Fellas: There is not a damn thing wrong with being a nice man. There is nothing wrong with being a kind man; there is nothing wrong with being a good man... Do not be weak; do not be a simp; do not be unsure of yourself with women; never and I mean never, let a women even hint that they have settled for you. Be a good man! Love genuinely! Take care of business and stand on your word!
I agree so many women be mistaken peaceful for boring women be putting themselves in bad situations with men that are foolish and manipulative. Now women are complaining about men not approaching them on another show older average modern women are complaining men aren't going into clubs to pursue them for a relationship. The other day more older women are looking for a nice guy to build a serious committed relationship into marriage? Some with kids looking for men with no kids to be obligated to be stepfather's fitting the bill for another man's kids and irresponsibly.
with most females only a kind man is a mate characteristic...a "nice" man is generally associated with weak, beta, friend-zone, non-attractive. and that is the mistake most men make from adolescence to manhood. No one ever draws the line in the sand for us and tells us that. Everything else you said is spot on though.
With most women of any age only a (kind man) is a mate characteristic...a "nice" man is generally associated with weak, beta, friend-zone, non-attractive. What's the difference between Kind and Nice? Thats easy. When you are nice you always have time or make time for them no matter if you benefit or not. Nice will put up Blinds or Help them move basically any sort of time or effort sacrifice is "NICE". Kind will call back when you say you will call back. Kind is just being respectful, of them and yourself. Not being told/shown the difference is the mistake most men make from adolescence to manhood. No one ever draws the line in the sand for us and tells us that. Everything else you said is spot on though.
Woman don’t friend nice guys. They friend zone the guy there less attracted too plain and simple. You can be nice, masculine and confident at the same time
Women gaslight men and say they want a man to be nice. They don't. They like chaos. Men stand your ground and don't over adjust anything you are doing for a woman. If you are that guy to her, she will adjust and follow
What a crazy world we live in when a man who desires a stable relationship who wants to love and respect his woman is seen as soft. The whole panel is twisted and don’t know who they are. They need Jesus. REAL TALK!
Don't worry about what women say because even Tupac got the "Too Nice" label changed into what women flocked too and ended up dead at a very young age.
Beginning of podcast: "Women hate men that appear indecisive." Example, what you want to eat, I dunno what do you want to eat?"...That's not Masculine. Middle of podcast: "My Daddy says, never date a man who lacks sense of direction. Example: Driving, and unsure on how to get to the destination and uses phone to navigate."...That's not Masculine. End of podcast: "Women love when a man can be humble, transparent, and considerate to show that they don't know and seeks the woman's opinion & expertise...This is being Masculine and Not Weak. Str8 Contradictions. Fellas, it simple..."Do you, Be you. Choose the most attractive woman that is accepting of that and is attracted to you."...These women will confuse you, with their inherent confusion.
Three different opinions from people living three different lives. It’s not rocket science tho. A man can generally lack direction in life or he can be decisive about his vision for it. If he’s with a woman who is resourceful… There’s nothing wrong with seeking her opinion when he’s not sure what to do. What contradiction?
@@jennybthick Girl, read it right! he is talking about the statement of the girls!... You girls are truly like kids broh! Don't even know what's happening in this conversation!! I'm gonna ask you a favor! Don't ever, ever! Get again into a man's conversation! "If you get your butt in you might get out screwed" Thanks!
So my wife was married to a nice guy like myself, what's the divorce happened she ended up with a guy she had to drive around no car live with their mother and had issues, and then got a domestic violence case, the other guy couldn't even take her to Caribbean islands. But now someone really appreciates my nice self
You weren’t a nice guy you were a man. Stop letting these podcasts and labels describe you. The shit only exist in America. A man do for his wife. If he’s unappreciative God will remove them from your life 1 way or another.
Nice guy, good man, decent man all mean the same thing. Weak man, simp, push over mean the same thing. These women need to be honest they want players and criminals not decent men.
I think the split is like 80/20. 80% of the time women will choose the option that is attractive, in the present, but detrimental to their wellbeing in the future and 20% of the time they will choose the option that's best suited for them now and potentially in the future, so it matters not if women want a nice guy or not because 80% of the time, they will pick whatever is worst for them. Just remember that "a laundry list of regrets" was created by a woman.
Hearing Jenny say she doesn’t like borderline fuckboys but don’t quite understand what a “nice guys” is let’s me know this is a conversation for the men I’m sorry ladies lol
I’ve been a kind a gentle man most of my life. I was raised to respect and go above and beyond for a woman that I wanted to build a relationship with. I don’t like to argue I love my peace. And I didn’t pull many women, and or couldn’t keep a woman. It’s when I grew a pair and stop going above and beyond. I got more buns than a barbecue. It felt bad to treat women bad and ultimately went back to my old ways. Soon after became a friend zone champ to the women I wanted to be with. Ironically when I’m not nice they don’t fuck with me they call me mean and I’ve changed. The balance is unbalanced. Ultimately just be with someone that wants to be with you, no matter how your personality is rather your nice or masculine. These mind games are crazy. When I’m out in the friend zone I let the woman know that men just don’t do all the things we’re doing for you because we are your friend, we do these things for women we want to be with. I’ve been a push over and I recognized all my failed relationships because I was too nice! To check off 95% of a woman’s box but she won’t take u serious because she is not attracted to you but can still be around you, do all the things you would do in a relationship besides any physical contact or physical attraction messed up my mental so bad that I didn’t think I was good enough for any woman. I felt so ugly confidence gone, and the reality of situations I knew what was going on and I chose to continue being there as a friend knowing I wanted more and I hurt me, but I do hold myself accountable for it all. Moral of the story is don’t be friends with a woman that don’t want you. Just be strong and move on before it’s too late.
