For a little girl to ask Jo (someone she's never met before) to come into her room so she could tell her what she was feeling speaks VOLUMES about how much she needed to get that off her chest. Poor girl.
And so quick after she arrived!! Maaaan, huge respect! I felt so bad when she said "I'm just a little girl and i don't know how"! Poor child thinks it's her job to make the family happy...Super sad! ;o;
The way Jo Frost went off on the dad calling him a coward, you can see in her eyes, she was clearly fighting for the children by fixing the root of the problem.
I've watched Joe Frost for years and she doesn't put up with any crap I have seen her get this way with more than one father I mean she's done this with mothers too but mostly with fathers hahaha
When she asks the parents if they are together or not, the man doesn’t seem concerned as if he either believes they go on regardless or he doesn’t care either way. The woman seems utterly angst ridden and still unsure if she wants to chuck it all and start over or if she can forgive and move on as a couple. It’s so painful to watch her try to suffer through to figure it out 💜☮️
Exactly. Society expects woman to be empowered and know how to do everything, well guess what, the same applies to men. He should know how to do his own taxes and manage financial stuff.
Amen Sister 😂 I felt the same way !! I mean after 4 kids and you don't trust her with finances ? Are you kidding me ? This man has a giant ego and it was all his wife's fault he had an affair, Umm I guarantee he was having more fun than his wife was 💯
It makes me so angry to hear parents say they are staying together for the kids. They’re are cowards putting their children through this level of abuse
It's called keeping a family together and working through your problems. There shouldn't be such thing as divorce. That's what's wrong with the world now. Then the streets raise the kids. So yea, they should stay together even if its just for the kids, and that's why Jo is around to help.
@@erikaLS305 honestly, this very much depends on the marriage and how severe the problems are. Staying together for the kids could work but it can also be the downfall of the family or more importantly, gravely effect the children and how they navigate future relationships. Divorce should always exist because whether we like it or not, some problems you cannot work through. Luckily in this case, they were able to work through.
@@RajaArshad-o3uno, they had a threesome. meaning they all theee had sex, and he continued the relationship with the outside woman behind the moms back without permission
@@RajaArshad-o3u Nah, having a threesome doesn't make it a throuple. Sounds like the wife instigated a threesome, and the husband and the other woman continued a relationship behind the wife's back. Nothing wrong with having a threesome, but it's integral that there are appropriate boundaries established beforehand.
Not scream at them. She has every right to express her feelings and tell them how she feels to their faces. I think having the smaller children leave is a good idea just in case things get out of hand.
The father Dave is a narcissist. The oldest daughter being told that she is just like her dad really is destroying her because she doesn't like her dad, therefore she doesn't like herself. But she learned her behavior from him. She needs loving counsel to realize she is Not her dad. But she is a separate individual with her own personality. She is a sweet, beautiful girl.
Exactly, agree with both. And you see how quick the mom switched to avoiding the issue and left her in her room. I was always compared to my dad growing up and I never felt I had a separate personality, when the mom said to the daughter "you could have worded it better" she could have worded "you are your dad".. just a bit better? I get it though, looks like the parents are childish, their mistakes were childish, I can see why they'res so much of a grudge from the older daughter. She's not wrong when she says it'll take time. Sad
I beg to differ. Once I realized that the [primary reason why my Dad and I didn't get along so well was because we were so similar it made a huge difference in our relationship. She is copying him, and he doesn't like seeing his worst traits brought out her. A little counseling may help, but just that realization goes a long way. (BTW I am now 61, and Dad is 88, we get on fine)
I hated what Ashlyn said to Peyton about how she didn't have any friends because no one likes her and she's fat or she going to get fat. Something to that effect. How cruel to say to any child, but your 6 yr old sister is hateful and cruel. That broke my heart for that little girl.
@@Crazycatlady71 Unfortunately in abusive homes, it's common to see someone being abused (in this case Ashlyn by her father) displace their feelings on someone on the lower rung and perpetuate the abuse. It's called the cycle of abuse. When Jo finally had the father apologize for his behavior, I think that helped in terms of stopping Ashlyn in displacing her own anger and taking it out on someone else. Except I don't think the father can be improved in the long run.. because as others have pointed out, he's a narcissist. Ugh.
This is pushing abuse on Ashlyn.... she needs a real apology from her parents. She's been a sponge and soaked up all the chaos and pain. She needs support, not scolding or gaslighting.
This Father is so abusive with his words and name calling... Dumb and stupid words hurt and can break a person's soul. I never never ever ever called my children stupid or any kind of negative words. Insults last forever! Fix it. 😢
So true, I also just noticed that the commitment to therapy she made them sign is actually to work with a domestic violence counsellor not a marriage counsellor
I'm so happy she went off on the dad because he was totally blaming the wife for all the issues going on. He wanted to play the innocent victim and act like he's done nothing wrong but Jo saw right through him and told him how it was.
