Derek is lucky he is not being forced to pay child support. Some states make men do that even if they are not the parent. His ex wife is a disgusting piece of trash who does not deserve to be treated with any respect and I hope the entire family disowns her. I hate people like her.
Unfortunately, it seems to be a pattern with ALOT of women. Monkey branching with scumbags while they got a good man as an ATM. . BUT it's a good thi g it's a small town .So now everyone knows to stay away from a 2 timing witch that would dupe a good guy into raising a baby from 🚮 . I hope the child the best . The mother , meh, not so much
Im so sorry about that. The trauma from our Mother's passing ( she was buried on my sister's bday) mademy sister totally lose a bday. She always told you she was a year younger than she was.
Fr, what the actual F was their thought process? “This drunk guy is causing a scene, but who can we call to take care of this? I know *a pregnant woman* ”
Thank you for adding an ending sentence to the end of your video. I listen to these videos all the time, as I’m relaxing, resting my eyes, or going to sleep. I love your stories.
Why were YOU called to “fix this”? It’s not your problem to “fix”. Derrick should go for full custody & petition the courts to sever your sister’s parental rights. She obviously can’t make rational or safe decisions & is putting the baby at risk.
NTA. Your sis is suffering the consequences of her own actions and it's not your fault. You tried to help her and she was determined to ruin her life and the life of the guy that she hoped would financially support her and her affair kid. Some would say that it wasn't any of your business but you still would have been perceived as "the bad guy" if you had stayed out of it because then people would have blamed you for allowing your sister to baby trap a nice guy. Her affair partner doesn't deserve any sympathy either. If he'd been a changed man or a decent guy at all, he wouldn't have been messing around w/ a married woman. What OP did spared at least ONE PERSON from years of hurt, financial drain and living a lie and it was the honorable thing to do. It wasn't the easy thing to do, as evidenced by OP's misguided feelings of guilt that she's shared with us here, but the RIGHT thing is rarely the easy thing to do.
Btw: they aren’t his “ex”-inlaws. Because his wife died doesn’t make them “ex” anything. Neither he nor his family are ready to move forward... it seems as if you’ll spend the rest of your life in the shadow of his deceased wife. He needs therapy
Last story: OP is housekeeper with benefits as far as her boyfriend is concerned. I hope she can find someone who actually cares about her in the future. My response to his pathetic crying would be to tell him to grow up and get out.
Story 3: OP is a doormat. She should have broken up with her boyfriend years ago. She has a right to celebrate her birthday. This is downright creepy. Boyfriend is selfish and whiny. OP is kind of like a therapy dog and deserves better than this.
Ironic how parasite says that the gifts will bring out jealousy when clearly she's is jealous and resents op. She wants all the attention on her and op out of the picture. She clearly can't stand sharing the attention and happiness, talk about selfish.
Story 2 - OP and wife need to get more money, they need to get out of mothers house now before things get so bad they split up. The way mum behaves with wife, wonder if wife was responsible for the financial problems.
Story 1 Congratulations on your pregnancy and do not take your sister behaviour to heart ,and she wanted to get attention totally on her or was their something wrong with her pregnancy and she wanted the limelight I think you should not take her behaviour to her deciding she did not want to share the baby shower and she doesn't want you there I think you should understand she jealous of your behaviour, she thinks that you would catch on this is not her husbands baby the reason she going of on her own is she meeting him and is not sure who is the bio father please tell her husband , your mother would not have reacted well he needs a DNA test and a divorce and sadly Tyler going to be a deadbeat father and she going to come whining to you when things go bad
Story 1: OP should simply cut her toxic sister and her child completely out of her life, if OP wants any respect for herself, her child and her husband. OP is also a enabler. Let people strive, suffer, feel, work, face hardships in their life, you don't poke your nose in every detail of their life.
I don’t see the problem she saved a homie from the bs her sister was doing but you would be okay to let a homie rise a child that not his you know that pain like that is worse than death but sure let an innocent man suffer because his girl can’t keep her legs for 5$ a pop
Me and two of my maternal cousins were born around Christmas and my maternal step-grandmother tragically passed on Christmas. However, neither my mother nor my maternal aunt have prevented any of us from celebrating our birthdays despite how heartbroken they were upon losing her. The idea of someone forcing another person to give up and even call them selfish for celebrating their own birthday just because it’s happens to fall in a similar time frame as the death of someone they share no relationship whatsoever to is unbelievably selfish, NTA!