Glad that I’m no longer the nice guy. Every woman has a type. Preference is preference and compatibility is everything. I will never be with a woman with low and fake interest. Women will always make it easy for the men they want, while making it hard as hell for the men that aren’t their type and don’t want. If a woman is telling you to “apply pressure”, she doesn’t like you and wants you to do all of the pursuing and proving yourself to her while she does the bare minimum in return. I will never date or court a woman that ain’t mine. Period
As a host you need to stop cutting the other guest off, interjecting when they are speaking and trying to hijack their line of thought. It is difficult for the listener to stay focused when there is so much chaos on the mic. One mic at a time should be the rule. I used to listen all the time and stopped bc of this very reason. I came back today to give it a shot months later and yet again the same issues. She just hasn't learned to chill out and when somebody else is speaking to fall back until they are done and wait her turn.
I mean they are modern girls, they have very bad issues with having manners and respecting anyone or anything! The only thing they respect is lust and things that are gonna reward them with something for them to be respectful, they don't respect because they have to, they do it when it benefits them, NEW GIRLS ARE NOT HUMBLE!! They are horrible creatures, they are not human anymore and they are of the devil!! She won't change that habbit until she is fcked for real in life! And the more sad thing of all of this, is that they think they really deserve something! They should be giving thanks to God for at least breathing 'cause they don't even deserve that! And They know! :v But they are so demonic that they don't care!
Yep..."Nice guys finish last..." is a saying for a reason. Dude was speaking straight facts and the women say he's wrong even though they are living examples of everything he said.
Being a nice guy and a fool are 2 different Men. A nice guy is respected by his Family, his woman, his child(ren), his peers and his city. A fool doesn’t get any respect and his used and abused
@ - you’re missing the point the word “Nice” has become a proxy for sucker or lame…..what do women say when their rejecting a dude “I mean he’s a nice guy but…..” lol
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy..???
In most cases it is the result of being raised in a single parent home ran by your mom. She telling him to be a gentleman and realizing these days you can't be one but more of a jerk. Also I think women need to communicate more to that man and say I need you to be more assertive if he can't get there then move on.
*what the black guy was trying to explain is -there's two types of guys a "NICE GUY & A GOOD GUY"* Here's an example of the difference: A woman says her car won't start and she thinks she may needs a new battery, The NICE GUY without her asking will go buy her a new battery and install for her, the GOOD GUY will say well if you buy a new battery I'll help you install it! That's the difference between a NICE GUY & A GOOD GUY!
Uhh...maybe I'm reading THIS wrong...but it sounds like your statement is an indictment against the foundation of the relationship (marriage). To me (forgive me?), "safe dude" = guy she settled for, that she REALLY isn't thoroughly attracted to, that probably has resources, but not much else. On the other hand, "she doesn't have competition" = a woman that is so full of herself that she fails to realize that EVERY woman has competition. That her SMV (sexual market value) is so much higher than yours that you couldn't possibly qualify to get on another woman's radar (at her level?). Then, gets angry when the waitress makes too much eye contact and/or smiles too much. I think THIS is the very reason the brother in this video stresses "I'm NOT a nice guy". Nice = "safe" also equals simp/sucker. I admonish you brother - love your wife, but don't be the "safe" dude (if by my explanation - THAT'S what you mean...). 🤴🏿🖤🙏🏾
I have always been a GOOD GUY. That may translate to women as NICE GUY or Weak Guy. U can't tell nowadays, but I have had to raise my voice or make my point occasionally. When it's constantly it's OVER! 😂
I would agree don’t be a passive or weak man. There are a lot of fed up good men done with the games (not nice guys)hence the dating drought. The term nice guy is usually a stereotype that people use to label level, stable and respectable men that they don’t want in that point of their lives still trying to fit square pegs into holes. Six pulling out the friend zone file just about explains it. Women love to leave them collecting dust in the Amazon wishlist. Women sometimes aren’t ready to commit to the real work of entertaining and connecting with good people. They know some men are good people with good intentions but too fear the peace, stability, and commitment. They run back once they get dragged and sick of taking Ls in the streets. Good men don’t claim to be nice guys, they’re just doing their best version of evolving with NO button that still works on women. Women better be careful. Bet you Jenny’s so called nice guy probably got snatched up. Good people some too aren’t automatically your person. It about life space timing for most. We’re just in a lazy, superficial and selfish era now. We so gotta get back to love ❤. Too many didn’t get enough or the healthy type growing up. Sick and sad we have conflict/confusion with a man being nice/good until after they encounter that bad. Great conversation. I second the motion for a part 2.
