This film was patronising and sexiest,demoralising to women and sends a message that the Indian Culture and metromoraial values which has been working for centuries which our forefathers had adopted, I understand there has been exploitation , which need be addressed but writers and producers have taken this out of context and compared the Western Values to condemning Eastern Values, I have found this Film to offensive, Eastern Marriages use have a very low divorce rate compared to Western but this type of crap vision has turned our young generation to thinking that man is superior to women, I would rate this film as a demising to all Asian Culture.
@ it's because from our very childhood we are taught that parents are God and parents are always right . We don't have any identity of our own . We are seen as objects like an business agreement . You know what why it's low rate of divorce because hamen bachpan se yeh normalize Kiya jata hai husband is god . Going against him is sin . Well you should be a human first rather than calling yourself admirer of so called Indian culture . This film shows us the reality and the dark side of Indian society . Marital rapes bhi common hai yahan par....abhi bhi bologe ki Indian culture is great ? Jis culture mein women ki respect nhin hoti na woh culture devil culture . No matter kitni saal purana ho aur kitne low divorce rate .
@ Just because you have a fond attachment to your culture and you uphold it at a very exalted level,that doesn't mean you should blind yourself to the faults, shortcomings and gapping loopholes in your culture!!!!.... Even though it may have some plus points ,there are many things wrong with Asian culture!!!..... Specially when it comes to arranged marriage!!!.... And Low divorce rate doesn't mean Successful Marraige!!!..Two people may be miserable in a long Marraige ,with no option to exit it or get a fresh start in life!!!... People in Asian countries sometimes struggle to break free from a forced Marraige,but they can't because of the rigid cultural norms and orthodox thinking of society!!!..... Now I am not promoting western culture here,but atleast they have the option of breaking free from a bad relationship and not get heavily judged for it!!!!!!...
@@sunandabehera5075 I agree with a lot of what you said!!!....Yes,but marital rape will always remain a controversial subject,with almost equal participation from "For" and "Against" sides!!!... While it is unethical,I doubt it would be rendered illegal!!!....
Harshitha BC .....itz mostly men who are for sale... It is their paycheck and thier salary that the bride's family(including her) are mostly concerned about!!!.....men are just walking talking accessories with price tag on them, according to most women and society itself...!!..
For sale this is an interesting sale that you get product and money. This is pathetic India and Pakistan needs to stop this ridiculous thing immediately. Plus wherever else it is followed. In some societies to get a bride they have to pay huge sums too people wake up it is your daughter not a commodity that you are selling. Changing people’s view and strict Laws are a must. Good clip I felt tears in my eyes thinking about the pain through which families who are less fortunate have to go through it’s just sad.
@@roselion5313 Itz not a sale perse....itz a business transaction ......no matter how sublime u make it to be,marriage or any other romantic relationship is NOTHING but a business exchange....!!!.......in traditional marriage setups,the husband provides safety,financial security and comfort and pleasure,in return wife provides care and nurturing towards thier kids and parents,..whereas Love,sex and pleasure are provided by both parties to each other(husband to wife and wife to husband)....... Nowadays the relationship paradigms and parameters are changing,however the underlying operating principle is still the same.........women and men both work now,they hire maid and other stuff for household chores....however there is still exchange of love, companionship, bodily fluids among other things..... This whole business model is operating because of the delusionary attachment humans have towards one another....Even The whole idea of Love,how ever sacred it maybe,starts from a business requirement.......I like a car,I try to buy it and make it mine.... similarly if one person likes somebody else,they try to make the other an integral part of their life........they give love and get love...... How is all of this anything but business exchanges.....we r commodities,men and women both,we try to sell ourself to companies on the basis of our skills, to our partners on the basis of our attractiveness or capacity to love,to the society....etc and we are on the buying side also......
Sayad...Es documentory ko dekh kr.... Yadi us girl ki jgh...apni Life partner ko dekhe to sayad boys me utna effect nhi pde...log enjoyment ke roop me dekhe... But Us girl ki Jgh...apni Sister, or Daughter ko rkh kr dekhe....to Its create huge Blunder like....jis trh suicide,,aur aaj v Violence hota h...women pr
@@t33554 for u not for whole world family oriented marriage are precious becoz whole family came closure i think it's good for relationship. Yeah i am against few things -dowry ladki ki bina anumati ke kisi sai bhi saadi krwa dena
No matter what, still everything is same cuz if our society really could have changed by seeing short films then it would have changed, but it didn't ! Until and unless the new generation don't changes it's mentality, nothing is gonna change
@CHELSEA FC thats goood ....who said ur a credit card ....ab tum betiyon ko jaadaa padhaaooge nhi ,,....housewife hi prefer karoge toh kharchaa bhi toh karnaa padega naa ....and yeah dowry toooo ...so yeah SHE'S NOT A PRODUCT ...🙂
It physically pains me to see that none of these comments shocked me. This is the reality of our society. Great work @chalopicturechalein continue to create such great content and raise awareness
That's the great indian Culture girls are product. and no emotion or love . They have nothing in marriage only a funking Machine for husband 90% of Indian marriages are like this.short film
One of the saddest parts about this is that the parents really think that what they're doing will make their daughter happy. A forced smile doesn't make the person is happy...
@Chennai Super Kings well fine let ur wife work and she will pay for her own bills as easy as that 😩... And also if she earns more than her husband kindly don't make it a big deal.... Or else hand her the money she deserves for opression
Similarly, the sad part is that the boy's parents also do not think that his wife is going to use their son as a free ATM all her life and so the son is also not going to be happy
Paritosh Jadhav hey men ,so what do you think these types of sexist assholes eh? You still think we got equality? Damn I can’t believe it dude. You piece of shit how would you feel if you were in women’s place. Men like you should just go to hell.
I dont know whts right but dont get marry is not the solution . Solution will be ..get marry ...be get good education ..self depndent and learn to your doughter the same ...... So i hope every thing will be fine after 2 to 3 generations....hope
Come on guys...., marriage is for benefits like having a company in all, sexual desires, children as your next DNA, supremacy, and blah blah blah.... living in their own kind is not wrong choice.., but all you need is strength to fight with f*****ing society, a perfect answer to parents and a constant income... being Independent and not judging others is a best life...,
@Lockheed Martin ur a sick person with an orthodox thinking. change ur thinking or fuck off with YOUR shit. For people like you, India is lacking development! What the fuck is this dowry shit!? In no foreign country is this shit practiced. No wonder women are treated like objects in this country. Fucking bullshit.
Mittali Mallick, it takes lots of courage to bring change and stay against wrong things and you did that, really salute to you for your strong decision !!!!
मैं खुद इस वीडियो को डिसलाइक करने जा रहा हूं क्योंकि इस तरह की फैमिली में लड़कियां इतना दबके नहीं रहती हैं और ना ही आजकल ऐसा होता है होता भी है तो उसका प्रतिशत बहुत कम है
yes, forced or arranged marriages and honor killings happen in Europe, Canada and in the USA among some Indians, Pakistanis and Immigrants from Turkey and the Middle East. It´s, unfortunately, the truth.
A very meaningful shortfilm. Felt the pain of calling her a product. Though society is changing, many of the things shown in this shortfilm happens around us. Really liked the idea of this film. Kudos to the whole team❤️
That's the great indian Culture girls are product. and no emotion or love . They have nothing in marriage only a funking Machine for husband 90% of Indian marriages are like this.short film
@@rangammarangamma4992 what the hell man see womans are some special creation who can do anything.... There are lots of husband in the world depending on wife salary.... women should have some special rights as they are just now entering out of the house.... Men won't need any special rights as they are already strong....
Right ,without girl ,the society seems a barren field. They are the inspiration of boys,they are lovable,kind hearted,but sometimes they are emotional .Now a days they are competing with the boys to work in every field ....they are competing with boys neck to neck to achieve a honourable post/designation.
