I just dealt with the worst case of this in my life. The person was stuck in a negative mindset but seemed to be seeking change. So i gave away so much time and energy trying to help until it was so clear that they didn't really want to change, they just wanted to constantly vent their negativity to me and just be around me to absorb whatever benefits they can but give nothing in return. Then when i started to withdraw to have my own space they became cruel and vindictive. To the point of threatening to purposely cause harm to my life. I stood up for myself and let them know i will defend myself and won't tolerate threats and thank God it's all over now except some spoofing phone calls. And i learned that i need to be more assertive from the beginning.
We Empaths & HSP/HIP carry guilt in our energy signature that attracts nassholes...this is new to me thankyou. Shadow work is a good way I feel to release that xx
@@TheFireflycam this seems more like a epidemic of sorts these days, especially since there’s so much inflation and everybody’s looking for a come up. Be careful out there folks!
Excellent video and insights. The kindest people are always targets for manipulators and exploiters. We have to switch off our feelings of guilt and learn to put ourselves first.
I got a Real Vampire Reiki attunement....I did this months ago and have not had somebody take my energy since. From an energy level I just figured out how to not give energy to them. I feel the psychic chord almost as it goes in, they can't even get a chord in because I cut it. I can't feel guity if I can see what they are doing and see through the guilt tripping. Being able to see through people means they no longer have an effect. Becoming psychic in a sense is what saved me.
Definitely agree about the guilt. Also dont feel guilty about being more selfish and strong and breaking free of your social circles to become the person you need to be to achieve yourself best life. Also because empaths have a lot of humanity we appreciate people are falliable. Have to watch this one as it can keep you trapped
I had to slowly separate/ghost from a clique during COVID, because I noticed they talked shit about each other when one person was gone. But when everyone was together, they did all the fake smiles/fake love and pretended it was all good. Behind the scenes, I knew how certain people really felt, so I learned to mind my business and just wish the best for everyone. The problem with that is that they see you as a threat, because you don't co-sign their BS, or you have your own life outside of the clique. You can still be supportive to them and their work, without being directly involved in the spiderweb of toxicity, jealousy, narcissism, back-stabbing and envy. It's best to keep a respectful distance once you peep the BS. Because even though they'll now see you as the enemy, you have your peace and freedom from the silly shenanigans they play with each other.
OMG!!!! You just explained yearssss of theraphy. GUILT. That’s it!!!! Not a lot of people talk about this. I had to discover this through hard inner work and STILL after discovering the fact that I have been manipulated with and by my own guilt , it still has a hold of me . Will look into your classes to further work on this . Thank you .
Thank you thank you thank you! I'm highly intuitive and an empath, and have dealt with some scary energy vampires...some in my family, some not. They all contributed to ruining my life and career dreams. I dealt with one recently, and it's the last straw. Your video just set my wings free, I can fly now, after almost 30 years. No longer, will I let others put unwarranted guilt on me, so they can use me for their gain. 💕Big hug, thank you.💕
Thanks i feel so good for being aware of this...I recently had to cut someone off for the 100th time because it keeps coming back one way or another in social media etc And is honestly crazy how they will do anything to get into your life just to drain your energy...
For me, yes it was guilt. I was a small child when I was taught that a biblical character died for my sins. My guardian was a narcissist, and it snowballed from there.
I am an empath the day I became a reiki master my teacher who attuned me said you will now be a like a flame attracting moths. Like a moth to a flame it’s so true …I dont feel guilty about anything I haven’t done anything to deserve to feel guilty 🤷♀️ I don’t think guilt is the answer here I think ppl see how bright and shiny we are and we are great supply
This is amazing to see and right on time! I always knew that my shadow work was still ongoing based on fears I still carry of being a targeted empath. Even though I've come a long way in terms of discernment and boundaries, it's amazing that someone within all the online content can finally get at core issues! Furthermore, you're an actually real person not hiding behind logos, fancy filming, and synthetic voices. Above all, I feel you're not merely repeating what others are saying, as this is the first I've heard of this. Thank you ❤💙💜
I play the energy vampire. I act like I have empathy when I really don’t. I give them just enough attention/help so they can’t accuse me of not being a team player, then I go about my business. If they don’t leave me alone, I babble endlessly about nothing..and they walk away. I have to use these techniques because my energy vampire is vindictive and controlling.