There are levels to this. Words have different meanings to different people. You can't fight nature. If you are nice and agreeable maybe don't date a ":strong black women". Its ok. You are perfect as you are. Don't let these outside women ruin your confidence. There are women who will get down with your program, whatever that may be.
Men get in trouble today for being masculine. Be assertive and it harrassment, tell a chic not do something its controlling, etc. Men today are going to jail for being masculine, so what do you women expect? Cant have your cake and eat it too, pick one.
Fellas if you can just get a couple females. Regardless of what you want we are in uncharted territory. Women are 30+ with a teenagers mindset. Safe the stress
I served my country, appreciate values, abide by federal government laws for a life time. I'm not a nice guy but a woman tried to put me under PTSD and the VA ain't falling for it for her paycheck. Especially out of 365 days a year, she only seen me 3 times after her asking me for an engagement a year ago and provided no support. I feel suspended from getting p&#@y.
The host is very contradicting in how she views dating and courting. She says she requires a date and to court her but at the same time playing the game and using men for their wallet when she's not interested. Nahh she gotta go!
why are you walking over your man? what is wrong with you that makes you behave this way? why would you want to? and why wouldn't you want to change your poor behavior
There is a difference between a nice guy and a good man a Nice guy cant say no he needs validation to feel accepted so he says yes to everything damn near a woman wants a good man has boundaries and know when to say no he doesn't care about to validation but he cares about his discipline and character about him self he teaches the woman he's with and others around him he has standerds
So basically she scared of nice guys because he doesn't look like the guys she likes the most that don't care just go in and leave and go the next girl to do the same thing so let her go to the next guy daily... That's nasty 🤢🤮 No guy wants a girl that's ran through and ruined to much She doesn't sick of it until she gets sick from it... Thanks for this video...
Fellas when you court a woman doesn’t mean with your wallet. Take the asses outside to get fresh air places like carnivals, picnics or walks down by the lake.
Azare, while we appreciate the passion with which you give men the proclamation of being masculine, lets not forget being that has been demonized socially for at least the last 10yrs, and alot of women "you included" adopted a feminist extremist mindset or aura at the very least. Add to that we are comming off the tail end of the me 2 movement years. make sure to address that as a disclaimer.
I laugh 😂, women explaining this information for the last 30 years. They think the explanation means something to US. That's why this relationship stuff is SO over.
First and foremost……love the show the authenticity of it…..do not take this the wrong way….Im a man but I have to be honest…..u too touchy 19 years says dont get too comfortable she will use it against u when she feel like it I COULD BE WRONG BUT I AM HARDLY…..u too comfortable and it goes both ways ijs do you but from experience stop while u ahead….I can careless but if u smart u will listen not hear me but do you they can be so petty at will and u mean nothing by it it is innocent until its not
I’m 8 minutes in and so far they each have different ideas of a “nice guy”. This is so far VERY unproductive. Hopefully that changes soon or I’m out on this episode
12 minutes in and they still don’t have a definition yet. Come on now. Let’s understand what each person means by a “nice guy” and finally get somewhere 😂
Okay. Over 13 minutes in and we have one definition. Dude says “nice guys” are simps with extreme simp like behaviors. That’s a strange definition but okay. We finally have ONE definition
Okay. 22 minutes in and dude is so insistent on his definition of what a nice guy is it’s annoying. The girls have no chance to describe their definition they just let bro yap like a broad. I guess that’s the end of the podcast for me. See you on the next one
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy....???
@11:50 minutes I used to come in the from work and put my keys and wallet in a certain spot every day. Then sometimes I started putting them somewhere else. Sometimes take a shower at different times. My wife said I'm changing my routine I'm acting different I must be cheating Sheeessh . I told her Don't be trying to predict what I do
The problem with the nice guy is the women taking advantage of him. Treat ppl how you wanna be treated. Some women treat men how they would hate for another woman to treat their brother or son .
@@jennybthick some things are contradictory. These two are. If u get a decisive man, chances are he won't see your input often. If you get a man that seeks your input, chances are that's already his default and he will always seek you council.
Thought this was an interesting topic but honestly don't think I can get through this podcast. The woman in the middle just loves to hear herself speak. Too much output not enough reception..
alot of men and women have issues with reading a room or with dating signals bc not everyone going to be upfront w/ you about their interest in you. look for signs of interest, especially ones where a person is being too friendly with you, everyone knows when someone is just being nice vs too friendly.
No he is correct!! Nice and predictably don't work for the modern day women. A man that gives them that stimulation of confusion keeps them on their toes cause now this man becomes a project for them.
