Why Umm Ruqayah Took off Hijab for a Day
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- A hijabi's reflections on taking off her hijab and the happiness she felt after removing it.
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This was a sad story. Giving up life and humanity for the empty assumptiptions and assertions of an afterlife.
the two aren't exclusive, Europe built a civilization on the present moment and the afterlife, Islam twists both notions beyond recognition
Empty assumptions? Or cynical addicts saying life is just material so they don't have to be disciplined.
@@MilahanPhilosophersCorner no afterlife requires more dicipline, more contemplation and more compassion. There is no cynical part of that. Its maybe a bit stoic but it is as far as we can tell that is what happens. You make the best of this life for yourself, others and those to come. That places accountability and responsibility on everyone.
@@MilahanPhilosophersCorner yes. Wits empty assertions and assumptiptions when there is no good evidence for it.
@@northernlight8857 Very true. Great men throughout history have always been those concerned with justice and welfare of their fellow human beings in this life, regardless of an afterlife or not.
Brutally honest post by a woman in the bondage of mohammed
This is so heartbreaking. It reminds me of when I took my hijab off for the first time. It was 42c and I felt like I was gonna faint. I was in a bus with no men around so I pulled up my sleeve and loosened my the hijab from around my neck. I felt slightly better. But then men came in and I quickly covered myself again. But the men were wearing shorts and half sleeve tshirts. It made me so angry. Why can men walk around wearing whatever they want and I have to suffer under the shackles of hijab like i'm a second class slave.
And that was the moment I realized my worth in Islam. And at that point I rolled my sleeves up and took off my hijab. My hair was messed up and it got messed up even more but I didn't care for one bit. It felt like I was in prison and I finally got out. Never wore that thing again.
Thank you for sharing your story of emancipation
@@Ballykeith thats not what emancipation means-
I wish I can take mine off
@@blackgirl6976 Just do it!
what happens if men see your hair? are they allowed to slap, or rape a woman?
that woman actually write very beautifuly - she could write poetry
To be honest I think she writes better than the Quran. The Jenna description of hers is not matched in the Quran 😁
@@hans471 thats actually true - while she described janna as a blissful place for her the muslim resource say she would just be 1 woman in line of 72 providing sex to a man
@@polpol2739 you should post this on her Facebook book post so she could wake up from her dreams of Jena
Do these women and even the *Friendly Exmuslim* know that in the Islamic society there were women who could fell the fresh wind in their hair? It were the slave-girls, who felt this kind of freedom, while they were enslaved in this society, one in which Muslims could own other humans as their property.
*One wonderful reason why Women should embrace* Islam, (We are Diamonds)
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Women who write poetry were not favored by Muhammad.
She is in self imposed prison unnecessarily
Not really by self, but Islam which mandates it, Koran 33:59
So she can take it off whenever and wherever she wants? Without consequences?
What a waste of time, resource and talent...for nothing! Religious indoctrination at its best.
@@PP_Derrick it's her choice to follow Islam so yes it is self imposed. If you are financially independent you could leave Islam without your parents and/or husband bothering you
@@SR-mv2mf Nah, It pressure from family and Community as well
There was one tiktok I saw of a hijabi girl and in that post she admitted to hating the hijab despite feeling like she should love it and a lot of young girls in the comments agreed with her. It is considered a sacrifice to a lot of these women and girls who wear it because they think there will be horrible consequences in the afterlife if they don't.
There will be horrible consequences in this life also. Very sad.
This was beautiful! I thank you as an ex - muslim for talking about islam
Welcome to the light, and not saying that in a religious sense.
Maybe you are still a muslim.
How do you define a muslim? Hopefully not by what someone is wearing
@@adnandizdarevic6989 lol i just said i am an exmuslim ... I deny every religion and their gods...i am not convinced by any ideology that has ever claimed that their god exists and their religion is the only truth
@@asathelogiclaman637 yes you said it. your answer only further confirms to me that you have no idea what a muslim means. That is, who is a Muslim.
@@adnandizdarevic6989 i really am not going to get in a yt comments section debate.
I have heard similar stories to this numerous times, women just dreaming of dropping it, feeling the wind in their hair. Once heard an elderly woman saying, that her biggest wish in this world, was to ride a bike, without the hijab, and feel the world as it is meant to be felt.
It's just a simple cloth. Will bald men start crying about hats next? How they wish they had hair?
@@MilahanPhilosophersCorner you very well know it's not "a simple cloth"
It's oppressive to any woman not suffering from the Stockholm syndrome.
A muslimah told me how a couple of times she'd gone to a café where there were no Muslims and had removed her scarf. She did not have this freedom in her daily life as her family would've gone crazy. Her father and now her husband are imams. Her new husband even asked her to wear contact lenses to cover her distinctive blue eyes. She gladly complied.
@@Ballykeith sad shit..
@@MilahanPhilosophersCorner You can tell an ideology is indefensible if all the cult members can come up with are strawman arguments like yours :-)
It's actually so completely unrelated I am not even sure one could define it a strawman argument. Maybe you were just drunk and it made sense in your head while you were intoxicated...
This poor woman is only trying to convince herself that she’s okay with it 💔
Frrrrrrr
Rightly said !!
Muslims women may say nobody force them to wear but inner theirs heart they know but will not admit it.
@@vellapb1812 EXACTLYYYYYY
@@ab.a8353 aww does the truth scare u?? 🥺🥺
@@ab.a8353 what your opinion, l would love to know, it might change mine.
Great to see an honest sentiment being expressed by muslim woman. How much conviction would she still have if see actually understand what she read in the quran and hadiths?
Contrary to popular opinion, the hijab has nothing to do with modesty.
The verse of the veil was revealed because muhamad’s perverted companion umar had a habit of spying on women when they left their homes to relieve themselves. The veil would thus help him differentiate between muslim women from non muslim women or slave women.
Narrated Abd Al-A’laa from Mo’ammar from Al-Zuhri from Anas who said: Umar saw a slave-girl wearing Hijab then he beat her and said: "Do not make yourself like free women!"
