distrust for people that someone has the more they are likely to take this “testing” to a more extensive, unhealthy level that can drive a partner away
Pro tip guys: always stand firm on your boundaries with women and submissive women like assertive men. When my husband stands firm on his word (when it’s important), even if it’s something that I wanted, it’s always sexy to me because it shows me that he’s not easily swayed by a little persuasion or theatrics (which makes a good leader). It sounds cliche but this is why a woman likes when a man “puts her in check”. Having your man remind you assertively that he doesn’t play that is just naturally sexy to us women because of our nature and a lot of men don’t know this game I’m giving you guys which is why they struggle with women and also why women typically don’t go for the “nice guys” like you would think. It is also just as important to make a woman feel like you give in with her often because it makes her feel special and like you have a soft spot for her but you have to have a good balance with the assertiveness and reminding her of your boundaries. (women love generous men by nature {it doesn’t have to be just with money. Generosity for a woman can also include just doing things for her that you’d rather not do or going places with her that she likes even when it does nothing for you}) but not with things that cross your boundaries or go against your morals or heavily against your character because a lot of times she’s testing you (consciously or subconsciously) and she really just wants to see how far the pressure has to go up for you to crack and go against your boundaries. Women like men who stand 10 toes pressed to the floor when it comes to boundaries and important stuff. you’d better stay consistent with your boundaries because once a woman feels like she can walk over your boundaries or that you have swaying boundaries and character, she won’t trust you to lead her and the relationship will become a power struggle or she just won’t respect your direction
@ELDYK308 but he isn’t though. What type of miserable person would even wish that on someone they don’t know? Blessed and happily married for 11 years. I hope you’re married or engaged and not just projecting your misery and loneliness onto others, Mr. “lone wolf”. I’m gonna assume that you’re neither based on the other comment you left on this video and the stuff you have on your profile . I’m aware that misery loves company. Good day
Little autistic here. What sort of tests did you do? Can you give a few concrete examples? Also thank you for taking the time to write your experiences here!
I can confirm that as a man, this is not necessarily true. In my experience men just want simplicity and no drama in a relationship. We dream of a woman that loves us, is supportive and rocks her femininity. Once we start to get a whiff of the bad stuff that's when that shit gets shut down by walking away. Becomes surprisingly easy to walk away after doing it a once or twice.
I think she's right but maybe not the whole way. They will test you up to a point and then relax a little bit, but it never stops. A different times during the relationships they will push the boundaries here and there just to keep you on your toes. It is frustrating and they will do it when you are at your weakest.
@@highjack5517 but when hou say its biology to have multiple sexual partners for men (without taking care of the consequences) thats biology aswell and women should accept??? Why? Why do women have to accept biological, social, and hunter and gatherer, genghez kan history of MEN then??? Why cant men except women phycology and biology?? Its a weak statement, everyone at some point in older age gets like this, Thats why women have to turn to friend, own family, pets, hobbies etc to have emotional connection
You can't test your Men for his love for you, first thing they did is to love, sacrifices they make to make you happy is what is worth of his love for you...
Sounds like a free ticket to abuse through shit-tests at all times. Having a person around whos is more consistent in complaining than being satisfied, THAT can irritate, undermine, hurt, depress, supress and kill a man in the long run. Just show gratitude and respect and most men will do far more than expected.
The problem is, we grow up with all the wrong kinds of storms in modern society. So in adulthood, we're all over the place, not grounded, both men and women.
The blind cannot lead others to true sight... The deluded cannot confer others with Knowledge... The fearful cannot inspire others with bravery... The choke-chained serfs to their own desire have no value to offer those who Know how to engage their earned free-will for a higher vision... Only the strong, and healthy, free from psychopathology, can measure - with adequate accuracy - the strong... Discern well the content of a person's character, before agreeing with anothers judgement on what constitutes strength: those who are strong can look back to their many memories of trials overcome, of fear dissolved through courage... It will be the difference between awareness for growth, and being shamed to be manipulated...
That has more to do with the dysfunctional psyche and certain individuals getting off on conflict. I was married to a woman like that. Her being a therapist wasn’t enough drama. She had to have conflict at home as well. And since she’s been gone, I can actually focus more on my purpose. Stay away from these hyenas as they will have you look at the oppositesix in discussed four years.