She could have at least invited her own sister. I don’t think her sister was going to do anything. She just wanted to be there to support her and celebrate with her. I would be hurt if my sister did that.
S3 NTA you need to get out of this relationship, your alive and he obviously isn't grieving anymore if your been with him for almost 5 yrs. He's hurting you. Let him continue to love his dead wife and find someone that loves you.
OP sister should’ve told her husband about Tyler the whole ugly truth. You are married to this man you’re about to have a kid this is not something you keep from him and it would’ve been problem but you invited him to your baby shower but you are adopted by anyone who you want to, but really you invite him over your sister
Story 3: What does him being American and her being Asian have to do with ANYTHING?!?! He's a man that needs therapy if he's wanting to move on with a new woman... Being American has absolutely nothing to do with it 🙄🤦🏼♀️
S1 One of the biggest sportsmen of my country and his wife struggled to have a baby. They tried everything. Then they gave up. They stopped going to doctors, treatment etc. They stopped listening to advice. They started enjoying intimacy. The wife realized one day that she was pregnant. 13 years of torture.
Yep, loud and clear. As soon as Op said they had moved in with his mother there was no room for them to complain about anything unless they were paying market rate rent with a formal tenant's lease. As far as them having no other option, what would he do if his mother were dead? Whatever that is, do that, NOW.
@@jakealter5504 There are other kids. They'd probably fight to solely inherit the house or get a larger piece because they deserve it. Also, I'm overweight but, if you come to my house to eat all my food in this economy I'm absolutely calling you a fat ass.
I personally do mind sharing the "spot light" with others. If we are both pregnant lets hold each other up, let's both celebrate and share experiences and mistakes. Everyone dress up for my wedding so everyone feels beautiful, especially since tere will be someone takin professional pictures, that way others can have pictures of themselves looking beautiful. If another woman is wearing something cool or prett, I tell them so. Alk these women preach about woman power yet are.caddy to other women. Us women need to appreciate each other.
A joint baby shower I don’t think the two moms want that I can see some family members doing that that are really close and we’re not jealous but that’s the only way
10. YEARS ?????? OH HELL NO !!!! LEAVE HIM !!!! ALWAYS ON BACK BURNER 4 10. YEAR DEAD. LADY !!!! 10. YEARS ! DAMN ! LEAVE HIM ! HE NEVER THREW YOU A BIRTHDAY 🎂. PARTY 🎉 ???? NEVER ? IN ALL THEM. YEARS ???? HELL NO ! YOU DESERVE ! SO SO SO. MUCH MORE!
BF is taking this to a RIDICULOUS level.. his wife has been gone almost TWELVE YEARS now and he cannot get over it.. DUMP HIM... He never will, you will ALWAYS be second fiddle here. He's nuts, and SO is his family!!
Story 2 You should stay away and leave your mother at a distance and find another place to live she hates your wife,I think you should move as far away as possible and your mother is being totally toxic she wants you out of her house because she doesn't like your wife and you should save everything and get out as soon as possible I think you should get your life together and move out and then you can go NC
Story 2 - OP, you have no value to your boyfriend at all. He's still in love with his RIP wife. Stop wasting your time with this man. Let him figure out what he is going to do his life as a widower on his own. Obviously, being happy with a partner is not part of his plans.