Nice guys should only gravitate to nice women, and vice versa. All women don’t want an asshole, and vice versa. This conversation is basically focused on generalities. Honestly speaking, he’s mostly right about being a nice guy. What he’s not saying is that a fool will fall for a woman’s rhetoric, a nice guy is not a fool, he sees life in a different aspect than an asshole
I know why you all are so confused. The real problem sets in when the slang or pop lenguage gets into the use of the word on the daily basis. So we have in the times of my Grand Father that a "Nice Guy" was the guy that has the excellency of all realms of human endeavor therefore he was strong, fast, intelligent, altruist, kind, acertive, a gentleman, know how to fight, one of the best lawyers in the city, governor and also very lovely with my granny!! The problem with today's society as it is so corrupted, is that we are using words that describes the opposite of what we are actually linguistically saying (Translating it from the dictionary it is suppose to be a bad meaning for the word) Example: He is a bad guy!! (To express he is good or nice, or cool) -The meaning of the lenguage is totally distorted. So now the good words mean poor things, like NICE GUYS!! Now it sounds disgusting, but wtf!! In my times the bad guys were in f*** Jail for a reason! For corruption!! She is a bad Btch!! WTF? In my times that was totally disgusting to even look at those kind of girls! (Grandpa Said) And ON TOP OF THAT!!! We have losers all over the place thinking being a "Nice Guy" = SIMP (On the real meaning) it is to being good!! Wtf? that Is to give away your dignity. That is not a nice guy. That is a person that has lost all of his Principles! We called them Dumbs back then... now the good is the bad, the bad is the good. And you girls forgot the simplest thing you could've done for having the best life ever. THE SIMPLEST THING!! Stay at home!
So, yes girls you are right a nice guy is like the man you have beside you, but as we have to adapt to the new normal... I gonna call him a PIMP!!... :v BOOOM! CHAKaLAKA!!
Dey really need me up on this podcast they do intense n not happy all this femininity or masculine if it's in you it's be your self if u nice I nice of you tough be tough if I want love be love just be you because
Jenny missed the nuance of 6's boarder line F' Boy comment. She took it too literal (and equates F'Boy to womanizer, cheater, etc), and was overthinking it 6 was talking about the other aspects and it went totally over her head. Trust that your "Male" Co-Host knows what he is talking about (and by the way he was looking at her as she said "nuh uh") im sure he knows she does like em like that to a certain degree...cause they all do
Fellas: There is not a damn thing wrong with being a nice man. There is nothing wrong with being a kind man; there is nothing wrong with being a good man...
Do not be weak; do not be a simp; do not be unsure of yourself with women; never and I mean never, let a women even hint that they have settled for you.
Be a good man! Love genuinely! Take care of business and stand on your word!
Dont be a nice guy. Noone wants a mascline woman either.
I agree so many women be mistaken peaceful for boring women be putting themselves in bad situations with men that are foolish and manipulative. Now women are complaining about men not approaching them on another show older average modern women are complaining men aren't going into clubs to pursue them for a relationship. The other day more older women are looking for a nice guy to build a serious committed relationship into marriage? Some with kids looking for men with no kids to be obligated to be stepfather's fitting the bill for another man's kids and irresponsibly.
@EricGarrett-s5s you nailed it. It's all messed up.
with most females only a kind man is a mate characteristic...a "nice" man is generally associated with weak, beta, friend-zone, non-attractive. and that is the mistake most men make from adolescence to manhood. No one ever draws the line in the sand for us and tells us that. Everything else you said is spot on though.
With most women of any age only a (kind man) is a mate characteristic...a "nice" man is generally associated with weak, beta, friend-zone, non-attractive. What's the difference between Kind and Nice? Thats easy. When you are nice you always have time or make time for them no matter if you benefit or not. Nice will put up Blinds or Help them move basically any sort of time or effort sacrifice is "NICE". Kind will call back when you say you will call back. Kind is just being respectful, of them and yourself. Not being told/shown the difference is the mistake most men make from adolescence to manhood. No one ever draws the line in the sand for us and tells us that. Everything else you said is spot on though.
Fellas remember STOP feeding these birds 🐦 and giving them validation I’m just saying
Woman don’t friend nice guys. They friend zone the guy there less attracted too plain and simple. You can be nice, masculine and confident at the same time
Exactly
Women gaslight men and say they want a man to be nice. They don't. They like chaos. Men stand your ground and don't over adjust anything you are doing for a woman. If you are that guy to her, she will adjust and follow
All women like a lvl of chaos
What a crazy world we live in when a man who desires a stable relationship who wants to love and respect his woman is seen as soft. The whole panel is twisted and don’t know who they are. They need Jesus. REAL TALK!
Scary thing, when you get hit with the reality of what these clowns 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 bring to the table, you wake TF up very quickly.
Don't worry about what women say because even Tupac got the "Too Nice" label changed into what women flocked too and ended up dead at a very young age.
Beginning of podcast: "Women hate men that appear indecisive." Example, what you want to eat, I dunno what do you want to eat?"...That's not Masculine.
Middle of podcast: "My Daddy says, never date a man who lacks sense of direction. Example: Driving, and unsure on how to get to the destination and uses phone to navigate."...That's not Masculine.
