I've also noticed psychic vampires spend only the time needed to find their way in. I've also noticed after doing the inner work I'm lest venerable to them, this video speaks wisdom. 😊
Robust Bison in the making👌 I use to run, hide and avoid my predators. It feels odd now that I face them. On a TH-camrs snippet, it said do not look into their eyes as it will cause trauma and doubt. Well I did opposite, it was so interesting, they looked down, twiddled with their hair/head avoided me. I laugh now when I have a gut instinct of their next game play, and boom they do it! I accept how very clever they are, but feel odd as I’ve changed myself & feel I’m playing a game now? I remind myself I am good inside and their destruction of my total being is the reason I am discerning & trusting my gut - & playing their game, my way as have to be in contact. I’m winning, and I’m not reacting but watching the illusion of many that is there daily being/doing. I’ve not won every battle they have sent me, I am going to win the war I pray. Thank you Melanie I smile during drama😀 I cry behind closed doors at the evil things they are doing. I’m me and I’m going to rise 😘
Totally a robust bison! I'm at the last stages of healing, but I think I'll keep watching your videos as you are doing an amazing job and it is fascinating just listening to you. Thank you for all your efforts. You are saving lives of people, which is the highest and best goal and vocation of good people in this world.
Melanie Tonia Evans' videos and course *free and paid* has SAVED MY LIFE after being married to monster for more than 40 years. She has helped give me the support and information to LEAVE after 40 years and not crying anymore about being mistreated, or being confused and not even KNOW I was being abused... and now I am FREE! I listen to her videos every single morning when I can to start my day. Just like exercise and push-ups! Thank you Melanie!
I think many narcissists hook people in by deliberately acting a calculated part for a payoff. That's been my experience from the family support system I never had except in cases where bad could easily be made worse to even a guy who used to work for me, who was constantly trying to manipulate me (and it worked some of the time). But when they really want you to know they believe they own you, you see the claws and the fangs come out, just "for" you.
I'm so so sorry about all that shit, honestly. Manipulation is so fucked and I hope those fucks stay out your life. You should realize that literally only 10% of narcs do that, the other 90% are just people living and people-ing. Have a good day
"Never" trust anyone you don't know who makes a promise that they would "never" treat you bad. We are all capable of treating people bad. It's an empty promise. I'd rather have sympathy, not promises.
I am laughing so hard! "Clean up your limp" best advice ever! I was listening as I was literally laying on the floor with a bag near at hand because I feel so sick and may throw up. The reason, hmmm I think it might have to do with the fact that I have to have a face-to-face with the narc this week. First one since beginning NAARP. I thought I was handling it well until this morning! I want to be strong so as I lay on the floor with my barf bag next to me I whispered "I am a robust Bison!" Many thanks for your wisdom!
A sweet addendum to my story - - right after posting my comment I called a good friend and told her what I had written and how I was feeling, she did not miss a beat, she immediately said " well Bison are in a herd that protect each other -- we will be your herd" -- can you believe that? I got all choked up. In my whole life I've not been supported like that. I figure maybe I have grown a little bit to be able to call forth that kind of caring in my external world. Thanks again Melanie.
The psychic vampire that attacked me could actually see auras and energy radiating off people as I can now ever since this traumatic event, the attack left me so drained it seems my body turned on the backup generators and now I have risen higher spiritually. I have the same gifts as the vampire but I get my energy from within because positivity and love is infinite. What he had was a double-edged sword and he chose the evil hateful side. which only destroys your life force and takes from outside of you. He was actually quite spiritual in tune when it came to perceiving other dimensions in our reality many others ignore. Its just he did not bother to see the infinite good that comes with realizing the depth of existence, instead, it angered him and he started using the power of oneness against others. He was so angry and hateful that he had a black aura, I didn't know what that meant until he attacked me as well. People like this are literal black holes for energy, they suck up vital beautiful energy, and convert it into temporary vitality for themselves which quickly goes away. These people are profoundly sick, and the sad part is that anyone can be a psychic vampire, all it takes is choosing hate, sadness, and narcissism and you will become one. And if you are an energy vampire, you can literally begin to generate energy from within again if you choose to actually take care of yourself and raise your vibrations through positivity. Be warned, if you are an energy vampire you always have a choice to become more positive and generate your own energy. if you choose not too, enjoy the infernal realm for committing universal sins.
This vampire was very conscious of his abilities, which made him that more dangerous when he attacked. He said once it felt like a superpower, so he understands and actually tries to push its boundaries. Be very wary of these people, they can literally kill you.