A very wonderful teaching she has done in less than 10 mins Which means when they come for help, support, assistance etc also give them a responsibility I don't think they will come back
you summed up eerything have experienced for many years - just like what the therapist said many years ago - GUILT ! is the reason - where do these people learn their game of exploytation ? what a travesty - yes i know everywhere i go it is the same the car sale the favor the money and when i dont comply i dont see them around anymore
I wish there was such a video for self proclaimed religious guru zealots like this. Then again I am a practicing reiki master and a vampire so I may be a bit biased, but at least I'm being honest about it.
This is v interesting about the guilt. I recently met an energy vampire, I didnt realise initially as it took a while for red flags to appear. After several hours with them I was drained and depeessed for a whole week, I could barely get out of bed. I've been trying to figure it out and energy vampirism makes a lot of sense. They had already started requesting big things from me and using guilt saying they hated being let down by people 😮 I'm going to have to phase them out. I'd love some more friends but not people who bring me down and drain me like that!
Isn't it wonderful this world of new disciplines and personality types which we then can target with special programs and techniques? What you call an energy vampire is certainly a specific type of person and I am sure there are dozens more. But just because we categorize them and strategize ways in which to deal with them doesn't mean you're helping people. It also doesn't mean they do what they do deliberately to hurt others. In the end this whole development shows me that we have grown way too complacent, passive, snow-flaky, whiny and need someone else (other than a proper therapist) to tell us what and how to feel and/or "defend" ourselves, forcing us into the victim role. There were times when people cared about each other enough to help out. But these are gone. And I would posit that anybody doing this kind of "therapy" like any social influencer has at least as much of a monetary interest than any other motive to do it.
Hi, ich hab schon Kurse von Lauren mitgemacht, und ich finde, sie erklärt in recht gut verständlichem Englisch. Habe B1 bis B2 Niveau und konnte bisher alles verstehen :)
Wait wait wait! What made you think that from all the emotions is GUILT exactly the one attracting energy vampires? Why guilt? What about complex inferiority? I just need some proper explanation.Because I don't see any proof about this. There can be so many reasons so I really wanna know why you picked only this one reason. Because I don't feel like someone can sniff out guilt of another person only online.
Be free of guilt. You are the light of the New World. You are the arbiter of True Justice and Righteousness.❤️🔥 John 3:19:21 ¹⁹Now this is the basis for judgment: that the light has come into the world, but men have loved the darkness rather than the light, for their works were wicked. ²⁰For whoever practices vile things hates the light and does not come to the light, so that his works may not be reproved. ²¹But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that his works may be made manifest as having been done in harmony with God.”
The title of your video is questionable at best. No one _attracts_ an energy vampire. There is such a dichotomy within your semantics here. It's titles like this on social media that have essentially put an end to civilization. Thanks.
I just dealt with the worst case of this in my life. The person was stuck in a negative mindset but seemed to be seeking change. So i gave away so much time and energy trying to help until it was so clear that they didn't really want to change, they just wanted to constantly vent their negativity to me and just be around me to absorb whatever benefits they can but give nothing in return. Then when i started to withdraw to have my own space they became cruel and vindictive. To the point of threatening to purposely cause harm to my life. I stood up for myself and let them know i will defend myself and won't tolerate threats and thank God it's all over now except some spoofing phone calls.
And i learned that i need to be more assertive from the beginning.
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We Empaths & HSP/HIP carry guilt in our energy signature that attracts nassholes...this is new to me thankyou. Shadow work is a good way I feel to release that xx
CORRECT. We seem to only get "nassholes" or nasty holes LMAO!!!
My God , thats me
What a powerful observation
Oh brother, this paragraph is everything that is stupid in the world today…..😂
@@nomz401😂😂
Energy vampires are like a worse version of ‘time-burglars’
They will steal your time too, by distracting and draining you.
True
Yeah, like Time Bandits. What a great movie that was.
@@TheFireflycam this seems more like a epidemic of sorts these days, especially since there’s so much inflation and everybody’s looking for a come up. Be careful out there folks!
So well said
Excellent video and insights. The kindest people are always targets for manipulators and exploiters. We have to switch off our feelings of guilt and learn to put ourselves first.