Mom was wrong to try and join up the 2 baby showers. Jealousy will raise it’s ugly head. You guys should not be hooked at the hip. Since she doesn’t want you at the shower, then be sure you go out of town with your husband on a fabulous second honeymoon type of outing before the baby comes. Do not speak of sister or her ex during that weekend get away. Stay out of this toxic problem your sister is involved in. The EX is probably the father of the baby. Just back away
Story 1: I also got the inkling that the sister and their dad who was in fill support of her…maybe sus is a chip off the old block and their dad is in support because he understands her infidelity on a personal level. But need more info as I’m just guessing
Re OP's birthday: OP, you're allowing yourself to be emotionally manipulated......STOP IT!! There isn't a minute or a day in history that someone, somewhere didn't die. The rest of the world goes on with business as usual. The dead people don't care. In fact, if they knew, they'd probably be depressed to see their loved ones that decide to pick one day of the year to be sad in their memory. My Grandma always told us that if we couldn't remember her with laughter, then we shouldn't remember her at all! How does crying over an ancestor honor them more than letting them see us living life and enjoying it, and where does a guy that you're NOT married to yet get off telling you when YOU'RE ALLOWED to enjoy yourself and when you're not?! He is trying to control and gatekeep your emotional state and that's a huge red flag. What's it going to be next? You can only be happy for HIM and you can only be thrilled to be a housewife and mother? Maybe he will want you to dance on a giant beach ball while holding an umbrella, after that and be grateful that he's given you a job to do. OP, learn to honor yourself, before you decide that someone else is so great that they're worth marrying. If this guy looks like marriage material to you, then you REALLY need to raise your standards and that means that you'll need a self- image that reflects confidence in the knowledge that you're worthy of better than this PUTZ.
Also it's stuff like this that makes me 100% believe that paternity test should be mandatory at Birth to make sure that the mom is not pulling the wool over the eyes of a man and passing off someone else's kid as his because as we all know there are hundreds of thousands of women who who lie about the paternity of their child all over the world but most importantly in the West. And America has no precautions against it I believe that when a man is sued for child support the first thing that the state should do is a paternity test on every child to make sure that every child that he is being extorted for by the government is his.
story 3: what will happen to him is that he should go to build a bear because a partner or a person is not what he is looking for in a relationship. OP was just the pillow to cry into.
OH MY GOD THIS OVER USE OF THE WORD BOND AND BONDING, THE TRUE WORD IS BEING A DORRMAT, BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS AND YOUR FAMILY SAY OR TRY TO TELL YOU AS AN ADULT WHAT DO ABOUT TOXIC PEOPLE BY "BONDING"WITH THEM, THEY ARE SAYING BE THE DOORMAT, GET A BACKBONE STAND UP FOR YOURSELF TO YOUR FAMILY
He is only a boyfriend. He is still living in the past. You don’t matter here. Only the deceased person matters. Breaking up at your birthday party would be appropriate It’s not normal for Americans to behave this way about a deceased person. Do not let his tears change your mind. 11 years after the wife’s death is more than a bit excessive. Tell him his parents and in laws will be there to comfort him.
Story 3 I think you should have a little celebration you exist his wife is dead and you are not I think that you are entitled to celebrate your birthday,his being immature and I don't think he should be demanding you cancel your birthday I don't think he ever going to marry you, you are convenient for sex but not marriage so please stop waiting move on a find another partner because you are not being loved
Oh my Lord story one OP sounds beyond obnoxious…..I don’t blame your sister I wouldn’t want to share my pregnancy with her either. The sister cheating is disgusting and just awful, but still OP ick ick ick. Why would you consider staying with a man whose dead wife will always be more then you? Let him go he can wallow at his wife’s grave alone….find someone who actually loves you.
you know their is a saying when somones puts a but after a statmente they dont mean anything before the but its just pandering bullshit you are more obsessed with ego than morals
Story 1: OP and the parents kinda owes Derek an apology for their own indirect part in how he got cheated on. Specifically, how they got this whole mess started in the first place. The sister and Tyler never broke up with each other, they were broken up by others against their wills. So of course they would start seeing each other again behind everyone's back. While the sister is the main villain in how she treated her innocent husband, her family isn't blameless either. They laid the groundwork.
What? How do Op and mom owe Derrick an apology? They didn't know that sister was in contact and cheating with Tyler. OP only found out because of the guest list, and once Op found out that Tyler was in the picture, she told Derrick right away.
Regardless of janice's action, if u are petty enough to nose around and interfere (under the pretence of self-righteousness) into her current life just because u r not invited to a ceremony, may be u DESERVE to be not invited.
Story 1 the minute op said the ex was invited to the baby shower my spider senses started tingling with the thought “I bet the ex is the dad”
Zoinks!
That’s so raven visions oh snap lol
Knew it.