Me also but when i get to know that actually they are talking about the girl and call her product 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠 i just want to smash face of those who actually treat girls as a product
@Capt Ranvijay Rana so keep being an absolute idiot. No one told you to treat every woman as your mother. Rather think your mother is a woman too, and she gave you the privilege of her womb.
i think all the problems arise in india especially against women from the dowry system and arranged marriage system , Women are labelled a products and their market value increase when they know all household chores that are basic knowledge for all human not just women . LETS MAKE THIS A MOVEMENT - #BANARRANGEDMARRIAGE#DONTBOYCOTTLOVE#LETSFALLINLOVE#IWANTLOVE
@ Why is there a low rate of divorce in eastern countries? Because women are forced to sacrifice and devalue themselves and keep the marriage working. Why is divorce even considered bad? It is only two individuals deciding they are not meant to live together and go their seperate ways
@@time-passers9286 in-laws, society pressure “ padhai karti rahogi toh shaadi kab karogi” trope. Women toil in in kitchen 9 days, while fasting, 9-5 job ghar wapas aa ke dinner kapade khana jise koi acknowledge nahi karta. Working women ko bhi ghar sambhal na padega. It’s hectic for women to be married AND work.
@@time-passers9286 jobless ladki ko to obviously trophy wife baba denge and ladke jo hostel mein khana banate hain wo struggle nahi adulting kehnte hain. And ofc ladko pe pressure hota lekin ladkiyon pe zyada hota hai. I’ve seen it myself ladki ko early 20’s mein vida kar dete hain bojh kam karne ke liye ladko ki shaadi pe pressure hota hain lekin ladki jutta nahi. Ladka agar late 20’s tak shaadi na kare to “career oriented hai” lekin ladki shaadi na kare to “bigdi” “zada forward” aur “bitch hai”
If I could ever meet you.😊 Aisa thappad padta nah.....muh ghoom jata. Are you insulting women. We are incomplete without each other.....don't you understand that. DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT....... PLEASE I BEG THIS GENERATION.....BHADH MEIN JAO.....KAMINO SHARAM KARO. How can a women be physically strong by women's........think logically.
@@homealone9621 first,use your eyes and read it carefully#gavaar second,bolna or likhna kya chahti ho uspar coordination lao#gundi Pehle likh toh dhng se le tb sochna thappad marne ki. Specially that last line. 😁
i think all the problems arise in india especially against women from the dowry system and arranged marriage system , Women are labelled a products and their market value increase when they know all household chores that are basic knowledge for all human not just women . LETS MAKE THIS A MOVEMENT - #BANARRANGEDMARRIAGE#DONTBOYCOTTLOVE#LETSFALLINLOVE#IWANTLOVE
Oh my God Laga jaise dimag hi fat jayega Kitne achhi tarah se kuchh pal main aapne itni badi baat boli Ekdum Kamal Thank u I like it Main apni beti ko jaroor aisi baaton se dur rakhungi. sabko rakhana chahiye
Well i liked the video but reality is also that these practices are decreasing in India. Its not future. Everyone is getting more and more aware. This can't be future. At least don't dis-credit the activists, work we all have put to reduce this by saying its the future
@@bitsanderson6424 have u gone mad ? We the people whether male or female from our adolescence stage use to think or dream about our partner, marriage and girlfriend or boyfriend ... marriage unites two souls ,it doesn't break any relationship rather establishes . Specially, I am a kind of male who is in still search of my soulmate with whom I can share everything as well as she would. In Adult stage how you can think of remaining bachelor? Just impossible to me without my soulmate .
बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद आप सभी को बेहतरीन तरीके से इस फिल्म को किया, बड़े बुजुर्ग अगर गलती करे तो छोटे क्या करेंगे,अमीर दहेज का लेनदेन करेंगे तो गरीब लोग क्या करेंगे सबको खाली हाथ ही जाना है लड़का सरकारी नौकरी का जरूरी नहीं है और सरकारी नौकरी वाला लड़का गरीब लड़की से शादी करें यह जरूरी है
Truly girls are not for sale. It really pains when the girl is being called a product. But all these things are still practiced in our society. I began to hate such practices when I first come to know about these in my highschool studies. Anyway thanks to all of you for making this video.God bless you all. Hope people will value a girl and respect her.
Apoorva Thakkar Things will be change. That we want and hope that you will get marry soon because there are good human in this Earth too. Thanks for your comment. Big thanks
Apoorva Thakkar . To begin with,i feel that human beings have screwed up our society and lives by creating these ideologies abt marriages. Nothing wrong with being single if u cant find a man who will love u. Whats worse is being stuck with the wrong guy to fulfil the society's demands of "being married" while negotiating with the "affordable deal". All im saying is.... dont get stressed out abt being single due to the dowry issues. There r plenty of ppl who have been thrown into the wrong marriages coz of this " DEAL". perhaps ur lucky that u arent stuck inthe wrong marriage. Wish u good luck in finding a guy who loves u for what u are
@@bipanabhattarai7005 .. If men are women are equal why should men look after women. Why cannot women look after men if women are equal to men.. Why should women ask for alimony after divorce.. Why should women want to marry only rich well employed man..
I watched this one year ago but liked it today cuz I am getting married in one month and even though there was no dowry involved ....I dont have equal rights and the experience reminded me of this short film
Then please do not marry such a bloody guy u never respect u n ur wishes ur desires ur emotions he n hez family ur in laws will dominate u after marriage n make u der puppet der slave
Traditional Marriage is for benefits. Parents know you better than yourself. Do you want your mom to divorce and leave you alone with your dad? Stop Western Culture. In Indian Culture, there was different type of marriage, one of them was Gandharv Vivah, it was like love marriage.
@UChLrCBJPi6FOrZBzf4O-BXg shut up u dumb u are embarrassed by narrowing this issue to mere trad marriage arrangement. I think ki tumhare ghar par ladkiyon ko aise dekhte honge. Hmare yaha degrees likes dislike and compatibility dekhi jaati h within the system. Feel sorry for ur pitiable family.
I just want to say that, all girls of india should start strike for 1-2 years and don't get married and you all will see the results 😅😂 the right man can wait for you 1-2 years and the wrong one will definitely change 😀😀 insta: @vyas1764 and @_kunal_vyas
Woman is not a product to use and throw it off..! She is also human beings who should being respected loved and treated as a human If you are agree when like 👇
I was so angry 😠 when I was seeing this video before the last message ,because we girls are not a product to sell ,we are also humans beings like boys we have the right to get educated, and be independent. We can change the whole world by starting at our homes Dont give dowry ,dont take dowry ,educate girls they will make u proud one day
Thing is, underneath all the sweet words and impossible promises, this is a REALITY for so many people. Selling their daughters because she's a burden. But how about investing in her education and career? Then, she can be a support system to anyone. When you cut off the limbs, you can't expect people to walk. But investing in their passions could give them wings to fly. Loved the video no matter how crude it was.
@@sureshpareek2127 sahi kaha... Lekin bol kr bhi koi fayda nhi hota.. koi nhi sunta. Maine bhi apne parents se kaha tha ki engagement tod do but nhi todte..
Wow ,,,kitna ache tarike se dikhaya hai ,,,girls ko product samjha jata hai marriage tym or shadi ek deal ki tarah finalise ki jati hai or full payment chaiye shadi se pehle nhi to shadi k baad ladki sath misbehave hoga bs ,,dowry na milne par waise b abhi society ni badlegi bhut tym lagega tb tk hum old hojayege 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But parents b "khushi khushi" dete hai 'dowry' kya guarantee hai ladki khush rahegi ,,,,shadi is jua and all about destiny ,,khush rahoge ya dukhi in sb deals k baad bhi ,,,no guarantee ,,,,but good short film 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 make more short films 👍🏻all were do good acting
Anshika Sharma easier said than done. It’s parent’s responsibility to educate them and they do not. While the kid is a child how can they know what is right or wrong. How not studying will effect their future. sadly only 60% of woman are literate. Worse.. literate only means read or write. They soon drop out in 10 th / 12 th grade. That’s why in 2018 only 23 % of woman participated in work force. People who are in city area .. have so much privileges and arrogance that they puff their chests and say that woman have no problem now. And no need for women reservation. They don’t even bother to see why it’s implemented. And the deep root of our society which raise girl to be perfect housewives rather than independence. Don’t even realise that people outside their bubble exist. 65% of India is still rural/village. With people of conservative mindset everywhere. Education rally should be the biggest goal in India .
