You Can Be A Body Language Expert. (Without Going To College)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2024
- Most people think you need a formal education to become a Professional Body Language Expert and Analyst. Guess what? You don't. You can educate yourself the right way, and it's not as tough as you think. I'll tell you how to do that, and how I did it. The first part is interesting, my story, however, is horrifically boring. But you can listen to it if you want to know what I did and how I did it.
As a behavior analyst and body language expert, Scott Rouse holds multiple certificates in advanced interrogation training. He has been trained alongside the FBI, Secret Service, U.S. Military Intelligence, and the Department of Defense.
His extensive training, education, and practice of nonverbal communication have made him an expert and consultant to law enforcement as well as Fortune 100 Companies, attorneys, private investigators, executives, and entertainers. He is also a multi-Grammy nominated producer and TEDx Speaker.
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Scott, your stories about your dad teaching you about body language are captivating. Your dad was a very good teacher. Please continue to share your stories..
Great video!
Thank you for your interest in body language. I’ll bet if you really wanted it bad enough, you might be able to an expert as well. First, let’s get you some handsome lessons. You need that. Bad. I know a guy I can connect you with to help. Just email me. Well, don’t YOU email me. But… anyway, just read some books, dude. You’ll do ok.
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@@ScottRouse Wow. Thanks so much, Mr. Rouse. That'd be swell! You're my favorite! I listen in the shower.
I love the silly chemistry between you two, Chase and Scott! 😂 Thanks for letting us sit on the sidelines. 🌸
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Love your voice and sincerity, Scott.
What??? No pictures of your “cool” phase???
Scott is telling about research and scientific papers in a simple language, super cool
Thanks so much. 🙂👍
Scott, Where are you that you are up at 2AM?
I grew up studying, because I almost never spoke. Strange upbringing...but I can read people very well. Someone hire me! 55 years of life experience.
When The Words In Our Fam Of Origin Was Mostly 🐮 💩
LOVE THIS SO MUCH!
INSPIRATIONAL 👏🏻😍
Scott, don't discount yourself! Your origin story IS fascinating. I've been borderline obsessed with TBP for a little while, and it's often mentioned how many thousands of hours everyone has put into their craft. I'm very respectful of that. I'm now in "middle age" and I studied psychology in college, but never pursued it further. I've never lost my interest in it and indulge myself by watching TBP. Thank you for saying it's not too late. It makes me feel like the door is still open. ❤
It is still open! Come on in! Come on! Get in! 👍
Thanks, Scott. Fascinating!
Scott, your story is fascinating!
You should write a detailed autobiography and YOU do the reading for the audiobook! Please! 😃
I listened to your whole story and it was not boring at all! ("Not even a little bit ")
Your stories are the best! You just have a way of telling stories that’s addicting. Don’t ever think your stories are boring. They are not boring at all. They’re actually my favorite part of your videos.
Great info Scott ! ❤ love hearing your stories
Great stories!! Being observant is a great skill.
I’m already a licensed doctor of psych, spec trained in neuropsych assessment. Do any courses or certs by you or the Behavior Panel qualify as continuing education credits???!!! Crossing my fingers! If not, has anyone suggested collaborating to make that happen?
I would like to be a body language expert in my own life, just to protect myself from predators.
Love watching your videos. Whether it's your solo videos or with TBP, they are always so informative and interesting (and sometimes funny). Also, your voice is so soothing. I can listen to it all day. 😀
It was great to hear your journey to becoming a body language expert. What an awesome dad who took the time to teach you so much. I really appreciate you sharing your cancer history. I found out I had 2nd breast cancer at my first mammogram in 2000 (2 surgeries, chemo & radiation). It is a life changing experience & as you pointed out, the healthcare team can make a big difference in how that experience goes.
Scott you're a fascinating person!😍 And what a wonderful Father you had!❤
Thank you. He was awesome. I’m the luckiest person in the world to have had such great parents. I really am. 🙂👍
@@ScottRousesorry for you loss Scott ( I recall you going off suddenly as he was unwell)
💞 in spirit we can never die. 💞
Absolutely fascinating. You are talented and blessed.