And that he learned his lesson and was able to improve and be more mature. Jo is incredible for helping him realise what he was doing and for helping him improve his behaviour and therefore his relationships with his family members. We need more people like Jo in the world
She was fuming!!!! And I think in the forefront of her mind at that moment was the little girl had that chat with her. She recognised the dad is a sociopath straightaway and that’s why she said you can’t pull the wool over my eyes
I would assume she might have mentioned it in a scene not shown, or knows that she can't force her to do it like with the parents. Cause if they said no to therapy, she would've 100% walked out as she always says that she "doesn't do try" and if they refuse therapy, they would be refusing her help
That's what I'm saying it's not that she's trying to difficult it's that she's been extremely hurt for a long time no one was there to step in for her at an early age. She suffered that alone that type of anger doesn't go away it's tramua and honestly she'll probably just get better at hiding her feelings.
7:59 okay, after this moment, divorce. There’s no fixing this, especially with the significant lack of respect they have for eachother. There’s no way.
The parents are obviously THE problem but I wish Jo were there when Ashlyn called Peyton fat & said that’s why she has no friends. I know she’s projecting & her language is a learned behavior but I feel sick for Peyton. Sibling abuse is just as damaging as parental abuse, especially with that age gap. Ashlyn needs therapy, too. And I hope Peyton didn’t grow up with an eating disorder hearing that from her big sister, who she probably adores and looks up to… Jesus. Those words stick with someone. This episode was seriously one of the most concerning I’ve seen. I hope those little ones grew up okay.
I wish I could have had someone like Jo intervene with my family when I was young. I know it doesn't do any good to think "what if" but sometimes I just wish so badly I could go back in time and have a different family. I'm no contact because they are awful people
I don’t know how long ago this was but I can’t express enough how important it is to read books at bedtime. Helps with self expression and cognitive growth. Bedtime stories and cuddles are the best.
My brother and I loved it! Some of my best memories are curled up with my parents, reading books. My brother and I each picked one and our mom or dad would pick one. Dang I miss my dad.
I just don't foresee this family coming back from this and making a long term change for the better. I feel like so much irreconcilable damage has been done. My biggest hope is that the eldest daughter learned from their mistakes and will stand up for herself more than her Mom was ever able to. ETA- Jo is absolutely phenomenal in this episode. She's such a force to be reckoned with but does it in a way that makes people want to be a better person. Just a powerhouse!
I agree. This was a 1st for me watching her try to help a couple with their relationship. It seemed more about that, than the children having disciplinary problems.
I think the necklace was the exact opposite of thoughtful. It wasn’t heartfelt but rather the dad trying to portray a certain image to Jo and viewers. I found it extremely slimy tbh.
Who else is cheering at seeing Supernanny a.k.a. Jo Frost dropping the F bomb on this "man" playing victim? You go Jo!!! I wish she was around to stand up to my Father like this!
He is the typical narcissist, trying to play the good guy in front of the cameras. I'd like to see an update, I mean I read somewhere they ended up divorcing but I wouldn't swear on it, I have seen too many of Jo's shows, could be another family
@@kifi672 That was the impression I got. I had a narcissistic grandmother so I can see the signs. He probably went back to his old ways once the camera crew left.
am i the only one who feels like Ashlyn shouldn’t be expected to like her dad again. I had a very similar situation with my father and I will not forgive him but I am willing to see him moving forward.
Totally agree. I usually like Jo's approach a lot. But with Ashlyn I think it went wrong. She is a teenager that tried to show her parents how miserable she is. Especially when she tried to protect her little sister from "becoming a big kid" like she has been herself. It was the wrong way, yes, but it told such a big story about her and her situation.
Completely heartbreaking when Payton shares her feelings with Jo! Parents don’t realise what harm they can do to children by arguing in their presence……
As a child, i told my parents to get a divorce. I said it many many times over the years... 3 kids and 17 years later they finally did... Best decision for them and us kids. Divorce is not always bad. Sometimes it's how to fix a bad decision.
How heartbreaking must it be as a parent to hear your child (whatever age) constantly tell you and your partner to divorce. Does something not click? Nothing to go "oh, my CHILDREN are begging for us to seperate because they arent happy, we arent united, we're divided" how does a parent not feel heartbroken to hear that and want to do something about it. It feels selfish
@@amemelia in our situation it was definitely due to financial difficulty. My mom wouldn't have been able to do the basics for us and Dad would have never been home. Unfortunately we also lived in a very rural area so making changes to make finances work would have been impossible for either of them. Didn't change that they were certainly not meant for each other.
Agreed. Jo kind of blaming her for the husband’s affair because she introduced them was ick to me. If they had an arrangement together and he took it further, that’s his own doing.
It sounded more like "mum had a friend, dad probably tried something on, he suggested a 3some so he could 'ethically' cheat and still get to blame the wife. Wife agreed because anything to keep a happy house (husband) so dad got his way and mum gets to blame herself". I bet when they were having a 3some someone got left out...