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If she constantly tests you do yourself a favor and walk away
They all do from time to time.
Depends on what they're doing. At a certain point if there's just no trust whatsoever, I suppose that might be the right answer, but you can't just walk away from everybody as soon as a relationship with them (romantic or otherwise) becomes challenging because human beings and being close with other human beings is inherently a challenge on some level. That's just human nature. This is why grace and patience are important virtues.
So true bro!! ❤
Or grow 🪴 tf up and stop making her feel.un safe
Shit test= on to the next one
I’ve broken up with so many women because of the “so call” test. I’m not going back and forth!!!
Exactly we are grown ass people. Have no time for games. Comunication.
😂😂😂 the test don't have to do anything with raising kids
She tests you so much that even if she cant raise the child alone she will make it happen herself
That part.
Continue to! This women is spouting crap!! There are good women out there! She is not one..
Ok...women listen up...push constantly....one day you got no one to push anymore.
😅😅😅😅
...So true 😻💔🍦
It's a psychopathic thing. It's called mind games.
Men play it as often
@@Suisuizi1 it doesn't matter who plays the game. The goal of women testing men is to know how far they can go to hurt him before he leaves. That's very demonic. Such a behavior is one of the descriptions of narcissists and psychopaths.
@@evidencegrande7097 no, its to make sure if he can make a relationship, marry and have kids.
Most mem dont want to do that. So naturally has to be done!
Wrong, women are testing men's boundaries.
WTF?.
Because instead of being straightforward and honest they would rather be decietful.
That's why these tests are absolute horseshit and its all because they don't know what the fuck they want.
Lie, lie, lie…. They push because of resentment. For every hundred things you do right she’ll never forget the one thing you did wrong.
Spot on!!!!!!!!!!!!
True, but she is explaining the core and initial reason for testing.
There’s no resentment in the beginning of the relationship, you’re just getting to know each other. But in the beginning there will be a test.
On point
Because they cheat and pray we do the same 😂
She should be able to forgive and move on if you're truly repentant for your words or actions. If they can't forgive it's because they haven't been asked to or because they're not emotionally mature enough to understand that it is fundamental to a strong relationship. It goes both ways tho and men sometimes forget that. If she's not treating you right it's bc she's not being treated right first. Women must receive in order to give and she's going to give you whatever she's been receiving so if you want a happy life you need to care and actively provide happiness to her first.
And that’s why men have gracefully bowed out of the dating pool because of these games…
How to lose a man 101
Oh, you're so smart, won't you go on TH-cam and educate people on this topic yourself?
God that really flicked a switch didn't it 🤣🤣🤣@@SadulloKhadjibayev
Tell me you want to lose me without saying you want to lose me .
I'm getting tired of their bullshyt
Drop her. That’s how you pass the test, then they’ll keep chasing you and now you’ll have her and more options. Repeat.
That real, it sucks but I've had this girl chasing me for a year and a half because of that
😂facts
The ultimate cheat code
Again it is men fault, never their fault.
Biology is not a fault, and men of the past have been tested to proven strong for the wife and kids.
I dont know how women are supposed to judge if the man is noy one night stand or long term to have kids with
@@Suisuizi1 asking him, this is how you figure it out. "Men of the past" did not accept tests and hit women. Wake up.
@@oriol2632 asking him hahahhahah. Are dumb do you think men dont lie and string along women regardless of what they want??? Do you think men answer upfront, direct answers. They DONT. Then they complain about how annoying thier gf/wive is she need to be quiet. And let the men lead??? Let the men lead to WHERE??? To abuse??? To be a place holder! To what!
Men of the past gave commitment first rather than entering 10 years of relationship and them leaving her for the so now she has to find someone and or she wont! Abuse was mostly on the wife.
@@oriol2632men lead - woman follow! End of
@@Suisuizi1To add on to what the others have said, rape is a matter of evolution as well. Yet we morally reject it because we can recognize the rights of the individual. Let's not use biology as moral justification
No they just want their attention. Not complicated.