A slave girl of Muhajirun or Ansaar came to Umar wearing Jilbab (complete Hijab), he said: "Have you been freed?" She said: “No!” He said: “Put it off your head.” Jilbab is for the freed women. So she hesitated, so he got up to her with the whip (darrah), and he hit her on the head, until she threw it.
Al-Musannaf. Vol. 3, Pg. # 128
Narrated 'Aisha: The wives of the Prophet used to go to Al-Manasi, a vast open place (near Baqia at Medina) to answer the call of nature at night. 'Umar used to say to the Prophet "Let your wives be veiled," but Allah's Apostle did not do so. One night Sauda bint Zam'a the wife of the Prophet went out at 'Isha' time and she was a tall lady. 'Umar addressed her and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda." He said so, as he desired eagerly that the verses of Al-Hijab (the observing of veils by the Muslim women) may be revealed. So Allah revealed the verses of "Al-Hijab" (A complete body cover excluding the eyes).
Sahih Bukhari 1:4:148
A'isha reported that Sauda (Allah be pleased with her) went out (in the fields) in order to answer the call of nature even after the time when veil had been prescribed for women. She had been a bulky lady, significant in height amongst the women, and she could not conceal herself from him who had known her. 'Umar b. Khattab saw her and said: Sauda, by Allah, you cannot conceal from us. Therefore, be careful when you go out. She ('A'isha) said: She turned back. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) was at that time in my house having his evening meal and there was a bone in his hand. She (Sauda) cline and said: Allah's Messenger. I went out and 'Umar said to me so and so. She ('A'isha) reported: There came the revelation to him and then it was over; the bone was then in his hand and he had not thrown it and he said:" Permission has been granted to you that you may go out for your needs."
Sahih Muslim 26:5395
Most mohemadan women wear the hijab wrong including the woman in the video.
As per sharia law a mohemadan woman has to cover her face completely with her hijab.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6240
Narrated `Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) `Umar bin Al-Khattab used to say to Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) "Let your wives be veiled" but he did not do so. The wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) used to go out to answer the call of nature at night only at Al-Manasi.' Once Sauda, the daughter of Zam`a went out and she was a tall woman. `Umar bin Al-Khattab saw her while he was in a gathering, and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda!" He (`Umar) said so as he was anxious for some divine orders regarding the veil (the veiling of women.) *So Allah revealed the Verse of veiling. (Al-Hijab; a complete body cover excluding the eyes).* (See Hadith No. 148, Vol. 1)
Sahih al-Bukhari 4758
Narrated `Aishah:
May Allah bestow His Mercy on the early emigrant women. When Allah revealed: "... and to draw their veils all over their Juyubihinna (i.e., their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)..." (V.24:31) they tore their Murat (woolen dresses or waist-binding clothes or aprons etc.) and *covered their heads and faces* with those torn Muruts.
Also, in sura 24:31 it says: “…that they should draw their head covers over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers….”
Notice that “head cover” is mentioned in this verse. So if one is pulling down the head cover to one's bosom it logically follows that one must cover their faces too because the face is between the head and bosom. This is consistent with the hadiths above.
I'm sure that someone with the intelligence to write so well can understand what she reads.
@@carlpeberdy9086 A very reaonable argument, however, intensity of blind faith removes all ability to reason.
@@easyguy625 Sadly, you are absolutely right!
When we criticize the Hijab, we need to clarify that we're not only criticizing those that force women to wear the Hijab but MORE IMPORTANTLY the difficulty of muslim women who wear it BY CHOICE. And that's why our focus is mainly not the Hijab, but dismantling the ideology of Islam so that even those women who put themselves under this difficulty by choice are also free from it in the coming years, as more awareness about the falsification of Islam is spread among muslims.
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I usually agree with you .I also agree that it must be horrible for the Women to Always wear the Hijab / Burka. but the word Islamophob should NOT EXIST .why there is NO Christian phobia / Jews phobia / Hindu phobia / Buddha phobia / ETC. ??????
Trust me theres a lot of christophobia in the Muslim community... witnessed it myself
That is if Islamophobia "exists"
@@xxxbp38xxx93
Why there's only islamphobie?
Coz there must be something wrong in islam and tht's the most basic thing.
Tbh I'm not quite sure what she's looking forward to in heaven. The way it's described in the Quran makes it quite clear that it's catered towards satiating men's desires lol
Well she can be a dutyful wife or something
Same thought!!!
The Qur'an describes Jennah as a place where each wife of a man has to stay in one conner of the tent a wait till the man comes for the boom-boom business.
Isn't that lovely? Such a wonderful place!
@@cruizito2388 LOL.
@@omarkhodammi7132
I am a woman and guess what? That's one very important reason why I would never believe in Islam!
Bingo
All it takes to see the absurdity of religion is to imagine God being so mad and pulling his hair out because a woman didn't cover her hair. The creator of this unimaginably vast universe and possibly infinite universes full of unimaginably complex and wonderful heavenly bodies gets his panties in a knot because a woman's hair is uncovered. How absurd.
This is why when I was a muslim, I never wore the hijab - Why would the almighty god care if my hair was visible, and throw me in a fire because of it? It sounded crazy, I remember thinking - what if one hair is exposed, do I go to hell? How many hairs out of a hijab means I have to go to hell? And how many times can this happen and I can still go to heaven - there were so many quesions, it seemed so trival that God would be concerned about it.
At last people start to THINK
Contrary to popular opinion, the hijab has nothing to do with modesty.
The verse of the veil was revealed because muhamad’s perverted companion umar had a habit of spying on women when they left their homes to relieve themselves. The veil would thus help him differentiate between muslim women from non muslim women or slave women.
Narrated Abd Al-A’laa from Mo’ammar from Al-Zuhri from Anas who said: Umar saw a slave-girl wearing Hijab then he beat her and said: "Do not make yourself like free women!"
A slave girl of Muhajirun or Ansaar came to Umar wearing Jilbab (complete Hijab), he said: "Have you been freed?" She said: “No!” He said: “Put it off your head.” Jilbab is for the freed women. So she hesitated, so he got up to her with the whip (darrah), and he hit her on the head, until she threw it.