Jo is an absolute savage, I love her to death. She can see these abusive assholes from a mile away. She's the epitome of a strong woman. Divine feminine!
This was quite a different episode! Hats off to Jo telling off Dave - boy she meant business! As shocked as she must've been regarding the threesome, she did not judge them but told both parents they were at fault. Jo you are my heroine - always there for the children and reuniting families! What a super star ⭐
the father saying “you brought your friend in, i didn’t instigate anything.” is just absolute bullshit. she may have brought her friend in, and that same friend fell for him, but if HE had any self respect and control as a man, a father, and a husband to not cheat on his WIFE, the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN, that other woman would’ve been long gone. no wonder that poor woman still can’t forget about it.
omg that little girls talking to Jo instantly made me tear up what a precious child and how perfect Jo was for the job! she changed her entire world. honestly a beautiful moment
That father is abusive. There's no denying it. The way he talks to everyone in that house is disgusting and I wouldn't be surprised if the parents got divorced sometime after this.
Ashlyn is the only one who knows the Dad is not going to be able keep this behaviour up. He said ‘I’m working so hard’, to talk to his family with respect. It shouldn’t be hard. He is so like my ex. I saw it as soon as the Mum broke down and apologised for her actions and the Dad said she wasn’t trying hard enough to make him happy. Then when challenged he walked off and sulked. So like my ex. If she stays with him, when the children are older, they won’t want anything to do with them.
Those poor babies. Watching this, its literally my childhood and theres soooooo much healing to do when you get out. I hope the children can grow from this and build a good life.
Such a great councillor for families.. Jo Jo has literally saved this family… and that little girl was so sad at the start but you have now given her a happy life ❤❤
Keep giving me these episodes please. I know there’s not many but this is a good break from my bar rescue binges that are different also not hahaha I love Jo, Taffer, and Ramsey. They can cure all my issues
This sweet little girl brought me to tears with the worries she has been carrying! Things a little girl should be given automatically, security, love, happiness, emotional safety. Poor baby. Bless her ❤
Of course Ashlyn held onto anger as long as Dave hadn't even apologized. It was a lot to ask her to be the grown up while her own father was still a child. Good thing Jo made him apologize. That's what got Ash over the hurdle.
PLEASE don't stay together "for the kids"! They will suffer for it. I was 12 when my parents split. I knew for three years that it needed to end. I kinda knew before my mom. When she realized it was wasn't going to get better she filed for separation.
As a child from a broken home whose parents always fought and never got divorced, it was very traumatic. For me, i was sick. No one could find out what was wrong with me. i thought it was my fault and my parents would not listen, so thank you, jo for your magic!
Its so sad to see always one of the children stepping in to be the peacekeeper, the amount of pressure that places on them is heartbreaking..... this is the kind of stuff people carry into adulthood and their adult relationships
That man makes me SICK. He performed for the cameras, he didn’t change. Kids deserve a father, but in this case, they’d do better without him. I hope mom stood up and left his a&$ to his own miserable self. Those poor kids.
The first like 2 minutes broke my heart. Those poor babies. Staying together for the kids does the exact opposite of what's it intended too. Edit- as someone who's been with a David. Jo we love and appreciate you. Thankyou for seeing through his facade and seeing the abuse. You're amazing.
Glad Jo called his childish arse out! This “dad” is a total, as we say in CA, dooshcanoe! What a jerk! And a truly effed up thing for this “mom” to tell Ashlynne “you ARE your father, you’re the same”…..what utter cruelty.
Welp, she got the point across, didn’t she? It doesn’t matter if she swears on television or not, the matter is, she basically ripped the bandaid off and synced her teeth in.
I feel so bad for the eldest daughter, Ashlynn. Why does she know about the affair? Why would her parents not hide it from her? Imagine being burdened with such personal information. 😢
Ideally the father should leave,she won't have developed the ability to be consistent or stable on her own sadly. Because of her messed up environment.
For a little girl to ask Jo (someone she's never met before) to come into her room so she could tell her what she was feeling speaks VOLUMES about how much she needed to get that off her chest. Poor girl.
And so quick after she arrived!! Maaaan, huge respect!
I felt so bad when she said "I'm just a little girl and i don't know how"! Poor child thinks it's her job to make the family happy...Super sad! ;o;
Can you imagine being Jo at that moment💔
That broke my heart ❤
For a little girl to ask Jo someone she never before to come her room
Sasha shewchuk
I'm only a minute in. That father is INTOLERABLE.
And intolerant
It's so satisfying to see Jo call him out!!!!
Dave changed his ways and they all worked together it was nice to see well done Jo getting this family back hope it continues
@@Mandy-w8f it was remarkable how much he changed, a full 180, he even admitted to his oldest he'd been abusive ... 😳 She needed to hear that.