The most ironic part about a energy vampire is that you can literally get more energy from hugging a tree and letting the tree share it's massive amounts of positive energy, instead of taking limited amounts of energy from people which hurts them greatly. Quite sad that people choose to hurt when given the knowledge and power to gain higher sources of energy rooted in the universe and love. These people are sad, lost, and creating their own hell. Bummer for them I guess.
It's inspiring & life-enhancing to think of myself as a robust Bison (or robust Bison-in-training!!). Thank you! The more I put myself into this Narp work, the more positives I get out of my self-work.
Honesty & Truthfulness its all i wanted learn & take from this video an every details about a energy vampire an how to deal with one! Nailed it 100% 🙏 im willing to the inner work on myself
It has been an incredible journey with you. I am so grateful for the coping mechanisms that you have taught me that have changed the trajectory of my being to a place where my 'True Self' and I are more than thriving. I hope that I will inspire many others to find their power within and trust their instincts and realize that life is so much better living fully in kindness, generosity, and love than in any other way. Melanie, you have truly changed my life, and I thank you.
Your videos have helped me on my healing journey to regain trust that all will be well. And all is already well. I am grateful for this experience. It has opened me up to all that I had hidden. I am so grateful for this pain, because with it has come infinite beauty and self love and reliance. It brought me back to God on my hands and knees. It takes healing to become grateful, but once it is done, the whole universe opens up to guide and support you endlessly.
Indeed! Whatever is necessary to do!!! Being entangled for three excruciating years that felt like 30 years, had been the very worst experience of a lifetime. I don’t even look at Women. I am totally off the game of meeting one until I feel I am fully recovered and even after that, still thinking is not worth to try again.
I feel the same. Maybe I will have another significant other in my life again. Maybe not. I'm not looking and I can't even fathom going on a dating site. I'm active and go out and meet people daily. I just don't feel motivated to get 'involved' with someone again. Living alone and enjoying life is plenty. I have lost that drive to meet a new partner. Probably for the best.
Hey thrivers, I need all the positive vibes and prayers I can get. I am going to my parents today, just abt to leave now (my mom is the narc) and there is no way getting out of it, especially since she tried to tell me that my brother (who is there for a little bit, the golden child and the oldest of us 3) thinks that idw to see HIM, which is SO not the case. So my mom invited me to pizza tonight. I just do not want her to start vampire attacking me and saying anything negative to me. I'm sure my nephew, my sister's son (the youngest and the scapegoat... I am in between the black sheep and scapegoat, but mostly black sheep) will be there, too & my sister and her girlfriend. Thank you SOOOO much!!! I see there are alot of ppl that have seen this and this is a recent video, so there will be many who see this, too if they see the comments. Thank you all SOOOOO much. ✌️&💖
I'm so glad I saw this - I have been watching videos on narcissism constantly. Needed the reminder that healing is what protects me, not facts about narcissism (they are helpful, but not the main event.) So I went and did the some healing work (just an abbreviated version) and I actually already feel calmer and more serene. This is like a dream come true, because I get so scared around the narcs in my family, and I couldn't figure out why or how to feel better. Now I know why, and exactly what to do about it.
ROBUST BISON WITH A LARGE PAIR..lol...thank you Mel...when you were describing the scenario it reminded me of the Netflix series I highly recommend called " Dirty John"..based on a true life story of a low life narc and his tactics to ensnare his victim...I also recommend the book " The Gift Of Fear" by Gavin De Becker...never ignore your gut again. .lots of love fellow Bisons..💖
I establish an energy boundary about 18” from my skin. Anything outside that isn’t my problem, however if they transgress my boundaries, I’ll take energetic steps to discourage them...from inside my “space”, where I’m not superior but definitely senior to them. The ESSENTIAL skill is to know yourself, and be certain what’s your energy and what’s someone else’s energy...then choose.
To Give without wanting something in return is the cure of the vampirism. So, the energy vampire needs to actually have fun with themselves and don’t care shit about other people. And don’t be mean with them, because it hurts, they’re not fucking insects, I am one and I could feel the rejection many times without knowing what to do or why I wasn’t receiving love. Don’t be fucking rude and don’t feel superior stupid “empaths”.
standing up for yourself is healing, self destrucitive living is a terrible thing.. whats hurts is " those" taking from a parents little yule lamb and hurting the lamb.the lamb must grow and rear itself into adulthood. thanks for all you do
Loved this video..specially the analogy of leaving your home, without closing doors and looking for the narcs outside :) Thank you! I have a question, I have stopped attracting narcs, even when I meet new people..I kind of get a not so good vibe but I still am authentic self..slowly they move away from my reality. Is it true that most people are not authentic and are not in their true self..are they all narcs? They certainly are friends with narcs follow them on FB
There is a man who works in building as a handyman. I am very intimidated by his presence. I almost fear going outside because the thought of crossing his path creeps me out. I know he is an energy vampire and triggering wounds that need healing. How can I overcome this feeling in strangers who trigger these wounds? I consciously don't want to fear his presence.. but his energy, or my projection of my wounds that need healing is overwhelming. How can completely feel centered in my authenticity so even people I don't really know get into my energy field and trigger fear and anxiety in me? Just heard the end of your video and that answers it..