OP saved Derek from the hideous crime that is paternity fraud. Chosing dysfunction over stability is always a mind boggling choice. NTA
Derek is lucky he is not being forced to pay child support. Some states make men do that even if they are not the parent. His ex wife is a disgusting piece of trash who does not deserve to be treated with any respect and I hope the entire family disowns her. I hate people like her.
Unfortunately, it seems to be a pattern with ALOT of women. Monkey branching with scumbags while they got a good man as an ATM. .
BUT it's a good thi g it's a small town .So now everyone knows to stay away from a 2 timing witch that would dupe a good guy into raising a baby from 🚮 . I hope the child the best . The mother , meh, not so much
Oh my goodness, my father died on my birthday. But our family still celebrates my birthday each year.
Im so sorry about that. The trauma from our Mother's passing ( she was buried on my sister's bday) mademy sister totally lose a bday. She always told you she was a year younger than she was.
Why on earth would a relative call pregnant you to come over & “fix this”? Was that relative smoking something?
Fr, what the actual F was their thought process? “This drunk guy is causing a scene, but who can we call to take care of this? I know *a pregnant woman* ”
If he's still mourning his ex wife, he shouldn't be in a relationship. Go find someone else OP.
Thank you for adding an ending sentence to the end of your video. I listen to these videos all the time, as I’m relaxing, resting my eyes, or going to sleep. I love your stories.
In that final story, don't acknowledge HIS birthdays either.
This is my thoughts if she doesn't dump him
How about telling Derek the truth get a DNA test on that baby
Why were YOU called to “fix this”? It’s not your problem to “fix”.
Derrick should go for full custody & petition the courts to sever your sister’s parental rights. She obviously can’t make rational or safe decisions & is putting the baby at risk.
Not his baby. Not his problem.
Why would Derrick want custody over another man's baby? Let the deadbeats handle their own problem.
NTA you did the right thing. Paternity fraud is serious business. Yet another case of mama’s baby, daddy’s maybe.
NTA. Your sis is suffering the consequences of her own actions and it's not your fault. You tried to help her and she was determined to ruin her life and the life of the guy that she hoped would financially support her and her affair kid. Some would say that it wasn't any of your business but you still would have been perceived as "the bad guy" if you had stayed out of it because then people would have blamed you for allowing your sister to baby trap a nice guy.
Her affair partner doesn't deserve any sympathy either. If he'd been a changed man or a decent guy at all, he wouldn't have been messing around w/ a married woman.
What OP did spared at least ONE PERSON from years of hurt, financial drain and living a lie and it was the honorable thing to do. It wasn't the easy thing to do, as evidenced by OP's misguided feelings of guilt that she's shared with us here, but the RIGHT thing is rarely the easy thing to do.
Btw: they aren’t his “ex”-inlaws.
Because his wife died doesn’t make them “ex” anything.
Neither he nor his family are ready to move forward... it seems as if you’ll spend the rest of your life in the shadow of his deceased wife. He needs therapy
Thank you for noting this. My husband died, but I still consider his parents to be my in-laws.
@@janicerc4906 Right. They are. They would only stop being so if you remarried.
Last story: OP is housekeeper with benefits as far as her boyfriend is concerned. I hope she can find someone who actually cares about her in the future. My response to his pathetic crying would be to tell him to grow up and get out.
Story 3: OP is a doormat. She should have broken up with her boyfriend years ago. She has a right to celebrate her birthday. This is downright creepy. Boyfriend is selfish and whiny. OP is kind of like a therapy dog and deserves better than this.
Yeah, I'd never even consider dating a man with a dead ex
Ironic how parasite says that the gifts will bring out jealousy when clearly she's is jealous and resents op. She wants all the attention on her and op out of the picture. She clearly can't stand sharing the attention and happiness, talk about selfish.
LATE WIFE ! GET A CELEBRATION 🎉 ! BUT ALIVE WIFE DONT ????? UNBELIEVABLE !
Story 2 - OP and wife need to get more money, they need to get out of mothers house now before things get so bad they split up. The way mum behaves with wife, wonder if wife was responsible for the financial problems.
Maybe or maybe not ..or maybe the MIL just hates het son's wife?