This family is a life of lesbian arguments
The way she popped off at the Dad was absolutely the most gratifying experience 😂
Telling from what's going on I think so as well 😂
It takes a LOT and I mean A LOT for Jo Frost to curse and swear 🤬
U can tell she's royally pissed 😡
@@Akins560 totally, and I don't think that bloke had ever been put in his place like that before, he needed it!
It was highly satisfying to see the man's ego visibly deflate 😂
Yes! I was literally cheering 😂
The way Jo Frost went off on the dad calling him a coward, you can see in her eyes, she was clearly fighting for the children by fixing the root of the problem.
I've watched her for years and she does not put up with any shit she ultimately is there for those children
I've watched Joe Frost for years and she doesn't put up with any crap I have seen her get this way with more than one father I mean she's done this with mothers too but mostly with fathers hahaha
I've been watching Jo for more years than most of y'all have been alive, and I have NEVER seen her this angry.
Wait is that my family
When she asks the parents if they are together or not, the man doesn’t seem concerned as if he either believes they go on regardless or he doesn’t care either way.
The woman seems utterly angst ridden and still unsure if she wants to chuck it all and start over or if she can forgive and move on as a couple. It’s so painful to watch her try to suffer through to figure it out 💜☮️
"did the tooth fairy realize that there was no sex going on in the bedroom?!" 😭😭😭😭 jo cooked em as always
With the accent and everything, it was the best 😂😂
It made me laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
12:46
Epic 😂😂😂
"I dont trust her with my finances" then do your own damn taxes
Omg I know right,I was surprised she didn't say that too
Exactly.
Society expects woman to be empowered and know how to do everything, well guess what, the same applies to men. He should know how to do his own taxes and manage financial stuff.
Amen Sister 😂 I felt the same way !! I mean after 4 kids and you don't trust her with finances ? Are you kidding me ? This man has a giant ego and it was all his wife's fault he had an affair, Umm I guarantee he was having more fun than his wife was 💯
I yelled "do it yourself you useless walnut!".
Yeah it's not that damn hard
When Jo swears then you know you’ve messed up big time!
I was shocked 😂😂😂 i never herd her swear before
@@StephenODriscolllynch-bd9yi same here 😂
I was rather shocked! I thought, he is in trouble now. I would rather have Gordon Ramsay having a go at me!
@@davidcrocker5184 me too
That's also how I feel about Victoria Stilwell.
It makes me so angry to hear parents say they are staying together for the kids. They’re are cowards putting their children through this level of abuse
What a huge burden to put on those kids, well any kids that are used as an excuse to stay together. What kind of a message are they sending ?
I love the ending where they build up a friendship and relationship ❤😂
It's called keeping a family together and working through your problems. There shouldn't be such thing as divorce. That's what's wrong with the world now. Then the streets raise the kids. So yea, they should stay together even if its just for the kids, and that's why Jo is around to help.
@@erikaLS305 honestly, this very much depends on the marriage and how severe the problems are. Staying together for the kids could work but it can also be the downfall of the family or more importantly, gravely effect the children and how they navigate future relationships. Divorce should always exist because whether we like it or not, some problems you cannot work through. Luckily in this case, they were able to work through.
I agree with you 100.
“I try to make this house happy.”
“Can you get them to stop yelling at each other for a couple days?”
What sweet little girl. 💔
Excellent move to recommend counseling.
Love how Jo tied up her hair in preparation for the clean up!
The daughter who said that the father needed to be “removed”. 😰
so sad for the little girl.
Broke my heart!!! 💔
Absolutely GAGGED at the 3some moment!
And that poor little baby saying shes trying to make the house happy broke my heart 😢
So the parents were in a throuple with the woman?
@@RajaArshad-o3uno, they had a threesome. meaning they all theee had sex, and he continued the relationship with the outside woman behind the moms back without permission
yes but the other woman and husband continued a sexual relationship behind the wifes back @user-tk5eb3ce7u
@@RajaArshad-o3u Nah, having a threesome doesn't make it a throuple. Sounds like the wife instigated a threesome, and the husband and the other woman continued a relationship behind the wife's back. Nothing wrong with having a threesome, but it's integral that there are appropriate boundaries established beforehand.
@@RajaArshad-o3u Sounded like it was a one time thing that the dad then continued behind the mother's back. Yikes
I pray for this mother that she grows some self esteem. She deserves so much better.
I hope she leaved him and the kids are okay without that monster in their lives. Disgusting man
You can’t grow self esteem in an actively abusive relationship. This man destroys her and the children. DV survivor here, he is a monster
@@angieshultis6099I so agree with you. He is a monster, one of the most evil kinds. He will get what he has coming to him.
“I’m just a little girl and I don’t know how to do it” this conversation broke me 😢
😭 and when she said stop the yelling....for a couple days... like even just 48hrs of peace would be enough 😢
Love how she handles children vs. adults. I love it. The father was an ogre. An absolute ogre.