It's clear that although "Tigi" might have some excess hair to shed, he has no limp - she's a real tiger that won't ever get lured in by any "e-vampires" - Limping gazelles have only their own torn achilles tendons to blame - stay in robust bison shape by looking inside and outside each and every day - you're too much Melanie - keep on keepin-on! Cool Cats Rule - Narcissists are lame and pathetic... Mahalo!
Thank You so much, yes I know myself that unhealed trauma or needing to feel needed after being completely dumped by friends, relatives, or past partners (especially fake religions) be careful their... can make one feel needy. lol Who needs to feel needy when you come up with Energy Vampires who don't even like themselves. They will go through life never being satisfied looking for fresh injured humans to torment.... Peace, love & light to wisdom. Much appreciated.
So can we still dance with wolves? Or will Wind in his Hair get mad at us again? Yes.. some ppl are not worth talking to and it's best to work on your own agendas to talk with those who will listen.
hey Mel, whats your opinion on this; In my job I come face to face serving very high volumes of people and I can attest that when you have gaps showing you get soooo many more people honing in an being difficult with you, but there are times when im in a gorgy mood and out of the blue someone I look at in the eyes just sends a terrifying shudder up my back and I have this gut churning feeling about them and ive usually put that down to them being a real "energy vampire" or a narcissist, do you think that will go away with more healing or is that something that is common with being an empath? Would the ability to "feel" a persons energy or the energy vibe of a room become something you can switch it on or off, after becoming more true self? thanks for your video! love you
Hi Chloe, I can tell you that when you are healed your well being, security and happiness won't be defined by what other people do and say in any situation. You will be sourcing your needs for yourself and you will choose the kind of circumstances that support your health and well being. You will no longer need others to be different for you to feel well, safe and happy. Love and blessings xoxox
Im goin to be a byson!!! It makes sense actually....thank you.for ur great advice...i like ur way....u are not patronising you are straight to the point...funny and warm!!!!💖💌💌u go girl....love from rainy cold england!!!!
My ex actually described me as a gazelle a few times when I came into the lounge with my skinny legs and a t-shirt on. I thought it was a compliment at the time. I now see that all he saw was easy pickings.
It will take time. Don't rush yourself. I thought I could never trust a woman again, but now I'm open to it, now that there's new awareness and inner resolve. Best to you as you heal.
My ex-husband was MIS-diagnosed with Bi-polar. Later to find it is Borderline Personality Disorder. Falls within the same dark traid (the Cluster B) as the Narcissist and there is a crossover of the horendous/demonic traits. A skilled therapist should recognize this... yet not all do.
Sunflower I have totally thought about borderline personality disorder! It’s all super dark and horribly impossible to live w. My ex husband is straight NDP so I know he’s not quite that but whatever it is is UGLY!
1:55 Exactly. Stop it. As someone who is an energy vamp, it's just making it easier, lol. Also NPD abuse doesnt exist, narcs are the ones getting abused byeeeeee have a good day and don't let hatred blind youu
Sandy, this blog article might be helpful to you sweetheart blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-and-co-dependent-two-sides-of-the-same-coin/ Love to you xoxox
I see so essentially it’s wrong to prod around for holes and then empathise to become the perfect person right? I am definetly not the perfect person for anyone so essentially should I just stop trying to be that if ya get me
Hi Catherine, Yes, that's what I mean. They are very good at mirroring, at donning personas that match what they think you want and so we often don't see them coming, unless we become aware of the way they manipulate and what vulnerabilities we have that they exploit so deftly. Once we are aware, which is really not difficult to do, we can spot them very early on in the interaction before any damage or loss has occurred. I'd love to show you how to do this here: melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar Love and blessings xoxox
Hi Chiron affirmations, hun if you Google my name and 'psychic connection' you can research my beliefs and understandings in more depth via my material on this topic. I hope this helps. Love and blessings xoxox
Females by nature are less capable to be by themselves. They always need the Prince Charming to come to save them from their tower imprisonments: Insecurities, Desires to be taken care off financially, and so on. Males for the most part due to nature also, can be more independent and don’t buy into the fairy tales of Disney. Remember Man best friend (Dog) Woman best friend (Diamonds)
Actually when I look back on situations where I've had a female narcissist or energy vampire it's the male version that is the cause. The male influences the female by giving false information about you a twisted image if you will. 😂
I'm super offended by all these videos. 1. I didn't know I was one for the longest time. Taking energy from random people when I was weak or sick. I had to figure all this out on my own. So I don't hurt anyone I make sure my energy level is very high. Limit being around people. Being that's only one thing I can do I try to stay positive and stay away from negative people, because I'm also an empath. So go figure, feelings.... We are not all the same, Perhaps it's my other gifts, but I prefer not to be near people.