Al-Musannaf. Vol. 3, Pg. # 128
Narrated 'Aisha: The wives of the Prophet used to go to Al-Manasi, a vast open place (near Baqia at Medina) to answer the call of nature at night. 'Umar used to say to the Prophet "Let your wives be veiled," but Allah's Apostle did not do so. One night Sauda bint Zam'a the wife of the Prophet went out at 'Isha' time and she was a tall lady. 'Umar addressed her and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda." He said so, as he desired eagerly that the verses of Al-Hijab (the observing of veils by the Muslim women) may be revealed. So Allah revealed the verses of "Al-Hijab" (A complete body cover excluding the eyes).
Sahih Bukhari 1:4:148
A'isha reported that Sauda (Allah be pleased with her) went out (in the fields) in order to answer the call of nature even after the time when veil had been prescribed for women. She had been a bulky lady, significant in height amongst the women, and she could not conceal herself from him who had known her. 'Umar b. Khattab saw her and said: Sauda, by Allah, you cannot conceal from us. Therefore, be careful when you go out. She ('A'isha) said: She turned back. Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) was at that time in my house having his evening meal and there was a bone in his hand. She (Sauda) cline and said: Allah's Messenger. I went out and 'Umar said to me so and so. She ('A'isha) reported: There came the revelation to him and then it was over; the bone was then in his hand and he had not thrown it and he said:" Permission has been granted to you that you may go out for your needs."
Sahih Muslim 26:5395
As per sharia law a mohemadan woman has to cover her face completely with her hijab.
Sahih al-Bukhari 6240
Narrated `Aisha:
(the wife of the Prophet) `Umar bin Al-Khattab used to say to Allah's Messenger (peace be upon him) "Let your wives be veiled" but he did not do so. The wives of the Prophet (ﷺ) used to go out to answer the call of nature at night only at Al-Manasi.' Once Sauda, the daughter of Zam`a went out and she was a tall woman. `Umar bin Al-Khattab saw her while he was in a gathering, and said, "I have recognized you, O Sauda!" He (`Umar) said so as he was anxious for some divine orders regarding the veil (the veiling of women.) *So Allah revealed the Verse of veiling. (Al-Hijab; a complete body cover excluding the eyes).* (See Hadith No. 148, Vol. 1)
Sahih al-Bukhari 4758
Narrated `Aishah:
May Allah bestow His Mercy on the early emigrant women. When Allah revealed: "... and to draw their veils all over their Juyubihinna (i.e., their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms)..." (V.24:31) they tore their Murat (woolen dresses or waist-binding clothes or aprons etc.) and *covered their heads and faces* with those torn Muruts.
Also, in sura 24:31 it says: “…that they should draw their head covers over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers….”
Notice that “head cover” is mentioned in this verse. So if one is pulling down the head cover to one's bosom it logically follows that one must cover their faces too because the face is between the head and bosom. This is consistent with the hadiths above.
@@sarakunb621 , 👍👍 , STAY AWAY FROM ISLAM (Islam = an Insult to Humanity & Freedom )
Once I met this 17 years old girl who graduated from high school with my 17 own teenage daughter. I asked her if Nazera was going to college, my daughter said no. She said that Nazera was going to be married off to a man from Florida state because her parents who were devoted Muslims had decided that she was to get marry instead of going off to college. I said it was too bad because Nazera was a very intelligent girl. And this happened right here in the USA.
Same might happen to me if i dont get into a good uni...lol i am a closeted exmuslim...i would have ran away if had been living in the us
I use to have a muslim friend and her family did that to all the girls in her family. She didn't go to college and was homeschooled all her life. She lives in a prison and denies it to me (I was supposed to be her best friend) and denies it to herself. Her dad didn't even force her to wear a hijab but once she married, her husband did.
in Islam you can't force someone to get married. They don't even know what their religion says.
@@roya2362 your religion says that little girls can be married of if the husband and the father judge that she can have sex, no mention of the opinion of the little girl 👧 and we are talking here about children. Tell me now that adult can consent then.
@@ottopotatum5775 are you ok ??? ❤❤❤ I hope you are safe and happy
I found her post so funny. she indirectly showed how helpless she is, and then praised Allah for that!
Allah gets horny over helpless posts and prayers.
Laughing of the plight of others tells more about you than them.
It's sad more than funny I think.
@@northernlight8857 laughing at her foolishness not her plight tho. If she doesn't wanna end her plight, on top of that preaches it, what else can we do other than laughing?
@@mmiJoy33 We can show compassion and kindness. Its not funny ar all. She has probably been indoctrinated and she lives in community that reinforces the dogma and religious preassure. Its not foolishness. She is more of a victim of religious supremacy. She is just wrong. Its not an intelligence thing. Its more about skills like epistemology, critical thinking, source critisism and so on.
She writes with power and eloquence about her experience, does she write professionally? - if she doesn't, she should!
She does write professionally! :)
@@ummayah6766 Awesome - where can I find her writings?
Funny how even the ones who would admit it's a sacrifice due to it's great discomfort are not able to sympathize (I.e. empathy+support) with the choice of Muslim women who don't want to wear it.
I agree. I think people who have to sacrifice feel resentful when people do thing they want to do but can’t do. It’s really sad.
@@wanderingstar5270 Ah yes, that is true!
@Win Everything perhaps but it’s meaningless sacrifice
Wel one women included ex hijab wearers in her post, so at least she did include them. That was nice of here. But also think wandering star have a good point
Exactly when I removed mine two years ago my aunt was pissed off and mad cause she could never remove hers
i could say that I cry everyday , I don't believe in islam , but I need to wear hijab bcs my parents forcing me . Every single day , i watch instagram , tiktok or google , I wish I can walk on the street and everywhere without hijab on my head and i wish i can wear whatever outfits that im craving for . Im so dissappointed every single day and crying (
Hope things get better soon
@@FriendlyExmuslim I hope so much ❤️
"But you prefer the worldly life, While the Hereafter is better and much enduring" Surah Al' Ala.
