"I Am A Real Woman" - Vanika Sangtani ft Samuel | UnErase Poetry

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  • "I realized I had no chance at romance, because I wasn't a real woman..."
    Credits:
    Written & Performed by: Vanika Sangtani
    Music by: Samuel Pandya
    Curated by: Simar Singh
    Shot at: NCPA, Mumbai
    Video Production: Vision Of Gap
    Shot by: Gaurav Anand, Abhishek Bhutwani, Sandeep Mishra
    Live Sound Recording: Sohaill Gandhi & Varun (NCPA)
    Lights by: Saurabh Tawde (NCPA)
    Sound Mixing & Mastering by: Sohaill Gandhi
    Edited by: Amisha Bhatia
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    About UnErase Poetry-
    We are a community for promoting and producing spoken word poetry through live performances and online content, based in Mumbai, India.
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ความคิดเห็น • 306

  • @nandinishukla4755
    @nandinishukla4755 ปีที่แล้ว +1002

    you believe it or not, it takes so much courage to speak this in front of all the people. love you vanika!!!!

    • @vanikasangtani1796
      @vanikasangtani1796 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It did! And it makes my heart full to know that you accept this ❤

    • @neelsjindal2659
      @neelsjindal2659 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Apart from the bravery that you have shown in this poetry , the message you have given is much precious than just the physical aspect of a woman.
      If we look at a woman as a wounded soul ...this poetry if amplified describes the journey of a wounded to Divine Feminine Energy.
      This poetry depicts an unhealed feminine energy.
      Till she was not able to perform or behave like an ideal woman (as per the knowledge of ideal woman given to her by all ) , she felt miserable and kept putting herself through pain.
      She kept giving herself pain to prove herself as a normal woman because "not being normal and like other women looked so scary.
      When she realised she has to look within to see why that incompleteness she is feeling she stepped out to heal the part that was feeling abnormal/wounded.
      She could see that she was fine and perfect and healing of wounds is possible because she is Divine too !

    • @its_br2001
      @its_br2001 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vanikasangtani1796 👏👏

    • @vanitasharma6143
      @vanitasharma6143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seriously...hats off vanika👏

    • @AvantikaTales
      @AvantikaTales ปีที่แล้ว

      It's always so wonderful to listen 💗
      Please listen to my work on my channel and show youd support 😀👏🪻💖🥰

  • @nehafarheen4605
    @nehafarheen4605 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    Vaginismus is a very common disorder and is curable.But due to the lack of awareness of the general problems which we girls may face during our first intercourse,we start to belittle ourselves.I hope more such initiative will be taken to educate women on these grounds.Thanks Vanika for coming out and talking on this.Such a brave girl !💟

    • @anju3787
      @anju3787 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/SWtnP-f8lSQ/w-d-xo.html

    • @nehafarheen4605
      @nehafarheen4605 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@vanshikalohan i cannot explain the whole treatment here dear.but yes as you know the vagina is strectchable but just its opening has some issues so with some medications it can be treated and hence its curable.Hope it helps!

    • @vanshikalohan
      @vanshikalohan 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@nehafarheen4605 thank you.. ☺

  • @DiyaMittal
    @DiyaMittal ปีที่แล้ว +22

    When Vanika speaks, we know it gonna touch our souls, especially her voice trembling is amazing as if she is living the moment as she speaks.

  • @swatisaini5221
    @swatisaini5221 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She getting emotional while explaining 🥺 kuddos to your strength . you are strong woman ❤️

  • @deepikasingh1374
    @deepikasingh1374 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "It's just a lost child" statement is ♥️♥️

  • @ankitasachdeva4022
    @ankitasachdeva4022 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It needs so much courage to talk on such a topic in front of many people where u also know that it will get uploaded on social sites also.. besides all these it's the wonderful thing bruh u had told and outstanding... just where I have no words to adore this beauty..

  • @sabapathi1343
    @sabapathi1343 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    Just in awe of her courage and strength 🙇... Inspiring

    • @anju3787
      @anju3787 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/SWtnP-f8lSQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @RahulRaj-ej6kp
    @RahulRaj-ej6kp ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am imagining ki i am at the centre and giving her a applause , a standing ovation, a bow down, a hats off .. Literally a hats off....