if you want to get technical we are just like any human with the exception of feeding on surrounding energies many of us are also empathic and we can feel your emotions and physical pain we are not evil and we are not monsters we are simply humans who have evolved and adapted to have multiple food sources energy being one of them most of us will not comsume energy of another human being as we prefer to feed of the energy existing all around us as it provides an ideal source of nutrients in another form there is no reason to fear us we are just like you with a few extra abilities finding a reason to call us terrifying or even monsters is the same thing as being racist and it hurts when we are stereotyped we feel outcast just as much as anyone who does not fit in but we still try to be decent good people and most of us pride ourselves on being peaceful
True empaths don't drain people. The energies of psy vamps seek us out and invade us because of the peaceful vibes we emit. Leaving us drained and depleted of what rightfully belongs to us. We will share, but it's not ok to thrive on the energy of others.
the way you describe us is as if we are demonic we are just people human beings with feelings and families calling us evil and terrifying is just insulting and you should know we would never pose a threat to anyone
I can detect them immediately energetically (now that trauma bonds are healed).
Thanks for sharing this. I am working on this and am definitely noticing it more and more.
I've also noticed psychic vampires spend only the time needed to find their way in. I've also noticed after doing the inner work I'm lest venerable to them, this video speaks wisdom. 😊
Exactly! Minimum effort and energy - maximum gain - that's their way of being.
@@moonchild650 well said, I believe psychic vampires and narcissist are some of the lowest form of existence. 🙂
@@paulzedx636ninja7 wait are they psychic-psychic? bc i absorb energy and last time i checked i cant read minds or fancy shit
@@sutomuarashi psychic vampire is just a term used to describe energy vampires. I suppose it's more formal as opposed to soul sucking lowlifes LoL. 😊
Robust Bison in the making👌 I use to run, hide and avoid my predators. It feels odd now that I face them. On a TH-camrs snippet, it said do not look into their eyes as it will cause trauma and doubt. Well I did opposite, it was so interesting, they looked down, twiddled with their hair/head avoided me. I laugh now when I have a gut instinct of their next game play, and boom they do it! I accept how very clever they are, but feel odd as I’ve changed myself & feel I’m playing a game now? I remind myself I am good inside and their destruction of my total being is the reason I am discerning & trusting my gut - & playing their game, my way as have to be in contact. I’m winning, and I’m not reacting but watching the illusion of many that is there daily being/doing. I’ve not won every battle they have sent me, I am going to win the war I pray. Thank you Melanie I smile during drama😀 I cry behind closed doors at the evil things they are doing. I’m me and I’m going to rise 😘
Most excellent. "Be true to you". The inner strengthening will defeat outer attacks and attempts at manipulation. Good thoughts. Thanks much!
I confronted her. I asked her why. She looked stunned and said, "I didn't think you could tell."
Mines is demonic a demon parasite jealous of my mind because I won't share with them my mind.
It's the intentional ones that are aware of what they are and embrace the archetype that are the most dangerous.
This is an amazing message!!! Thank you! 🙏 I’ve been working on becoming a robust bison...self-love is the answer to protect our energy...
Totally a robust bison! I'm at the last stages of healing, but I think I'll keep watching your videos as you are doing an amazing job and it is fascinating just listening to you. Thank you for all your efforts. You are saving lives of people, which is the highest and best goal and vocation of good people in this world.
Melanie Tonia Evans' videos and course *free and paid* has SAVED MY LIFE after being married to monster for more than 40 years. She has helped give me the support and information to LEAVE after 40 years and not crying anymore about being mistreated, or being confused and not even KNOW I was being abused... and now I am FREE! I listen to her videos every single morning when I can to start my day. Just like exercise and push-ups! Thank you Melanie!
Catherine, I am so happy for you lovely lady! Love and blessings xoxox
I think many narcissists hook people in by deliberately acting a calculated part for a payoff. That's been my experience from the family support system I never had except in cases where bad could easily be made worse to even a guy who used to work for me, who was constantly trying to manipulate me (and it worked some of the time). But when they really want you to know they believe they own you, you see the claws and the fangs come out, just "for" you.