I've heard you mention that you're a Columbo fan, as I am. I, too, have my advanced certification from Reid in interview/interrogation. I watch the 70s Columbo reruns all of the time, and it struck me that Columbo often uses some of the Reid techniques, which got me wondering if the writers ever attended the training.
@ScottRouse Oh sweetie you stop saying that you are not interesting, because you are. You are very encouraging and Inspiring and I may have spelt that incorrectly though my spelling mistake sometimes crack people up, you make me feel better with having to go through theses test that really scare me, listening to you helps, an in my book that makes you a hero if not to other people it does to me so stop putting yourself down, 😊
Everything I ever wanted to know about Scott 😊 best video yet. You’re so intriguing.
I used to look at the bibliography of my college textbooks because I wanted to read the primary sources. It certainly gave me a boost in my studies.
Yes, bibliography/Index Sources in books are so good. I use that for research all the time. ❤ your content
I would like to believe because of your teachings & analysis We are on our way to be experts! 😁I find myself seeing the things we observe unfold as we learned! You would be Proud! Thank You ❤
The story about your dad was priceless. His love for you and the example he lived out before you will stay with me for a long time. THANK YOU for sharing a little about your life. It was the best part of this video.
Scott, I am going to start bugging you until you get sick of it 🤣 But seriously, I always love your chats and I always learn something! ❣
You had an amazing dad, to have taken the time to patiently teach you so much. And you are an amazing son, to remember his kindness and help, and to be grateful for his help and guidance.
Such an interesting story !
😊 thanks Scott not boring "not even a little bit" 😉 however i did doze off a little. I guess ive listened to too many of your sleep videos😂.
Thanks For sharing!
I took the course a couple years ago! Time to refresh! 💫 😊
This is such an endearing episode ❤
Just amazing Scott ❤
Thank you sir 🫡
You had a great roll model Scott! 😊
When I lived in the metro-Atlanta area, I used to see Jeff Foxworthy and his wife out and about all the time... movie theater, pet store, etc. People left him alone as that area had many celebs in it. / True story: News about Whitney and Bobby were on the cover of the gossip mags and sometimes on the local nightly news. I would pray for them when God brought them to mind. / Since the movie "The Passion of the Christ" was out in theaters, I felt led to pray and declare that Whitney and Bobby would see the film. Two days later that prayer got answered. While waiting in line to get my movie ticket, I heard Whitney say to someone behind me, "What?!? We can't come to the movie theater just like you?" That Whitney felt pressured to respond to someone that way made my heart sad. Once I had my ticket I handed it to the ticket taker and stood several feet away from him not daring to look at people handing their tickets to him. Whitney came flying through walking at a quick pace. I knew not to say a word. However, I did want to encourage Bobby. I waited. Bobby finally came through and that's when I said, "Bobby." He turned in my direction with a camera-ready smile on his face." In a quiet, caring, respectful voice I said, "I'm praying for you." In an instant I got to see the real Bobby. His countenance and mannerisms totally changed. He let me know that he was grateful. Standing somewhere in the lobby Whitney yelled out, "Bobby!" I was impressed with one thing. Their relationship was toxic. Sadly, they did divorce. / Been in a recording studio in Nashville. Word records called me. / I ended up working for Mr. Keith Green, the number one Christian recording artist at the time. Keith's wholehearted passion for God changed my life. He was like a big brother to me...kind, respectful and protective. Grateful. / I play guitar, piano and violin. My previous violin teacher, who is dear friends with Itzak Perlman's, once told me, "You have no idea how good your voice is." That was kind of him to say, but I was there to learn how to play the violin I held in my hands. / It would be fun to know what records you've played on.
thank you for sharing. you would fit right in here (Aotearoa/New Zealand) - and with my family in particular
we typically treat people as *people* - & even 'famous' people - are famous based on their *merit*
when I say my family in particular - I'm really proud of my oldest sister - she has a background in journalism, and was working as the editor of a small newspaper in Sydney, Australia many years ago.
she & a colleague were out at a bar/night club, and they happened to see Kylie Minogue and... (hmm was it Heath Ledger or Michael Hutchence???)