I don't think Shrek would claim him either
Shrek would throw him in the dumpster
Shrek would somebody-once-told-me the shit out of him
Jo nailed it-the man is a child. Both parents are living in their child parts.
He got better and that's the important thing.
Those little kids need to leave for a day so Ashlyn can scream at her horrible parents for all of their fucked up decisions.
she should write it all out I think that would help
Not scream at them. She has every right to express her feelings and tell them how she feels to their faces. I think having the smaller children leave is a good idea just in case things get out of hand.
Agree
Specifically her dad
The father Dave is a narcissist. The oldest daughter being told that she is just like her dad really is destroying her because she doesn't like her dad, therefore she doesn't like herself. But she learned her behavior from him. She needs loving counsel to realize she is Not her dad. But she is a separate individual with her own personality. She is a sweet, beautiful girl.
yeah all the fixing probably seems fake to her. she needs therapy as well
Exactly, agree with both. And you see how quick the mom switched to avoiding the issue and left her in her room. I was always compared to my dad growing up and I never felt I had a separate personality, when the mom said to the daughter "you could have worded it better" she could have worded "you are your dad".. just a bit better? I get it though, looks like the parents are childish, their mistakes were childish, I can see why they'res so much of a grudge from the older daughter. She's not wrong when she says it'll take time. Sad
I beg to differ. Once I realized that the [primary reason why my Dad and I didn't get along so well was because we were so similar it made a huge difference in our relationship. She is copying him, and he doesn't like seeing his worst traits brought out her. A little counseling may help, but just that realization goes a long way. (BTW I am now 61, and Dad is 88, we get on fine)
I hated what Ashlyn said to Peyton about how she didn't have any friends because no one likes her and she's fat or she going to get fat. Something to that effect. How cruel to say to any child, but your 6 yr old sister is hateful and cruel. That broke my heart for that little girl.
@@Crazycatlady71 Unfortunately in abusive homes, it's common to see someone being abused (in this case Ashlyn by her father) displace their feelings on someone on the lower rung and perpetuate the abuse. It's called the cycle of abuse. When Jo finally had the father apologize for his behavior, I think that helped in terms of stopping Ashlyn in displacing her own anger and taking it out on someone else. Except I don't think the father can be improved in the long run.. because as others have pointed out, he's a narcissist. Ugh.
This is pushing abuse on Ashlyn.... she needs a real apology from her parents. She's been a sponge and soaked up all the chaos and pain. She needs support, not scolding or gaslighting.
Therapy she needs with her father
I'm so glad Jo didn't just scold her for how she spoke to her sister and recognised the anger she was feeling.
That dad owed Ashlynn a MUCH better and bigger apology. A father calling his daughter fat is damaging forever!
Has he seen himself 💀
Yep my dad did this to me for years... And I'm still facing the results
Awww the little girl taking Jo into her room and asking her to help, made me ball my eyes out. I'm 56 and I still know how that little felt.
I'm a 44yr old mum,and I felt her pain too. Been there also,its so lonely
Broke my heart! 😢
This Father is so abusive with his words and name calling... Dumb and stupid words hurt and can break a person's soul. I never never ever ever called my children stupid or any kind of negative words. Insults last forever! Fix it. 😢
Same here and when my x called our boys stupid I lost it
i know how it feels to get called stupid and idiot by a partner it's horrifically disrespectful thankfully i'm not in that anymore
So true, I also just noticed that the commitment to therapy she made them sign is actually to work with a domestic violence counsellor not a marriage counsellor
Agreed
My stepdad used to be like that when he would get mad but he’s a lot better now
“I feel like you don’t try to make me happy” are you kidding me!!! Good job tearing apart Jo
A husband who blames his wife for his affair is not a man.
They had a 3some jos face 😂
I'm so happy she went off on the dad because he was totally blaming the wife for all the issues going on. He wanted to play the innocent victim and act like he's done nothing wrong but Jo saw right through him and told him how it was.
And that he learned his lesson and was able to improve and be more mature. Jo is incredible for helping him realise what he was doing and for helping him improve his behaviour and therefore his relationships with his family members. We need more people like Jo in the world
The father complains that his daughter does not respect him. From what I have seen, he has done nothing the earn any respect.
I agree
Joe’s kicking ass and taking names I’ve never seen her get that pissed off
Me either
She was fuming!!!! And I think in the forefront of her mind at that moment was the little girl had that chat with her. She recognised the dad is a sociopath straightaway and that’s why she said you can’t pull the wool over my eyes
You know you messed up when.......
@@Evelynlouise089exactly !!! That’s a narcissists biggest fear- someone can see behind the curtain at what and who they REALLY are !
The oldest needed therapy, too. I really don't understand why Jo couldn't see that.
I would assume she might have mentioned it in a scene not shown, or knows that she can't force her to do it like with the parents. Cause if they said no to therapy, she would've 100% walked out as she always says that she "doesn't do try" and if they refuse therapy, they would be refusing her help
Well hopefully if they’re in therapy, and it’s working, they’ll recognize they should maybe do that for their daughter.