Nop women dont want 100% attention from men. They need validation and security. men dont produce relationships security especially if they are not serious .
Since women no time to waste. She will be prying for security of the relationship obviously to withstand, to have kids etc.
But for men they dont elongate relationships because not serious or not commitment! Or are just side chicks
@RanabirDan-op7un this has nothing to do with biology 😂😂😂
ITs sociology maybe.
Explain why women are choosing to single, yup they crave that attention.
@@Suisuizi1the divorce rates would indicate that women have commitment issues. Men simply don't want to have a fake commitment and marry when she has the attitude that she can just divorce if she's not happy.
I have to 100% disagree with her on this one
Gabor Maté: "Newborn babies dont have the abilty of self-regulating the nervous system....which means if babyies are not calmed down by parent, or nurtured, the child may die from crying too much."....So mother has to be with baby as often as possible or also with her hubby if botha re emotionally available to take care of the baby.... not just their own needs.
@@alaalfa8839 What???
@@alaalfa8839 That doesn't even make any fucking sense.
@@1legend517I think he’s saying women and babies exist within the same psychological and emotional framework.
@@elliswilliams1050 What exactly do you mean psychological and emotional framework? How the hell does that work?
I wish social media was not their ,I want to live my live peaceful withouth seeing this video
Gotta be honest, no time for games anymore. I see them acting up, I just skedaddle. Self-respect is a must boiiis!!!
How would they judge if your not a one night stand or longterm?
@@Suisuizi1easy , the way we do it , we look at “your” actions on none tested level, depending on how you handle every day things. We just sit down and observe, no questions asked, no scenarios created. We just want to see you and how you handle things in an authentic way, your first response.
For example : You see her how she reacts when she is being pushed by a co-worker to lose her calm. (Which BTW is extremely obnoxious thing and it’s hard for people to keep their calm) if she is able to let go of the inflicted emotions and focus on what is important and stay unbothered by it, she is a keeper and must be protected. This is a skill that I personally respect and have put on a pedestal, so if a lady can do it , she has proven herself enough.
We want actions not words. And what action is more pure than the one that is not influenced by anyone or anything. Just a choice that’s been well thought out and put a lot of time and effort to master a skill that is essential for developing a strong character.
@@VicksV20 agree. Well said
Apparently the "push, push, push" thing is an evolutionary flaw. Cave woman that pushes too far has no caveman to defend the cave. End of cavewoman.
I'm a 43 year old man...the last time I was tested by a woman was in June 1999...my biology teacher gave me my final exam!!! Grow a pair guys
@@rogerward3390im 30, never got in any relationship. I studied women for years and years, reading, watching them, seeing 20 of my close friends getting married and dealing with that. Then i understood. Nothing for me in that. Life is just bigger without it
@@MohamedElouarda-qk6ws are those friends divorced?
@@MohamedElouarda-qk6ws there's lots of pluses being single, but there's lots of pluses sharing life with a sweet girl too. It's fairly certain in a failed relationship, one or both were douchbags. Don't be a douchebag. Treat as you'd want to be treated. Life will return the favor. I got two great kids that I wouldn't have if I didn't try a little risk, back in the day. Grow some nads. Be happy.
Try to understand her insted of being cheap
I am not your teacher. You are not a student in my classroom. I don’t need to be tested. Nor will I test you. We are not in high school. We are in love and act accordingly. It’s just us. Only us. We don’t play with our hearts. We only have one. Wendy Carrey ❤🔥💯
That doesn’t help. Just shows the best high value Women you are really insecure and afraid.
As a man you are her leader, protector, guide and teacher. That’s the reason of the love and respect. The test with many women is subconscious. It just happens.
As a man we welcome the test while not even being concerned with it.
Bc as a real man you just who you are, you respond accordingly as a man.
Don’t argue with her, stay calm, give leadership and direction. If she still acting up you walk away.
Remember woman what goes around comes back around to haunt....so be respectful, nice, genuine nd loyal....this is the ultimate truth💫🌈❤
It's a narcissistic thing , it's not about pushing it's about getting what they want and then when they get it their not happy, it's another excuse for women's bad behaviors and their entitlement issues
Woman have a thing called hypergamy. Part of evolution where they look for the best possible partner. To be the best possible partner you have to be authentically yourself, provide security and also show masculine indifference by not caving into her demands. You also have to display that you are on a higher sexual market value than her so that she is scared to lose you.