End of podcast: "Women love when a man can be humble, transparent, and considerate to show that they don't know and seeks the woman's opinion & expertise...This is being Masculine and Not Weak.
Str8 Contradictions.
Fellas, it simple..."Do you, Be you. Choose the most attractive woman that is accepting of that and is attracted to you."...These women will confuse you, with their inherent confusion.
❤
Exactly, to take it a step further no woman can tell me how to be a man.
Three different opinions from people living three different lives. It’s not rocket science tho. A man can generally lack direction in life or he can be decisive about his vision for it. If he’s with a woman who is resourceful… There’s nothing wrong with seeking her opinion when he’s not sure what to do. What contradiction?
@@jamarrallen2181 Broh! ¬¬ Only a man can teach a man how to be a man!! You are right!! They can't tell you!!
@@jennybthick Girl, read it right! he is talking about the statement of the girls!... You girls are truly like kids broh! Don't even know what's happening in this conversation!! I'm gonna ask you a favor! Don't ever, ever! Get again into a man's conversation! "If you get your butt in you might get out screwed" Thanks!
So my wife was married to a nice guy like myself, what's the divorce happened she ended up with a guy she had to drive around no car live with their mother and had issues, and then got a domestic violence case, the other guy couldn't even take her to Caribbean islands. But now someone really appreciates my nice self
You weren’t a nice guy you were a man. Stop letting these podcasts and labels describe you. The shit only exist in America. A man do for his wife. If he’s unappreciative God will remove them from your life 1 way or another.
Nice ain't weak. They usually figure this out at 60.
Nice guy, good man, decent man all mean the same thing. Weak man, simp, push over mean the same thing. These women need to be honest they want players and criminals not decent men.
U lost bruther
@@ajhandsome01 How so? LOL.
Treat em mean to keep em keen. Stay toxic, kings 🤴
I think the split is like 80/20. 80% of the time women will choose the option that is attractive, in the present, but detrimental to their wellbeing in the future and 20% of the time they will choose the option that's best suited for them now and potentially in the future, so it matters not if women want a nice guy or not because 80% of the time, they will pick whatever is worst for them. Just remember that "a laundry list of regrets" was created by a woman.
When you get to your late 30s and 40s who the hell wants chaos and emotional instability smh
They think they’ll look young forever
Hearing Jenny say she doesn’t like borderline fuckboys but don’t quite understand what a “nice guys” is let’s me know this is a conversation for the men I’m sorry ladies lol
I’ve been a kind a gentle man most of my life. I was raised to respect and go above and beyond for a woman that I wanted to build a relationship with. I don’t like to argue I love my peace. And I didn’t pull many women, and or couldn’t keep a woman. It’s when I grew a pair and stop going above and beyond. I got more buns than a barbecue. It felt bad to treat women bad and ultimately went back to my old ways. Soon after became a friend zone champ to the women I wanted to be with. Ironically when I’m not nice they don’t fuck with me they call me mean and I’ve changed. The balance is unbalanced. Ultimately just be with someone that wants to be with you, no matter how your personality is rather your nice or masculine. These mind games are crazy. When I’m out in the friend zone I let the woman know that men just don’t do all the things we’re doing for you because we are your friend, we do these things for women we want to be with. I’ve been a push over and I recognized all my failed relationships because I was too nice! To check off 95% of a woman’s box but she won’t take u serious because she is not attracted to you but can still be around you, do all the things you would do in a relationship besides any physical contact or physical attraction messed up my mental so bad that I didn’t think I was good enough for any woman. I felt so ugly confidence gone, and the reality of situations I knew what was going on and I chose to continue being there as a friend knowing I wanted more and I hurt me, but I do hold myself accountable for it all. Moral of the story is don’t be friends with a woman that don’t want you. Just be strong and move on before it’s too late.
Glad that I’m no longer the nice guy. Every woman has a type. Preference is preference and compatibility is everything. I will never be with a woman with low and fake interest. Women will always make it easy for the men they want, while making it hard as hell for the men that aren’t their type and don’t want. If a woman is telling you to “apply pressure”, she doesn’t like you and wants you to do all of the pursuing and proving yourself to her while she does the bare minimum in return. I will never date or court a woman that ain’t mine. Period
#preach
Lol😂
they be gaslighting the nice guys to the 20th power
As a host you need to stop cutting the other guest off, interjecting when they are speaking and trying to hijack their line of thought. It is difficult for the listener to stay focused when there is so much chaos on the mic. One mic at a time should be the rule. I used to listen all the time and stopped bc of this very reason. I came back today to give it a shot months later and yet again the same issues. She just hasn't learned to chill out and when somebody else is speaking to fall back until they are done and wait her turn.
I mean they are modern girls, they have very bad issues with having manners and respecting anyone or anything! The only thing they respect is lust and things that are gonna reward them with something for them to be respectful, they don't respect because they have to, they do it when it benefits them, NEW GIRLS ARE NOT HUMBLE!! They are horrible creatures, they are not human anymore and they are of the devil!! She won't change that habbit until she is fcked for real in life! And the more sad thing of all of this, is that they think they really deserve something! They should be giving thanks to God for at least breathing 'cause they don't even deserve that! And They know! :v But they are so demonic that they don't care!