How did you heal..
I'm so so sorry about all that shit, honestly. Manipulation is so fucked and I hope those fucks stay out your life. You should realize that literally only 10% of narcs do that, the other 90% are just people living and people-ing. Have a good day
"Never" trust anyone you don't know who makes a promise that they would "never" treat you bad. We are all capable of treating people bad. It's an empty promise. I'd rather have sympathy, not promises.
I am laughing so hard! "Clean up your limp" best advice ever! I was listening as I was literally laying on the floor with a bag near at hand because I feel so sick and may throw up. The reason, hmmm I think it might have to do with the fact that I have to have a face-to-face with the narc this week. First one since beginning NAARP. I thought I was handling it well until this morning! I want to be strong so as I lay on the floor with my barf bag next to me I whispered "I am a robust Bison!" Many thanks for your wisdom!
A sweet addendum to my story - - right after posting my comment I called a good friend and told her what I had written and how I was feeling, she did not miss a beat, she immediately said " well Bison are in a herd that protect each other -- we will be your herd" -- can you believe that? I got all choked up. In my whole life I've not been supported like that. I figure maybe I have grown a little bit to be able to call forth that kind of caring in my external world. Thanks again Melanie.
Hahahaha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 so good to hear you felt the same👍
I am working on My inner self become a Robust Bison. I am not giving my Power away.🌹🌹
I am dedicating myself to Healing .
Thanks Melanie 🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕
The psychic vampire that attacked me could actually see auras and energy radiating off people as I can now ever since this traumatic event, the attack left me so drained it seems my body turned on the backup generators and now I have risen higher spiritually. I have the same gifts as the vampire but I get my energy from within because positivity and love is infinite. What he had was a double-edged sword and he chose the evil hateful side. which only destroys your life force and takes from outside of you. He was actually quite spiritual in tune when it came to perceiving other dimensions in our reality many others ignore.
Its just he did not bother to see the infinite good that comes with realizing the depth of existence, instead, it angered him and he started using the power of oneness against others. He was so angry and hateful that he had a black aura, I didn't know what that meant until he attacked me as well. People like this are literal black holes for energy, they suck up vital beautiful energy, and convert it into temporary vitality for themselves which quickly goes away. These people are profoundly sick, and the sad part is that anyone can be a psychic vampire, all it takes is choosing hate, sadness, and narcissism and you will become one. And if you are an energy vampire, you can literally begin to generate energy from within again if you choose to actually take care of yourself and raise your vibrations through positivity.
Be warned, if you are an energy vampire you always have a choice to become more positive and generate your own energy. if you choose not too, enjoy the infernal realm for committing universal sins.
This vampire was very conscious of his abilities, which made him that more dangerous when he attacked. He said once it felt like a superpower, so he understands and actually tries to push its boundaries. Be very wary of these people, they can literally kill you.
The most ironic part about a energy vampire is that you can literally get more energy from hugging a tree and letting the tree share it's massive amounts of positive energy, instead of taking limited amounts of energy from people which hurts them greatly. Quite sad that people choose to hurt when given the knowledge and power to gain higher sources of energy rooted in the universe and love. These people are sad, lost, and creating their own hell. Bummer for them I guess.
It's inspiring & life-enhancing to think of myself as a robust Bison (or robust Bison-in-training!!). Thank you! The more I put myself into this Narp work, the more positives I get out of my self-work.
I was born melanie lane evans. And my mother was Tonia. A message from the universe I'm sure
Honesty & Truthfulness its all i wanted learn & take from this video an every details about a energy vampire an how to deal with one! Nailed it 100% 🙏 im willing to the inner work on myself
It has been an incredible journey with you. I am so grateful for the coping mechanisms that you have taught me that have changed the trajectory of my being to a place where my 'True Self' and I are more than thriving. I hope that I will inspire many others to find their power within and trust their instincts and realize that life is so much better living fully in kindness, generosity, and love than in any other way. Melanie, you have truly changed my life, and I thank you.
Your videos have helped me on my healing journey to regain trust that all will be well. And all is already well. I am grateful for this experience. It has opened me up to all that I had hidden. I am so grateful for this pain, because with it has come infinite beauty and self love and reliance. It brought me back to God on my hands and knees. It takes healing to become grateful, but once it is done, the whole universe opens up to guide and support you endlessly.
So don’t study what can’t change
Study what can
Indeed! Whatever is necessary to do!!! Being entangled for three excruciating years that felt like 30 years, had been the very worst experience of a lifetime. I don’t even look at Women. I am totally off the game of meeting one until I feel I am fully recovered and even after that, still thinking is not worth to try again.