Would not be the first time
Story one: the sister is a POS, at least Derek dodged a bullet, but her sisters kid is screwed.
HUSBAND ! MUST INSIT ! WIFE NEVER ALLOW ANYONE 2 MISTREAT HER !
Wow she invite the real daddy. What is wrong with the sister? That bil. Poor Derk .
NEVER EVER TELL SISTER TRUE WISHES & WANTS ! SISTER WILL ALWAYS TRY 2 SABOTAGE OR. PURCHASE THINGS YOU WANT 4 BABY 🍼. ONLY TELL SISTER ! EXPENSIVE , STOUPID , UGLY THINGS ! MIGHT WANT ! WATCH SISTER PURCHASE THEM ! OF SPITE
Story 1
Congratulations on your pregnancy and do not take your sister behaviour to heart ,and she wanted to get attention totally on her or was their something wrong with her pregnancy and she wanted the limelight I think you should not take her behaviour to her deciding she did not want to share the baby shower and she doesn't want you there
I think you should understand she jealous of your behaviour, she thinks that you would catch on this is not her husbands baby the reason she going of on her own is she meeting him and is not sure who is the bio father please tell her husband , your mother would not have reacted well he needs a DNA test and a divorce and sadly Tyler going to be a deadbeat father and she going to come whining to you when things go bad
Tell the widower that he should spend more time at the dead wife's grave since he's still married to her in his head.
Story 1: OP should simply cut her toxic sister and her child completely out of her life, if OP wants any respect for herself, her child and her husband. OP is also a enabler. Let people strive, suffer, feel, work, face hardships in their life, you don't poke your nose in every detail of their life.
I don’t see the problem she saved a homie from the bs her sister was doing but you would be okay to let a homie rise a child that not his you know that pain like that is worse than death but sure let an innocent man suffer because his girl can’t keep her legs for 5$ a pop
Me and two of my maternal cousins were born around Christmas and my maternal step-grandmother tragically passed on Christmas. However, neither my mother nor my maternal aunt have prevented any of us from celebrating our birthdays despite how heartbroken they were upon losing her. The idea of someone forcing another person to give up and even call them selfish for celebrating their own birthday just because it’s happens to fall in a similar time frame as the death of someone they share no relationship whatsoever to is unbelievably selfish, NTA!
She could have at least invited her own sister. I don’t think her sister was going to do anything. She just wanted to be there to support her and celebrate with her. I would be hurt if my sister did that.
Skeleton in the closet
Seven years and now you can’t have a birthday? RUN! This family will destroy your self image.
Boy, does she choose the wrong man you cheat on a caring, loving man with an asshole like that Janice deserved everything she got
Story 3, no nta, he's using that as a crutch. You should enjoy your birthday 🎂 and Happy belated Burthday OP 😊🎉❤
Go celebrate your birthday this will go on forever for him
S3 NTA you need to get out of this relationship, your alive and he obviously isn't grieving anymore if your been with him for almost 5 yrs. He's hurting you. Let him continue to love his dead wife and find someone that loves you.
OP sister should’ve told her husband about Tyler the whole ugly truth. You are married to this man you’re about to have a kid this is not something you keep from him and it would’ve been problem but you invited him to your baby shower but you are adopted by anyone who you want to, but really you invite him over your sister
I don't care who paid for the food in my home, no one goes hungry here. I'll feed my worst enemy if they tell me they're hungry.
SISTER HAS ALWAYS HATED YOU & WILL ALWAYS BE EXTREMELY DISRESPECTFUL & JEALOUS 4 LIFE !!!
JANICE WANTED HER MAN AT HIS BABIES SHOWER 🚿 . HE IS BABY 🍼. DADDY
Maybe it was a little stepping over the line, but sometimes you have to do that
DUDE is JANICE BABY 🍼. DADDY. TYLER IS THE FATHER !!
Jane needs to grow up. You are not gonna steal her thunder at her party.
Story 3: What does him being American and her being Asian have to do with ANYTHING?!?! He's a man that needs therapy if he's wanting to move on with a new woman... Being American has absolutely nothing to do with it 🙄🤦🏼♀️
I was thinking this other then some cultural gender rolls. But the BF still mourning ex-wife after 11 plus years, is like dude you need therapy.