That's what I'm saying it's not that she's trying to difficult it's that she's been extremely hurt for a long time no one was there to step in for her at an early age. She suffered that alone that type of anger doesn't go away it's tramua and honestly she'll probably just get better at hiding her feelings.
Everyone in this family needs serious professional help
@@Jellygirl5440 I wholeheartedly agree. I pray they will all come to their senses and escape the trap of the enemy
7:59 okay, after this moment, divorce. There’s no fixing this, especially with the significant lack of respect they have for eachother. There’s no way.
I highly doubt they are still together
That little girl talking to jo in her room broke my heart 😢 she was so sad and taking so much onto herself 😢
Me too. Instant tears. Poor baby. 😭
She just wanted her parents to be happy, because it’s very hard to be happy around parents who aren’t happy
what make me 😢 is that Jo leaved after a week and this is a to big off a problem for one week.
the freaking children are more mature than the dad
jo looks younger than she did when supernanny first came out. she is a beautiful woman with a gorgeous heart.
The parents are obviously THE problem but I wish Jo were there when Ashlyn called Peyton fat & said that’s why she has no friends. I know she’s projecting & her language is a learned behavior but I feel sick for Peyton. Sibling abuse is just as damaging as parental abuse, especially with that age gap. Ashlyn needs therapy, too. And I hope Peyton didn’t grow up with an eating disorder hearing that from her big sister, who she probably adores and looks up to… Jesus. Those words stick with someone. This episode was seriously one of the most concerning I’ve seen. I hope those little ones grew up okay.
I wish I could have had someone like Jo intervene with my family when I was young. I know it doesn't do any good to think "what if" but sometimes I just wish so badly I could go back in time and have a different family. I'm no contact because they are awful people
@@raeraebadfingers same Here I have sibling that I don’t talk to. So much chaos in our family when I was growing up and present.
Peyton has me in tears. That poor, poor child.
I don’t know how long ago this was but I can’t express enough how important it is to read books at bedtime. Helps with self expression and cognitive growth. Bedtime stories and cuddles are the best.
Not happening in an abusive family though
It’s from 2013
My brother and I loved it! Some of my best memories are curled up with my parents, reading books. My brother and I each picked one and our mom or dad would pick one. Dang I miss my dad.
I just don't foresee this family coming back from this and making a long term change for the better. I feel like so much irreconcilable damage has been done. My biggest hope is that the eldest daughter learned from their mistakes and will stand up for herself more than her Mom was ever able to.
ETA- Jo is absolutely phenomenal in this episode. She's such a force to be reckoned with but does it in a way that makes people want to be a better person. Just a powerhouse!
I LOVED that Jo just called that man out. He is a terrible person. He still didnt apologize, even after he came back to the house.
I just want to hug that little girl. The poor thing just wants some peace.
I would feel the same way if I were in that little girl’s shoes.
At 6:18 you could see the hurt in Jo's eyes listening to that little girl plead her to stop all the yelling :(
Joe needed to spend at least another week there.
Beautiful necklace they gave her. How thoughtful.
I agree. This was a 1st for me watching her try to help a couple with their relationship. It seemed more about that, than the children having disciplinary problems.
I think the necklace was the exact opposite of thoughtful. It wasn’t heartfelt but rather the dad trying to portray a certain image to Jo and viewers. I found it extremely slimy tbh.
Who else is cheering at seeing Supernanny a.k.a. Jo Frost dropping the F bomb on this "man" playing victim? You go Jo!!! I wish she was around to stand up to my Father like this!
I was. S***.
The father is an abusive man. Mum, Jo or the kids can’t fix that. They need to get as far away as they can
Exactly right,if he was like this on tv.... imagine once the camera crew leave....good lord
therapy can fix it though it's on him to do the work
He is the typical narcissist, trying to play the good guy in front of the cameras. I'd like to see an update, I mean I read somewhere they ended up divorcing but I wouldn't swear on it, I have seen too many of Jo's shows, could be another family
@@kifi672 That was the impression I got. I had a narcissistic grandmother so I can see the signs. He probably went back to his old ways once the camera crew left.
He’s narcissistic and slow
I love Jo so much. She is an angel sent. I love the way she stands up for herself with aggressive husbands and empowers women. Amazing work Jo.
"jo frost" i really like her...she see what's going on..when someone try to cover things up..not afraid to say things straight in the face..
am i the only one who feels like Ashlyn shouldn’t be expected to like her dad again. I had a very similar situation with my father and I will not forgive him but I am willing to see him moving forward.
yeah and the mom saying to her she is the same as get dad is awful
Totally agree. I usually like Jo's approach a lot. But with Ashlyn I think it went wrong. She is a teenager that tried to show her parents how miserable she is. Especially when she tried to protect her little sister from "becoming a big kid" like she has been herself. It was the wrong way, yes, but it told such a big story about her and her situation.