_anyway_ this was a NEWS - like global *news* - and her colleague was a photographer - had his camera with him - IF they had decided to treat these people as "celebrities" & as not PEOPLE - (being... hmm... 'romantic' together in a bar ... again, this would have been huge *tabloid* NEWS -
easily taken pictures - sold them for thousands & thousands of dollars - BIG money - but nope - *decided NOT TO* - to give them their privacy, treat them like the normal people they are (were) - as I said, really PROUD of my sister, making that decision (cause it was her call to make)
edit - ok (I think it was Michael (both men are/have passed now) yeah, the more I think about it - INXS may not be well known in the states, & yeah timing was off re Heath
PLUS found this...
"Kylie Minogue with Michael Hutchence
The princess of pop and Australia's darling Kylie Minogue began dating one of the biggest rock stars in town, INXS frontman Michael Hutchence in the late 1980s, after the pair met at a swanky bash after the Countdown Awards. Minogue lasted two years with the musician, but sadly he left her for supermodel Helena Christensen in the early 90s. So much for Michael's track Never Tear Us Apart then!
The Can't Get You Out Of My Head hitmaker previously said that her former lover is responsible for so many of her life experiences saying, "Let's just say I was 21 and my eyes were open to the world. "You want to experience everything and I couldn't think of a better person to, you know, take those first steps into the big wide world with."
The couple remained close until Hutchence died at the Ritz-Carlton hotel in Sydney, Australia in 1997 while under the influence of drugs and alcohol. "
Truly mean it Scott, it really would be fun to know some of the records you've played on. Do you have a favorite, a top 1, 2 & 3?
@@juliaconnell New Zealand is a beautiful country. Winkey Pratney is from NZ. He's one of the most delightful, well-read people I've ever met. Did I mention funny? 🙂 Thank you.
You're so right
ok so... you were in music...what's your take on the whole Diddy situation?
It doesn’t look good for him. At all. Not even a little bit.
Hey Scott, none of my business, but curious about how you went from Session Musician to Body Language Interogator!
Seems fairly natural progression.
@@jans724 I see what you did there!
Your story actually is fascinating. Is it possible to hear more about the stuff you teach doctors? I've been pretty heavily traumatised by the industry. To give a scale, I found having cancer like a ride in the park, 'cos I didn't have to beg for help that time. Now I got a qualification "expert by experience", and when my long covid loses its grip, I try to get slots to talk in e.g. med school about meeting patients. I don't want more people to be traumatised, when it is avoidable.
I also got really interested with this patient engagement loop.I asked my parents and big brother whether they had any training in medical school with how to meet a patient,be present and make sure they have been heard etc. and their response was ”maybe 1 hour class” So…not really🤗Ootsä suomalainen muuten?😁
@@Millamagia80 Olen! Voitais miettiä voimien yhdistämistä?
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I’m very much a can always learn something and can always go back to basics and it be a good thing no matter what the subject matter. The second we think we know everything is the second we stop learning.
Also will not ever think it’s a suedo science, it’s just not USUALLY an exact science. It’s absolutely true science though.
I’ve wanted to go to school for psychology a long time. I’m afraid of wasting money though cause I don’t know I could memorize the big words and their affiliations.😢😂
Absolutely, that is how I researched my Thesis. New
generation: step 1 follow the wisdom… NEVER: think you know it all… keep on learning - lifelong
hmmmm... 🤔🤨🤔 *THANK YOU* Scott, I never really thought about this as an option, mere moments into this, hmmm 🤔- adding it to my plans, my PLAN, as a serious consideration for the future.
I think, like many things, you first need the basic skill set, *ability*, to 'read' people - that is something that cannot be taught no matter how much study you do. & it's not a failure if you don't, have this ability, either you do or you don't - whether it's nature or nurture, or some combo - people are on a scale from 'super spotters' to 'face blindness' -
me, personally - I have/had the right environment growing up, HAD to closely observe *both* my parents _literally_ my entire life
dad had health issues, would fall asleep, eg, driving! (though he was aware, responsible, managed this, will pull over, have a nap) - so to me it was "normal" to watch dad, nudge him awake at church, watch him driving (singing, so I wouldn't get bored)
- and mum, well mum had mental health issues, so again *watching* her - keeping her calm, being one step ahead of her mood swings - so yeah, gained a life time of skills (I just turned 54, mum started a whole new career (as a librarian, from 'home maker' (I'm youngest of 5 'girls') - librarian, then manager, then in her retirement went to papua new guinea (as you do! ) & set up libraries there
anyway - watching you wonderful chaps, blokes, - the Panel - for YEARS - I have not only learnt SO MUCH, really confirmed & given me confidence in my ability to 'read' people - been a real 'master class' - from 4 experts in their respective fields -
nowhere close to any of you, obviously - still the collective knowledge you impart - the terminology (was just watching Seth Myers - he has a blank bingo card - already had the intention of starting your content from the start (downloaded all the bingo cards, any terms I've missed I think must be from the early early early content ...