NAH NUCCA..PAY BETTER ATTENTION..NIKKA I GOT A BALD HEAD
@jesus4lyfe00 bruh 😂
:v whatever im going to the gym!!... christ is king!... :v bye!
Yep..."Nice guys finish last..." is a saying for a reason. Dude was speaking straight facts and the women say he's wrong even though they are living examples of everything he said.
Nice guys don't finish last, they don't even get in the race....lol.
Being a nice guy and a fool are 2 different Men. A nice guy is respected by his Family, his woman, his child(ren), his peers and his city. A fool doesn’t get any respect and his used and abused
@ - you’re missing the point the word “Nice” has become a proxy for sucker or lame…..what do women say when their rejecting a dude “I mean he’s a nice guy but…..” lol
@@knowEgo the term nice is used out of context. A fool is the real word for Sucka or lame
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy..???
In most cases it is the result of being raised in a single parent home ran by your mom. She telling him to be a gentleman and realizing these days you can't be one but more of a jerk. Also I think women need to communicate more to that man and say I need you to be more assertive if he can't get there then move on.
We are in a generation where everyone just say the same thing the next person says. It’s way more followers than leaders.
THANK YOU…
If this man say he a plum one more time 😭😂
My boy was cooking! PART 2 ASAP!!
Women ruin men 🤷🏽♂️ because of their confusion
Women ain't been right since Eve.
Real talk,l wish she would've never bitten of that fruit.
Say it again brother amen 🤣
That last part she said about the girl not liking you was fire 🔥
Which part?
A collab between them and Tonight’s Conversation would be dope
Tonight's conversation is way too chaotic and pandering.
*what the black guy was trying to explain is -there's two types of guys a "NICE GUY & A GOOD GUY"*
Here's an example of the difference: A woman says her car won't start and she thinks she may needs a new battery,
The NICE GUY without her asking will go buy her a new battery and install for her, the GOOD GUY will say well if you buy a new battery I'll help you install it!
That's the difference between a NICE GUY & A GOOD GUY!
Lol you say the "black guy" as if there isn't but one black guy on the podcast like TF? 😂😂😂😂
@ lol…IDK that MF might be Dominican or Puerto Rican 😂😂😂😂
It took these women 15 min of this man explaining what a nice guy vs a good guy is this is crazy lol. Everybody should know this by now
Now, what is a woman 😂😂
Facts. The reason im married now is because im the "safe" dude and she knows she doesn't have competition.
Uhh...maybe I'm reading THIS wrong...but it sounds like your statement is an indictment against the foundation of the relationship (marriage). To me (forgive me?), "safe dude" = guy she settled for, that she REALLY isn't thoroughly attracted to, that probably has resources, but not much else.
On the other hand, "she doesn't have competition" = a woman that is so full of herself that she fails to realize that EVERY woman has competition. That her SMV (sexual market value) is so much higher than yours that you couldn't possibly qualify to get on another woman's radar (at her level?). Then, gets angry when the waitress makes too much eye contact and/or smiles too much.
I think THIS is the very reason the brother in this video stresses "I'm NOT a nice guy". Nice = "safe" also equals simp/sucker. I admonish you brother - love your wife, but don't be the "safe" dude (if by my explanation - THAT'S what you mean...). 🤴🏿🖤🙏🏾
YOU the sucka guy. You were last choice. Don't EVER brag about being the safe guy. You're not respected among men.
I have always been a GOOD GUY. That may translate to women as NICE GUY or Weak Guy. U can't tell nowadays, but I have had to raise my voice or make my point occasionally. When it's constantly it's OVER! 😂
Its hard being a Man sometimes maybe because i love peace in my life
I’ve been the nice guy, IT DOESNT WORK
That's why when certain things happen to them, i feel no sorrow, nor will ever again offer any assistance.
Same here
That’s why you don’t pay women no attention
Sounds like he acts like the bad boy so she don't get bored and treat hummlike the good guy
I’m not a nice guy….. I’m a MAN!!!
Men are who we are. We aren’t nice tho.
So women want equity, equality, and say in a relationship, but want to be dominated. This is too much. Get your passports.
Get your passports and go where?!😮
@@shopwood8010anywhere but here
@@shopwood8010Anywhere outside of North America
Where do you think?😂😂😂😂
I would agree don’t be a passive or weak man. There are a lot of fed up good men done with the games (not nice guys)hence the dating drought. The term nice guy is usually a stereotype that people use to label level, stable and respectable men that they don’t want in that point of their lives still trying to fit square pegs into holes. Six pulling out the friend zone file just about explains it. Women love to leave them collecting dust in the Amazon wishlist. Women sometimes aren’t ready to commit to the real work of entertaining and connecting with good people. They know some men are good people with good intentions but too fear the peace, stability, and commitment. They run back once they get dragged and sick of taking Ls in the streets. Good men don’t claim to be nice guys, they’re just doing their best version of evolving with NO button that still works on women. Women better be careful. Bet you Jenny’s so called nice guy probably got snatched up. Good people some too aren’t automatically your person. It about life space timing for most. We’re just in a lazy, superficial and selfish era now. We so gotta get back to love ❤. Too many didn’t get enough or the healthy type growing up. Sick and sad we have conflict/confusion with a man being nice/good until after they encounter that bad. Great conversation. I second the motion for a part 2.