Thought the same thing.
S1 One of the biggest sportsmen of my country and his wife struggled to have a baby. They tried everything. Then they gave up. They stopped going to doctors, treatment etc. They stopped listening to advice. They started enjoying intimacy. The wife realized one day that she was pregnant. 13 years of torture.
Story 2. Your mom is making it clear that you guys aren't invited to stay anymore. Leave, asap.
Yep, loud and clear. As soon as Op said they had moved in with his mother there was no room for them to complain about anything unless they were paying market rate rent with a formal tenant's lease. As far as them having no other option, what would he do if his mother were dead? Whatever that is, do that, NOW.
@@shells500tutubo he probably would’ve inherited the house
@@jakealter5504 There are other kids. They'd probably fight to solely inherit the house or get a larger piece because they deserve it. Also, I'm overweight but, if you come to my house to eat all my food in this economy I'm absolutely calling you a fat ass.
@@jakealter5504 But will he still after this drama?
@@robertx8020 probably not considering how bad things are getting
I personally do mind sharing the "spot light" with others. If we are both pregnant lets hold each other up, let's both celebrate and share experiences and mistakes. Everyone dress up for my wedding so everyone feels beautiful, especially since tere will be someone takin professional pictures, that way others can have pictures of themselves looking beautiful. If another woman is wearing something cool or prett, I tell them so. Alk these women preach about woman power yet are.caddy to other women. Us women need to appreciate each other.
A joint baby shower I don’t think the two moms want that I can see some family members doing that that are really close and we’re not jealous but that’s the only way
10. YEARS ?????? OH HELL NO !!!! LEAVE HIM !!!! ALWAYS ON BACK BURNER 4 10. YEAR DEAD. LADY !!!! 10. YEARS ! DAMN ! LEAVE HIM ! HE NEVER THREW YOU A BIRTHDAY 🎂. PARTY 🎉 ???? NEVER ? IN ALL THEM. YEARS ???? HELL NO ! YOU DESERVE ! SO SO SO. MUCH MORE!
BF is taking this to a RIDICULOUS level.. his wife has been gone almost TWELVE YEARS now and he cannot get over it.. DUMP HIM... He never will, you will ALWAYS be second fiddle here. He's nuts, and SO is his family!!
Story 2
You should stay away and leave your mother at a distance and find another place to live she hates your wife,I think you should move as far away as possible and your mother is being totally toxic she wants you out of her house because she doesn't like your wife and you should save everything and get out as soon as possible
I think you should get your life together and move out and then you can go NC
Story 3- Life is for the living. Celebrate your life!
Perhaps Tyler is your sister baby daddy????!!!!!
Story 2 - OP, you have no value to your boyfriend at all. He's still in love with his RIP wife. Stop wasting your time with this man. Let him figure out what he is going to do his life as a widower on his own. Obviously, being happy with a partner is not part of his plans.
Mom was wrong to try and join up the 2 baby showers.
Jealousy will raise it’s ugly head.
You guys should not be hooked at the hip.
Since she doesn’t want you at the shower, then be sure you go out of town with your husband on a fabulous second honeymoon type of outing before the baby comes.
Do not speak of sister or her ex during that weekend get away.
Stay out of this toxic problem your sister is involved in.
The EX is probably the father of the baby.
Just back away
Wrong mate if my wife or gf hides his sister's affairs and helps her trick another man to raise someone's baby. I am done with her
Story 1: I also got the inkling that the sister and their dad who was in fill support of her…maybe sus is a chip off the old block and their dad is in support because he understands her infidelity on a personal level. But need more info as I’m just guessing
Re OP's birthday: OP, you're allowing yourself to be emotionally manipulated......STOP IT!! There isn't a minute or a day in history that someone, somewhere didn't die. The rest of the world goes on with business as usual. The dead people don't care. In fact, if they knew, they'd probably be depressed to see their loved ones that decide to pick one day of the year to be sad in their memory.
My Grandma always told us that if we couldn't remember her with laughter, then we shouldn't remember her at all!