Harender Kumar indeed, but the circumstances and burdens they are put under do not allow them to succeed in that way. The video is reflecting the social realities of our day and age it’s so sad
Harender Kumar that’s what I was waiting for I thought she was gonna shit her parents up cause her mum should know better her mum is a female and she’s listening to the dad instead of fighting against it and doing what her daughter want. If I had a man like that I’m packing your suitcase and putting it by the door because I’m not risking my daughters life for a man who’s stubborn and treats my child as a burden fuck that bull crap
Local Delhi autos have a phrase written behind them "Dulhan hi dahej hai" When even rickshaw pullers acknowledge this message then how can middle class people not? A woman is not brought, she is earned.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana Indeed. We have had 73 years of independent society to develop moral etiquettes and ethical standards of living. How did this even happen, were my previous to previous generations so deluded that they refused to advance to a modern society? Caste system, religious extremists, and marital bindings, they all restraint the development of a society. In this case, brides are treated as an object of value rather than a fellow human being. It's horrifying, imagine actually buying a women like she's a whore from the downtown brothel. It's shameful, and this practice needs to end now. Same with the whole system of arranged marriage, it needs to be eradicated. People should have the right to select their own partners, as they have to co-exist with them for their whole life. Same with pre-marital relationships, it should not be frowned upon. India, specially villages are shockingly underdeveloped in these sectors, this needs to be changed.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana That's garbage. A proper and happy marriage should only be conducted after the boy and the girl have been together for atleast half a year, learning about each other, their families and culture. This is not a flimsy deal that you're supposed to sign up for, this is the partner with whom you'll spend your life with. Arranged marriage is bullshit, parents forcing their kids to marry someone whom they like, instead of someone the kid likes, nonsense. No one has the right to judge the partner except the other, even if they suffer by their own choices afterwards. Arranged marriage should be abolished, a marriage based on mutual respect, love and affection is what leads to a happy and stable family.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana That is exactly what I'm saying. Girls get pressurised into marrying someone that they don't feel comfortable with, but only due to the boy in question being rich. What exactly is the point of that? Girls and boys are both financially independent after millennial and Z generation, so this stigma of arranged marriage is a hindrance. A good and happy marriage is not based on the financial status of the boy or something similar, it's based on good compatibility and mutual respect as I mentioned before. This system of arranged marriage is just regressive thinking.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana How the hell do my parents come in this discussion? For the record, my father was not rich per se, nor was my mother a destitute. The filthy practice of dowry insinuates q feeling similar to buying a girl from her family, like taking her off their hands. Is this ethical or is it a downright dehumanisation of females? Women have the right to choose their partners, women have the right to refuse her parents and women have the right to be independent. If the boy's family is demanding dowry, then they are a prime example of uneducated and ignorant idiots who refuse to move on with the world and society. I'm not sure what your point of defense is or what you're defending but you are wrong and it would be better for you to understand the fact that both genders are equal and being rich or poor has no regards for the concept of dowry. Parents need to be taught the importance of choice, if my parents interfere with my choice of bride in the future, I will not allow them to. They can support my decision or they can't, but that does not mean they can force someone I have no idea of or have not interacted with before to be my partner for life. Progressive thinking need to be encouraged, and playing blame game is only for useless garbage. And just how do you think low income and jobless guys hold the right to marry? If someone cannot support themselves properly, they do not possess the right to start a family, and will definitely not be able to support either his wife, if she is dependent financially, nor his future kids, if he decides to have one. Atleast apply some brain before your flimsy argument.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana Do you not understand what my point is? Or am I not making it clear? A person who is not financially stable has NO right to marry, as he would not be able to support either himself or his family. Let's just suppose that the girl would be able to earn for the both of them, but that would still mean that he himself is financially dependent on her, which is pathetic. A marriage should be based on mutual respect and love, which I'm saying for the third time. If your parents marry you off, then it is a disgrace, their is an emotional and mental stability which needs to be established between the two parties beforehand. You are deluded in your point and I do not wish to discuss this any future with you, as you are spouting the same argument repeatedly like an ignorant cuckoo. Atleast try to understand what I'm saying. And I am a boy so I would instead look for a financially independent and a suitable girl instead.
educated family dont take dowry but they will surely go through the bio data to check how much properties the brides father has...nd they want profit through marriage deal so the requirments r girls should be well educated nd has good job to contribute in the family xpense nd they also want this independent educated lady to make perfect gol rotis nd be a tulsi like bahu
Thank u guys u made me realise that how important I am in my family .They struggle for educating me .I have a brother but my parents never ever differentiate me with mah bro .Am glad.Am lucky
Tripti Roy , ek aap hi hai lucky, ab india me sbhi ladhkiyo ko padhaya ja rha hai, hr jgh sirf ladhkiyo ko hi respect mil raha ladhko se bahot jada mil raha....lekin ye feminism aisi video banana nhi bnd karenge chahe kitna bhi ladhkiyo ko sr pe chadha diya jaae
Who the hell are 1.7 k ppl who disliked this vdo This was such a raw content and this is the reality of many villages of India and no matter how open minded our parents are when it comes to marrying their daughters they agree to almost anything
@@mylifewithms145 first of all the spelling of my name is wrong then everybody is allowed to have different views and have a different view than yours and I personally believe that to commit to someone for the rest of our lives and to experience everything together is beautiful , in relationships there's breakup one day patchup another but when u get married u know u are together plus the draupati case u mentioned wouldn't it be better if we worked on sex ratio
i think all the problems arise in india especially against women from the dowry system and arranged marriage system , Women are labelled a products and their market value increase when they know all household chores that are basic knowledge for all human not just women . LETS MAKE THIS A MOVEMENT - #BANARRANGEDMARRIAGE#DONTBOYCOTTLOVE#LETSFALLINLOVE#IWANTLOVE
''after marriage,brides gets super power to do household work".many educated and higher position people also tell this .so what about to expect from normal people.
Boom Cube Duh, I’m not dumb, but all a man does is impregnate, but the woman is the one that brings you to life. Sure, you need two to make one, but the woman does the rest of the work alone. Perhaps you read my comment as over-sexist. It isn’t, but we can all agree that it’s the woman and not the man that undertakes this role right?
Boom Cube and truth to be told, women ARE special when it comes to this. Of course you need male sperm, but since the woman does practically all the rest of the work she has the primary role.
Boom Cube ...Excuse me, mister, but why are they not special? What is the difference between a man and a woman? Hardly anything. But women are treated differently to men. They are supposed to have kids and work in the kitchen. While men are supposed to have jobs and earn money, which isn’t fair. Also, you wouldn’t be born without a woman. So your saying your life isn’t special? Tough, dude.
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Thnx 4 uploading such a video which changes the common sense of the narrow minded people of the society who thinks girls are burden I'm also a girl and I felt emotional,watching this video of yours
Those men mind sets and those old fashion parents mind sets are difficult to change.....it's the girls who need to fight for their freedom and voice out!
a little princess .....ur name is as vague as ur message.....why should men change to make ur life better.....why can't u change urself to face ur circumstances instead......?.....ek toh,u will blame us for ur problems,and then demand dat we wld solve ur issue for u.......we dnt need to do jack-shit,...itz ur problem,deal with it....!!...
@@constipatedbowels3473 i said those man not u and if u considered yourself those man then that's your problem And who the hell are to tell me that my name is vague first see your name 'CONSTIPATED BOWELS'
This is Really *unbelievable* ... I'd literally cried by seeing this video.. we all need to be together and take some action... because it's really not the way girls should be treated 👍
I'm proud of my parents who gave all supports and facilities to fullfill dreams and education of we two daughters , I wish in every birth I might get same parents ❤️❤️
Her being called a product physically and mentally pains me...
Edit: can y'all stop fighting in the comments.
Absolutely!
Yes it hurts a lot I am also a girl and I was feeling like I am also a product ..
And when you want want a man with 2 lakh income isn't that comes under objectifying or product
Everyone is being treated as a product
Yes
That's completely wrong😶
Writer and Director have done tremendous job and the way they represented this social topic is very impressive.