@@sonjaklein6901I’m so glad someone else was able to see it from that angle as well!!!
Completely heartbreaking when Payton shares her feelings with Jo! Parents don’t realise what harm they can do to children by arguing in their presence……
Those poor children. It broke my heart hearing that little girl.
Divorce would be the best thing.
As a child, i told my parents to get a divorce. I said it many many times over the years... 3 kids and 17 years later they finally did... Best decision for them and us kids.
Divorce is not always bad. Sometimes it's how to fix a bad decision.
My parents didn’t divorce, they separated. Honestly the best decision. They got along better when they’re apart.
Yep a blessing in disguise. I feel that.
How heartbreaking must it be as a parent to hear your child (whatever age) constantly tell you and your partner to divorce. Does something not click? Nothing to go "oh, my CHILDREN are begging for us to seperate because they arent happy, we arent united, we're divided" how does a parent not feel heartbroken to hear that and want to do something about it. It feels selfish
@@amemelia in our situation it was definitely due to financial difficulty. My mom wouldn't have been able to do the basics for us and Dad would have never been home. Unfortunately we also lived in a very rural area so making changes to make finances work would have been impossible for either of them. Didn't change that they were certainly not meant for each other.
My take is Mom consented to the third party to try to appease dad.
agreed, I think Jo missed that part imo
Agreed. Jo kind of blaming her for the husband’s affair because she introduced them was ick to me. If they had an arrangement together and he took it further, that’s his own doing.
It sounded more like "mum had a friend, dad probably tried something on, he suggested a 3some so he could 'ethically' cheat and still get to blame the wife. Wife agreed because anything to keep a happy house (husband) so dad got his way and mum gets to blame herself". I bet when they were having a 3some someone got left out...
I think a bit of conservativeism jumped out of Jo there, seemed like she thinks having a threesome while married has to be bad and kind of immortal
EXACTLY! It was never in mom's interest. Gave me the feeling mom is immensely emotionally neglected. Dad needs the boot big time.
Jo is an absolute savage, I love her to death. She can see these abusive assholes from a mile away. She's the epitome of a strong woman. Divine feminine!
This was quite a different episode! Hats off to Jo telling off Dave - boy she meant business! As shocked as she must've been regarding the threesome, she did not judge them but told both parents they were at fault. Jo you are my heroine - always there for the children and reuniting families! What a super star ⭐
The way he’s blaming her for him cheating💀 and the way he’s talking to her definitely means divorce
An why did jo also partially blamed the mom?
the father saying “you brought your friend in, i didn’t instigate anything.” is just absolute bullshit. she may have brought her friend in, and that same friend fell for him, but if HE had any self respect and control as a man, a father, and a husband to not cheat on his WIFE, the MOTHER OF HIS CHILDREN, that other woman would’ve been long gone. no wonder that poor woman still can’t forget about it.
And guaranteed she bring the other woman in to try to make HIM happy because he was abusive waaaaay before that
@@angieshultis6099 Exactly. I hope she's since divorced him and she and the kids are doing way better. Ugh!
Bringing someone into the marriage always leads to disaster. She needs to take responsibility for that.
omg that little girls talking to Jo instantly made me tear up what a precious child and how perfect Jo was for the job! she changed her entire world. honestly a beautiful moment
That father is abusive. There's no denying it. The way he talks to everyone in that house is disgusting and I wouldn't be surprised if the parents got divorced sometime after this.
I love how Jo calls out attitude quickly... good job guys! 👏
Ashlyn is the only one who knows the Dad is not going to be able keep this behaviour up. He said ‘I’m working so hard’, to talk to his family with respect. It shouldn’t be hard. He is so like my ex. I saw it as soon as the Mum broke down and apologised for her actions and the Dad said she wasn’t trying hard enough to make him happy. Then when challenged he walked off and sulked. So like my ex. If she stays with him, when the children are older, they won’t want anything to do with them.
Exactly. He's a total narcissist, never gonna change.
Those poor babies. Watching this, its literally my childhood and theres soooooo much healing to do when you get out. I hope the children can grow from this and build a good life.
Dad needs to grow up and he needs to act like a father
When the dad says "YOU'RE NOT MY DAUGHTER!!!" to the oldest child, my soul hurt so much hearing that. Smh 🥺
Such a great councillor for families.. Jo Jo has literally saved this family… and that little girl was so sad at the start but you have now given her a happy life ❤❤
When Jo swears like mad, I’m like “that’s just satan making an appearance” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
nah, that's lady justice!!
Umm no it’s a strong woman telling an abusive man that he absolutely will Not abuse her or anyone anymore !
@@jobis2414 ok gotcha xxxx
No, more like God making an appearance!
Love Jo Frost's no nonsense attitude
Both mom and dad were not even equipped to be married.