Wow! This is exactly what I've dealt with all my life. I will no longer feel guilty for taking care of my needs ever
I got a Real Vampire Reiki attunement....I did this months ago and have not had somebody take my energy since. From an energy level I just figured out how to not give energy to them. I feel the psychic chord almost as it goes in, they can't even get a chord in because I cut it. I can't feel guity if I can see what they are doing and see through the guilt tripping. Being able to see through people means they no longer have an effect. Becoming psychic in a sense is what saved me.
Real Vampire Reiki? My goodness. Becoming psychic? More like psycho.
Definitely agree about the guilt. Also dont feel guilty about being more selfish and strong and breaking free of your social circles to become the person you need to be to achieve yourself best life.
Also because empaths have a lot of humanity we appreciate people are falliable. Have to watch this one as it can keep you trapped
I had to slowly separate/ghost from a clique during COVID, because I noticed they talked shit about each other when one person was gone. But when everyone was together, they did all the fake smiles/fake love and pretended it was all good.
Behind the scenes, I knew how certain people really felt, so I learned to mind my business and just wish the best for everyone. The problem with that is that they see you as a threat, because you don't co-sign their BS, or you have your own life outside of the clique. You can still be supportive to them and their work, without being directly involved in the spiderweb of toxicity, jealousy, narcissism, back-stabbing and envy.
It's best to keep a respectful distance once you peep the BS. Because even though they'll now see you as the enemy, you have your peace and freedom from the silly shenanigans they play with each other.
Welcome to the modern world of Social Media. You wanted it. You got it. Now deal with it.
They also pick up on my autism traits. They think my lack of eye contact, fidgeting etc is signs of low esteem lol
You speaking about guilt almost made me cry. Firs time I feel as if somebody understands me and I'm not alone. Thank you. Words have power.
OMG!!!!
You just explained yearssss of theraphy. GUILT. That’s it!!!!
Not a lot of people talk about this. I had to discover this through hard inner work and STILL after discovering the fact that I have been manipulated with and by my own guilt , it still has a hold of me . Will look into your classes to further work on this . Thank you .
They stare at you too. That dark weird stare.
My life, in less than 8 minutes.
People close to me are the worst when it cones to energy vampires,they think they are owed a living.
Thank you thank you thank you! I'm highly intuitive and an empath, and have dealt with some scary energy vampires...some in my family, some not. They all contributed to ruining my life and career dreams. I dealt with one recently, and it's the last straw. Your video just set my wings free, I can fly now, after almost 30 years. No longer, will I let others put unwarranted guilt on me, so they can use me for their gain. 💕Big hug, thank you.💕
Thanks i feel so good for being aware of this...I recently had to cut someone off for the 100th time because it keeps coming back one way or another in social media etc
And is honestly crazy how they will do anything to get into your life just to drain your energy...
WHOA. I was not expecting you to say guilt, and that immediately felt true. This was so helpful, thsnk you!
For me, yes it was guilt. I was a small child when I was taught that a biblical character died for my sins. My guardian was a narcissist, and it snowballed from there.
Many empaths has soul loss. I have taken plant medicine, and partook in a soul retrieval ceremony. I called back the parts of my soul that I had lost.
I am an empath the day I became a reiki master my teacher who attuned me said you will now be a like a flame attracting moths. Like a moth to a flame it’s so true …I dont feel guilty about anything I haven’t done anything to deserve to feel guilty 🤷♀️ I don’t think guilt is the answer here I think ppl see how bright and shiny we are and we are great supply
This is amazing to see and right on time! I always knew that my shadow work was still ongoing based on fears I still carry of being a targeted empath. Even though I've come a long way in terms of discernment and boundaries, it's amazing that someone within all the online content can finally get at core issues! Furthermore, you're an actually real person not hiding behind logos, fancy filming, and synthetic voices. Above all, I feel you're not merely repeating what others are saying, as this is the first I've heard of this. Thank you ❤💙💜
What you describe as guilt actually sounds more like shame to me.
Yes it does. It’s more like a combo pack of guilt and shame, which are lethal weapons when used together.
Yes i do . Gift from my grandma . I guess. I am fixing it from within.
Thank you for sharing all this info!
Perform energy vampirism on the energy vampire
I play the energy vampire. I act like I have empathy when I really don’t. I give them just enough attention/help so they can’t accuse me of not being a team player, then I go about my business. If they don’t leave me alone, I babble endlessly about nothing..and they walk away. I have to use these techniques because my energy vampire is vindictive and controlling.