@@oneflakes2319 first of all , dont give me any surah because i dont believe quran
@@mawar_ayshaa8626 I’m guessing your young that’s why you probably saying this, but believe me if you look into deeply it does make sense as you get older . This life is a jail for the believer. We strugge and sacrifice ourselves for Allah because it’s a test from him and I know we face hardships everyday but you will be rewarded because Death is inevitable no matter how rich, how healthy or how old someone is death is gonna come and Allah says that the biggest calamity that will happen is death because once someone dies, the test is over. You cannot pray to Allah no more and anything will be invalid after death. Now I’m not forcing down anything to you, the choice is yours.
I'll just say one thing to women in the West who say that Hijab is a choice. Hijab is not a darn choice when thousands of women are killed in the middle east for refusing to veil themselves. Saying that it's a choice when your fellow sisters are killed every day means you're overlooking the oppression of all those women who lost their lives and that my dear, is blatant hypocrisy.
Your choice is a privilege that arose from the secularism that prevails in the Western society you're in.
Once again, it's a PRIVILEGE.
thousands are not being killed in the middle east for not wearing hijab. That is blatant misinformation. But sure, Hijab is culturally enforced to the point that no one "chooses" not to wear it.
I know a girl who has to wear burka-niqab in USA otherwise her parents will fly back to Pakistan with her two underage siblings. It doesn't have to be legally mandated, Muslim families and culture put massive pressure on women.
Well, said. Only when you are free from wearing it, is it a choice. In Muslim controlled states, it is mandatory.
abe Bindu tu apne kam-se matlab rakh.....or jahatk-rahi Hijab ki bat , tooo.....SOON terko-v Pahnaenge , manzil door ni hai🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ready hoja Hijab pahen-k meri jaan , tera Sohar ara-hai tera ghar bohat jald.....😈
your Future 👉🏻 🧕
@@aziz9210 Please use English.
"a women that just wants to live her life, but seen as a flag bearer for this faith". this is deep thought and really summarizes hijab bearers' thoughts!!!
Imagine sacrificing the one and only life for an imaginary God created by man for an afterlife which has not being proven by anybody for millennium!
So true I wasted many years of my life wearing it but then again I was forced to by my father curse him to hell
@@soso2044 please do not curse anybody as u can see most Muslims are ignorant about what actually they are believing..anyway leave the curses to the true "believers"😘
Imagine living for nothing without a purpose. May Allah guide us all.
"So turn away from whoever turns his back on Our message and desires not except the worldly life." Surah An Najm
@@oneflakes2319 just because we are atheist doesnt make our lives without purpose, i just serve allah in my own way.
@@ussinussinongawd516 but the way you serve Allah will be wrong because it has to follow the teaching of the prophet (pbuh) and yes is your choice but then u can’t complain what happens in the hereafter.
Hopefully with the efforts of people like you Abdullah, the nightmare of Islam will come to an end and all can feel the wind in their hair someday.
Much love.
@Deez Nutz never heard of bidet? :)
There's one in every bathroom here in Italy, you're supposed to wash your butt every time you use the toilet, how others do without one?!
You know I have no particular love for Islam but you have to understand will be lost should they lose religion entirely.
Most people need it and religion is essential for a meaningful life in most cases.
The only thing worse for this woman would be becoming an atheist.
Don't care what you make her a Buddhist or a Zoroastrian don't inflict the worst nightmare imaginable on her being atheism.
A woman wearing hijab is like a flower in a coffin.
More like a bird in a golden cage. So used to living in it, that when you finally open the tiny gate, it flies from its familiar perch to the gate opening, waits there for a while, but fearing the real world outside, flies back to its familiar perch.
@@I9s7lam5is-S3tu1pid I've heard stories of women who wear hijab who did exactly that. Sometimes they think about not wearing the hijab but then decide against it because they are so used to it. It's sad.
Oh, u r here too))
@@mynameisnotavailablehere I'm like Allah, everywhere 😏
@@sarakunb621 Ma Shaa Allah😍
Muslims will watch this and say it's a fake Muslim 😔
Finally an honest woman, I started to feel helpless about women around me who praised hijab just to please men and satisfy their own mentality of abusing women
Thank you for featuring this story! 🤙
vitamin D deficiency caused by too much covering will lead to osteoporosis.
Wonder if Allah knows this?
@@hanslesolo You mean the god who created the flat earth and unrolled it like a carpet and then inserted mountains like pegs to hold it down? I don't imagine such a god knew anything about osteoporosis. Anyway, he only spoke Arabic.
she seems to be already struggling with the irrationality of her faith, beliefs, but is trying to push away the doubts.
In other words, she was willing to live a miserable life waiting for the phony Islam God to take her to paradise. I feel sorry for her. So I only have one statement, "take it off baby."
and...stay away from islam.
@@Timeren2010 "Stay away from Islam!"
This is brainwashed I could never take it off as a Muslim too
The Iranian woman, however, seems to think a little differently. as it has become apparent that Iranian women are protesting against the Hijab coercion. and I want to say that it is rare for Iranian immigrants to have Jihab on their heads in Sweden. the exception may possibly be when a woman prays
The truth is that God doesn't care about whether you wear hijab or not, whether you pray 5 times a day or 50 times a day, or once a week... God doesn't care about any of that or about anything like that.
God just cares about what you have in your heart: whether it is love or hate.
Christianity is also just as bad as islam
@@ussinussinongawd516it’s not the Religion which Matters, it’s your Heart.
There is a anecdote in the hadiths where a blind man visits the popet and his wives. The popet asks them to hide behind the curtains and they protest saying he is blind. The popet says, but you have eyes. This is the deviousness of this cult.
Excellent story!
I usually agree with you .I also agree that it must be horrible for the Women to Always wear the Hijab / Burka. but the word Islamophob should NOT EXIST .why there is NO Christian phobia / Jews phobia / Hindu phobia / Buddha phobia / ETC. ??????
Sacrificing joy, taking heavy burdens for a promised paradise is very common in religous traditions. Believing Muslims, Christians and others abstain from eating and drinking, sexual activity, sacrifice freedom,etc. and feel guilty when they fail. Some even harm themselves thinking that they will be rewarded after death.