Thank you very much for understanding !!!
This film was patronising and sexiest,demoralising to women and sends a message that the Indian Culture and metromoraial values which has been working for centuries which our forefathers had adopted, I understand there has been exploitation , which need be addressed but writers and producers have taken this out of context and compared the Western Values to condemning Eastern Values, I have found this Film to offensive, Eastern Marriages use have a very low divorce rate compared to Western but this type of crap vision has turned our young generation to thinking that man is superior to women, I would rate this film as a demising to all Asian Culture.
@ it's because from our very childhood we are taught that parents are God and parents are always right . We don't have any identity of our own . We are seen as objects like an business agreement . You know what why it's low rate of divorce because hamen bachpan se yeh normalize Kiya jata hai husband is god . Going against him is sin . Well you should be a human first rather than calling yourself admirer of so called Indian culture . This film shows us the reality and the dark side of Indian society . Marital rapes bhi common hai yahan par....abhi bhi bologe ki Indian culture is great ? Jis culture mein women ki respect nhin hoti na woh culture devil culture . No matter kitni saal purana ho aur kitne low divorce rate .
@ Just because you have a fond attachment to your culture and you uphold it at a very exalted level,that doesn't mean you should blind yourself to the faults, shortcomings and gapping loopholes in your culture!!!!....
Even though it may have some plus points ,there are many things wrong with Asian culture!!!..... Specially when it comes to arranged marriage!!!....
And Low divorce rate doesn't mean Successful Marraige!!!..Two people may be miserable in a long Marraige ,with no option to exit it or get a fresh start in life!!!...
People in Asian countries sometimes struggle to break free from a forced Marraige,but they can't because of the rigid cultural norms and orthodox thinking of society!!!.....
Now I am not promoting western culture here,but atleast they have the option of breaking free from a bad relationship and not get heavily judged for it!!!!!!...
@@sunandabehera5075 I agree with a lot of what you said!!!....Yes,but marital rape will always remain a controversial subject,with almost equal participation from "For" and "Against" sides!!!...
While it is unethical,I doubt it would be rendered illegal!!!....
Girls are not for sale.... !!!
If u agree plz like it...!!
Harshitha BC .....itz mostly men who are for sale... It is their paycheck and thier salary that the bride's family(including her) are mostly concerned about!!!.....men are just walking talking accessories with price tag on them, according to most women and society itself...!!..
For sale this is an interesting sale that you get product and money. This is pathetic India and Pakistan needs to stop this ridiculous thing immediately. Plus wherever else it is followed. In some societies to get a bride they have to pay huge sums too people wake up it is your daughter not a commodity that you are selling. Changing people’s view and strict
Laws are a must. Good clip I felt tears in my eyes thinking about the pain through which families who are less fortunate have to go through it’s just sad.
@@roselion5313 Itz not a sale perse....itz a business transaction ......no matter how sublime u make it to be,marriage or any other romantic relationship is NOTHING but a business exchange....!!!.......in traditional marriage setups,the husband provides safety,financial security and comfort and pleasure,in return wife provides care and nurturing towards thier kids and parents,..whereas Love,sex and pleasure are provided by both parties to each other(husband to wife and wife to husband).......
Nowadays the relationship paradigms and parameters are changing,however the underlying operating principle is still the same.........women and men both work now,they hire maid and other stuff for household chores....however there is still exchange of love, companionship, bodily fluids among other things.....
This whole business model is operating because of the delusionary attachment humans have towards one another....Even The whole idea of Love,how ever sacred it maybe,starts from a business requirement.......I like a car,I try to buy it and make it mine.... similarly if one person likes somebody else,they try to make the other an integral part of their life........they give love and get love......
How is all of this anything but business exchanges.....we r commodities,men and women both,we try to sell ourself to companies on the basis of our skills, to our partners on the basis of our attractiveness or capacity to love,to the society....etc and we are on the buying side also......
But ur mum gey
Absolutely right... girls must be given equal rights
Calling her "PRODUCT" is really disheartening 💔Marriage is not a business!! Great lesson to the society👍👏
Offcourse marriage is not a business
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Sayad...Es documentory ko dekh kr....
Yadi us girl ki jgh...apni Life partner ko dekhe to sayad boys me utna effect nhi pde...log enjoyment ke roop me dekhe...
But Us girl ki Jgh...apni Sister, or Daughter ko rkh kr dekhe....to Its create huge Blunder like....jis trh suicide,,aur aaj v Violence hota h...women pr
Marriage is a business bro. Men want beauty. Women want money. That's it.
@@t33554 for u not for whole world family oriented marriage are precious becoz whole family came closure i think it's good for relationship. Yeah i am against few things -dowry ladki ki bina anumati ke kisi sai bhi saadi krwa dena
this short film slapped on our society's face
Thanks for your comment...
Yeah absoulutly right
Bakwas
@@devenverma3696 kya bakwaas?
No matter what, still everything is same cuz if our society really could have changed by seeing short films then it would have changed, but it didn't !
Until and unless the new generation don't changes it's mentality, nothing is gonna change
Calling her PRODUCT hurt and broke my heart ...........it gives a lot pain💔
Why hate it when it's reality and everyone following it... Because it's in our culture and everyone is maintaining it
Me too
What they said s true that's how society treats women
OmGgG iT hUrT mE
Try this somewhere else pajeet
Bro u should watch this 2 nd part to about men
It's just speechless. It directly slap's on this society.
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Please read this book ( Murder mystery of reporter) by Jaiprakash Jha it was amazing detective novel must read online available🌷
@CHELSEA FC thats goood ....who said ur a credit card ....ab tum betiyon ko jaadaa padhaaooge nhi ,,....housewife hi prefer karoge toh kharchaa bhi toh karnaa padega naa ....and yeah dowry toooo ...so yeah SHE'S NOT A PRODUCT ...🙂
Men are not Free ATM
It physically pains me to see that none of these comments shocked me. This is the reality of our society. Great work @chalopicturechalein continue to create such great content and raise awareness
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Maam aapne thumbnail mein not a product mein se product ko hi kaat diya means aap product hi ho please. Kam se kam kuch dimaag to lagaya kro
That's the great indian Culture girls are product. and no emotion or love . They have nothing in marriage only a funking Machine for husband 90% of Indian marriages are like this.short film
Iam not blame the society
I respect every person not just by their gender rather by their good deeds.
True
Ur right.
But when I do nobody sees.(As a female.)
Neither male praises me nor female.
@@lalmurmu5248 specify any special thing which you have done or tried?
@@lalmurmu5248 you don't need to be praised to know that you are doing the right thing
One of the saddest parts about this is that the parents really think that what they're doing will make their daughter happy. A forced smile doesn't make the person is happy...
@Chennai Super Kings well fine let ur wife work and she will pay for her own bills as easy as that 😩... And also if she earns more than her husband kindly don't make it a big deal.... Or else hand her the money she deserves for opression
@Chennai Super Kings but many husbands don't want working wives the make them quit their jobs
But, Are women ready to marry poor, low salary, tall, fair, handsome, young, well behaved men of good character who do not want any dowry. ..
Similarly, the sad part is that the boy's parents also do not think that his wife is going to use their son as a free ATM all her life and so the son is also not going to be happy
@@angiramaji9635 stop spamming
We are praying for real change in India and all over the world.
@Paritosh Jadhav wat? U want women to remain as "products" when they're obv not?
@Paritosh Jadhav oyee tum...tum jeso hi ho asi society ka reason... futo yha se aur hamare society se v 😡😡😡😡😡🏹🏹🏹
Paritosh Jadhav hey men ,so what do you think these types of sexist assholes eh? You still think we got equality? Damn I can’t believe it dude. You piece of shit how would you feel if you were in women’s place. Men like you should just go to hell.
Paritosh Jadhav without women you wouldn’t exist your poor mother most be expecting her period but she got you tragic.
Paritosh Jadhav You are SO disgusting!
This shortfilm released 4 yrs ago still there is no change🙂
Exactly
It's the reality of an arrenge marry
Don't get marry yaar..., just be strong and become strong to lead life..., girls are not powerless...,
I dont know whts right but dont get marry is not the solution .