How does crying over an ancestor honor them more than letting them see us living life and enjoying it, and where does a guy that you're NOT married to yet get off telling you when YOU'RE ALLOWED to enjoy yourself and when you're not?! He is trying to control and gatekeep your emotional state and that's a huge red flag.
What's it going to be next? You can only be happy for HIM and you can only be thrilled to be a housewife and mother? Maybe he will want you to dance on a giant beach ball while holding an umbrella, after that and be grateful that he's given you a job to do.
OP, learn to honor yourself, before you decide that someone else is so great that they're worth marrying. If this guy looks like marriage material to you, then you REALLY need to raise your standards and that means that you'll need a self- image that reflects confidence in the knowledge that you're worthy of better than this PUTZ.
Also it's stuff like this that makes me 100% believe that paternity test should be mandatory at Birth to make sure that the mom is not pulling the wool over the eyes of a man and passing off someone else's kid as his because as we all know there are hundreds of thousands of women who who lie about the paternity of their child all over the world but most importantly in the West. And America has no precautions against it I believe that when a man is sued for child support the first thing that the state should do is a paternity test on every child to make sure that every child that he is being extorted for by the government is his.
Story #3 only an AH if you stay with him
story 3: what will happen to him is that he should go to build a bear because a partner or a person is not what he is looking for in a relationship. OP was just the pillow to cry into.
I don’t agree with Opie’s sister’s reasoning, but she’s right, they should have separate parties. Somethings do not need to be shared.
Let me get in to this. 2nd🤫🤭🤣
She’s either started cheating or Tyler is the father of her child. EDIT: TOLD YOU
OH MY GOD THIS OVER USE OF THE WORD BOND AND BONDING, THE TRUE WORD IS BEING A DORRMAT, BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS AND YOUR FAMILY SAY OR TRY TO TELL YOU AS AN ADULT WHAT DO ABOUT TOXIC PEOPLE BY "BONDING"WITH THEM, THEY ARE SAYING BE THE DOORMAT, GET A BACKBONE STAND UP FOR YOURSELF TO YOUR FAMILY
He is only a boyfriend. He is still living in the past. You don’t matter here. Only the deceased person matters. Breaking up at your birthday party would be appropriate It’s not normal for Americans to behave this way about a deceased person. Do not let his tears change your mind. 11 years after the wife’s death is more than a bit excessive. Tell him his parents and in laws will be there to comfort him.
If you’re living in someone’s house, you follow their rules. Moochers.
good lord. stupid baby rabies. they are so bloody annoying
First 🥇🤟🏻 and thank you 💕
Why are you living with your mom? ESH.
Story 3
I think you should have a little celebration you exist his wife is dead and you are not I think that you are entitled to celebrate your birthday,his being immature and I don't think he should be demanding you cancel your birthday I don't think he ever going to marry you, you are convenient for sex but not marriage so please stop waiting move on a find another partner because you are not being loved
Oh my Lord story one OP sounds beyond obnoxious…..I don’t blame your sister I wouldn’t want to share my pregnancy with her either. The sister cheating is disgusting and just awful, but still OP ick ick ick.
Why would you consider staying with a man whose dead wife will always be more then you? Let him go he can wallow at his wife’s grave alone….find someone who actually loves you.
Oh really? Then you support the sister that was cheating on her so with her ex and almost committed paternity fraud?
you know their is a saying when somones puts a but after a statmente they dont mean anything before the but its just pandering bullshit you are more obsessed with ego than morals
Story 1: OP and the parents kinda owes Derek an apology for their own indirect part in how he got cheated on. Specifically, how they got this whole mess started in the first place. The sister and Tyler never broke up with each other, they were broken up by others against their wills. So of course they would start seeing each other again behind everyone's back. While the sister is the main villain in how she treated her innocent husband, her family isn't blameless either. They laid the groundwork.
What? How do Op and mom owe Derrick an apology? They didn't know that sister was in contact and cheating with Tyler. OP only found out because of the guest list, and once Op found out that Tyler was in the picture, she told Derrick right away.
Regardless of janice's action, if u are petty enough to nose around and interfere (under the pretence of self-righteousness) into her current life just because u r not invited to a ceremony, may be u DESERVE to be not invited.
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Eiah. Major AH everybody