To be clear: Just consuming every available joy and distraction that may cross your path does not make you happy. I´m not advocating for thoughtless hedonism. But everybody should be free to decide, when to enjoy eating and when to fast for health or spiritual experience. When to spend time with other people for whatever reason, and when to stay on his/her own. When to wear a scarf, and when to enjoy the wind blowing through the hair.
Nicely closed 👌, connecting smoothly with the original post 👍.
It's bad enough on earth, but what about Islamic heaven...most of the women actually go to hell and there is not a single thing mentioned for them in heaven.
You are saying what you heard from some fools. Have you read what Allah says in the Quran will be granted for women?! The rewards are endless. Do not say unless you read it yourself,okay? Do not be misled by fools. Read the Quran
@@i.s.9623 no need it’s fairytales 😭😭😭 You are brainwashed and that’s ok.
Great video and pondering. Thank you!
(89)Chapter: To be unthankful to the husband.
Sahih al-Bukhari 5198
Narrated `Imran:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "I looked at Paradise and saw that the majority of its residents were the poor; and I looked at the (Hell) Fire and saw that the majority of its residents were women."
The Prophet, bless him, had quite a lot of trouble controlling his wives at times. So threatening them with hell was a great idea. Also he had trouble controlling himself at the sight of a young woman, and had to hurry home and grab Zaynab d. Jahsh instead.
@@davidzack8735 oh god
@@davidzack8735 dont think he pbuh threatened them with hell..
@@munt07 Yes he did. He compared them to the wicked wife of Lot.
@@davidzack8735 uh show me the reference
That post from that woman has spoken deeply to what I feel. I am a closeted ex-muslim and I am not satisfied wearing a hijab. The first time taking off the hijab was in public with a friend that I trust and it felt amazing! The cool breeze I felt when I was walking around the mall and no one seemed to bother me felt thrilling. But, sadly, I have to continue wearing the hijab in front of my family and I am waiting for the day that I can finally speak out to my family about my apostasy. Thank you for showing us this video ^^
I wish you the best of luck. I hope they remember the love of your child should always be above any religion.
how horrible. I came out as gay and my family embraced me with open arms. I'm so proud to live in the usa, where I have rights.
Terrible, when people live in such artficially created limitations that has nothing to do with soul salvation, wasting there time and efforts in attempts to fit into the frame, instead of being themselves and evolving in right direction that is truly pleasing to God.
What I don't understand is why Allah needs women to cover their heads? Does he get turned on by his creations???
@@jinn_1891 No, Allah didn't get turned on by women. But Muhammad, bless him, obviously did.
It's still not a choice I guess. Because Allah is forcing her to wear the hijab for jannah.
It's an ultimatum
@@-paganless-4248 Truly yes, I've had ex-Muslims tell me personally, that the feeling of the wind on their neck and hair, is something they cherish now. The little things we take for granted I guess... Hopefully more can become free to choose in time.
No, Hijab =/= headveil, and Allah is not FORCING anyone to do anything, if did, it would be pointless giving us the ability to make decisions. Allah definitely not forcing to wear headveil, insecure adherents that blame women when they can't control their own lust by saying "provocative" usually misinterpret the verses of Quran.
@@flyinglegion5697 You are almost there. It is not Allah forcing anyone - because Allah is the excuse, the divine authority created to give credence and culpability. The one who instituted the ''forcing'' is Mohammad, and all the men after him, who have carried on the tradition of upholding this sort of practice. Much like with evangelicals and abortion, this is about controlling women. It is about putting a fence around them, and calling it a spiritual duty - shaming and guilting them for not complying. The free choice comes with punishment from peers, and is as such, not as free as Muslims like to portray it. As for your excuse about misinterpretations, the Quran is pretty straightforward about the duty to cover yourself as a women - any interpretation made beyond that is unorthodox and a personal flavor. But with all matters of faith, when you leave it up to linguistic duplicity, personal interpretation and ''my reading is the correct reading'', not everyone is going to agree - and women will, and continue to be, afflicted by the burden of a medieval practice that serves to enshrine their bodies as things to be guarded - an obvious sexualization of their natural bodies, and a sheltering of the male sexuality, which is what they are being guarded from. Allah was a poor designer, because he was an illiterate merchant, and you know that deep down.
@@markustanbeck9149 @Markus Tanbeck No, you're wrong, Allah isn't the excuse. Allah meaning God, isn't created, if God is created then God it isn't really God, Allah just means God. Like I said, people have misinterpreted the verses, Muhammed didn't force anyone to cover their head, all the men after him made up their own rules on his behalf without his permission. About Abortion, that's a controversial topic, and even if I was atheist, I wouldn't fully agree with abortion, after 6 weeks of pregnancy, the unborn baby is a person inside the womb that can feel, so this "my body, my choice" is stupid, because the baby has a body of its own, so logically it's 2 bodies, people use the excuse "the child is a burden", well that doesn't give anyone the right to null the child's right to live. And the idea that free choice comes with punishment from peers is retarded, those peers are just judgmental and insecure, no one has given them the right to decide what other people should or shouldn't do, our duty is to only teach and advise, not to judge and control people. And for my "excuse" about misinterpretations, it's not an excuse... yh the Quran is pretty straightforward, but people have misinterpreted it, I can't believe you ignore that fact, they usually misinterpret with man made hadiths and purposely misinterpret it to align with their traditions, anything straightforward can be strawmanned, like how these people on TH-cam strawman anything straightforward. And you're claim against Allah is stupid and subjective.
If she could only know that she is living in dogma, dreaming of Jannah far far away from reality. I heart bleeds n feel pity for her and many such women in Islam
You posted very good videos in these last days. Take care.
Last days?????
Same thing when i used to fool myself by saying i am doing it for god💔in order to not feel bad about my life:(
This is so incredible sad. It genuinely gets me emotionally. I’m a revert to Islam and I very soon discovered that I’ll never be able to wear a Hijab. Ever since I’m struggling with so many topics as from what I understand in Quran varies so much of what Muslim communities are promoting.
Why can't you be able to get covered? Of course, you can! Do not get misled by these fools.