  • @jagriti2673
    @jagriti2673 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Strange how we never knew about all this. This needs to be taught to young people in schools.

  • @nivakalita5697
    @nivakalita5697 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I don't know how to praise you. You are indeed a strong woman. It takes too much courage to speak about a taboo in front those people who made it taboo. I got so emotional.

  • @Tulsishiningstar1408
    @Tulsishiningstar1408 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    U are an inspiration for our so called society, u prove that if a girl wanna to do something deeply then no any power of universe stop her because nothing can dim the light that SHINES from WITHIN ❤️❤️ Hats of u 🙏❣️✨

  • @ananyaa7890
    @ananyaa7890 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this poem is so so powerful... takes courage to stand in front of millions and say it out loud

  • @aishwaryadutta1574
    @aishwaryadutta1574 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You're such a strong and powerful woman :)
    It takes a lot. A lot to come up with something that talks about not just about a woman's heart, not just about her feelings, but about the part of love that no girl talks about. WE LOVE YOU, WE REALLY DO. ❤

  • @amittrivedi8482
    @amittrivedi8482 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hats off !!
    You are god’s child and I mean it because you have a power to make someone laugh and cry at the same time with your emotions .
    Saying this on public platform needs lot of courage and you said it very well 🙌♥️
    Stay strong .

  • @purvigupta77
    @purvigupta77 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I m a girl and evem i don't know about this problem but after listening this i Googled it and able to know and learn something new, thank you for taught us something new and real ....lots of love and hugs ♥️🤗

  • @priyankisaikia6593
    @priyankisaikia6593 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A big big big applause to Vanika. She is a wonder woman after this. You are an inspiration dear

  • @iragautam4706
    @iragautam4706 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This much courage. Always coming up with masterpiece and you add up way too much strength to everyone around. So proud of you ✨️

  • @equeenchamuah1655
    @equeenchamuah1655 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Thanks for speaking about this I thought I was alone .... I thought no one is like me .... The way you told is the exact what I used to feel but thanks to God that I got a supportive boyfriend .... He told you should go for a gyane n I am always with you 💗

  • @mayuart____
    @mayuart____ ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Bro it needs so much courage and confidence to perform this type of topic in front of so many people , not just real but absolutely a strongest and a beautiful women you are 💖

    • @AvantikaTales
      @AvantikaTales ปีที่แล้ว

      It's always so wonderful to listen 💗
      Please listen to my work on my channel and show youd support 😀👏🪻💖🥰

    • @anju3787
      @anju3787 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/SWtnP-f8lSQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @mzworld4214
    @mzworld4214 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Whattt a courage you have girl !!
    Yes, undoubtedly This is a called a real women❤️🌸

  • @harshitakhurana9059
    @harshitakhurana9059 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Myyyy god. I’ve goosebumps girl. So proud of you just for sharing it all! Much love❤️

  • @elizemodi225
    @elizemodi225 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    I am so proud of you for having the courage to speak about it. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @anju3787
      @anju3787 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/SWtnP-f8lSQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @dr.kathiawadi
    @dr.kathiawadi ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Goosebumps 🥺 well done vanika! So so proud of you. For us romance is not all about intimacy we live in different world yes ❤️

  • @dopeshreyy
    @dopeshreyy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This courage to speak on the stage will give lots of male the knowledge bout what a female is and then we(male) try our best to help it out to make all those problems solved. Tq for this ❤️🔥

  • @yashkhagram2467
    @yashkhagram2467 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh" the words"🖤🙌🔥 "the courage" the confidence " Vanika u r awesome hats off 🖤

  • @hrb9877
    @hrb9877 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    As a human, it takes a lot of maturity to speak about these issues what a women actually goes through and not feeling ashamed to speak about it. These types of topics are needed to create an awareness amongst people in society. Well said !!