Solution will be ..get marry ...be get good education ..self depndent and learn to your doughter the same ......
So i hope every thing will be fine after 2 to 3 generations....hope
@@onlinehandle007 u r right
Come on guys...., marriage is for benefits like having a company in all, sexual desires, children as your next DNA, supremacy, and blah blah blah.... living in their own kind is not wrong choice.., but all you need is strength to fight with f*****ing society, a perfect answer to parents and a constant income... being Independent and not judging others is a best life...,
Yes
Right
The word PRODUCT irritated me a lot
True
Yss... 😑
Sameee
Me too!!!
Right muh todney ka mann kar rha tha
Dowry is a big slap to every parents who give dowry nd who ask for dowry..😠
@Lockheed Martin ur a sick person with an orthodox thinking. change ur thinking or fuck off with YOUR shit. For people like you, India is lacking development! What the fuck is this dowry shit!? In no foreign country is this shit practiced. No wonder women are treated like objects in this country. Fucking bullshit.
@@janneon4164 In countries like UAE and all they give dowry... to women
How can we stop dowry ?
@@shivanshsingh4291 who want dowery??. Lol. Dowery is coming to end. 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
@@shivanshsingh4291 wtf only cheap people ask for dowry.
Being a boy, l was literally crying for 1 hour after watching this video 😔 !
Thanks brother ❤️
I want a boyfriend like you who can understand girl's pain
@@PriyaSingh-ql3hq same here
Drama
I am proud of myself that i broke up with my fiancee for dowry...
Dear beggars please watch this😤😤
Mittali Mallick, it takes lots of courage to bring change and stay against wrong things and you did that, really salute to you for your strong decision !!!!
mittali derewdmfjujoooi
mittali mallick right decision you made dear .. 👍👍
mittali mallick great job...i think if both are educated then its their duty to finance theirselves for their future ...
Well done!!
4.2k dislikes this are those people who have taken dowry in past I bet
मैं खुद इस वीडियो को डिसलाइक करने जा रहा हूं क्योंकि इस तरह की फैमिली में लड़कियां इतना दबके नहीं रहती हैं और ना ही आजकल ऐसा होता है होता भी है तो उसका प्रतिशत बहुत कम है
True
@@शैलेन्द्रयादव-ष8य per hota to hai na aap toh aise bol rahe ho ki aapne dekha hai
Aapke papa ne bhi liya hoga
sorry bolna nhi chahta thaa
@@Ashishsah69 tu kya papa pe ja raha hai sab esa karte hai esa nahi hai per kuch ese hote hai jo dowry mangte hai section 498a padho.
Hats off to the scriptwriter. This is the bitter truth about arranged marriages not only in India but all over the world.
sayu2222 Thank you so much for your comment.
sayu2222
All over world ??
yes, forced or arranged marriages and honor killings happen in Europe, Canada and in the USA among some Indians, Pakistanis and Immigrants from Turkey and the Middle East. It´s, unfortunately, the truth.
But in Himachal arranged marriages are better
A very meaningful shortfilm. Felt the pain of calling her a product. Though society is changing, many of the things shown in this shortfilm happens around us. Really liked the idea of this film. Kudos to the whole team❤️
That's the great indian Culture girls are product. and no emotion or love . They have nothing in marriage only a funking Machine for husband 90% of Indian marriages are like this.short film
They showed the cruel and bitter truth of our society.
Ha off course 😁
Why are you smiling
@@rangammarangamma4992 what the hell man see womans are some special creation who can do anything.... There are lots of husband in the world depending on wife salary.... women should have some special rights as they are just now entering out of the house....
Men won't need any special rights as they are already strong....
@@rangammarangamma4992 that is your problem and dowry is that to take money and property from their parents
@@gangadharnaidu9349 you are right women are already strong just like men.
Black reality of our society 😭❤️❤️❤️🔥🙏😭
*dark
Are you from Korea?
@@shikhajha658 no dear 😅
I am from India 🇮🇳💜🔥
@@shikhajha658 shes a bts fan !!!!...thats jungkook in her profile 😂😂
@@snehachavda23 I AM ALSO FROM INDIA 💜💜💜💜💜💜😢
Girl is not a product .Girl is a precious gift of this world.
Right ,without girl ,the society seems a barren field. They are the inspiration of boys,they are lovable,kind hearted,but sometimes they are emotional .Now a days they are competing with the boys to work in every field ....they are competing with boys neck to neck to achieve a honourable post/designation.
And man is not is a gift. Isn't it?? Of course, not.
True
@@Volvo-f2y no its not like that like we are a gift a men is also is gift.
U r right
Omg... This is the best way they had filmed and played this condition.... I highly appreciate this. This is the face of our society
No something is missing there.. it should be a perfect ending where the girl must raise her voice.👍
You do that in real life that was the true message
No the only thing missing was girl in saree with ghunghat
The ending is real life story... Since childhood she had been taught to be quiet
Yes
Raising voice never works mostly.....no matter how much it affects a girl she has to shut her mouth....and suffering is lifelong
At first i thought they were talking about the dress she wore😂😂
True
Lol 😂😂
Me also but when i get to know that actually they are talking about the girl and call her product 😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠😠 i just want to smash face of those who actually treat girls as a product
I thought the girl was a robot 😂
Yes even me
People who treat women like product should remember their mother could be one of the victims 😕
Man you just fucked up with tense
@@niveditharayappa7899 Being born transgender is not a curse. Let's refrain from putting others down.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana so keep being an absolute idiot. No one told you to treat every woman as your mother. Rather think your mother is a woman too, and she gave you the privilege of her womb.
@@prekshadeol7219 yes
@@niveditharayappa7899 shut up kid
बड़ा तमाचा है ये रूढ़ी , कुंठित समाज और उसकी विचारणा पर ...साहित्य वही जो समाज को आईना दिखाए सराहनीय प्रयास ....👏
"I will pay full payment just before the delivery" - This line is the most worse in a girl's wedding which is highlighted here....
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They want a maid 🥵 even maids are respected
😂
😂😂
You are a maid
@@supercoolman69420 what do you mean?
@@supercoolman69420 ???
My God I m Thrilled 😭😭😭
These video had showed the true face of the society
Luv u with ur dp
@@mrgrizzly9034 thnks bro
i think all the problems arise in india especially against women from the dowry system and arranged marriage system , Women are labelled a products and their market value increase when they know all household chores that are basic knowledge for all human not just women .
LETS MAKE THIS A MOVEMENT - #BANARRANGEDMARRIAGE#DONTBOYCOTTLOVE#LETSFALLINLOVE#IWANTLOVE
@@neethapratheep1476 great view your 💗
@ Why is there a low rate of divorce in eastern countries? Because women are forced to sacrifice and devalue themselves and keep the marriage working. Why is divorce even considered bad? It is only two individuals deciding they are not meant to live together and go their seperate ways
4:14 nice explanation of machine 😌😌and very beautifully patriachial mindset have been shown .
Did anybody noticed that in the starting on 0:36 on the clock it was written that welcome to reality
Now I noticed
Ya I noticed
I did
The narrating system of product and user with owner and customer... Fucked my mind badly
Bahot bura laga Ye video dekh ke
Women in India are raised to be wives. And if they don't find their goals in life they are married.
Yeah if women don't find there goals they get married and if men doesn't find a job they no one marry them... 🙂
@Chennai Super Kings wow what a good way to make things about you this video is about woman not u
Even if they (women in India) find their goals in life they will get married and it's cause neighbours and relatives pressures her to get married.
@@time-passers9286 in-laws, society pressure “ padhai karti rahogi toh shaadi kab karogi” trope. Women toil in in kitchen 9 days, while fasting, 9-5 job ghar wapas aa ke dinner kapade khana jise koi acknowledge nahi karta. Working women ko bhi ghar sambhal na padega. It’s hectic for women to be married AND work.