Yes! I completely agree with you. If the Muslim sins it doesn't mean a religion is fake or dogma it means that that Muslim is a sinner
@@i.s.9623 For two main reasons:
1. There is absolutely NO quote in Quran, which states that a hair veil must be worn. A Hijab is an intrinsic motivation of protecting yourself from exposure. This might be a hair veil as well as modest clothing. Further has any Hadith tolerance for inaccuracies which makes it inadequate and an unsuitable source when it comes to controversial matters. And you are calling others as “fools”…
2. WHY should I voluntarily pick a religion, which locks me in and oppresses my freedom? This is the opposite of what faith is supposed to deliver. Believers should feel safe and freed from this mad world. A hair veil in the first place avoids this light feeling and deprives my freedom, as it comes with a behavior expected by the Muslim community.
One more thing, which proves my approach in that topic: Any culture has a different understanding of what a “proper “ hijab is. Some cover tight but let the face open, some cover the lower face part, some cover even the hands and eyes, some can see the hair-roots and it’s worn loose and some show their feet, others don’t. What a hijab is, depends on your community. I choose to be free as I want to feel empowered by my faith rather than oppressed.
Between the hijab, chador, niqab or burka, which one please Allah more?
burqa
@@mawar_ayshaa8626 hijab* because its the only neccessary one
None
That woman, whoever she may be, is on her way to a nervous breakdown.
On her way to ridda, insha'Allah!
@@Ballykeith I hope so. By the way, your knowledge of Islam is quite good.
@@catherinegrimes2308 thanks, this deen's an endless source of fascination but I'm glad my parents corrupted my fitra!
this is your most touching video ! )))
Thanks
Abdulllah, I like the way you speak and you have my utmost respect and admiration for what you have done and to be able to speak out on behalf of others. I know it is so difficult for people to leave a faith that they were born and nurtured in and we must befriend others who need help in shaking off the ideas that tell us that God will judge us in the afterlife. That’s a terrible burden for young people to carry and it is totally unnecessary. Why can’t people belong to a faith and use their mind to sift through the unsupported ideologies? I wish and hope for a world where that freedom is possible.
Much Love for you and that Sister..
And millions of Unknown sisters all over the world with unknown stories...
This makes me really sad 😔
If God is truely "kind and merciful", then it wouldn't demand a sacrifice nor get angry at you for not worshiping it.
Hijab is in its origin a dress of racial distinction between the free women class and the women slaves class, and it is not a dress prescribed for the sake of chastity.
How ignorant for her, I feel sorry for her for thinking it was introduced by allah not knowing it's from the imagination of Umah.
A friend of mine, who privately had also apostatized few months ago, told me that she felt much more free whenever she takes her hijab off. Muslim women had always told her that, aside from the spiritual benefits and to please the creator, in term of worldly and material benefit it can be harvested too. Considering that muslim women who wear the hijab, wouldnt need to worry about having their hair groom and styled every week or even every month.
By means, it was said that by wearing a hijab, women may need less maintenance for their hair & head. All they had to spent is some money for the head scarves. Following my friend's journey, she started off with wearing hijab since child. Maybe around 12 years old or so, ever since that day, she never really took off her hijab unless in her own home with her mahram. For more than 10 years of wearing the hijab, she eventually had developed some skin and scalp issues, but her family never really got concerned or even cared about it since they'll brush it off by saying stuff like "The Hijab is what will help you conceal those issues that you're facing.." or "there's no need for a scalp treatment, you're wearing hijab so, what's the significance of treating and beautifying your hair, whilst you still need to cover them publicly".
Apparently, she's suffering from a scalp problem and a mild hair loss. She ended up had to pay a big load of money for scalp treatment and stuff. From something that she thought can be less of a burden, eventually lead to more bigger problem. That friend of mine regretted for not taking her hijab off sooner. She could've avoid all of this mess.
I have also "hear" that loss of hair is common in women who wear hijab.
This happened to my cousin, since she turned 12, she had to bundle up her long thick hair and wore a scarf her entire youth until she left, and during this time of wearing it, she had hair loss especially around the hair line zone. But the aunties made it like something to be proud of having. Sigh.
They seem to be very motivated by this jannah thing. Whats in it for them, it must be unfathomably great or???
They are scared shitless of both life and death, it's a delusion to deal with it.
It's as much the terrors of the Fire as the hope of Heaven that motivates these poor brainwashed people.
When I was a hijabi muslim I was both terrified by hell fire burning for eternity and I was excited about the idea of spending an eternity in heaven with endless food and shadow but it was all an illusion there is no hell and there is no heaven and Allah is a creation by Mohammed I have wasted years praying and fasting and wearing hijab for nothing if Mohammed was alive today I would have sued him he destroyed my life!
@@soso2044 Good for you. Freedom from fear of hellfire is liberating for both ex-Muslims and ex-Christians.
@@soso2044 i understand the trauma
And how does she know that her Allah loves her for who she is and demonstrate that love to her???
They say that it’s not men telling them to wear it … yet if we would ask how many women wrote Allahs word for her to read she would never draw the connection that it might be the men after all telling her.
That was a wonderful post. Spoiler alert though: According to Mohammed, the majority of women go to he'll because they are deficient in their religion 😢 In view of another Hadith, big breasted women from hell fire have a chance though to get promoted to Huri status. Hence, it would be more rational of her to do breast surgery than to wear the Hijab 🙄
That was really funny, you made my day!!!
Could you send me those hadiths please (not in a im a muslim and this is a lie way but in a what the fuck i gotta read this shit way)
@@rrr8715 I don't know about the breasts, but the part about women forming the majority in hell is mentioned in Sahih Bukhari 1:6:301.
Sahih means authentic (not porcupine as in Hindi) so it is a highly rated hadith and just below the Quran. Bukhari means from Bukhara, it is a city that is now in Uzbekistan. It is a lovely city and is well worth visiting.
Apostate Prophet does a video about this at:
th-cam.com/video/Q_IPujht79E/w-d-xo.html
@@catherinegrimes2308 ik im an ex muslim but im just compiling weird ass hadith and wanted to see these
@@rrr8715 I am an atheist, but I keep myself informed to counteract some of the nonsense that some people say about islam, such as it being a religion of peace. I thought that you found Hans' remark to be funny and wanted to read more about it.