Keep giving me these episodes please. I know there’s not many but this is a good break from my bar rescue binges that are different also not hahaha I love Jo, Taffer, and Ramsey. They can cure all my issues
This sweet little girl brought me to tears with the worries she has been carrying! Things a little girl should be given automatically, security, love, happiness, emotional safety. Poor baby. Bless her ❤
Another hard case. Jo, I liked it as you've thrown Dad under the bus. He needed it. 🌹
The father is a brutal and aggressive man.
While at the same time a total coward POS….
he looks like Biff from Back To The Future😂
Oh, my gosh! He does!! What the hell?!
Oh god 😂
Of course Ashlyn held onto anger as long as Dave hadn't even apologized. It was a lot to ask her to be the grown up while her own father was still a child. Good thing Jo made him apologize. That's what got Ash over the hurdle.
Jo’s amazing. Fierce, Integrity, Honest. I have mad respect for her.
PLEASE don't stay together "for the kids"! They will suffer for it. I was 12 when my parents split. I knew for three years that it needed to end. I kinda knew before my mom. When she realized it was wasn't going to get better she filed for separation.
Wonder how this family is really going now? Jo is incredible
Divorce
@@mariannevontrapp1063 WHAT?!
How long ago was this episode,any idea?
@@hazzaplayz8082013
@@mariannevontrapp1063do you know that for sure? I can’t find an update.
As a child from a broken home whose parents always fought and never got divorced, it was very traumatic. For me, i was sick. No one could find out what was wrong with me. i thought it was my fault and my parents would not listen, so thank you, jo for your magic!
Whew! Hearing JO curse and dig into him was magical.
That little girl just broke my heart
Its so sad to see always one of the children stepping in to be the peacekeeper, the amount of pressure that places on them is heartbreaking..... this is the kind of stuff people carry into adulthood and their adult relationships
That man makes me SICK. He performed for the cameras, he didn’t change. Kids deserve a father, but in this case, they’d do better without him. I hope mom stood up and left his a&$ to his own miserable self. Those poor kids.
That poor little girl!! Her little speech almost made me cry.
Jo Frost knows how to deal with Families ❤❤❤
It's so satisfying seeing her change families ❤❤❤❤❤
Nanny Jo......
An Angel on this earth.
❤❤❤❤❤
The first like 2 minutes broke my heart. Those poor babies. Staying together for the kids does the exact opposite of what's it intended too.
Edit- as someone who's been with a David. Jo we love and appreciate you. Thankyou for seeing through his facade and seeing the abuse. You're amazing.
13:00 jo roasting the parents😂😂😂😂
I was weak when she mentioned the tooth fairy. Her accent made it even more hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣
@@safiyyahhameed6354 yep😂😂 she is iconic. She actually reminds me a lot of adele though😊❤️
Loved it!! 😂😂
I've never seen Jo read someone for filth like that to THAT degree
@@SharadaDreamer That’s why she’s the ultimate badass!
OMG the way Jo lit in to that defense whiny dad was epic! I love her!
Jo tearing that man apart was phenomenal!!!!
I'm crying already 6:43
😢😢😢😢
A life of being bullied by her dad isnt going to be okay after one apology 😢
Jo is such a badass for just speaking fax
Choque de realidade. Jo Frost foi ao nível deles, do modo que se tratam e não se respeitam. Parabéns Nanny!!!❤❤❤
Glad Jo called his childish arse out! This “dad” is a total, as we say in CA, dooshcanoe! What a jerk!
And a truly effed up thing for this “mom” to tell Ashlynne “you ARE your father, you’re the same”…..what utter cruelty.
The statement "Kids are supposed to be happy not sad" Broke my heart😭🙁
Damn I think it’s the first time I heard SuperNanny swear on television 😱😱
Welp, she got the point across, didn’t she? It doesn’t matter if she swears on television or not, the matter is, she basically ripped the bandaid off and synced her teeth in.
The father is the kid
Agreed.
Agreed 💯
Like a teen the way he talks
That father/husband is a PIECE OF WORK. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUDGE!! The dad is a NARCISSIST.
My heart hurts for Peyton. She is crying out for love. I really hope she gets what she needs.
I am sending out my thoughts and prayers and love to this whole family ❤
Jo asked them to hang out together and the daughter looked scared. That house is a ticking time bomb
Exactly, those eyes were so telling
I just love Jo She is the freaking best. Tells it's straight up how it is
I feel so bad for the eldest daughter, Ashlynn.
Why does she know about the affair? Why would her parents not hide it from her? Imagine being burdened with such personal information. 😢
I‘m alway for fighting when kids are involved BUT I REALLY HOPE THEY GET A DIVORCE!!!!!
Wrong decision Mom😢
You should have divorced him.
I feel like the children were not the problem in this family. The parents were the problem, especially the father.
Ashlyn can get a job and move to another place when she’s 18, she deserves an apartment of her own, away from the father.
Ideally the father should leave,she won't have developed the ability to be consistent or stable on her own sadly. Because of her messed up environment.