She's right and if you don't accept it you won't have a woman who loves you with all her heart cause you don't want to be a true strong man
And what makes you know better than a psychologist, who is trained over years to understand human nature and psyche?
@@lioness6853 I don't know nothing but
To get to have a good relationship with a woman, as a man you have to shape her the way you know she must be, cause if you don't do it someone else will like, TV, friends family etc and for you would be better if she doesn't have any male friends cause you know every man's intention
As a man you must provide, take care and entertain your female
They keep your spirit safe by loving you, respecting you, helping you with her love, you know that when we are being loved by a woman we love we are unstoppable
And what she says in the video it's right cause our role is to be strong and stronger and they will never like a weak man although they love him, also we as man have to be competitive cause life is war and it's competitive
If a woman loves you and you are weak she won't get to know why she doesn't like you but it's because you are weak and you are not a man an they feel it
Women are more emotional than logical
It's easier for a man to kill himself than it is for a woman because they have that in their nature because we have to be strong
If you are arguing with a woman you're most likely to loose because most of them don't want to accept they are wrong.
If you want to have a good relationship with a woman you have to find a woman who is, young because they are innocents and you as a man have to have experience in life so you can teach her things and she can adore you, she also does have to be a virgin or does have to have very few experience with man because she will compare you when she's angry
Also woman sometimes get to get upset for no reason and you have to be a man and understand her feeling and keep her safe
If you don't entertain her she will do stupid things to get to have some drama in their life, that's why you have to entertain her
And a lot of more knowledge.
Not every single female is like this but more than 99% is like this
Don't believe me if you want I don't know if you are an "expert" or not but keep it mind and you may believe me once you have a relationship with a female
Also they have to be feminine not feminist or trying to pretend they hate men nor they are equals
Hope this helps someone who doesn't know how to treat a female, also listen to this woman, she does know about this but don't complicate things
Just be strong, capable to do anything, be kind of competitive, have a vision don't be lazy and they will love you, just watch them
Do the opposite and they won't like you
I do have experience although I'm young.
You just have to pay attention to every single female you know or interact and you will notice how they act when you SHOW you are strong
Also be mysterious if you want them to fall in love easily
They will know if you're lying because of their instincts so don't lie to them, don't pretend to be someone you are not, it won't work, just become that guy
Guys...it's simple the woman joins your world because she sees you as her protector and provider DONT change for them stay firm draw the line quickly never change or she'll leave you
Well what if we help the man to grow and become better version of himself ?
@@Oneirics9 Women want their men to change, I've seen them want their man to become more emotional and when it finally happens the woman all a sudden liked the strong firm better ...and she never recovers seeing her man softer it's kyryonite.
@@nolan9221 point ... I also think some differences we all should accept in others ...... But we should be able to help each other where necessary... Like my man can encourage me to say prayers and so I can encourage him ... or may be I can help him in finances and he can play role in my life in some other way .... Whatever that can keep us in lives of one another ..... but certainly eliminating all difference should not be the goal in the first place.
Thats still toxic as hell. She's gonna beg you to change but actually hate you if you do? I call that backstabbing.
@@caralho5237 i had a boyfriend who turned emotional later in relationship, worst experiance. i am okay with emotional mens cuz i have been there for many of my male friends who have broken down due to family pressure but my ex was just too much. He threatened my male best friend cuz he was spending too much time with me according to him. too much time is me having same class with him and having SAME TUTIONS. he would have problem with my skirt which were knee length and make me wear his coat in summer or else he would sulk. all my school breaks were with him but he had problem with me spending time on my female friend. STALKED ME after break up for a while. You don't know how bloody scary that feeling is.
later after breaking up for a year he texted me with his new gf problems. i was there for him, listening and giving advice for days but all he had to say was i was too bland and my answers were boring. not even a small thank you. Sometimes its not backstabbing but getting no acknowlegement for being there in their worse.