  • @mehakaggarwal7482
    @mehakaggarwal7482 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Trust me. I was going through the same thing... You words made me cry... Lots of love vanika ❤️

  • @ashipippal5321
    @ashipippal5321 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Kudos to the girl !! She has this much courage to come out and speak. Proud of you Vanika ❤❤

  • @shaillyupadhayay9692
    @shaillyupadhayay9692 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm speechless 🥺...got goosebumps already 👏🔥

  • @shivangisingh4472
    @shivangisingh4472 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    People only raises hand on a women yesss......it take so much courage to say all this beautiful lines which the women feels but no other men just beautiful....lots of love to vanika big fan 💗

  • @shalinichandel02
    @shalinichandel02 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Things you've shared with all of us takes a lot of courage and strength to open up. That's why you are my favourite Vanika ❤️

  • @rajulchauhan1632
    @rajulchauhan1632 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh mah gawdd... Trust me it takes so much courage to talk about this I can feel youu vanika I'm 23 n m still struggling with mahself you have no idea you made the things easy for me I felt m not a normal coz noone can relate with me

  • @ravigarg6173
    @ravigarg6173 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Whoaa girl hats off to you🙌🙌
    It takes a lot lots of courage to present such sensitive issue on such a great platform. ❤️

  • @IshikaRoy-tk3ft
    @IshikaRoy-tk3ft ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Vanika mam you're just amazing and it takes a lot of courage to talk about your personal problems in front of billions of people and you always do ........... I really admire you alot and only because of you I also tried to pen down some of my feelings, my problems and my point of views in poetry form......... I love you so much and I hope I will get a chance to meet you one day....... Love from one of your fan Ishika Roy ✨❣️

  • @sharayuthombre3845
    @sharayuthombre3845 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thiss is amazinggg, i got goosebumps on each line... Thank you so much for putting this out there... You're very courageous.. Love youuuu...

  • @jharnawadhwani9712
    @jharnawadhwani9712 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Woahhhh! Vanika, you are so courageous and brave. 💪💕
    Thanks for putting this out!

  • @saniyakothari5510
    @saniyakothari5510 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the way she said it made my heart tear my goddd

  • @pawankushwaha8156
    @pawankushwaha8156 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    hats off 👏 so much courage is needed to
    express the feeling through lips and words.

  • @mdalfayedali7643
    @mdalfayedali7643 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    women hygiene and intimate problems is not taught in schools or discussed anywhere and thats why most people dont know it ....

  • @life_of_saahi7953
    @life_of_saahi7953 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Truly Amazingggg Di!!! Had to watch it, afterall u a confident, and young girl had put this courage to speak it infront of many ppl, who still feel shame to open u to this topic before ppl, even after being called a broad minded ppl, believe me, YOU ARE A REAL Woman, and Each Day YOU INSPIRE many women>>>> Keep it up, loadss of love.

  • @HarshitSinghhh
    @HarshitSinghhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hats off to u Vanika , undoubtedly it needs so much courage to speak up on this.. and ofcourse this is not a voice for women even a message for men as well ... Proud Proud Proud!!!

  • @garimma_jain
    @garimma_jain ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What an amazing and courageous storyteller you are ❤️

  • @monikatiwari3117
    @monikatiwari3117 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hats off to you girl for your courage to bring such topic up

  • @hiteshdagar6813
    @hiteshdagar6813 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    Ittt takes a lott of courage and this courage only you have vanikaa again a masterpiece ❤

    • @AvantikaTales
      @AvantikaTales ปีที่แล้ว

      It's always so wonderful to listen 💗
      Please listen to my work on my channel and show youd support 😀👏🪻💖🥰

  • @archanaarchu1818
    @archanaarchu1818 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great job and hats off to the courage for presenting such a topic which everyone shy to talk to...

  • @AakritiKumari_
    @AakritiKumari_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My goodness u r just amazing each sec my heart was pumping louderrrr as if I am lost into ur voicee ❤❤

  • @ArchanaKumari-ml5tw
    @ArchanaKumari-ml5tw ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Vanika ❤️❤️ just powerful 🔥🔥 i will not say it takes courage to speak rather courage is the outcome of acceptance and you are such a beauty on earth. Keep inspiring through your words. May you flourish more and more ❤️❤️

  • @jincyvarghese6678
    @jincyvarghese6678 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hats off to a real Woman!