I feel the same. Maybe I will have another significant other in my life again. Maybe not. I'm not looking and I can't even fathom going on a dating site. I'm active and go out and meet people daily. I just don't feel motivated to get 'involved' with someone again. Living alone and enjoying life is plenty. I have lost that drive to meet a new partner. Probably for the best.
I know how you feel, but be careful. It's been 10 and a half years for me. Don't let that happen to you, get back on the horse.
Hey thrivers, I need all the positive vibes and prayers I can get. I am going to my parents today, just abt to leave now (my mom is the narc) and there is no way getting out of it, especially since she tried to tell me that my brother (who is there for a little bit, the golden child and the oldest of us 3) thinks that idw to see HIM, which is SO not the case. So my mom invited me to pizza tonight. I just do not want her to start vampire attacking me and saying anything negative to me. I'm sure my nephew, my sister's son (the youngest and the scapegoat... I am in between the black sheep and scapegoat, but mostly black sheep) will be there, too & my sister and her girlfriend. Thank you SOOOO much!!! I see there are alot of ppl that have seen this and this is a recent video, so there will be many who see this, too if they see the comments. Thank you all SOOOOO much. ✌️&💖
Yeah, of course she said that something was "in my head" and "an allusion" Of course we all know exactly how it really IS.
I'm trying SO hard to go quantam and not let let her get to me.
Whhhheeewww ok I made it without getting irritated... I was SO close tho. TySm whoever saw that! :)
I'm so glad I saw this - I have been watching videos on narcissism constantly. Needed the reminder that healing is what protects me, not facts about narcissism (they are helpful, but not the main event.) So I went and did the some healing work (just an abbreviated version) and I actually already feel calmer and more serene. This is like a dream come true, because I get so scared around the narcs in my family, and I couldn't figure out why or how to feel better. Now I know why, and exactly what to do about it.
This is so pitch perfect! Thx, Melanie, for all your help, support and hard work! 💕🤗👍
It’s really brutal and exhausting
I want be left alone
There’s always one or two at work.
ROBUST BISON WITH A LARGE PAIR..lol...thank you Mel...when you were describing the scenario it reminded me of the Netflix series I highly recommend called " Dirty John"..based on a true life story of a low life narc and his tactics to ensnare his victim...I also recommend the book " The Gift Of Fear" by Gavin De Becker...never ignore your gut again. .lots of love fellow Bisons..💖
Currently in Bison Training: I'd totally prefer the robust bison over the injured gazelle.
Since you asked, I’d rather be a majestic tree with tough roots than a prey to wolves. No hesitation.
I’m cleaning up my limp! Thank you!
it matters how you manage yourself, it shouldn't matter how the others are, you're the 'boss'
Thanks, we stay out of trouble when we keep the focus on ourselves and get into it when we look at the N- well said.
I am a robust bison!! :) Thank you for this video Melanie!!
That was Gold Melanie Thank You ❤️❤️
I clean my limp. I'm thankful for eye opening moments when I finally see trauma to appear and I can heal it 😍 And I want to become ROBUST BISON 🐂
I establish an energy boundary about 18” from my skin. Anything outside that isn’t my problem, however if they transgress my boundaries, I’ll take energetic steps to discourage them...from inside my “space”, where I’m not superior but definitely senior to them. The ESSENTIAL skill is to know yourself, and be certain what’s your energy and what’s someone else’s energy...then choose.
Anything that happens beyond 18in from your skin is not your problem? Zero empathy? Are you sure you're not the narcissist?
troy lenz I’m sure I’m free to either resolve or ignore your confusion on the matter.
Sounds like me earlier, with the limp😬 still learning🙏🕯️🌺
To Give without wanting something in return is the cure of the vampirism. So, the energy vampire needs to actually have fun with themselves and don’t care shit about other people. And don’t be mean with them, because it hurts, they’re not fucking insects, I am one and I could feel the rejection many times without knowing what to do or why I wasn’t receiving love. Don’t be fucking rude and don’t feel superior stupid “empaths”.
This makes so much sense... the metaphor of bison really resonates with me
standing up for yourself is healing, self destrucitive living is a terrible thing.. whats hurts is " those" taking from a parents little yule lamb and hurting the lamb.the lamb must grow and rear itself into adulthood. thanks for all you do
X was on the prowl from the get go to get in the door. Same story as Cindy's. So badly burned by the PEV.
Loved this video..specially the analogy of leaving your home, without closing doors and looking for the narcs outside :)
Thank you!
I have a question, I have stopped attracting narcs, even when I meet new people..I kind of get a not so good vibe but I still am authentic self..slowly they move away from my reality.