The correct answer to this is theyre low quality women. The good ones respect their partners enough to not have to push them.
There is a test. Say NO. Be, be steadfast. Silent. Stoic.
My girlfriend asked me if I would still like her with short hair. I said I'd love her but wouldn't find it attractive. She then proceeded to ask me about incremental lengths and I just stopped and asked her why she was looking for the line? I told her to stop looking for the line and just try to make me happy because that's what I do. She actually agreed and said she wouldn't do it again.
This is the correct response!
Wish I knew this a lot fucking sooner Jesus fuck...
This is the most toxic manipulative response I have ever heard of.
That's how you grow old alone.
No only our mom do
The only way to win is to not play.
Life is already hard enough to compete against others. It's not worth it to still compete when it comes to a family or woman.
At the end of the day we just want to go home and rest, feel loved and have peace.
My dear men remember one thing.
If you dont like what she does dont stay.
Do 1 favour.
If you see a woman walk away from you never cry for her or any woman..
Make yourself comfortable with
Staying happy. Alone and lonely are two different words. Its wo.en who get lonely men stay Alone and stayed alone for 1000s of years even as a cavemen.
I’m starting to think Sadia doesn’t speak for women as a whole, I think she speaks from herself and not actual science.
Definition of a toxic relationship, NOT evolution.
classic female ideology
Mature women do not test their man. At some point it is necessary to connect and talk about important issues that WILL happen in the relationship. Just don't ignore them when they arise. Deal with them so you can move on. Men call women naggers, but don't realize if they would just talk and let her know you value her concerns will do wonders for you both. Some men think after they get married, his work is done, but its just the beginning. Thats what you signed up for.
Mature men will try to understand women especially what she said here .... Immature men will troll her
I love how she’s making a blanket statement. I’m not even a woman and I know that shits not true. Read between the lines people. if you can’t do that, good luck in life. ❤️
I've learned to walk away from women like this so many times and they always come back begging begging begging. I just came back from the Philippines doing one just like that and she is constantly texting and trying to get back into my good graces. Never play a woman's head games. that's how you win
Sometimes it’s not about consciously testing it’s like an instinct. You’re compelled to do a stress test just to be sure the man they’re with can handle the stress of caring for a family without her.
In the Pick up community this is called a sh*t test women will test your mental strength and masculinity by standing up to you verbally.
My brothers, adopt a dog, and enjoy your peace.
No. We are not designed like that. It’s a learned behavior not instinct
The more you care, the worse it gets, trust me. Relationships rely on mutual respect ✊ and trust.
The world already pushes us enough! Just leave such women to themselves and each other.
Feel free to test me all you want, because I’m walking away from your games.
There is no such thin as evolution. She just contradicted herself by saying " we are designed"
Was just gunna say that, hehe. Like, which is it?
Stop picking on her language, the point still came across
If a women test u leave her period
Then test back at woman.
It's both people are who are in a relationship.
I am not out to be a father for a grown ass woman,who is already an adult by himself.
Then it's better adopting that woman as a little girl and marrying another responsible adult woman by itself
Only answer.. look for a women that is going to be a good mother that is legit it. If she is that she is everything else.
Law of keeping the attraction lasting is never ever give your all in the relationship.. It's all about the conquest and chase..
This women has an answer for everything. Never heard her go like "Ohh I don't know!!".
Is that a good thing?
Guys, do yourself a favor and walk away if they constantly do this type of shit. I understand before entering into a relationship, but after that, and especially after marriage and children, don't be afraid to think about you. Tell her exactly how it is (set your boundary) and never be afraid to make a step forward if it's the right thing to do. Go for your dreams. Work as hard as you can and a good woman will come at some point. Have faith.
Hey boys its my experience and its true......😢 i saw many women and this generation are like this😢
Big shout out to the women who don’t think their entire life just revolves around regurgitating a spoilt version of themselves out of their uterus
Its especially difficult with a woman who has a ton of scars and traumas from broken trust from men of various types of relationships. From friends, brothers, father's.. even husbands unfortunately
What BS, coming from an adult woman. This is proof that not everyone needs a platform to voice their narcissistic behaviours to young men and women.