By the way, Samarkand, Bukhara and Khiva are lovely cities and are well worth seeing. I don't work for the tourist board.
Jannah is what you make of your life here on earth. Please let me know if anyone has been or seen someone back from Heaven since the beginning of time.
Life is eternal, you still wearing hijab after you die as long as you believe in it, for death doesn't change anything. Why don't you do it now what you like, be happy and love all!
I took it off 10 years ago And never want to wear it again Faith is in your heart not in absurd rules
Are you a muslim?
I'm a convert to Islam and I'm very grateful for my hijab. It has honestly been a huge blessing for me. I'm very grateful to be guided to Islam and I wish that everyone could experience this level of peace. Just sharing so that you have a different perspective :) I wish you all the very best.
Well you're an idiot. You'll realize soon enough
@@lyriclanguages3780 May you be healed from the trauma you have experienced in life. I wish you the very best. Peace ✌
@@lyriclanguages3780 being rude would be so hard🙄🙄
Welcome to a world of husband's worshippers and good luck with pleasing your 'lord'. I hope you will leave Islam before its too late.
God bless this young lady. I'm sure millions of other muslim women feel the same way. I believe in loving peaceful god. The magnificent wonders of nature are here for all to enjoy.
Someone! Please, tell this poor woman that according to the Hadith, women will be veiled in Jannah, too. Heartbreaking 💔
Dang
And according to another Hadith they will be imprisoned at their Jannah's homes and allowed to look at a husband only. That's even worse than being veiled.
As a Christian I have a freedom, a peace and a joy. Even if I discover I was wrong all the time, I will not regret my choice. Since I became Christian, the grass seems greener, the sky bluer, the birds sing lovelier and the flowers look more intricate. The sacrifices I make I make in love, like a parent does for a child, there is thena joy as the parent see the child blessed. Even in trouble and strife, I receive a deep hope and peace that passes understanding
I know that is not the impression people get of Christianity, and I know it is not how all Christians are. But this is the truth of following the Lord Jesus.
I see a woman very aware of her feelings smothered by the using of hijab. I am a woman and ex muslim. I think hijab is very beautiful, but it is uncomfortable as it is demanded by men instead of the option of the woman.
Absolutely. İ am wearing hijab with my own choices. So it is for me beautiful. But i am pretty sure if someone wear hijab without wanting, it would he so hard🦋 i hope they can live their own life
Looking forward to seeing her on the channel
I read something similar about nudist on a beach. Imagine the breeze not only on your hair but on your skin and your bones. Why stop at hijab?
Swimming naked in the nature is the best feeling ever.
It's the God's gifts Mohammed took away from woman....if you really think about it.. breeze in her hair.. swimming under the water with your hair floating.. feeling more than a slave..🙏😔 Jesus loves you
Um jesus also isnt real lmfao
Inspiring stuff.
This is worth watching twice to get the point across. Watch it three times and you will think amazing possibilities.
This felt honestly heartbreaking. She clearly does not enjoy wearing the hijab and sees it as a form of sacrifice for reward in the afterlife.
Males should be wear niqab.
Wear it then you seem like a man
I used to be one of those girls. covering up, all in black. giving up music, life .All for the sake of invisible unfair crucial god ..
NOT ANYMORE
She chose that path. Not Allah/God.
And God does not ask for her to wear hijab.
Hijab is cultural feature. Has nothing to do with honor of a women.
first of all thanks from india for this subtitel stuff.. now atleast half of india can understand ur dilect.. nd u get more subs...
It's just a piece of cloth. It could be a hat. Or a wig. It's a burden if you have no choice. I know women who choose to cover their hair and they're not suffering. How much of my body do I have to show off to prove to the world that I'm not oppressed? When I wear high heels and make up, am I oppressed or free? Isn't that entirely up to me to decide? When will the society and the govt stop telling women what to wear? I say this as an atheist and a woman. When women's clothing is so emotionally charged and political, then it's a problem. (Was there a time when this wasn't so?) The woman who wrote about her experience clearly has issues with her hijab - she shouldn't have to wear it.
As a side note, we are the only animal with the concept of "nudity" which would make no sense whatsoever to the rest of the animal kingdom.
She isn't in compulsion to wear it nor is she forced by any human to have to wear it, but as a Muslim she SHOULD wear it
It is obligatory to wear it? Are u sure u know about Islam???
Abdullah Sameer im amazed by your knowledge at Islam please suggest me some books to read 👍🏻
I'll do that...the Quran, the hadith of Al-Bukhari and Muslim, the Sira of Ibn Ishaq/Ibn Hisham. Those are the core texts of sunni-islam, read those, and you will easily see how stupid an ideology it is. All one needs is the ability to think, and those books, and it will very soon become evident that everyone, especially women, should stay away from Islam.
@@Timeren2010 wouldn’t say that certain sira is a core text of Islam tho. It’s widespread but not at all comparable to the aforementioned. And keep in mind that that’s just Sunni sources, if you wanna learn about Shia Islam you have to read other texts. Same is true for Ibadi Islam, quranite Islam and so on and on
@@natalikronwald6177 i focus on sunni-islam, they comprise the vast majority of muslims.
And...FU..whoever it is that deletes my posts, censorship-retards.
@@natalikronwald6177 also, the differences between shia and sunni is, in the larger picture, pretty insignificant. Can't take quranists seriously, without the hadith there is no islam, the quran is just a silly little book, nothing to build an ideology on.
@@natalikronwald6177 You can't begin to understand the Qur'an until you read Ibn Ishaq, as he tells you after every incident which verse of the Qur'an was revealed. For example Sura Anfal (The Spoils) came down when Muslim warriors were squabbling about division of the Spoils of War after the Battle of Badr in 624CE.