Women struggle with reality
this is true. The movie playing in their heads override all else.
There are levels to this. Words have different meanings to different people. You can't fight nature. If you are nice and agreeable maybe don't date a ":strong black women". Its ok. You are perfect as you are. Don't let these outside women ruin your confidence. There are women who will get down with your program, whatever that may be.
They know, they just know how bad it looks and sounds in reality so they pretend and play victim to avoid accountability
Men get in trouble today for being masculine. Be assertive and it harrassment, tell a chic not do something its controlling, etc. Men today are going to jail for being masculine, so what do you women expect? Cant have your cake and eat it too, pick one.
Fellas if you can just get a couple females. Regardless of what you want we are in uncharted territory. Women are 30+ with a teenagers mindset. Safe the stress
30+? Even after 40 they never grow up.
I served my country, appreciate values, abide by federal government laws for a life time. I'm not a nice guy but a woman tried to put me under PTSD and the VA ain't falling for it for her paycheck. Especially out of 365 days a year, she only seen me 3 times after her asking me for an engagement a year ago and provided no support. I feel suspended from getting p&#@y.
The host is very contradicting in how she views dating and courting. She says she requires a date and to court her but at the same time playing the game and using men for their wallet when she's not interested. Nahh she gotta go!
why are you walking over your man? what is wrong with you that makes you behave this way? why would you want to? and why wouldn't you want to change your poor behavior
The lady in the middle I feel like she lying😂
There is a difference between a nice guy and a good man a Nice guy cant say no he needs validation to feel accepted so he says yes to everything damn near a woman wants a good man has boundaries and know when to say no he doesn't care about to validation but he cares about his discipline and character about him self he teaches the woman he's with and others around him he has standerds
Nice is not equal to weak 👈🏾🧠
So basically she scared of nice guys because he doesn't look like the guys she likes the most that don't care just go in and leave and go the next girl to do the same thing so let her go to the next guy daily...
That's nasty 🤢🤮
No guy wants a girl that's ran through and ruined to much
She doesn't sick of it until she gets sick from it...
Thanks for this video...
Love This Podcast, all the way from South Africa🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🔥💯💯💯🙌🏻
WE LOVE YOU, THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT.
@10:18 minutes
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Ain't no man that consistent. This a Disney movie Lifetime fantasy . Women have in their delulu head
And women are consistent? I think not
@@justsaying5633they def will consistently be themselves
@@justsaying5633 its not about the females consistency to males though
Fellas when you court a woman doesn’t mean with your wallet. Take the asses outside to get fresh air places like carnivals, picnics or walks down by the lake.
Yeah yall was cooking on this one. Part 2 please!
Bars🍫yall are on point fasho
Azare, while we appreciate the passion with which you give men the proclamation of being masculine, lets not forget being that has been demonized socially for at least the last 10yrs, and alot of women "you included" adopted a feminist extremist mindset or aura at the very least. Add to that we are comming off the tail end of the me 2 movement years. make sure to address that as a disclaimer.
I laugh 😂, women explaining this information for the last 30 years. They think the explanation means something to US. That's why this relationship stuff is SO over.
34:14 is a true gem
First and foremost……love the show the authenticity of it…..do not take this the wrong way….Im a man but I have to be honest…..u too touchy 19 years says dont get too comfortable she will use it against u when she feel like it I COULD BE WRONG BUT I AM HARDLY…..u too comfortable and it goes both ways ijs do you but from experience stop while u ahead….I can careless but if u smart u will listen not hear me but do you they can be so petty at will and u mean nothing by it it is innocent until its not
5:35 ‼️‼️‼️ I’m boring baby I make money n go home 😅… nothing wrong with that fellas. Know ya worth
Women don’t like nice guys but watch what happens when they push you to your brink and you end up cussing them out/telling them about themselves
😂😂😂its a different from being nice to someone and just being dumb
I’m 8 minutes in and so far they each have different ideas of a “nice guy”. This is so far VERY unproductive. Hopefully that changes soon or I’m out on this episode
12 minutes in and they still don’t have a definition yet. Come on now. Let’s understand what each person means by a “nice guy” and finally get somewhere 😂
Okay. Over 13 minutes in and we have one definition. Dude says “nice guys” are simps with extreme simp like behaviors. That’s a strange definition but okay. We finally have ONE definition
Okay. 22 minutes in and dude is so insistent on his definition of what a nice guy is it’s annoying. The girls have no chance to describe their definition they just let bro yap like a broad. I guess that’s the end of the podcast for me. See you on the next one
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy....???
These people sound absolutely horrible.