  • @dikshasharma1574
    @dikshasharma1574 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Outstanding vanika 😘seriously you have soo much courage to tell the story in a stage ✨🧿 hats off you girl ❤️

  • @annukumari3324
    @annukumari3324 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lots of love vanika...u r doing a great job....I really admire your courage ❤️❤️
    Pls keep sharing more 😍

  • @anshisaxena7803
    @anshisaxena7803 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The way she shivered!

  • @Prachisingh-ky8ck
    @Prachisingh-ky8ck ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That's why we love vanika✨🌻

  • @madhuriv714
    @madhuriv714 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant! Hats off for your courage Vanika! You are an inspiration!

  • @vandnadevrath8444
    @vandnadevrath8444 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    you have a lot of courage vanika
    keep going like this and contribute in change of thinking of society 👍👍😊☺️

  • @faizanmemon6638
    @faizanmemon6638 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Thankyou qaira for sharing this out.I hope world becomes a good place for woman....

    • @anju3787
      @anju3787 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/SWtnP-f8lSQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @tarunmalviya21021
    @tarunmalviya21021 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Hats off to vanika❤

    • @anju3787
      @anju3787 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/SWtnP-f8lSQ/w-d-xo.html

  • @Ektabishnoi1
    @Ektabishnoi1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Outstanding 🤩
    You have very much courage 👍👍

  • @shinchannohara9511
    @shinchannohara9511 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    More power to you, Not anyone has the courage to say these important things in front💗💗.

  • @aditya.malpani
    @aditya.malpani ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Powerful! ❤Courageous and Honest! All love to you! ✨✨

  • @shreysichitlangia7792
    @shreysichitlangia7792 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is soo deep incredible amazing and I don't know what to say but u are really a star 🌟 keep shining! Lots of love
    ~shreysi ( a poetry writer)

  • @soumyasgallery1289
    @soumyasgallery1289 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A lot of courage girl .....damnnnnnnn proud of the person u r ...... following you since ur first story 🤍🫂

  • @biojunction96
    @biojunction96 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Totally my story love but it took me 8 years and a perfect and understanding partner....

    • @vanikasangtani1796
      @vanikasangtani1796 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So happy for you. Sending you dua and hugs ❤

  • @ujalachoudhary3683
    @ujalachoudhary3683 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're a real woman 💞❤️. Hats off to you for this courage🥰

  • @harshpratapsingh3867
    @harshpratapsingh3867 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hats off man you have guts.. saying this is great deal .. wonderful vanikaa❤️

  • @maitrayeekoiri04
    @maitrayeekoiri04 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    @VANIKA SANTANI Is a real queen 😭❤️

  • @tejaschoursia8832
    @tejaschoursia8832 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You go girl. Love you ❤❤
    Keep connecting us with your stories and courage 😘

  • @AreYouWatchingPrii
    @AreYouWatchingPrii ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am feeling your words the way you did 🥺 suffered with the same situation 🥺

  • @prernarajak3833
    @prernarajak3833 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Vanika I felt the same till 19-20 years, my every intimacy was full of anxiety I am so glad we aren't alone also I got a chance to get open to one person which was great but the fact the only person I felt intimacy with has left me but I'm so glad to know I'm okay, and it tooked me fucking 2 years to talk to my gynae, told my friends but no one was related to it and ofc you are my big strong woman💪❤❤

    • @trigcat3107
      @trigcat3107 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Kitne ladko ke neeche aa chuki ho? Kya rate hai?
      Seriously yaar matlab tum kisi ladke ki jindagi toh barbaad krogi hi shadi karke

  • @Thatambitiousgirl_
    @Thatambitiousgirl_ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wowwwww.... you speak up for many unsaid voices❤✨✨✨✨Loved it 💘💘💘💘💘💘

  • @bladevlogs16
    @bladevlogs16 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Salute to her🥺

  • @arjanikitha5762
    @arjanikitha5762 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No words..you are just amazing..hats off to you..