Naa her an the rest who think like that need god I hope you heal 🙏✌🏼❤
Test her with your life,she pass always remember her.
No only our mom do
We don't need the loud music. The advice is good as it is!
" What fellowship has Light with darkness. " No worries.
Key word INSECURITY
She just needed to say they want a caring men
Thats bs women should not test their man all the time if they can’t figured them out after being with them for a couple months they need to move on.
Relationships are the hardest job people can have. Why make it harder? Woman needs to have their medication either checked or changed.
It's their idea,the men should handle all the tantrums, immaturity,wrongs,etc and all the bad things, that's way beyond toxic and enduring all of this as test,but at the same time if a man does this similar test even at 10% of what they do, it's immaturity
Its a game. Not playing it. Yall have fun tho.
I don't agree to her but Man some thing she says are actually correct like she said not giving into her trying to push is into her arguments. Idk I've never been in a relationship but that sounds correct to an extent....
yeh I'm not strong enough alright, go push Hercules, not me.... there's always some explanation to their bs.... keep pushing ladies good job 👏🏿
They broken mentality of FEAR.
This is not a test. This is not a chill. We are outnumbered. -
The Devil Wears Prada
Logic answer ❤❤❤
This is very true. I would subconsciously do this to my husband before we were married. I would ask him to do something (romantically) that I initially didn’t know he didn’t want to do (not anything weird) but when he would say no, I would keep pushing and pushing to see if he would give in. I could’ve cared less about it being done but I would keep asking him and pushing to see if he would crack and give in against his boundaries. He stood really firm on his boundaries and kept saying he would never do it even after days which I liked (I didn’t understand why I liked it at the time or why I did this but this makes perfect sense). If he would’ve gave in, it would’ve gave me a sense that his boundaries were easily lowered with some persuasion and that he may be a liability to me and our future kids and also not a good leader. I think a lot of men test women like this as well. Men will take women through all sorts of tests to determine if she’ll stay down with him. I think it’s more of a human thing than a gender thing. I feel like the more trauma or distrust for people that someone has the more they are likely to take this “testing” to a more extensive, unhealthy level that can drive a partner away
Pro tip guys: always stand firm on your boundaries with women and submissive women like assertive men. When my husband stands firm on his word (when it’s important), even if it’s something that I wanted, it’s always sexy to me because it shows me that he’s not easily swayed by a little persuasion or theatrics (which makes a good leader). It sounds cliche but this is why a woman likes when a man “puts her in check”. Having your man remind you assertively that he doesn’t play that is just naturally sexy to us women because of our nature and a lot of men don’t know this game I’m giving you guys which is why they struggle with women and also why women typically don’t go for the “nice guys” like you would think. It is also just as important to make a woman feel like you give in with her often because it makes her feel special and like you have a soft spot for her but you have to have a good balance with the assertiveness and reminding her of your boundaries. (women love generous men by nature {it doesn’t have to be just with money. Generosity for a woman can also include just doing things for her that you’d rather not do or going places with her that she likes even when it does nothing for you}) but not with things that cross your boundaries or go against your morals or heavily against your character because a lot of times she’s testing you (consciously or subconsciously) and she really just wants to see how far the pressure has to go up for you to crack and go against your boundaries. Women like men who stand 10 toes pressed to the floor when it comes to boundaries and important stuff. you’d better stay consistent with your boundaries because once a woman feels like she can walk over your boundaries or that you have swaying boundaries and character, she won’t trust you to lead her and the relationship will become a power struggle or she just won’t respect your direction
@@asiawilson1398thanks for sharing.
@ELDYK308 but he isn’t though. What type of miserable person would even wish that on someone they don’t know? Blessed and happily married for 11 years. I hope you’re married or engaged and not just projecting your misery and loneliness onto others, Mr. “lone wolf”. I’m gonna assume that you’re neither based on the other comment you left on this video and the stuff you have on your profile . I’m aware that misery loves company. Good day
Little autistic here. What sort of tests did you do? Can you give a few concrete examples? Also thank you for taking the time to write your experiences here!