@@time-passers9286 jobless ladki ko to obviously trophy wife baba denge and ladke jo hostel mein khana banate hain wo struggle nahi adulting kehnte hain. And ofc ladko pe pressure hota lekin ladkiyon pe zyada hota hai. I’ve seen it myself ladki ko early 20’s mein vida kar dete hain bojh kam karne ke liye ladko ki shaadi pe pressure hota hain lekin ladki jutta nahi. Ladka agar late 20’s tak shaadi na kare to “career oriented hai” lekin ladki shaadi na kare to “bigdi” “zada forward” aur “bitch hai”
They showed our society 's real condition perfectly, a nice short film
I promise that I always respect the girls.
And I salute all the girls🙏
Love your concept ❤
Awesome,,,May Allah help you,,,
Respect people in general, not just girls.
@@mathewsteven hmm yes, thats the general idea, but "respect girls" is necessary bc they are the ones who dont get respect now.
@@rebekahmikaelson1198 ohh. So men r not suffering now.. Men no need respect??? Stupid video
To all the foreigners watching. This is the reality of India
Yes you are right
Sweet Dreamer yes.....
What about another side of women????
@@boopathirajan2099 you have to expose it😂😅
Not India only whole subcontinent....
Our society and system makes a girl feel she is weak.
But in reality Women were,are and always be *strong* physically and mentally *without men*
If I could ever meet you.😊
Aisa thappad padta nah.....muh ghoom jata.
Are you insulting women. We are incomplete without each other.....don't you understand that.
DON'T YOU UNDERSTAND THAT.......
PLEASE I BEG THIS GENERATION.....BHADH MEIN JAO.....KAMINO SHARAM KARO.
How can a women be physically strong by women's........think logically.
@@homealone9621 first,use your eyes and read it carefully#gavaar
second,bolna or likhna kya chahti ho uspar coordination lao#gundi
Pehle likh toh dhng se le tb sochna thappad marne ki.
Specially that last line.
😁
i think all the problems arise in india especially against women from the dowry system and arranged marriage system , Women are labelled a products and their market value increase when they know all household chores that are basic knowledge for all human not just women .
LETS MAKE THIS A MOVEMENT - #BANARRANGEDMARRIAGE#DONTBOYCOTTLOVE#LETSFALLINLOVE#IWANTLOVE
You are a clear example of pseudo feminist 😁
@@somadatta6784 we should
Oh my God
Laga jaise dimag hi fat jayega
Kitne achhi tarah se kuchh pal main aapne itni badi baat boli
Ekdum Kamal
Thank u
I like it
Main apni beti ko jaroor aisi baaton se dur rakhungi. sabko rakhana chahiye
I'm speachless
This was amazing and just like i imagined the future it is true🙄😑🤕
Thanks for your comment. Keep sharing it
Well i liked the video but reality is also that these practices are decreasing in India. Its not future. Everyone is getting more and more aware. This can't be future. At least don't dis-credit the activists, work we all have put to reduce this by saying its the future
To all Girls...we will change the society ✌️
@@bitsanderson6424 have u gone mad ? We the people whether male or female from our adolescence stage use to think or dream about our partner, marriage and girlfriend or boyfriend ... marriage unites two souls ,it doesn't break any relationship rather establishes . Specially, I am a kind of male who is in still search of my soulmate with whom I can share everything as well as she would. In Adult stage how you can think of remaining bachelor? Just impossible to me without my soulmate .
@@bitsanderson6424 I KNOW YOU ARE SELF-SUFFICIENT.
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU FOR COMING DAYS.
But how will u do ?
Offcourse
Yes we will
This is not a product, he shows the reality of marriage.
What about triple talaq and halala
बहुत-बहुत धन्यवाद आप सभी को बेहतरीन तरीके से इस फिल्म को किया, बड़े बुजुर्ग अगर गलती करे तो छोटे क्या करेंगे,अमीर दहेज का लेनदेन करेंगे तो गरीब लोग क्या करेंगे सबको खाली हाथ ही जाना है लड़का सरकारी नौकरी का जरूरी नहीं है और सरकारी नौकरी वाला लड़का गरीब लड़की से शादी करें यह जरूरी है
A perfect satire on those who think that "Son is asset and daughter is liability"
R u a commerce student ?
R u a commerce student ?
Dono liability hai.
Dont forget liability is the reason for asset , with more liability , more asset comes
@@ruturajshiralkar5566 yeh OP tha😂😂
Truly girls are not for sale. It really pains when the girl is being called a product. But all these things are still practiced in our society. I began to hate such practices when I first come to know about these in my highschool studies.
Anyway thanks to all of you for making this video.God bless you all. Hope people will value a girl and respect her.
Sarcasm level 10000% wht a script.. ppl who unliked it are the one who does this ...
Very true
Haha, awesome... U hit it
Ya mate... Ur right
You are right
Absolutely
7:22 this lines just broke my heart. So relatable .
So true , because of this issue still I am unmarried . A big like to this video .
Apoorva Thakkar Things will be change. That we want and hope that you will get marry soon because there are good human in this Earth too. Thanks for your comment. Big thanks
Apoorva Thakkar . To begin with,i feel that human beings have screwed up our society and lives by creating these ideologies abt marriages. Nothing wrong with being single if u cant find a man who will love u. Whats worse is being stuck with the wrong guy to fulfil the society's demands of "being married" while negotiating with the "affordable deal". All im saying is.... dont get stressed out abt being single due to the dowry issues. There r plenty of ppl who have been thrown into the wrong marriages coz of this " DEAL". perhaps ur lucky that u arent stuck inthe wrong marriage. Wish u good luck in finding a guy who loves u for what u are
Don't be upset u'll get ur love, but yes there will be hard times but u have to keep going
Woman are as precious as diamond ♦. I love my mom, my sister, my future wife and future daughter.
@@supercoolman69420 If loving my family means being a simp than I will be one.
❤️
@@supercoolman69420 you parupally you fck
@@kindperson7161 bhai good one shut that simp kid😂😂🤣🤣
men and women are equal
@@bipanabhattarai7005 .. If men are women are equal why should men look after women. Why cannot women look after men if women are equal to men.. Why should women ask for alimony after divorce.. Why should women want to marry only rich well employed man..
I literally feel the pain throughout the video but something like this is the bitter truth of our society. But we can change them together.
WE HAVE TO
Yeah
How? GIVE US IDEA.CREATE GROUP TOO.I WANNA JO'IN .
Yes
Wow super reality story short film very nice 👍 you give wonderful message in sociaty
I watched this one year ago but liked it today cuz I am getting married in one month and even though there was no dowry involved ....I dont have equal rights and the experience reminded me of this short film
Then please do not marry such a bloody guy u never respect u n ur wishes ur desires ur emotions he n hez family ur in laws will dominate u after marriage n make u der puppet der slave
This is a tight slap to traditional marriage system and I salute to this team
Traditional Marriage is for benefits.
Parents know you better than yourself.
Do you want your mom to divorce and leave you alone with your dad?
Stop Western Culture.
In Indian Culture, there was different type of marriage, one of them was Gandharv Vivah, it was like love marriage.
@@mars_gow bullshit
@myra * If no one cares, why did you replied me.
At least have some common sense.. Ohh sorry, Common sense can't be bought.
🖕🏻
@UChLrCBJPi6FOrZBzf4O-BXg shut up u dumb u are embarrassed by narrowing this issue to mere trad marriage arrangement. I think ki tumhare ghar par ladkiyon ko aise dekhte honge. Hmare yaha degrees likes dislike and compatibility dekhi jaati h within the system. Feel sorry for ur pitiable family.
Iss mein Traditional marriage ka kya dosh hai. Agar blame karna hai toh Lalach ko karo. Insaano ki isi Lalach ne Samaaj ko bigaad kar rakha hai.
Very sad 😥😥😥.
Our country developed day by day but the real change we have to do in society which is done by stop the dowry system .
daowry system...and wo lakde ka status check karna...
ikr
Hu
This was just wonderful...
All womens are also human , so treat them like human nd Stop calling then "product" ...
A salute to the producer ☺️☺️
Khushi Khan hi di
Yeah perfectly perfect !