A very wonderful teaching she has done in less than 10 mins
Which means when they come for help, support, assistance etc also give them a responsibility
I don't think they will come back
You are speaking truth
you summed up eerything have experienced for many years - just like what the therapist said many years ago - GUILT !
is the reason - where do these people learn their game of exploytation ? what a travesty - yes i know everywhere i go it is the same the car sale the favor the money and when i dont comply i dont see them around anymore
I am so much in love with your video , Thankyou so much for sharing this , this guilt always takes me over nd give control to vampires
Have no guilt anymore. True Justice will always prevail. So be strong and bold❤️🔥
I wish there was such a video for self proclaimed religious guru zealots like this. Then again I am a practicing reiki master and a vampire so I may be a bit biased, but at least I'm being honest about it.
This person I've been talking to on the phone, makes me exhausted, sleepy then sick. Does she know what she's doing?
Sounds like my "mother" and her mother. The rotten apple never fell off the moldy diseased tree.
G U I L T
i will never get past this.
Yes you can 🌹 have you considered Shadow work or healing spells? Xx
Shut it off they do not care about your needs
This is v interesting about the guilt. I recently met an energy vampire, I didnt realise initially as it took a while for red flags to appear. After several hours with them I was drained and depeessed for a whole week, I could barely get out of bed. I've been trying to figure it out and energy vampirism makes a lot of sense. They had already started requesting big things from me and using guilt saying they hated being let down by people 😮 I'm going to have to phase them out. I'd love some more friends but not people who bring me down and drain me like that!
Yea,they are always the biggest victim in the room.Your pain is Nothing compared to what they've suffered.
Well explained thankyou!
I have attracted these energy vampires for real.
Isn't it wonderful this world of new disciplines and personality types which we then can target with special programs and techniques? What you call an energy vampire is certainly a specific type of person and I am sure there are dozens more. But just because we categorize them and strategize ways in which to deal with them doesn't mean you're helping people. It also doesn't mean they do what they do deliberately to hurt others. In the end this whole development shows me that we have grown way too complacent, passive, snow-flaky, whiny and need someone else (other than a proper therapist) to tell us what and how to feel and/or "defend" ourselves, forcing us into the victim role. There were times when people cared about each other enough to help out. But these are gone. And I would posit that anybody doing this kind of "therapy" like any social influencer has at least as much of a monetary interest than any other motive to do it.
Emotional manipulators always seek out your weaknesses and use them against you ,,,,
When's the next class in 2023
Thank u for the video
❤
Please could you link the next video, which you teased ahead to in this one? Cheers!
Yes in looking back this is true
spot on! thank you. :)
Unfortunately this course is not in German !! Im from there !! My English is only OK ! Cool Videos
Hi, ich hab schon Kurse von Lauren mitgemacht, und ich finde, sie erklärt in recht gut verständlichem Englisch. Habe B1 bis B2 Niveau und konnte bisher alles verstehen :)
oh .. you don't know how bad I need this 💥💥
My Dad is 1. 4 sure
Are you still running this task?
Wait wait wait! What made you think that from all the emotions is GUILT exactly the one attracting energy vampires? Why guilt? What about complex inferiority? I just need some proper explanation.Because I don't see any proof about this. There can be so many reasons so I really wanna know why you picked only this one reason. Because I don't feel like someone can sniff out guilt of another person only online.
❤ glad someone raised this question. I feel like its part of the issue but where is the solution?
Energy Vamp=leech and that includes family and flick them off of your juicy energy
Be free of guilt. You are the light of the New World. You are the arbiter of True Justice and Righteousness.❤️🔥
John 3:19:21
¹⁹Now this is the basis for judgment: that the light has come into the world, but men have loved the darkness rather than the light, for their works were wicked. ²⁰For whoever practices vile things hates the light and does not come to the light, so that his works may not be reproved. ²¹But whoever does what is true comes to the light, so that his works may be made manifest as having been done in harmony with God.”
🔥
I'm speechless.
I can't agree 100 percent
Yeah I don’t agree either
I like them because they bite.
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Thanku
NOBODY shows up in your life by accident. Are you to teach them or are they there to teach you? You are in Earth (soul) school.
Guilt...try religious upbringing!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
The title of your video is questionable at best. No one _attracts_ an energy vampire. There is such a dichotomy within your semantics here. It's titles like this on social media that have essentially put an end to civilization. Thanks.
This was interesting. I don't know if one attracts them. I think they are just there revealing their true colors.