Nothing wrong with being a nice guy just find a woman that reciprocates interest
@11:50 minutes
I used to come in the from work and put my keys and wallet in a certain spot every day. Then sometimes I started putting them somewhere else. Sometimes take a shower at different times.
My wife said I'm changing my routine
I'm acting different
I must be cheating
Sheeessh .
I told her Don't be trying to predict what I do
The problem with the nice guy is the women taking advantage of him. Treat ppl how you wanna be treated. Some women treat men how they would hate for another woman to treat their brother or son .
So, be decisive and make decisions but ALSO come to me for advice and ask me for help…🤦🏿
Two things can be true. 😊
@@jennybthick that’s true, but THOSE two can’t
@@jennybthick some things are contradictory. These two are. If u get a decisive man, chances are he won't see your input often. If you get a man that seeks your input, chances are that's already his default and he will always seek you council.
& they wonder why passport bro is a thing.
Smh... yall don't even know what a nice guy is
MIC DROP 🎤
Great video
Thought this was an interesting topic but honestly don't think I can get through this podcast. The woman in the middle just loves to hear herself speak. Too much output not enough reception..
alot of men and women have issues with reading a room or with dating signals bc not everyone going to be upfront w/ you about their interest in you. look for signs of interest, especially ones where a person is being too friendly with you, everyone knows when someone is just being nice vs too friendly.
The word "nice" comes from the Latin word nescius, which means "ignorant"
Agreed. However, the context and understanding in which it is used today is not in a negative connotation.
Great conversation
2min in and i couldn’t stomach the bit mouth. ✌🏾
This guy is delusional, I repeat there is nothing wrong with being a nice person. Big difference between confidence and arrogant
No he is correct!! Nice and predictably don't work for the modern day women. A man that gives them that stimulation of confusion keeps them on their toes cause now this man becomes a project for them.
I feel like this guy is really trying to mask some of his insecurities
Glasses is a gold digger she only wants somebody's money
Jen COOKED!!!!
Thanks!!!
i think these woman are hurt. who hurt you??? 😂
6:39 Yeah after they are ran thru. Women only "settle" when the guy they really wanted is married with kids.
28:59 men are fighting an uphill battle
Here is the question. What kind of person uses another? I just don't get it.
Nice guys should only gravitate to nice women, and vice versa. All women don’t want an asshole, and vice versa. This conversation is basically focused on generalities. Honestly speaking, he’s mostly right about being a nice guy. What he’s not saying is that a fool will fall for a woman’s rhetoric, a nice guy is not a fool, he sees life in a different aspect than an asshole
I know why you all are so confused. The real problem sets in when the slang or pop lenguage gets into the use of the word on the daily basis. So we have in the times of my Grand Father that a "Nice Guy" was the guy that has the excellency of all realms of human endeavor therefore he was strong, fast, intelligent, altruist, kind, acertive, a gentleman, know how to fight, one of the best lawyers in the city, governor and also very lovely with my granny!! The problem with today's society as it is so corrupted, is that we are using words that describes the opposite of what we are actually linguistically saying (Translating it from the dictionary it is suppose to be a bad meaning for the word) Example: He is a bad guy!! (To express he is good or nice, or cool) -The meaning of the lenguage is totally distorted. So now the good words mean poor things, like NICE GUYS!! Now it sounds disgusting, but wtf!! In my times the bad guys were in f*** Jail for a reason! For corruption!! She is a bad Btch!! WTF? In my times that was totally disgusting to even look at those kind of girls! (Grandpa Said) And ON TOP OF THAT!!! We have losers all over the place thinking being a "Nice Guy" = SIMP (On the real meaning) it is to being good!! Wtf? that Is to give away your dignity. That is not a nice guy. That is a person that has lost all of his Principles! We called them Dumbs back then... now the good is the bad, the bad is the good. And you girls forgot the simplest thing you could've done for having the best life ever. THE SIMPLEST THING!! Stay at home!
So, yes girls you are right a nice guy is like the man you have beside you, but as we have to adapt to the new normal... I gonna call him a PIMP!!... :v BOOOM! CHAKaLAKA!!
how can you sit there with the age you have and not know basic biology?
We don’t want that either six
Definitely a lot of woman falling in love with gestures
She cooking right now
I stopped being nice a long time ago!!! I learned the hard way!! I'm a good man, but will switch up to the bad guy real quick!
Dey really need me up on this podcast they do intense n not happy all this femininity or masculine if it's in you it's be your self if u nice I nice of you tough be tough if I want love be love just be you because
19:18
Who tf is choking a lion out??? 🤦🏾♂️
😂😂😂 we gotta start taking mfs mics away fr
Married people speaking on dating is crazy
Jenny missed the nuance of 6's boarder line F' Boy comment. She took it too literal (and equates F'Boy to womanizer, cheater, etc), and was overthinking it 6 was talking about the other aspects and it went totally over her head. Trust that your "Male" Co-Host knows what he is talking about (and by the way he was looking at her as she said "nuh uh") im sure he knows she does like em like that to a certain degree...cause they all do
Jen is FINE ❤
Jen pissing me off yo
Yall sound immature to me