this would be an adjustment from existing plans (which as of yesterday (two hour meeting, housing issues I've been dealing with for YEARS, feedback from the person who went with me as a support person, I was "charming" ha! - able to *finally* communicate the health/disability issue I have (so already decided, once I get my own life sorted, will do what he does - 'pay it forward' - be a support person/advocate for others - educating people on 'invisible' disability (for me PTSD now Fibromyalgia - ) *esp* - as how did I get this way = long story - if had right people dealing with the triggering incident in 2012, had... and ever since...
hmmm.... ok minor (major?) deviation of PLAN 🤔🤨🤔
this is EXCITING... 🤯🥳🤔🤨🤗🤔
did I make this point yet -
repeating it, cause, important
watching the wonderful Panel - for YEARS - I have not only learnt SO MUCH, really confirmed & given me confidence in my ability to 'read' people - been a real *master class* from 4 experts in their respective fields -
thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you
*THANK YOU* Scott, really really appreciate this. ❤
ALL your content, here, as well as the Panel. much love & respect, Julia
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(oh & your wife is a private investigator -🕵🕵♂🕵♀ (where did i learnt that from? you - obviously - oh started to watch - this week's 'episode' - oh been too busy/distracted with housing stuff to pay attention, so paused that, like this, - will watch later, when can pay proper attention - ) - PI = how cool ! 🕵🕵♂🕵♀
Your stories are not boring! If you want boring, you should hear me talk about my life. X) I wouldn't mind learning body language for myself to navigate life better, but I don't know that I'd want to do it for a career. I'm not exactly a people-person. Lol. :) I wonder how weird it'd be for a lay person to go to a Reid technique seminar? =) Really enjoyed this video; thanks!
Your dad was your real-life Sherlock Holmes. 😃 I enjoyed hearing your story! Enjoy your week, Scott! 🌻🍁
I 100% agree that something can be "not an exact science" without being a pseudo-science! Psychology and brain chemistry is the same. As a survivor of traumatic brain injury, I realized how little we really know about the brain, though most of the first-hand accounts I learned about have more in common than not, so I decided to study psychology in college (to supplement my writing. Since my characters are the ones who really write their stories, it's helpful if I can understand them). It's absolutely a science, though there are so many variables and it's such a new field that it's impossible to make consistently accurate predictions about most of it. Stilll worth learning about!
I am currently reading the Federalist papers. I don't mind boring
Thank you!!! This is awesome and makes so much sense.
I have started with a few books by you guys from The Behavior Panel and looked up a few media articles by sources you all have mentioned, etc.
I also love books by Gavin DeBecker who isn’t about body language necessarily but rather crime prevention and intuition. And Chris Voss who is an amazing speaker about negotiations, which include and rely on body language whether crime prevention or business deals…
I don’t know if I’d ever be interested enough to “go pro” but it is fascinating to learn about and so helpful! If nothing else to help bust my 7 year old when we say, “who put their little brother’s toothbrush in the toilet?” The stories he comes up with are phenomenal.
My next question would be:
Do / can body language studies inform AI for robotics applications?
What other ways can these skills be used for the future?
I also like taking info from futurists - even though I still can’t believe that’s an actual job.
Imagine a world 🌎 where your smart watch alerts you of an impending migraine, while your neuralink requires you to lie down so it can download the Excedrim program… while your smart home closes all the curtains in your bedroom or whatever. That kind of thing.
I love thinking about how the sciences can impact each other.
My favorite point here is to keep the beginner’s mindset. Because that’s teachable and enthusiastic and pays attention. ❤🎉 Also beginners don’t know what they don’t know so they might not be so entrenched in 1 idea or concept or another.