  • @aastharani6484
    @aastharani6484 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gossebumps ❤❤More power to you Dii. ❤🙏

  • @AnamikaSingh-cb1kg
    @AnamikaSingh-cb1kg ปีที่แล้ว +3

    U nd ur courage are meant to be loved 😍 ❤

  • @anushabhat9584
    @anushabhat9584 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love you and congratulations to an outstanding performance ❤️❤️

  • @Anjalifantasticworld
    @Anjalifantasticworld ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My god...i just got goosebumps listening to you ❤❤

  • @nooremayassam571
    @nooremayassam571 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Goosebumps 💗

  • @ankushdevaliya2449
    @ankushdevaliya2449 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Kudos to your courage ... May god bless you !!❤️

  • @RuchiBaid
    @RuchiBaid ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was absolutely beautiful ❤️

  • @theroadnottaken63
    @theroadnottaken63 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So proud of you girl.

  • @ananyasingh1829
    @ananyasingh1829 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Khatarnak bro ❤️ 💥 loved it 🙌❤️

  • @smitaroy7130
    @smitaroy7130 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just awesome ❤️🌻

  • @btsarmyandblinkforever7229
    @btsarmyandblinkforever7229 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It takes a lot of courage to speak about her sexual history in front of so many people especially in India, where a lot of people have orthodox and conservative mindset. Kudos to you girl. 👏

    • @trigcat3107
      @trigcat3107 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ha behen tum ban jao liberal aur gali mohalley ke har ladke se thukwao apni vagina. Fir baad me kisi ko dahej deke ya love trap me fasa ke arrange marriage kar lena..
      Cexual history hona kafi progressive jo hai na

  • @ritwiksahay6384
    @ritwiksahay6384 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wonderful you courageous girl... More power to you. Respect 💯

  • @nehachaudhary547
    @nehachaudhary547 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wonderfully said

  • @rimathapa9882
    @rimathapa9882 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i need this type of confidence in my life...... hats off to you🔥❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @anmolgosain1279
    @anmolgosain1279 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hats off to you girl for this masterpiece🔥♥️

  • @manyajha
    @manyajha ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are just amazing all the time... Well explained.. 💝

  • @naincy13
    @naincy13 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alwys coming up with the best 🤌🏻🥀 VANIKA is one of the best gurl with a lot courage to speak up on these kinda topics 🔥😍

  • @nagmaraj4736
    @nagmaraj4736 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So So proud of you vanika 💖✨🌻

  • @swati1027
    @swati1027 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you vanika and hats off to talk about it 💜

  • @jyotsanasingh4828
    @jyotsanasingh4828 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amazing ❤️

  • @aswinsk3639
    @aswinsk3639 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hats off to you sister...Bless you

  • @ScienceSimplifiedAcademy
    @ScienceSimplifiedAcademy ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Just saw her on kapil sharma show, she was in the audience. I thought her name is Kiara and searched "kiara poetry" but thankfully TH-cam showed this video as the first one😂

  • @khushi...7096
    @khushi...7096 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U always came with more stronger than earlier 💟❤️❤️💯

  • @anushkajaiswal6219
    @anushkajaiswal6219 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow outstanding I'm a teenager girl bt I feel every single word of urs. Love u Di ur amazing

  • @rasesvari
    @rasesvari ปีที่แล้ว +5

    there are may out here who can relate with this
    Thank you very much for sharing 🌸🌸🌸

    • @AvantikaTales
      @AvantikaTales ปีที่แล้ว

      It's always so wonderful to listen 💗
      Please listen to my work on my channel and show youd support 😀👏🪻💖🥰

  • @KhushiSingh-hq7kk
    @KhushiSingh-hq7kk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the strongest girls i have ever ever seenn❤️

  • @mugdhakanungo
    @mugdhakanungo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so proud of vanika though you're also scared but you spreaded the awareness.

  • @mivaanchauhan1736
    @mivaanchauhan1736 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hii... Vanika... Yes you're and every women outh there are real women.. and thank you this masterpiece hats off to your bravery and i realised what a real man is ..

  • @lawkosh3384
    @lawkosh3384 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    # i am a real woman ❤❤❤ love it .