I just want to say that, all girls of india should start strike for 1-2 years and don't get married and you all will see the results 😅😂 the right man can wait for you 1-2 years and the wrong one will definitely change 😀😀 insta: @vyas1764 and @_kunal_vyas
I think it's an awesome idea🤣🤣❤️❤️
@@enu2890 yes 😅😅😂😂 it is
Correct
That's awesome
great idea😂😂😂😂
Society need to change a lot from both the side..
Girls family want a rich and successful damad..
Boys family look for mota dowry and ladki gori..
@•Skylight Dreams• ekdum sachchi baat boli aapne 💯
Thank god someone said that
Well said!
@@nowrin_8193 Umm.......Are you a BTS Army?
@@swasti0109 yes
A good way of showing how the marriage industry is a billion dollar industry.
Woman is not a product to use and throw it off..!
She is also human beings who should being respected loved and treated as a human
If you are agree when like
👇
yes true
And lets tell this to THOSE boys.
I don't know why but, I'm literally genuinely started crying.......
Crybaby
@@supercoolman69420 oye mujhe gussa karna chahiye tha tumpar but u had make me laugh 😂😂
I was so angry 😠 when I was seeing this video before the last message ,because we girls are not a product to sell ,we are also humans beings like boys we have the right to get educated, and be independent.
We can change the whole world by starting at our homes
Dont give dowry ,dont take dowry ,educate girls they will make u proud one day
You are 100 percent true. We need to change the mentality of the society ✨✨
Hello sister world as i am also a girl i really like your thoughts
Ys girls are not product and boys are not ATM machine
@@dsgp85 what do you mean about boys are not atm machine 😐
U will get the answer see deal done part 2
The way you filmed it, is just PERFECT.....
I liked it!🙌🏼
This video made me realize that even in 21st century we are still in a male dominating society 😥😥😥😥😥
Exactly
Are bahanji aajkal ki akhbaar nahi padhti kya..?? Orton ke alawa mard bhi victim hai. Aaj dominating sirf paisa hai.
The Nerd Guy Sach kha Delhi Mai ladki ki wajah se 2 ladko ki Zindagi risk pe hai
@@bhaveshkumar1340 har jagah ho raha hai bhai bas parda is vajah se rah jata hai ki log aise cases ko mazak me n le len.
Thing is, underneath all the sweet words and impossible promises, this is a REALITY for so many people. Selling their daughters because she's a burden. But how about investing in her education and career? Then, she can be a support system to anyone. When you cut off the limbs, you can't expect people to walk. But investing in their passions could give them wings to fly. Loved the video no matter how crude it was.
I was literally crying after watching this video bcz i have the same situation right now
Jo paise mangta h wo apna ladka bech rha hota h... qki paise de kr to hum chizen kharidte hai..😄
Aise Ladke bikau hote h jo dowry mangte h.
Abhi chup rahe to life time silent mode active rahega..
@@sureshpareek2127 sahi kaha...
Lekin bol kr bhi koi fayda nhi hota.. koi nhi sunta. Maine bhi apne parents se kaha tha ki engagement tod do but nhi todte..
@@BeautyHacksByAppy try karte raho..don,t give up....future me apne baccho ke saath aisa mat karna..ab hasna mat...
Dear please stand up for yourself because we are not there with you right now... Or else it would be much easy i know sis... Be strong
Wow ,,,kitna ache tarike se dikhaya hai ,,,girls ko product samjha jata hai marriage tym or shadi ek deal ki tarah finalise ki jati hai or full payment chaiye shadi se pehle nhi to shadi k baad ladki sath misbehave hoga bs ,,dowry na milne par waise b abhi society ni badlegi bhut tym lagega tb tk hum old hojayege 🤣🤣🤣🤣
But parents b "khushi khushi" dete hai 'dowry' kya guarantee hai ladki khush rahegi ,,,,shadi is jua and all about destiny ,,khush rahoge ya dukhi in sb deals k baad bhi ,,,no guarantee ,,,,but good short film 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
make more short films 👍🏻all were do good acting
So girls don't give your self dominated . Be confident, have education and fly high in sky than nobody can dominate you .
Anshika Sharma easier said than done. It’s parent’s responsibility to educate them and they do not. While the kid is a child how can they know what is right or wrong. How not studying will effect their future. sadly only 60% of woman are literate. Worse.. literate only means read or write. They soon drop out in 10 th / 12 th grade. That’s why in 2018 only 23 % of woman participated in work force. People who are in city area .. have so much privileges and arrogance that they puff their chests and say that woman have no problem now. And no need for women reservation. They don’t even bother to see why it’s implemented. And the deep root of our society which raise girl to be perfect housewives rather than independence. Don’t even realise that people outside their bubble exist. 65% of India is still rural/village. With people of conservative mindset everywhere. Education rally should be the biggest goal in India .
Actually narcissist will try and dominate you if you are flying high. You are but an amusing challenge; a quest to be conquered
@@seabecause3943 why should women have reservations?(I'm trying to understand)
But this society is a male dominating society.
This wasn't a perfect ending
I think the girl should raise her voice and make everyone quite
Harender Kumar indeed, but the circumstances and burdens they are put under do not allow them to succeed in that way. The video is reflecting the social realities of our day and age it’s so sad
U r absolutely correct but what happens is reflected.
Harender Kumar that’s what I was waiting for I thought she was gonna shit her parents up cause her mum should know better her mum is a female and she’s listening to the dad instead of fighting against it and doing what her daughter want. If I had a man like that I’m packing your suitcase and putting it by the door because I’m not risking my daughters life for a man who’s stubborn and treats my child as a burden fuck that bull crap
This was the reality
Yeah
I hate when everyone say her a product
@Priyansh Chandrakar who cares when your mother born
@Priyansh Chandrakar who is a burden everyon understand that in your first comment
Me too 😓
@Priyansh Chandrakar actually u r a burden
@Priyansh Chandrakar 🤏 chote log choti Soch 💩
Its not a big slap on the face of society but stright on my face ..
We should realize this ..
Local Delhi autos have a phrase written behind them
"Dulhan hi dahej hai"
When even rickshaw pullers acknowledge this message then how can middle class people not? A woman is not brought, she is earned.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana Indeed. We have had 73 years of independent society to develop moral etiquettes and ethical standards of living. How did this even happen, were my previous to previous generations so deluded that they refused to advance to a modern society? Caste system, religious extremists, and marital bindings, they all restraint the development of a society. In this case, brides are treated as an object of value rather than a fellow human being. It's horrifying, imagine actually buying a women like she's a whore from the downtown brothel. It's shameful, and this practice needs to end now. Same with the whole system of arranged marriage, it needs to be eradicated. People should have the right to select their own partners, as they have to co-exist with them for their whole life. Same with pre-marital relationships, it should not be frowned upon. India, specially villages are shockingly underdeveloped in these sectors, this needs to be changed.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana That's garbage. A proper and happy marriage should only be conducted after the boy and the girl have been together for atleast half a year, learning about each other, their families and culture. This is not a flimsy deal that you're supposed to sign up for, this is the partner with whom you'll spend your life with. Arranged marriage is bullshit, parents forcing their kids to marry someone whom they like, instead of someone the kid likes, nonsense. No one has the right to judge the partner except the other, even if they suffer by their own choices afterwards. Arranged marriage should be abolished, a marriage based on mutual respect, love and affection is what leads to a happy and stable family.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana That is exactly what I'm saying. Girls get pressurised into marrying someone that they don't feel comfortable with, but only due to the boy in question being rich. What exactly is the point of that? Girls and boys are both financially independent after millennial and Z generation, so this stigma of arranged marriage is a hindrance. A good and happy marriage is not based on the financial status of the boy or something similar, it's based on good compatibility and mutual respect as I mentioned before. This system of arranged marriage is just regressive thinking.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana How the hell do my parents come in this discussion? For the record, my father was not rich per se, nor was my mother a destitute. The filthy practice of dowry insinuates q feeling similar to buying a girl from her family, like taking her off their hands. Is this ethical or is it a downright dehumanisation of females? Women have the right to choose their partners, women have the right to refuse her parents and women have the right to be independent. If the boy's family is demanding dowry, then they are a prime example of uneducated and ignorant idiots who refuse to move on with the world and society. I'm not sure what your point of defense is or what you're defending but you are wrong and it would be better for you to understand the fact that both genders are equal and being rich or poor has no regards for the concept of dowry. Parents need to be taught the importance of choice, if my parents interfere with my choice of bride in the future, I will not allow them to. They can support my decision or they can't, but that does not mean they can force someone I have no idea of or have not interacted with before to be my partner for life. Progressive thinking need to be encouraged, and playing blame game is only for useless garbage. And just how do you think low income and jobless guys hold the right to marry? If someone cannot support themselves properly, they do not possess the right to start a family, and will definitely not be able to support either his wife, if she is dependent financially, nor his future kids, if he decides to have one. Atleast apply some brain before your flimsy argument.