I like learning about this because of the sense of fascination, less about crime (except prevention) and more about human nature. The crime interviews make some good learning material especially knowing after the fact maybe more detail about what happened and juxtaposing the interview details… as well as how those are presented.
Learning on those helps recognize signs in real life that somebody might be fudging their truth, depending on their baseline…
So grateful for your work and contributions!
Love Your Stories and History of Learning. Body Language maybe more important than ever!!
Jeff Foxworthy is hilarious. I loved that story.
Thank you for you stories!I recently found a course on intelligence and been diving into that so I really think it’s thanks to BP and your teachings that inspired that☺️
Are deaf people better at reading body language than the average bear? I think that gives me an edge?
I’m not stone deaf, about 60% loss in each ear. 😢
It’s my experience they are. Or you are, in your case.
@@kathywithak7529 I would most certainly agree that your hearing loss would give you an edge - especially if you can read lips (which may or may not be necessary with a 60% loss in each ear)
in the beforetimes (before covid) - I had just started playing a regular (weekly, fortnightly?) session of card games with a lovely group of woman, most of whom were deaf -
and one of these lovely woman, who was fully deaf, immediately picked up on my emotional state (I was highly distraught - long story) where another woman who I had picked up & driven there, (who was only slightly deaf, her mother) hadn't a clue
I don't think it's an 'automatic' bonus - I think it will depend on the person
as Scott often says, being a woman - is also an advantage - we DO have more ability than MOST men, (obviously not the Panel members) to pick up on the subtle things, often on a completely subconscious level.
& as the Panel (& other sources) say - only a small portion of communication is the actual words themselves - while you (or deaf people in general) might miss some things, like the pitch, the 'tone' of voice, the cadence, miss things like 'fading facts' etc - I do believe the 'PC' term of differently-able - is exactly that - *differently- able* -
I would _assume_ that many (not all, ie automatically) deaf people able to pick up non-verbal body language better than hearing people
(& although I don't have hearing issues I am speaking from a place of respect, of empathy & hmm 'understanding' (different path, similar journey' - as of the last couple of years, I've been coming to terms with my own 'disability' - mine are more the 'invisible' ones)
(🤔 - well _different_ invisible, than deaf, & blind too to a certain extent) (I'm part of a choir - we have a blind woman - WE know, & look after her (oh that sounds condescending, take care of her? nope just as bad...) my POINT is - when we are performing, I doubt the vast majority of people would notice that she is 'different' - same with this deaf (from birth) woman - I started to talk about. she can read lips, sign (obviously) - and speak 'normally' -to me she was/is perfectly 'normal' (ouch, oh worse & worse) that's what I mean about 'invisible' - an I explaining this well?
oh my disability, PTSD, now fibromyalgia (ever so lovely anxiety, depression etc etc - that's what I mean by 'invisible' - 'spoonies' (the various chronic pain & mood disorders)
it's a very interesting question. thank you for raising it.
I'm far more interesting in reading YOUR thoughts on this
i appreciate you sharing a bit of your personal life Scott you're dad sounds like a really cool observant guy . Flashbacks i have with my dad was he would tell me how many cups of coffee i had drunk by the rings in the mug , or which left handed person digged into the butter , or how i sound on the phone lying down etc .
Scott, I love to hear stories of all your Dr Dad taught you. Treasured tools forever.
Your lessons on how you came to be who you are today!
Thanks Scott…
I love your dang certainty about conveying the correct information, Scott! 👍
Always interesting thanks Scott❤
Thanks for all that info - it was my next question to ask! I saw that town hall - it looked like you held back what you really wanted to say to him 😂
It don't matter who you are, you can't judge a book by it's cover. 😉
I loved the town hall you did
I want to see this. Where can I view Scott Rouse Town Hall?
@CyrillaBehrndt merit street media, maybe Dr. Phil's channel
Very interesting, thanks.
That's a very interesting story
Dude, this cat can see the future! 😂
It was fascinating !
I40 is closed in Cocke county ( as in the fighting chicken) and going towards NC. Parts of the interstate is missing 😢
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Love it!
You’re the best of the 4. I just rewatched the Katt Williams penal, you got it when the other 3 failed. Good job