Is it true that most people are not authentic and are not in their true self..are they all narcs? They certainly are friends with narcs follow them on FB
I wrote a song once called Vampire inspired my problems with this issue. I really enjoyed this video for obvious reasons.
Bisons Unite!
Your videos are really good and they have been helping me so much Melanie thank you so much beautiful lady 💖❄🌸
There is a man who works in building as a handyman. I am very intimidated by his presence. I almost fear going outside because the thought of crossing his path creeps me out. I know he is an energy vampire and triggering wounds that need healing. How can I overcome this feeling in strangers who trigger these wounds? I consciously don't want to fear his presence.. but his energy, or my projection of my wounds that need healing is overwhelming. How can completely feel centered in my authenticity so even people I don't really know get into my energy field and trigger fear and anxiety in me? Just heard the end of your video and that answers it..
It's clear that although "Tigi" might have some excess hair to shed, he has no limp - she's a real tiger that won't ever get lured in by any "e-vampires" - Limping gazelles have only their own torn achilles tendons to blame - stay in robust bison shape by looking inside and outside each and every day - you're too much Melanie - keep on keepin-on! Cool Cats Rule - Narcissists are lame and pathetic... Mahalo!
Thank You so much, yes I know myself that unhealed trauma or needing to feel needed after being completely dumped by friends, relatives, or past partners (especially fake religions) be careful their... can make one feel needy. lol Who needs to feel needy when you come up with Energy Vampires who don't even like themselves. They will go through life never being satisfied looking for fresh injured humans to torment.... Peace, love & light to wisdom. Much appreciated.
,, so good, so much truth, thank you for all your guidance.. healing is my life, BISON --- lol all the way
Robust bison for sure!
Thank you MTE 💖💖💖💖
Powerful message here, thank you!
I have to be a robust. I have to Heal.😊😊😊🌹🌹🌹💗💗💗
Thanks 🙏🙏🙏💞💞💞
So can we still dance with wolves? Or will Wind in his Hair get mad at us again? Yes.. some ppl are not worth talking to and it's best to work on your own agendas to talk with those who will listen.
hey Mel, whats your opinion on this; In my job I come face to face serving very high volumes of people and I can attest that when you have gaps showing you get soooo many more people honing in an being difficult with you, but there are times when im in a gorgy mood and out of the blue someone I look at in the eyes just sends a terrifying shudder up my back and I have this gut churning feeling about them and ive usually put that down to them being a real "energy vampire" or a narcissist, do you think that will go away with more healing or is that something that is common with being an empath? Would the ability to "feel" a persons energy or the energy vibe of a room become something you can switch it on or off, after becoming more true self?
thanks for your video! love you
Hi Chloe,
I can tell you that when you are healed your well being, security and happiness won't be defined by what other people do and say in any situation. You will be sourcing your needs for yourself and you will choose the kind of circumstances that support your health and well being. You will no longer need others to be different for you to feel well, safe and happy. Love and blessings xoxox
This is amazing. Thank you!!!
So true that i bought ur book.
Defeating a Psychic Energy Vampire? Hey Melanie, that is my job!
Nice necklace btw. Springtime in Melbourne......must be nice. ;)
Fantastic video Melanie👏👏👏👏
Im goin to be a byson!!! It makes sense actually....thank you.for ur great advice...i like ur way....u are not patronising you are straight to the point...funny and warm!!!!💖💌💌u go girl....love from rainy cold england!!!!
My ex actually described me as a gazelle a few times when I came into the lounge with my skinny legs and a t-shirt on. I thought it was a compliment at the time. I now see that all he saw was easy pickings.
Beautiful bison!
Robust Bison
Thank You So Much, Melanie!
I don't know if I could ever trust a man.
It will take time. Don't rush yourself. I thought I could never trust a woman again, but now I'm open to it, now that there's new awareness and inner resolve. Best to you as you heal.
I feel the same about Women. Not to be trusted at all, in any way shape or form. Handle with much care...From very far away.
1 of the best ways to stop an energy vampire is totally stop contact,this lockdown has made energy vampires worse
At 5:00 I can so relate..
So on point...
Hello melanie thankyou the person I was involved with has bipolar 11 and now I'm seeing narcissistic traits please what are your thoughts xo
steve perisic I’m in the same boat- he claims he’s bipolar but wow the narc traits r almost all there🤮
My ex-husband was MIS-diagnosed with Bi-polar. Later to find it is Borderline Personality Disorder. Falls within the same dark traid (the Cluster B) as the Narcissist and there is a crossover of the horendous/demonic traits. A skilled therapist should recognize this... yet not all do.
Sunflower I have totally thought about borderline personality disorder! It’s all super dark and horribly impossible to live w. My ex husband is straight NDP so I know he’s not quite that but whatever it is is UGLY!