@Capt Ranvijay Rana Do you not understand what my point is? Or am I not making it clear? A person who is not financially stable has NO right to marry, as he would not be able to support either himself or his family. Let's just suppose that the girl would be able to earn for the both of them, but that would still mean that he himself is financially dependent on her, which is pathetic. A marriage should be based on mutual respect and love, which I'm saying for the third time. If your parents marry you off, then it is a disgrace, their is an emotional and mental stability which needs to be established between the two parties beforehand. You are deluded in your point and I do not wish to discuss this any future with you, as you are spouting the same argument repeatedly like an ignorant cuckoo. Atleast try to understand what I'm saying. And I am a boy so I would instead look for a financially independent and a suitable girl instead.
I liked the sarcasm of this whole video
Showed the problem in the right way...sad but true 😔😔😔
life without dreams is like a 🐦 without wings.
If you agree then 👍 it
stupid
It's directly slapped this bloody society...♥️♥️♥️🔥🔥🔥
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Sabse phale apne ghar or family relation k thinking ko change karna padega per kaise kare quki women ki baato k kahi bhi koi value hi nhi hota
Generally woman are the symbol of STRENGTH and SWEETNESS.
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Very true
@@Ashishkumar-th6jg 🙏
@@Devenderkamboj254 🙏
Indian mentality of marriages:( sad but true ....
manjusha bajaj That's right. Thanks for comment.
educated family dont take dowry but they will surely go through the bio data to check how much properties the brides father has...nd they want profit through marriage deal so the requirments r girls should be well educated nd has good job to contribute in the family xpense nd they also want this independent educated lady to make perfect gol rotis nd be a tulsi like bahu
manjusha bajaj Its mentality of Subcontinent
not only Indians actually all over the world
@@gyanshikumari4168 not all over the world.
The story of every girl... A girl is not treated like a girl, she is treated like a product.....
Thank u guys u made me realise that how important I am in my family .They struggle for educating me .I have a brother but my parents never ever differentiate me with mah bro .Am glad.Am lucky
Tripti Roy , ek aap hi hai lucky, ab india me sbhi ladhkiyo ko padhaya ja rha hai, hr jgh sirf ladhkiyo ko hi respect mil raha ladhko se bahot jada mil raha....lekin ye feminism aisi video banana nhi bnd karenge chahe kitna bhi ladhkiyo ko sr pe chadha diya jaae
@@adityanarayantripathi3717 sr pe!
I really got shocked when they call her product, but that's the reality of society, I also watched deal 2 where man called as ATM
Who the hell are 1.7 k ppl who disliked this vdo
This was such a raw content and this is the reality of many villages of India and no matter how open minded our parents are when it comes to marrying their daughters they agree to almost anything
I think the system of marriage should be abolished.
@@bitsanderson6424 noo never what needs to be ammended is mind set of ppl not the beautiful relation
Yashaswe I think you should agree with Anderson,
The system of marriage should be abolished.
@@mylifewithms145 first of all the spelling of my name is wrong then everybody is allowed to have different views and have a different view than yours and I personally believe that to commit to someone for the rest of our lives and to experience everything together is beautiful , in relationships there's breakup one day patchup another but when u get married u know u are together plus the draupati case u mentioned wouldn't it be better if we worked on sex ratio
Butt I deleted the Draupadi part , how did you read it ?
THE BEST VIDEO ON THE UTUBE AND YOU ARE THE BEST AND AMAZING MIND-BLOWING
I feel so uncompartable by watching this video, how a girl could be product
I too flet so uncomfortable
i think all the problems arise in india especially against women from the dowry system and arranged marriage system , Women are labelled a products and their market value increase when they know all household chores that are basic knowledge for all human not just women .
LETS MAKE THIS A MOVEMENT - #BANARRANGEDMARRIAGE#DONTBOYCOTTLOVE#LETSFALLINLOVE#IWANTLOVE
''after marriage,brides gets super power to do household work".many educated and higher position people also tell this .so what about to expect from normal people.
Harsh reality of today s arranged marriages 😢
A sarcastic slap to the society!!Well done👌👌
*” Women bought us to Life”*
Dang that phrase stuck hard.
So? Without men that wouldn’t be possible. Women are not special.
Boom Cube Duh, I’m not dumb, but all a man does is impregnate, but the woman is the one that brings you to life. Sure, you need two to make one, but the woman does the rest of the work alone. Perhaps you read my comment as over-sexist. It isn’t, but we can all agree that it’s the woman and not the man that undertakes this role right?
Boom Cube and truth to be told, women ARE special when it comes to this. Of course you need male sperm, but since the woman does practically all the rest of the work she has the primary role.
Boom Cube ...Excuse me, mister, but why are they not special? What is the difference between a man and a woman? Hardly anything. But women are treated differently to men. They are supposed to have kids and work in the kitchen. While men are supposed to have jobs and earn money, which isn’t fair. Also, you wouldn’t be born without a woman. So your saying your life isn’t special? Tough, dude.
{Mystic Animations} - I wouldn’t be born without a man either...
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Please keep SHARING it, So it can reach on maximum social platform. ONE STEP TO CHANGE THE SOCIETY.
Even I am burden for my family
I hope they dont do my deal...
Kaash main uss person ko mill paati life mein Jo aisi think abhi bhi rakhte h jisne bhi ye lines or script likhi h I m bigggeessssstttt fan Her or Him
Thnx 4 uploading such a video which changes the common sense of the narrow minded people of the society who thinks girls are burden I'm also a girl and I felt emotional,watching this video of yours
Sb kuch bkwas h ldkia hi hoti h jo nai smjhti ar bolti h ladke h aisa hi krte h .....
Koi society change nai ho aaj bhi ladio ki respect nai hoti h aaj bhi ladke ladio ki feelings k sath khel jate h or unki family kuch bhi nai khtiii h
Every girls have their own decisions and own security
It's difficult to heard a girl as product but it happend in our society. Love you guys❤️ for your great efforts on this big problems
We(girls) are not for sale!!!!
Those men should change and parents old thinking as well
Those men mind sets and those old fashion parents mind sets are difficult to change.....it's the girls who need to fight for their freedom and voice out!
a little princess .....ur name is as vague as ur message.....why should men change to make ur life better.....why can't u change urself to face ur circumstances instead......?.....ek toh,u will blame us for ur problems,and then demand dat we wld solve ur issue for u.......we dnt need to do jack-shit,...itz ur problem,deal with it....!!...
This is wrong . we should respect womens amd girls
@@mdhayatdevageri9879 we shld respect ppl ,regardless of whedr they are men or women.........btw,respect is earned,not demanded.....
@@constipatedbowels3473 i said those man not u and if u considered yourself those man then that's your problem
And who the hell are to tell me that my name is vague first see your name 'CONSTIPATED BOWELS'
M crying during whole video
It's a mirror and nothing else!
This is Really *unbelievable* ... I'd literally cried by seeing this video.. we all need to be together and take some action... because it's really not the way girls should be treated 👍
Neha Badhani great we should conquer against of this tradition
Neha Badhani I too cried..
👌😀😃 product ka dhamakedar performance superb
This movie reveals the fact about Indian society
Thank you Priya :-)
I completely agree with this .
They totally deserve what we do..
This should be change..love women..They are the creator of us .
No that's not it is
I'm proud of my parents who gave all supports and facilities to fullfill dreams and education of we two daughters , I wish in every birth I might get same parents ❤️❤️
I am speachless.... truly girls are not for sales... hat's off to the skit writer...