I can confirm that as a man, this is not necessarily true. In my experience men just want simplicity and no drama in a relationship. We dream of a woman that loves us, is supportive and rocks her femininity. Once we start to get a whiff of the bad stuff that's when that shit gets shut down by walking away. Becomes surprisingly easy to walk away after doing it a once or twice.
God loves you all, accept him in your life 😊
Yes Exactly ❤❤❤
I think she's right but maybe not the whole way. They will test you up to a point and then relax a little bit, but it never stops. A different times during the relationships they will push the boundaries here and there just to keep you on your toes. It is frustrating and they will do it when you are at your weakest.
The only thing tested is my patience. Mastery of the outside world forge me to better my craft, not an insecure household.
There's gonna be women who has 50 bodies+ testing men and men getting tested by women with 50+ bodies😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Emotionally inmature, that's the answer,Get your shit together!
Its biology bro deal with it.
@@Suisuizi1i feel like thats a pretty week argument
@@highjack5517 but when hou say its biology to have multiple sexual partners for men (without taking care of the consequences) thats biology aswell and women should accept??? Why?
Why do women have to accept biological, social, and hunter and gatherer, genghez kan history of MEN then???
Why cant men except women phycology and biology??
Its a weak statement, everyone at some point in older age gets like this,
Thats why women have to turn to friend, own family, pets, hobbies etc to have emotional connection
@@Suisuizi1 i never said they did have to because i don't base morality off nature
Its a maturity thing
The best thing to do is tell her that you can't do that and you're walking away and for her to have a good life and to take care of yourself
Both ways, both ways, both ways, both ways, both ways, both ways, both ways, both ways,....
That's true just like men test women on loyalty.
Leave her immediately
she's smart
You can't test your Men for his love for you, first thing they did is to love, sacrifices they make to make you happy is what is worth of his love for you...
Sounds like a free ticket to abuse through shit-tests at all times. Having a person around whos is more consistent in complaining than being satisfied, THAT can irritate, undermine, hurt, depress, supress and kill a man in the long run. Just show gratitude and respect and most men will do far more than expected.
Yet another brilliant idea from women. It's like the gift that keeps on giving.😂😂😂😂
It’s amazing how many excuses people can come up with so they don’t have to mature, face their insecurities and grow
Key word "IF" you were in the natural habitat.
What man what to have mind games dealing with a better half.
so true
Problem is more the disrespect that comes with it
So I have to live with a woman until until, with no peace of mind? 😂😂
You is comedy
The problem is, we grow up with all the wrong kinds of storms in modern society. So in adulthood, we're all over the place, not grounded, both men and women.
The blind cannot lead others to true sight...
The deluded cannot confer others with Knowledge...
The fearful cannot inspire others with bravery...
The choke-chained serfs to their own desire have no value to offer those who Know how to engage their earned free-will for a higher vision...
Only the strong, and healthy, free from psychopathology, can measure - with adequate accuracy - the strong...
Discern well the content of a person's character, before agreeing with anothers judgement on what constitutes strength: those who are strong can look back to their many memories of trials overcome, of fear dissolved through courage...
It will be the difference between awareness for growth, and being shamed to be manipulated...
We get fed up and walk away ...🤷♂️
Love is sacrificial.
Beautiful woman.
In the start tests is okay...doing it in the relationship...the man will make him think you dont trust him...and he may leave
I think it cultural and unrealistic expectations...
Women think of every means to torture, not test men constantly. Men, when you see that happening, best to walk away & keep a distance.
That has more to do with the dysfunctional psyche and certain individuals getting off on conflict. I was married to a woman like that. Her being a therapist wasn’t enough drama. She had to have conflict at home as well. And since she’s been gone, I can actually focus more on my purpose. Stay away from these hyenas as they will have you look at the oppositesix in discussed four years.
To push your boundaries to a point where they will get the maximum of your resources and giving back the minimum as possible.
Just like politicians 🤘😂
Answer to every question about woman, attention in drama
😂😂 I also know my worth, push me at your own risk.
That's true
I wouldn't bother testing ain't that crazy cuz trust is there in a relationship
They are just bored cuz they have 1 million options. Or at least it seems like that… their delusional ego tells them
Don't push in because you are not made to do so.....neither the men are made to take in.
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