I really hope I get there one day.... Melanie you have to screen my next lover please.... lotsa love
Beautiful hair and luv the necklace
Thank you so much Caron xoxo
1:55
Exactly. Stop it. As someone who is an energy vamp, it's just making it easier, lol.
Also NPD abuse doesnt exist, narcs are the ones getting abused byeeeeee have a good day and don't let hatred blind youu
what am I? I can take and give a life force so I'm confused if I'm a vampire or something else.
Sandy, this blog article might be helpful to you sweetheart
blog.melanietoniaevans.com/the-narcissist-and-co-dependent-two-sides-of-the-same-coin/ Love to you xoxox
@@MelanieToniaEvans thank you ^^
It's best to stay far away from the tigers den.
Love this!! Thank you
I see so essentially it’s wrong to prod around for holes and then empathise to become the perfect person right?
I am definetly not the perfect person for anyone so essentially should I just stop trying to be that if ya get me
Thank you so mutch 🤩🙏🌟
Wow brilliant
im not going to give any detail about our other abilities but seriously just stop we arent bad people
Melanie, you wrote: "They are REALLY hard to PICK." What does "pick" me? You mean "identify" or "recognize" to avoid?
Hi Catherine, Yes, that's what I mean. They are very good at mirroring, at donning personas that match what they think you want and so we often don't see them coming, unless we become aware of the way they manipulate and what vulnerabilities we have that they exploit so deftly. Once we are aware, which is really not difficult to do, we can spot them very early on in the interaction before any damage or loss has occurred. I'd love to show you how to do this here: melanietoniaevans.com/freewebinar Love and blessings xoxox
Robust bison 🙌🏼💗
Is it possible to transfer energy to people?
Hi Chiron affirmations, hun if you Google my name and 'psychic connection' you can research my beliefs and understandings in more depth via my material on this topic. I hope this helps. Love and blessings xoxox
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Working on being a bison here
I had some weird astral sex thing happen with a guy and he won’t talk about it. Don’t you feel that’s actual rape ?
There are more female vampires than males .
Females by nature are less capable to be by themselves. They always need the Prince Charming to come to save them from their tower imprisonments: Insecurities, Desires to be taken care off financially, and so on. Males for the most part due to nature also, can be more independent and don’t buy into the fairy tales of Disney. Remember Man best friend (Dog) Woman best friend (Diamonds)
Actually when I look back on situations where I've had a female narcissist or energy vampire it's the male version that is the cause. The male influences the female by giving false information about you a twisted image if you will. 😂
Heyyy MTE, would you kindly share your experience with Narcissist now X??
Christine, I don't have any. Narcissists are just not my reality anymore. Love and blessings xoxox
Energy Vampire here in video
Me.. I was Cindy...I am now Jean😎
I love your story ♥️👍
I want to become a robust bison.
I want to become THE robust bison.
Onion Savoya
I'm a bison and robust
I told him everything 🙁
Same, girl. I hope you've been able to heal since then.
I'm super offended by all these videos.
1. I didn't know I was one for the longest time.
Taking energy from random people when I was weak or sick. I had to figure all this out on my own. So I don't hurt anyone I make sure my energy level is very high. Limit being around people. Being that's only one thing I can do I try to stay positive and stay away from negative people, because I'm also an empath. So go figure, feelings....
We are not all the same,
Perhaps it's my other gifts, but I prefer not to be near people.
if you want to get technical we are just like any human with the exception of feeding on surrounding energies many of us are also empathic and we can feel your emotions and physical pain we are not evil and we are not monsters we are simply humans who have evolved and adapted to have multiple food sources energy being one of them most of us will not comsume energy of another human being as we prefer to feed of the energy existing all around us as it provides an ideal source of nutrients in another form there is no reason to fear us we are just like you with a few extra abilities finding a reason to call us terrifying or even monsters is the same thing as being racist and it hurts when we are stereotyped we feel outcast just as much as anyone who does not fit in but we still try to be decent good people and most of us pride ourselves on being peaceful
True empaths don't drain people. The energies of psy vamps seek us out and invade us because of the peaceful vibes we emit. Leaving us drained and depleted of what rightfully belongs to us. We will share, but it's not ok to thrive on the energy of others.
the way you describe us is as if we are demonic we are just people human beings with feelings and families calling us evil and terrifying is just insulting and you should know we would never pose a threat to anyone
I know people like Jo.. Sad
Hi Melanie.. Please explain or share links about narcissists who abandon victims without any explanation or ending relationship properly..
Men bashing, Poor Cindy.
Psychic vampire? Why don't you just say narcissist?