Yeah... If women wear it because Allah would think they are sinners, and won't be allowed in jinnah... That's blackmail, it's not love, not sacrifice nothing... Because automatically women who are not adhering to it means that they are going to hell.... So, yeah spiritual, religious blackmail....
ex-Christian, I've been lurking on the channel. I'd say much of the same thing about Christianity, makes a lot of people do things hoping for a heaven that won't come, wasting their life
What if that fake heaven is real what if don't go all in but don't go all out either
So in this world where you are guaranteed fresh breeze of air (which is not permittable now as you are living and experiencing ) you still think you will be allowed this after death ???
Couldn’t the same be said for women forced to pile on the makeup and dress scantily? Her experience is true for her and I’ve heard the opposite. Women who covered up and said how liberating it was and freeing to own their bodies for themselves after years of societal pressure
This video was shameful
@@RandPersonn I appreciate the response. It looks like you’ve answered your own question multiple times. First of all my comment was primarily to do with abdullah sameer using this Muslim women’s post for his own anti Islamic agenda. She was describing what it’s like to sacrifice for God and the struggle that comes with it with the hope of reward in the afterlife. That scenario could equally be applied to so many different sacrifices people make. Not cheating on a spouse, stealing from your company etc. It’s sad that when it comes to people then we are quick to enforce the right and wrongs, but when it comes to God then we actively encourage sinning and betraying Him. I hope you understand where I’m coming from. This woman’s experience is right for her even though I don’t necessarily hold the same beliefs I admire her greatly as someone with great integrity.
Secondly, regarding why the emphasis is on women. Tell me, why do women have to cover their breasts in western countries while men don’t? whether little or a lot, the reasons matter do they not?
@@RandPersonn see now you delve into the realm of semantics and relative values. You say breasts arouse as if that’s just common knowledge. The fact is is that these countries have placed a limit, and that limit applies more to women than men. That’s a fact. How much of a limit is relative to the standards of that country.
I’ve seen secular people cry over a hurt dog but not even care about poor human beings. People will differ in what is and isn’t appropriate and you using your own personal standards and anecdotal experience to set the parameters for all people is unfair. The societal norm now is heavily sexualised to the point of being unrecognisable from even a few decades past and it starts small. People a few generations ago considered even showing the knees of women immodest. Your words are one sided at best. Can you even argue the positives of more modesty for women? it’s pretty straight forward
Who is forcing women wear makeup and to dress scantily?
I don’t think I’ve ever met a woman FORCED to wear make up and be scantily clad…(unless it’s prostitution).
@@hereweare9096 or unless it’s called WORK, like in an office with a CEO. Societal pressure and standards are not hard to see
Just take it off. I have no sympathy
God judge by what is in our heart, not by what we have or do not have on our head!!
Makes me very sad 😞
Hey Abdullah! When do we get to listen the rest of the interview with Al-Mekseekee ? 😃
I feel sorry for Muslims women.
Fatima forgot how she was scolded when she refused to put hijab on first time when she was a child .
Hijab is not bad but it becomes burdened when it is forced.
Hijab has become a part of their life as they have been wearing when their memorie was not even fully developed.
Whats her social media name? She writes beautifully. Can relate. Not being able to feel the wind is a hard part of hijab.
no one force them to wear it. yeah right, that is so not true. for some women maybe. but for a lot of them, it is forced by society.
Although am ex-muslim. I still wear hijab and I definitely know how she feels
Why you still wear ?
@@trevor5597they might not be publicly out yet
Sadly, it's very unlikely that there is anything after death, so these women are missing out so much. They think that their religions, one of thousands, and their god, one of thousands, is correct and what they "believe" will turn out to be true (and hence everyone else will be wrong).
Sadness is still so many muslim women defend islam.
@Win Everything are you sure you wanna please allah ? I think you people are afraid of allah.... 😂😂😂😂.....your allah scare you of hell fire.... 😂😂😂😂😂
Allah cannot be a God who threatens it's people to kill non believer and teaches hatred for non-Muslim... Allah allure people to send to heaven if worship allah and threatens people to send to hell if not worshiped... 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 common it's not a nature of God... Wake-up.... Allah is the main reason behind most terrorism happening in the world.
I’m a progressive Muslim..
my cousin sister and i we’re both in college,
Most of our Muslim female friends didn’t make it to college, even the ones who always scored well and were from economically developed backgrounds ..as they were all married off, some were still minors.. All of their families had similar responses, “ young girls should get marry early since this is time to bear children not to study “ “your in-laws will send u to college” And then they don’t..
At my college, non Muslim female students see the instagram posts of underage Muslim girls about getting married to 50 y/o men and then they ask me questions, some are well informed about Islam not having a minimum age of consent or the Muslims supporting consummation with girl children..as a progressive muslim..I obviously urge them to not generalise on the basis of cultural but then there are Muslim male students who openly preach horrible stuff like fgm and harass other students, and constantly get suspended, are on the verge of getting expelled I’ve even gotten in argument with likes of those.. it’s just that I’m getting tired with defending people who don’t want to improve in any shape or form ….
me still learning till death: the sincerity of actions and acceptance of responsibilities.
2:29 WRONG! *She's doing this for UMAR, AIIxh 2.0 besides Mo!*
He advised Mo that women should wear Hijab and simsalabim on the next day AIIxh revealed a verse ;)
By the sea in a moment, freedom is felt by its breeze.
The Iranian activist Masih Alinejad who lives in the United States but who works against the hijab duty. But she also fights for human rights. and gives voice to Iranians. among other things by showing videos from Iran where morale police can harass women. she has a facebook page in her own name but she is also a facebook page where she has an english translation or writes in english it is called my stealthy freedom. she is also on Twitter. her videos You can easily see if you have the Facebook watch app in your smart TV
I'll see if I can interview her. Will reach out
She found freedom being a human
it was men who wrote their religion, so *yes* they are forced by men to wear it. I think it's a horrible thing to say when a muslim woman says hijab means feminism. Just because it's a scarf worn only by females does not make it "feminism" and how exactly did allah look at women before clothing or modern fabrics existed, back when there was no such thing as hijab? Were all the women who ran around unclothed in the savanah unclean and destined for hell? I assume most muslims are too uneducated to think about these points.
Doing it for no good reason...hmm bro, to them they have the perfect reason. Obeying Allah. It's our job to first unveil to them that allah is unreal